While it’s nice to promote breastfeeding, si Coleen naman parang trying hard na. Like she wants to prove something. Ang oa na ng mga breastfeeding photos nya.
Napansin ko rin yun. Always hungry for validation. Parang she’s in competition all the time. No amount of praises and all the superlatives Billy tells her sa IG comments seems enough for her.
12:08 I'm not 9:55 but I'm willing to bet that once her son becomes a teenager and his peers discover these photos, they're gonna give him hell for having a hot MILF for a mom.
I agree. Hindi naman big deal ang breast feeding eh. Kahit saan ginagawa naman yan. Kaya ewan kung bakit kailangan pikchuran, at ipost ang compilation ng breast feeding photos????
Hindi sya attention-seeker. Breastfeeding advocates are actually thankful sa post na ito kasi it helps sa awareness. Marami pa rin hindi nagnonormalize ng breastfeeding.
I really don't get why breastfeeding is such a big deal. When I was in grade school, my mom would be nursing my younger siblings in the waiting area. And she's not the only one doing that. And it was totally fine. Other parents (yes, there were dads too) and teachers and school staff who would be walking by and it was not a big deal at all!
Ako nga yung nahiya when it was my turn to nurse my own kids because I wasn't able to do so kahit gusto ko. Nahihiya ako noon na naka-formula ang mga anak ko after just a few weeks of being breastfed (I did try naman pero ganun tlaga best recourse ko). And my kids are just in high school right now so I'd say that it wasn't so long ago.
Di ko alam anong pinaglalaban ng mga ganitong posts pero sana nga may nacoconvice sila...
Gurl kita mo ung 2nd part ng comment mo.. inasa mo sa formula milk ang dev. Ng mga anak mo kasi nahihiya ka...
Exactly the point kung bakit yes need ng mga elitist at socialera na gawing big deal ang breast feeding and yes hindi siya nakakahiya.. as a breastfeeding mom careful ka sa kakainin mo dapat lagi latch ready ang boobs mo.. hindi siya biro..
12:46 medyo nag-buffer yung comprehension mo te. Hindi siya nahiya because she can’t do it in public. Nahiya she because she has no ability to do it. Gets?
12:46 compre 101. i understand 9:37. sa sobrang pagaadvocate sa breastfeeding, naging mom shaming na pag nagformula feed ka. lahat naman pagkapanganak susubukan mag bf, kasi naturally magpoproduce ka ng milk at sobrang sakit nun. kaso hindi lahat ng moms kaya, may mga dahilan at minsan nakakalimutan natin yun at sige lang mag look down at judge sa mga formula feeding moms. kung bf-ing mom ka, kudos to you pero wag namang parang ikaw ang mas mabuting ina.
12:46 hindi nya ikinahihiya ang pag brebreastfed ang kinahihiya nya ay dahil hindi sya nakapag breastfed at inasa sa formula milk ang reason. Ako i breastfed both my kids until they reach 4 pero hindi din ako mapag post ng kung ano man i rarely post a photo of me na nag brebreastfed ng anak. Para na din sa privacy nila. But i guess it differ if your mom is a celebrity. Marian rivera is also a breastfeeding advocate but never did i see her post with her kids breastfeeding sa kanya.
Nandito naman nagkakalat yun mga breastfeeding moms sa fb groups who shame moms who were not able to breastfed their kids? Aba! HS na eldest ko mag cocollege na nga, ganyan paren ang training sa inyo "about empowerment" ng breastfeeding and "awareness".
LADIES, BREASTFEEDING IS BEST FOR BABIES NO DOUBT. BUT "INFORM" IS BEST. Ibig sabihin, if one cannot provide her own milk sa anak niya, she should not be labeled, judged or ridicule and humiliated just because she handed her child a bottle. So please lang, tigil nyo na yan.
FYI : I am a mom who both breastfed all 3 of my babies and handed them formula as well.
hi breastfeed or formula baby is amazing :) sana wag naman natin kalimutan hindi lahat ng mom is blessed sa milk yung iba talaga wala konti lang ang labas. do whatever mom can do kung ano ang maganda sa health ng mom. kasi kailangan malakas ang mom for the baby :)
Colleen is privileged. She has alll the time in the world to bf. Di niya kailangan magreport sa work after 90-105 days. Pwede nya dalhin baby nya sa shoots di katulad ng mga nagoopisina, lady guard, janitress, teacher, etc. Di nya kailangan magreport ng 8 hours sa trabaho plus 3 oras commute. May pambili siya ng magandang pump at cooler in case kailangan magexpress at work. Check your privilege, Colleen. Maraming may gusto mag BF kaso di kasing swerte at yaman mo.
I have nothing against bf. It is beautiful and selfless. Pero I think more than the advocacy mas ginagamit ito ng karamihan for a "look at me" clout. A simple and powerful statement will suffice but no let me include multiple "candid kuno" shots of me doing it...and oh don't forget the glamorous ones too...smh
We are all aware naman about breastfeeding. Yung una, pangalawa ok pa. Pero halata naman na pinopost na lang nya yun to get attention and para purihin sya. Yes ikaw na ang sexy at maganda while breastfeeding.
Ang konti naman ng inupload na pics. Nakulangan ako baka gusto mo pa dagdagan miss 😂 Seriously, people already know how its done. No need for ala proof of purchase to your suking tindahan 😂
Nope hnd lahat bf moms ganyan Naka make up and ready sa camera. mom of 2. Sa totoo lang hnd glamorous katulad gngwa ng mga artists pls lang. AT TSAKA paano nmn un mommies na wala gatas sa books. Para BF moms lang ang ultra ng Ina ah napaka clout chaser
Do you, kung yun gusto nya respect that as well. Choice nya yun. Ikaw may sarili kang choice. Artista sya un work nya malamang gutom bata uunahin nya pa ba iba. Kung un asawa supportive ano pa kayong walang ambag. Mga babae pa mga judgmental dito, kaloka
Dahil sa kasabayan ko noon na breastfeeding moms nung kapapanganak ko lang noon kaya ako nagkadepression kasi pakiramdam ko ay ang sama kong ina. Tapos may female celebrity pa nun na todo post talaga at hinahangaan yung pag donate niya ng breastmilk niya sa iba.
Agree naman ako kay 9:54. Most bf moms are like that. Except not everyone looks glamorous on pictures. Baka maloka ka sa itsura ko nagpapabf sa baby, HAHAHA maamoy mo yun picture ko. Amoy di pa makaligo lol. Kaya nothing special Coleen.
i admire her. d ko akalaing ganyan sya when k eatched karen davila's episode. i know a lot of moms are breastfeeding pero d ko expect ke colleen kasi e. she married so young she's missing so much. so kla ko ince she gives birth she'll breast feed for a while then stop. pero mag 2 na yta ung baby and 100% breast milk pa ren. i admire all the moms who can do that, not just colleen but all the moms.kasi full time comiitment un dahil d ka mkaka alis ng bahay nasyado. let her or any moms post stuff like that.
I am for breastfeeding but let us also be sensitive to those who, for some valid reasons, are not able to breastfeed their children. Hindi po basehan ng pagiging mabuting nanay ang pagpapa breastfeed ng anak.
Sobrang dami ng nega dito. Breastfed or not, it’s a personal journey and an achievement for her. So if you don’t like what she posts, then just ignore or unfollow.
True!!!! My friend went thru serious PPD because she felt inadequate kasi unable sya to breastfeed. Feeling nya may kulang sa pagiging mother nya. Dapat aware din sana tayo na may mga medical conditions na nakaka affect sa capacity ng nanay to breastfeed. Normalize breastfeeding, normalize bottle feeding too.
gurl ang papansin mo na si anne curtis breastfeed din pero di naman OA sa pag post. alam namin na normal kaya di na big deal yan dahil lahat ng mama is amazing kung formula sila the best pa din sila
breastfeed and formula baby both amazing! coleen sinasabi mo na sobrang mahirap and all 2 yrs old na baby mo maybe its time na sanayin mo na sya sa whole milk. wag ka masyado pa bida dami ganyan char hahaha
Ako 2 years and a half na padede mom and not planning on stopping. Kung gusto ng anak ko ng breast milk, I’ll give it. Walang nutrition yang whole milk vs breast milk.
Wala naren nutrition yan gatas mo mother. It doesn't even make your baby full anymore. For two years of age, they need milk that has fats for their energy. Kaya binibigyan na ng whole milk and fresh milk yun ganyan age, and hindi na dapat nagdedepend sa gatas ang bata but more on sa "tamang kain".
Ito sa Anteh Coleen proud na proud.. normal Ang pag brebreast feed lalo na Kung malakas gatas Naman Ng suso mo pagkapanganak mo palang.. ako nga mag kinder na noon bet na bet ko pa sumuso sa mama ko.. saka normal na noon pa na nilalabas na boobs Ng Nanay kahit nasa jeep. Ngaun lang nauso mnsan nahihiya magpasuso ung ibang Nanay Kasi ayaw nila bumagsak boobs nila or ung iba Wala Kasi lumalabas talagang gatas.
Breastfeeding is ideal. However for most moms, may real life na ganap: work, family life, stress, financial problems, etc. at kahit gustuhin man mag bf ng 2 years ay hindi kaya. Not everyone has the luxury to stay home and maintain a stress free life to be able to bf. And that is okay.
Grabe comment section sa fb pages ng news na nagfeature niyan, ang daming manyak. Nakakadiri! Sana imoderate na rin ng mga fb pages ang comment sections nila. Kadiri talaga mga manyak
Kunin nyo daw syang spokesperson at poster girl ng breastfeeding parang awa nyo na. 🤨 Seriously tho, more on vanity and attention seeking naman tong paandar nya, lalo na yung naka surfboard na photo na sobrang scripted.
Really? I had to undergo a lot of infertility treatments before finally having a baby. Some of the drugs administered, I had to sign a waiver that it could increase my chances of having breast cancer later in life. Kaya nung nanganak ako, the obstetrician and the nurses encouraged me to breastfeed if I can to lower the risks. That was 19 yrs ago and I'm in my 50s now. Sure, my breasts have sagged, as expected too due to aging, but I regret nothing. Knowing the challenges of breastfeeding firsthand and fully aware not all are capable for varied reasons, I felt it was a precious gift that I was privileged to do both for my kids and myself.
I find it inappropriate looking at someone while breastfeeding, let alone take a photo and post it in public. It's supposed to be a private moment between the mother and child. It's normal to breastfeed, pero yung ganito hindi. You don't need to influence other people to do it because if they can, they will. I hope mothers who are incapable of breastfeeding their child don't feel bad from this.
Hmmm cguro sa generation niya or sa social circle nya pinupush ang wag ikahiya or ipaglaban kahit mahirap o uncomfortable ang breast feeding. Kasi to the rest of the world, it actually is ALREADY normal. I have seen mothers, who are fortunate to have milk, breastfed anywhere anytime. Sa kapitbahay, sa kanto, sa tindahan, sa palengke, sa mall, sa terminal ng bus/jeep, sa jeep mismo, san pa ba?
Ang daming bitter! Mga inuuna pa ang personal hate kay Coleen kesa tingnan ang message ng post na ito. This post is to promote breastfeeding advocacy. At sa totoo lang, nakatulong po sya sa mga advocates sa pagpapalaganap ng awareness about normalizing breastfeeding.
Girl hindi sa lahat ng sitwasyon bitter ang rason. Again, breastfeeding has been normal ever since. No need for advocacy, promotion, or normalization. Sa totoo lang, kung may oras at kapasidad ang isang ina, gagawin niya. Hindi na kailangan ng isang Coleen para impluwensyahan sila. Kahit batang ina na lumaki sa hirap at walang means bumili ng gatas, maiisip niyang mag-breastfeed na lang. Mother's instinct na yan.
Kelan ba kasi di naging normal yan? Kaka advocate nila ng normalcy nagiging abnormal na tuloy. Anubey since time immemorial nagpapadede na ang mga nanay. Besides kung ayaw magpa dede ng nanay choice nya yan. Fed is best.
I breastfed my kids, 2 yrs each. I never thought much about except that I can, and why not? Hindi rin madali nung una as I needed the help of a lactation specialist sa hospital. Akala ko nung una, di ko magagawa. Ang dami ko ring kilala who did it. Some couldn't. Iba iba rason, iba't ibang challenges. And its ok. You do what's best for the baby and for you.
2:24 correct bakit may promotion and advocacy pa eh normal naman ang breastfeeding. Sasabihin din sayo yan ng doctor mo at mother instinct yan nakapag aral man o hindi. Dahil sa post ng mga advocacies on BF yun mothers na hindi capable and capable man but they have their own reason why ayaw nila will feel pressure.
Kung normal sa iba, bakit didiktahan ung nanay na magtakip? May ibang bata sila mismo ayaw ng cover kasi nahihirapan sila so yung bata ang nagtatanggal ng takip. Daming comments dito na takpan ung boobs pero pag sexy na babae na nipple lang may takip, todo papuri kayo.
Agree, I actually like her post. I don't see anything wrong with it, or why people are so mad about it. Merong pang dinedefend bat sila naiirita? LMAOOOO
2:24 kung matagal ng normal, dapat di ka affected sa post na to. Pero ayan ka, dami mong nasabi. Kaya dapat lang I-normalize ang breastfeeding eh. Daming affected dito.
Hindi ko na binasa post ni Colleen. Pero yes to normalise Breastfeeding! Kung yun ang nagpapa happy sa mother edi go lang share lang ng share ng photos! BUT pls be mindful na lang and accept that there will be judging looks and angry reactions BECAUSE there are moms who cannot breastfeed gustuhin man nila maybe because of medical or mental condition diba minsan when these mom see a mom like Colleen it reminds them of their most stressful time (newborn phase etc). Basta madami dahilan kaya yung iba ayaw makakita ng ganyan BUT we also have to gently remind ourselves na normal ang breastfeeding! I’m a mom also and I’m currently EBFing my 9 month old baby but I don’t take photos like that and I always cover myself in public kasi nahihiya ko because it doesn’t feel right to expose myself BUT I know it’s normal for some moms therefore I do not judge whether you breastfeed or not. Let’s just be open minded. Maybe on Colleens part she just wants validation and that’s ok give na lang natin yun sa kanya kasi di naman madali mag padede. Okay sorry dami ko sinabi 😂
Breastfeeding IS normal. She just made it a big deal by posting pictures just to show "Look, we celebrities are just like you!" Just because others prefer to do it private or cover up, doesn't make it count less. Brushing your teeth is normal, but you don't have to do it in public or post pictures just to show it's normal.
Precisely! And let's not forget ah, your pictures are set to public which can be stolen from you and people might use it sa dark web etc. Who knows. Ang daming siraulo ngayon. Safety and privacy ng anak niya ang ingatan nya.
Because not everyone can breastfed. Some has medicsl reasons, others has demanding work were pumping can be time consuming. (30mins din ang pumping time, so it will eat up their time during breaks or probably they are on field. Other just choose not to. Women, especially mothers should have the freedom to choose for their own kids. Whether magpa BF sila or Formula.
BF is normal. Pero bakit need ipost lahat? Tapos nagcomment ka ng di nila gusto, pavictim naman akala mo inaapo. Bigyan nyo na kasi ng career ulit at baka bored na sa bahay.
Based on experience, hindi safe mag beeastfeed sa public places ng walang takip kasi prone sa mga dumi na maaring makuha ng bata. So you still need to cover up kahit papaano.
Ang daming hater ni Colleen dito. You lots who are commenting negatively about her positive, good-natured post are whats wrong in this country. There's still stigma on breastfeeding esp breastfeeding publicly and bf'ing toddlers. Her post is actually helpful in removing that stigma. Instead, all you saw in it is negativity. Kaya ang daming Nanay na nahihiya magpa BF dahil nakakakita ng mga ganyang comment!
Ang nenegastar nyo, PWE. You are the worst kind of Maritess - hindi lang chismosa, may name calling and judgment pang kasama. I feel so sorry for your husbands, kids, siblings and relatives. I would hate to be related to you ✌️
Oh reallllly... at kailangan pa ng glamour shots at sumakay ng paddle board to prove her point? You know it's easy to spot validation seeking posts on social media.
I have nothing against breastfeeding in public. It's part sa instict sa mom to feed her baby. But my only issue is yung mga celebrities na nagpa glam up pa talaga para magpakuha ng pics breastfeeding their babies then post sa socmed to lecture others. Oo na, anong paki ko sa buhay nya. Kaso may opinion din ako. Pinost nya yan eh. Nanay din ako who breastfed kids and I know di ako celeb. Kaso itong post na ganito, need ba mg post ng 10 pics to prove her point?
pwede ba? shut up about bf. anong normal dami nyo nga kuda. if nagpost sya na kumakain sya ganyan ba dami kakuda nyo na clout chaser sya or attention seeker sya? when i bfed my kids pinapaalis ako na dapat magtago pa ako. inulan ako ng insults from my own dad (i should be hiding away nakakadiri if makita ako) to my siblings to my nieces and nephews. mga nega kayo. di nyo lang alam some cant even pay for formula but they dont know breastfeeding is an option so pinupush nila formula feeding. sobraaang hirap ng sakripisyo ng moms who breastfeed and i am quite privileged.may driver ako may yaya/s and still ang daming roadblocks. for me, to bf i opened myself up to insults, criticisms etc. and for me, colleen posting these photos, is so brave. whej you bf, you know it wont be something the world congratulTes you for, even if its the right thing. it is much like fighting homophobia or racism, you're in for a rough journey.
9:04 sa sinabi mo mukhang mas dapat i-educate yung wag kang maga anak kung di mo kaya mag provide. Sabi mo nga daming di man lang afford to buy formula. So panu yun kung di mo na nga afford ang formula at wala ka pang mapigang gatas sa dede mo. I always tell my kids this: if you cant even provide for your own wants & needs then you have no right na mag anak. We are financially capable and kahit mga apo namin kaya namin buhayin but that is not what i want to teach my kids. The moment mag decide kang magpamilya na you’re on your own. Bottomline, wag mag anak kung di man lang kaya bumili ng pang gatas.
I am one of them mothers who's not able to breastfeed dahil sa maraming dahilan. Gets ko naman na nakakaproud yung breastfeeding, na the best sya, na ideal... pero when i was not able to bf my kid, mabaliw baliw ako. KASE PARATI AKO NAKAKAKITA NG BF PHOTOS NA GANITO. It felt like my incompetencies, my inadequacies, my "pagkukulang" bilang nanay was nadudukdok sa mukha ko. While I understand their advocacy, nakaka insecure din kase para sa ibang nanay, lalo kung hindi naman nila pinipiling hindi mag bf.
Self righteous na yung dating nung ibang breastfeeding moms eh. Low key mom-shaming na sa mga hindi makapagpa breastfeed ang nangyayari. Yung iba may medical reason , yung iba naman, hindi kaya dahil sa type of work. Ang importante, inaalagaan ang baby to the best of a mom's ability.
Susmaryosep. .Minsan OA din tong mga artista eh. I was breastfeeding and a working mom but never ko feel mag post ng pic na baby nka breastfeed then soc med agad. 😂
Some can breastfeed ,some can for a short term but unfortunately some cannot. So it’s not about breastfeeding what matters is you are a good mother and a person; life is More than Breastfeeding.
Very well said. Being a good mother is not defined by breastfeeding alone. Yung ibang breastfeeding moms naman, ang baba ng tingin sa mga hindi maka breastfeed. Maraming pwedeng dahilan why some can't bf. My 2 kids were fed pumped breast milk for a short period of time, tapos formula na and then puro healthy food na, mostly organic. Pareho namang mga healthy.
THIS! sana wag nyo naman maliitin yung mga mama na hindi maka BF hindi naman jan nasasabi ang pag mamahal ng ina. lahat ng ina. bf or not ang mahalaga kung gano nila mahalin ang baby nila
My son was breastfed for 18 mos but personal preference ko talaga to cover if nasa public places. Sa bahay ok lang pag husband ko lang present. If may mga bisita kami i always cover pa rin. I think more on ang pinaglalaban nila is yung normalizing breast na nai expose while feeding although sa Pinas naman wala namang akong alam na may stigma against it unlike sa ibang bansa. Ang common na sight na nga lang nyan sa mga nasa laylayan and i see it often din sa mga public transpo etc…yung mga nanay talagang exposed ang dede while feeding. Wala pa naman akong alam na nasitang nanay because of it. Like i said sa ibang bansa, oo, meron. Bottomline, it’s a matter of personal preference - covered or not, breastfeed or formula. I still believe that “fed is best.”
Real talk lang, May mga breastfeeding moms kasi na akala mo sila na talaga ang pinaka mga uliran at batayan ng pagiging tunay na nanay just because nagpapa dede sila. Andami kong nababasang ganyan sa social media eh. May ka fb nga akong ganyan halos kada padede post sabay caption ng matindi. Kaburaot din naman to the point bordering to mom shaming na sa mga nagpo formula feeding.
Breastfeeding is not for all moms. Hahaha.and there is more to being a mom than breastfeeding. No need to be proud Mama Coleen because that never makes you a good mom. Just protect your child and keep him private. Sobra naman ang nakalatch tapos ipost ko pa. Nadamay pa cya. Normal na ang breastfeeding since 19forgotten.
it might look as papansin, but my baby's yaya, who will become a grandmother, is promoting bfeeding to her daughter in law by saying "si coleen nga nag bbreastfeed". madami din kasi na mas mataas ang tingin sa formula. It helps the cause so kudos to her.
The grandma is just like any other people from the older generation kung maka-request sa babae kala mo ang dali lang! Wala siyang pinagkaiba sa mga nagsasabing, si Anne Curtis nabuntis na, bat ikaw hindi pa?
Pakapapansin nito kairita na
ReplyDeleteTrue sobra
DeleteYan din comment ko pakapapansin na
DeleteCover is life rin sana for her child's sake in the future. Photos will be used against him when he grows up.
DeleteLahat na lang, TMI to prove na ulirang ina awardee. Kaloka!
Hello daw Viva Max lol.
DeletePhoto shoot: Look! young girl breastfeeding her baby!
DeleteWhile it’s nice to promote breastfeeding, si Coleen naman parang trying hard na. Like she wants to prove something. Ang oa na ng mga breastfeeding photos nya.
Deleteagree! nagpa pump naman pala sya e, hindi naman pala everytime naka latch so talagang for photo ops lang to.
DeleteNapansin ko rin yun. Always hungry for validation. Parang she’s in competition all the time. No amount of praises and all the superlatives Billy tells her sa IG comments seems enough for her.
DeleteUgh! We don’t need a photo of your baby latched to your boob all the time! Keep it to yourself! Puhlease!!
ReplyDeleteLol arte mo
DeleteSa future ano kaya mafefeel nung bata pag nakita nya na naka published online mga photos nya na yan. Hindi kaya gamitin ito to make fun of him.
Delete9:04 agree
Delete9:55 hindi naman siguro kasi good looking naman ang anak nya
DeleteYung ganito ang mga basher ng breastfeeding advocates eh
DeleteTrue! Nagpa breastfeed din naman ako, pero never in public at lalong walang pictorial na ganyan. Keep it private mga momsh
DeleteBakit, hindi ba normal dumede sa nanay mo?
DeleteEtong mga influencers na lang naman ang nagpupush na maging “normal” ang BF samantalang normal naman talaga sya at di big deal.
Delete12:08 I'm not 9:55 but I'm willing to bet that once her son becomes a teenager and his peers discover these photos, they're gonna give him hell for having a hot MILF for a mom.
DeleteI agree. Hindi naman big deal ang breast feeding eh. Kahit saan ginagawa naman yan. Kaya ewan kung bakit kailangan pikchuran, at ipost ang compilation ng breast feeding photos????
DeleteBakit 1:01 artista ka ba?
DeleteOo ikaw na
ReplyDeleteAttention-seeker na siya, hello d naman siya lang ang breastfeeding mom noh, no need na ipost Coleen.
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteHindi sya attention-seeker. Breastfeeding advocates are actually thankful sa post na ito kasi it helps sa awareness. Marami pa rin hindi nagnonormalize ng breastfeeding.
DeleteI really don't get why breastfeeding is such a big deal. When I was in grade school, my mom would be nursing my younger siblings in the waiting area. And she's not the only one doing that. And it was totally fine. Other parents (yes, there were dads too) and teachers and school staff who would be walking by and it was not a big deal at all!
ReplyDeleteAko nga yung nahiya when it was my turn to nurse my own kids because I wasn't able to do so kahit gusto ko. Nahihiya ako noon na naka-formula ang mga anak ko after just a few weeks of being breastfed (I did try naman pero ganun tlaga best recourse ko). And my kids are just in high school right now so I'd say that it wasn't so long ago.
Di ko alam anong pinaglalaban ng mga ganitong posts pero sana nga may nacoconvice sila...
hindi ka dapat mahiya kung formula ang baby still be proud to yourself. breastfeed and formula good job mama :)
DeleteGurl kita mo ung 2nd part ng comment mo.. inasa mo sa formula milk ang dev. Ng mga anak mo kasi nahihiya ka...
DeleteExactly the point kung bakit yes need ng mga elitist at socialera na gawing big deal ang breast feeding and yes hindi siya nakakahiya.. as a breastfeeding mom careful ka sa kakainin mo dapat lagi latch ready ang boobs mo.. hindi siya biro..
12:46 hindi mo ata gets ung sinabi ni 9:37. Di naman nya choice na nagformula anak nya, kung pwede lang gagawin nya.
Delete12:46 medyo nag-buffer yung comprehension mo te. Hindi siya nahiya because she can’t do it in public. Nahiya she because she has no ability to do it. Gets?
Delete12:46, clarify ko lang. Ang sabi ko nahihiya ako kasi naka-formula ako when ang alam kong dapat, eh naka-breastfeed ang mga bata. -9:37
Deleteanon 12:46, comprehension please. nahihiya ka nga si ate gurl kasi hindi niya mapabreastfeed ung baby niya. kalola
Delete12:46 compre 101.
Deletei understand 9:37. sa sobrang pagaadvocate sa breastfeeding, naging mom shaming na pag nagformula feed ka. lahat naman pagkapanganak susubukan mag bf, kasi naturally magpoproduce ka ng milk at sobrang sakit nun. kaso hindi lahat ng moms kaya, may mga dahilan at minsan nakakalimutan natin yun at sige lang mag look down at judge sa mga formula feeding moms. kung bf-ing mom ka, kudos to you pero wag namang parang ikaw ang mas mabuting ina.
1246 maybe hindi na makapag produce ng breastmilk kaya nag formula.
Delete12:46 hindi nya ikinahihiya ang pag brebreastfed ang kinahihiya nya ay dahil hindi sya nakapag breastfed at inasa sa formula milk ang reason. Ako i breastfed both my kids until they reach 4 pero hindi din ako mapag post ng kung ano man i rarely post a photo of me na nag brebreastfed ng anak. Para na din sa privacy nila. But i guess it differ if your mom is a celebrity. Marian rivera is also a breastfeeding advocate but never did i see her post with her kids breastfeeding sa kanya.
DeleteAko nga 3 months na baby ko ngaun, nadedepress padin ako kasi formula binibigay ko. Gustohin ko man mag pabreastfeed, eh wala talga lumalabas.
DeleteNandito naman nagkakalat yun mga breastfeeding moms sa fb groups who shame moms who were not able to breastfed their kids? Aba! HS na eldest ko mag cocollege na nga, ganyan paren ang training sa inyo "about empowerment" ng breastfeeding and "awareness".
DeleteLADIES, BREASTFEEDING IS BEST FOR BABIES NO DOUBT. BUT "INFORM" IS BEST. Ibig sabihin, if one cannot provide her own milk sa anak niya, she should not be labeled, judged or ridicule and humiliated just because she handed her child a bottle. So please lang, tigil nyo na yan.
FYI : I am a mom who both breastfed all 3 of my babies and handed them formula as well.
Nakaka amaze ang mga inang committed sa pagpapasuso ng kanilang mga anak. Hindi lahat kayang gawin yan.
ReplyDeletehi breastfeed or formula baby is amazing :) sana wag naman natin kalimutan hindi lahat ng mom is blessed sa milk yung iba talaga wala konti lang ang labas. do whatever mom can do kung ano ang maganda sa health ng mom. kasi kailangan malakas ang mom for the baby :)
DeleteHindi naman sa pag BF nasusukat ang pagiging ulirang ina. Hindi rin lahat ng naka formula eh choice nla. Hello, ang mahal kaya nga formula milk
DeleteColleen is privileged. She has alll the time in the world to bf. Di niya kailangan magreport sa work after 90-105 days. Pwede nya dalhin baby nya sa shoots di katulad ng mga nagoopisina, lady guard, janitress, teacher, etc. Di nya kailangan magreport ng 8 hours sa trabaho plus 3 oras commute. May pambili siya ng magandang pump at cooler in case kailangan magexpress at work. Check your privilege, Colleen. Maraming may gusto mag BF kaso di kasing swerte at yaman mo.
DeleteTMI na! Sige na sa yo na ang Ulirang Ina award for all eternity.
ReplyDeleteI have nothing against bf. It is beautiful and selfless. Pero I think more than the advocacy mas ginagamit ito ng karamihan for a "look at me" clout. A simple and powerful statement will suffice but no let me include multiple "candid kuno" shots of me doing it...and oh don't forget the glamorous ones too...smh
ReplyDelete9:49 you nailed it sis
DeleteRight? Meron pa sa paddle board. Kaloka! Forda likes nalang talaga e.
DeleteThis!
DeleteWe are all aware naman about breastfeeding. Yung una, pangalawa ok pa. Pero halata naman na pinopost na lang nya yun to get attention and para purihin sya. Yes ikaw na ang sexy at maganda while breastfeeding.
DeleteTrue naman. They can share their advocacy w/o pictorials. Mas helpful actually if they share tips instead look at me im bf pics.
DeleteAng konti naman ng inupload na pics. Nakulangan ako baka gusto mo pa dagdagan miss 😂 Seriously, people already know how its done. No need for ala proof of purchase to your suking tindahan 😂
ReplyDeleteThis is attention-seeking at its finest! Gosh normal lang yan sa mga ina bakit need pa i-highlight sa madla??
ReplyDeleteWalang ma post si ateng coleng nasobrahan sa pa look at me post nya. Papampam
DeleteMost BF moms are like that.
ReplyDeleteNope hnd lahat bf moms ganyan Naka make up and ready sa camera. mom of 2. Sa totoo lang hnd glamorous katulad gngwa ng mga artists pls lang. AT TSAKA paano nmn un mommies na wala gatas sa books. Para BF moms lang ang ultra ng Ina ah napaka clout chaser
DeleteDo you, kung yun gusto nya respect that as well. Choice nya yun. Ikaw may sarili kang choice. Artista sya un work nya malamang gutom bata uunahin nya pa ba iba. Kung un asawa supportive ano pa kayong walang ambag. Mga babae pa mga judgmental dito, kaloka
DeleteNgeh! No!
Delete1:15, walang problema kung magbf sya kung gutom ang anak. Pero ayan at inuuna din lagi ang picture taking and posting while doing it.
Dahil sa kasabayan ko noon na breastfeeding moms nung kapapanganak ko lang noon kaya ako nagkadepression kasi pakiramdam ko ay ang sama kong ina. Tapos may female celebrity pa nun na todo post talaga at hinahangaan yung pag donate niya ng breastmilk niya sa iba.
DeletePano mo naman nasabi inuuna?? Andun ka ba?
DeleteAgree naman ako kay 9:54. Most bf moms are like that. Except not everyone looks glamorous on pictures. Baka maloka ka sa itsura ko nagpapabf sa baby, HAHAHA maamoy mo yun picture ko. Amoy di pa makaligo lol. Kaya nothing special Coleen.
DeleteEvery breastfeeding moment kailangan may nakaready na camera? Looks like fishing for validation for me.
ReplyDeleteToo much information 🤮
ReplyDeleteNormal lang ring maligo, so pwede rin bang ipost yun?
mmmkay yes we know paulit ulit nman.
ReplyDeleteTMI
ReplyDeleteWeird nitong mga artista. Halos lahat naman nagbbreastfeed. Mga feeling special.
ReplyDeleteBulls eye
Deletemay pagkaalmighty si girl.
ReplyDeleteShe's so vain and hungry for validation.
DeleteMasyado feeling entitled naman ito porke Breast feeding.
ReplyDeletesomeone give her an award na para matahimik na.
ReplyDeletei admire her. d ko akalaing ganyan sya when k eatched karen davila's episode. i know a lot of moms are breastfeeding pero d ko expect ke colleen kasi e. she married so young she's missing so much. so kla ko ince she gives birth she'll breast feed for a while then stop. pero mag 2 na yta ung baby and 100% breast milk pa ren. i admire all the moms who can do that, not just colleen but all the moms.kasi full time comiitment un dahil d ka mkaka alis ng bahay nasyado. let her or any moms post stuff like that.
ReplyDeleteKala ko nasa ibabaw na naman ng paddle at don nagpapadodo
ReplyDeleteI am for breastfeeding but let us also be sensitive to those who, for some valid reasons, are not able to breastfeed their children. Hindi po basehan ng pagiging mabuting nanay ang pagpapa breastfeed ng anak.
ReplyDeleteAgree. Natuto akong magdeactivate ng social media accounts ko pagkapanganak kasi masakit makakita ng EBF moms.
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DeleteBREASTFEEDING MOM HERE!! Go lang, its for the baby. One of the best decisions I ever made. Naturalize breastfeeding, wag kayo umarte. Pumikit kayo
ReplyDeleteHindi naman kami umaarte. Why make it a big deal? You are a padede mom, okay good, so ano gagawin namin?
Delete#normalizebreastfeeding
DeleteWala kang paki..they posted it so, we watched it. Ikaw na lang pumikit ng mata mo kung gusto mo!
DeleteTaking glam breastfeeding photos na kunwari candid shots is for the baby? LOL. 10:58
DeleteIf butthurt ka sa comments, pumikit ka. Wag ka maarte.
Malamang yun iba while working, mas pinili nya pakainin un anak nya. Wala sya tinatapakan, hayaan nyo sya.
DeleteMaging happy kayo sa nanay na inuuna yun anak! Kung un ang gusto nya wala kayong pakialam. Mga babae pa naman kayo ganyan tingin nyo!
Delete12:51 nakikitingin ka lang kaya ikaw ang wag humanash! Wala kang ambag sa buhay nila kaya wag ka makialam. Oo pumikit ka
DeleteNATURALIZE? Hahaha ano citizen lang? Hahahahaha
Delete2:04 di lang yan ang usage nag naturalize, mag aral ka ulit
DeleteSobrang dami ng nega dito. Breastfed or not, it’s a personal journey and an achievement for her. So if you don’t like what she posts, then just ignore or unfollow.
ReplyDeleteKaloka! Yan na lang talaga ang way para ma news sya! Marian rivera is also a breastfeeding advocate! Wala naman papansin na ganyn si marian!
ReplyDeleteSure ka?
DeleteEto yung sinasabi ng isang commenter. When celebs make a big deal and normalize what’s already normal. Coleen dami nyan sa jeep, sidewalks.
ReplyDeletePwede naman later na papicture
ReplyDeleteGurl, I get it. You BF. No need to shove it on people's faces especially to moms who would love to BF but unable to. Geeeez
ReplyDeleteTrue!!!! My friend went thru serious PPD because she felt inadequate kasi unable sya to breastfeed. Feeling nya may kulang sa pagiging mother nya. Dapat aware din sana tayo na may mga medical conditions na nakaka affect sa capacity ng nanay to breastfeed. Normalize breastfeeding, normalize bottle feeding too.
Deletegurl ang papansin mo na si anne curtis breastfeed din pero di naman OA sa pag post. alam namin na normal kaya di na big deal yan dahil lahat ng mama is amazing kung formula sila the best pa din sila
ReplyDeletebreastfeed and formula baby both amazing! coleen sinasabi mo na sobrang mahirap and all 2 yrs old na baby mo maybe its time na sanayin mo na sya sa whole milk. wag ka masyado pa bida dami ganyan char hahaha
ReplyDeleteAko 2 years and a half na padede mom and not planning on stopping. Kung gusto ng anak ko ng breast milk, I’ll give it. Walang nutrition yang whole milk vs breast milk.
DeleteWala naren nutrition yan gatas mo mother. It doesn't even make your baby full anymore. For two years of age, they need milk that has fats for their energy. Kaya binibigyan na ng whole milk and fresh milk yun ganyan age, and hindi na dapat nagdedepend sa gatas ang bata but more on sa "tamang kain".
DeleteIto sa Anteh Coleen proud na proud.. normal Ang pag brebreast feed lalo na Kung malakas gatas Naman Ng suso mo pagkapanganak mo palang.. ako nga mag kinder na noon bet na bet ko pa sumuso sa mama ko.. saka normal na noon pa na nilalabas na boobs Ng Nanay kahit nasa jeep. Ngaun lang nauso mnsan nahihiya magpasuso ung ibang Nanay Kasi ayaw nila bumagsak boobs nila or ung iba Wala Kasi lumalabas talagang gatas.
ReplyDeleteBreastfeeding is ideal. However for most moms, may real life na ganap: work, family life, stress, financial problems, etc. at kahit gustuhin man mag bf ng 2 years ay hindi kaya. Not everyone has the luxury to stay home and maintain a stress free life to be able to bf. And that is okay.
ReplyDeleteGrabe comment section sa fb pages ng news na nagfeature niyan, ang daming manyak. Nakakadiri! Sana imoderate na rin ng mga fb pages ang comment sections nila. Kadiri talaga mga manyak
ReplyDeleteKunin nyo daw syang spokesperson at poster girl ng breastfeeding parang awa nyo na. 🤨 Seriously tho, more on vanity and attention seeking naman tong paandar nya, lalo na yung naka surfboard na photo na sobrang scripted.
ReplyDeleteYou’ll regret BF when u get old. It’ll forever alter your body
ReplyDeleteReally? I had to undergo a lot of infertility treatments before finally having a baby. Some of the drugs administered, I had to sign a waiver that it could increase my chances of having breast cancer later in life. Kaya nung nanganak ako, the obstetrician and the nurses encouraged me to breastfeed if I can to lower the risks. That was 19 yrs ago and I'm in my 50s now. Sure, my breasts have sagged, as expected too due to aging, but I regret nothing. Knowing the challenges of breastfeeding firsthand and fully aware not all are capable for varied reasons, I felt it was a precious gift that I was privileged to do both for my kids and myself.
DeleteWhy would I regret something good for my child? Just coz it’ll alter my body? May pambayad ako ipaayos kung gugustuhin ko.
DeleteIsa ka pa. Negatron nito
DeleteI find it inappropriate looking at someone while breastfeeding, let alone take a photo and post it in public. It's supposed to be a private moment between the mother and child. It's normal to breastfeed, pero yung ganito hindi. You don't need to influence other people to do it because if they can, they will. I hope mothers who are incapable of breastfeeding their child don't feel bad from this.
ReplyDeleteI see we got the morality police here
DeleteShunga lang 3:46? It’s not a about morality! Naintindihan mo ba yung comment?
DeleteHmmm cguro sa generation niya or sa social circle nya pinupush ang wag ikahiya or ipaglaban kahit mahirap o uncomfortable ang breast feeding. Kasi to the rest of the world, it actually is ALREADY normal. I have seen mothers, who are fortunate to have milk, breastfed anywhere anytime. Sa kapitbahay, sa kanto, sa tindahan, sa palengke, sa mall, sa terminal ng bus/jeep, sa jeep mismo, san pa ba?
ReplyDeleteI've seen mothers in our neighborhood nag bebreastfeed while playing mahjong pa.
DeleteBeyennn halfway to 2023 na freedom to breastfeed anywhere chuchu pa rin pinaglalaban niya
ReplyDeleteAng daming bitter! Mga inuuna pa ang personal hate kay Coleen kesa tingnan ang message ng post na ito. This post is to promote breastfeeding advocacy. At sa totoo lang, nakatulong po sya sa mga advocates sa pagpapalaganap ng awareness about normalizing breastfeeding.
ReplyDeleteGirl hindi sa lahat ng sitwasyon bitter ang rason. Again, breastfeeding has been normal ever since. No need for advocacy, promotion, or normalization. Sa totoo lang, kung may oras at kapasidad ang isang ina, gagawin niya. Hindi na kailangan ng isang Coleen para impluwensyahan sila. Kahit batang ina na lumaki sa hirap at walang means bumili ng gatas, maiisip niyang mag-breastfeed na lang. Mother's instinct na yan.
DeleteKelan ba kasi di naging normal yan? Kaka advocate nila ng normalcy nagiging abnormal na tuloy. Anubey since time immemorial nagpapadede na ang mga nanay. Besides kung ayaw magpa dede ng nanay choice nya yan. Fed is best.
Delete2:24 kanina ka pa comment ng comment. G na g ka sa mga padede moms. Bitter ka? Hindi yan normal. Not everyone has the dedication para magpadede.
DeleteI breastfed my kids, 2 yrs each. I never thought much about except that I can, and why not? Hindi rin madali nung una as I needed the help of a lactation specialist sa hospital. Akala ko nung una, di ko magagawa. Ang dami ko ring kilala who did it. Some couldn't. Iba iba rason, iba't ibang challenges. And its ok. You do what's best for the baby and for you.
Delete2:24 correct bakit may promotion and advocacy pa eh normal naman ang breastfeeding. Sasabihin din sayo yan ng doctor mo at mother instinct yan nakapag aral man o hindi. Dahil sa post ng mga advocacies on BF yun mothers na hindi capable and capable man but they have their own reason why ayaw nila will feel pressure.
DeleteKung normal sa iba, bakit didiktahan ung nanay na magtakip? May ibang bata sila mismo ayaw ng cover kasi nahihirapan sila so yung bata ang nagtatanggal ng takip. Daming comments dito na takpan ung boobs pero pag sexy na babae na nipple lang may takip, todo papuri kayo.
DeleteAgree, I actually like her post. I don't see anything wrong with it, or why people are so mad about it. Merong pang dinedefend bat sila naiirita? LMAOOOO
Delete2:24 kung matagal ng normal, dapat di ka affected sa post na to. Pero ayan ka, dami mong nasabi. Kaya dapat lang I-normalize ang breastfeeding eh. Daming affected dito.
DeletePwede naman sigurong isang pic lang. 🤧
ReplyDeleteAng laki na ng baby, congrats.
ReplyDeleteinagawan mo pa ng declaration title si marian.lol!
ReplyDeleteHindi ko na binasa post ni Colleen. Pero yes to normalise Breastfeeding! Kung yun ang nagpapa happy sa mother edi go lang share lang ng share ng photos! BUT pls be mindful na lang and accept that there will be judging looks and angry reactions BECAUSE there are moms who cannot breastfeed gustuhin man nila maybe because of medical or mental condition diba minsan when these mom see a mom like Colleen it reminds them of their most stressful time (newborn phase etc). Basta madami dahilan kaya yung iba ayaw makakita ng ganyan BUT we also have to gently remind ourselves na normal ang breastfeeding! I’m a mom also and I’m currently EBFing my 9 month old baby but I don’t take photos like that and I always cover myself in public kasi nahihiya ko because it doesn’t feel right to expose myself BUT I know it’s normal for some moms therefore I do not judge whether you breastfeed or not. Let’s just be open minded. Maybe on Colleens part she just wants validation and that’s ok give na lang natin yun sa kanya kasi di naman madali mag padede. Okay sorry dami ko sinabi 😂
ReplyDeleteHindi ko rin binasa post mo sa sobrang haba, yung 1st line lang, haha.
DeleteTama ka naman girl
DeleteHindi na problema ni Coleen kung may nga nanay na bawal magbf basta sya nagreremind lang na importante magbf.
DeleteYah True but not in public parang nakakahiya she expose her boobs at yung mga nakakakita may pagnanasahan na kamaniyankan
DeleteBreastfeeding IS normal. She just made it a big deal by posting pictures just to show "Look, we celebrities are just like you!" Just because others prefer to do it private or cover up, doesn't make it count less. Brushing your teeth is normal, but you don't have to do it in public or post pictures just to show it's normal.
ReplyDeletePrecisely! And let's not forget ah, your pictures are set to public which can be stolen from you and people might use it sa dark web etc. Who knows. Ang daming siraulo ngayon. Safety and privacy ng anak niya ang ingatan nya.
DeleteKasi some people nowadays are not doing breastfeeding anymore na. They go for formula na. BF awareness pa din naman yan. Ano baaa.
ReplyDeleteBecause not everyone can breastfed. Some has medicsl reasons, others has demanding work were pumping can be time consuming. (30mins din ang pumping time, so it will eat up their time during breaks or probably they are on field. Other just choose not to. Women, especially mothers should have the freedom to choose for their own kids. Whether magpa BF sila or Formula.
DeletePa'bf muna sa baby while on break during her pictorial
ReplyDeletebreastfeeding nanay din ako, until 3 yrs old na si baby.. peru di ko talaga carry ang magpakita sa publications.
ReplyDeleteBF is normal. Pero bakit need ipost lahat? Tapos nagcomment ka ng di nila gusto, pavictim naman akala mo inaapo. Bigyan nyo na kasi ng career ulit at baka bored na sa bahay.
ReplyDeleteBased on experience, hindi safe mag beeastfeed sa public places ng walang takip kasi prone sa mga dumi na maaring makuha ng bata. So you still need to cover up kahit papaano.
ReplyDeleteAng daming hater ni Colleen dito. You lots who are commenting negatively about her positive, good-natured post are whats wrong in this country. There's still stigma on breastfeeding esp breastfeeding publicly and bf'ing toddlers. Her post is actually helpful in removing that stigma. Instead, all you saw in it is negativity. Kaya ang daming Nanay na nahihiya magpa BF dahil nakakakita ng mga ganyang comment!
ReplyDeleteAng nenegastar nyo, PWE. You are the worst kind of Maritess - hindi lang chismosa, may name calling and judgment pang kasama. I feel so sorry for your husbands, kids, siblings and relatives. I would hate to be related to you ✌️
Kasama ka dun bakla, chismosang marites ka din na nagtatago sa pangalan anonymous. And please stop using my Signatured "pwe" comment.
DeleteOh reallllly... at kailangan pa ng glamour shots at sumakay ng paddle board to prove her point? You know it's easy to spot validation seeking posts on social media.
DeleteI have nothing against breastfeeding in public. It's part sa instict sa mom to feed her baby. But my only issue is yung mga celebrities na nagpa glam up pa talaga para magpakuha ng pics breastfeeding their babies then post sa socmed to lecture others.
ReplyDeleteOo na, anong paki ko sa buhay nya. Kaso may opinion din ako. Pinost nya yan eh. Nanay din ako who breastfed kids and I know di ako celeb. Kaso itong post na ganito, need ba mg post ng 10 pics to prove her point?
pwede ba? shut up about bf. anong normal dami nyo nga kuda. if nagpost sya na kumakain sya ganyan ba dami kakuda nyo na clout chaser sya or attention seeker sya? when i bfed my kids pinapaalis ako na dapat magtago pa ako. inulan ako ng insults from my own dad (i should be hiding away nakakadiri if makita ako) to my siblings to my nieces and nephews. mga nega kayo. di nyo lang alam some cant even pay for formula but they dont know breastfeeding is an option so pinupush nila formula feeding. sobraaang hirap ng sakripisyo ng moms who breastfeed and i am quite privileged.may driver ako may yaya/s and still ang daming roadblocks. for me, to bf i opened myself up to insults, criticisms etc. and for me, colleen posting these photos, is so brave. whej you bf, you know it wont be something the world congratulTes you for, even if its the right thing. it is much like fighting homophobia or racism, you're in for a rough journey.
ReplyDeleteYou cant pay for formula but you have yaya and driver? I am confuse
Delete9:04 sa sinabi mo mukhang mas dapat i-educate yung wag kang maga anak kung di mo kaya mag provide. Sabi mo nga daming di man lang afford to buy formula. So panu yun kung di mo na nga afford ang formula at wala ka pang mapigang gatas sa dede mo. I always tell my kids this: if you cant even provide for your own wants & needs then you have no right na mag anak. We are financially capable and kahit mga apo namin kaya namin buhayin but that is not what i want to teach my kids. The moment mag decide kang magpamilya na you’re on your own. Bottomline, wag mag anak kung di man lang kaya bumili ng pang gatas.
DeleteI am one of them mothers who's not able to breastfeed dahil sa maraming dahilan. Gets ko naman na nakakaproud yung breastfeeding, na the best sya, na ideal... pero when i was not able to bf my kid, mabaliw baliw ako. KASE PARATI AKO NAKAKAKITA NG BF PHOTOS NA GANITO. It felt like my incompetencies, my inadequacies, my "pagkukulang" bilang nanay was nadudukdok sa mukha ko. While I understand their advocacy, nakaka insecure din kase para sa ibang nanay, lalo kung hindi naman nila pinipiling hindi mag bf.
ReplyDeleteKung nakapag pasuso kayo, congrats.
Self righteous na yung dating nung ibang breastfeeding moms eh. Low key mom-shaming na sa mga hindi makapagpa breastfeed ang nangyayari. Yung iba may medical reason , yung iba naman, hindi kaya dahil sa type of work. Ang importante, inaalagaan ang baby to the best of a mom's ability.
DeleteSusmaryosep. .Minsan OA din tong mga artista eh. I was breastfeeding and a working mom but never ko feel mag post ng pic na baby nka breastfeed then soc med agad. 😂
ReplyDeleteBash nyo yun mga artista nagpost lol
ReplyDeleteBreastfeeding month ngayon, sumakit mga mata ng mga judger at magaling pa sa buhay nila dito.
Some can breastfeed ,some can for a short term but unfortunately some cannot. So it’s not about breastfeeding what matters is you are a good mother and a person; life is More than Breastfeeding.
ReplyDeleteVery well said. Being a good mother is not defined by breastfeeding alone. Yung ibang breastfeeding moms naman, ang baba ng tingin sa mga hindi maka breastfeed. Maraming pwedeng dahilan why some can't bf. My 2 kids were fed pumped breast milk for a short period of time, tapos formula na and then puro healthy food na, mostly organic. Pareho namang mga healthy.
DeleteTHIS! sana wag nyo naman maliitin yung mga mama na hindi maka BF hindi naman jan nasasabi ang pag mamahal ng ina. lahat ng ina. bf or not ang mahalaga kung gano nila mahalin ang baby nila
DeleteMy son was breastfed for 18 mos but personal preference ko talaga to cover if nasa public places. Sa bahay ok lang pag husband ko lang present. If may mga bisita kami i always cover pa rin. I think more on ang pinaglalaban nila is yung normalizing breast na nai expose while feeding although sa Pinas naman wala namang akong alam na may stigma against it unlike sa ibang bansa. Ang common na sight na nga lang nyan sa mga nasa laylayan and i see it often din sa mga public transpo etc…yung mga nanay talagang exposed ang dede while feeding. Wala pa naman akong alam na nasitang nanay because of it. Like i said sa ibang bansa, oo, meron. Bottomline, it’s a matter of personal preference - covered or not, breastfeed or formula. I still believe that “fed is best.”
ReplyDeleteReal talk lang, May mga breastfeeding moms kasi na akala mo sila na talaga ang pinaka mga uliran at batayan ng pagiging tunay na nanay just because nagpapa dede sila. Andami kong nababasang ganyan sa social media eh. May ka fb nga akong ganyan halos kada padede post sabay caption ng matindi. Kaburaot din naman to the point bordering to mom shaming na sa mga nagpo formula feeding.
ReplyDeleteBreastfeeding is not for all moms. Hahaha.and there is more to being a mom than breastfeeding. No need to be proud Mama Coleen because that never makes you a good mom. Just protect your child and keep him private. Sobra naman ang nakalatch tapos ipost ko pa. Nadamay pa cya. Normal na ang breastfeeding since 19forgotten.
ReplyDeleteit might look as papansin, but my baby's yaya, who will become a grandmother, is promoting bfeeding to her daughter in law by saying "si coleen nga nag bbreastfeed". madami din kasi na mas mataas ang tingin sa formula. It helps the cause so kudos to her.
ReplyDeleteThe grandma is just like any other people from the older generation kung maka-request sa babae kala mo ang dali lang! Wala siyang pinagkaiba sa mga nagsasabing, si Anne Curtis nabuntis na, bat ikaw hindi pa?
DeleteHehe. Wala na ba sya maipromote sa sarili nya kundi breastfeeding. Lagi nalang nya pinopost yan. Oo na nag bbrreastfeeed kaa naaa!! Hahaha umay. Next!
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