That’s her, don’t involve the kids. The kids deserve to meet and bond with their dad. And juice miyo move on ka na. You never know maging bridge ito sa isang magandang relationship, not as a couple but friends for their kids
Given yung domestic violence in the past, I would be scared for my daughters if I were her. Tho muka naman she waited for the girls to be old enough to let them be with their father on their own
I have mixed emotions with them meeting their dad. I'm a daddy's girl. So part of me says they definitely need to see their dad after all these years. I'm sure he misses them so much & vice versa. But part of me remembers the interviews Ruffa had before where she said she was mistreated by Yilmaz. It made me think of the movie "Not Without My Daughter ' starring Sally Field. That movie was traumatizing whereas an American woman & her child were held back against their will from going back to America. Nevertheless, hope they have a great reunion with their dad & his side of the family.
I have watched that movie when I was younger too.. It struck me so much emotionally at that time and never forgot the film eversince. It’s a captivating story. Go watch it , ladies and gents!
Parang nakakatakot but iba naman ata treatment ng ganyan sa asawa at sa anak? Sa likes of ylmaz? Or baka nagbago na talaga yung tatay i read an article years ago pa nagpaparamdam yung father kay ruffa na sana makita nya mga anak nya,
It seems ok naman ang relationship ni ruffa sa ibang members ng family ni Ylmas base on the comments on her IG post .kaya siguro kampante din si Ruffa sa reunion nila.
I'm a mom, and as much I would loved my child to form a bond to the other parent, pero kung basis natin yung ngyari sakanya before. Hinding hindi ko kayang ilapit yung mga anak ko ulit dun lalo na't mga babae ba yan. As I recall she said na may trauma pa din sya about that so for me as a mamabear alam mong ganun hindi talaga
Pinag isipan naman siguro ni Ruffa ng maigi yan. Siguro nga if you look into the surface, yun yung maiisip natin, bat papayagan ang bata after halos patayin na si Ruffa before... but we're not them, ano bang malay natin sa dynamics ngayon ng relationship nila? Kaya yung mga if i were her blah blah nyo, sorry, you're not her. Wag kayo paladesisyon mga teh!
Chismosa lang tayo na walang mga magawa dito parepareho teh, kaya nagcocomment tayo, hayaan mo na nga kami sa pagpoprojection namin kay ruffa di naman nya yan mababasa.
She’s being a mom to her kids. She waited for them to be old enough. Yung tipong kaya na nila magsalita for themselves. As it is e mukhang gusto naman ng mga bata na ma-meet yung tatay nila. Kasi kahit pa ok kay ruffa e kung ayaw naman ng mga bata e hindi mo sila mapipilit. So obviously gusto ng mga bata. May be curious sila. So as a mom, I think tama naman si ruffa. Yilmaz may not have been good to ruffa but she never said that Yilmaz was bad to the kids as well. And even if he was also bad to the kids then, madaming panahon na ang lumipas, and if despite that the kids still want to meet their dad, then maybe they have forgiven him. But then again, wala naman nga nasabi si ruffa na minaltrato ang mga kids. So kumbaga ang issue is between ruffa and yilmaz at hindi dpat idamay yung relasyon nung mag aama.
same. Kasi May mga kultura na possession ang babae pati anak kahit may edad na. May mga Bansa din na Hindi makakaalis ng bansa ang asawa o anak na babae hanggat walang permit from the husband/father
If I were her I would never ever let my kids meet the man who almost got me killed.
ReplyDeleteBut she is not you. Don’t judge.
DeleteShe is not you.
DeleteWell it's not about her but the well being of her kids. Nagpapaka nanay lang siya.
DeleteFortunately, she’s not you. She’s not selfish. Her children are not her. They deserve to have a chance at a relationship with their father
DeleteIn Anabel’s tone:
DeleteAnon 7:38 dai mas marunong ka pa ke ropa dai? ipahanap kita k yilmaz dai nang matauhan ka dai.
Hahaha! Pasok sa banga dai!
Delete10:23 HAHAHA binasa ko tlga sa boses ni Anabel
DeleteThat’s her, don’t involve the kids. The kids deserve to meet and bond with their dad. And juice miyo move on ka na. You never know maging bridge ito sa isang magandang relationship, not as a couple but friends for their kids
Delete1:42 best answer
DeleteGiven yung domestic violence in the past, I would be scared for my daughters if I were her. Tho muka naman she waited for the girls to be old enough to let them be with their father on their own
ReplyDeletematagal na taon din ang hinintay...i think all is well naman na
DeleteShe move on pati si tita anabel. Life is short enjoy lng baks
DeleteMabuti yan para makita na nila yung father nila. I'm sure they missed each other.
ReplyDeleteI have mixed emotions with them meeting their dad. I'm a daddy's girl. So part of me says they definitely need to see their dad after all these years. I'm sure he misses them so much & vice versa. But part of me remembers the interviews
ReplyDeleteRuffa had before where she said she was mistreated by Yilmaz. It made me think of the movie "Not Without My Daughter ' starring Sally Field. That movie was traumatizing whereas an American woman & her child were held back against their will from going back to America. Nevertheless, hope they have a great reunion with their dad & his side of the family.
It made me download that movie u mentioned baks, mukhang maganda
DeleteI have watched that movie when I was younger too.. It struck me so much emotionally at that time and never forgot the film eversince. It’s a captivating story. Go watch it , ladies and gents!
DeleteParang nakakatakot but iba naman ata treatment ng ganyan sa asawa at sa anak? Sa likes of ylmaz?
ReplyDeleteOr baka nagbago na talaga yung tatay i read an article years ago pa nagpaparamdam yung father kay ruffa na sana makita nya mga anak nya,
It seems ok naman ang relationship ni ruffa sa ibang members ng family ni Ylmas base on the comments on her IG post .kaya siguro kampante din si Ruffa sa reunion nila.
ReplyDeleteI'm a mom, and as much I would loved my child to form a bond to the other parent, pero kung basis natin yung ngyari sakanya before. Hinding hindi ko kayang ilapit yung mga anak ko ulit dun lalo na't mga babae ba yan. As I recall she said na may trauma pa din sya about that so for me as a mamabear alam mong ganun hindi talaga
ReplyDeletethat was long time ago, and tumatanda na si Yilmaz.. matagal nya gusto makita anak nya
DeletePinag isipan naman siguro ni Ruffa ng maigi yan. Siguro nga if you look into the surface, yun yung maiisip natin, bat papayagan ang bata after halos patayin na si Ruffa before... but we're not them, ano bang malay natin sa dynamics ngayon ng relationship nila? Kaya yung mga if i were her blah blah nyo, sorry, you're not her. Wag kayo paladesisyon mga teh!
ReplyDeleteChismosa lang tayo na walang mga magawa dito parepareho teh, kaya nagcocomment tayo, hayaan mo na nga kami sa pagpoprojection namin kay ruffa di naman nya yan mababasa.
DeleteBakit nasa chismisan site ka teh kung bawal pala magcomment?
DeleteAno kaya say ni Tita Anabel? May mga bilin kaya sya sa dalwang bata na to
ReplyDeleteShe’s being a mom to her kids. She waited for them to be old enough. Yung tipong kaya na nila magsalita for themselves. As it is e mukhang gusto naman ng mga bata na ma-meet yung tatay nila. Kasi kahit pa ok kay ruffa e kung ayaw naman ng mga bata e hindi mo sila mapipilit. So obviously gusto ng mga bata. May be curious sila. So as a mom, I think tama naman si ruffa. Yilmaz may not have been good to ruffa but she never said that Yilmaz was bad to the kids as well. And even if he was also bad to the kids then, madaming panahon na ang lumipas, and if despite that the kids still want to meet their dad, then maybe they have forgiven him. But then again, wala naman nga nasabi si ruffa na minaltrato ang mga kids. So kumbaga ang issue is between ruffa and yilmaz at hindi dpat idamay yung relasyon nung mag aama.
ReplyDeleteI don’t fear na sasaktan ni ex-hubby nya yung mga bata. I fear na baka hindi na ibalik.
ReplyDeletesame. Kasi May mga kultura na possession ang babae pati anak kahit may edad na. May mga Bansa din na Hindi makakaalis ng bansa ang asawa o anak na babae hanggat walang permit from the husband/father
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