It is her journey. People shouldnt pressure her. Maybe she's sharing it because she's tired of people judging her for not being a mother yet. It means she is trying, but we cannot rush her outcome. Lots of prayers, love and a little Science.
Mukhang ivf nga na hindi nag take 😢 if she's really serious about wanting a baby baka she has to stop all other endeavors muna. Give it her all ba para she can say na ginawa nya lahat. She can afford a year of not working naman.
A year without work is a year with no income. She has people that work for her and bills to pay, no one in their right mind would stop working for a year, even the richest ones. Even if Chiz covers all the bills it will not be enough, plus all the medical expenses.
Ang daming uncertainty sa IVF and if you will put your life on hold for it mababaliw ka sa kakaisip, not to mention mga opportunities that will pass you by while waiting for a baby. Unlike regular pregnancy, IVf process can take years kung hndi successful ng first take.I am still undergoing the IVf process after mahabang panahon and wala pa ding result, and it can be depressing kung wala kang ibang ganap dahil sa dami ng possible fallures. Wag masyado judgy sa buhay ng iba dahil for sure si Heart gnagawa nya yung what is best for her situation dahil alam nya ang daily struggles ng buhay nya.
Hoping for something exciting to happen for Heart and Chiz. A friend of mine conceived through IVF (lucky for them free sya sa UK!), she shares on soc med the struggle and I admire their courage. I’m lucky to have conceived naturally although I had my fair share of negative PT for the first 6 months.
It was free. But now you have to meet certain criteria and the waiting list is long. We planned to go through IVF but does not meet the criteria nor have enough money to do private. But by God's grace we were blessed to have child years after.
Need ng progesterone shots to prep for embryo transfer if she's doing hormonal replacement treatment. Until mga two weeks yun if (-) ang blood test, if (+) naman, until mga 10th week ng pregnancy.
Baka na ffrustrate na sha kasi di makabuo. Kahit naman di nia directang ishare, halata nmn n gsto tlga nila magka baby. Hopefully makabuo na sila and mcarry successfully din
Tingin ko kailangan ni Heart ng time off from work at busy life kung hindi nag w-work ang IVF. Minsan stress pala ang sagabal. Parang she's always working and traveling. Alam kong importante ang career niya pero she needs to make a choice. Kung ano mas matimbang for now. Makakabalik pa rin naman siya siguro.
We can't disregard that there's a male factor, too. Chiz isn't young anymore and having kids then doesnt mean na hindi sya ang may challenge this time. He's also super unavailable, Heart shared in her vlog na laging wala si Chiz kaya hindi nahahabol yung fertile window nya. I hope it works out for them! Nakakapagod physically and emotionally yung cycles. Dami pang pressures towards Heart as if lahat ng factors kargo nya.
Agreed. For some women you can't have both talaga. Minsan naman meron din iba na kahit naka drugs at unhealthy ang lifestyle, nakaka buo pa din lol. Life is full of irony..
Yes true 12:21. We had 4-5 failed artificial insemination and IVF. Nakaka- stress all the procedures and waiting. Nakaka pressure kaya siguro hirap makabuo. Nag give up nalang kami and decided na ok na kahit wala, bahala na si God kung anong plan nya for us. Now we have 3 beautiful kids, lahat unexpected ang pregnancy. Di planado. Sa youngest ko I gave birth at 43.
It took me 8 yrs and several rounds of treatment before we were blessed with our 1st child via assisted insemination. I had to learn to do the injections myself and then nung nabuntis, I had to take progesterone vaginally to prevent a miscarriage. Yung 8 yrs na yun were very stressful and frustrating. We almost gave up. Exacerbated yung anxiety as I was holding a stressful job at that time, along with the pressure na rin as naghahabol kami ng time before I turned 35. Baka mas mahirapan na daw ako, sabi ng mg specialists na tumitingin sa akin noon. Once things came into a head, we decided to take the plunge na, quit my job, para lang mabawasan yung stress. Prior to that, muntikan na rin kami but sadly it was a molar pregnancy. Stress talaga ang kalaban niyan so once I cut down, dun nabuo yung son namin. Two yrs later, before I started another cycle of treatments again, welcome surprise yung bunso. That was 16 yrs. ago. So yes, I would agree with 12:21 wholeheartedly. A wise sage also gave us the advice that there is a season for everything. Kaya I made the choice to focus. So very true!
Para sa mga chismosong nagsasabing ayaw ni Heart magkaanak. Here is one of the many proofs you’re dead wrong. She’s been going through IVF since early this year. That process is excruciating physically, mentally, and emotionally. Kaya mali kayo for saying ayaw niya magkaanak.
At sino ka para magmando? Work nya yan accla. Mas mabuti ngang masaya syang rumarampa While working on being pregnant. Let her be… kung mabubuo mabubuo yan kahit tumambling pa sya sa paris. Kalokah ka!
Eto yung mga makaluma mag isip na ang fashion ay walang kabuluhan at rampa rampa lang. So condescending. Her rampa, FYI, is her bread and butter and pasweldo sa staff niya. She gets paid for the content, appearances, and endorsements she makes.
4:21 Eh ayan na nga at inamin na nya mismo na HINDI SYA MASAYA. Gahd. Hirap naman umintindi ng iba dito. She can't have her cake and eat it, too. It's one or the other.
2:18 Ikaw ata namali intindi gurl, porke hindi masaya ang advice agad eh tumigil na sa ginagawa niya at magfocus na lang sa married life?? It’s not one or the other, we are capable of doing things at the same time. Masyado kang binary mag-isip. Also, she never said na hindi siya masaya sa ginagawa niya.
I agree with you, 2:18. We will be bashed for saying this but yes, if one REALLY wants to get pregnant/have a child then one needs to make SACRIFICES. Hindi yung gusto mo na sayo lahat.
True 12:38. We had several failed artificial insemination and 4 IVF. Physically, financially and emotionally draining. We decided to stop nalang and wait kung anong plan ni God for us. Now we are blessed with beautiful 3 kids after 10 years of waiting and lahat unexpected pregnancy. Sa youngest namin, 43y/o ako when I gave birth. Prayers talaga and bawasan ang stress. IVF sobrang nakaka stress ang procedure at pressure.
Hugs 12:38. IVF can be draining, I'm still in the process and parang gusto ko na din umayaw sa dami ng challenges. I hope you get what your heart desires soon.
8:57 and 9:47 thanks to you two. Sobra sobra yung stress na binigay sa akin ng IVF/SURROGACY. Ang hirap lang lalo na sa kulturang pinoy na napaka cruel ng iba minsan na tipong nag iimpose sa kung ano dapat etc. May mga bagay na hindi para sa lahat or hindi pa panahon kht anong pilit natin.
Jusko, ang sakit nyan. Kumuha nga lang ng dugo every check up while buntis, hate na hate ko na pero tiniis para sa baby. Ito tlaga walang kasiguruhan na mabubuo.
You don’t have to have the best of everything to be happy but you can have just a little bit of everything and still be happy and peaceful. Learn to be content. One day at a time.
2:17 The money she earns di lang napupunta sa kanya no. She has people who depend on her for a living, kung hindi siya magwork ano ipasweldo niya aber? Even if she has savings, savings yon.
9 years married, 5 years (LDR marriage) together kame ng husband ko and 3 years of trying to conceive. Every time na dumating period ko, nadedepress ako. Until I said I will not hope anymore. Pero our Creator heard my cries, I am 30 weeks pregnant and were having a baby boy. It came at a right time na di kame parehong stressed ng husband ko and medyo afford na namin. I'm hoping for thr best for you heart. Your babies will be so blessed lalo na pag magkaron ka ng babae.
Happy for you !! Personal struggle talaga yan na magkaroon ng baby..inggit nga ako sainyo..ako 37 na..walang BF,nagiisip nga ako..pano pa kaya ako magkakaanak..hahaha 😅
1:21 - You can't just leave your work lalo na if you're under contract. So, it's not a financial issue. You can't give advise kagad, if you don't know the person's lifestyle or job. What you can do is just pray for the person health. Pag close mo, dun mo itanong - ARe you able to rest ba? or can you have a spare time for the baby? etc. Di mo pwede idikta ung tipong tumigil sa work etc.
huwag isisi kay heart lahat, 50% lang yung kailangan din ng 50% effort from Chiz. Sperm quality also decrease once the guy reached 40 y/o and above.. plus bush rin sa commitment si chiz palage rin ata wala sa bahay based sa vlog ni heart
I found out that i’m infertile and was honest with my husband that i’m not going to do treatments. This was 10 years ago. Maybe i’m not desperate enough to have kids.
So i admire those women who’s willing to go through this.
I'm with you, 2:53. Been happily married for 16 years now without Children. I and my husband don't yearn having one. People should have children because they want to and not because of society's pressure. And yes, just like you, I admire women who are willing to go through this because they really want to.
Patience, prayers and kapit lang! When I was going thru that almost 2 decades ago, I took up crocheting. Para akong luka luka. Ang dami kong na gantsilyong booties, baby blankets at bonnets. I even created a Christening layette. That was my way to believe, a positive reinforcement, kahit ilang beses nag fail yung cycles ko. My 2 kids got to wear those. Infinitely grateful, everytime may kakilala akong going thru the same journey or magkaka baby, I always create booties and blankets for them.
She does not need to rest. Mas mapapraning siya pag wala siya gagawin. She just need to slow down. Wag masyadong mabigat na project. Wag masyadong madami. 4 hours workin a day . Mga ganun lang
exactly. hindi naman kailangan mag-quit totally sa work. she just needs to slow things down. and make sure she spends time with her family. yung mga ayaw tanggapin na yan ang dapat gawin ni heart eh most likely doesn't know how stress can impact a woman's fertility.
Afaik, that’s their Plan C. She said earlier this year I think that if this Plan B doesn’t work, move na sila to Plan C. But of course it must be heartbreaking for her that Plan B is not working, especially with all the pressure coming from Pinoys na pakialamera.
Yung mga nag advice dyan na Heart should do this or that blah blah... Remind ko lang, life has to go on. I was trying for mine and all I can say is, if pregnancy is viable, it will happen. You only need rest if your OB says you need bedrest. Otherwise, maski anong hilata mo, pag waley, waley talaga.
Finally someone who gets it! And even if they’ve had IVF, doesn’t mean their experience can apply to Heart. Their circumstances are different from her so their unsolicited advice is pointless. Heart has been admittedly praning about her health so for sure whatever she does her doctors signed off on.
Totoo yan. Only your doctor will tell you, after the many medical tests of course, if your body isnready to carry a baby. Im sure Heart’s OB is one of the best kaya hayaan na natin siya. Her body, her rules.
She needs to work hard to maintain a certain lifestyle. If she wants kids, she needs to cut back on her commitments to give her body time to rest. Her work schedule is gruelling
I went through fertility treatments with my husband beside me to help me and it was still extremely hard. I don't know how anyone can cope with their husband far away. Kudos to Heart.
those progesteroe shots are super painful kasi malapot yang gamot na yan. i pray na makabuo na sila, not because they HAVE to but because the baby is so much wanted and will surely be showered with love.
maybe she should slow down sa work. stress is a big factor sa nangyayari sa katawan natin. if she hasnt tried na mag backdown muna sa work, she should. who knows. subukan nya lang
Haayy!! I love and value my heritage. Being filipino (blood and all) but please, could we stop bashing this wounded woman? Obviously Heart is yearning to be a mother. Stop this blaming game on her.
It is her journey. People shouldnt pressure her. Maybe she's sharing it because she's tired of people judging her for not being a mother yet. It means she is trying, but we cannot rush her outcome. Lots of prayers, love and a little Science.
ReplyDeleteMukhang ivf nga na hindi nag take 😢 if she's really serious about wanting a baby baka she has to stop all other endeavors muna. Give it her all ba para she can say na ginawa nya lahat. She can afford a year of not working naman.
ReplyDeleteGrabe ka naman. Hayaan mo sila mag desisyon sa buhay nila.
DeleteA year without work is a year with no income. She has people that work for her and bills to pay, no one in their right mind would stop working for a year, even the richest ones. Even if Chiz covers all the bills it will not be enough, plus all the medical expenses.
DeleteWho are you to tell her that? 11:46
DeleteHow about the husband? For all we know siya ang may problem na that's why they're seeking intervention na with science.
Deletedi nman tayo doktor pra sabihin yan
DeleteOa mo naman! Baka magka depression sya lalo nyan. Dapat balanced lang. Di yung naka focus ka lang sa isang bagay. Mababaliw ka nyan.
DeleteMalay natin kung coping mechanism din pala nya yung mga “endeavors” na yon diba.
DeleteLive and let live.
@3:28 chiz had twins saka duh for sure nagpacheck naman sila both no
DeleteAng daming uncertainty sa IVF and if you will put your life on hold for it mababaliw ka sa kakaisip, not to mention mga opportunities that will pass you by while waiting for a baby. Unlike regular pregnancy, IVf process can take years kung hndi successful ng first take.I am still undergoing the IVf process after mahabang panahon and wala pa ding result, and it can be depressing kung wala kang ibang ganap dahil sa dami ng possible fallures. Wag masyado judgy sa buhay ng iba dahil for sure si Heart gnagawa nya yung what is best for her situation dahil alam nya ang daily struggles ng buhay nya.
Deletepakialaman nyo ung nasa 4ps garbe kung mag anak maintain pagigingahirap. aba wawa naman ung nagbabayad ng tax.
Deletemalay mo mala jennilyn mercado sya magpapasurrogate tas biglang nabuntis. ppagnaghahanap ka di mo mahanap pag dikananaghanap mahahanap mo na.
DeleteHoping for something exciting to happen for Heart and Chiz. A friend of mine conceived through IVF (lucky for them free sya sa UK!), she shares on soc med the struggle and I admire their courage. I’m lucky to have conceived naturally although I had my fair share of negative PT for the first 6 months.
ReplyDeleteIt was free. But now you have to meet certain criteria and the waiting list is long. We planned to go through IVF but does not meet the criteria nor have enough money to do private. But by God's grace we were blessed to have child years after.
DeletePregnant ba siya to have progesterone shots?
ReplyDeleteNeed ng progesterone shots to prep for embryo transfer if she's doing hormonal replacement treatment. Until mga two weeks yun if (-) ang blood test, if (+) naman, until mga 10th week ng pregnancy.
DeleteBaka na ffrustrate na sha kasi di makabuo. Kahit naman di nia directang ishare, halata nmn n gsto tlga nila magka baby. Hopefully makabuo na sila and mcarry successfully din
ReplyDeleteTingin ko kailangan ni Heart ng time off from work at busy life kung hindi nag w-work ang IVF. Minsan stress pala ang sagabal. Parang she's always working and traveling. Alam kong importante ang career niya pero she needs to make a choice. Kung ano mas matimbang for now. Makakabalik pa rin naman siya siguro.
ReplyDeleteWe can't disregard that there's a male factor, too. Chiz isn't young anymore and having kids then doesnt mean na hindi sya ang may challenge this time. He's also super unavailable, Heart shared in her vlog na laging wala si Chiz kaya hindi nahahabol yung fertile window nya. I hope it works out for them! Nakakapagod physically and emotionally yung cycles. Dami pang pressures towards Heart as if lahat ng factors kargo nya.
DeleteAgreed. For some women you can't have both talaga. Minsan naman meron din iba na kahit naka drugs at unhealthy ang lifestyle, nakaka buo pa din lol. Life is full of irony..
DeleteYes true 12:21. We had 4-5 failed artificial insemination and IVF. Nakaka- stress all the procedures and waiting. Nakaka pressure kaya siguro hirap makabuo. Nag give up nalang kami and decided na ok na kahit wala, bahala na si God kung anong plan nya for us. Now we have 3 beautiful kids, lahat unexpected ang pregnancy. Di planado. Sa youngest ko I gave birth at 43.
DeleteIt took me 8 yrs and several rounds of treatment before we were blessed with our 1st child via assisted insemination. I had to learn to do the injections myself and then nung nabuntis, I had to take progesterone vaginally to prevent a miscarriage. Yung 8 yrs na yun were very stressful and frustrating. We almost gave up. Exacerbated yung anxiety as I was holding a stressful job at that time, along with the pressure na rin as naghahabol kami ng time before I turned 35. Baka mas mahirapan na daw ako, sabi ng mg specialists na tumitingin sa akin noon. Once things came into a head, we decided to take the plunge na, quit my job, para lang mabawasan yung stress. Prior to that, muntikan na rin kami but sadly it was a molar pregnancy. Stress talaga ang kalaban niyan so once I cut down, dun nabuo yung son namin. Two yrs later, before I started another cycle of treatments again, welcome surprise yung bunso. That was 16 yrs. ago. So yes, I would agree with 12:21 wholeheartedly. A wise sage also gave us the advice that there is a season for everything. Kaya I made the choice to focus. So very true!
DeletePara sa mga chismosong nagsasabing ayaw ni Heart magkaanak. Here is one of the many proofs you’re dead wrong. She’s been going through IVF since early this year. That process is excruciating physically, mentally, and emotionally. Kaya mali kayo for saying ayaw niya magkaanak.
ReplyDeleteProbably Vit B 12 shots which promotes weight loss. That explains her weight loss.
ReplyDeleteWRONG. It’s for IVF, her weight loss is diet aided by her nutritionist.
DeleteHindi, talaga nag work out siya and meron siya personal fitness coach.
DeleteTrue, thats the part they give the shot. Need to have twice a week.
DeleteHey stop posting if you aren’t sure. I take my B12 shots to help in my metabolism
DeleteNope she is very strict with her bone marrow cleanse and intermittent fasting. Progesterone yan para makaharvest ng eggs
DeleteIf she really wants this, focus on your married life not rampa.
ReplyDeleteIt is not rampa naman. Always work.
DeleteHindi mo alam personal struggles ni heart. Just sayinggg :) peace
DeleteWow so harsh! That rampa you're saying is her job. So backward thinking naman.
DeleteAt sino ka para magmando? Work nya yan accla. Mas mabuti ngang masaya syang rumarampa
DeleteWhile working on being pregnant. Let her be… kung mabubuo mabubuo yan kahit tumambling pa sya sa paris. Kalokah ka!
12:35 - You dont have her lifestyle. So dont give advice na mga ganyan. Or comments. walang contract teh??? Ikaw mag babayad ng clause teh?
DeleteEto yung mga makaluma mag isip na ang fashion ay walang kabuluhan at rampa rampa lang. So condescending. Her rampa, FYI, is her bread and butter and pasweldo sa staff niya. She gets paid for the content, appearances, and endorsements she makes.
Delete4:21 Eh ayan na nga at inamin na nya mismo na HINDI SYA MASAYA. Gahd. Hirap naman umintindi ng iba dito. She can't have her cake and eat it, too. It's one or the other.
Delete2:18 Ikaw ata namali intindi gurl, porke hindi masaya ang advice agad eh tumigil na sa ginagawa niya at magfocus na lang sa married life?? It’s not one or the other, we are capable of doing things at the same time. Masyado kang binary mag-isip. Also, she never said na hindi siya masaya sa ginagawa niya.
DeleteI agree with you, 2:18. We will be bashed for saying this but yes, if one REALLY wants to get pregnant/have a child then one needs to make SACRIFICES. Hindi yung gusto mo na sayo lahat.
DeleteIt’s her job hahaha influencer lang siya ngayon na lulong sa mga fashion week! 🙄
DeleteIVF is such a difficult journey. I had failed IVF/Surrogacy twice. In time if God permits, magkakaron din ako ng mga sarili kong anak.
ReplyDeleteSending prayers and baby dust your way! Was once in that journey.
DeleteTrue 12:38. We had several failed artificial insemination and 4 IVF. Physically, financially and emotionally draining. We decided to stop nalang and wait kung anong plan ni God for us. Now we are blessed with beautiful 3 kids after 10 years of waiting and lahat unexpected pregnancy. Sa youngest namin, 43y/o ako when I gave birth. Prayers talaga and bawasan ang stress. IVF sobrang nakaka stress ang procedure at pressure.
DeleteHugs 12:38. IVF can be draining, I'm still in the process and parang gusto ko na din umayaw sa dami ng challenges. I hope you get what your heart desires soon.
Delete8:57 and 9:47 thanks to you two. Sobra sobra yung stress na binigay sa akin ng IVF/SURROGACY. Ang hirap lang lalo na sa kulturang pinoy na napaka cruel ng iba minsan na tipong nag iimpose sa kung ano dapat etc. May mga bagay na hindi para sa lahat or hindi pa panahon kht anong pilit natin.
DeleteJusko, ang sakit nyan. Kumuha nga lang ng dugo every check up while buntis, hate na hate ko na pero tiniis para sa baby. Ito tlaga walang kasiguruhan na mabubuo.
ReplyDeleteYou don’t have to have the best of everything to be happy but you can have just a little bit of everything and still be happy and peaceful. Learn to be content. One day at a time.
ReplyDeleteWho’s saying she’s trying to be the best? She’s just working and hustling just like the rest of us. She has bills to pay you know.
Delete2:47 Sa lagay na yan ba di pa rin enough kinikita nya for her to pay her bills?
Delete2:17 The money she earns di lang napupunta sa kanya no. She has people who depend on her for a living, kung hindi siya magwork ano ipasweldo niya aber? Even if she has savings, savings yon.
DeleteMasyado lang high maintenance ang new lifestyle niya .
DeleteMy sister and my sister in law had to gi through that journey.. It’s not easy.. Lots of prayers for heart.. It’s time we normalize ivf struggles too..
ReplyDelete9 years married, 5 years (LDR marriage) together kame ng husband ko and 3 years of trying to conceive. Every time na dumating period ko, nadedepress ako. Until I said I will not hope anymore. Pero our Creator heard my cries, I am 30 weeks pregnant and were having a baby boy. It came at a right time na di kame parehong stressed ng husband ko and medyo afford na namin. I'm hoping for thr best for you heart. Your babies will be so blessed lalo na pag magkaron ka ng babae.
ReplyDeleteCongrats momsh
DeleteHappy for you. Thanl God :)
DeleteHappy for you !! Personal struggle talaga yan na magkaroon ng baby..inggit nga ako sainyo..ako 37 na..walang BF,nagiisip nga ako..pano pa kaya ako magkakaanak..hahaha 😅
DeleteShe should give up her her career for the meantime, maano ba naman yung what 6 months na break afford naman nya, yan ay kung gusto nya talaga
ReplyDeleteAw madali sabihin kasi hindi ikaw nasa sitwasyon niya baks
DeleteHindi ba puwede sabay? Lol Saka Bakit Parang siya sinisisi niyo eh yung husband matanda na.
DeleteAgree.
Delete1:21 - You can't just leave your work lalo na if you're under contract. So, it's not a financial issue. You can't give advise kagad, if you don't know the person's lifestyle or job. What you can do is just pray for the person health. Pag close mo, dun mo itanong - ARe you able to rest ba? or can you have a spare time for the baby? etc. Di mo pwede idikta ung tipong tumigil sa work etc.
DeleteShe has to choose for now.
ReplyDeletehuwag isisi kay heart lahat, 50% lang yung kailangan din ng 50% effort from Chiz. Sperm quality also decrease once the guy reached 40 y/o and above.. plus bush rin sa commitment si chiz palage rin ata wala sa bahay based sa vlog ni heart
ReplyDeleteI found out that i’m infertile and was honest with my husband that i’m not going to do treatments. This was 10 years ago. Maybe i’m not desperate enough to have kids.
ReplyDeleteSo i admire those women who’s willing to go through this.
I'm with you, 2:53. Been happily married for 16 years now without Children. I and my husband don't yearn having one. People should have children because they want to and not because of society's pressure. And yes, just like you, I admire women who are willing to go through this because they really want to.
DeleteIba-iba rin siyempre ang priorities ng mga tao. Ang iba ay gustong magkaanak, ang iba naman ay ayaw at ang iba pa ay bahala na kung ano.
DeleteI am currently on IVF… the journey is emotionally and financially draining… #dominionfertility, Virginia
ReplyDeleteDraining sa lahat ng aspect. Goodluck with your journey.
DeletePatience, prayers and kapit lang! When I was going thru that almost 2 decades ago, I took up crocheting. Para akong luka luka. Ang dami kong na gantsilyong booties, baby blankets at bonnets. I even created a Christening layette. That was my way to believe, a positive reinforcement, kahit ilang beses nag fail yung cycles ko. My 2 kids got to wear those. Infinitely grateful, everytime may kakilala akong going thru the same journey or magkaka baby, I always create booties and blankets for them.
DeleteNakapag harvest naman na yata ng eggs. Hope it will be successful yun IVF journey niya.
ReplyDeleteShe does not need to rest. Mas mapapraning siya pag wala siya gagawin. She just need to slow down. Wag masyadong mabigat na project. Wag masyadong madami. 4 hours workin a day . Mga ganun lang
ReplyDeleteexactly. hindi naman kailangan mag-quit totally sa work. she just needs to slow things down. and make sure she spends time with her family. yung mga ayaw tanggapin na yan ang dapat gawin ni heart eh most likely doesn't know how stress can impact a woman's fertility.
Deletethere are other ways pa to have a child like adoption or surrogate. if she really wants to, sana iconsider niya other ways
ReplyDeleteAfaik, that’s their Plan C. She said earlier this year I think that if this Plan B doesn’t work, move na sila to Plan C. But of course it must be heartbreaking for her that Plan B is not working, especially with all the pressure coming from Pinoys na pakialamera.
Deletelet her try first on her own. Give her a chance.
DeleteYung mga nag advice dyan na Heart should do this or that blah blah... Remind ko lang, life has to go on. I was trying for mine and all I can say is, if pregnancy is viable, it will happen. You only need rest if your OB says you need bedrest. Otherwise, maski anong hilata mo, pag waley, waley talaga.
ReplyDeleteFinally someone who gets it! And even if they’ve had IVF, doesn’t mean their experience can apply to Heart. Their circumstances are different from her so their unsolicited advice is pointless. Heart has been admittedly praning about her health so for sure whatever she does her doctors signed off on.
DeleteTotoo yan. Only your doctor will tell you, after the many medical tests of course, if your body isnready to carry a baby. Im sure Heart’s OB is one of the best kaya hayaan na natin siya. Her body, her rules.
Deletekorek ito. ang tagal ko nagpawork up. nag-sabbatical pa ako from work para lang maprioritize at hindi mastress. pero wala talaga.
Deletewhen i gave up na and did all the “bawal” things, dun pa nabuo!
She needs to work hard to maintain a certain lifestyle. If she wants kids, she needs to cut back on her commitments to give her body time to rest. Her work schedule is gruelling
ReplyDeleteTrue, I super agree. Pang single life yung career nya now. She needs to decide on what does she really wants.
DeleteI went through fertility treatments with my husband beside me to help me and it was still extremely hard. I don't know how anyone can cope with their husband far away. Kudos to Heart.
ReplyDeleteSa lahat ng may pinagdadaanan ditong mga ka-FP, maliit man yan or malaki, makakalampas din tayo. *group hug*
ReplyDeletethose progesteroe shots are super painful kasi malapot yang gamot na yan. i pray na makabuo na sila, not because they HAVE to but because the baby is so much wanted and will surely be showered with love.
ReplyDeleteHuh sakin di naman masyado. Or maybe makapal lang balat ko. Hehe
DeleteMay post sya kanina na pair of shoes and the caption reads “A new walk of life”
ReplyDeletemaybe she should slow down sa work. stress is a big factor sa nangyayari sa katawan natin. if she hasnt tried na mag backdown muna sa work, she should. who knows. subukan nya lang
ReplyDeleteHaayy!! I love and value my heritage. Being filipino (blood and all) but please, could we stop bashing this wounded woman? Obviously Heart is yearning to be a mother. Stop this blaming game on her.
ReplyDeleteTry nya kaya muna wag paalis-alis. :(
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