Ewan ko sayo inday. Puro ka sawsaw. Bat di ka magfile ng sarili mong kaso? 8 yrs ka na pala nababash kakasawsaw. Maybe its time to do your own battle..
Ikaw din naman puro sawsaw pero di mo naman alam kung ano nangyari sa kanya. What if that time she got really scared kaya di nakapag medico-legal. Walang syang strong proof. But that doesn’t mean di nangyari ang rape. So papano sya magkakaso, aber?! Madami din cases na ganito kaya di nakapag file ng kaso. Ano ba naman ang mapapala nya kung magsasabi lang sya ng kasinungalingan?
I was a rape victim. Hindi ganon kadali mag file ng kaso.. magastos.. then mumultuhin ka ng karaan.. nauunawaan ko sya...minsan ito lang ito lang ang way namin para kahit paara mag voice out.. sana po unawain nyo kami.hindi nyo po alam ang hirap ng dinadanas namin Sana wag nyo maranasan kayo o isa sa mag kamag anak nyo
Yung mga sa Me Too movement sa America, yung iba kahit sobrang tagal na nung na biktima sila ng r*pe, nagsasalita pa rin sila. Bakit kapag si Kat Alano, bawal?
So hanggang buhay ka eh kukuda ka na nirape ka dzai?!? Kahit na wala kang pinapangalanan pero obvious naman sa madlang pipol kung sino. Kung finile mo yan sa korte eh may mapapala ka pa sa pagkuda mo. Kasi un pagkuda mo eh isscrutinize sa direct at cross examination. Pag napatunayan na gawa gawa lang pala eh kakasuhan ka pa ng perjury. Kasi sa korte di ka pwede magsinungaling o magkukuda ng walang basehan. So sa labas ng korte ka na lang magkukuda? Kaya bilib ako kay Maggie dela Riva pinabitay talaga un mga suspect. After nun quiet na siya at move on. Eto walang kapayapaan sa kaso niya kaya kuda ng kuda wala naman ginagawa
11:38 if you know matatalo ka sa perjury, hindi ka magsasalita at all. Just because hindi nagsampa sa korte for whatever reason ay nagsinungaling na sya
Kung meron ka palang "truth" bakit nga kasi di ka nagfile ng kaso?! And please stop defending her na mahirap, walang pera, backwards ang thinking ng madla, etc etc. May mas mahirap, mas bata, mas helpless pa sa kanya na nakakapag-file at nakakapagpanalo ng kaso! Kaya use your truth, go to the courts and file a case!
Nagsampa ka na ba ng kaso sa korte? Enough ba yung truth na sinasabi mo para mapatunayan yung nangyari years ago? Pno kung wla siyang evidence? Wlang witness? Jusko kun kayo ngang ordinaryong tao binabash siya at hnd pinaniniwlaan yung korte pa kaya
@8:05 AM, di ako yung dalawa sa taas. Ok? @10:23 AM well, babae ako at namolestya ako ng uncle ko(R.I.P.) nung 5 years old ako, kaya sa iba mo na lang gamitin yang linya mo na yan. Ok?! And please basahin mo/nyo nga ulit sinabi ko, Ini-encourage ko pa nga siya to file a case, what's wrong with that? Ano gusto nyo? Puro trial by publicity? Puro believe all women? Yang jurisprudence na nagbibigay ng weight sa words ng babae is not applicable now in todays society dahil di na conservative mga babae ngayun! Many women cry rape na napapatunayan na di naman pala totoo! And BTW, parang kayo kayo lang din yung nagsasabi na "sana wag nyo maranasan, etc etc..." yung totoo mga teh?
4:16. I’m sorry for what you’ve been through. But not becauss nagawa mong magfile ng case at nabigyan ng justice ang nangyari sayo doesn’t mean you can invalidate somebody’s experience. Malaki ang pinagkaiba nyo ni KA. Una, walang kasing laking back-up na company ang uncle mo para sirain ka, mawalan ka ng trabaho o itigil buhay mo. Nangyari lahat sakanya yun. Panoorin mo na lang din ang TED Talk nya. Pangalawa, wag mo igeneralize lahat ng babae. Totoo man o hindi yung accusation nya, at least may pinaglalaban sya. Eh pano kayo na nagvivictim blame lang may naitulong ba kayo?
@7:23, did I say na nakapagfile ako? I was 5 and didn't even know what to call yung nangyari. I was already 29 when I realized that what he did to me was abuse. Gustuhin ko man magalit at magwala, too late na. Saka ano pinagsasabi mo na iniinvalidate ko experience nya? I was telling her na if may truth naman pala siya e mag-file siya ng kaso nya, kesa isubject nya sarili nya sa court of public opinion na mas lalo pa nga siya nababash. At wala nga backer uncle ko but he had the age advantage. What's worse is he messed me up psychologically! Kaya di na nya need sirain ako dahil ako na mismo sumira sa sarili ko! Kaya don't imply na I had a better situation, simply because di sikat at maimpluwensya yung abuser ko! Di mo alam kung ano pinagdaanan ko teh. Sa tingin mo a 5 year old victim is better than someone abused as an adult? You must be sick.
12:44 o yun naman pala, too late na rin naman nung na realize mo at hindi ka rin nagfile, daming hanash eh pareho lang pala kayo ng situation ni kat. Oo pwede mong sabihin na coming from a good place yung pagsabi mo na dapat mag file na sya at na hindi sya matulad sa yo,kaya lang the way na pagcomment mo dito eh medyo harsh at walang puso ang delivery.
1244 I am sorry sa nangyari sayo. You were 5 and Kat were 19 yung nangyari sa kanya. Pareha kayong hindi nagfile ng kaso, baka kasi bata pa rin c Kat that time? Teenager pa din sya that time at malamang nalito din yan kung anong nangyari sa kanya. Malaki ang age differenece nyo pero pareho kayong hindi sure at hindi alam ang gagawin sa nangyari sa inyo. I also read somewhere na she was drugged.
She literally has nothing to gain from speaking out except for justice and you people keep shaming her for it. Ang sasahol ninyong mga supporters ni V. #rhymeswithwrong
Saw her interview with Mo. Grabe, sobrang heartbreaking. I can't imagine the pain that she went through after the incident tapos sya pa nabash. I believe her since she's consistent with her story.
I think this is most likely the case. Baka nga di pa siya sure talaga kasi somebody commented in another article na parang she was drugged and akala niya boyfriend niya nakapatong sa kanya pero hindi pala.
Matagal n ksi. Morethan 15 yrs or 20 yrs ago. Kaya wala n tlga yan. She can just celebrate in peace. Di naman need kumuda. She's just inviting bashers tapos mag rereact sha
Anong losing control ka dyan? She’s just speaking out. Likely she could not file a case kasi wala na siyang evidences to support the case dahil matagal na.
Naniniwala ako sa mga biktima! Its shameful to even admit to yourself that you were abused! Any normal person will not resort to this para lang sumikat at magpapansin! They will not go to great lengths na ikaka sira ng reputation nila nakakahiya yun pero dahil totoo ang pinaglalaban nila ilalaban nila hanggang sa huli! Praise be to god for giving justice to the victims
I stand with Kath.. y? I was sexually harassed by a doctor, akala nyo madali makapag salita? Hindi. Dahil sa ibang tao na mapang husga , dahil sa bulok na sistema... Tinanggap ko na na I will just keep it to myself for the rest of my life. Pero hindi ako papayagan na kapag nangyari yun sa anak ko eh hindi ako lalaban.
Rape man un or hindi, bat di ka nagsalita? So ngayon ka magsasabi nyan sa socmed to prove what? Afraid ka na dahil wala ka ebodensya eh mapahiya ka. Hindi lahat ng nagsasabi na jirape sila totoo.
728 were you a victim? Kung hindi, wla kang karapatan na magsabi ng ganyan. Ako, I was sleeping when someone drunk touched me sa may breast area and grabe yung takot ko when I woke up kasi hindi ko alam anong nangyayari. And I never said anyone anything. Ito pa kaya sa kanya na she was drugged and hindi alam ang detalye ng nangyari sa kanya.
Trial by publicity kasi ginagawa mo girl. So don't cry kung ganun din ginagawa sayo ng netizens. Don't get me wrong, hindi ko kinakapihan si "rhymeswithwrong relax lang kayo mga classmates, pare-pareho lang tayong sawsawera dito
I agree with you. I understand those who are silently grieving and traumatized sa nangyari sa kanila - na hindi madaling i-admit publicly that you were abused.. but she already speak up.. long time ago and yet, wala naman cyang ginawang aksyon after nun.. tapos ngaun nakikikuda cya sa kaso ni Deniece.. mas maingay pa cya dun sa nagfile ng kaso.. I dont get her! Nabasa ko pa dito na may nagmessage na sa kanya before na pwede cyang tulungan para sa kaso but she ignored it.
Hindi ko lubos maisip na madaming nakikisimpatya kay vhong sa fb. Baka nakalimutan nila na may GF si vhong that time pero nandun siya sa condo ng ibang babae. Dun pa lang maling mali. Pinagtatanggol pa nila.
Kawawa naman sya..imbes pakinggan at maintindihan binabash pa..my sister is a victim also..15 years (she’s 30 years old now) bago namin nalaman yung nangyari sa kanya..sobrang sakit sa amin yun..imagine ang tagal nyang dinala yun dahil alam nyo kung bakit? Dahil dala dala nya yung trauma sa nangyari sa kanya at takot na malaman ng ibang tao..sana yung mga tao especially sa mga babaeng nangbabash sa kanya mag isip isip kayo..hindi nyo alam kung ano pakiramdam ng ginawan ng hindi maganda at maging biktima ng rape..
The problem is you also do not fight fair, you use sympathy card to gain attention and vindicate your “abuser” online. File a case and you will have my support 100%.
Do you think it’s that easy? I was abused too and it took me 2 decades to confide. Please lang. Wag pangunahan ang mga victims. You’ll never know how hard it is.
Problema Kasi, bakit Hindi k nag file ng Kaso. Para tuloy ok LNG narape k, Kasi Puro k Kuda s social media. At least ng file k, makukilong at malalaman Ang khypan ng nagtape s iyo.may mga grand k, at si Alex bakit Hindi k ngapatulong.
And that is the reason why a lot of victims choose to remain silent, me included. The incident/s were shameful enough. Going public and being criticized makes it harder. Thank you Kat for being our voice.
Same! I remember I was sexually harrased by a pastor. When I told my leaders, iniisip ko lang daw yun. Worse is, yung iba inisip na nagbigay ako ng motibo. Imagine, I was young and the pastor is more than twice my age pero ako daw nagbigay ng motibo? Nakakapag sisi na nagsabi pa ako, ako pa tuloy napag isipan ng masama.
I agree that it is always hard for victims to come out. However, something should be said for victims who choose to fight the accused head on.
When you choose to be part of a trial the court of public opinion, you will eventually suffer because while you will gain support, you will also get detractors.
dapat consistent siya sa pinaglalaban niya at magsampa ng kaso sa korte. She can speak about it publicly di ba. So might as well, magsampa ng kaso. Ilang years na ayaw panay salita then mawawala.
What she is doing is trial by publicity. Since nag ba blind item na rin naman sya. Why can’t she file a case ? May mga nag offer na din naman daw na maging abogado nya . We can’t just assume na everyone crying to be a victim is really a victim unless they go thru due process. Kaya nga may imbestigasyon. May kilala din akong nag pa victim para lang sirain ang reputasyon ng isang tao. People say she’s afraid to come out . She came out a long time ago pero gusto lang nya trial by publicity.
I believe her. May lovable charm si guy na d kapani paniwala na magagawa nya yun. But kung isa lang, medyo sketchy e may isa pa so napapaisip yung madami. Let's wait kung May lalabas pa. But I doubt kasi sa bashings na nakukuha ni Kat, baka tumahimik na lang sila.
I don't believe her. Lumabas na sya noon bakit di sya nag file ng sarili nya bakit nakiki ride on lang sya sa iba. Nung mainit ang isyu sawsaw sya nung nawala ang isyu tahimik din sya ngayong anjan naman ang isyu sawsaw na naman sya.
I believed kat. Hinde madali sa totoo lang. Naabuso na din ako noon na hanggang ngAyon sinasarili ko pa din. Una, pag nagsbi ako may maniniwala ba? Ang tao napaka galing manghusga. Kadalsan pagnagsalita ang biktima susukatin na agad ang pagkatao mo
1:54, ang pinagkaiba niyo, ikaw never pa nagsabi. Siya matagal na siyang nagsasalita. She already opened a can of worms, there's nothing to lose kasi alam na ng tao ang nangyari sa kanya. Ano pa yung ikakatakot niya? Kung totoo man na may nagvolunteer na abogado na tulungan siya, why not grab that opportunity to sue the guy? Let the court decide at if ever man matalo siya, at least taas noo niyang masabi that she fought hard and she fought fair and square kaysa ganyan na puro lang siya parinig.
I dare Kat na magsampa ng kaso once and for all. Hindi ka ba nahihiya kay Deniece na lumaban mag-isa noon?Nakulong na't lahat. Sige na para matapos na. Maging matapang ka Kat at least wala kang pagsisisihan dahil ginawa mo ang nararapat.
I dont understand why she kept in ranting via social media. If she was abused then why dont she sue him. ma ba bash talaga sya. she said she was silent? ngayon lng naman sya na bash why didnt she sued him 17 yrs ago.. hinde naman sobrang sikat si vhong, may gabriela na pwede nya g takbuhan.. but she chose to be quiet and then now she keep on ranting
Possible na hindi siya nakapagcollect agad ng evidence nung time na yun kaya mahirap isupport kapag nagsampa siya ng kaso. That wouldn’t mean hindi siya narape. Marami sa rape victims ay hindi nagsasampa ng kaso dahil dun. Madalas traumatized sila, nahihiya, hindi alam ang gagawin to gather evidence.
6:00 korek, may mya rape victim pa nga na naliligo after the fact dahil duming dumi sila sa mga sarili nila so medyo natatarnish na ang “evidence” na hinahanap ng mga bashers dito.
Noong height ng DC incident may nag offer na sa kanya na abogado . She can’t just probably prove her case . Maraming alibi pero mahilig lang sa blind item. Ying nangyari tuloy sa cas nya e isang malaking tsismis
I believe her but doubt came across my mind last night when I got to read a column that says she planned to sue Luis Alandy before. So apparently, the latter did kiss and tell to Mo Twister’s “Forbidden Questions” and that Kat was one of the 3 women that he has slept with. It really made me wonder why this news broke out — was released by her and her management whereas the more serious case should have been brought up. I don’t know, napaisip lang ako. The rape happened in 2005 and she kept silent about it. Pero nung nagsalita si Luis Alandy, nagsalita agad. Guys, help me to process this out. Nasabaw ang utak ko. Yung bulalo sabaw nalang natira.
Pareho tayo ng iniisip. Di ko maintindihan yung kay Luis Alandy, considering na wala namang masama since she consented to that, pero yung alleged rape, di sya nagpa korte. I am all for victims of rape and if Kat was really raped, she should bring it forward or else di talaga sya makaka-move on.
Napa research ako agad regarding this luis alandy chismax ah. Nakakapagtaka nga bakit nung na-rape siya nung 2005, nanahimik siya pero nung nagsabi si luis alandy na may nangyari sa kanila, gusto niya sampahan ng kaso. Naniwala na sana ako eh. I don’t mean to discredit mga rape victims pero itong kay Kat Alano parang shady tuloy kasi bakit ganun nga. I agree with you 11:58 at 6:56. May point kayo.
I believe in Kat Alano. Walang babae na mag subject sa sarili nya to what she's gone through these past few years just for publicity. I hope she will find peace and heal from what had happened to her.
I'm on the victim side but you could have said his name, exposed him instead of just sharing your experience with a nameless abuser. In a way you let him get away with the crime.
I hope she heals and baka pwedeng makahingi sya ng support from PAO if ang issue is pambayad sa abogado, baka matulungan syang mabigyan ng justice ung nangyari sa kanya…
Some of you are the reason why she has to defend herself from bashing. Unless you are a rape victim too, manahimik na lang kayo and let her speak her truth. Kababae nyo pa namang tao. Sana di nyo pagdaanan ang pinagdadaanan nya. She has her reasons. Mag google kayo bago kumuda
I don't know if i should believe her. Coz personally i think if she was indeed rap3d she should have filed a legal complaint. I just don't understand why she didn't. If her issue is money i think she could have asked help from her friends. Trial by publicity is a no no. File a law suit to prove your case.
Naiba kasi panahon ngyon socmed ang way para mapansin waley pa nmn noon un. Ngyon kahit away ng kapitbhay na papanood mo na hahhaha. Tska bka wala syang ebidensya. Tska bka ung image nya noon pakawala i mean ung easy easy girl ganyan kaya cguro naisip nya sino maniniwala sakin. Diba? Katulad nung sa anak nung eheads, ganon magisip at magsalita tatay nya sa knya what more ibang tao noon. Ang difference lang may socmed na ngyon. Imagine tatay nya ang nagsabi sa knya wala maniniwala sa knya. So baka ganon haha! Idk i mean hndi natin malalaman tlga ang truth kung hangang dun lang ang keribels nya. I hope people can just be kind to her victim or not, Para sa future victim hndi nila maisip na they will get bash if they cry for help noh.
8 years na nagsasalita or 8 years na pagpaparinig? Pangalanan mo na kasi para seryosuhin ka. Obvious naman kung sino yan but mas merit if ikwento mo ano talaga nangyari sayo. Hindi puro passive-aggressive na pagpaparinig
si Kat pwede yang humingi ng tulong sa mga NGO like Gabriela for the past few years na hindi pinaguusapan itong kaso nila Deniece. Pwede din na humingi siya ng abugado sa PAO.Wag yung paminsan minsan ang issue. Ituloy na niya sa korte.Para maparusahan ang rapist.
Pansin niyo, yung mga nag c comment at nangbabash, pare pareho ng sinasabi? Yung mga nagpapadala naman ng sympathy, mga nabiktima at one point in their lives at nahusgahan or matagal tinago.
Ang point ay, wag kumuda kung di niyo naranasan, please.
Sa Pinas kasi ikaw na nga na rape ikaw pa epal, may kasalanan, etc. Maraming misogynistic ang utak kaya maraming di nagsasalita pag nangyari sa kanila yan. Sa mga nagsasabing epal si Kat, kung nanay, kapatid, or ikaw mismo ma rape at wala ka pang pera? Ano na? ✌ At teenager pa siya nung nangyari yun. Tingin niyo mature and knowledgeable na siya at that time to know what to do?
I believe you, Kat and I stand with you. Ang sasama ng mga ugali ng mga bashers dito. Wala kayong karapatan humusga kung hindi nyo naranasan maabuso! Sana hindi nyo or ka pamilya ninyo maranasan yung naranasan nya
Grabe yung mga negative dito. Rape victims are traumatized. Some have the strength to file but others are not as strong. Money is not just the issue here. Pag nasa korte ang rape case, the victims will have to relieve it all over again. Madaming victims ang nananahimik dahil hindi madali mag file at maka recover frok the trauma. Sobrang nakakalungkot na ang mga nag dadown sa kanya ay mga kapwa babae pa. Onting sympathy naman.
Sa mga bashers dyan, sana di nyo ma experience na ma-rape or yung mga kapatid nyong babae or nanay nyo na maranasan ito. Puro bash kayo ng bash wala naman kayong alam kung anong pakiramdam ng mga rape victims! Kung makapag bash kayo ang wawagas! Sana di yan mangyari sa inyo
Yung mga comment ng iba dito really tells you kung bakit hirap ang mga biktima na magreport o magkaso... If it didn't happen to you, sana wag massume na ganun kasimple yun..
Hoy kayong mga sh*nga, kung hindi nyo naexperience wala kayong karapatan magmarunong. I’m a victim myself and never ako nag report dahil sa mga kagaya nyong mema.
Ang hirap sa iba dito na alam ko naman eh babae din, nagsasabi file a case. Paano sya magfile ng case kung di sufficient ang evidence nya at alam nya na kapag dinala sa court maari syang matalo dahil ang court naten nakabase sa mga evidences. Whether with court case or hone, for her she was raped. Katawan nya yun, alam nya kung binigyan nya pa ng consent yun tao o hindi. Kaya nakakaramdam sya ng finally baka mabigyan ng justice ang nangyari sa kanya dahil meron isang biktima ulit na may hawak na sapat na ebidensya para mapatunayan na ni rape sya. Kahit man lang sa ganun paraan makaramdam si Kat ng justice. Tapos ipagkakait nyo dahil Lang sa di sya nakapag file ng case. Maraming rape victims ang takot magsalita dahil Sa mapanghusga lipunan. Do not invalidate the vixtim’s feelings. Traumatizing na ang rape tapos pagdating sa court uulitin mo kwento ang experience at may kasama pang pambabara ng abogado ng akusado. At dahil artista ang akusado, at may sandamakmak na suporters courtesy of co-host nya at network nya, kahit sinong maliit na tao eh matatakot magsalita. Alam
10 years ago in my previous employer, i had a colleague he's the kindest, charming, and intelligent. He's the go-to guy of everyone who needs assistance on anything sa office. He's not that powerful but he has a good position. I didn't believe rumors that he's a "tirador" of newbies and temps sa company until I got the chance to talk to one of his "victims". When I asked her why not report to HR, baka daw matanggal sya sa work and the "ginusto mo naman" stigma. I remember them all kay Kat. Be kind people. Let's just hope and pray na mabigyan ng justice ang real victim.
I followed Kata Alano years ago on Twitter because I stand with her. A woman crying rape needs to be listened to and not bashed. In our country filing a rape case, more so against a well-loved celebrity, is not easy. Women are vilified in court and they are always shamed for their choices. Nakakahiya ang mga lalaki at lalo na ang mga kapwa kong babae na kinakawawa pa lalo ang mga na abuso.
Shamed na rin naman sya sa pag iingy nya sa socmed so why not file a case in court. Atleast kahit i shame sya posible nya n makamit ang justice na hinahanap nya. Unlike sa socmed mababash lang sya pero walang mapapala.
I don't believe this girl. She is brave to come out in social media but can't file a complaint in the proper forum. So mas madali sa social media ganon?
I believe her naman kaya lang nakakainis yung wala syang ginawang hakbang. Yung tapang nya sa socmed dapat ginawan nya ng aksyon. Eh di sana wala ng ibang nabiktima! Yun ikinaiinis ko sa kanya! Tutal alam naman na ng lahat sino tinutukoy nya magdemanda na din sya para mas lumakas ang kaso if she really wants justice! Being passive aggressive won’t give you justice kat.
These bashers do not know the trauma that they’ve been through. I for one, nasilipan lang but am still scared of comfort rooms. I don’t know why they are siding with this wrong guy ☹️
I believe and stand with you, Kat and Denise. Truth and justice shall prevail.
God knows the truth Kat! Forget these bashers! Hold on to your truth! In the end, he will pay for what he did to you and to many more girls. Maybe not in this world, but one way or another he will pay. Hope he’ll grow some balls and just admit to his crimes.
It takes a lot of courage for a woman to say that she has been rape by someone, esp. if that someone is known. lve read her story years before. She was 19 when she was raped. She did file a case but i guess it didnt just make so much noise that time that is why her story was never heard or been cleared out.
She and her management sued Luis Alandy nang dahil lang sa nag tell-all yung guy kung sino mga girls he had s*x with. Years lang pagitan, mas mabigat yung rape so dapat yun ang mas binigyan ng pansin. Kaya nakapagtataka din.
I believe her at mahirap din i prove yung rape because she was drugged and probably drunk at that time. Di ko lang gusto yung sobrang tapang nya sa cryptic posts pero di naman nag file ng kaso. FYI, there were people who reached out to her para tulungan sya but she ignored them.
Guys personally I’ve experienced to be sexually harassed by my tito when I was 13 and to be honest it was very very very traumatic to me, up to now na may asawa na ako at anak dala dala ko parin. I warned my husband never to touch me especially sa private part ko when I am sleeping kasi nagaanxiety ako pag nagigising ako na someone is touching me. You will never ever understand the pain and trauma unless na experience nyo sya. Ni hindi ko rin nasabi sa family ko or sa parents ko coz I was scared na mapatay ng tatay ko yung tito ko. So I believe her. Ang masakit yung asawa ng tito ko pinapalabas nya sa ibang tao na kasalanan ko dahil inaakit ko daw yung asawa nya. My gosh I was 13 then, nagkikipagpatintero pa nga ako nung mga time na yun. Hindi madali, ikaw na naabuso ikaw pa ang mali.
i totally sympathize girl. ang problema.. the diff bet you and her is she keeps posting online with hints and whatnot. so does she want to speak out or not? what’s the truth
My gosh 327, eto na nga nag speak out na, kayo lang ang hindi ma kuntento sa forum. Ipilit pa na mag file tapos kung ayaw gusto nyo tumahimik na lang yung tao. Tsk tsk
@12:04 I'm sorry to hear na ba biktima ka din. Ako din I was molested by a very close family member several times habang natutulog. Mahal na mahal ko yung tao na yun kaya wala nalang ako pinagsabihan. It was very traumatic for me na until now I do not want my husband to touch my private parts kung hindi s*xy time. I don't know if I can ever totally heal from it.Sana sa mga taong mapang husga dito, magkaron naman kayo ng konting simpatya.
Your tita is a sick person. Only a sick person will say that. Huwag ka paapekto,learn to identify the things that need to be internalized and the things that are from the perception of the person and not abt you.The problem is not you.
I wonder kung ano ang demographic ng fp. Yung mga nangbabash don't sound like women. So my take would be this. As a man, imagine a famous female figure drugging you and r*ping you in the a** with a foreign object. As a hetero man/woman, imagine either a famous man/woman drugging you to r*pe you. As a gay man, would it be easy to tell the world, ____ r*ped me in the a**, considering that most bigoted people would've made fun of you and tell you you must have enjoyed it? As a man, can you say, this famous woman r*ped me without people saying that you must be thankful she gave you the time of the day? Etc. etc.
Ano problema ng mga tao sa rape victims? At may sinasabi pa na "baka hindi rape nangyari" kakasuka mga ugali nyo. Rape kapag walang consent, kahit mag.asawa o magkaibigan, pag walang consent rape! Kayo siguro yung mapagsamantala. Yung mga nang-aabuso tas ejajustify pa yung ginawang abuse. Sa mga walang modo jan sa rape victims, sana kayo na susunod ma.abuse, para makarelate kayo.
I was molested when I was young. Sa mga nangbabash po at hindi po makaintindi, mahirap po mag speak up kung sa inyo po nangyari ito. Hindi po ganun kadali mag file ng complain or kahit sabihin man lang sa family or close friends nyo na nangyari sa inyo to. Hindi nyo po maiintindihan kung di nyo po napagdaanan. Pasensya na po kung mali po sa paningin nyo na hindi nakakapagsalita kaagad ang nabiktima.
It’s sickening how many women victims are coming out and saying they have been shamed and silenced by their own family. How many more are still out there who can’t come out with their own story out of fear or because there’s no one to support them. It’s a failure of humanity. And Kat hesitates to file a case because it’s costly? Is that how inaccessible courts are??? Can’t this be easily handled by PAO? These men must be put behind bars or they’ll just keep on doing this to other women. How horrifying that they walk among us!
Parang iisa lang yata yung paulit ulit na nag sasabi ng “file a case”, “sawsawera”, “ginagamit ang socmed”… Yes, you have a point BUT you REFUSE to understand the point of the victim. You want people to see your point BUT you simply do not want to see the victim’s point. Please stop.
Sobrang iba ng platform na ito compared sa isang forum na mga nanay ang kasali. Nakakita ako na may isang nakapagwork with women in crisis: ang priority daw sa rape cases ay yung victim. Kung paano siya magiging safe, malayo sa nagsamantala sa kanya, para sa wellbeing at mental health niya, etc.
Napakahirap kasi talaga. so yung mga nanonood lang na kung makamando, sobra. hindi sila nakakatulong at all.
Nakakalungkot. I'm not a SA victim but I have enough empathy and sense of mind to understand how hard it is to just speak up and say something. This comment section alone is a glaring proof why people are afraid to speak up. The judgment, the holier-than-though, the "edi mag file ka kaso", "bat wala ka ginawa," as if it's that easy. You don't know how this affects your mind, how fear of judgment and that no one will listen, the need to relive the experience and tell the story, and so many others... Para sa mga nagmamagaling jan, bago nyo sabihan mga SA victims kung ano dapat gawin, I pray to God you never experience assault so that YOU may not know first hand how difficult it is to speak up.
Ganyan din ako sa shunga dati baks but I watch a lot of true crime stories and may mga kasong mafrufrustrate ka maski nakikinig ka lang nman o kaya ang tagal ng nangyari. It is not easy na patunayan ang isang krimen lalo na sa harap ng hukuman at magagaling ang abogado. And yes, may mga instances na yung rape victim eh ayaw magkaso or nagkaso pero hindi tinuloy kasi isasalaysay na nman nya ang nangyari sa kanya. She was almost k!lled and was raped pero nabuhay pa sya. Ayun nakapagbiktima na nman kaya may kaso ulit kaya natalakay yung nangyari sa kanya. Hindi nman kasi ibig sabihin na true yung rape eh yun na ang truth sa korte. Himayhimayin pa yan at gaya nung nangyari kay Deniece, character assassination naman ang gawin.
Sana hindi mga babae yung mga nag kukwestyon kay Kat. I was a victim too. Victim ng coworker ko. Pero di ako nag file ng case, di na din nag reklamo because when I told my manager about it, who btw is a woman too, sinabi na kasalanan ko daw kasi nakipag inuman ako sa coworker ko during a party na present din naman si manager. Isipin ko daw may pamilya si rapist. Then sinabi ko sa mom at tita ko, ang sagot din sa akin ng mom ko, kasalanan ko daw kasi nakipag inuman ako sa lalaki. Pati tita ko yun din sabi sa akin. So kanino tatakbo ang isang biktima na tulad ko? Sa sobrang feeling ko violated ako, di ako makapag work maayos and sobrang galit na galit at diring diri ako sa rapist na yun everytime nakikita ko sa work. Nag quit ako sa work after a week dahil di ko na kinaya. Up to now, wala na ako ibang pinagsabihan ng nangyari sa akin dahil sa culture ng victim blaming.
Ewan ko sayo inday. Puro ka sawsaw. Bat di ka magfile ng sarili mong kaso? 8 yrs ka na pala nababash kakasawsaw. Maybe its time to do your own battle..
ReplyDeleteIkaw din naman puro sawsaw pero di mo naman alam kung ano nangyari sa kanya. What if that time she got really scared kaya di nakapag medico-legal. Walang syang strong proof. But that doesn’t mean di nangyari ang rape. So papano sya magkakaso, aber?! Madami din cases na ganito kaya di nakapag file ng kaso. Ano ba naman ang mapapala nya kung magsasabi lang sya ng kasinungalingan?
DeleteSabi nga nya wala syang media company. Wala syang team. Wala syang bayad. Ibig sabihin wala syang connections at wala syang pera.
DeleteI was a rape victim. Hindi ganon kadali mag file ng kaso.. magastos.. then mumultuhin ka ng karaan.. nauunawaan ko sya...minsan ito lang ito lang ang way namin para kahit paara mag voice out.. sana po unawain nyo kami.hindi nyo po alam ang hirap ng dinadanas namin
DeleteSana wag nyo maranasan kayo o isa sa mag kamag anak nyo
yuck ka. sana di ka babae makabash ng ganyan.
DeleteInday, research din pag may time. Palo google MO twister Kat Alano interview.
DeleteHala, di mo na nabasa sinabi? Dahil sa mga kagaya mong talangka na rapist apologist kaya hirap lumantad mga nare-rape. Kaloka bagsak comprehension
DeleteSana di ka babae
DeleteMay mga tao talagang kahit ano kaklarong explanation eh hindi talaga makuha ng mahina sa comprehension.
DeleteYung mga sa Me Too movement sa America, yung iba kahit sobrang tagal na nung na biktima sila ng r*pe, nagsasalita pa rin sila. Bakit kapag si Kat Alano, bawal?
DeleteSo hanggang buhay ka eh kukuda ka na nirape ka dzai?!? Kahit na wala kang pinapangalanan pero obvious naman sa madlang pipol kung sino. Kung finile mo yan sa korte eh may mapapala ka pa sa pagkuda mo. Kasi un pagkuda mo eh isscrutinize sa direct at cross examination. Pag napatunayan na gawa gawa lang pala eh kakasuhan ka pa ng perjury. Kasi sa korte di ka pwede magsinungaling o magkukuda ng walang basehan. So sa labas ng korte ka na lang magkukuda? Kaya bilib ako kay Maggie dela Riva pinabitay talaga un mga suspect. After nun quiet na siya at move on. Eto walang kapayapaan sa kaso niya kaya kuda ng kuda wala naman ginagawa
ReplyDeleteTeh panoorin mo mga interview nya kung paanong sinabihan sya na ibabasura din lang kung magpafile sya
Deleteomg. kaw kaya ma assault at tignan natin kung right away eh gagawin mo yun mga sinasabi mo.
DeleteIkaw nga kuda ng kuda wala ka namang koneksyon
DeleteWala kayong narebutt sa perjury. Puro kayo trial by publicity
Delete11:38 if you know matatalo ka sa perjury, hindi ka magsasalita at all. Just because hindi nagsampa sa korte for whatever reason ay nagsinungaling na sya
DeleteKung meron ka palang "truth" bakit nga kasi di ka nagfile ng kaso?! And please stop defending her na mahirap, walang pera, backwards ang thinking ng madla, etc etc. May mas mahirap, mas bata, mas helpless pa sa kanya na nakakapag-file at nakakapagpanalo ng kaso! Kaya use your truth, go to the courts and file a case!
ReplyDeleteNagsampa ka na ba ng kaso sa korte? Enough ba yung truth na sinasabi mo para mapatunayan yung nangyari years ago? Pno kung wla siyang evidence? Wlang witness? Jusko kun kayo ngang ordinaryong tao binabash siya at hnd pinaniniwlaan yung korte pa kaya
DeleteParang iisa lang kayo ng 2 sa taas
Deletesana di ka babae. pls read the comments ng mga experiences ng iba below. at sana di mangyari sayo ito or sa loved one mo.
Delete@8:05 AM, di ako yung dalawa sa taas. Ok? @10:23 AM well, babae ako at namolestya ako ng uncle ko(R.I.P.) nung 5 years old ako, kaya sa iba mo na lang gamitin yang linya mo na yan. Ok?! And please basahin mo/nyo nga ulit sinabi ko, Ini-encourage ko pa nga siya to file a case, what's wrong with that? Ano gusto nyo? Puro trial by publicity? Puro believe all women? Yang jurisprudence na nagbibigay ng weight sa words ng babae is not applicable now in todays society dahil di na conservative mga babae ngayun! Many women cry rape na napapatunayan na di naman pala totoo! And BTW, parang kayo kayo lang din yung nagsasabi na "sana wag nyo maranasan, etc etc..." yung totoo mga teh?
Delete4:16. I’m sorry for what you’ve been through. But not becauss nagawa mong magfile ng case at nabigyan ng justice ang nangyari sayo doesn’t mean you can invalidate somebody’s experience. Malaki ang pinagkaiba nyo ni KA. Una, walang kasing laking back-up na company ang uncle mo para sirain ka, mawalan ka ng trabaho o itigil buhay mo. Nangyari lahat sakanya yun. Panoorin mo na lang din ang TED Talk nya. Pangalawa, wag mo igeneralize lahat ng babae. Totoo man o hindi yung accusation nya, at least may pinaglalaban sya. Eh pano kayo na nagvivictim blame lang may naitulong ba kayo?
Delete4:16? weh. if victim ka prang ikaw lang yung walang compassion sa lahat ng nag share dito
Delete@7:23, did I say na nakapagfile ako? I was 5 and didn't even know what to call yung nangyari. I was already 29 when I realized that what he did to me was abuse. Gustuhin ko man magalit at magwala, too late na. Saka ano pinagsasabi mo na iniinvalidate ko experience nya? I was telling her na if may truth naman pala siya e mag-file siya ng kaso nya, kesa isubject nya sarili nya sa court of public opinion na mas lalo pa nga siya nababash. At wala nga backer uncle ko but he had the age advantage. What's worse is he messed me up psychologically! Kaya di na nya need sirain ako dahil ako na mismo sumira sa sarili ko! Kaya don't imply na I had a better situation, simply because di sikat at maimpluwensya yung abuser ko! Di mo alam kung ano pinagdaanan ko teh. Sa tingin mo a 5 year old victim is better than someone abused as an adult? You must be sick.
Delete12:44 o yun naman pala, too late na rin naman nung na realize mo at hindi ka rin nagfile, daming hanash eh pareho lang pala kayo ng situation ni kat. Oo pwede mong sabihin na coming from a good place yung pagsabi mo na dapat mag file na sya at na hindi sya matulad sa yo,kaya lang the way na pagcomment mo dito eh medyo harsh at walang puso ang delivery.
Delete1244 I am sorry sa nangyari sayo. You were 5 and Kat were 19 yung nangyari sa kanya. Pareha kayong hindi nagfile ng kaso, baka kasi bata pa rin c Kat that time? Teenager pa din sya that time at malamang nalito din yan kung anong nangyari sa kanya. Malaki ang age differenece nyo pero pareho kayong hindi sure at hindi alam ang gagawin sa nangyari sa inyo. I also read somewhere na she was drugged.
DeleteShe literally has nothing to gain from speaking out except for justice and you people keep shaming her for it. Ang sasahol ninyong mga supporters ni V. #rhymeswithwrong
ReplyDeleteTrue. We don’t know what really happened and what kind of person he is. Not worth depending him that much to be honest.
DeleteTrue! Disgusting to even defend a rapist. As if Kat has something to gain out of this.
DeleteSaw her interview with Mo. Grabe, sobrang heartbreaking. I can't imagine the pain that she went through after the incident tapos sya pa nabash. I believe her since she's consistent with her story.
ReplyDeleteShe's 100% right
ReplyDeletebaka kaya di sya makapagfile ng case kasi wala sya enough evidence.
ReplyDeleteI think this is most likely the case. Baka nga di pa siya sure talaga kasi somebody commented in another article na parang she was drugged and akala niya boyfriend niya nakapatong sa kanya pero hindi pala.
DeleteCya ang buhay na ebidencya kung totoo cnasabi nya
DeleteShe was 19, drugged and raped! Pano makakakuha ng ebidensya alangan naman irecord nya habang nagaganap
DeleteThat's the point mahirap ung salita lang like chismis can never be a history lol. But if she says true file a complaint dapat nuon pa.
DeleteMatagal n ksi. Morethan 15 yrs or 20 yrs ago. Kaya wala n tlga yan. She can just celebrate in peace. Di naman need kumuda. She's just inviting bashers tapos mag rereact sha
DeleteWow! Konting empathy naman. Na rape na nga yong tao. I cant with people like you.
DeleteDont over explain Kat lalo mo lng pinapaingay mga marites
ReplyDeleteGosh she's losing control over herself na. She should stay away from social media muna because it's not good for her.
ReplyDeleteAnong losing control ka dyan? She’s just speaking out. Likely she could not file a case kasi wala na siyang evidences to support the case dahil matagal na.
DeleteKat, pahinga muna sa pagrarant. Meditate or have a vacation kaya?
ReplyDeleteSana hindi ka maging victim. Wala kang compassion.
DeleteAww. I stand with the rape and sexual assault victims
ReplyDeleteYes to this!
DeleteSalamat po
DeleteGo Kat! I believe you
ReplyDeleteNaniniwala ako sa mga biktima! Its shameful to even admit to yourself that you were abused! Any normal person will not resort to this para lang sumikat at magpapansin! They will not go to great lengths na ikaka sira ng reputation nila nakakahiya yun pero dahil totoo ang pinaglalaban nila ilalaban nila hanggang sa huli! Praise be to god for giving justice to the victims
ReplyDeleteTama po kayo
DeleteWe support you, KAT.
ReplyDeleteAko naniniwala sa yo, Kat.
ReplyDeleteFully support ako kay Kat.
ReplyDeleteLouder Kat!!!
ReplyDeleteI stand with Kath.. y? I was sexually harassed by a doctor, akala nyo madali makapag salita? Hindi. Dahil sa ibang tao na mapang husga , dahil sa bulok na sistema... Tinanggap ko na na I will just keep it to myself for the rest of my life. Pero hindi ako papayagan na kapag nangyari yun sa anak ko eh hindi ako lalaban.
ReplyDeleteRape man un or hindi, bat di ka nagsalita? So ngayon ka magsasabi nyan sa socmed to prove what? Afraid ka na dahil wala ka ebodensya eh mapahiya ka. Hindi lahat ng nagsasabi na jirape sila totoo.
Delete728 were you a victim? Kung hindi, wla kang karapatan na magsabi ng ganyan. Ako, I was sleeping when someone drunk touched me sa may breast area and grabe yung takot ko when I woke up kasi hindi ko alam anong nangyayari. And I never said anyone anything. Ito pa kaya sa kanya na she was drugged and hindi alam ang detalye ng nangyari sa kanya.
DeleteShame on you 7:28
DeleteTrial by publicity kasi ginagawa mo girl. So don't cry kung ganun din ginagawa sayo ng netizens. Don't get me wrong, hindi ko kinakapihan si "rhymeswithwrong relax lang kayo mga classmates, pare-pareho lang tayong sawsawera dito
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. I understand those who are silently grieving and traumatized sa nangyari sa kanila - na hindi madaling i-admit publicly that you were abused.. but she already speak up.. long time ago and yet, wala naman cyang ginawang aksyon after nun.. tapos ngaun nakikikuda cya sa kaso ni Deniece.. mas maingay pa cya dun sa nagfile ng kaso.. I dont get her! Nabasa ko pa dito na may nagmessage na sa kanya before na pwede cyang tulungan para sa kaso but she ignored it.
DeleteHindi ko lubos maisip na madaming nakikisimpatya kay vhong sa fb. Baka nakalimutan nila na may GF si vhong that time pero nandun siya sa condo ng ibang babae. Dun pa lang maling mali. Pinagtatanggol pa nila.
ReplyDeleteI’m on your side Kat and to all the individuals who suffered the same predicament.
ReplyDeleteKawawa naman sya..imbes pakinggan at maintindihan binabash pa..my sister is a victim also..15 years (she’s 30 years old now) bago namin nalaman yung nangyari sa kanya..sobrang sakit sa amin yun..imagine ang tagal nyang dinala yun dahil alam nyo kung bakit? Dahil dala dala nya yung trauma sa nangyari sa kanya at takot na malaman ng ibang tao..sana yung mga tao especially sa mga babaeng nangbabash sa kanya mag isip isip kayo..hindi nyo alam kung ano pakiramdam ng ginawan ng hindi maganda at maging biktima ng rape..
ReplyDeleteSa korte ka magreklamo wag sa twitter.
ReplyDeleteI believe her! 100%
ReplyDeleteSana lumabas talaga ang totoo . Paano kung totoong inabuso sila? 😔
ReplyDeleteKuda ka pa gurl kulang pa.
ReplyDeleteThe problem is you also do not fight fair, you use sympathy card to gain attention and vindicate your “abuser” online.
ReplyDeleteFile a case and you will have my support 100%.
Sana kasi yung iba bago magpakafantard unahin muna magpakatao.
ReplyDelete10:30 tumpak!
DeleteI will include you in my prayers Kat 🙏🏼
ReplyDeleteMaraming mga confidently ignorant among his defenders.
ReplyDeleteThen speak up Kat, share your truth. Di puro cryptic post lang. we need details po
ReplyDeleteDo you think it’s that easy? I was abused too and it took me 2 decades to confide. Please lang. Wag pangunahan ang mga victims. You’ll never know how hard it is.
DeleteGo to YouTube. She spoke about it in TedTalks. Dami niyo ring kuda eh di naman kayo nagresearch.
Deletesino ka para mag explain si kat syo?
DeleteProblema Kasi, bakit Hindi k nag file ng Kaso. Para tuloy ok LNG narape k, Kasi Puro k Kuda s social media. At least ng file k, makukilong at malalaman Ang khypan ng nagtape s iyo.may mga grand k, at si Alex bakit Hindi k ngapatulong.
ReplyDeleteAnd that is the reason why a lot of victims choose to remain silent, me included. The incident/s were shameful enough. Going public and being criticized makes it harder. Thank you Kat for being our voice.
ReplyDeleteSame! I remember I was sexually harrased by a pastor. When I told my leaders, iniisip ko lang daw yun. Worse is, yung iba inisip na nagbigay ako ng motibo. Imagine, I was young and the pastor is more than twice my age pero ako daw nagbigay ng motibo? Nakakapag sisi na nagsabi pa ako, ako pa tuloy napag isipan ng masama.
Deletetight hugs for you *with consent*.
DeleteKaya nga eh. Kesyo nang akit, napag initan si guy, etc. Binawasan pa talaga ng blame mga lalaki 😢
DeleteFile a complaint Kat. Its about time
ReplyDeleteAng kaibahan nila ni Deniece hindi sya nagsayang ng panahon.
DeleteI agree that it is always hard for victims to come out. However, something should be said for victims who choose to fight the accused head on.
ReplyDeleteWhen you choose to be part of a trial the court of public opinion, you will eventually suffer because while you will gain support, you will also get detractors.
problema sa iyo, panay salita ka pag nandyan na yung mainit na issue pero hindi ka magsampa ng kaso. After ng issue, tahimik ka
ReplyDeleteProblema Rin sayo baks Hindi ka Rin makaintindi. Parang nasa talampakan Ang comprehension mo.
DeleteLuh? Rapist apologist?
DeleteYou don't know what she's been through behind those tweets so shut up.
Deletedapat consistent siya sa pinaglalaban niya at magsampa ng kaso sa korte. She can speak about it publicly di ba. So might as well, magsampa ng kaso. Ilang years na ayaw panay salita then mawawala.
Delete11:24 basa muna bago kuda
DeleteWhat she is doing is trial by publicity. Since nag ba blind item na rin naman sya. Why can’t she file a case ? May mga nag offer na din naman daw na maging abogado nya . We can’t just assume na everyone crying to be a victim is really a victim unless they go thru due process. Kaya nga may imbestigasyon. May kilala din akong nag pa victim para lang sirain ang reputasyon ng isang tao. People say she’s afraid to come out . She came out a long time ago pero gusto lang nya trial by publicity.
DeleteI believe her. May lovable charm si guy na d kapani paniwala na magagawa nya yun. But kung isa lang, medyo sketchy e may isa pa so napapaisip yung madami. Let's wait kung May lalabas pa. But I doubt kasi sa bashings na nakukuha ni Kat, baka tumahimik na lang sila.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe her. Lumabas na sya noon bakit di sya nag file ng sarili nya bakit nakiki ride on lang sya sa iba. Nung mainit ang isyu sawsaw sya nung nawala ang isyu tahimik din sya ngayong anjan naman ang isyu sawsaw na naman sya.
DeletePsychopaths are charming
DeleteI agree with 12:18 inconsistent si ate gurl. Parang uso siya pag may gulo about this Vhong vs Deniece case.
DeleteI believed kat. Hinde madali sa totoo lang. Naabuso na din ako noon na hanggang ngAyon sinasarili ko pa din. Una, pag nagsbi ako may maniniwala ba? Ang tao napaka galing manghusga. Kadalsan pagnagsalita ang biktima susukatin na agad ang pagkatao mo
Delete1:54, ang pinagkaiba niyo, ikaw never pa nagsabi. Siya matagal na siyang nagsasalita. She already opened a can of worms, there's nothing to lose kasi alam na ng tao ang nangyari sa kanya. Ano pa yung ikakatakot niya? Kung totoo man na may nagvolunteer na abogado na tulungan siya, why not grab that opportunity to sue the guy? Let the court decide at if ever man matalo siya, at least taas noo niyang masabi that she fought hard and she fought fair and square kaysa ganyan na puro lang siya parinig.
DeleteAng kulit ni 12:18 tapos sya din ang umaagree sa sarili nyang comment!
DeleteCongrats bashers, mas mahihirapan yung silent victims. Kababaeng tao niyo pa naman.
ReplyDeleteexactly! lalo na yung 1st 3 bashers. nakakadiri sila.
DeleteI dare Kat na magsampa ng kaso once and for all. Hindi ka ba nahihiya kay Deniece na lumaban mag-isa noon?Nakulong na't lahat. Sige na para matapos na. Maging matapang ka Kat at least wala kang pagsisisihan dahil ginawa mo ang nararapat.
ReplyDeleteAw c'mon. Napilitan ding lumabas si deneice but she originally intended to resort to street justice. And hindi biro yung pinagdaanan niya sa publiko.
DeleteI dont understand why she kept in ranting via social media. If she was abused then why dont she sue him. ma ba bash talaga sya. she said she was silent? ngayon lng naman sya na bash why didnt she sued him 17 yrs ago.. hinde naman sobrang sikat si vhong, may gabriela na pwede nya g takbuhan.. but she chose to be quiet and then now she keep on ranting
ReplyDeleteIf she is brave enough to come out in socmed then use that to file a case in court. Kaya wala akong paniwala dito sa kwento ni Kat.
DeletePossible na hindi siya nakapagcollect agad ng evidence nung time na yun kaya mahirap isupport kapag nagsampa siya ng kaso. That wouldn’t mean hindi siya narape. Marami sa rape victims ay hindi nagsasampa ng kaso dahil dun. Madalas traumatized sila, nahihiya, hindi alam ang gagawin to gather evidence.
DeleteMaybe because her story has a loophole big enough to bury the case.
Delete6:00 korek, may mya rape victim pa nga na naliligo after the fact dahil duming dumi sila sa mga sarili nila so medyo natatarnish na ang “evidence” na hinahanap ng mga bashers dito.
DeleteBakit di ka magsampa ng kaso Kat Alano,puro ka lang salita.
ReplyDeleteAno ba kayo saying she should file WALA SYANG pera pang file ano ba! Yan ang isa sa main reason po
ReplyDeleteHayaan nyo na sya
Noong height ng DC incident may nag offer na sa kanya na abogado . She can’t just probably prove her case . Maraming alibi pero mahilig lang sa blind item. Ying nangyari tuloy sa cas nya e isang malaking tsismis
DeleteHindi reason ang walang pera.May PAO po at since sikat ang mga involved.Maraming lawyers ang gugustuhing hawakan yan
DeleteI believe her but doubt came across my mind last night when I got to read a column that says she planned to sue Luis Alandy before. So apparently, the latter did kiss and tell to Mo Twister’s “Forbidden Questions” and that Kat was one of the 3 women that he has slept with. It really made me wonder why this news broke out — was released by her and her management whereas the more serious case should have been brought up. I don’t know, napaisip lang ako. The rape happened in 2005 and she kept silent about it. Pero nung nagsalita si Luis Alandy, nagsalita agad. Guys, help me to process this out. Nasabaw ang utak ko. Yung bulalo sabaw nalang natira.
ReplyDeletePareho tayo ng iniisip. Di ko maintindihan yung kay Luis Alandy, considering na wala namang masama since she consented to that, pero yung alleged rape, di sya nagpa korte. I am all for victims of rape and if Kat was really raped, she should bring it forward or else di talaga sya makaka-move on.
DeleteNapa research ako agad regarding this luis alandy chismax ah. Nakakapagtaka nga bakit nung na-rape siya nung 2005, nanahimik siya pero nung nagsabi si luis alandy na may nangyari sa kanila, gusto niya sampahan ng kaso. Naniwala na sana ako eh. I don’t mean to discredit mga rape victims pero itong kay Kat Alano parang shady tuloy kasi bakit ganun nga. I agree with you 11:58 at 6:56. May point kayo.
DeleteBecause recorded siguro pagkakasabi ni luis. Pwedeng libel? Mas mahirap yung evidence sa rape.
DeleteI believe in Kat Alano. Walang babae na mag subject sa sarili nya to what she's gone through these past few years just for publicity. I hope she will find peace and heal from what had happened to her.
ReplyDeleteI'm on the victim side but you could have said his name, exposed him instead of just sharing your experience with a nameless abuser. In a way you let him get away with the crime.
ReplyDeleteI hope she heals and baka pwedeng makahingi sya ng support from PAO if ang issue is pambayad sa abogado, baka matulungan syang mabigyan ng justice ung nangyari sa kanya…
ReplyDeletenapakadaming abogado na nag offer ng tulong. a couple of celebs too. she declined. why is that
DeleteYou can’t blame the wife, asawa niya yon eh. Tama man o mali, she decided to keep her vow - for better or for worse…
ReplyDeleteI don't believe this Kat until she files in court. Mahirap yang ganyan hearsay.
ReplyDeleteSome of you are the reason why she has to defend herself from bashing. Unless you are a rape victim too, manahimik na lang kayo and let her speak her truth. Kababae nyo pa namang tao. Sana di nyo pagdaanan ang pinagdadaanan nya. She has her reasons. Mag google kayo bago kumuda
ReplyDeleteThank you for speaking out.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your truth.
8 years is along time, thank you.
I don't know if i should believe her. Coz personally i think if she was indeed rap3d she should have filed a legal complaint. I just don't understand why she didn't. If her issue is money i think she could have asked help from her friends. Trial by publicity is a no no. File a law suit to prove your case.
ReplyDelete1:18 there are many reasons why a victim takes a long time to come forward, one of them because people don’t believe them, like you just did.
DeleteNaiba kasi panahon ngyon socmed ang way para mapansin waley pa nmn noon un. Ngyon kahit away ng kapitbhay na papanood mo na hahhaha. Tska bka wala syang ebidensya. Tska bka ung image nya noon pakawala i mean ung easy easy girl ganyan kaya cguro naisip nya sino maniniwala sakin. Diba? Katulad nung sa anak nung eheads, ganon magisip at magsalita tatay nya sa knya what more ibang tao noon. Ang difference lang may socmed na ngyon. Imagine tatay nya ang nagsabi sa knya wala maniniwala sa knya. So baka ganon haha! Idk i mean hndi natin malalaman tlga ang truth kung hangang dun lang ang keribels nya. I hope people can just be kind to her victim or not, Para sa future victim hndi nila maisip na they will get bash if they cry for help noh.
DeleteMgbasa ka kasi ano reason nya bakit di sya ngfile ng case
Delete8 years na nagsasalita or 8 years na pagpaparinig? Pangalanan mo na kasi para seryosuhin ka. Obvious naman kung sino yan but mas merit if ikwento mo ano talaga nangyari sayo. Hindi puro passive-aggressive na pagpaparinig
ReplyDeletemost bashers nya ay babae! Grabe kayo magjudge kasi hnd nyu na experience yung naexperience nya.
ReplyDeleteGrabe yung iba kay kat pa galit wag sana nila maranasan yan
DeleteKasi naman, may guts sya mag rant sa social media pero walang guts mag file legally.
Delete7:15 Malamang may trauma. Nakakaintindi ba kayo?
Deletesi Kat pwede yang humingi ng tulong sa mga NGO like Gabriela for the past few years na hindi pinaguusapan itong kaso nila Deniece. Pwede din na humingi siya ng abugado sa PAO.Wag yung paminsan minsan ang issue. Ituloy na niya sa korte.Para maparusahan ang rapist.
ReplyDeletePansin niyo, yung mga nag c comment at nangbabash, pare pareho ng sinasabi? Yung mga nagpapadala naman ng sympathy, mga nabiktima at one point in their lives at nahusgahan or matagal tinago.
ReplyDeleteAng point ay, wag kumuda kung di niyo naranasan, please.
yes! iisa yan!
DeleteGurl hindi nambabash.gusto ng mga tao na mag file sa korte itong Kat para nga naman magkatoon ng credibility.
Delete12:13 bashing pag walang puso ang pag comment dito sa fp
DeleteHer family should have helped her a long time ago. Ranting in socmed won't help you.
ReplyDeleteSa Pinas kasi ikaw na nga na rape ikaw pa epal, may kasalanan, etc. Maraming misogynistic ang utak kaya maraming di nagsasalita pag nangyari sa kanila yan. Sa mga nagsasabing epal si Kat, kung nanay, kapatid, or ikaw mismo ma rape at wala ka pang pera? Ano na? ✌ At teenager pa siya nung nangyari yun. Tingin niyo mature and knowledgeable na siya at that time to know what to do?
ReplyDeleteI believe you, Kat and I stand with you. Ang sasama ng mga ugali ng mga bashers dito. Wala kayong karapatan humusga kung hindi nyo naranasan maabuso! Sana hindi nyo or ka pamilya ninyo maranasan yung naranasan nya
ReplyDeleteGrabe yung mga negative dito. Rape victims are traumatized. Some have the strength to file but others are not as strong. Money is not just the issue here. Pag nasa korte ang rape case, the victims will have to relieve it all over again. Madaming victims ang nananahimik dahil hindi madali mag file at maka recover frok the trauma. Sobrang nakakalungkot na ang mga nag dadown sa kanya ay mga kapwa babae pa. Onting sympathy naman.
ReplyDeleteSa mga bashers dyan, sana di nyo ma experience na ma-rape or yung mga kapatid nyong babae or nanay nyo na maranasan ito. Puro bash kayo ng bash wala naman kayong alam kung anong pakiramdam ng mga rape victims! Kung makapag bash kayo ang wawagas! Sana di yan mangyari sa inyo
ReplyDeleteI believe u kat stay strong..
ReplyDeleteYung mga comment ng iba dito really tells you kung bakit hirap ang mga biktima na magreport o magkaso... If it didn't happen to you, sana wag massume na ganun kasimple yun..
ReplyDeleteKinain na ng sistema, My gosh mag isip kayo! rape is rape. Wag maging panatiko.
ReplyDeleteHoy kayong mga sh*nga, kung hindi nyo naexperience wala kayong karapatan magmarunong. I’m a victim myself and never ako nag report dahil sa mga kagaya nyong mema.
ReplyDeleteOy mas Shu&^a ka.Hindi porket nagpost ang isang artista ay totoo na agad at kailangan paniwalaan ang kwento nila.Anu ka gullible?!?
Delete1220 grabe. Tao ka pa ba? Hinay hinay nman dyan oy!
Delete12:20 kung gusto mo eh di believe all sides kung wala pa naman sa korte yung kaso, pero you take sides and victim blame which is very wrong din naman.
DeleteAng hirap sa iba dito na alam ko naman eh babae din, nagsasabi file a case. Paano sya magfile ng case kung di sufficient ang evidence nya at alam nya na kapag dinala sa court maari syang matalo dahil ang court naten nakabase sa mga evidences. Whether with court case or hone, for her she was raped. Katawan nya yun, alam nya kung binigyan nya pa ng consent yun tao o hindi. Kaya nakakaramdam sya ng finally baka mabigyan ng justice ang nangyari sa kanya dahil meron isang biktima ulit na may hawak na sapat na ebidensya para mapatunayan na ni rape sya. Kahit man lang sa ganun paraan makaramdam si Kat ng justice. Tapos ipagkakait nyo dahil
ReplyDeleteLang sa di sya nakapag file ng case. Maraming rape victims ang takot magsalita dahil
Sa mapanghusga lipunan. Do not invalidate the vixtim’s feelings. Traumatizing na ang rape tapos pagdating sa court uulitin mo kwento ang experience at may kasama pang pambabara ng abogado ng akusado. At dahil artista ang akusado, at may sandamakmak na suporters courtesy of co-host nya at network nya, kahit sinong maliit na tao eh matatakot magsalita.
Alam
If totoo, sana ng file ka. Sawsawers dn to eh. Feel naman ang 15 seconds of fame.
ReplyDeleteWalang puso
Delete6:16 magsasabi ka na victim ka para lang sa 15 seconds of fame? Wala ka sa hulog.
DeleteI support Kat Alano.
ReplyDelete10 years ago in my previous employer, i had a colleague he's the kindest, charming, and intelligent. He's the go-to guy of everyone who needs assistance on anything sa office. He's not that powerful but he has a good position. I didn't believe rumors that he's a "tirador" of newbies and temps sa company until I got the chance to talk to one of his "victims". When I asked her why not report to HR, baka daw matanggal sya sa work and the "ginusto mo naman" stigma. I remember them all kay Kat. Be kind people. Let's just hope and pray na mabigyan ng justice ang real victim.
ReplyDeleteEvery office has this, ang saklap.
DeleteMay ganito kaming naging kaso.Trainer.Tinanggal dahil kinasuhan talaga ng trainee na hinarass niya.
DeleteBy law, a company is required to create a committee to protect a lower rank employee and avoid abuses.
DeleteI followed Kata Alano years ago on Twitter because I stand with her. A woman crying rape needs to be listened to and not bashed. In our country filing a rape case, more so against a well-loved celebrity, is not easy. Women are vilified in court and they are always shamed for their choices. Nakakahiya ang mga lalaki at lalo na ang mga kapwa kong babae na kinakawawa pa lalo ang mga na abuso.
ReplyDeleteShamed na rin naman sya sa pag iingy nya sa socmed so why not file a case in court. Atleast kahit i shame sya posible nya n makamit ang justice na hinahanap nya. Unlike sa socmed mababash lang sya pero walang mapapala.
DeleteI don't believe this girl. She is brave to come out in social media but can't file a complaint in the proper forum. So mas madali sa social media ganon?
ReplyDelete7:14 yes it is
DeleteI also stand by this.Matapang ang ebidensya then go to court
DeleteComplain in court sis.
ReplyDeleteI believe her naman kaya lang nakakainis yung wala syang ginawang hakbang. Yung tapang nya sa socmed dapat ginawan nya ng aksyon. Eh di sana wala ng ibang nabiktima! Yun ikinaiinis ko sa kanya! Tutal alam naman na ng lahat sino tinutukoy nya magdemanda na din sya para mas lumakas ang kaso if she really wants justice! Being passive aggressive won’t give you justice kat.
ReplyDeleteThese bashers do not know the trauma that they’ve been through. I for one, nasilipan lang but am still scared of comfort rooms. I don’t know why they are siding with this wrong guy ☹️
ReplyDeleteI believe and stand with you, Kat and Denise. Truth and justice shall prevail.
No.Ee have to prove these stories in court.Anybody can invent a story.
DeleteGod knows the truth Kat! Forget these bashers! Hold on to your truth! In the end, he will pay for what he did to you and to many more girls. Maybe not in this world, but one way or another he will pay. Hope he’ll grow some balls and just admit to
ReplyDeletehis crimes.
Stop the socmed hanash gurl. Stand up and fight! Gora! Laban!
ReplyDeleteIt takes a lot of courage for a woman to say that she has been rape by someone, esp. if that someone is known. lve read her story years before. She was 19 when she was raped. She did file a case but i guess it didnt just make so much noise that time that is why her story was never heard or been cleared out.
ReplyDeleteShe and her management sued Luis Alandy nang dahil lang sa nag tell-all yung guy kung sino mga girls he had s*x with. Years lang pagitan, mas mabigat yung rape so dapat yun ang mas binigyan ng pansin. Kaya nakapagtataka din.
DeleteI believe her at mahirap din i prove yung rape because she was drugged and probably drunk at that time. Di ko lang gusto yung sobrang tapang nya sa cryptic posts pero di naman nag file ng kaso. FYI, there were people who reached out to her para tulungan sya but she ignored them.
ReplyDeleteGuys personally I’ve experienced to be sexually harassed by my tito when I was 13 and to be honest it was very very very traumatic to me, up to now na may asawa na ako at anak dala dala ko parin. I warned my husband never to touch me especially sa private part ko when I am sleeping kasi nagaanxiety ako pag nagigising ako na someone is touching me. You will never ever understand the pain and trauma unless na experience nyo sya. Ni hindi ko rin nasabi sa family ko or sa parents ko coz I was scared na mapatay ng tatay ko yung tito ko. So I believe her. Ang masakit yung asawa ng tito ko pinapalabas nya sa ibang tao na kasalanan ko dahil inaakit ko daw yung asawa nya. My gosh I was 13 then, nagkikipagpatintero pa nga ako nung mga time na yun. Hindi madali, ikaw na naabuso ikaw pa ang mali.
ReplyDeletei totally sympathize girl. ang problema.. the diff bet you and her is she keeps posting online with hints and whatnot. so does she want to speak out or not? what’s the truth
DeleteTHIS!!! Hindi ganun madali mag salita. Mas madali ang manghusga.
Delete327 gurl, let people speak baka it helps them sa nangyari sa kanila.
DeleteMy gosh 327, eto na nga nag speak out na, kayo lang ang hindi ma kuntento sa forum. Ipilit pa na mag file tapos kung ayaw gusto nyo tumahimik na lang yung tao. Tsk tsk
Delete@12:04 I'm sorry to hear na ba biktima ka din. Ako din I was molested by a very close family member several times habang natutulog. Mahal na mahal ko yung tao na yun kaya wala nalang ako pinagsabihan. It was very traumatic for me na until now I do not want my husband to touch my private parts kung hindi s*xy time. I don't know if I can ever totally heal from it.Sana sa mga taong mapang husga dito, magkaron naman kayo ng konting simpatya.
DeleteKung hindi ganun kadali magsalita.Nakapagpost nga si Kat 8 years ago tungkol sa pinagdaanan niya,Ilagay kasi niya yan sa formal complaint.
Delete12:04 Di mo nasabi sa parents mo pero alam ng tita mo?
DeleteYour tita is a sick person. Only a sick person will say that. Huwag ka paapekto,learn to identify the things that need to be internalized and the things that are from the perception of the person and not abt you.The problem is not you.
DeleteMadali sabihin. Yung victims kahit matagal na nangyari, akala mo okay ka na pero minsan bumabalik. Yung self doubt, yung pity, pagsisi sa sarili.
DeleteI understand Kat. If she happens to name the rapist without proof/evidence, pwede syang kasuhan ng libel.
ReplyDeletePara maintindihan nyo pinagdadaanan ni Kat, please watch her heartbreaking talk in YouTube>>
ReplyDelete"Is rape culture the new social cancer?"
And another 15 mimutes of fame, gone. File a case.
ReplyDeleteI wonder kung ano ang demographic ng fp. Yung mga nangbabash don't sound like women. So my take would be this. As a man, imagine a famous female figure drugging you and r*ping you in the a** with a foreign object. As a hetero man/woman, imagine either a famous man/woman drugging you to r*pe you. As a gay man, would it be easy to tell the world, ____ r*ped me in the a**, considering that most bigoted people would've made fun of you and tell you you must have enjoyed it? As a man, can you say, this famous woman r*ped me without people saying that you must be thankful she gave you the time of the day? Etc. etc.
ReplyDeletekorek
DeleteGrabe kayo nga bashers. You don’t know anything kaya shut up na lang kayo just pray for the victims.
ReplyDeleteYou also don't know anything Anonymous! So don't bother us.
DeleteAno problema ng mga tao sa rape victims? At may sinasabi pa na "baka hindi rape nangyari" kakasuka mga ugali nyo. Rape kapag walang consent, kahit mag.asawa o magkaibigan, pag walang consent rape! Kayo siguro yung mapagsamantala. Yung mga nang-aabuso tas ejajustify pa yung ginawang abuse. Sa mga walang modo jan sa rape victims, sana kayo na susunod ma.abuse, para makarelate kayo.
ReplyDeleteGo, Kat!!!
ReplyDeleteI was molested when I was young. Sa mga nangbabash po at hindi po makaintindi, mahirap po mag speak up kung sa inyo po nangyari ito. Hindi po ganun kadali mag file ng complain or kahit sabihin man lang sa family or close friends nyo na nangyari sa inyo to. Hindi nyo po maiintindihan kung di nyo po napagdaanan. Pasensya na po kung mali po sa paningin nyo na hindi nakakapagsalita kaagad ang nabiktima.
ReplyDeleteIt’s sickening how many women victims are coming out and saying they have been shamed and silenced by their own family. How many more are still out there who can’t come out with their own story out of fear or because there’s no one to support them. It’s a failure of humanity. And Kat hesitates to file a case because it’s costly? Is that how inaccessible courts are??? Can’t this be easily handled by PAO? These men must be put behind bars or they’ll just keep on doing this to other women. How horrifying that they walk among us!
ReplyDeleteParang iisa lang yata yung paulit ulit na nag sasabi ng “file a case”, “sawsawera”, “ginagamit ang socmed”…
ReplyDeleteYes, you have a point BUT you REFUSE to understand the point of the victim.
You want people to see your point BUT you simply do not want to see the victim’s point.
Please stop.
Sobrang iba ng platform na ito compared sa isang forum na mga nanay ang kasali. Nakakita ako na may isang nakapagwork with women in crisis: ang priority daw sa rape cases ay yung victim. Kung paano siya magiging safe, malayo sa nagsamantala sa kanya, para sa wellbeing at mental health niya, etc.
ReplyDeleteNapakahirap kasi talaga. so yung mga nanonood lang na kung makamando, sobra. hindi sila nakakatulong at all.
Doon kayo.You should realize that all comments are ok here.So may mga hindi naniniwala kay Kat.
DeleteNakakalungkot. I'm not a SA victim but I have enough empathy and sense of mind to understand how hard it is to just speak up and say something. This comment section alone is a glaring proof why people are afraid to speak up. The judgment, the holier-than-though, the "edi mag file ka kaso", "bat wala ka ginawa," as if it's that easy. You don't know how this affects your mind, how fear of judgment and that no one will listen, the need to relive the experience and tell the story, and so many others... Para sa mga nagmamagaling jan, bago nyo sabihan mga SA victims kung ano dapat gawin, I pray to God you never experience assault so that YOU may not know first hand how difficult it is to speak up.
ReplyDeleteGanyan din ako sa shunga dati baks but I watch a lot of true crime stories and may mga kasong mafrufrustrate ka maski nakikinig ka lang nman o kaya ang tagal ng nangyari. It is not easy na patunayan ang isang krimen lalo na sa harap ng hukuman at magagaling ang abogado. And yes, may mga instances na yung rape victim eh ayaw magkaso or nagkaso pero hindi tinuloy kasi isasalaysay na nman nya ang nangyari sa kanya. She was almost k!lled and was raped pero nabuhay pa sya. Ayun nakapagbiktima na nman kaya may kaso ulit kaya natalakay yung nangyari sa kanya. Hindi nman kasi ibig sabihin na true yung rape eh yun na ang truth sa korte. Himayhimayin pa yan at gaya nung nangyari kay Deniece, character assassination naman ang gawin.
DeleteAnyone can make up a story.Kaya kailangan magfile ng kaso para mapatunayan yung rape at mabigyan hustisya.Stop trial by publicity.
DeleteAndami na din dito nagsalita na pero ni invalidate naman experience nila. 😢
DeleteSana hindi mga babae yung mga nag kukwestyon kay Kat. I was a victim too. Victim ng coworker ko. Pero di ako nag file ng case, di na din nag reklamo because when I told my manager about it, who btw is a woman too, sinabi na kasalanan ko daw kasi nakipag inuman ako sa coworker ko during a party na present din naman si manager. Isipin ko daw may pamilya si rapist. Then sinabi ko sa mom at tita ko, ang sagot din sa akin ng mom ko, kasalanan ko daw kasi nakipag inuman ako sa lalaki. Pati tita ko yun din sabi sa akin. So kanino tatakbo ang isang biktima na tulad ko? Sa sobrang feeling ko violated ako, di ako makapag work maayos and sobrang galit na galit at diring diri ako sa rapist na yun everytime nakikita ko sa work. Nag quit ako sa work after a week dahil di ko na kinaya. Up to now, wala na ako ibang pinagsabihan ng nangyari sa akin dahil sa culture ng victim blaming.
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