I'm assuming this was in Cali? This living room set-up is the norm among middle class families in the US. There's nothing about it that screams "richie rich 🤑 ".
145 uhm, hindi nman yata sila middle class family in the US kasi sa Pilipinas sila nakatira dati diba? Nagbabakasyon lang sila dyan o baka nga hindi nila bahay yan. 😂 Tsaka middle class pa ba yang nakakapag US in the 80s. Kami nga dati maski ulam at bigas walang pambili. Kaloka!
1:06 Eh sa totoong hindi naman talaga alta level agad porke ganyan ang bahay. Kung aliping sagigilid ka, malamang alta na yan sayo. Middle income family can afford that kind of living room especially in Western countries.
Nakakaloka tlaga tong mga bashers ni Heart, kulang nlang sabihin na panghampaslupa yang bahay nya. Makakapag abroad ka ba dati agad agad at buong pamilya pa kung hindi ka mayaman. Lol
Yes I read somewhere na dapat mong unahin ang inner child mo to become. So yung mga hindi magagandang nangyari sa buhay mo buuin mo or burahin or ilet go. Then you can start to fill the gaps.
I think most of us if not all may bubog nung kabataan. Iba iba lang tayo ng storya at level ng trauma. May mababaw lang at unfortunately meron namang hanggang sa pagtanda mo parang multong sumusunod ang nakaraan. Lalo na pag nagkaroon ka na ng sariling pamilya doon na unti unting bumabalik. Kaya it’s really good to talk to someone — therapist man yan, partner mo, family mo or someone na nakapanakit sayo to slowly free your inner child from the hurt and bitterness.
This is true, my inner child is happy dahil sa self care and I romanticize my life din. I savor it. Hindi ng materials kundi ng experiences and places to explore. And I’m loving my life now. Oh edi ako na! 😂❤️
Hiyang hiya naman yung mga hindi nakaranas ng childhood dahil maagang naulila. Maaga nagtrabaho. Hindi nakapag aral, minaltrato, inabuso. You live a very comfortable life compared to them.
Ang bitter. What's wrong with catering to your inner child? Yes, she's lucky she gets to have time, space, energy, and resources to do that. But why fault her for it? Would you want everyone to have that, to be able to nurture all parts of you? Just because we didnt/dont ay dapat ibash na yung may kayang gawin ang di natin kaya.
Do not invalidate her feelings. Pano naman yung mga comfy life pero lumaking magulo Fam set up? Iba, may isang drug-involved pa magulang and etc. Don’t look at someone’s blessedness in life with material things lang.
Hindi kasalanan ni Heart ang miserable mong kabataan at pagkatao. Nagpost lang siya in general. Kung apektado ka man ng malala at nasaktan ka eh problema mo na un
Kakaloka! Life is not a competition. Hindi porket she had a comfortable life wala na siyang trauma sa buhay. She had very controlling parents which impeded her personal growth. Ang pait ng buhay mo, grabe.
Every person may pinagdadaanan din. Di naman sya insensitive. So what you mean is, di ka na pwedeng maging masaya dahil maraming ibang tao nakaranas ng abuso at di magandang childhood? Gawin mo yan ah, iapply mo sa buhay mo. Lahat na lang may negative meaning sa inyo. Sagutin mo yan 12:52 at ishare mo sa amin childhood mo baka maintindihan ka namin. Wag ka magtago as anonymous.
12:52 di nya kasalanan yung mga naging experience ng iba, gaya din na hindi fully fault ng mga taong sinasabi mo ang naging kapalaran nila. Life is not fair, ganun talaga. We all have different problems and trials in life. Wag ka masyado negative dahil di naman nya finoforce yang feelings nya sayo and sa ibang tao.
Fan ako ni Heart pero may point ka naman kahit papano. Sa totoo lang may mga problems ako, bawat tao may problems. Madalas gina-gaslight ko sarili ko just to prevent myself from ********** ****. Of course, forever na ko may mental illness pero knowing na a lot of people have it worse, that keeps me alive. Hindi ko na babasahin ang reply sa comment ko kasi alam ko marami magagalit. If we continue being soft, wala mangyayari. May friend ako, she's pushing 40. Pero yung problem niya, parang pang grade 1. Obviously, mas malalim ang problems ko.
walang bahid ng pagiging heart ngayon at kahit nung teeny boper pa siya.
ReplyDeleteKurtina, sofa, blinds, lampshade
ReplyDeleteRich kid talaga
Haha ito din una ko napansin
DeleteI'm assuming this was in Cali? This living room set-up is the norm among middle class families in the US. There's nothing about it that screams "richie rich 🤑 ".
Delete1:45 True. 😂 That lamp was about $10 in the 80's.
Deletenormal po yan sa california. kahit low income may blinds, sofa, and kurtina po.
DeleteParang typical house ng middle class fam. Not the kind of rich you’re trying to imply.
Delete145 uhm, hindi nman yata sila middle class family in the US kasi sa Pilipinas sila nakatira dati diba? Nagbabakasyon lang sila dyan o baka nga hindi nila bahay yan. 😂 Tsaka middle class pa ba yang nakakapag US in the 80s. Kami nga dati maski ulam at bigas walang pambili. Kaloka!
DeleteNah! They don’t own Barrio Fiesta. May kaya but NOT alta, old rich yayamanin level.
DeleteDi siya cute nung bata charot!
Ha? Di naman mukhang pang mayaman yung nasa background ng photo. Ano ba definition nyo ng mayaman? Uphoslstered seats? May lampshade? Thick curtains?
DeleteUhm hater lang? That’s not their home.
DeleteIf you can afford US in the 80s then you are not middle class. Those were the times when only the rich can migrate easily there.
Delete3:17 they lived in the US for a time.
DeleteThey lived in the US
Delete1:45 2:10 hiyang hiya naman si Heart sa inyong mga HL
DeleteDami na naman inggitera dito eh ano. Mga schoolmates ni Heart dati sa CSA mga to
Delete557 diba? Maski nga may telebisyon ka lang or sasakyan that time, mayaman ka na. Yan pa kayang pumunta sa ibang bansa ang buong pamilya. Lol
Deletei think so too. mga inggiterang froglets na di nmn sikat, inggit sa kasikatan at kaartehan ni heart
Delete1:06 Eh sa totoong hindi naman talaga alta level agad porke ganyan ang bahay. Kung aliping sagigilid ka, malamang alta na yan sayo. Middle income family can afford that kind of living room especially in Western countries.
DeleteNakakaloka tlaga tong mga bashers ni Heart, kulang nlang sabihin na panghampaslupa yang bahay nya. Makakapag abroad ka ba dati agad agad at buong pamilya pa kung hindi ka mayaman. Lol
DeleteActually thy should be your priority,
ReplyDeleteyour real happiness. Which you can’t find in all your material possessions.
Yes I read somewhere na dapat mong unahin ang inner child mo to become. So yung mga hindi magagandang nangyari sa buhay mo buuin mo or burahin or ilet go. Then you can start to fill the gaps.
ReplyDeleteI think most of us if not all may bubog nung kabataan. Iba iba lang tayo ng storya at level ng trauma. May mababaw lang at unfortunately meron namang hanggang sa pagtanda mo parang multong sumusunod ang nakaraan. Lalo na pag nagkaroon ka na ng sariling pamilya doon na unti unting bumabalik. Kaya it’s really good to talk to someone — therapist man yan, partner mo, family mo or someone na nakapanakit sayo to slowly free your inner child from the hurt and bitterness.
ReplyDeleteSo true
DeleteThis is so true
DeleteThis is true, my inner child is happy dahil sa self care and I romanticize my life din. I savor it. Hindi ng materials kundi ng experiences and places to explore. And I’m loving my life now. Oh edi ako na! 😂❤️
ReplyDeleteGood for you! I should try that. Romanticize my life. They do say that what matters is the story we tell ourselves about ourselves.
DeleteI love it! Nainspire ako to do the same. Salamat
DeleteHiyang hiya naman yung mga hindi nakaranas ng childhood dahil maagang naulila. Maaga nagtrabaho. Hindi nakapag aral, minaltrato, inabuso. You live a very comfortable life compared to them.
ReplyDeleteMay magulang syang toxic, di pa rin valid yun para sayo?
DeleteAng bitter. What's wrong with catering to your inner child? Yes, she's lucky she gets to have time, space, energy, and resources to do that. But why fault her for it? Would you want everyone to have that, to be able to nurture all parts of you? Just because we didnt/dont ay dapat ibash na yung may kayang gawin ang di natin kaya.
DeleteDo not invalidate her feelings.
DeletePano naman yung mga comfy life pero lumaking magulo Fam set up? Iba, may isang drug-involved pa magulang and etc. Don’t look at someone’s blessedness in life with material things lang.
Goodness anong problema mo?!
DeleteYes you’re right pero we can’t invalidate someone’s feeling dahil lang di magdusa nung kabataan. Everyone has their own struggle
DeleteHindi kasalanan ni Heart ang miserable mong kabataan at pagkatao. Nagpost lang siya in general. Kung apektado ka man ng malala at nasaktan ka eh problema mo na un
DeleteKakaloka! Life is not a competition. Hindi porket she had a comfortable life wala na siyang trauma sa buhay. She had very controlling parents which impeded her personal growth. Ang pait ng buhay mo, grabe.
DeleteEvery person may pinagdadaanan din. Di naman sya insensitive. So what you mean is, di ka na pwedeng maging masaya dahil maraming ibang tao nakaranas ng abuso at di magandang childhood? Gawin mo yan ah, iapply mo sa buhay mo. Lahat na lang may negative meaning sa inyo. Sagutin mo yan 12:52 at ishare mo sa amin childhood mo baka maintindihan ka namin. Wag ka magtago as anonymous.
Delete12:52 di nya kasalanan yung mga naging experience ng iba, gaya din na hindi fully fault ng mga taong sinasabi mo ang naging kapalaran nila. Life is not fair, ganun talaga. We all have different problems and trials in life. Wag ka masyado negative dahil di naman nya finoforce yang feelings nya sayo and sa ibang tao.
DeleteFan ako ni Heart pero may point ka naman kahit papano. Sa totoo lang may mga problems ako, bawat tao may problems. Madalas gina-gaslight ko sarili ko just to prevent myself from ********** ****. Of course, forever na ko may mental illness pero knowing na a lot of people have it worse, that keeps me alive. Hindi ko na babasahin ang reply sa comment ko kasi alam ko marami magagalit. If we continue being soft, wala mangyayari. May friend ako, she's pushing 40. Pero yung problem niya, parang pang grade 1. Obviously, mas malalim ang problems ko.
DeleteEVERY STRUGGLE MATTERS
DeleteLol so problemahin niya rin problema mo? Ganern? Eh di lahat tayo mamroblema sa problema mo hahaha
DeleteTrue. Kahit umedad tayo, or magkaroon na ng pamilya, di pa rin dapat mawala yung inner child happiness naten.
ReplyDeleteAh hindi pa ba happy ang inner child nia nian with everything she bought, have and did. Lol
ReplyDeleteA child has a pure heart no malice and no materialism; it only needs love and attention from the parents.
ReplyDeleteYan ang hirap sa rich, mahirap mag appreciate ng little blessings sa buhay.
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