12:04 Hahahaha. May naalala ako kapitbahay namin. Lagi sya naglalagay ng candle as profile pic. Pero kung tatanungin mo sino namatay mostly hindi nya kamag-anak. Kakilala nya lang. Para syang spokesperson ng mga namatayn sa amin. I doubt kung kinausap sya ng mga namatayan na sya maging spokesperson. Yung ibang commenters naman na hindi nagbabasa o nagtatanong kino-comfort sya. Parang tanga lang.
Ibang klase talaga trip ng mga Pinoy. Yung friend ko naman naglagay ng candle profile sa sarili nyang account at nag pretend na ang anak ang me hawak ng account kse pinatay nya sarili nya. Di namin alam na pati pala yung account ng anak nya sya rin me hawak. At yung anak ang nag announce na patay na Mama nya. Muntik sampigahin ng pinsan nya kse muntik ma ER ang sarili nyang kapatid dahil sa shock.
She can do whatever she wants in private pero if you post it and made it public, meron at meron talaga pupuna. It is what it is. I mean even sa mga bagay nga na more or less wala talagang mali, hahanapan ka ng mali kaya sa post nya na yan marami talaga mag react since it goes against the norm. Even if she posted it for just relatives, im sure meron isa sa kanila na would feel off kahit gets nila yung reason ni Bianca. I understand that she wants to move on and live life..it is her prerogative though sa other side, meron din kasing gmrc na kahit man sabihin mong outdated na, it still serves a purpose. Party and death just do not mix except nalang kung yung party is a celebration of the life of the deceased.
Hahaha natawa naman ako sa top comment. Yeah, it doesn't mean she's partying, e nakalimutan na nya nanay nya. I am sure she is grieving inside. And going out even just for a moment to take away the pain you feel is completely understandable. Iba iba naman ang tao.
Classy. People should learn na magkakaiba iba tayo ng way para maggrieve. Kakamatay lang ng little sister ko, sobrang sakit. Pero mas gusto kong lumabas kasama barkada ko para maibsan yung sakit. Pansamantala, nakakalimot ako pero trust me, pag mag isa na lang ako sa kwarto, dun na ulit aatake ang sakit. As in walang kasing sakit. Pero I tried not to show to people na dumadaan ako sa ganung grievance. Only my immediate fam knows. Also, in Islam, we are advice na huwag mapag isa at magluksa sa namatay mong mahal sa buhay. Mas lalo lang kasing mahihirapan sya sa kabilang buhay.
Virtual hugs po, with consent. Iba iba talaga kung paano mag-luksa ang tao. When I lost my little brother, nagmukmok ako sa kwarto. Hindi ako naliligo. I got so depressed. Ayaw ko na mabuhay. 4 years na nakalipas, I got better. I moved forward, pero it doesn’t mean okay na ako. Some days will be better, at some days akala mo kahapon lang nangyari lahat. Kapit lang, commenter
Request ng kapatid ko na namatay. Wag kami malungkot at ibalik sa normal ang buhay after nya malibing. Mahirap pero need na gumawa ng paglilibangan para maka move on.
Sending love and respect to all of you, us, who are experiencing grief. It is not easy and the least we can do for those who are going through this is to be kind.
Masakit talaga. Nag-passed away ang tatay ko at sobrang sakit pa rin. Hindi alam ng iba kung gaano kasakit dahil hindi pa nila nae-experience ang mawalan ng mahal sa buhay na close sa kanila.
12:04 I’ll be praying for you. We are on the same boat. I lost my dad last year. I had to go out para malimutan ko iyong sakit kahit pa minsan lng. Then i posted it on facebook kasi maganda iyong lugar. 1 friend messaged me and said “buti naman nka move on ka agad nag travel ka na”. It was too painful to read. They just don’t know gaano kahirap na damdamin iyong sakit. Be happy, kahit mahirap pipilitin natin.
hugs to all experiencing grief. my father passed away few wks ago. i never posted pictures on my fb nor changed my profile pic to candles or black background. He knowes we dearly love him, i grieve in silence. People dont have to see my swollen face ( from crying ) in public
Just lost my mother August last year due to covid. Halos ikamatay ko ang nangyari dahil hindi ako handa at umaasang magkikita kami kapag ok na ang covid sa Pinas.. nasa nursing home siya since 2019 para maalagaan mabuti dahil nandito na kami sa Guam ng family ko at ang brother ko naman ay isang military officer at laging nasa destino. Napakasakit at hindi ko alam kung hanggang kailan ang ganitong pakiramdam. Kung hindi lang dahil sa mag-aama ko at may takot ako sa Panginoon, baka malamang hindi ko kinaya at nakaisip na ako ng hindi maganda. There are no comforting words to lessen the pain deep inside me. I miss my mother so much.
My father died 20 years ago and we were advised to travel to cope with grief. When I was diagnosed with cancer, my doctor advised me to travel, Kahit domestic Lang. When you are grieving try to explore other things kahit umiiyak ka araw araw dahil sa sakit.
Condolences to everyone here for their losses. Acknowledge natin grief natin and allow us to feel it our own way. It never really goes away, sometimes its big and looming, sometimes, small and manageable. A loss is a loss. But the people we loved and lost would not want us to lose our own zest for life. Kung baga let’s live our best lives for them, too. We celebrate them by making them part of the happy life we build moving forward.
Gandang mag ina. Admittedly, it comes off to see a daughter partying so soon when a parent just passed on. And i think it has nothing to do with culture.
12:10 and 4:02 escapism po ksi ang tawag s ginawa nya ksi maraming tao ang gusto makalimot khit saglit lng s sakit n nararamdaman nila. Either they go to party, travel, or be alone. Respect n lng
I’m glad na hindi ko pa naeexperience yun, pero mas mahirap magsabi kung ano gagawin natin or hindi kung wala ka sa lugar nila.. Iba iba ang handling ng problema ng tao. Nung namatay ang lola ko, una kong ginawa is magwork the next day, kasi dko kayang umuwi sa empty house to accept yung fact na wala na sila. So hindi din tayo pwede mag assume na because we do it or wont do it, masama kna pag hindi kapareho ng way mo ang “right way” of coping ng ibang tao.
I will never understand people like you 12:10 and 4:02 na kailangan pang sabihing off just because they are different from your norm. May mga bagay na dapat sinasarili na lang gaya nyang comment niyo sa totoo lang!
12:10 and 4:02 Bianca could say the same thing to you. She might find it off and pathetic if you live miserably instead of living your life in the moment.
Baka gusto ng basher, magmukmok nalang sa house and mamatay din sa depression. It doesn’t measure how much you love a person by showing off na malungkot ka nalang thats why may sinasabi tayo na cheer up sa mga malulungkot.
Ayan na mga kababayan kong chismosa! Ipagkalat natin ang ating kultura worldwide! Hanggat may dugong pinoy ang isang tao may karapatan tayong mag desisyon sa feelings nito lalo na pag showbiz related! Kaya tara na! Proud pinoy!
Nothing less from Cherie Gil's daughter! We laugh at Karen videos and yet these kinds of pakikialam messages are very Karen - we actually have more Karens here than the US!
Anu ba yan! Some grieve in silence okay. Hinde ibig sabihin hinde ka umiyak sa libing ng asawa, kapatid, magulang Or sino man malapit sa puso ko wala kana pakialam hinde ka nag luluksa. Ako nga If that happened to Me sa anak ni Cherie i would rather Go far away lumabas para mabawasan ang lungkot.
I like what she said on the last part... I am a mom myself, if God forbid I have to go I want my kids to enjoy the life I gave them-heck I sacrificed a lot( body image issues, labour pains, engorged breasts, etc.) just to safely deliver them into this world. I want them to cherish life. Grieving is a journey... it stays with you forever, you live with it... there’s no time frame...If I passed I know they will miss me and cry but I want them to live their best life and be happy until we meet again.
1:42 PM - Huh? 12:22 AM shared a sensible comment, more sensible than the usual comments here like yours. It's not drama. Ung sa yo, hindi din drama - mema. Galit ka sa articulate?
i remember in the late 90s pumanaw ang lolo namin. biglang nag midnight madness sale sa sm north… from the province pinaluwas kami ng tito ko para bumili ng mga cellphones saming mga bagets ang take one… ayun, napagalitan kaming magpinsan pati ang tito ko ng mga mas tanders
To whom doesnshe needsnto be sensitive too? She doesn't owe you any any sensitivitiesnwith this matter. She's the daughter and can gireve in any way she wants to as how she was raised. Sumobra pagiging pakialamerang snowflake mo
Insensitive because? We have different ways of grieving. Kamag-anak ka ba? Kung yung anak nga, chose to grieve by partying, affected ka masyado. Baka gusto mong makipaglibing.
Si 12:34 ang isa s mga pakealemerang frog n tinutukoy ni daughter. Hndi porket hndi naaayon s iyong narrative ang reaction ng ibang tao ay insensitive n. Aral k kaya ng kahit konting psychology para s ganyun ay malaman mo why many people want to escape from their own sorrow from time to time.
12:34 AM - insensitive kanino? Sya ung namatayan. She can't be insensitive to herself unless may DID sya.
Oh insensitive to you, a Maritess! Oonga naman, how insensitive of her to you a total stranger who neither knew her mom or her or her family. Yeah how insensitive of her. I apologize on her behalf. (Yes sarcasm)
This is okay to be out there living your life! I did the same when my Father passed away. I mingled with my friends, went out and explored places. That’s part of healing. Some people don’t like seeing you happy talaga. Bet nila makita na sad ka. Kaya you do what you gonna do nalang. Keber sa mga toxic ampalaya.
Kanya kanya way yan on how to deal personal issues or problems or tragedies Marami jan depressed pero gigising mag wo work kala mo wala problema yun pala meron Pwede ka naman mag party then you can grieve in your personal time
Pag namatayan ba dapat magpaka miserable? Malungkot? Humagulgol s kakaiyak? Tsaka she grew up sa ibang bansa, we also don't know her religion, wala tayo alam about her, kung uso ba yan 40 days what ever
Last holy week my father died, then a week later my aunt died as well, and barely a week after she was buried, my sister in law also followed them to the other side. You'd think we'd all be moping and drowning in sorrows - but no. All immediate and extended families went to the beach to party and we brought along their picture frames so they won't be left behind. So yes, we all have our own ways of grieving, for us it was to celebrate the thought that they're now pain free and happy in the afterlife while the rest of us who remained should continue living our lives. A week after, we went to a different beach and celebrated multiple birthdays and thankful we are all still alive to celebrate the occasion.
That’s the true spirit of celebrating their lives and honoring them by still living but keeping hem in our thoughts and hearts always. We don’t have to. Be crippled by grief.
Grabe naman. Kami nga after ilang days mamatay ng child namin, nanonood na kami ng sine ng partner ko. Para lang di kami malugmok sa sakit. Pero pagkatapos naman nun, naiyak pa din kami
I remember nung namatay brother ni Nadine. Mga friends niya pumunta sa bahay nila ni James and they worked out everyday. She got bashed because of that. Yun pala, it’s to release stress and of course yun naman talaga ang side effect ng exercise. Kaya full support friends niya nag exercise sila magkakasama to relieve stress.
Sa US, ang wake hindi buong linggo may viewing. Naka schedule kung anong araw lang ang viewing. Hindi nag pipirmi ang pamilya sa funeral home hanggang sa araw ng libing. FYI lang.
A friend of mine who lost a parent years ago said na pag malapit na pamilya ang nawala sa buhay mo, grieving doesn't stop. Laging andyan yan. There are days na ok na ok ka, there are days na bigla mo silang mamimiss at iiyak ka, there are days sa you feel like you want to celebrate/honor them and yung legacy nila, etc. Hindi yan natatapos. It's just a matter of living with it. Kanya-kanya yan. Irespeto natin ang proseso/journey nila. Cherie's children, they don't need to answer to anyone tungkol sa pagluluksa nila. Pls. lang respetuhin natin yun.
When my mom passed away, I cried in the shower, I cried in my car driving to work, I cried in my car driving home, I cried in my bed when everyone's asleep. All these I did just to protect my loved ones' feelings. We are all hurting so bad that to see someone cry over and over again bring back all the pain of losing our mother. For the grieving, cry it all out. It took me 5 years to accept that my mom's gone.
I lost my parents 2 consecutive years and I still feel bad about losing them. I’ve never posted anything on my FB because for me there was no need to post messages for my parents on social media. I just prayed and cried privately.
10:16 AM - prolly a coping mechanism since we just entered the golden age aka ginto lahat ng presyo and as prices spiral out of control, salaries remain the same and people are losing jobs
Her rules. Her life. The girl is not even showbiz, so why the heck she should mind what other people are saying. Mga Pinoy talaga, marites na, pakialamero pa.
12:58 PM - no, mali ka dyan. hindi porket follower ka you can comment anything on the post. lalo na mag dm para sabihan sya on how she should act during her time of loss.
ako naman medyo naging judgmental talaga kc noong namatay pinsan ko nakita ko ung anak nyang teenager nag titiktok sa harap ng casket. tapos post sa fb, wala kong sinabi pero nagulat ako. kasi post ng post ng miss you mommy sa my day habang sumasayaw nawiweirduhan ako. ewan ko d ko masakyan trip ng mga teeenagers ngaun sorry. iba lang cguro ung knalakihan ko. pinapatahimik kc kami pag nasa lamay. uupo lang at magppray.
Hindi ako magpaparty if a close family member passed away. But that's me. HIndi ako magp-pm sa taong di ko naman kilala ng personal to impose my belief.
Seeing how Cherie Gil lived her life, even she would encourage her daughter to live hers fully even when she's gone. Mga tao talaga, kala mas marunong pa. They likely had a lot of time for grieving since matagal na rin nagsuffer dahil sa sakit ang mom niya, now that suffering is done, she is free of pain.
Gosh kapal ng mukha ng basher. You don’t know her personally, maybe she cried for days and her friends invited her out so she won’t feel lonely or depressed. Maybe she posted it to show her friends and family that she’s okay, and she’s not wallowing in sadness. Problema mo ba kung gusto nya mag party, nanay nya mismo nagsabi live life to the fullest.
May katarayan din si daughter. nani2bago Lang siguro yung nag ask kasi Hindi Gnun ang way nting mga Pinoy karamihan pag nwalan ng mhal s buhay. but Tama din nmn sya iba2 din ang pagggrieve but I’m very sure na nalu2ngkot silang mga anak nang sobra at nangu2lila.
6:56 AM - you're seriously asking her to adjust to your "Pinoy" way of grieving?! and if she doesn't, may katarayan sya? kung sabihan kayo na "may kabastusan" din kayo kasi sya ang namatayan pero you expect her to grieve according to your "Pinoy way of grieving"
Sinabi ko ba na mag adjust sya sa Pinoy way of grieving?! Basahin mo nga uli comment ko?!. naicocompare ko Lang ksi I’m sure Pinoy yung nagcomment sa kanya na nagparty sya after her Mom passing. Saka talaga nmn may katarayan din response nya sa nag ask. But like I said Tama nmn sya iba2 ang pag cope up sa grieving at Dapat Lang mgpatuloy ang buhay. at like I said I’m very sure na nagdadalamhati ang family sa pagkawala ni Ms. Cherie Gil.
Iba iba tayo ng grieving process... Before she died, my mom made us promise na dapat ituloy namin ang bonggang birthday bash ng lola ko kahit ano pang mangyari. She died a few weeks before the scheduled date. Tinuloy talaga namin ang plano nya dahil yun ang wish nya.
I can definitely relate sa kanya. Iba kasi when you have a loved one na may cancer. Dun mo talaga ma realize na life is too short, and we should all live our lives to the fullest. Kung wala man lang silang inagrabyadong tao, then they should be free to express their grief.
Baka gusto rin ni basher na palitan ng candle ang profile pic ni Bianca?
ReplyDelete12:04 Hahahaha. May naalala ako kapitbahay namin. Lagi sya naglalagay ng candle as profile pic. Pero kung tatanungin mo sino namatay mostly hindi nya kamag-anak. Kakilala nya lang. Para syang spokesperson ng mga namatayn sa amin. I doubt kung kinausap sya ng mga namatayan na sya maging spokesperson. Yung ibang commenters naman na hindi nagbabasa o nagtatanong kino-comfort sya. Parang tanga lang.
Delete12:34 just let her be singlalim lang siguro ng balon ang sympathy niya sa ibang tao.
Delete12:34 luh parang yong kilala ko rin kahit hindi kamag-anak, tyuhin lang ng bayaw nya.
DeleteIbang klase talaga trip ng mga Pinoy. Yung friend ko naman naglagay ng candle profile sa sarili nyang account at nag pretend na ang anak ang me hawak ng account kse pinatay nya sarili nya. Di namin alam na pati pala yung account ng anak nya sya rin me hawak. At yung anak ang nag announce na patay na Mama nya. Muntik sampigahin ng pinsan nya kse muntik ma ER ang sarili nyang kapatid dahil sa shock.
DeleteMind ur own business, scratch ur own galis, BASHER!🙄🙄🙄
DeleteYung friend ko naman galit sa jowa ,nglagay ng candle as profile pic sa fb. Dami comments kung cnu na tigok.Naloka mga ka pamilya nya
DeleteShe can do whatever she wants in private pero if you post it and made it public, meron at meron talaga pupuna. It is what it is. I mean even sa mga bagay nga na more or less wala talagang mali, hahanapan ka ng mali kaya sa post nya na yan marami talaga mag react since it goes against the norm. Even if she posted it for just relatives, im sure meron isa sa kanila na would feel off kahit gets nila yung reason ni Bianca. I understand that she wants to move on and live life..it is her prerogative though sa other side, meron din kasing gmrc na kahit man sabihin mong outdated na, it still serves a purpose. Party and death just do not mix except nalang kung yung party is a celebration of the life of the deceased.
Delete3:24, aray ko. Sakit ng tiyan ko sa katatawa🤣🤣🤣
Delete3:24, buset ka🤣
DeleteNakakaloka naman yan 3:24
DeletePakialamera!
DeleteHahaha natawa naman ako sa top comment. Yeah, it doesn't mean she's partying, e nakalimutan na nya nanay nya. I am sure she is grieving inside. And going out even just for a moment to take away the pain you feel is completely understandable. Iba iba naman ang tao.
DeleteClassy. People should learn na magkakaiba iba tayo ng way para maggrieve. Kakamatay lang ng little sister ko, sobrang sakit. Pero mas gusto kong lumabas kasama barkada ko para maibsan yung sakit. Pansamantala, nakakalimot ako pero trust me, pag mag isa na lang ako sa kwarto, dun na ulit aatake ang sakit. As in walang kasing sakit. Pero I tried not to show to people na dumadaan ako sa ganung grievance. Only my immediate fam knows. Also, in Islam, we are advice na huwag mapag isa at magluksa sa namatay mong mahal sa buhay. Mas lalo lang kasing mahihirapan sya sa kabilang buhay.
ReplyDeletehugs for you kapatid..
DeleteGusto kasi nila yung tipong maglupasay at ngumalngal.
DeleteVirtual hugs po, with consent. Iba iba talaga kung paano mag-luksa ang tao. When I lost my little brother, nagmukmok ako sa kwarto. Hindi ako naliligo. I got so depressed. Ayaw ko na mabuhay. 4 years na nakalipas, I got better. I moved forward, pero it doesn’t mean okay na ako. Some days will be better, at some days akala mo kahapon lang nangyari lahat. Kapit lang, commenter
DeleteRequest ng kapatid ko na namatay. Wag kami malungkot at ibalik sa normal ang buhay after nya malibing. Mahirap pero need na gumawa ng paglilibangan para maka move on.
DeleteKami nga nagpapatugtog agad ng mga sayaw the next day after malibing. Iba iba ang ways.
DeleteSending love and respect to all of you, us, who are experiencing grief. It is not easy and the least we can do for those who are going through this is to be kind.
DeleteMasakit talaga. Nag-passed away ang tatay ko at sobrang sakit pa rin. Hindi alam ng iba kung gaano kasakit dahil hindi pa nila nae-experience ang mawalan ng mahal sa buhay na close sa kanila.
Delete12:04 I’ll be praying for you. We are on the same boat. I lost my dad last year. I had to go out para malimutan ko iyong sakit kahit pa minsan lng. Then i posted it on facebook kasi maganda iyong lugar. 1 friend messaged me and said “buti naman nka move on ka agad nag travel ka na”. It was too painful to read. They just don’t know gaano kahirap na damdamin iyong sakit. Be happy, kahit mahirap pipilitin natin.
Deletehugs to all experiencing grief. my father passed away few wks ago. i never posted pictures on my fb nor changed my profile pic to candles or black background. He knowes we dearly love him, i grieve in silence. People dont have to see my swollen face ( from crying ) in public
DeleteJust lost my mother August last year due to covid. Halos ikamatay ko ang nangyari dahil hindi ako handa at umaasang magkikita kami kapag ok na ang covid sa Pinas.. nasa nursing home siya since 2019 para maalagaan mabuti dahil nandito na kami sa Guam ng family ko at ang brother ko naman ay isang military officer at laging nasa destino. Napakasakit at hindi ko alam kung hanggang kailan ang ganitong pakiramdam. Kung hindi lang dahil sa mag-aama ko at may takot ako sa Panginoon, baka malamang hindi ko kinaya at nakaisip na ako ng hindi maganda. There are no comforting words to lessen the pain deep inside me. I miss my mother so much.
DeleteMy father died 20 years ago and we were advised to travel to cope with grief. When I was diagnosed with cancer, my doctor advised me to travel, Kahit domestic Lang. When you are grieving try to explore other things kahit umiiyak ka araw araw dahil sa sakit.
DeleteCondolences to everyone here for their losses. Acknowledge natin grief natin and allow us to feel it our own way. It never really goes away, sometimes its big and looming, sometimes, small and manageable. A loss is a loss. But the people we loved and lost would not want us to lose our own zest for life. Kung baga let’s live our best lives for them, too. We celebrate them by making them part of the happy life we build moving forward.
DeleteThanks everyone. Virtual hugs sa’ting lahat. Sabi nga ni Ongina “Life is a celebration”
DeletePinoy yan malamang .
ReplyDeleteMind your own business. Every person has his own ways of dealing with grief. So many holier than thou out there. Annoying.
ReplyDeleteEh ano ngayon ke magparty siya o magwala buhah niya yan
ReplyDeleteMaging Marites ka but never ever judge a person who is grieving. Maybe this is her way to cope or maybe not. Hayaan na lang natin sila.
ReplyDeleteThis is so true. Napakabastos ng comment.
DeleteGandang mag ina.
ReplyDeleteAdmittedly, it comes off to see a daughter partying so soon when a parent just passed on. And i think it has nothing to do with culture.
Agree, my foreign dad didn't even party for 1 year after his parents death. Wala pa yata 40 days
DeleteAko rin, won’t party if my mom or any family member just passed away. It’s kinda off.
Delete12:10 and 4:02 escapism po ksi ang tawag s ginawa nya ksi maraming tao ang gusto makalimot khit saglit lng s sakit n nararamdaman nila. Either they go to party, travel, or be alone. Respect n lng
DeleteYou do you.
DeleteI’m glad na hindi ko pa naeexperience yun, pero mas mahirap magsabi kung ano gagawin natin or hindi kung wala ka sa lugar nila.. Iba iba ang handling ng problema ng tao. Nung namatay ang lola ko, una kong ginawa is magwork the next day, kasi dko kayang umuwi sa empty house to accept yung fact na wala na sila. So hindi din tayo pwede mag assume na because we do it or wont do it, masama kna pag hindi kapareho ng way mo ang “right way” of coping ng ibang tao.
DeleteI will never understand people like you 12:10 and 4:02 na kailangan pang sabihing off just because they are different from your norm. May mga bagay na dapat sinasarili na lang gaya nyang comment niyo sa totoo lang!
DeleteEh di wag kayong pumarty at magsaya! Jusko pati pag-grieve ng ibang tao pinapakialaman niyo. Kaloka.
Delete12:10 4:02 Iisang tao lang siguro kayo at yung commenter ni Bianca. Pathetic!
DeleteYou guys do you. But don’t judge other people, esp those you do not know.
DeleteKaya mga kanya kanyanh wsy yan. Eh di huwag kang mag oarty. Pero kung nagparty sya it doesnt mean off na yun. Eh sa yun ang coping mechanism nya eh.
Delete12:10 and 4:02
DeleteBianca could say the same thing to you. She might find it off and pathetic if you live miserably instead of living your life in the moment.
Baka gusto ng basher, magmukmok nalang sa house and mamatay din sa depression. It doesn’t measure how much you love a person by showing off na malungkot ka nalang thats why may sinasabi tayo na cheer up sa mga malulungkot.
ReplyDeleteMaritess mentality. Baka gusto nung basher na magpainterview pa ang mga anak na umiiyak. Sorry hindi sila kasing babaw niyo.
ReplyDeleteI stalked her IG and I must say sobrang kamuka pala ni Andie Eigenman yung cousin nya na yan
ReplyDeleteNot really. She looks like her mom, cherie
Deletemalakas dugo ng españyol
DeleteNah di sila hawig. Andie looks like Jacklyn kaya.
DeleteYes napa 2nd look ako sa isang pic nya sa article sa fb akala ko si Andi
DeleteTe magpatingin ka na ng mata mo. Napakalayo! She looks like her mom while Andi looks like her mom.
DeleteAnlayo. Sa Gil side nagmana si Bianca while Andi ay sa Eigenmann side.
DeletePakialamerang frog kasi
ReplyDeleteAyan na mga kababayan kong chismosa! Ipagkalat natin ang ating kultura worldwide! Hanggat may dugong pinoy ang isang tao may karapatan tayong mag desisyon sa feelings nito lalo na pag showbiz related! Kaya tara na! Proud pinoy!
ReplyDeleteNothing less from Cherie Gil's daughter!
ReplyDeleteWe laugh at Karen videos and yet these kinds of pakikialam messages are very Karen - we actually have more Karens here than the US!
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DeleteAnu ba yan! Some grieve in silence okay. Hinde ibig sabihin hinde ka umiyak sa libing ng asawa, kapatid, magulang Or sino man malapit sa puso ko wala kana pakialam hinde ka nag luluksa. Ako nga If that happened to Me sa anak ni Cherie i would rather Go far away lumabas para mabawasan ang lungkot.
ReplyDeleteI like what she said on the last part... I am a mom myself, if God forbid I have to go I want my kids to enjoy the life I gave them-heck I sacrificed a lot( body image issues, labour pains, engorged breasts, etc.) just to safely deliver them into this world. I want them to cherish life. Grieving is a journey... it stays with you forever, you live with it... there’s no time frame...If I passed I know they will miss me and cry but I want them to live their best life and be happy until we meet again.
ReplyDeletekudos to you 12:22
DeleteDami mong drama. Hindi mo yan buhay jusko
DeleteHuy 1:42, easy lang. Why so angry kay mumshie 12:22 🤣
Delete1:42 Dami kong tawa sa reply mo hahahaha
Delete1:42 PM - Huh? 12:22 AM shared a sensible comment, more sensible than the usual comments here like yours. It's not drama. Ung sa yo, hindi din drama - mema. Galit ka sa articulate?
DeleteBastos na talaga mga tao ngayon masyadong pakialamera
ReplyDeletesome people kasi need a sense of “normalcy” in order to cope with the pain. iba iba tayo ng way and we should respect that.
ReplyDeletei remember in the late 90s pumanaw ang lolo namin. biglang nag midnight madness sale sa sm north… from the province pinaluwas kami ng tito ko para bumili ng mga cellphones saming mga bagets ang take one… ayun, napagalitan kaming magpinsan pati ang tito ko ng mga mas tanders
Deletebawal mag take advantage sa sale pag may patay.
Huh? Ano kinalaman ng sale sa patay? OA na yan masyado
DeleteHaiz mga matatanda tlga, ang hilig gumawa ng mga sarili nilang pamahiin. Kung ano ano n lng🤷♂️🙄💀
DeleteA little insensitive kasi makikita nasa party sya. Sana hindi nalang sya nag post and keep it to herself nalang muna.
ReplyDeleteInsensitive kanino teh? Sa yo na non family member?
DeleteInsensitive kanino? Sa’yo? Na-offend ka?
DeleteTo each his own. Mind your own business.
DeleteTo whom doesnshe needsnto be sensitive too? She doesn't owe you any any sensitivitiesnwith this matter. She's the daughter and can gireve in any way she wants to as how she was raised. Sumobra pagiging pakialamerang snowflake mo
Delete12:34 So sya pa talaga mag aadjust para sa mga marites na tulad mo? Patawa ka. Mind your business na lang at wag mag dikta sa gusto nilang gawin. Duh!
DeleteInsensitive on whose part? Sinong naoffend niya? Yung mga nakabantay sa IG niya? Siya yung namatayan duh
DeleteIsa ka pa
DeleteHa? Ok kalang? Buhay nya yan.
DeleteShe is the one grieving. Not you Karen!
DeleteIsa pang pakealamera. iG nya yan buhay nya yan. Ikaw kung mamatayan ka then yan gawin mo.
DeleteInsensitive because? We have different ways of grieving. Kamag-anak ka ba? Kung yung anak nga, chose to grieve by partying, affected ka masyado. Baka gusto mong makipaglibing.
Deleteat bakit xa mag adjust sau? lols, if that's her way of coping, let her be, plus its her IG, marunong ka pa, if u don't like her post, then unfollow.
Deletebakit insensitive for you? ikaw ba namatayan?
DeleteSi 12:34 ang isa s mga pakealemerang frog n tinutukoy ni daughter. Hndi porket hndi naaayon s iyong narrative ang reaction ng ibang tao ay insensitive n. Aral k kaya ng kahit konting psychology para s ganyun ay malaman mo why many people want to escape from their own sorrow from time to time.
DeleteAND WHO DOES SHE OWE THAT TO? To narrow minded talangkas like you? Nakakhiya ka!! Pinapalamon mo ba sila?
Delete12:34 AM - insensitive kanino? Sya ung namatayan. She can't be insensitive to herself unless may DID sya.
DeleteOh insensitive to you, a Maritess! Oonga naman, how insensitive of her to you a total stranger who neither knew her mom or her or her family. Yeah how insensitive of her. I apologize on her behalf. (Yes sarcasm)
napaka pakelamera naman netong follower niya. fyi iba iba po ng ways mag grieve ang isang tao. let them.
ReplyDeleteYuck. Lakas makialam. We all grieve differently. Ano ba batayan ng mga to, magpost ng kandila sa fb?
ReplyDeleteYung mag post ng cemetery video na naglupasay sa iyak, yan ang gusto makita ni basher
DeleteTayo parang fiesta sa lamay, may pamahjong pa.
ReplyDeleteThis is okay to be out there living your life! I did the same when my Father passed away. I mingled with my friends, went out and explored places. That’s part of healing. Some people don’t like seeing you happy talaga. Bet nila makita na sad ka. Kaya you do what you gonna do nalang. Keber sa mga toxic ampalaya.
ReplyDeleteNobody should tell anyone how to grieve. Respeto naman, we are all different. Who are you to judge?
ReplyDeleteRemember her daughter is from the US and she has other way to grieve. Let's just respect and give her space
ReplyDeleteKanya kanya way yan on how to deal personal issues or problems or tragedies
ReplyDeleteMarami jan depressed pero gigising mag wo work kala mo wala problema yun pala meron
Pwede ka naman mag party then you can grieve in your personal time
Alam mo totoo yan. After my husband died, I went back to work immediately because sometimes work feels easier than the rest of it.
DeletePag namatayan ba dapat magpaka miserable? Malungkot? Humagulgol s kakaiyak?
ReplyDeleteTsaka she grew up sa ibang bansa, we also don't know her religion, wala tayo alam about her, kung uso ba yan 40 days what ever
Last holy week my father died, then a week later my aunt died as well, and barely a week after she was buried, my sister in law also followed them to the other side. You'd think we'd all be moping and drowning in sorrows - but no. All immediate and extended families went to the beach to party and we brought along their picture frames so they won't be left behind. So yes, we all have our own ways of grieving, for us it was to celebrate the thought that they're now pain free and happy in the afterlife while the rest of us who remained should continue living our lives. A week after, we went to a different beach and celebrated multiple birthdays and thankful we are all still alive to celebrate the occasion.
ReplyDeleteThat’s the true spirit of celebrating their lives and honoring them by still living but keeping hem in our thoughts and hearts always. We don’t have to. Be crippled by grief.
DeleteGrabe naman. Kami nga after ilang days mamatay ng child namin, nanonood na kami ng sine ng partner ko. Para lang di kami malugmok sa sakit. Pero pagkatapos naman nun, naiyak pa din kami
ReplyDeleteI remember nung namatay brother ni Nadine. Mga friends niya pumunta sa bahay nila ni James and they worked out everyday. She got bashed because of that. Yun pala, it’s to release stress and of course yun naman talaga ang side effect ng exercise. Kaya full support friends niya nag exercise sila magkakasama to relieve stress.
ReplyDeleteJusmiyo mga walang preno! Kung magmamarites ka, don’t lose your humanity and be a marites with some degree of *mouth* control naman!
ReplyDeleteMarites with a touch of class XD
DeleteIt’s her life. Now Tim is vinidicated di lang marites ang Pinoy pakialamera p at judgmental
ReplyDelete5:29 syang tunay😁
DeleteSa US, ang wake hindi buong linggo may viewing. Naka schedule kung anong araw lang ang viewing. Hindi nag pipirmi ang pamilya sa funeral home hanggang sa araw ng libing. FYI lang.
ReplyDeleteOk Lang sana kung nag party cya kung trip niya mag walwal kaso ipinost pa niya talaga Sa socmed
ReplyDeleteA friend of mine who lost a parent years ago said na pag malapit na pamilya ang nawala sa buhay mo, grieving doesn't stop. Laging andyan yan. There are days na ok na ok ka, there are days na bigla mo silang mamimiss at iiyak ka, there are days sa you feel like you want to celebrate/honor them and yung legacy nila, etc. Hindi yan natatapos. It's just a matter of living with it. Kanya-kanya yan. Irespeto natin ang proseso/journey nila. Cherie's children, they don't need to answer to anyone tungkol sa pagluluksa nila. Pls. lang respetuhin natin yun.
ReplyDeleteWhen my mom passed away, I cried in the shower, I cried in my car driving to work, I cried in my car driving home, I cried in my bed when everyone's asleep. All these I did just to protect my loved ones' feelings. We are all hurting so bad that to see someone cry over and over again bring back all the pain of losing our mother. For the grieving, cry it all out. It took me 5 years to accept that my mom's gone.
ReplyDeleteI lost my parents 2 consecutive years and I still feel bad about losing them. I’ve never posted anything on my FB because for me there was no need to post messages for my parents on social media. I just prayed and cried privately.
Deletefilipinos are so invested in other peoples’ lives. it’s sooo weird.
ReplyDeleteand yet you're here dear
Delete10:16 AM - prolly a coping mechanism since we just entered the golden age aka ginto lahat ng presyo and as prices spiral out of control, salaries remain the same and people are losing jobs
DeleteTrue
DeleteHer rules. Her life. The girl is not even showbiz, so why the heck she should mind what other people are saying. Mga Pinoy talaga, marites na, pakialamero pa.
ReplyDeleteOh well karapatan din ng mga followers niya na mag comment kc nag post cya
Delete12:58 PM - no, mali ka dyan. hindi porket follower ka you can comment anything on the post. lalo na mag dm para sabihan sya on how she should act during her time of loss.
Deletepaladesisyon sa ibang tao kaloka minsan ang ibang pinoy.... atribida...
ReplyDeleteako naman medyo naging judgmental talaga kc noong namatay pinsan ko nakita ko ung anak nyang teenager nag titiktok sa harap ng casket. tapos post sa fb, wala kong sinabi pero nagulat ako. kasi post ng post ng miss you mommy sa my day habang sumasayaw nawiweirduhan ako. ewan ko d ko masakyan trip ng mga teeenagers ngaun sorry. iba lang cguro ung knalakihan ko. pinapatahimik kc kami pag nasa lamay. uupo lang at magppray.
ReplyDeleteHindi Normal na magpi picture picture or tiktok Sa casket. May mali talaga Pag ganun
DeleteEkis yan sis. Ganyan na mga kabataan puro tiktok nasa utak.
DeleteAng laki ng flaw of logic ng mga tao ngayon kaya ganyan.
DeleteHindi ako magpaparty if a close family member passed away. But that's me. HIndi ako magp-pm sa taong di ko naman kilala ng personal to impose my belief.
ReplyDeletethis
Delete2:09 PM - mismo. hindi ung dahil iba mag grieve ang total strangers, pm agad questioning their motives for acting the way they do.
Deletewhy assume that the one who dm’ed is a filipino?
ReplyDeleteEh anu magagawa natin iba sya sa normal na tao namatayan ng nanay. Hayaan nyo na, iba2 tayo ng coping mechanism.
ReplyDeleteWhen my grandfather died, nag party kame nung gabi nung libing nya. As in may sayawan. Maraming relatives kasing umuwo so reunion sya.
ReplyDeleteAng arte nung nag PM sa kanya. Baka bawal din tumawa o ngumiti habang nagluluksa.
ReplyDeleteSeeing how Cherie Gil lived her life, even she would encourage her daughter to live hers fully even when she's gone. Mga tao talaga, kala mas marunong pa. They likely had a lot of time for grieving since matagal na rin nagsuffer dahil sa sakit ang mom niya, now that suffering is done, she is free of pain.
ReplyDeleteGosh kapal ng mukha ng basher. You don’t know her personally, maybe she cried for days and her friends invited her out so she won’t feel lonely or depressed. Maybe she posted it to show her friends and family that she’s okay, and she’s not wallowing in sadness. Problema mo ba kung gusto nya mag party, nanay nya mismo nagsabi live life to the fullest.
ReplyDeleteMay katarayan din si daughter. nani2bago Lang siguro yung nag ask kasi Hindi Gnun ang way nting mga Pinoy karamihan pag nwalan ng mhal s buhay. but Tama din nmn sya iba2 din ang pagggrieve but I’m very sure na nalu2ngkot silang mga anak nang sobra at nangu2lila.
ReplyDelete6:56 AM - you're seriously asking her to adjust to your "Pinoy" way of grieving?! and if she doesn't, may katarayan sya? kung sabihan kayo na "may kabastusan" din kayo kasi sya ang namatayan pero you expect her to grieve according to your "Pinoy way of grieving"
DeleteThat's her way of grieving. We all have different ways of grieving.
ReplyDeleteSinabi ko ba na mag adjust sya sa Pinoy way of grieving?! Basahin mo nga uli comment ko?!. naicocompare ko Lang ksi I’m sure Pinoy yung nagcomment sa kanya na nagparty sya after her Mom passing. Saka talaga nmn may katarayan din response nya sa nag ask. But like I said Tama nmn sya iba2 ang pag cope up sa grieving at Dapat Lang mgpatuloy ang buhay. at like I said I’m very sure na nagdadalamhati ang family sa pagkawala ni Ms. Cherie Gil.
Deletemaiba ako.. ang ganda niya. hawig na hawig sila mag ina
ReplyDeleteIba iba tayo ng grieving process... Before she died, my mom made us promise na dapat ituloy namin ang bonggang birthday bash ng lola ko kahit ano pang mangyari. She died a few weeks before the scheduled date. Tinuloy talaga namin ang plano nya dahil yun ang wish nya.
ReplyDeleteI can definitely relate sa kanya. Iba kasi when you have a loved one na may cancer. Dun mo talaga ma realize na life is too short, and we should all live our lives to the fullest. Kung wala man lang silang inagrabyadong tao, then they should be free to express their grief.