Ung kanta na humanap ka ng panget eh di na talaga applicable ngayon. Kung sino pa un panget, un pa masama ugali. Nagrereflect sa pagmumukha nila ugali nila
2:19 hindi ganun kadali yun, galing na ko sa sitwasyon nya at mahirap. Yung tipong alam ng utak mong mali na pero syempre marupok din kaya hindi yan agad-agad na goodbye. 😏
@2:19AM I wish ganun lang kadali pero minsan kasi kapag in-love ang tao, kahit na alam mong mali, pinapalampas at pinaptawad pa rin yung nananakit. Tapos minsan din ipinagdadasal at umaasang magbabago siya ganern. Pero mahirap din kasi hindi naman basta bastang magbabago yung tao. Kaya bilib ako sa mga nasa honeymoon stage palang ang relasyon at nakitaan ng mga ganitong redflags eh nakakayang mag walk away ng girl sa relationship.
Abuse starts mentally, emotionally. The victim starts to doubt and question, and blame herself. Denial is extremely powerful. Not to mention they have a child. Abusers also have a drastic switch. They're not always nasty..when they're not enraged, they are charming, sweet and all that's lovely. Don't blame the victims - it takes tremendous strength to walk away and speak up.
so true. sa amin yun kapatid ko ninananakawan ang negosyo ng mga kapatid/magulang ko. alam na nila nahuli pero makapangyarihan at mayaman yun nagnanakaw na kapatid kaya plastikan na lang saka chinichismis nalang sya sa likod nya at binabantayan nila yun negosyo. alam na nila yun ginagawa pero di nila masabihan. takot din. sa pilipinas malakas impluwensya ng pera. ang masasama nagmumukhang anghel. pero style nya na yun kasi may dating partner sya, niloloko at ninanakawan nya din kaya eto, pinapalabas nya empleyado nya gumawa pero alam naman ng lahat sya. di sila mahirap, akala mo nga sobeang yaman, pinapaaral pa sa ibang bansa mga anak daming bodyguard, mga ariarian dami. iba talaga ang kasakiman ng mga tao.
Calling PBA management! Kailangan ng psychological evaluation ng mga players nyo! Napapadalas na toh. If hindi cheating ang issue, abuse!! Masyado na yata umakyat sa ulo nila yung pagiging PBA player nila
Hindi ko maintindihan bakit aakyat sa ulo nila na PBA players sila. They are MERE basketball players. Mas maraming magagaling na athletes compared to them. Mas maraming C-level executives ang mas matalino at malaki ang income kaysa kanila.
2:21 kung parehas lng sana sila ng mentality sa atin na kakalas agad pag inabuso wala sanang ganyan. Kaya lng it’s either weak sila or umasa na magbabago partner nila. We can’t blame them, mas kailangan nila ng tulong.
11:47, bigas sa bisaya is bugas meaning pimples. Baka yun ibig sabihin. Joke yan sa bisaya eh pag madaming pimples sa mukha sinasabi namin “naay bugasan” meaning may palabigasan. Something like that. 😂
Bakit kung sino pa yung malalaki yung katawan sila yung madalas nananakit ng babae??? Kaloka humanap kayo ng kasing laki nyo or mas malaki sainyong lalaki!
Yan din ang napansin ko parang si Kit at yung isang PBA player. Sana mag boxing nalang sila para mailabas nila ang lahat ng sama ng loob. Lalo na yung bubug na puro pasa na ang mukha at katawan ng babae parang pano nila nagagawa yun
Sadly like my ex. Super buff nya tapos after nya ko saktan makikita ko katawan nya napapaisip nalang ako na ang lakas ko at kinaya ko yung mga punches that he threw at me. One thing din ay mama’s boy sya and he has sisters kaya i can’t imagine pano nya nagawa sakin yun
And the funny thing here is, the sister of the guy is insinuating things such as user daw si girl and she cheated daw, justifying his brother's act of violence dun sa ex. Sobrang problematic nung take na yun. Imagine hitting a pregnant woman? Nagkalat na talaga mga enabler, gaslighter at trapo sa mundo ngayon. Doble ingat po tayo.
Alam mo naman ang mga pamilya sa Pilipinas kahit mali hahanap sila ng way para hindi mag mukhang masama ang kapatid. Laging may excuse sa abuse. Baka ma karma ang kapatid at mangyari yan sa kanya sige siya lalo na babae siya mahirap maramdaman ang nararamdaman ni Agatha
umay?women (and some men, too) are speaking out on domestic abuse online because they lost their voice when they were being harmed.
sumbungan kung sumbungan. dapat lang kasi sumusobra na. countless of people have been victims and suffered in silence because they were afraid to speak up. and everyone knows how social media is the most powerful tool in the Philippines.
you should commend Agatha for standing up for and protecting herself. in the long run, she’ll empower other victims.
I think this is something good in a way. Kasi women who are in the same situation can have that courage to get away from abusive partner if ever mabasa nila toh at mapag tanto na they're not alone. For the longest time ang daming women na left in the dark or worse 6 feet under the dark kasi akala nila walang makakaintindi ng situation nila.
I don't mind mga ganito sa socmed, other women should be made aware kung ano ang totoong kulay ng lalakeng to. Mas marami pa nga jan inaabuso pero tahimik lang dahil ayaw ng gulo, we should be encouraging these women that it's okay to break free from abuse.
Kadiri ka. Mga mindset ng katulad mo napaka-toxic, kaya madaming abused persons who would rather stay silent and don't even come forward dahil iniinvalidate ng mga katulad mo. Abused people HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO SPEAK UP and report what their abusers do. Para na rin maging aware ang mga tao, especially those who go through the same ordeal, to build a support system and mostly, to protect themselves and heal. Speaking about it will help them heal in the long run.
Ok na yan kesa tumahimik. And through soc med minsan nakakahanap ng support system. Malay mo yung mga nakapaligid sa kanya panay enablers kaya mahirap din magsalita. Wag i invalidate yung way nya of asking for help.
Jusko, ang pangit na nga nung lalaki, abusado pa! Ano ba nman tong ibang kababaihan! 😂 Kaya nman pala ang daming abusers at cheaters na basketbolista kasi maraming magaganda ang pumapatol maski pangit. 😬
Feeling tuloy ng mga ito ang gwapo sila. Kung ako kay girl unang pananakit lang nito ng physical iiwan ko agad yan, iba na kasi yun pag sinaktan ka ng physical masyado na yun.
Truth! Gone are the days na wholesome at matino mga basketball stars. Di naman siguro sila lahat pa bait pero jusko may utak naman na wag bastos at balahura. May mga iba na akala mo kung sino. Reality check, malalaos din kayo dahil hindi forever ang athletic career.
10:14 and so? what do you think of girls naman will always go for the money over character. If he has money he`d better get help or better yet, get belo to fix his face.
10:14, if you think PBA players are loaded then you are definitely meeting the wrong set of people. I’d say expand your social network and you will realize that what they earn is just chump change ;) ;) ;)
Pansin ko lang, some guys (and some girls) talaga, nagiging abusive if they know na their partner is out of their league. Maybe it gives them satisfaction knowing they can control someone who's a better catch?
Kinda wished she posted some photos for evidence. Just to shut everyone up. But maybe she doesn’t want to be seen that vulnerable and broken. Smart of her I guess, because that photo will be in circulation forever. However - so many will continue to doubt her because of that.
itsura nyan talagang nakagawa pa ng ganyan, kapal ng mukha!!
ReplyDeleteKamukha nga niya un boy nung kamag anak namin. Siyang siya lol
DeleteUng kanta na humanap ka ng panget eh di na talaga applicable ngayon. Kung sino pa un panget, un pa masama ugali. Nagrereflect sa pagmumukha nila ugali nila
Deleteantagal nya nagtiis ganern. dapat start pa lang di na pinapalampas o tinotolerate
DeleteKung madaling gawin baks, walang biktima. Ang hirap ng ganyan. Be sensitive please and wag sana mangyari sayo.
Delete2:19 hindi ganun kadali yun, galing na ko sa sitwasyon nya at mahirap. Yung tipong alam ng utak mong mali na pero syempre marupok din kaya hindi yan agad-agad na goodbye. 😏
Delete@2:19AM I wish ganun lang kadali pero minsan kasi kapag in-love ang tao, kahit na alam mong mali, pinapalampas at pinaptawad pa rin yung nananakit. Tapos minsan din ipinagdadasal at umaasang magbabago siya ganern. Pero mahirap din kasi hindi naman basta bastang magbabago yung tao. Kaya bilib ako sa mga nasa honeymoon stage palang ang relasyon at nakitaan ng mga ganitong redflags eh nakakayang mag walk away ng girl sa relationship.
DeleteAbuse starts mentally, emotionally. The victim starts to doubt and question, and blame herself. Denial is extremely powerful. Not to mention they have a child. Abusers also have a drastic switch. They're not always nasty..when they're not enraged, they are charming, sweet and all that's lovely. Don't blame the victims - it takes tremendous strength to walk away and speak up.
DeleteMag wonder ka na lang sa upbringing ng taong ganyan, impossible walang malay yung family sa anger issues ng anak nila.
ReplyDeleteKinukunsinti pa nga. Ganyan siguro kung ikaw ang primary provider, no one corrects your wrongdoings
Deleteso true. sa amin yun kapatid ko ninananakawan ang negosyo ng mga kapatid/magulang ko. alam na nila nahuli pero makapangyarihan at mayaman yun nagnanakaw na kapatid kaya plastikan na lang saka chinichismis nalang sya sa likod nya at binabantayan nila yun negosyo. alam na nila yun ginagawa pero di nila masabihan. takot din. sa pilipinas malakas impluwensya ng pera. ang masasama nagmumukhang anghel. pero style nya na yun kasi may dating partner sya, niloloko at ninanakawan nya din kaya eto, pinapalabas nya empleyado nya gumawa pero alam naman ng lahat sya. di sila mahirap, akala mo nga sobeang yaman, pinapaaral pa sa ibang bansa mga anak daming bodyguard, mga ariarian dami. iba talaga ang kasakiman ng mga tao.
DeleteCalling PBA management! Kailangan ng psychological evaluation ng mga players nyo! Napapadalas na toh. If hindi cheating ang issue, abuse!! Masyado na yata umakyat sa ulo nila yung pagiging PBA player nila
ReplyDeleteHindi ko maintindihan bakit aakyat sa ulo nila na PBA players sila. They are MERE basketball players. Mas maraming magagaling na athletes compared to them. Mas maraming C-level executives ang mas matalino at malaki ang income kaysa kanila.
DeleteSigurado iba impact sakanila being a pba player. If not, hindi ganyan pareparehas ugali ng iba sakanila. Again “ng iba sakanila”
DeleteHe has mental health issues!! But that is not an excuse!
DeletePBA, about time na pansinin niyo na sana ang issue na ‘to about your players.
DeleteLaos na ang PBA sa true lang. Kaya nga un iba from collegiate team eh sa abroad na naglalaro. Laos na nga ang yayabang pa lol
Deleteboys will be boys lagi ang excuse ng mga ganyan. Konsintidor.
DeleteNaku ha ang daming pba players either cheating or abuse ang issues, dapat pag ganyan ligwak na agad at i background check mga players
ReplyDeleteYikes! Dapat dito sa ganitong lalaki sa presinto iderecho! Sorry pero walang excuse ang physical & emotional abuse!!
ReplyDeletedami rin kasi pumapayag na itreat sila ng ganyan. dapat simula pa lang kalas agad o kaya report agad sa pulis
Delete2:21 it’s always easy to say and looks good in theory. until you find yourself in that situation. hindi pag payag tawag dun.
Delete2:21 AM anong petsa na nagvictim blame ka pa rin?
DeleteMagulat kayo, yung iba bumabalik pa after ng ganyan. Sobrang hirap sa victims.
Delete2:21 kung parehas lng sana sila ng mentality sa atin na kakalas agad pag inabuso wala sanang ganyan. Kaya lng it’s either weak sila or umasa na magbabago partner nila. We can’t blame them, mas kailangan nila ng tulong.
DeleteKakapal ng mga lalaking ganito! It's always the mapapangit pa nga.
ReplyDeleteP.S. Di ko rin naman sinasabi na kapag guwapo ay pwede nang manakit ha.
Mayaman si guy. Supplier ng “bigas”!
ReplyDeleteChura, akala mo kagwapuhan. Che!
bakit may " " yung bigas? serious question
DeleteOo nga, whats with the quotation marks. Code word lang ba yan?
Delete11:47 siguro pimples ibig nyang sabihin. Sarcastic sya
Delete11:47, bigas sa bisaya is bugas meaning pimples. Baka yun ibig sabihin. Joke yan sa bisaya eh pag madaming pimples sa mukha sinasabi namin “naay bugasan” meaning may palabigasan. Something like that. 😂
Delete11:36 nakuha ko jokes mo bakla. Hahahahahahaha
DeleteNakakaloka 😂🤣😂🤣
DeletePangit na nga, nambubugbog pa. Yuck
ReplyDeleteBakit kung sino pa yung malalaki yung katawan sila yung madalas nananakit ng babae??? Kaloka humanap kayo ng kasing laki nyo or mas malaki sainyong lalaki!
ReplyDeleteYan din ang napansin ko parang si Kit at yung isang PBA player. Sana mag boxing nalang sila para mailabas nila ang lahat ng sama ng loob. Lalo na yung bubug na puro pasa na ang mukha at katawan ng babae parang pano nila nagagawa yun
DeleteSadly like my ex. Super buff nya tapos after nya ko saktan makikita ko katawan nya napapaisip nalang ako na ang lakas ko at kinaya ko yung mga punches that he threw at me. One thing din ay mama’s boy sya and he has sisters kaya i can’t imagine pano nya nagawa sakin yun
Delete@12:37 so sorry that happened to you :( You and everyone dont deserved to be treated that way, i hope you’re in a good position now
DeleteAnd the funny thing here is, the sister of the guy is insinuating things such as user daw si girl and she cheated daw, justifying his brother's act of violence dun sa ex. Sobrang problematic nung take na yun. Imagine hitting a pregnant woman? Nagkalat na talaga mga enabler, gaslighter at trapo sa mundo ngayon. Doble ingat po tayo.
ReplyDeleteAlam mo naman ang mga pamilya sa Pilipinas kahit mali hahanap sila ng way para hindi mag mukhang masama ang kapatid. Laging may excuse sa abuse. Baka ma karma ang kapatid at mangyari yan sa kanya sige siya lalo na babae siya mahirap maramdaman ang nararamdaman ni Agatha
DeleteSumbungan time nanaman sa social media. 🥴 Antay natin sagot ng isa. Umay mga ganitong domestic problem eh sa soc med ang sumbungan.
ReplyDeleteumay?women (and some men, too) are speaking out on domestic abuse online because they lost their voice when they were being harmed.
Deletesumbungan kung sumbungan. dapat lang kasi sumusobra na. countless of people have been victims and suffered in silence because they were afraid to speak up. and everyone knows how social media is the most powerful tool in the Philippines.
you should commend Agatha for standing up for and protecting herself. in the long run, she’ll empower other victims.
I think this is something good in a way. Kasi women who are in the same situation can have that courage to get away from abusive partner if ever mabasa nila toh at mapag tanto na they're not alone. For the longest time ang daming women na left in the dark or worse 6 feet under the dark kasi akala nila walang makakaintindi ng situation nila.
Deleteraising awareness ang tawag dyan. victim blaming ka day. side piece ka ba ni guy.
DeleteI don't mind mga ganito sa socmed, other women should be made aware kung ano ang totoong kulay ng lalakeng to. Mas marami pa nga jan inaabuso pero tahimik lang dahil ayaw ng gulo, we should be encouraging these women that it's okay to break free from abuse.
Delete12:12 good for you you have a choice na maumay. you can always scroll past this article, if you can’t have compassion for the sisterhood.
DeleteYuck enabler
DeleteI think this is merited. If something happens to her, people need to know.
DeleteMabuti ngang kumalat sa social media nang malaman ng mga tao na hindi karapat dapat hangaan yung lalaking yun.
DeleteWag sana mangyari sayo. Grabe mag judge
DeleteKadiri ka. Mga mindset ng katulad mo napaka-toxic, kaya madaming abused persons who would rather stay silent and don't even come forward dahil iniinvalidate ng mga katulad mo. Abused people HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO SPEAK UP and report what their abusers do. Para na rin maging aware ang mga tao, especially those who go through the same ordeal, to build a support system and mostly, to protect themselves and heal. Speaking about it will help them heal in the long run.
DeleteHalimaw pala yang si Paul Desiderio. Bakit may mga ganyang lalaki na namimisikal.
ReplyDeleteOk na yan kesa tumahimik. And through soc med minsan nakakahanap ng support system. Malay mo yung mga nakapaligid sa kanya panay enablers kaya mahirap din magsalita. Wag i invalidate yung way nya of asking for help.
ReplyDeleteKapangit na lalake. Jackpot na sya dyan sa Agatha, binalahura pa.
ReplyDeleteJusko, ang pangit na nga nung lalaki, abusado pa! Ano ba nman tong ibang kababaihan! 😂 Kaya nman pala ang daming abusers at cheaters na basketbolista kasi maraming magaganda ang pumapatol maski pangit. 😬
ReplyDeleteFeeling tuloy ng mga ito ang gwapo sila. Kung ako kay girl unang pananakit lang nito ng physical iiwan ko agad yan, iba na kasi yun pag sinaktan ka ng physical masyado na yun.
Deletematino mga basketball player dati Alvin Patrimonio.
ReplyDeleteTruth! Gone are the days na wholesome at matino mga basketball stars. Di naman siguro sila lahat pa bait pero jusko may utak naman na wag bastos at balahura. May mga iba na akala mo kung sino. Reality check, malalaos din kayo dahil hindi forever ang athletic career.
DeleteLol ang daming chicks niyan dati. Saka parang si paras yan minor yung asawa nyan nung pinakasalan.
DeleteEeww no hahaha kunwari mabait pag nagsasalita
DeleteAy kapanget nman nung guy
ReplyDelete@3:01 AM, he is a PBA player, not a model :) :) :) Besides, he is loaded with money kaya he has options to pick anyone he likes :) :) :)
Delete10:14 and so? what do you think of girls naman will always go for the money over character. If he has money he`d better get help or better yet, get belo to fix his face.
Delete10:14, if you think PBA players are loaded then you are definitely meeting the wrong set of people. I’d say expand your social network and you will realize that what they earn is just chump change ;) ;) ;)
DeleteAng ganda ni girl nagtiis lng
ReplyDeleteI hope she already filed a petition for permanent protection order with the Court alongside a case for VAWC. Pero kahit PPO lang sana.
ReplyDeleteganda ni gurl...sosyal ang beauty!
ReplyDeleteTrue! Browsed her IG, she looks like a more Pinay na Catriona. Glad she had the guts to speak out!
DeleteYes Alta si girl. Studied in poveda
DeleteDi ko nilalahat ah, pero bat ganun may mga ilan tlgang basketball player na abuser?
ReplyDeletekung sino pa pangit talaga. kaya kung magpapaloko kayo sa mga pogi nalang para worth it hahahahah
ReplyDeletePangit na nga, pangit pa ng ugali. Doble malas si gurl sa lalakeng yan. Next time be very discerning, matalino at maganda ka naman.
ReplyDeleteI always thought when they got together that he didn't deserve her.
ReplyDeletemedj off topic pero may lahi ba si girl? i just noticed kasi blonde yung baby nila?
ReplyDelete6:09 off ka nga baks. dm mo sya, ang creepy ng comment mo. fetish yarn!
Delete1:32 fetish agad? di pwedeng marites lang? daming sobrang talino these days. --Not 6:09
Deletenakakaloka.. what's up with the people nowadays?? nacurious lang si 442.. naging fetish na?? kaloka
DeletePansin ko lang, some guys (and some girls) talaga, nagiging abusive if they know na their partner is out of their league. Maybe it gives them satisfaction knowing they can control someone who's a better catch?
ReplyDeleteOmg. Oo nga noh
DeleteMga basura talaga tong mga basketbolista
ReplyDeleteKinda wished she posted some photos for evidence. Just to shut everyone up. But maybe she doesn’t want to be seen that vulnerable and broken. Smart of her I guess, because that photo will be in circulation forever. However - so many will continue to doubt her because of that.
ReplyDeleteBakit ba kelangan ibandera nyo sa publiko ang mga problema nyo?
ReplyDeletekaya takot na takot talaga akong mag-asawa.
ReplyDelete