12:28 ; 12:41 if people have nothing good to say probably they should just shut their mouth . Baka dahilan pa ang mga hurtful words nila sa PPD or PPPsychosis ng isang nanay.
Judgemental ako OK mukhang walang kisame at plywood yung dingding kung san sya nag stay Since may fame naman sya i can think of ways na pwede sya kumita sa social media but not posting things like this obviously may hirap at pagsisisi din obvious naman sa video kahit i deny nya pa Sana may mag advice sa kanya na social media manager or whatever na may alam, she can get ex deals baby products whatever kung ma iayos lang ang social media presence nya
I agree na she should use her influence kasi kilala naman sya kahit papano to get engagements and endorsements pero not fond of the idea na gamitin nya yung anak nya for it. Wag na natin dagdagan yun mga influencers na gamit na gamit ang mga walang muwang na bata for money
Tigilan nga nila yung “blessing yan” underage pa sya nung nabuntis pano naman naging blessing yun? More like pasakit lang sa anak nya at pinanganak sya ng hindi pa sya ready. Ngayon, anong buhay ibibigay nya sa anak nya? Katulad ng naging mahirap nyang buhay, na hanggang ngayon ganun pa din. I’m talking to all irresponsible kids na anak ng anak ng bata palang sila tapos tatawaging “blessing”
Ganyan talaga baks pag unplanned pregnancy sabihing blessing chenes. Sa mga magulang ako naawa dahil pasan nila ang burden then gawin pang tagabantay ng bata. Witnessed that so many times.
Agree sizt. Stop romanticizing having a baby specially unplanned, at habang minor pa lang. Sa hirap ng buhay ngayon aba dapat lahat ng steps mo planuhin mo! Hindi lahat ng binibigay sayo blessing at ipagbahala na lang kay Lord! Maawa naman kayo dyan sa sinasabi nyong blessing. Kung ano yung naranasan nyong hirap sa buhay malamang yun din mararanasan nila.
Shunga rin naman kasi sya pumili ng background song eh ayan tuloy namisinterpret ng viewers lol Gusto ko sya bigyan ng benefit of the doubt kahit kita sa mata sadness nya, siguro pagod lang talaga gawa ng puyat kay baby. Go rita
yes her baby can still be a blessing to her... she's still known naman sa social media, so may chance na may tumulong sa kanya... we are still not sure kung maghihirap yung bata so let's not judge her.
Wala na rin ata yung kumupkop sa kanya pinatira sya sa manila at helping her to join pageant kaya lang nabuntis sya nasira ang plan mukhang disappointed din yun tutulong sana sa Kanya wala na sya dun
pansin ko lang madami sa mga marites dito are; 1 - ayaw magkababy, ayaw sa bata 2 - victim blaiming sa mga nabuntis out of wedlock 3 - pro-abortion
Yeah its her fault and yes the baby is more of a responsibility than a blessing, but what do you want her to call her baby? Salot? Malas? Problema? Would that help her? Hindi naman diba...
Not everything in this life can be 'planned' ... minsan kahit anong plano mo certain things will happen to your life na hindi mo inaasahan and masisira lahat ng plinano mo.
How come na "victim blaming" doon when people just stating na hndi okay ang unplanned pregnancy? Pati, from what i can see here, hndi wedlock but more on early/young pregnancy.
"what do you want her to call her baby?" - The problem is not the baby but her irresponsibility. The baby wouldn't be born if she's responsible, correct?
I know that not everything is controllable but we are talking about responsible baby planning here and that's of course controllable and manageable.
For me just don't know if this will be applicable to others, mas maganda find time to pray and find time to talk to friends and relatives what's going on you and how you feel and fill your heart the feelings of how wonderful it is to be a mother.Nurture your baby with that love.And lastly, no need to show your baby publicly and never use her on TIKtok, bata pa yan to involved her to those activities di na maganda yan, para sa akin lang ha ?
People now a days sobrang judgemental. Puro na lang mali ng tao ang nakikita at paninisi ang lumalabas sa mga isipan. Kahit bali baliktarin pa rin naman ang sitwasyon, ganun na ang nangyari eh. Maybe its just her fate na ganyan mangyayari sa buhay nya and we cant even refuse about it. Malamang matatawag nyang blessing anak nya kaysa naman tawagin nyang malas sa buhay nya?edi mas e bash nya nman sya🤣 Di ba pwedeng support at encourage na lg natin siya. May kanya-kanya nman tayong buhay. Just focus ourselves mga madi di tayo perfect. God bless☺️
imbes na sabihan ng mga encouraging words..... my goodness
ReplyDeleteLike what?
Delete12:28 encourage her for what? alam naman na nya gagawin sa buhay nya at marami naman syang alam sa buhay.
Delete12:41 how about wishing good health and safety for the baby instead of critisizing the mother? All this negativity is also not good for postpartum
Delete12:28 ; 12:41 if people have nothing good to say probably they should just shut their mouth . Baka dahilan pa ang mga hurtful words nila sa PPD or PPPsychosis ng isang nanay.
Deletepaladisisyon si ate 🤣
Deletelavarn lang girl
ReplyDeleteJudgemental ako OK mukhang walang kisame at plywood yung dingding kung san sya nag stay
ReplyDeleteSince may fame naman sya i can think of ways na pwede sya kumita sa social media but not posting things like this obviously may hirap at pagsisisi din obvious naman sa video kahit i deny nya pa
Sana may mag advice sa kanya na social media manager or whatever na may alam, she can get ex deals baby products whatever kung ma iayos lang ang social media presence nya
I agree na she should use her influence kasi kilala naman sya kahit papano to get engagements and endorsements pero not fond of the idea na gamitin nya yung anak nya for it. Wag na natin dagdagan yun mga influencers na gamit na gamit ang mga walang muwang na bata for money
Delete1:45 she can still do it without using her baby FYI
DeleteMaraming ways sana mabigyan sya magandang advice on how to utilize her fame
1:45 kung magagamit naman para rin sa needs ng baby. Kesa naman pati baby niya nga nga
DeleteDaming negativity, daming righteous as if mga tama lahat ang decision. If nothing good to say, let your words left unsaid.
DeleteAs a first time parent, halatang hindi sya masaya sa vid.
ReplyDeleteTigilan nga nila yung “blessing yan” underage pa sya nung nabuntis pano naman naging blessing yun? More like pasakit lang sa anak nya at pinanganak sya ng hindi pa sya ready. Ngayon, anong buhay ibibigay nya sa anak nya? Katulad ng naging mahirap nyang buhay, na hanggang ngayon ganun pa din. I’m talking to all irresponsible kids na anak ng anak ng bata palang sila tapos tatawaging “blessing”
ReplyDeleteTapos ang papasan ng responsibilidad mga magulang nila. Nakakastress diba?
DeleteGanyan talaga baks pag unplanned pregnancy sabihing blessing chenes. Sa mga magulang ako naawa dahil pasan nila ang burden then gawin pang tagabantay ng bata. Witnessed that so many times.
DeleteAgree sizt. Stop romanticizing having a baby specially unplanned, at habang minor pa lang. Sa hirap ng buhay ngayon aba dapat lahat ng steps mo planuhin mo! Hindi lahat ng binibigay sayo blessing at ipagbahala na lang kay Lord! Maawa naman kayo dyan sa sinasabi nyong blessing. Kung ano yung naranasan nyong hirap sa buhay malamang yun din mararanasan nila.
DeleteShunga rin naman kasi sya pumili ng background song eh ayan tuloy namisinterpret ng viewers lol Gusto ko sya bigyan ng benefit of the doubt kahit kita sa mata sadness nya, siguro pagod lang talaga gawa ng puyat kay baby. Go rita
ReplyDeleteHay, sayang this girl.
ReplyDeleteBlessing kung sa blessing, pero kung maghihirap lang ung anak mo, blessing ba sa kanya yun?
ReplyDeleteyes her baby can still be a blessing to her... she's still known naman sa social media, so may chance na may tumulong sa kanya... we are still not sure kung maghihirap yung bata so let's not judge her.
DeleteWala na rin ata yung kumupkop sa kanya pinatira sya sa manila at helping her to join pageant kaya lang nabuntis sya nasira ang plan mukhang disappointed din yun tutulong sana sa Kanya wala na sya dun
ReplyDeletesayang this gurl
ReplyDeletepansin ko lang madami sa mga marites dito are; 1 - ayaw magkababy, ayaw sa bata 2 - victim blaiming sa mga nabuntis out of wedlock 3 - pro-abortion
ReplyDeleteYeah its her fault and yes the baby is more of a responsibility than a blessing, but what do you want her to call her baby? Salot? Malas? Problema? Would that help her? Hindi naman diba...
Not everything in this life can be 'planned' ... minsan kahit anong plano mo certain things will happen to your life na hindi mo inaasahan and masisira lahat ng plinano mo.
How come na "victim blaming" doon when people just stating na hndi okay ang unplanned pregnancy? Pati, from what i can see here, hndi wedlock but more on early/young pregnancy.
Delete"what do you want her to call her baby?" - The problem is not the baby but her irresponsibility. The baby wouldn't be born if she's responsible, correct?
DeleteI know that not everything is controllable but we are talking about responsible baby planning here and that's of course controllable and manageable.
That's real talk gurl. Early pregnancy should never be romanticized. Nasapol ka lang siguro sa comments.
DeleteMay post partum ba sya? Hope she gets help she needs.
ReplyDeleteNgayon drama drama ka diyan haha
ReplyDeleteShe still a single mom. The fact na hndi sila kasal ng bf nya.
ReplyDeleteFor me just don't know if this will be applicable to others, mas maganda find time to pray and find time to talk to friends and relatives what's going on you and how you feel and fill your heart the feelings of how wonderful it is to be a mother.Nurture your baby with that love.And lastly, no need to show your baby publicly and never use her on TIKtok, bata pa yan to involved her to those activities di na maganda yan, para sa akin lang ha ?
ReplyDeletePunta ka kay Tulfo bigyan ka ng PERA at bahay konting iyak lang pak ganern!😊
ReplyDeleteShe could have reach places. To be very mapusok tapos bigla nawala pangarap nya. She should go back to school, education is important for a woman.
ReplyDeleteSana wag muna nyang sundan, mag focus muna sya sa isa lang since ambata pa nya. I wish her well and be strong Rita. You got this girl!
ReplyDeletePeople now a days sobrang judgemental. Puro na lang mali ng tao ang nakikita at paninisi ang lumalabas sa mga isipan. Kahit bali baliktarin pa rin naman ang sitwasyon, ganun na ang nangyari eh. Maybe its just her fate na ganyan mangyayari sa buhay nya and we cant even refuse about it. Malamang matatawag nyang blessing anak nya kaysa naman tawagin nyang malas sa buhay nya?edi mas e bash nya nman sya🤣 Di ba pwedeng support at encourage na lg natin siya. May kanya-kanya nman tayong buhay. Just focus ourselves mga madi di tayo perfect. God bless☺️
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