Sagutin na lang nya nang diretso si Dennis nang manahimik na. Wag na magpa-martyr effect. Isang diretsong sagot na lang at nang di nyo na kailangang mag-hide sa bubble nyo.
Kaya nga. Issue nilang dalawa un eh. Nadadamay pa un mga anak nila. Marjorie vs. Dennis naman. Sila un magkarelasyon noon eh. Nagtatago si Marjorie sa saya ni Julia
What good will it bring? Para mag-ungkat ulit ng past at magkasakitan ulit. Don't be pulled into a toxic person's cycle. Dapat sa ganyang klaseng tao, cut ties na lang talaga.
sa klase ng ugali ni dennis hindi yan matitinag nakita mo naman yung open letter ng bunso nila may nagbago ba, lalo kung nanay pa baka madagdagan lang yang kaekekan ni dennis.
My brother-in-law did a number to my sister so they separated. He was having an affair and had a 12 year old kid already. After 2 years without communication their son was going to get married. They talked and apparently he was living with the other woman already. Anyway my sister was civil towards him and let's their kids have time with their father. No hate. At the end of the day the kids should not hate their parents.
Hindi lahat pareho ng kwento. At malamang alam na nila na ganyan si Dennis kaya hindi na nila sinasgot at pinapansin. May ganung level talaga na pag ayaw mo na you just withdraw and keep quiet. Wala naman mararating sagutan at diretshahan bec they're way past that stage. Years na dumaan, now pa ba? Nabuhay na sila na wala tatay nila.. para saan pa? Hindi lahat kakayanin na no hate between child and parent. Meron talaga yung hindi na heal na trauma and dapat walang pilitan... respeto nalang sa gusto nila
Malaki ang role ng nanay dito. If I was in Marjorie's shoes I'll let the kids have a relationship with the dad kahit pa hindi gaano nagkikita basta open lang communication. Mentally mas magaan yun for everyone. But of course this is just me.
Julia maybe “echosera” sometimes, you know what I mean. Pero we can’t tell her na hindi sya naging mabuti sa family nya. May point na sya ang nagapapa-aral sa mga kapatid nya. Madami din sya pinag daanan since kid sya and tinaguyod talaga nya ang sarili nya at family nya.
But this shouldn't be on dennis, dapat kay marj ito. She was the mother. If the father is incapable, hindi anak ang dapat magtaguyod but the mom especially na malakas sya. Imagine, julia had to go through those things kasi di na nga able ang dad nya, yung mom nya is somehow iniasa pa sa kanya.
True, 1:23. I don't think Marjorie couldn't find work. Naging politician pa nga di ba? I just think she couldn't earn enough to support the kind of lifestyle they wanted.
And somehow it's just the dad's fault? Walang kasalanan ang nanay? I dunno, lahat tayo Marites lang, we don't know what really happened between them. Pero kung pare-parehas na sila masay sa mga buhay nila bakit walang forgiveness?
1:23 oh please, nag-aartista din naman si Marjorie nuon pero not enough. Kaya gumawa ng paraan, humingi ng tulong sa mga kapatid and eventually was able to buy their own 1-bedroom townhouse (as per the interview). Yung ginawa ni Dennis na hindi sila suportahan tapos bumuo na naman ng panibagong family was so irresponsible at talagang ikakasama ng loob ng kahit sino pang anak. And Julia said that once she earned money,Marjorie advised her to invest it in property. Asan dun ang pabaya and money-hungry mom that you paint her to be?
Agree... Kaya hindi amenable ang co parenting dito sa Pinas kasi kadalasan ang parent na naiwan obliges the kids to take sides. Na pag galit ako sa tatay nyo, dapat galit rin kayo sa kanya (and vice versa).
Although feel ko rin ang hurt ni Julia and Leon kay Dennis, nasaktan rin talaga sila. But bottomline is issue ito ni Marj and Dennis
Ako feeling ko labas si Marjorie doon. Relationship ng father-children yan e. Yung mga pinaggagawa ni Dennis is directly naapektuhan mga bata, labas si Marjorie doon.
Huh iba yung kina Marj and Dennis.. iba din between father and kids. May issue sila sa tatay nila eh... tapos na yung kina Marj and Dennis hiwalay nga sila diba? Bakit sila magtutuos? Pag hiwalay na, kanya kanya kayo gawin ang responsibility nyo. I'm a single mom and hindi ako nag demand sa ex ko, nasa kanya na maging responsible. Kung ayaw nya at magulo sya kausap, bahala sya. Parent ka alam mo ano obligation mo.
Adult na si Julia and even lives on her own, anong co-parenting pinagsasabi nyo? He was barely visible when she was growing up as a teenager, ngayon pa ba nya ifoforce ang sarili? Away na ito ng 2 adults, labas na si Marjorie dyan. Hindi porke't tatay sya ay ipipilit nyang sya ang tama at dapat masunod.
Same. My biological father is as dead beat as they come. People around me- relatives included, would always tell me to forgive and let it go. No. Its not easy to relive trauma over and over again because of filial duty. We shouldn’t be bound by it because we are human beings, too! We deserve to be respected.
Agree. Even people stating this is merely an issue between Dennis and Marjorie. No way. The kids also went through hard times because of their dad. Look how he crucifies them publicly - much worse in private, no doubt. Though I agree that the mom should IDEALLY intervene and speak to the dad on behalf of the kids, the kids here are mostly adults. Besides, how do we know she hasn't tried?? Also, she knows him. He seems too stubborn and doesn't listen - even the public has seen that. He only hears what he wants to hear. Engaging with someone this toxic and narcissistic will only extend and make things worse.
Nakaka awa din yung mga batang katulad kay Julia hano. Di naman nila pinili ipanganak pero kung maka sumbat yung tatay na nang iwan sakanila and the person who brought hardship to their lives, parang hiniling nung mga batang ipanganak sila. Tsk tsk
Sana matigil na yung mga statement na “kahit ano pa ginawa ng magulang mo, magulang mo pa rin yan.” As if those kids asked their deadbeat dad to be born
Ha eh may trabaho si Dennis nung mga panahon na magkasama sila ni Marjorie. One of the top comedian siya ng Viva. Nagumpisa siyang sidekick ni Robin tapos nag comedy na sila nina Andrew E, Janno, Anjo etc. After nun, nagkonsehal pa siya. Kay Marjorie nga ako walang maalalang naging stable work
Thats not the point @2:48 He was an awful father to them. Magiging ganyan ba sila lahat towards Dennis kung matino siya? Be grateful that you didn’t experience what they went through. I did. So I totally understand why they choose to shut him out.
Ayan yung kinakasama ng luob siguro ni Dennis kasi pinapalabas ng deadbeat dad sha. Ng lumamlam career nya, nagkaproblema na sila sa pera at dun na nagsimula away at pagkakahiwalay. Marjorie needs to acknowledge that Dennis did some good in their lives. Which she failed to let her children know and feel and realize kaya ganun galit nila.
Grabe nman mkadeadbeat. Naging provider naman talaga sya nung sila pa. Siguro nawala nung ngtatrabaho na si julia. Pro para sabihing deadbeat talaga grabe naman
2:48 nung time ng katanyagan ni Dennis yan yung time na iniwan nya pamilya nya kay Marjorie. Matindi hiwalayan nila kaya posible hindi siya nagsustento. Mga kapatid ni Marjorie tumulong kay Marjorie non na buhayin mga anak nya.Kaya di mo masasabing wala pera si Dennis non kaya di nagsuporta sa mga anak nya. Marami nga siyang raket non kaya nga may naging pamilya pa ulit after nila ni Marjorie. Maraming naging babae si Dennis lahat yon naanakan nya. May pakinabang na sa mga bata kaya biglang nagiging ama kuno
How can you say deadbeat father? When everything we read is what Marjorie has been saying while he kept quiet. And now that he wants to defend himself sinasabihan oy lalaki ka wag magsalita. Kala ko ba pinaglalaban for generations equality Deadbeat walang trabaho. As far as i know meron naman siya maski papano
hay naku, mas alam nila marj at mga anak nya kung ano tunay na nangyari. Kaya nga pinababayaan nalang nila si Dennis mag tatalak.
Deadma na sila. Open book naman ang buhay nila. sila Claudine at Greta ang tumulong itaguyod ang family ni Marj nun panahon na matamlay ang career ni Dennis.
Marjorie should once and for all stand up for her children and put his ex husband in his rightful place. Derechahin niya si Dennis. Kaso alam niyang maraming mauungkat na issue na hindi dapat malaman ng mga tao kaya tago na lang sa bubble.
Kung nanay ka, sisiraan mo ba in public ang tatay ng mga anak mo? Ang kasiraan ng tatay ay kasiraan din ng mga anak. At lalo masakit sa mga anak tanggapin na ganyan kasama ang tatay nila. Nagkakaroon ng trust issues, emotional trauma, at kung ano ano pang negative effects ang bata. Mahirap balansehin.
Anyway, gusto ko si Marjorie. Hindi all-out nagsasalita ng masama maski against her sisters. Para me chance pa magkaayos. Time will tell and heal.
True ka dyan. If gusto nyo idefend si Julia akuin nya itong battle na ito. Sya ang humarap kay dennis at wag ang mga anak nya ang ginagawa nyang spokeperson.
I agree. Feeling ko marami ding mali si Marj kaya she'd rather stay quiet, pero she should take the step to protect Julia by clearing the air with Dennis.
7:08 Sinisiraan at pinapahiya na mga anak mo publicly, tapos self preservation at respeto sa tatay pa rin? Sabi nga nila to choose your battles, but this is one battle na di dapat inaatrasan ng nanay dahil anak mo na ang sinisiraan ng sarili nilang ama. In public, no less.
A simple assurance to your daughter is not enough. They may not say it pero kailangan nila ng magtatanggol sa kanila. Mga anak mo ang sumasalo sa lahat ng pamamahiya ng tatay nila. Kayo ni Dennis ang magtuos. Privately kung ayaw mong in public.
Gusto rin nila yang ingay na yan eh, nananahimik na yung issue at tumigil na rin sa kaka parinig yung tatay tapos biglang sinagot yung mga tanong sa interview na pwede namang wag ng sagutin. Ayan kagulo kayo ulit ngayon.
Naalala ko nung nag warla si Dennis nung bday nya, sobrang bashed si Chulya and siblings. Kesyo walang utang na loob, ttay pa din nila etc. i think tama lang na kahit papano mapagtanggol ni Chulya ang sarili nya at mga kapatid nya
I dont think it is because of their father. She was called names when she decided to change her surname. She insulted her father kaya nawalan ng amor ang mga tao sa kanya
Every projects nlang nagkakagulo silang magpapamilya kasi ginagamit din sa promo. Ang problema, gulo lang nman ang nadagdag sa kanila kasi di pa rin nman pinapanuod. Mga Marites lang na kagaya natin ang may paki.
I am not a fan of Julia-Gerald relationship but this time, I feel for Julia. I am in the same situation with my estranged father. The only difference, which I find her very lucky is she has her mother. Dennis seems like a toxic father, he won't accept his mistake at laging nanunumbat sa perang ginatos nya sa mga anak nya, sounds like my father. I don't believe phrases like, blood is thicker than water or at the end of the day he's still your father. Mas mabuti pang wla nlng relasyon kaysa naman mabuhay ako na puros negatibo at panunumbat.
May deleted post na si Dennis na same with Julia, that as of right now daw di pa niya mapatawad si Julia. Hoy ang kapal, Tatay talaga nagsabi ng ganyan tapos ang iba dito kung makadikta na Tatay mo yan respect him, without him you won’t be here grabe. Obvious na may small man’s syndrome itong si Dennis ang kawawa ang mga anak niya. Di niya inisip na ilang beses na niyang ginanyan sila Julia, buti na lang may strong support system ang mga bata kasi kung wala may depression na nga tapos kung di na kaya akala nila su*cide ang solution to end all the pain and suffering.
They should completely ignore and cut-off Dennis in their lives. He's very toxic and would continue hurting them every chance he gets. Julia handled the interview well, but I agree with others here who advised/suggested na wag na sya sumagot ng anything about Dennis.
They already did kaya nga panay parinig ni Dennis kasi hindi nagri reply mga anak nya sa kanya kaya nya raw dinadaan sa social media. Goes to show the kind of person that he is who demands to be seen or felt. Classic narcisisstic personality.
If Dennis cant understand how a true father means (being protective, kind, and not toxic being to his children), Marj's camp should file a case against him. Baka in that way he would understand his faults, not just to them but also to other families of Dennis
ngayon lang ako nakakita ng dead beat dad na makapal ang apog magparinig sa social media knowing siya ang may kasalanan bakit watak watak yung pamilya niya. yung tatay nga ni dani kahit dead beat hindi naman ganyan kaya tingnan mo siya na yung nilapitan ng anak niya. ganun dapat dennis.
Nawalan kc ng mga project c Dennis ky nawalan ng pera. Dati usong uso comedy ky uso c Dennis. Umabot sa peak ng career. Di dn cguro nkpag ipon. Unexpected bumagsak career. Nawalan pera.
Anong pinagsasabi mo na luho? Patawa ka? Baka mga necessities lang ang kaya nyang i provide. 14 rental houses tapos sasabihin mo luho? Tutulungan ba yan nila Greta and Claudine kung nakakaprovide yan ng maayos
8:14 excuse me, claudine and gretchen provided for their luho. Mga latest ipad at branded clothes pa binibili nya dati. The girls loved raiding her wardrobe.
ang pinag-uusapan natin dito is Dennis’ treatment of the children and their trauma ha. i dont know how Marjorie is at fault there unless she did not protect her children from their father’s abuse. hindi eto tungkol sa hiwalayan which is a separate issue and between Dennis and Marjorie lang
As a parent myself, ito dapat talaga ang rules bilang magulang, to love unconditionally, to understand, to provide,to protect ( pagsasabihan man but in private, wag i call out in public kasi kahihiyan ng anak mo kahihiyan mo din bilang magulang) . Kung ano man pinakita ng mga bata kay Dennis ay dahil na din yong sa actions nya nung mga bata pa ito. Children are not blind or deaf, nakikita at naririnig talaga nila ang mga actions ng parents, pag pinalaki mo ang mga anak mo with love, respect, understanding and protection yan din ipapakita nila paglaki nila.
8:12 agree. The way you were to your children is reflected in how they are towards you when they no longer depend on you. What kind of dad would rather appear likeable to strangers at the expense of his own children?
11:30 di kasi dapat sisihin ang mga bata kasi kung titignan mong mabuti mabubuti naman sila, hindi naman napariwara. Tignan mo how they treated the mom? Diba sobrang mahal nila mom nila, binibigay nila yong sa tingin nila ang nararapat sa mom nila kasi nakita nila nung mga bata pa sila na nanjan mom nila for them, kung totoo na mabuting ama si Dennis sakanila, makikita nila yun( kahit sabihin pa ng mom nila na masama si Dennis),kaso iba ang nakita nila at na experienced sa dad nila, they are verbally and emotional abused by him tapos mag aact siya na ulirang ama siya,just because ba nag bibigay siya ng pera ulirang ama na siya? We all know as a parent na hindi lang yan ang role natin as a parent, we nourish them with love, respect, understand, protect and to guide.
Although that may be the case for most, I'd have to disagree. Marami ring anak na ubod nang bait ng mga magulang pero mga pasaway at sila pagalit sa magulang nila. I have relative who are like that. Baka nasobrahan sa pagmamahal, na-spoil masyado, kaya kapag di na napagbigyan, sila na ang galit. My point is, hindi dahil maayos ang magulang maayos rin ang anak. Nasa tao pa rin yan.
5:27 hindi matatawag na love yang hayaan mong ma spoiled ang anak mo sa mga material things. You guide them well. Tanong ko lang. They spoiled the kids dahil? Wala silang time kaya they think na pagbinigay mo ang mga gusto ng anak mo love na yun? They need time also.
Barretto na naman ang nasa limelight!!! Boring din ang showbiz lately!! Go trashy family! Kayo talaga pinaka-fave namen mga marites!! I wish this would run for weeks!!!! Im so excited and i just cant hide it!
possible din eto. hindi lang sya marunong magpakumbaba. magpapa-awa sya to the point na he blackmails the kids kasi may bashing na kapalit na from the public
Ungakatan ng past episode 1000 - Ang pamilyang ito ang hilig mag laba ng dirty linens sa socmed. Pwede naman pag usapan yan over dinner with isang bandehadong isaw.
8:31 kahit na magpa annul ang mag asawa hindi illegitimate ang mga anak nila. Malamang si Dennis naman ang nakapirma sa mga birth certificate ng mga bata noong time na kasal pa sila ni Marjorie.
Patandang paurong na Ama, di marunong mag analyzed sa sinabi ng anak niya na give her some time and space to breath. To be able to fully heal because forgiving will come easy when you are mentality and psychologically healed. Don’t force it when there’s still some lingering pain because minute mistake will trigger everything and it’s gonna be like this all over again. Dennis is a narcissist, its right here right now, his way or the highway geez no wonder why his kids and ex wives are sprinting away from him. May deleted post pa na as of right now di pa niya raw mapatawad si Julia. Basically his implementing that it’s all his kids fault, this guy is really something else.
parang wala naman sinabi si julia na masama, ayaw nya lang daw muna dun sa cycle na parang toxic. cguro gusto ni dennis na ihelp sya ng mga anak nya. marami talaga wala proper financial planning and parang ginagawa insurance ung mga anak nila. dapat talaga kaya mo on your own gang pagtanda para di maburden ang mga anak.
Yung mga salita talaga ni Marj would only ignite the hate from her children against their father. Ang tataas ng pride, pare pareho silang lahat incl dennis.
Dati nagpa interview si Marj nung nag away sila ni Gretchen. Tapos nilabas nya lahat. I think para matameme na din si Dennis ilabas na din nya sa interview lahat ng alas nya when it comes to him.
Magsabi man si Marj ng side niya hindi pa rin siya paniniwalaan at siya pa rin babaliktarin ng mga tao na haters nila. Aminin man natin or hindi madami silang haters because maganda sila, maganda lahi nila, mga sosyal sila tignan kahit hindi naman masyadong mayaman at mga palaban din. People hate this kind of people kasi karamihan sa kanila wala ang meron ang mga Barretto. Sabihin man nila na mgapamilya ng mga kabit, ikandalosa. Baller??? Ang daming tao na ordinary lang din naman pero mas malala pa.
Alam kasi niya anong pagka tao si Dennis pag nagpa interview siya like the kids said it will become a cycle. It will be he said she said again and again and again. I think for her own sanity nagfocus na lang siya sa positivity sa buhay niya, apo niya at mga anak.
Pero serious na tanong ilan anak ni Dennis? 🤣🤣🤣
Grabe naman yung hate because magaganda. No, i think most peeps can't tell anymore whether they're telling the truth or not, cause they have beem caught lying several times, all of them, including Julia. Hence, people take what they say with a grain of salt, not because magaganda sila. Lols. That's spoken like a true tard
Mahina ang comprehension ni Dennis o sensitive na insecure lang sya.. wala naman masamang sinabi c Julia but staying her side of the story.. Huwag pilian Dennis kung hindi pa ready ang mga anak mo makiayos sa inyo but how you reacted now I understand where you kids are coming from.. nakakahiya ka talaga na ama!!less talk, less mistakes.. respect begest respect! Hayaan mo mga anak mo mabuhay na tahimik.. pls
Sagutin na lang nya nang diretso si Dennis nang manahimik na. Wag na magpa-martyr effect. Isang diretsong sagot na lang at nang di nyo na kailangang mag-hide sa bubble nyo.
ReplyDeleteKaya nga. Issue nilang dalawa un eh.
DeleteNadadamay pa un mga anak nila. Marjorie vs. Dennis naman. Sila un magkarelasyon noon eh. Nagtatago si Marjorie sa saya ni Julia
May point ka, sis
DeleteWhat good will it bring? Para mag-ungkat ulit ng past at magkasakitan ulit. Don't be pulled into a toxic person's cycle. Dapat sa ganyang klaseng tao, cut ties na lang talaga.
Deletesa klase ng ugali ni dennis hindi yan matitinag nakita mo naman yung open letter ng bunso nila may nagbago ba, lalo kung nanay pa baka madagdagan lang yang kaekekan ni dennis.
Deletetruly. marjorie at dennis talaga ang di ayos, ayun damay mga anak. tsk tsk
Delete12:18 eh kasi nga di ba...baka may ayaw din marinig mula sa ex?
DeleteAno bang tanong ni Dennis na dapat sagutin ni Marjorie? Charot.
DeleteYes, end it once and for all
DeleteIt won't end. This guy won't shut it. She knows that - she was married to him.
DeleteMy brother-in-law did a number to my sister so they separated. He was having an affair and had a 12 year old kid already. After 2 years without communication their son was going to get married. They talked and apparently he was living with the other woman already. Anyway my sister was civil towards him and let's their kids have time with their father. No hate. At the end of the day the kids should not hate their parents.
DeleteHindi lahat pareho ng kwento. At malamang alam na nila na ganyan si Dennis kaya hindi na nila sinasgot at pinapansin. May ganung level talaga na pag ayaw mo na you just withdraw and keep quiet. Wala naman mararating sagutan at diretshahan bec they're way past that stage. Years na dumaan, now pa ba? Nabuhay na sila na wala tatay nila.. para saan pa? Hindi lahat kakayanin na no hate between child and parent. Meron talaga yung hindi na heal na trauma and dapat walang pilitan... respeto nalang sa gusto nila
Deletethe chaotic and toxic barretto clan. i can only imagine the emotional and psychological torture growing up in that kind of environment
DeleteMalaki ang role ng nanay dito. If I was in Marjorie's shoes I'll let the kids have a relationship with the dad kahit pa hindi gaano nagkikita basta open lang communication. Mentally mas magaan yun for everyone. But of course this is just me.
Delete5:55 i agree baks, yan talaga yun eh. sobrang dysfunctional ng barretto clan to sa totoo lang
DeleteJulia maybe “echosera” sometimes, you know what I mean. Pero we can’t tell her na hindi sya naging mabuti sa family nya. May point na sya ang nagapapa-aral sa mga kapatid nya. Madami din sya pinag daanan since kid sya and tinaguyod talaga nya ang sarili nya at family nya.
ReplyDeleteBut this shouldn't be on dennis, dapat kay marj ito. She was the mother. If the father is incapable, hindi anak ang dapat magtaguyod but the mom especially na malakas sya. Imagine, julia had to go through those things kasi di na nga able ang dad nya, yung mom nya is somehow iniasa pa sa kanya.
DeleteTrue, 1:23. I don't think Marjorie couldn't find work. Naging politician pa nga di ba? I just think she couldn't earn enough to support the kind of lifestyle they wanted.
DeleteAnd somehow it's just the dad's fault? Walang kasalanan ang nanay? I dunno, lahat tayo Marites lang, we don't know what really happened between them. Pero kung pare-parehas na sila masay sa mga buhay nila bakit walang forgiveness?
Delete1:23 oh please, nag-aartista din naman si Marjorie nuon pero not enough. Kaya gumawa ng paraan, humingi ng tulong sa mga kapatid and eventually was able to buy their own 1-bedroom townhouse (as per the interview). Yung ginawa ni Dennis na hindi sila suportahan tapos bumuo na naman ng panibagong family was so irresponsible at talagang ikakasama ng loob ng kahit sino pang anak. And Julia said that once she earned money,Marjorie advised her to invest it in property. Asan dun ang pabaya and money-hungry mom that you paint her to be?
DeleteI think ang dapat mag usap si Marjorie at dennis, pag ok ng parents unti unti lalambot puso ng mga anak e
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteAgree, sila dapat mag ayos. their kids are in the middle nang gulo na ang mga magulang ang may gawa.
DeleteTama na si Dennis at Marjorie ang magtuos. Sila naman ang may issue. Hindi nila naayos. Pinasa ni Marjorie issue sa mga anak niya
DeleteThey should talk in private (Marjorie & Dennis). Lalo lang lalaki ang gulo kung idadaan sa social media. Kawawa ang mga anak.
DeleteAgree... Kaya hindi amenable ang co parenting dito sa Pinas kasi kadalasan ang parent na naiwan obliges the kids to take sides. Na pag galit ako sa tatay nyo, dapat galit rin kayo sa kanya (and vice versa).
DeleteAlthough feel ko rin ang hurt ni Julia and Leon kay Dennis, nasaktan rin talaga sila. But bottomline is issue ito ni Marj and Dennis
Ako feeling ko labas si Marjorie doon. Relationship ng father-children yan e. Yung mga pinaggagawa ni Dennis is directly naapektuhan mga bata, labas si Marjorie doon.
DeleteHuh iba yung kina Marj and Dennis.. iba din between father and kids. May issue sila sa tatay nila eh... tapos na yung kina Marj and Dennis hiwalay nga sila diba? Bakit sila magtutuos? Pag hiwalay na, kanya kanya kayo gawin ang responsibility nyo. I'm a single mom and hindi ako nag demand sa ex ko, nasa kanya na maging responsible. Kung ayaw nya at magulo sya kausap, bahala sya. Parent ka alam mo ano obligation mo.
DeleteAdult na si Julia and even lives on her own, anong co-parenting pinagsasabi nyo? He was barely visible when she was growing up as a teenager, ngayon pa ba nya ifoforce ang sarili? Away na ito ng 2 adults, labas na si Marjorie dyan. Hindi porke't tatay sya ay ipipilit nyang sya ang tama at dapat masunod.
DeleteI feel for Julia, hindi sya maiintindihan ng mga taong hindi parehas sakanya ang pinagdadaanan sa father. And trust me, it’s NOT easy
ReplyDeleteTrue that. I was in the same boat with her, cutting my father off my life was the best decision for my mental and emotional health.
DeleteSame. My biological father is as dead beat as they come. People around me- relatives included, would always tell me to forgive and let it go. No. Its not easy to relive trauma over and over again because of filial duty. We shouldn’t be bound by it because we are human beings, too! We deserve to be respected.
DeleteAgree. Even people stating this is merely an issue between Dennis and Marjorie. No way. The kids also went through hard times because of their dad. Look how he crucifies them publicly - much worse in private, no doubt. Though I agree that the mom should IDEALLY intervene and speak to the dad on behalf of the kids, the kids here are mostly adults. Besides, how do we know she hasn't tried?? Also, she knows him. He seems too stubborn and doesn't listen - even the public has seen that. He only hears what he wants to hear. Engaging with someone this toxic and narcissistic will only extend and make things worse.
DeleteTrue. Wala sila alam sa pinagdaanan ng kids. Kung maka comment ang iba akala nila ang dali magpatawad. Proseso po ito... walang pilitan!
DeleteNakaka awa din yung mga batang katulad kay Julia hano. Di naman nila pinili ipanganak pero kung maka sumbat yung tatay na nang iwan sakanila and the person who brought hardship to their lives, parang hiniling nung mga batang ipanganak sila. Tsk tsk
ReplyDeleteTapos yung iba sasabihan pa siya ng walang utang na loob keme. Over the years naman nakita naman natin na she tried making amends with her father.
DeleteWaiting for Marj to speak up but then again it’s better to be silent because the noise outside will make it worst! God knows all. Leave it at that.
ReplyDeleteThe noise outside always makes them famous
DeleteSana matigil na yung mga statement na “kahit ano pa ginawa ng magulang mo, magulang mo pa rin yan.” As if those kids asked their deadbeat dad to be born
ReplyDeleteHa eh may trabaho si Dennis nung mga panahon na magkasama sila ni Marjorie. One of the top comedian siya ng Viva. Nagumpisa siyang sidekick ni Robin tapos nag comedy na sila nina Andrew E, Janno, Anjo etc. After nun, nagkonsehal pa siya. Kay Marjorie nga ako walang maalalang naging stable work
DeleteTrue 2:48. Naghirap sila pero Greta and Clau helped them.
DeleteThats not the point @2:48 He was an awful father to them. Magiging ganyan ba sila lahat towards Dennis kung matino siya? Be grateful that you didn’t experience what they went through. I did. So I totally understand why they choose to shut him out.
DeleteAyan yung kinakasama ng luob siguro ni Dennis kasi pinapalabas ng deadbeat dad sha. Ng lumamlam career nya, nagkaproblema na sila sa pera at dun na nagsimula away at pagkakahiwalay. Marjorie needs to acknowledge that Dennis did some good in their lives. Which she failed to let her children know and feel and realize kaya ganun galit nila.
DeleteGrabe nman mkadeadbeat. Naging provider naman talaga sya nung sila pa. Siguro nawala nung ngtatrabaho na si julia. Pro para sabihing deadbeat talaga grabe naman
Delete2:48 nung time ng katanyagan ni Dennis yan yung time na iniwan nya pamilya nya kay Marjorie. Matindi hiwalayan nila kaya posible hindi siya nagsustento. Mga kapatid ni Marjorie tumulong kay Marjorie non na buhayin mga anak nya.Kaya di mo masasabing wala pera si Dennis non kaya di nagsuporta sa mga anak nya. Marami nga siyang raket non kaya nga may naging pamilya pa ulit after nila ni Marjorie. Maraming naging babae si Dennis lahat yon naanakan nya. May pakinabang na sa mga bata kaya biglang nagiging ama kuno
DeleteHow can you say deadbeat father? When everything we read is what Marjorie has been saying while he kept quiet. And now that he wants to defend himself sinasabihan oy lalaki ka wag magsalita. Kala ko ba pinaglalaban for generations equality
DeleteDeadbeat walang trabaho. As far as i know meron naman siya maski papano
Pang boomers yang ganyang salitaan kasi sila mismo toxic rin sa mga anak nila.
Deletehay naku, mas alam nila marj at mga anak nya kung ano tunay na nangyari. Kaya nga pinababayaan nalang nila si Dennis mag tatalak.
DeleteDeadma na sila. Open book naman ang buhay nila.
sila Claudine at Greta ang tumulong itaguyod ang family ni Marj nun panahon na matamlay ang career ni Dennis.
AND YET, nag karon pa ng 3rd family si Dennis.
GLENG GLENG!
Those fathers are IRRESPONSIBLE. They wanted short term FUN but don’t want to deal with the long term consequences of their actions.
DeleteSi Dennis ay nothing but sperm donor. That’s all. Ano bang hinahabol habol nya
ReplyDeleteDi naman, nagpakatatay nung maliliit pa mga bata
Deletemarj di ba mas mabuting pagusapan nyo ni dennis. pareho kayong pavictim eh!
ReplyDeleteHahahaha sa true
DeleteTrueee
DeleteMarjorie should once and for all stand up for her children and put his ex husband in his rightful place. Derechahin niya si Dennis. Kaso alam niyang maraming mauungkat na issue na hindi dapat malaman ng mga tao kaya tago na lang sa bubble.
ReplyDelete12:22 agree
DeleteTrue!
DeleteTrue
DeleteKung nanay ka, sisiraan mo ba in public ang tatay ng mga anak mo? Ang kasiraan ng tatay ay kasiraan din ng mga anak. At lalo masakit sa mga anak tanggapin na ganyan kasama ang tatay nila. Nagkakaroon ng trust issues, emotional trauma, at kung ano ano pang negative effects ang bata. Mahirap balansehin.
DeleteAnyway, gusto ko si Marjorie. Hindi all-out nagsasalita ng masama maski against her sisters. Para me chance pa magkaayos. Time will tell and heal.
True ka dyan. If gusto nyo idefend si Julia akuin nya itong battle na ito. Sya ang humarap kay dennis at wag ang mga anak nya ang ginagawa nyang spokeperson.
DeleteI agree. Feeling ko marami ding mali si Marj kaya she'd rather stay quiet, pero she should take the step to protect Julia by clearing the air with Dennis.
Delete7:08 Sinisiraan at pinapahiya na mga anak mo publicly, tapos self preservation at respeto sa tatay pa rin? Sabi nga nila to choose your battles, but this is one battle na di dapat inaatrasan ng nanay dahil anak mo na ang sinisiraan ng sarili nilang ama. In public, no less.
DeleteA simple assurance to your daughter is not enough. They may not say it pero kailangan nila ng magtatanggol sa kanila. Mga anak mo ang sumasalo sa lahat ng pamamahiya ng tatay nila. Kayo ni Dennis ang magtuos. Privately kung ayaw mong in public.
DeleteGusto rin nila yang ingay na yan eh, nananahimik na yung issue at tumigil na rin sa kaka parinig yung tatay tapos biglang sinagot yung mga tanong sa interview na pwede namang wag ng sagutin. Ayan kagulo kayo ulit ngayon.
ReplyDeleteNaalala ko nung nag warla si Dennis nung bday nya, sobrang bashed si Chulya and siblings. Kesyo walang utang na loob, ttay pa din nila etc. i think tama lang na kahit papano mapagtanggol ni Chulya ang sarili nya at mga kapatid nya
DeleteAlam mo di naman tinitigilan ng mga tao si Julia kahit nong nanahimik sya they keep calling her names because of her father.
DeleteI dont think it is because of their father. She was called names when she decided to change her surname. She insulted her father kaya nawalan ng amor ang mga tao sa kanya
DeleteEvery projects nlang nagkakagulo silang magpapamilya kasi ginagamit din sa promo. Ang problema, gulo lang nman ang nadagdag sa kanila kasi di pa rin nman pinapanuod. Mga Marites lang na kagaya natin ang may paki.
Deletea parent that protects and never betray, hindi yan alam ni dennis na iniwan ng 3 asawat mga anak
ReplyDeleteI am not a fan of Julia-Gerald relationship but this time, I feel for Julia. I am in the same situation with my estranged father. The only difference, which I find her very lucky is she has her mother. Dennis seems like a toxic father, he won't accept his mistake at laging nanunumbat sa perang ginatos nya sa mga anak nya, sounds like my father. I don't believe phrases like, blood is thicker than water or at the end of the day he's still your father. Mas mabuti pang wla nlng relasyon kaysa naman mabuhay ako na puros negatibo at panunumbat.
ReplyDeleteThe never ending family drama.
ReplyDeleteMay deleted post na si Dennis na same with Julia, that as of right now daw di pa niya mapatawad si Julia. Hoy ang kapal, Tatay talaga nagsabi ng ganyan tapos ang iba dito kung makadikta na Tatay mo yan respect him, without him you won’t be here grabe. Obvious na may small man’s syndrome itong si Dennis ang kawawa ang mga anak niya. Di niya inisip na ilang beses na niyang ginanyan sila Julia, buti na lang may strong support system ang mga bata kasi kung wala may depression na nga tapos kung di na kaya akala nila su*cide ang solution to end all the pain and suffering.
ReplyDeleteThey should completely ignore and cut-off Dennis in their lives. He's very toxic and would continue hurting them every chance he gets. Julia handled the interview well, but I agree with others here who advised/suggested na wag na sya sumagot ng anything about Dennis.
ReplyDeleteAgree. Cut him off completely. He's horrible.
DeleteThey already did kaya nga panay parinig ni Dennis kasi hindi nagri reply mga anak nya sa kanya kaya nya raw dinadaan sa social media. Goes to show the kind of person that he is who demands to be seen or felt. Classic narcisisstic personality.
DeleteIf Dennis cant understand how a true father means (being protective, kind, and not toxic being to his children), Marj's camp should file a case against him. Baka in that way he would understand his faults, not just to them but also to other families of Dennis
ReplyDeletengayon lang ako nakakita ng dead beat dad na makapal ang apog magparinig sa social media knowing siya ang may kasalanan bakit watak watak yung pamilya niya. yung tatay nga ni dani kahit dead beat hindi naman ganyan kaya tingnan mo siya na yung nilapitan ng anak niya. ganun dapat dennis.
ReplyDeleteGoodness! Stop with all these parinig. Call dennis out and end this mess
ReplyDeleteI totally agree
DeleteNot possible or the skeletons will come out of the closet.
DeleteNawalan kc ng mga project c Dennis ky nawalan ng pera. Dati usong uso comedy ky uso c Dennis. Umabot sa peak ng career. Di dn cguro nkpag ipon. Unexpected bumagsak career. Nawalan pera.
ReplyDeleteInaminni Dennis na waldas siya sa pera kaya di nakaipon. Bumarkada siya at nagpabaya sa pamilya.
Delete
Deletesabi nya bigay luho sya sa mga anak
Anong pinagsasabi mo na luho? Patawa ka? Baka mga necessities lang ang kaya nyang i provide. 14 rental houses tapos sasabihin mo luho? Tutulungan ba yan nila Greta and Claudine kung nakakaprovide yan ng maayos
Delete8:14 excuse me, claudine and gretchen provided for their luho. Mga latest ipad at branded clothes pa binibili nya dati. The girls loved raiding her wardrobe.
DeleteMe kasalanan c Marjorie at Dennis jan. Wag isisi lhat sa 1 tao lng. Takes 2 to tango
ReplyDeleteCorrect! Palibhasa itong si Marjorie akala mo kung sino. Problematic din naman siya.
DeleteYes, but let's face it - often there's one person who's more in the wrong.
Deleteang pinag-uusapan natin dito is Dennis’ treatment of the children and their trauma ha. i dont know how Marjorie is at fault there unless she did not protect her children from their father’s abuse. hindi eto tungkol sa hiwalayan which is a separate issue and between Dennis and Marjorie lang
DeleteAs a parent myself, ito dapat talaga ang rules bilang magulang, to love unconditionally, to understand, to provide,to protect ( pagsasabihan man but in private, wag i call out in public kasi kahihiyan ng anak mo kahihiyan mo din bilang magulang) . Kung ano man pinakita ng mga bata kay Dennis ay dahil na din yong sa actions nya nung mga bata pa ito. Children are not blind or deaf, nakikita at naririnig talaga nila ang mga actions ng parents, pag pinalaki mo ang mga anak mo with love, respect, understanding and protection yan din ipapakita nila paglaki nila.
ReplyDelete8:12 agree. The way you were to your children is reflected in how they are towards you when they no longer depend on you. What kind of dad would rather appear likeable to strangers at the expense of his own children?
Delete11:30 di kasi dapat sisihin ang mga bata kasi kung titignan mong mabuti mabubuti naman sila, hindi naman napariwara. Tignan mo how they treated the mom? Diba sobrang mahal nila mom nila, binibigay nila yong sa tingin nila ang nararapat sa mom nila kasi nakita nila nung mga bata pa sila na nanjan mom nila for them, kung totoo na mabuting ama si Dennis
Deletesakanila, makikita nila yun( kahit sabihin pa ng mom nila na masama si Dennis),kaso iba ang nakita nila at na experienced sa dad nila, they are verbally and emotional abused by him tapos mag aact siya na ulirang ama siya,just because ba nag bibigay siya ng pera ulirang ama na siya? We all know as a parent na hindi lang yan ang role natin as a parent, we nourish them with love, respect, understand, protect and to guide.
Although that may be the case for most, I'd have to disagree. Marami ring anak na ubod nang bait ng mga magulang pero mga pasaway at sila pagalit sa magulang nila. I have relative who are like that. Baka nasobrahan sa pagmamahal, na-spoil masyado, kaya kapag di na napagbigyan, sila na ang galit. My point is, hindi dahil maayos ang magulang maayos rin ang anak. Nasa tao pa rin yan.
Delete5:27 hindi matatawag na love yang hayaan mong ma spoiled ang anak mo sa mga material things. You guide them well. Tanong ko lang. They spoiled the kids dahil? Wala silang time kaya they think na pagbinigay mo ang mga gusto ng anak mo love na yun? They need time also.
DeleteBarretto na naman ang nasa limelight!!! Boring din ang showbiz lately!! Go trashy family! Kayo talaga pinaka-fave namen mga marites!! I wish this would run for weeks!!!! Im so excited and i just cant hide it!
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣
DeleteKardashians ng pinas. Lol!
DeleteHahaha, oo nga baks. Anyway, ganito nman tlaga sila kapag may promo. 😂 Pero mas naloka ako kay Dennis.
DeleteI think need ng pera ni Dennis (sustento). Kaya parinig ng parinig sa kanila.
ReplyDeleteTrue. His is a cry for help. Nagpapapansin xa sa mga anak nya dhil kelangan nya ng tulong
DeleteNhiya lng xa mgsbi ng derecho
possible din eto. hindi lang sya marunong magpakumbaba. magpapa-awa sya to the point na he blackmails the kids kasi may bashing na kapalit na from the public
DeletePareho lang silang mag ama. If both of them are selfless, it wouldn’t be like this. Me, myself and I ang attitude ng pamilyang to.
ReplyDeleteUngakatan ng past episode 1000 - Ang pamilyang ito ang hilig mag laba ng dirty linens sa socmed. Pwede naman pag usapan yan over dinner with isang bandehadong isaw.
ReplyDeletePwede naman kasi nila ipa dry clean sa iba para hindi na sila mahirapahn maglaba.
DeleteSa mga naghhate kila Julia tandaan nyo naka tatlong asawa si Dennis (with kids) at lahat yun iniwanan sya. Di nyo pa rin gets?
ReplyDelete10:43 Probably for the same reason--wala syang pera to support them.
Deletenakatatlong lalaki rin naman si marjorie no
DeleteDagdag mo pa kung bakit naging null and void ung kasal nila ni marj.That’s why naging illegitimate sila Julia.
Delete5:46 nakatatlong lalaki man si Marjorie pero magkaiba ang circumstances nila.
Delete8:31 kahit na magpa annul ang mag asawa hindi illegitimate ang mga anak nila. Malamang si Dennis naman ang nakapirma sa mga birth certificate ng mga bata noong time na kasal pa sila ni Marjorie.
DeletePatandang paurong na Ama, di marunong mag analyzed sa sinabi ng anak niya na give her some time and space to breath. To be able to fully heal because forgiving will come easy when you are mentality and psychologically healed. Don’t force it when there’s still some lingering pain because minute mistake will trigger everything and it’s gonna be like this all over again. Dennis is a narcissist, its right here right now, his way or the highway geez no wonder why his kids and ex wives are sprinting away from him. May deleted post pa na as of right now di pa niya raw mapatawad si Julia. Basically his implementing that it’s all his kids fault, this guy is really something else.
ReplyDeleteKapag nanay ka magiging halimaw kabtalaga for ur child pero Marj keeps her cool. Jusko kung ganyan ka successful din anak ko il be so proud
ReplyDeleteparang wala naman sinabi si julia na masama, ayaw nya lang daw muna dun sa cycle na parang toxic. cguro gusto ni dennis na ihelp sya ng mga anak nya. marami talaga wala proper financial planning and parang ginagawa insurance ung mga anak nila. dapat talaga kaya mo on your own gang pagtanda para di maburden ang mga anak.
ReplyDeleteYung mga salita talaga ni Marj would only ignite the hate from her children against their father. Ang tataas ng pride, pare pareho silang lahat incl dennis.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Both sides may fault at ma pride.
DeleteEto yung pamilyang mahilig mag IG serye. Di uso text or direct message sakanila.
ReplyDeleteKulang ang kwento.
ReplyDeleteDati nagpa interview si Marj nung nag away sila ni Gretchen. Tapos nilabas nya lahat. I think para matameme na din si Dennis ilabas na din nya sa interview lahat ng alas nya when it comes to him.
ReplyDeleteAyaw niya kasi alam niya may lalabas din sakanya. Quits lang sila
DeleteMagsabi man si Marj ng side niya hindi pa rin siya paniniwalaan at siya pa rin babaliktarin ng mga tao na haters nila. Aminin man natin or hindi madami silang haters because maganda sila, maganda lahi nila, mga sosyal sila tignan kahit hindi naman masyadong mayaman at mga palaban din. People hate this kind of people kasi karamihan sa kanila wala ang meron ang mga Barretto. Sabihin man nila na mgapamilya ng mga kabit, ikandalosa. Baller??? Ang daming tao na ordinary lang din naman pero mas malala pa.
DeleteAlam kasi niya anong pagka tao si Dennis pag nagpa interview siya like the kids said it will become a cycle. It will be he said she said again and again and again. I think for her own sanity nagfocus na lang siya sa positivity sa buhay niya, apo niya at mga anak.
DeletePero serious na tanong ilan anak ni Dennis? 🤣🤣🤣
Grabe naman yung hate because magaganda. No, i think most peeps can't tell anymore whether they're telling the truth or not, cause they have beem caught lying several times, all of them, including Julia. Hence, people take what they say with a grain of salt, not because magaganda sila. Lols. That's spoken like a true tard
Deleteomg kaloka si 10:27, are you kidding me??
DeleteMahina ang comprehension ni Dennis o sensitive na insecure lang sya.. wala naman masamang sinabi c Julia but staying her side of the story.. Huwag pilian Dennis kung hindi pa ready ang mga anak mo makiayos sa inyo but how you reacted now I understand where you kids are coming from.. nakakahiya ka talaga na ama!!less talk, less mistakes.. respect begest respect! Hayaan mo mga anak mo mabuhay na tahimik.. pls
ReplyDeleteBakit puro si Julia kinocall out ni Dennis? Si Claudia at Leon di ba nya hinahanap at mga ibang anak sa ibang misis?
ReplyDeletepapano, its Julia na kumikita ng malaki.Baka gusto din ni Dennis maambunan ng biyaya.
DeleteRespect your parents.
ReplyDeleteThen be a parents and respect will never have to be asked.
Delete