@ricaperalejo Replying to @Erma Gavilaga you do you, i do me ok 👍🏻 respect for my style and respect for children’s developmental stage! 😉 #childhooddeveleopment #toilettraining ♬ original sound - Rica Peralejo Bonifacio
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ilang taon na ba anak niyang nag da diaper pa? at anong pinagsasabi niyang organic?
ReplyDeleteBaks natural way ang ibig nyang sabihin ng organic. Yung ready na ang bagets, hindi pilit.
Deletediba nakakaapekto sa paglaki o sa pagtanda ng bata pag di trained sa pagdudumi? ano na nga ba ibig sabihin non?
ReplyDeletehindi daw pinipilit ang pag toilet train? eh diba makakaapekto yan pag may isip na ang isang tao?
ReplyDeleteDifferent parents different method kasi yan wala na paki alamanan
ReplyDeleteDi naman sya pabayang ina
Kaloka pinapatulan pa kasi.
ReplyDeletepretty pa rin ni rica
ReplyDeleteAng haba naman ng sinabi nya. I tuned out already. Basta when they're ready. Yun na yun.
ReplyDeleteKung ako sayo Rica hindi mo na dapat sinagot yan. Maliit na bagay lang ang haba haba ng explanation mo.
ReplyDeleteKaya hindi ko tinapos. Diaper lang ang topic kung anu ano nang sinabe.
DeleteLol, kalokohan ka na.. Dagdag basura pa yang diaper na yan, na tipong pwede mo naman maturuan, baka kasi ayaw mo lang ma hassle pagtuturo kaya sige na lang
ReplyDelete12:16 even si kristen bell parang same style ng parenting. I know her daughter was already older than most and still wore a diaper, she talked about it sa isang talk show din. Depende na rin yan sa developmental stage ng bata, some are slower than others. Don’t be so judgmental. Basta she is in contact with her pediatrician, ok na yun.
Deletehindi ganun kadali sis 12:16. they encourage potty training at 18 mos, but also more importantly, when they're ready. at 4 yo though they have to lose their diapers, schools won't accept kids who are still in diapers. However, we have polyclinics here for special cases like that because of the urgency. Please also note that an underlying illness can also cause this difficulty. My 3 yo has since been introduced to potty training, there are times he would most often than not he won't. Especially during winter, warm kasi pag may diaper. but yeah we still have a year to go
DeleteInstinct na rin ba yan
ReplyDeleteKasi pag go na go na talaga e
Diba makaka catch ng nanay then obviously iga guide
Hanggang repeat process up to the child can do it na as grow older
Ganern jusko let her be
Started to toilet train my kids before they turned three. Pag sa gabi routine ko ang pag gising sa kanila ng around 1am. Tulog agad ulit sila pag balik sa bed. In less than a month sila na ang gumigising para mag wiwi. They wale me up to help them in the bathroom. No fuss. Then they easily sleep again. It's good I did this kasi less gastos sa diaPHer.
ReplyDeleteThanks sa tip. 1 y/o pa lang kid ko and iniisip ko paano i approach to. But I do plan to train sooner rather than later kasi nabobother ako sa waste.
DeleteSam here, month before mag 3. Effort tlaga sa una. Ang dami kung pakulo. Mag bibigay ako ng small chocolate pag mag kusa magpupunta sa toilet. Less than a month ok. Until now mag 7 na sya hindi nagkaihi sa bed nya.
DeleteIf you're a SAHM, you will see cues that can guide you which helped me toilet trained my then 2 year old son. Maybe because Rica and her fam are always on the go kaya mahirap ma-timingan.
DeleteSame 12:30. At age 2 i started training my son na din. At 1st struggle pa yan kasi talagang di maka popo and ihi pag di sa diaper so what i did pinagsuot ko pa rin ng diaper while pinapaupo ko na sa potty trainer. Eventually na gets nya rin yung concept. Pinapanood ko rin sya nga mga potty training videos sa youtube. Hindi madali but doable pag pinagtiyagaan mo lang. Unang gabi without diaper umihi talaga sa bed but that was it one time lang. After that sya na nagkukusa bumangon para umihi. Mas madali for me ang phase na yun kasi SAHM ako kaya di rin ako nagja judge sa mga working moms. Kumbaga whatever is comfortable sa mga mommies. You do you.
DeleteAgree 8:48. You'll know pag ready na ang bata. 12:44, if gusto mo less waste, try cloth diapers. Cloth gamit ko sa eldest ko (potty trained at 2.5 yrs old, nagkaron ng bed wetting maybe 2-3x lang) and sa newborn ko now. May learning curve lang pero for me sulit naman kasi uung diapers ng panganay ko nagagamit pa rin ng newborn ko ( 6 yrs old na si eldest). Waste rin main motivation ko kaya i opted to use cloth. Pati wipes namin cloth din
DeleteYung anak ko 5 year old naka diaper pa haha tapos 6 na siya nung fully potty trained tapos 10 na siya ngayon at never umihi sa pants niya or higaan niya.
ReplyDeletedapat lang naman na hindi na siya umiihi sa pants at higaan at that age. haller!?
DeleteHaler ka dyan 6 years old siya never umihi sa higaan or pants. Madami akong kilalang bata na naihi minsan sa pants at madalas sa higaan duh
DeleteHello po sa dinami dami ng bata sa mundo marami pa rin naiihi sa mga higaan nila. Haller haller
DeleteKanya kanyang parenting style. Pero triggered si Rica haba ng reply lol
ReplyDeleteyou can't force a child. mas mahihirapan ka lang pag you'll force it.
ReplyDeleteyou don't have to force them. just train them... kung nakakapagsalita na sila, they will be able to express themselves already.
DeleteAgree. At my trauma sa kanila...
DeleteYou don't have to force. You can actually do it gently and there are several ways to do it such as putting the potty next to you in the toilet. You sit on the bowl, and you let him follow you.
DeleteDi naman kasi kelangan i-force na to the point papagalitan mo na or papaluin. Unti-untiin mo kaya need talaga ng tiyaga for it. Baka busy si Rica kaya understandable din naman na opt nya diaper na lang.
DeleteI'm sorry netizen pero why follow her at all? Why watch her? Why take the time to comment on her post? That's different from commenting dito sa FP since madami dito Marites lang period and comment on what FP posts. Following her and consumer her content, that's a whole level of bakeeeet. lol
ReplyDeleteI did the same for my toddlers, I showed them all the time paano mg pee sa toilet, sa simula ayaw nila sundin, so hinayaan ko lang (though i still set a goal na dapat by 4 wala na diaper) until bigla nalang at 3.5 yrs old ngsabi na "mama i want to practice" then yun dre-dretso na na kusang mgpanty and mg toilet. Though i'm not aware dun sa mga effect2x sa bladder, but I remember anal fixation sa psychology. None of those made me decide to do it that way, ayaw ko lang talaga iforce sa kanila and want to give them freedom.
ReplyDeleteI potty trained my son after he turned 2 kasi sabi sa research yan daw ang window ng time na thry easily learn. What motivated us is yung gastos sa diaper at harm sa environment. A lot of environmental waste come from diapers.
ReplyDeleteEarly sttict potty training kasi can lead to OCD.. wait til the kid is reaDy un lng un natutunan ko sa psyche..
ReplyDeleteAko bago mag 2 yr old anak ko potty trained na. Hindi madali may mga moments na bigla syang naiihi o nadudumi sa living room pero carry naman. Kaya bago sya mag 3 potty trained na sya at at kahit sa pqggamit ng bote para sa padded 1 yr old stop ko na din. Sippy cup na gamit nya.
ReplyDeleteAko din, di ko pinilit. True naman. Yung anak ko na ayaw mag diaper. Siya na nagsabi na syop na daw sya mag diaper.
ReplyDeletewell that is her belief. pero i don't agree with her. anyway iba iba naman ang paniniwala ng mga tao. kasi kids 2 y/o and above can already express themselves nakakapag salita na yang mga yan. nasasabi na nila kung wiwi o pupu sila, or kung nagugutom sila, kaya pwede na talaga i potty train. But 4? 5? years old na umiihi at pumupupu pa rin sa diaper, medyo para sa akin, ay too old na not to be potty trained. all my 3 kids also stopped drinking milk from the bottle at 3 y/o. i weaned them na para sa baso na sila mag-milk. btw, Rica's face looks so weird... parang ang tanda nya tingnan...
ReplyDeleteShe's justifying her actions. Napaka righteous pa naman yan.
DeleteMga mamsh. It really depends sa child niyo ang readiness sa pagpopotty train. Factors would include that your child is already walking and able na siya to verbalize na he/she about to pass.
ReplyDeleteWag nyo na kasi pinakikialaman pati toilet training ng anak ng ibang tao. Kanya kanyang pag papalaki ng anak, wag ma opinion masyado. D lahat ng bata kasing henyo ng mga anak nyo, cge na kayo na.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Rica. I also waited till my child was very much ready and eager to learn how to potty. Potty trained at 2.5yrs old.
ReplyDeletePero she’s 3 now, still wears diaper at night kasi mantika sya matulog talaga. Eh ang bigat bigat nya buhatin papuntang toilet, may back pain probs ako so keber. Siguro naman bago sya mag 18 di na sya mag diaper sa gabi. LOL.
Ok lang naman na hindi magpotty train. Marami naman yata syang pera pambili ng diapers 😅
ReplyDeleteWalang bilang dapat Yung sinasabi ng mga Di marunong mag spelling ng DIAPHER
ReplyDeleteBest to potty train toddlers when they can already express themselves, so they can communicate when they need to pee or poop.
ReplyDeleteWe started potty training my son since he was 2, hindi talaga nya gusto even tho we saw signs that he was ready. He was fully potty trained by 4.5 y/o. So ang tip ko lang, wag judgmental sa mga parents. Mahirap pinagdadaanan nila, hindi ito phone that u can shut down or close an app if nabbwisit o nahihirapan na kayo. Be kind.
ReplyDeleteNaalala ko grade 2 eldest ko yung isang classmate nya naka diaper pa sa school and dumedede pa rin sa bottle. Medyo na wendang ako sori naman. Tapos nung nasa high school na sila same school pa rin tapos may gf na yung classmate nya. Sabi nung guard sa school parang kelan lang dumedede pa to at naka diaper pagpasok sa gate naka dede pa ngayon may gf na. Wahaha! 😂
ReplyDeleteWala lang naalala ko lang.
Nagbobottle pa rin ako until I was in Grade 1. Naalala ko kasi mga classmates ko may baon juice, choco drink,.etc, ako gatas baon lo sa bottle. Hehe.
DeleteIt's not something you force, it's something you teach. This is what a parent is supposed to do, make the decision for the kid. You've got to start from somewhere while keeping up with their pace.
ReplyDeleteAgree!
Deletenot sure sa pinas,coz here in US kids shld be toilet trained before they started going to scho.
ReplyDeleteyou don’t force your kids you teach them.hi di yung sasagarin until wala nang matakbuhan saka tuturuan ng tama.hust like what she said anak nua di na pinapapasok ng mall kasi nasanay ng nakahubad.if sinanay nya yo wear thin,comfortable clothes rhen sanay na may damit.
ReplyDeleteAnak ko nung 2.5 sya kusang ginusto magpopo sa toilet. Panu sumasama ba naman palagi tuwing eebs ako kaya gaya gaya rin sya. No need na training sa kanya. 😆 kaya best way is to teach by example kumbaga.
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