Very true. Irita talaga ugali ng mga pinoy na kapag 30 na ang babae late na late na kung wala pang anak at asawa. If i know pakadaming sising sisi dyan na maaga nagpamilya lol
Very true. Irita talaga ugali ng mga pinoy na kapag 30 na ang babae late na late na kung wala pang anak at asawa. If i know pakadaming sising sisi dyan na maaga nagpamilya lol
Hahahaha mga inggit na kasi hindi nakakapag travel sa places na gusto nila. Kaya ang ginagawa na lang is manlalait na lang ng single and independent women.
Agree! I married at 32, mag 33 ako this year at hinahanapan na ako ng anak. Dapat daw anak agad dahil naikasal na. E hindi kami makabuo pero hindi naman kami malungkot, kasi nakakapagtravel kami anytime naeenjoy talaga namin ang isat isa parang mag bf/gf lang. Pero nga workmates ko stress na dahil wala pa akong anak hahahaha
Bes pwede pa rin naman kumita, have a successful career, mag travel , own house, designer bags etc kung May anak. You really have it all. Minsan meron successful na 40 na pano nun pipilitin magka biological na anak? It’s more of a stretch.
Depende din naman yan sa tao talaga. To each his own. I know someone who got married and had a child at 21, but managed to become a lawyer in her 30s. Nagwowork pa sya while being a mom and wife.
If you decide to have kids marry in your 20s or early 30s. Give respect to the child. Nobody wants their parents to be so old that the generational gap is too obvious. Some parents couldn’t relate to their kids because of too much gap. Some are already dead before their kids become adult. Don’t be selfish and have kids later. This is applicable to both men and women. Some men get married on their 40s by the time the kid is 18 they are 60 or so already. That is selfishness. You’re not even guaranteed to live until 60.
10:20, my mom had me when she was 41. I don’t think she was being selfish. My mom and I have a very close relationship! i totally disagree with your comment.
10:20 ano naman pakialam mo sa mga nag aanak o nagaasawa later in life? eh buhay nila un. Bakit mo sila ikakahon sa limitado mong pangunawa? Walang garantiya sa buhay uy. May mga taong namamatay nga ng maaga edad 20 o 30. Di pare pareho ang tao. Kaya hindi mo pwedeng iapply sa lahat. Un iba nga umaabot pa ng 90. Problema mo na un kung di ka pinagpala. Wag mo lahatin.
1020 naalala ko yung true crime stories na napanuod ko, the father was killed by his daughter kasi lagi syang nabubully sa school kasi matanda na ang tatay nya. Ganyan kababaw na dahilan. Hay, have kids and no kids enjoy lang our life kasi it is too short. Wag na tayo pavictim sa isat isa kasi sa totoo lang, sa makauna lang naman makapuna eh. Lol
10:20 give respect to the child? Ikaw magbigay respeto sa choice ng iba. Pinagsasabi mong nobody wants their parents to be so old? Ganyan ka kababaw? Importante mahal at inaalagaan ang anak. Wag kang paladesisyon sa buhay ng iba.
Ito ang nangyayari sa mga modern women now masyado sila pa independent na kesyo no need for family, well pag tumanda na at walang anak saka mag aanak pag 50’s na kawawa ang bata.
Di nman lahat ng maaga magkaasawa at anka, masaya. Ung iba walang ng karir wala pang maipakain sa pamilya. Ung iba niloloko at sinasaktan lng ang partner. So wag lahatin, hindi mo ikinaangat tong comment mo 11:26
Hahahaha choice naman ng babae yun kung mag anak sila o hindi. Mas kawawa yung batang ipapanganak nang walang mapakain ang magulang. Mas kawawa ang bata na hindi napapagamot dahil walang pera ang magulang.
At bakit naman magiging kawawa kung walang anak aber? Siguro ikaw ngplano / nagpaplano ka lang mag ka anak para may sumama sayo pagtanda. Very 70's ang wayvof thinking mo ante. 😂
1156 para kang yung ex boss ko. Sino daw mag aalaga samin ng asawa ko pag matanda na kami kung ayaw kong magkaanak. E yung anak nga nya bata pa lang may sobrang spoiled brat at may saltik na,for sure di sila aalagaan nun pagtanda nila. Nag anak ka lang ba para may mag alaga sayo in old age?2022 na uy
Anong kawawa ang bata? Wala sa edad ng nanay yan. Pero kung gusto niyo ng gamyamg argument, di hamak mas kawawa yung anak ng mga maagang nagkaanak na di kaya suportahan ang bata. Yung.ba iaasa pa sa lola.
Guys please don't have a kid just to have somebody to take care of you when you get old. Don't raise a kid na ganito ang thinking. Their parents are not their responsibility omg.
Mahirap din kasi tumagal sa klase ng mindset meron tong babae na’to. Sobrang opinionated at politically correct. Para bang pag sya gf mo, magiging sobrang careful ka sa mga opinion mo towards anything. Self-centered din. Parang dapat si Dawn lang tama at iconsider ang opinion.
Hindi entitled. Assertive sya. And kung mejo weak nga ang personality ng partner, ma oover power nya nga un. So dapat strong din, ung kaya syang paliwanagan ng walang nerbyos ahaha
12:24 at least may k naman si Carla. Eh itong si dadowntyang wala namang career at hindi naman kagandahan. Mahilig lang sumawsaw at magpa-kontrobersyal para mapansin.
When a woman is assertive of what they want in life, ganyan tingin nyo haha! It’s 2020 guys, we should Look up to women na ganyan mindset at hindi natin sila tignan na kakompetisyon pag karelasyon natin, it only shows na insecure ka to take such mindset as competition.
my god ibig sabihin lang nun di compatible si guy sa kanya. Andami nag sesettle sa pwede na kaya nauuwi sa hiwalayan kasi takot tumanda mag-isa. Kaya sinabi nya na date smarter kasi meron at meron sya mahahanap that will complement her. Kung maging single man sya forever, so what?
Beh don't be a parasite sa anak mo. Bat kelangan kang alagaan ng anak mo? You should look after yourself when you get old. Ano yan aasa ka lang sa anak mo? Dahil "utang na loob" nila na pinalaki mo sila? No. Please update your way of thinking. 2022 na.
So ang gusto mo ay umikot lang ang buhay ng anak mo sa iyo at alagaan ka? Parang wala na siyang sariling buhay? Kung gusto ng anak mo na gawin iyan ay okay lang pero hindi dapat obligahin dahil may sarili rin siyang buhay na kailangang asikasuhin.
11:01 may mga magulang na ganyan ang mindset. Parang nag-anak lang para taga-buhay nila at para pasahan ng responsibilidad nila sa ibang anak. Walang pakialam kung masira ang buhay ng anak na ang turing busabos nila. Pag umangal ang anak dahil sa bigat ng responsibilidad na pinapasan nila wala na raw utang na loob at walang silbi ang turing nila.
6:29, mabuti na lang na hindi ikaw ang magulang namin dahil mandatory pala na mag-alaga sa iyo kaya kapag may trabaho kami, ay kailangang mag-quit kami sa trabaho.
Yeah, mabuhay ka para gustuhin ng mga lalaki. Gurl, stop mo na mindset na yan; love for yourself, for what you Want. And what will make you happy. And you will never worry kung may magkagusto sayong lalaki or not, be self sufficient. Those who really Like you will make a way to reach your level. Not the other way around.
It’s high time that we should stop thinking that women should be meek and submissive. Being assertive is not being “entitled”, rather, it’s knowing your worth and not trying to settle for anything less. People will take you more seriously and respect you more (especially in the corporate world) if you show them that you don’t take BS from any one.
Ang dami option now to have kids kahit nga walang partner
Si naomi campbell si alice dixon 50s na nagka anak kawawa ba sila? Si vicky bello nga with scarlet e they're so happy Syempre dapat ready ka in all aspects
who would want to be with you anyway? guys will only a miss know it all, rant whinging brat and obnoxious. masyado kang bidabida at feelingera teh at WALA KANG KARIR🙄
Yah yah yah career first that’s what other women did. Then decided to get married on their late 30s then have a hard time getting pregnant or put their kid at risk for abnormalities. Getting pregnant after 35 is high risk.
10:22 Don't generalize. Even if you had a child in your 20's but you're not financially, mentally, and spiritually stable, do you think you could raise your child well? I know a lot of women who married early only to provide half-assed lives to their kids.
I have a friend who used to tease me nung malapit na ako mag 30s. Sabi "Uyy mag asawa ka na. 30s ka na".
Si friend nagmamadali nag asawa, nagkaanak ng 2 kids. Ang interval 1 year lang. Hirap sya mag alaga, wala syang work, nakatira pa rin sa parents, si hubby working abroad then nag hiwalay sila after 3 years. Nung nagkita kami ni friend sabi "Wag ka na muna mag asawa".
@10:22 What a sick and deplorable mindset you have! There are a lot of women out there who had kids in their late 30's and are able to raise them fabulously. Why? Because in their 30's, they're able to set-up a favorable growing environment for the kids. They've learned so much through the years and have known not to settle for a mediocre life.
Ayan na naman ang mga awayan. Single na successful sa career vs pamilyadong poor haha. Yun lang ba ang alam nyo? With the right planning, hardwork, risk-taking, kaya naman pagsabayin. I will dare say, yung mga pamilyado ngayon na hirap, kahit single yun, hirap pa rin yun. Kasi yun at yun din naman ang papasukan nilang trabaho/qualified sila eh. Kaya para saan ang away haha. If you want to earn more, build an expertise. Kahit magpamilya ka, kurot lang yun sa magiging income mo.
Agree, 11.54! Dagdag mo pa na if you have the expertise, you always have the upper hand in every negotiation and more importantly, you have the luxury to say no to offers which are below your standard.
Misogynistic mga comments Dito. Mga Pinoy talaga, crab mentality. So what kung 30s na sya Wala syang anak. Tapos Ang hirit ayaw ng mga lake na gayan ugali, or kasi assertive or high maintenance. Mga loser lang Ang mga nagco-comment na gayan. Her body, her life, her rules.
True! Daming bitter. For sure natumbok ni Dawn yung point nya sa mga commenters dto. Sigurado married, losyang and low life mga nega na nagcocomment. Happy for her if she finds happiness being single. Why attack and invalidate? True naman talaga na life is not all about getting married and having kids. Kaloka
@12:53 & @7:07 Super agree! Ung mga nagco-comment ng negative sa sinabi ni Dawn, mga inggiterang bored sa bahay at buhay. Mga hindi natupad ang pangarap kasi nalubog sa mga responsibilidad nang pagiging mga losyang na nanay. Inggit sila dun sa mga late nang nag-asawa at maraming naipon at naipundar sa buhay.
Her subject seemed not that interesting, social media people does not care at all whether you go marry someone or go for some random dates for fun MS. CHANG, duh
Agree with you Dawn. If I only knew then what I know now, baka di muna ako naganak. I enjoyed my husband first. The kids put undue stress on our relationship. Everytime we have new baby, it's immense joy but also source of unbelievable amounts of stress/ conflicts.I wish I had enjoyed my life muna. Yun lang, I only started enjoying travel nung kasama na kids namin. Dati, nagtravel ako with family nung single ako and di ko ganon naenjoy, umiiwas pa ako maski libre lahat. Nung tumanda ako and nakikita ko face ng husband and kids saka ko naenjoy. Saka siguro with maturity mas enjoy na ako makinig sa mga convos/biz news or updates. PERO gets ko na after having kids why people who are in wealthier or progressive countries have no kids din. Dati kasi high maintenance seems to have a bad connotation but now it is actually synonymous to having standards. My friends who are more successful financially independently, never got married.
Real talk, kids eat up a lot of resources (time, effort, money, career, katawan mo, relationships mo and a lot of other stuff). Kahit anong sabihin nyong cute yan, pampa complete ng family, na realize mo pagka babae mo etc etc. And yes, family ko ultra high net worth and I have a kid but I don't know if I want another one. Wala akong yaya pero kahit may reasources for yaya, mom guilt naman umaatake. I'm just thankful husband ko hands on fin butvyrs nakaka strain din sya ng relationship. IVF baby namin and at this point I still cant trust anyone with my baby outside of my family. Conflict lang din sa career naming mag asawa coz we're coth professionals.
Jusko, if tingin nyo sa anak eh pabigat lang, wag na kayo mag anak kasi kawawa lang ang bata at baka masisi pa sa kamalasan nyo sa buhay. Lol, you do you. Kung ayaw magkaanak then not. Ok lang nman pero nakakaloka lang na ang iba, pabigat ang tingin sa anak. Isipin nyo nlang, kung yan ang tingin ng parents nyo sa inyo. 😬
Ako naman I couldn’t take care or myself properly nga, so why would I bring another person in this hellish world? I don’t want them to suffer like I did. Also one part is we were asked to watch an abortion video nung hs, and naging trauma ko na yata yun. Kaya ayoko ding madisgrasya.
Jusko ang totoxic ng ibang Pilipino talaga. When you hear those from foreigners, you don’t even react. Pero kapag pinay ang nagsasabi, akala mo naman sila nagpapakain kay Dawn Chang. Totoo naman ang sinabi niya, there are people who feel that they are more free to focus on other things when they’re single. Kung di applicable sayo, better keep your mouth shut. Lol, these people need to get a life. 😂
I agree. I'm currently 32 and tbh I still think I haven't fully accomplished the things I want to do. Siguro kasi ambitious and career woman ako? Ang dami ko pang gustong gawin. Yes, selfish but that's the truth. And I'm happy with my life as it is. I feel like some women just don't have that strong "calling" to be a mom.
Very true. Irita talaga ugali ng mga pinoy na kapag 30 na ang babae late na late na kung wala pang anak at asawa. If i know pakadaming sising sisi dyan na maaga nagpamilya lol
ReplyDeletesige ilaban mo yan teh 😂
DeleteVery true. Irita talaga ugali ng mga pinoy na kapag 30 na ang babae late na late na kung wala pang anak at asawa. If i know pakadaming sising sisi dyan na maaga nagpamilya lol
ReplyDeleteHahahaha mga inggit na kasi hindi nakakapag travel sa places na gusto nila. Kaya ang ginagawa na lang is manlalait na lang ng single and independent women.
DeleteNahiya si Ye Jin na 37-40 nag-date, engaged and married na. Kay Hyun Bin pa.
DeleteMay natitira pa bang decent men out there? Hay!
True!!! Mas marami kasi tayong pera kesa sa kanila na lugmok sa kahirapan hahaahahah
DeleteAgree! I married at 32, mag 33 ako this year at hinahanapan na ako ng anak. Dapat daw anak agad dahil naikasal na. E hindi kami makabuo pero hindi naman kami malungkot, kasi nakakapagtravel kami anytime naeenjoy talaga namin ang isat isa parang mag bf/gf lang. Pero nga workmates ko stress na dahil wala pa akong anak hahahaha
DeleteNot only that, gusto nila may karamay sila. Misery loves company! Hahaha
DeleteBes pwede pa rin naman kumita, have a successful career, mag travel , own house, designer bags etc kung May anak. You really have it all. Minsan meron successful na 40 na pano nun pipilitin magka biological na anak? It’s more of a stretch.
DeleteMeron ako tita mahilig mag comment nyan, pero siya hiwalay sa asawa and never really traveled places. The irony.
DeleteDepende din naman yan sa tao talaga. To each his own. I know someone who got married and had a child at 21, but managed to become a lawyer in her 30s. Nagwowork pa sya while being a mom and wife.
Delete4:59 AM wag mo rin kasi i-assume na lahat ng tao gusto magka anak
DeleteIf you decide to have kids marry in your 20s or early 30s. Give respect to the child. Nobody wants their parents to be so old that the generational gap is too obvious. Some parents couldn’t relate to their kids because of too much gap. Some are already dead before their kids become adult. Don’t be selfish and have kids later. This is applicable to both men and women. Some men get married on their 40s by the time the kid is 18 they are 60 or so already. That is selfishness. You’re not even guaranteed to live until 60.
Delete4:59, hindi lahat ng tao ay gustong mag-asawa at magka-anak whether biological or adopted... Kanya-kanyang choice iyan.
Delete10:20, my mom had me when she was 41. I don’t think she was being selfish. My mom and I have a very close relationship! i totally disagree with your comment.
Delete10:20 ano naman pakialam mo sa mga nag aanak o nagaasawa later in life? eh buhay nila un. Bakit mo sila ikakahon sa limitado mong pangunawa? Walang garantiya sa buhay uy. May mga taong namamatay nga ng maaga edad 20 o 30. Di pare pareho ang tao. Kaya hindi mo pwedeng iapply sa lahat. Un iba nga umaabot pa ng 90. Problema mo na un kung di ka pinagpala. Wag mo lahatin.
Delete1020 naalala ko yung true crime stories na napanuod ko, the father was killed by his daughter kasi lagi syang nabubully sa school kasi matanda na ang tatay nya. Ganyan kababaw na dahilan. Hay, have kids and no kids enjoy lang our life kasi it is too short. Wag na tayo pavictim sa isat isa kasi sa totoo lang, sa makauna lang naman makapuna eh. Lol
Delete10:20 give respect to the child? Ikaw magbigay respeto sa choice ng iba. Pinagsasabi mong nobody wants their parents to be so old? Ganyan ka kababaw? Importante mahal at inaalagaan ang anak. Wag kang paladesisyon sa buhay ng iba.
DeleteIto ang nangyayari sa mga modern women now masyado sila pa independent na kesyo no need for family, well pag tumanda na at walang anak saka mag aanak pag 50’s na kawawa ang bata.
ReplyDeleteDi nman lahat ng maaga magkaasawa at anka, masaya. Ung iba walang ng karir wala pang maipakain sa pamilya. Ung iba niloloko at sinasaktan lng ang partner. So wag lahatin, hindi mo ikinaangat tong comment mo 11:26
DeleteTheir life, their choice. Bakit naman kawawa eh well established ang career
DeleteHahahaha choice naman ng babae yun kung mag anak sila o hindi. Mas kawawa yung batang ipapanganak nang walang mapakain ang magulang. Mas kawawa ang bata na hindi napapagamot dahil walang pera ang magulang.
DeleteAt bakit naman magiging kawawa kung walang anak aber? Siguro ikaw ngplano / nagpaplano ka lang mag ka anak para may sumama sayo pagtanda. Very 70's ang wayvof thinking mo ante. 😂
Delete12:02 True. At mas kawawa yung mga papasahan nila ng responsibilidad nila. Daming pilipinong ganyan sa true lang. Sila pa galit pag hindi napagbigyan
DeleteSi naomi campbell, si Alice Dixon 50s na nung nag decide magka anak ( YES surrogacy counts)
DeleteKAWAWA BA SILA?
1156 para kang yung ex boss ko. Sino daw mag aalaga samin ng asawa ko pag matanda na kami kung ayaw kong magkaanak. E yung anak nga nya bata pa lang may sobrang spoiled brat at may saltik na,for sure di sila aalagaan nun pagtanda nila. Nag anak ka lang ba para may mag alaga sayo in old age?2022 na uy
DeleteEto yung manganak lang para gawing retirment plan. Very boomer mentality.
DeleteAnong kawawa ang bata? Wala sa edad ng nanay yan. Pero kung gusto niyo ng gamyamg argument, di hamak mas kawawa yung anak ng mga maagang nagkaanak na di kaya suportahan ang bata. Yung.ba iaasa pa sa lola.
DeleteGuys please don't have a kid just to have somebody to take care of you when you get old. Don't raise a kid na ganito ang thinking. Their parents are not their responsibility omg.
DeleteMas kawawa ang bata na may nanay na gaya mo. Makitid utak.
DeleteSi Naomi Campbell at Alice Dixson na 53 na nagkaanak ay magiging 71 na kapag naging 18 pa lang ang anak nila.
DeleteParang wala naman may care. Humbrag ka lang
ReplyDeleteNega ka lang.
DeleteCareer? What career? Hahahaha
ReplyDeleteShe has a career, as in what career!
DeleteDon’t be a meanie.
Delete11:35 oo nga lol
DeleteAng bad pero Oo nga
DeleteAng nag iisang.. Dawn Chang!
ReplyDeleteBaks may nakalimutan ka, "THE" Dawn Chang
DeleteMahirap din kasi tumagal sa klase ng mindset meron tong babae na’to. Sobrang opinionated at politically correct. Para bang pag sya gf mo, magiging sobrang careful ka sa mga opinion mo towards anything. Self-centered din. Parang dapat si Dawn lang tama at iconsider ang opinion.
ReplyDeleteSimilar kay Carla na entitled mindset.
DeleteYes. Parang imbes karelasyon mo magiging kakumpetensya mo pa. Nakakadrain ng energy ang ganyang tao.
DeleteHindi entitled. Assertive sya. And kung mejo weak nga ang personality ng partner, ma oover power nya nga un. So dapat strong din, ung kaya syang paliwanagan ng walang nerbyos ahaha
DeleteKnow-it-all din kasi tong si Dawn at sawsawera din.
Delete12:24 at least may k naman si Carla. Eh itong si dadowntyang wala namang career at hindi naman kagandahan. Mahilig lang sumawsaw at magpa-kontrobersyal para mapansin.
DeleteAt bakit namam nadamay si Carla dito???
DeleteWhy are Filipinos so afraid of strong, opinionated and empowered women?
DeleteWhen a woman is assertive of what they want in life, ganyan tingin nyo haha! It’s 2020 guys, we should
DeleteLook up to women na ganyan mindset at hindi natin sila tignan na kakompetisyon pag karelasyon natin, it only shows na insecure ka to take such mindset as competition.
so ano gusto mo oo na lang ng oo. yung mga katulad mo nagpapabagsak ng hansa natin
Deletemy god ibig sabihin lang nun di compatible si guy sa kanya. Andami nag sesettle sa pwede na kaya nauuwi sa hiwalayan kasi takot tumanda mag-isa. Kaya sinabi nya na date smarter kasi meron at meron sya mahahanap that will complement her. Kung maging single man sya forever, so what?
DeleteHmmmm. I hope she’ll change her mind pagtanda mo wala mag aalaga sayo.
ReplyDeleteHaha. That's not the point. Your children aren't your future caregivers.
DeleteBeh don't be a parasite sa anak mo. Bat kelangan kang alagaan ng anak mo? You should look after yourself when you get old. Ano yan aasa ka lang sa anak mo? Dahil "utang na loob" nila na pinalaki mo sila? No. Please update your way of thinking. 2022 na.
DeleteSo ang gusto mo ay umikot lang ang buhay ng anak mo sa iyo at alagaan ka? Parang wala na siyang sariling buhay? Kung gusto ng anak mo na gawin iyan ay okay lang pero hindi dapat obligahin dahil may sarili rin siyang buhay na kailangang asikasuhin.
Delete11:01 may mga magulang na ganyan ang mindset. Parang nag-anak lang para taga-buhay nila at para pasahan ng responsibilidad nila sa ibang anak. Walang pakialam kung masira ang buhay ng anak na ang turing busabos nila. Pag umangal ang anak dahil sa bigat ng responsibilidad na pinapasan nila wala na raw utang na loob at walang silbi ang turing nila.
Delete@12:19 Isa ka pa, kawawa ang mga anak mo kasi gagawin mo lang pala silang mga alipin at utusan balang araw.
Deletetoxic filipino parent mentality
DeleteYung mga kontra dito buti hindi ko kayo naging anak kung ganyan ka ungrateful mindset nyo.
Delete6:29, mabuti na lang na hindi ikaw ang magulang namin dahil mandatory pala na mag-alaga sa iyo kaya kapag may trabaho kami, ay kailangang mag-quit kami sa trabaho.
DeleteSo not best decision mo ung pagtalak mo last time? Yung showing your pink color decisions?
ReplyDeleteAnong connect? If anything mas maraming sumuporta sa kanya after nya depensahan si VP Leni at ang ABS.
Delete2:12 alam naman kung sinu sino ang mga dumepensa sa kanya. Hindi nag-translate sa votes ni Leni.
Delete9:08 trolls lang ba?
DeleteGirl shut up.
ReplyDeleteLinyahan yan ng mga narcissist na tulad mo.
ReplyDeleteSiya ba yung gf ni Justin Cuyugan?
ReplyDeleteYes
DeleteIto yung mga ugali na inaayawan ng mga lalake masyado entitled at puro me myself and i. Ang hirap cguro pakisamahan to lage may kuda
ReplyDeleteYeah, mabuhay ka para gustuhin ng mga lalaki. Gurl, stop mo na mindset na yan; love for yourself, for what you
DeleteWant. And what will make you happy. And you will never worry kung may magkagusto sayong lalaki or not, be self sufficient. Those who really
Like you will make a way to reach your level. Not the other way around.
Hindi entitled ang tawag diyan kundi independent.
DeleteIt’s high time that we should stop thinking that women should be meek and submissive. Being assertive is not being “entitled”, rather, it’s knowing your worth and not trying to settle for anything less.
DeletePeople will take you more seriously and respect you more (especially in the corporate world) if you show them that you don’t take BS from any one.
Ang dami option now to have kids kahit nga walang partner
ReplyDeleteSi naomi campbell si alice dixon 50s na nagka anak kawawa ba sila? Si vicky bello nga with scarlet e they're so happy
Syempre dapat ready ka in all aspects
Yang mga binanggit mo afford nila yan kahit anong edad sila mag anak. Anubey? Mayayaman yang nga yan.
DeleteWhat is option if you dont have means. kaya dapat sa mga single mag payaman para magawa lahat ng gusto nila
Delete8:58 that's the point kung at your 40a 50s dukha ka pa rin ikaw may problema
DeleteMeh, who cares. It’s your life, your decision. Whatever.
ReplyDeleteNo other guy who would be with your high maintenance behavior anyway. Stay single before you ruin someone else’s life.
ReplyDeleteSino ka muna? Ang Dawn lang na kilala ko eh si Dawn Zulueta. Feeling “may career” kung mag post ang lola mo 😂
ReplyDeleteminsang napansin feeling sikat na si tiyang @2:36
Deletewho would want to be with you anyway? guys will only a miss know it all, rant whinging brat and obnoxious. masyado kang bidabida at feelingera teh at WALA KANG KARIR🙄
ReplyDeletecareer na pala sa kanya ang pa-extra extra
ReplyDeleteyung paliyad liyad pag nagsasayaw
DeleteWala naman may pake sa mga kuda mo girl.
ReplyDeleteYeah, kaya pala nagcomment kapa, wala kasi paki haha
Delete@7:40am yes, magcocomment ako kase chismis site to. Parelevant yang idol mo, feelingera.
DeleteAndami namang misogynist dito, mahiya nga kayo
ReplyDeleteOk The Dawn Chang e di ikaw na.
ReplyDeleteSeriously ano pinagkabalahan ni Dawn? I just know her as the ex of Justin Cuyugan.
ReplyDeleteDawn Chang is Dawn Chang.
ReplyDeleteThe Dawn Chang na ex ni Justin C.
DeleteYah yah yah career first that’s what other women did. Then decided to get married on their late 30s then have a hard time getting pregnant or put their kid at risk for abnormalities. Getting pregnant after 35 is high risk.
ReplyDelete10:22 Don't generalize.
DeleteEven if you had a child in your 20's but you're not financially, mentally, and spiritually stable, do you think you could raise your child well? I know a lot of women who married early only to provide half-assed lives to their kids.
I have a friend who used to tease me nung malapit na ako mag 30s. Sabi "Uyy mag asawa ka na. 30s ka na".
DeleteSi friend nagmamadali nag asawa, nagkaanak ng 2 kids. Ang interval 1 year lang. Hirap sya mag alaga, wala syang work, nakatira pa rin sa parents, si hubby working abroad then nag hiwalay sila after 3 years. Nung nagkita kami ni friend sabi "Wag ka na muna mag asawa".
@10:22 What a sick and deplorable mindset you have!
DeleteThere are a lot of women out there who had kids in their late 30's and are able to raise them fabulously.
Why? Because in their 30's, they're able to set-up a favorable growing environment for the kids. They've learned so much through the years and have known not to settle for a mediocre life.
Guess what: Not everyone wants kids
DeleteSorry ha pero di talaga pang artista to
ReplyDeleteBeing in your 30s is like being in your 20s but only with more money. Cheret!
ReplyDeleteKakaarte mo eh hindi malayong maging Tyang Dawn ka na nga 😝
ReplyDeleteAyan na naman ang mga awayan. Single na successful sa career vs pamilyadong poor haha. Yun lang ba ang alam nyo? With the right planning, hardwork, risk-taking, kaya naman pagsabayin. I will dare say, yung mga pamilyado ngayon na hirap, kahit single yun, hirap pa rin yun. Kasi yun at yun din naman ang papasukan nilang trabaho/qualified sila eh. Kaya para saan ang away haha. If you want to earn more, build an expertise. Kahit magpamilya ka, kurot lang yun sa magiging income mo.
ReplyDeleteCouldn't agree more, classmate.
DeleteAgree, 11.54! Dagdag mo pa na if you have the expertise, you always have the upper hand in every negotiation and more importantly, you have the luxury to say no to offers which are below your standard.
DeleteKung alam ko lang mahirap may asawa at mga anak sana naging old maid na lang ako!
ReplyDeleteMisogynistic mga comments Dito. Mga Pinoy talaga, crab mentality. So what kung 30s na sya Wala syang anak. Tapos Ang hirit ayaw ng mga lake na gayan ugali, or kasi assertive or high maintenance. Mga loser lang Ang mga nagco-comment na gayan. Her body, her life, her rules.
ReplyDeleteTrue! Daming bitter. For sure natumbok ni Dawn yung point nya sa mga commenters dto. Sigurado married, losyang and low life mga nega na nagcocomment. Happy for her if she finds happiness being single. Why attack and invalidate? True naman talaga na life is not all about getting married and having kids. Kaloka
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DeleteSuper agree! Ung mga nagco-comment ng negative sa sinabi ni Dawn, mga inggiterang bored sa bahay at buhay. Mga hindi natupad ang pangarap kasi nalubog sa mga responsibilidad nang pagiging mga losyang na nanay. Inggit sila dun sa mga late nang nag-asawa at maraming naipon at naipundar sa buhay.
Her subject seemed not that interesting, social media people does not care at all whether you go marry someone or go for some random dates for fun MS. CHANG, duh
ReplyDelete@ko lang ba pero kamukha nyo yung makeup vlogger na si michelle dy?
ReplyDeleteAgree with you Dawn. If I only knew then what I know now, baka di muna ako naganak. I enjoyed my husband first. The kids put undue stress on our relationship. Everytime we have new baby, it's immense joy but also source of unbelievable amounts of stress/ conflicts.I wish I had enjoyed my life muna. Yun lang, I only started enjoying travel nung kasama na kids namin. Dati, nagtravel ako with family nung single ako and di ko ganon naenjoy, umiiwas pa ako maski libre lahat. Nung tumanda ako and nakikita ko face ng husband and kids saka ko naenjoy. Saka siguro with maturity mas enjoy na ako makinig sa mga convos/biz news or updates. PERO gets ko na after having kids why people who are in wealthier or progressive countries have no kids din. Dati kasi high maintenance seems to have a bad connotation but now it is actually synonymous to having standards. My friends who are more successful financially independently, never got married.
ReplyDeleteReal talk, kids eat up a lot of resources (time, effort, money, career, katawan mo, relationships mo and a lot of other stuff). Kahit anong sabihin nyong cute yan, pampa complete ng family, na realize mo pagka babae mo etc etc. And yes, family ko ultra high net worth and I have a kid but I don't know if I want another one. Wala akong yaya pero kahit may reasources for yaya, mom guilt naman umaatake. I'm just thankful husband ko hands on fin butvyrs nakaka strain din sya ng relationship. IVF baby namin and at this point I still cant trust anyone with my baby outside of my family. Conflict lang din sa career naming mag asawa coz we're coth professionals.
DeleteJusko, if tingin nyo sa anak eh pabigat lang, wag na kayo mag anak kasi kawawa lang ang bata at baka masisi pa sa kamalasan nyo sa buhay. Lol, you do you. Kung ayaw magkaanak then not. Ok lang nman pero nakakaloka lang na ang iba, pabigat ang tingin sa anak. Isipin nyo nlang, kung yan ang tingin ng parents nyo sa inyo. 😬
DeleteAko naman I couldn’t take care or myself properly nga, so why would I bring another person in this hellish world? I don’t want them to suffer like I did. Also one part is we were asked to watch an abortion video nung hs, and naging trauma ko na yata yun. Kaya ayoko ding madisgrasya.
ReplyDeleteAng ninipis ng mga tao ngayon.
ReplyDeleteJusko ang totoxic ng ibang Pilipino talaga. When you hear those from foreigners, you don’t even react. Pero kapag pinay ang nagsasabi, akala mo naman sila nagpapakain kay Dawn Chang. Totoo naman ang sinabi niya, there are people who feel that they are more free to focus on other things when they’re single. Kung di applicable sayo, better keep your mouth shut. Lol, these people need to get a life. 😂
ReplyDeleteI agree. I'm currently 32 and tbh I still think I haven't fully accomplished the things I want to do. Siguro kasi ambitious and career woman ako? Ang dami ko pang gustong gawin. Yes, selfish but that's the truth. And I'm happy with my life as it is. I feel like some women just don't have that strong "calling" to be a mom.
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