She never thought of that baks. Poor her. Kung walang makausap at sobrang nalulungkot na, magbasa ng bible o makinig ng mga praise songs. Nakakarelax sya promise.
Agree, 1036. By doing this, she opens herself up to criticism from all fronts, especially from people who do not know her. Then mauulit ang cycle ng depression niya na yan. Mahirap talaga kapag nilalagay sa socmed ang mga ganyang bagay. Sana naman meron rin siyang family support.
11:41 ang mahirap kasi hindi lahat ng tao na makakakita nito positive or "let her"ang sasabihin. Malamang marami ding bashers. You post something on socmed you invite criticism and negativity. Ganoon talaga, hindi mo control ang mga taong makakakita. Iba-iba ang tao ng pag-iisip. Mas maganda huwag na lang ipost mga ganyan unless KSP lang.
No matter she does to cope, let her be as long as she doesnt hurt herself or anyone because of too much depression. Pray that you dont ever reach that point.
Dont judge na guys na kesyo bat vinedeo-han pa. We don’t know what they’re going through. Let’s just be kind. Muka naman valid yung nararamdaman nya (not papansin like other personalities) based sa mga post nya. Muka talagang may pinagdadaanan sya
The thing is, she have time to compile and edit her sadnesses, that thing takes time to conceptualise, edit and post. If this has been going on for awhile consulting a doctor will help her a lot. Hormonal imbalance and other factors contributes to this kind of behavior.
10:41 di niya kasalanan kahirapan mo day at ng buong mundo. Naalibadbaran man ako sa mga nagvivideo habang umaatungal at naglulupasay lalo na un mga youtuber na clout chaser pero di ko naman sinasabi na wala siyang problema talaga
12:51 bakit inassume mo agad na mahirap siya? Hindi lahat ng non showbiz people ay kahirapan ang problema. Tbh, I gaslight myself pero not other people. Nung heartbroken ako para maka move on, iniisip ko na lang na may nga taong mas malaki ang problema sa akin. "Nakakatulong" rin ang family members ko na puro gaslighters kaya ganun na rin ginagawa ko sa sarili ko. 💔 Pero I don't gaslight other people.
@ 11:40 If she (Maxene) chose to put that kind of energy out there, she def won’t expect mere sympathies coming her way. That’s reality. It’s not even invalidating her feelings, it’s all about how she acknowledges what matters most to most people these days. And nope, it’s not about being/serving as inspiration as how most will claim it but it’s evident that being empathetic to her will help her ease the situation she’s in. So, who’s gonna tell her to those who doesn’t have the easy avenue like hers? Who’s rolling w the punches day in & day out? Normalize one’s perspective on one’s situation. Cruel (maybe?) but that’s how one could get it real.
Hindi ko din gets pero who am i to judge kung yan ang coping mechanism nya. Cguro la sya makausap. Or she's raising awareness sa mental health problems..
Count me in lol. I do not understand kasi if I'll do that parang ma distract ako sa pagtingin pa sa self ko sa video instead na mag iiyak ako lol. Then I'm imagining na pag ipopost na yung vid, done na sya crying? Hahaha just kinda weird for me
Correct like, iiyak tapos pagkapunas ng luha panoorin nya uli ung video eedit nya then magcaption then post. The process of posting is already produced and seem insincere. Iba ang dating if she was on live then she started crying. This just seems super papansin
11:21 so true 💯%, because compiling and editing that takes time so while doing it Hindi Nita may process what she’s doing might be taken differently by others and considered papansin? ITS A CALCULATED MOVE
bakit may mga tao kumukuha ng simpatya sa strangers. eh kadalasan nmn ang mangyayari lang dyan pag chchismisan ka lang kng bakit ka umiiyak. pag gusto kausap. kumausap ng kapatid,magulang,tunay kaibigan. kng wala ka malapitan talaga mag consult kana ng psychology. posting like this will not help your problem and sadness.
Moment of weakness kaya naipost. Come to think of it, nagawa ko na yan dati. Not to gain sympathy pero tinopak/nabaliw ako ng slight kaya ko naipost. Sadyang may mga tao talaga na pala-post at hindi iniisip ang consequence neto.
Pero dinelete ko rin ang photo ko dahil inisip ko, "oo nga noh. Ano na lang sasabihin ng ibang tao?" Gumawa na lang ako ng sarili kong GC at inadd ko ang mga close friends ko dun sa GC para wala ng judgment sa mga hindi ko close.
Iniisip kasi ng iba, seeking attention/validation kaya mas mainam may group chat ako na mga close friends lang nakakaalam ng mga problema ko. So ako na ang nag adjust lol. Nakakahiya naman sa mga nakikiosyoso.
Agree ako sa u dyan. When you’re crying you wont think about anythingelse except the pain you’re going thru. You wont stop and say oh wait i have to record myself while crying so i can post it on socmed.. what for?!? For peoples sympathy?? So people will know she has depression?? Hindi lang sya ang May depression marami & yet they dont go to socmed and post it coz most often than not those with mental issue they want to project that they’re ok & happy, they dont go around and saying “i have depression” coz it’s a sensitive topic and kalimitan they dont want pity fr other people
Napaka insensitive ng mga tao these days. Let her be. If it is her way to cope why not? Nakikibalita at nakikinood na nga lang kayo eh. If youre annoyed by it then just skip it rather than saying unkind words. Libre lang ang maging mabait. Walang bayad.
agree. may pinagdadaanan ung tao lets just pray for her peace of mind. maybe kaya nya pinost eto para makrating din sa mga may pinagdadaanan din. na hindi sila nag iisa.
Ramdam ko ‘yung pain nya, so I would avoid questioning or bashing pa why she needs to take videos of herself crying and posting them. Hindi ba kayo naka-experience na madown to the point na mas gusto mong mas maraming makaalam what you’re going thru? Perhaps sa mga nakausap na nya, hindi pa nya nakukuha ‘yung words or love na makakapag-lift up ng spirits nya?
Tried videoing myself crying, thinking that once my overseas bf saw it, he’d come running to me. Deleted w/o sending kasi ako nahiya sa sarili ko when I watched it. Super cringey and hindi ako nakakaawa. Hahahaha. Actually natawa ako and got over the guy, so I guess that’s one way to use crying videos—for private comedy between you and yourself and nobody else.
effort sa pagkuha ng video sa sarili habang umiiyak multiple times, effort din sa pagedit at pagstitch nung mga videos. Curious lang ako kung nasa vulnerable moment din ba kaya sya habang ineedit nya yung mga videos na yun.
Though i would never film myself let alone post it online, i would also never invalidate her feelings, whatever it is she is going through, i wish her well and hope things get better soon. It is really hard to cope with problems especially nowadays
Expect people to understand? Sino ba kilala niyo na umiiyak tapos ipopost sa FB accounts nila? Moreso sa case niya thousand followers niya. She needs help from a professional and her loved ones to keep her problems within the people who knows her only. Hindi lahat ng bagay dapat ipakita. Totoo naman siguro na malaki pinagdadaanan niya pero wag na niya ipost for her thousand followers see.
Salamat meron ganitong mga tao. Hinid nila niinyinidhan how it is to go about depression. Tapos pag nag S saka na magsasabi ‘you could have called or reach out to me’, tapos na ang buhay. Intindihin na lang kung ano gusto ng tao paano ma release ang baggages niya. Keep your opinions to yourself. Napaka sensitive ng mga dumadaan sa depression
We need more people like 12:42. Suffering is a human condition, and it’s nice when people also recognise that life can be hard. But being positive and getting the right support goes a long way. Let’s support this kind of behaviour of encouraging others rather than putting people down.
Depression is real but, no need to show it to the world. Go see a specialist. Just saying. Or, get busy. There are many ways to beat the depression or sadness. People that are commenting here like me will not be able to help you. It's all you, Maxene.
Mental Health is one of major issues globally. We shouldn't judge anyone as not all of us are strong enough to get through the storms we’re going through. Not all of us have ppl who can be there for us. Celebrity or not, we should never just anyone particularly when its clear that they are going through mental health issues. Mental Heal is real
People, please be kind. Please po. Naalala ko sa kanya yung best friend ko nung college, laging dini-dismissed ng mga tao sa paligid nya yung feelings nya at pagpo post sa facebook as nag iinarte, hanggang sa dumating na sa sukdulan at di na nya kinaya. Isa sa pinagsisisihan ko sa buhay ko ang wala akong ginawa para mapabuti ang pakiramdam nya at imbes ay inisip ko noon na kulang lang sya sa pansin.
tinatry ko itong videohan sarili while crying. bumobuylo na sana ako sa pag iyak bigla akong natawa hahaha kailan ko pang mag take 2. di ko na mai post sa IG haha what an experience!!!
Sa dami ng help na nakuha nya for mental health nya like yoga and meditation or whatever, need pa din mavalidate ba ng ibang tao yang depression nya? I mean cmon! Di need share mga ganyan.
Let her be. Pasalamat ka wala ka sa situation nya. I have a friend who gets all the help sa mental health problems nya but still very depressed and tried to take her life a couple of times. It comes and goes daw but most days she feels dead or feels nothing at all.
Di mo alam ano pinagdadaanan ko noh! Di lang si Maxene may mental health problem sa Pinas. Pero mas inaadvice to stay away sa toxicity ng social media. Tingin mo makakatulong nega comments sakanya? Common sense naman kasi
this is real. please understand that there are people going thru depression. no need to say anything. just be there for them. mahirap talaga kalaban ang mind. it is an illness.
Sa totoo lang, kung talagang depressed ka di mo maiisip na mag video video pa and post sa social media. That is the farthest thing from your mind. Ang dating nito parang gumagawa lang ng ingay para makuha ang spotlight. Alam kong iba iba tayong way to cope pero iba rin naman yung galawan na ganito.
Mental health is REAL but ask a Specialist, go to your trusted friends and family but not on social media. Lalo ka lang masasaktan kasi not everyone will understand some may even say things that you will not like.,
Do not wash your mental health in public definitely not for views. Padlock those phones! Public validation is not the cure to mental health it will only toxify the situation.
This is why we need to stay off social media when we are going through a rough time. She is being judged by strangers which makes it worse for her. She needs good people around her to gently remind her and protect her from seeking validations from strangers. Sometimes life just gets tough and we have breakdowns. It’s ok, but you still need to be smart and trust the right people. Don’t seek validation with strangers on toxic social media.
This is both truthful yet not judgmental. This is how you speak in love, concern, and care; by not sugar-coating the truth yet understanding where someone is coming from.
it takes a lot of bravery to do this. the comments above ang patunay kung bakit takot humingi ng tulong or ibahagi kwento ng karamihan that are suffering with mental health.
kesyo bat pa vinivideo-han, iprivate nalang daw. mapasa kaya sainyo mga pinagdadaanan nya, tingnan lang natin kung pano kayo mag rereact. karamihan talaga ng nandito mga titang marites na nakadaster at nag aabang kung sino buntis sa lugar nila eh.
Eh true naman mga sinasabi ng mga tita mo. Dami nya na ginagawa for mental health. I dont think nagkulang sya sa tulong or support. Tumira pa sya sa Bali for Yoga ata. Yung social media ang napakatoxic tapos doon mo pa idadaan? Alam mong madami hanash tao online. Also everyone is already aware about her situation. Dami nya na po post.
I have MDD but how am I reacting? Hindi ko pinopost for everyone to pity me. I'm not saying na Maxene should stay quiet too, if this is her way of coping. Reality check lang na since she's a public figure, there will be people out there who can cause more harm than help once they see her video.
Hopefully she get professional help asap. But this can trigger people too who is suffering from depression. So, this video is very worrisome for her and people watching this that going thru the same conditions.
True. I am also struggling from a mental health disorder and watching her IG post made me feel very heavy. I scanned through her IG posts and it is not the first time, she also had a previous post with a photo of her crying. She not someone I want to sorround myself with or even follow online. She needs a professional :(
I think matagal na talagang may pinagdadaanan to si Maxene and before she was vocal about it na may tantrums sya like anger issues i guess. She tried going to Bali and try to medicate herself throigh yoga and meditation but i dont think umeffect. Try to seek God, Max.
I think we have our own ways of coping with sadness or kung anu mang emosyon... Siguro this is her way. I don't think it's for views lang.. Hayaan na natin sya and just pray for everyone who is getting through something na mas maging strong sila We dont need to emphatize or sympathize kay maxene.hayaan nalang at wag na tayo makibash
Oftentimes, the only person who can help yourself is your own self. Try it. Talk to yourself. Don't talk to anyone else and don't post anything on social media. It will give you clarity nobody else can give you.
Half of her problems will be resolved if she gets off social media. Hinging her identity and worth on likes and views.. will just leave her more depressed and anxious.. not to mention this is a very narcissistic behavior.
Hindi ko Alam yung pinag dadaanan ni Maxene or kung ano ba intention nya sa pag post nyan. Pero ang sa’kin, let’s be kind. Mukhang need talaga nya ng tulong.
Hinde ako artista and i have my own struggles and pain too up to this day pero yung filming myself crying ang dami makakakita Or makakanood parang hinde ko kaya tatabi na lang ako sa isang sulok that only Me Can hear my cry. Maybe this is her only way ti vent out? Iba iba kasi pag cope up ng tao. So i dont know sa iba? Not unless Maxene is naghahanap ng kausap that is her husband.
Yes! Mas ok sa may mental health problem ang shinashare at nagopen up, kaya nagsuicide yun iba hindi kasi sila open. We need understanding sa may mental health problem.
By sharing this, it might have a negative effect on other depressed people. Like they will see that sa lagay na yan, si maxene na yan yet nahihirapan mag cope, paano pa akong simpleng mamamayan.. OR buti pa si maxene ang daming nakikiramay, sa akin wala.. you know what I mean? Minsan oversharing is also very selfish.
Pag nagpakita ng problema nilalait, pag may ginawang masama sa sarili na masama sasabihin bakit di nagsabi. Saan lulugar mga besh? Minsan mas okay pa mag seek ng attention and help from strangers kesa friends and family.
This!! First reaction ko is kelangan talaga magvideo? Naisip pa nya yan ha? Pero nung pinanood ko na mismo yung video, i felt the pain. I also had episodes and lucky I am that I can handle it alone, that I easily got back on track pero I know at some point pwede ko din di kayanin.
Dapat wag muna sya mag open ng social media after she posted this. Baka lalo sya ma depress pag nakita nya iba ibang opinion ng mga tao about her. Better to talk to family, trusted friends or seek a specialist. Praying for you Maxene and to all those who are fighting own battles silently.
hindi siya umaarte. please don't ever think of it that way. i have talked to one who is going thru the same thing and even she says she doesn't know why she acts the way she does, she can't control her thoughts no matter how hard she tries to. 'yung iba hindi nila kinakaya hence the suicidal thoughts. be kind to people, everyone. be thankful you are not in their shoes. it is a struggle that even those around them will find exhausting.
1:13 Ofcourse! Hindi naman talaga ma control minsan ang thoughts, pero ang pag video sa sarili, di rin ba ma control yon? Did she share the videos to raise awareness or for some other purpose?
615 of course ka din! if that is her way of coping, just let her be. you can always ignore others and mind your own business. if ayaw mo mapanood, wag mo panoorin. bakit mo naman panonoorin ang video if you can control yourself from watching one?
Sana maging busy na siya para wala na siyang time mag ganyan. Nag emo moments ako noon nung wala akong work. Kung ano ano naiisip. Ngayon naman na may work at super busy ni maisip na mag emote wala na at naging fast paced masyado buhay ko.
Napanood ko na yung clip. Those tears hinde siya arte. Tears of pain siya. I know kasi ganun din ako pag umiiyak pag in pain. Hinde siya acting crying.
Bakit ang mental health problem ba ay ipinangangalandakan sa buong mundo.? Eksperto ang kailangan hindi mga Marites. Yan ang kung may mental health issue nga
Naaawa nga ako sa kanya. If ever totoo man, hiwalay sya sa husband nya. Or if hindi man, pinili ng asawa nya to be by himself. Pero buti na lang close sila ng family nung guy. Parang naamin na nya before na she has mental health challenges and for you to feel alone, talagang nakakadagdag yan sa stress. Kahit na ba sabihin na nagtetherapy. If you have depression or anxiety, you need a lifelong maintenance and support from family and friends. This is the first time na hindi ako nainis sa ganyang post kasi somehow I understand her kasi paano if wala na sya matakbuhan to support or help her.
I have generalized anxiety disorder and I never thought of filming my panic attacks and posting them on socmed for what, validation? sympathy? pero acct nya yan, so let her be na lang.
When I am down, I always thought of Charles Darwin's famous quote and theory..
"It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change." and "The survival of the fittest".
Maxene should stay away from social media and start to reconnect with the people around her. Most specially her family. Healing depends on your choices.
I'm feeling down sobrang sakit...but wait, lemme get my phone or whatever muna to record my sadness. Recording na ba? OK! Pwede nang mag emote...go! Ay teka...mali napindot ko. Stop muna ang pag emote. OK, pindot ng correct button. Pwede na ulit! Go!
Is this really how we cope nowadays? Sorry I’m not bashing. Pero I will never ever thought of filming myself if ever I’m crying
ReplyDeleteShe never thought of that baks. Poor her. Kung walang makausap at sobrang nalulungkot na, magbasa ng bible o makinig ng mga praise songs. Nakakarelax sya promise.
DeleteThats you. She's differrent. Basic
DeleteGuess it's how SHE does.
DeleteAgree, 1036. By doing this, she opens herself up to criticism from all fronts, especially from people who do not know her. Then mauulit ang cycle ng depression niya na yan. Mahirap talaga kapag nilalagay sa socmed ang mga ganyang bagay. Sana naman meron rin siyang family support.
DeleteYou are blessed you haven’t reached that point. Pray for her instead.
Deleteok. that’s you. as for me, whenever i cry, i face the mirror. weird? perhaps… but, that’s me.
DeleteWe all have our own way of dealing with our emotions. If this is her way of coping then let her.
DeleteCguro instead na mag socmed, magpatingin sa doctor. Kasi hindi maiiwasan ma bash tapos lalong mas mahihirapan.
Delete11:41 ang mahirap kasi hindi lahat ng tao na makakakita nito positive or "let her"ang sasabihin. Malamang marami ding bashers. You post something on socmed you invite criticism and negativity. Ganoon talaga, hindi mo control ang mga taong makakakita. Iba-iba ang tao ng pag-iisip. Mas maganda huwag na lang ipost mga ganyan unless KSP lang.
DeleteNo matter she does to cope, let her be as long as she doesnt hurt herself or anyone because of too much depression. Pray that you dont ever reach that point.
DeleteAww where’s his husband to comfort her?
ReplyDeleteHis husband talaga?
DeleteYour husband can't comfort you all the time. That's a fact.
DeleteKailan pa naging lalaki si Maxene?
DeleteWala na yata sila?
DeleteDont judge na guys na kesyo bat vinedeo-han pa. We don’t know what they’re going through. Let’s just be kind. Muka naman valid yung nararamdaman nya (not papansin like other personalities) based sa mga post nya. Muka talagang may pinagdadaanan sya
ReplyDeletekung ayaw mapansin at ayaw majudge, wag KSP!
DeleteThis! Sana dumami pa ang mga tao na katulad mo mag isip. 🙏
DeleteThe thing is, she have time to compile and edit her sadnesses, that thing takes time to conceptualise, edit and post. If this has been going on for awhile consulting a doctor will help her a lot. Hormonal imbalance and other factors contributes to this kind of behavior.
DeleteMaxene nakakahiya naman sa ibang mga tao who have real problems in the world.
ReplyDeleteDon’t invalidate her feelings. Kaya ang daming nadedepress hays
Delete10:41 di niya kasalanan kahirapan mo day at ng buong mundo. Naalibadbaran man ako sa mga nagvivideo habang umaatungal at naglulupasay lalo na un mga youtuber na clout chaser pero di ko naman sinasabi na wala siyang problema talaga
DeleteMental Health is a REAL problem around the world. #mentalhealthawareness
Delete1041 gas lighter ka lola!!!!
DeleteWow! Pinaka ignoranteng comment ito haha mas nakakahiya yang pagiisip. Wag na wag mong mababanggit yan in person ha kahit mga friends mo mappaisip lol
DeleteSana walang mkaranas nyan sa family mo - dun mo lang maiintindihan what she's going through.
Delete1:15 AM, That term doesnt apply on her comment. Makagamit ka lang eh nuh?
DeletePlease be kind. For everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.
Delete12:51 bakit inassume mo agad na mahirap siya? Hindi lahat ng non showbiz people ay kahirapan ang problema. Tbh, I gaslight myself pero not other people. Nung heartbroken ako para maka move on, iniisip ko na lang na may nga taong mas malaki ang problema sa akin. "Nakakatulong" rin ang family members ko na puro gaslighters kaya ganun na rin ginagawa ko sa sarili ko. 💔 Pero I don't gaslight other people.
Delete-not 10:41.
@ 11:40 If she (Maxene) chose to put that kind of energy out there, she def won’t expect mere sympathies coming her way. That’s reality. It’s not even invalidating her feelings, it’s all about how she acknowledges what matters most to most people these days. And nope, it’s not about being/serving as inspiration as how most will claim it but it’s evident that being empathetic to her will help her ease the situation she’s in. So, who’s gonna tell her to those who doesn’t have the easy avenue like hers? Who’s rolling w the punches day in & day out? Normalize one’s perspective on one’s situation. Cruel (maybe?) but that’s how one could get it real.
DeleteHindi ko magets yung mga nagvivideo ng sarili habang umiiyak tapos ipopost sa soc med. Like, what's the point?
ReplyDeleteHindi ko din gets pero who am i to judge kung yan ang coping mechanism nya. Cguro la sya makausap. Or she's raising awareness sa mental health problems..
DeleteFor sympathy or perhaps for awareness eme? I also don't like it. It should be private
DeleteCount me in lol. I do not understand kasi if I'll do that parang ma distract ako sa pagtingin pa sa self ko sa video instead na mag iiyak ako lol. Then I'm imagining na pag ipopost na yung vid, done na sya crying? Hahaha just kinda weird for me
DeleteCorrect like, iiyak tapos pagkapunas ng luha panoorin nya uli ung video eedit nya then magcaption then post. The process of posting is already produced and seem insincere. Iba ang dating if she was on live then she started crying. This just seems super papansin
Delete11:21 so true 💯%, because compiling and editing that takes time so while doing it Hindi Nita may process what she’s doing might be taken differently by others and considered papansin? ITS A CALCULATED MOVE
Deleteawww... I can feel her pain.
ReplyDeleteGirl just stick to hello kitty if yun ikahahappy mo. Kaloka ka
ReplyDeleteAng CRINGE !
ReplyDeleteVery!
Deleteand she’s doing this because of what? Spotlight? Validation?
ReplyDeleteKsp
ReplyDeletebakit may mga tao kumukuha ng simpatya sa strangers. eh kadalasan nmn ang mangyayari lang dyan pag chchismisan ka lang kng bakit ka umiiyak. pag gusto kausap. kumausap ng kapatid,magulang,tunay kaibigan. kng wala ka malapitan talaga mag consult kana ng psychology. posting like this will not help your problem and sadness.
ReplyDeleteAgree 💯💯💯
DeleteAgree.
DeleteMoment of weakness kaya naipost. Come to think of it, nagawa ko na yan dati. Not to gain sympathy pero tinopak/nabaliw ako ng slight kaya ko naipost. Sadyang may mga tao talaga na pala-post at hindi iniisip ang consequence neto.
DeletePero dinelete ko rin ang photo ko dahil inisip ko, "oo nga noh. Ano na lang sasabihin ng ibang tao?" Gumawa na lang ako ng sarili kong GC at inadd ko ang mga close friends ko dun sa GC para wala ng judgment sa mga hindi ko close.
Iniisip kasi ng iba, seeking attention/validation kaya mas mainam may group chat ako na mga close friends lang nakakaalam ng mga problema ko. So ako na ang nag adjust lol. Nakakahiya naman sa mga nakikiosyoso.
-not Maxene lol
crying is a deep emotion for me but filming yourself while crying seem like making the crying less valid for me.
ReplyDeleteAgree ako sa u dyan. When you’re crying you wont think about anythingelse except the pain you’re going thru. You wont stop and say oh wait i have to record myself while crying so i can post it on socmed.. what for?!? For peoples sympathy?? So people will know she has depression?? Hindi lang sya ang May depression marami & yet they dont go to socmed and post it coz most often than not those with mental issue they want to project that they’re ok & happy, they dont go around and saying “i have depression” coz it’s a sensitive topic and kalimitan they dont want pity fr other people
DeleteAno pong essence ng mga ganitong post po? Di ko magets.
ReplyDeleteI saw this first on Paulina Porizkova’s IG. crying lady moments. i applaud their bravery but on the other hand… bakit???
ReplyDeleteNagbreak na yung magjowa, wag kana ksp jan
ReplyDeletemay time siyang mag video sa sarili niya habang umiiyak? cringe
ReplyDeleteNapaka insensitive ng mga tao these days. Let her be. If it is her way to cope why not? Nakikibalita at nakikinood na nga lang kayo eh. If youre annoyed by it then just skip it rather than saying unkind words. Libre lang ang maging mabait. Walang bayad.
ReplyDeleteagree. may pinagdadaanan ung tao lets just pray for her peace of mind. maybe kaya nya pinost eto para makrating din sa mga may pinagdadaanan din. na hindi sila nag iisa.
Delete11:44 well yan ang downside ng pagpopost sa socmed. libre din ang mag-isip
DeleteGanyan naman karamihan dyan sa PInas. Hindi sila aware sa mga ganyan kaya nang ba-bash pa. They need to be educated.
DeleteI think she needs a job and this is sort of like an online audition
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 kaloka ka tawang tawa ako
DeleteKanya kanya naman tayo on what make us happy, how we grieve pero this is too much. No need to post a video of yourself crying.
ReplyDeleteThis is narcissism on a different level….
ReplyDeleteABSOLUTELY YES
DeleteI agree. I mean, I've gotten used to some people posting crying videos PERO COMPILATION YUNG SA KANYA. Grabe nakuha pang i-edit sunod-sunod.
DeleteI wonder kung ano yung criteria niya for choosing the crying videos lol…
DeleteRamdam ko ‘yung pain nya, so I would avoid questioning or bashing pa why she needs to take videos of herself crying and posting them. Hindi ba kayo naka-experience na madown to the point na mas gusto mong mas maraming makaalam what you’re going thru? Perhaps sa mga nakausap na nya, hindi pa nya nakukuha ‘yung words or love na makakapag-lift up ng spirits nya?
ReplyDeleteTried videoing myself crying, thinking that once my overseas bf saw it, he’d come running to me. Deleted w/o sending kasi ako nahiya sa sarili ko when I watched it. Super cringey and hindi ako nakakaawa. Hahahaha. Actually natawa ako and got over the guy, so I guess that’s one way to use crying videos—for private comedy between you and yourself and nobody else.
Deletenaexperience na namin 11:48 pero mas ok na di ivideo ang sarili habang umiiyak. promise. di makakatulong yan
Delete1:15 haha good for you!
Delete1:15 love this! glad you're good now hehe
Delete1:15 good for you, artista naman daw sila so crying while infront of a camera is a normal thing tayo di sanay kaya poiseless at cringey.
Deleteeffort sa pagkuha ng video sa sarili habang umiiyak multiple times, effort din sa pagedit at pagstitch nung mga videos. Curious lang ako kung nasa vulnerable moment din ba kaya sya habang ineedit nya yung mga videos na yun.
ReplyDelete💯💯💯
DeleteI totally agree with you. Most depressed people are not even aware they are depressed.
DeleteMay god bless you Maxene.. May you surpass what you're going through...
ReplyDeleteJuicekoday!
ReplyDeleteThough i would never film myself let alone post it online, i would also never invalidate her feelings, whatever it is she is going through, i wish her well and hope things get better soon. It is really hard to cope with problems especially nowadays
ReplyDeleteExpect people to understand? Sino ba kilala niyo na umiiyak tapos ipopost sa FB accounts nila? Moreso sa case niya thousand followers niya. She needs help from a professional and her loved ones to keep her problems within the people who knows her only. Hindi lahat ng bagay dapat ipakita. Totoo naman siguro na malaki pinagdadaanan niya pero wag na niya ipost for her thousand followers see.
ReplyDeleteCry privately so people won't take advantage of your weakness.
ReplyDeleteCry all you want, video it no problem for me. If it relieves you from pain, I understand.
ReplyDeletePlease call the hotline if you need somebody to talk to. Your feeling is valid
I, too, am passing your stage. We are in this together. Prayers!
Salamat meron ganitong mga tao. Hinid nila niinyinidhan how it is to go about depression. Tapos pag nag S saka na magsasabi ‘you could have called or reach out to me’, tapos na ang buhay. Intindihin na lang kung ano gusto ng tao paano ma release ang baggages niya. Keep your opinions to yourself. Napaka sensitive ng mga dumadaan sa depression
DeleteKasi may mga taong feeling nila bumabait sila pag nakikisimpatya at nagpopost ng "____ (insert name of person)."
DeleteWe need more people like 12:42. Suffering is a human condition, and it’s nice when people also recognise that life can be hard. But being positive and getting the right support goes a long way. Let’s support this kind of behaviour of encouraging others rather than putting people down.
DeleteDepression is real but, no need to show it to the world. Go see a specialist. Just saying. Or, get busy. There are many ways to beat the depression or sadness. People that are commenting here like me will not be able to help you. It's all you, Maxene.
ReplyDeleteMental Health is one of major issues globally. We shouldn't judge anyone as not all of us are strong enough to get through the storms we’re going through. Not all of us have ppl who can be there for us. Celebrity or not, we should never just anyone particularly when its clear that they are going through mental health issues. Mental Heal is real
ReplyDeleteNung di pa uso cellphone camera/selfie pano naka survive mga tao?
DeleteEven mental health experts advise people to stay off social media when going through a rough time.
Delete2:05 mental health issues weren't properly talked about back then, but I think mas nasosobrahan dahil may soc med na.
DeletePeople, please be kind. Please po. Naalala ko sa kanya yung best friend ko nung college, laging dini-dismissed ng mga tao sa paligid nya yung feelings nya at pagpo post sa facebook as nag iinarte, hanggang sa dumating na sa sukdulan at di na nya kinaya. Isa sa pinagsisisihan ko sa buhay ko ang wala akong ginawa para mapabuti ang pakiramdam nya at imbes ay inisip ko noon na kulang lang sya sa pansin.
ReplyDeletetinatry ko itong videohan sarili while crying. bumobuylo na sana ako sa pag iyak bigla akong natawa hahaha kailan ko pang mag take 2. di ko na mai post sa IG haha what an experience!!!
ReplyDeleteSa dami ng help na nakuha nya for mental health nya like yoga and meditation or whatever, need pa din mavalidate ba ng ibang tao yang depression nya? I mean cmon! Di need share mga ganyan.
ReplyDeleteLet her be. Pasalamat ka wala ka sa situation nya. I have a friend who gets all the help sa mental health problems nya but still very depressed and tried to take her life a couple of times. It comes and goes daw but most days she feels dead or feels nothing at all.
DeleteDi mo alam ano pinagdadaanan ko noh! Di lang si Maxene may mental health problem sa Pinas. Pero mas inaadvice to stay away sa toxicity ng social media. Tingin mo makakatulong nega comments sakanya? Common sense naman kasi
Deletethis is real. please understand that there are people going thru depression. no need to say anything. just be there for them. mahirap talaga kalaban ang mind. it is an illness.
ReplyDeleteSa totoo lang, kung talagang depressed ka di mo maiisip na mag video video pa and post sa social media. That is the farthest thing from your mind. Ang dating nito parang gumagawa lang ng ingay para makuha ang spotlight. Alam kong iba iba tayong way to cope pero iba rin naman yung galawan na ganito.
ReplyDeleteMental health is REAL but ask a Specialist, go to your trusted friends and family but not on social media. Lalo ka lang masasaktan kasi not everyone will understand some may even say things that you will not like.,
ReplyDeleteCRINGE!!!!!
ReplyDeleteDi ko talaga magets yung nagseselfie ng umiiyak. Call me mean pero walang reason para ipost mga ganyan.
ReplyDeleteMean
DeleteGinawa ng Dear Diary ang social media platforms ng mga tao. Tsk
ReplyDeleteYears from now she will laugh this off.
ReplyDeleteAs she should when she has moved on.
DeleteDo not wash your mental health in public definitely not for views. Padlock those phones! Public validation is not the cure to mental health it will only toxify the situation.
ReplyDeleteThis is why we need to stay off social media when we are going through a rough time. She is being judged by strangers which makes it worse for her. She needs good people around her to gently remind her and protect her from seeking validations from strangers. Sometimes life just gets tough and we have breakdowns. It’s ok, but you still need to be smart and trust the right people. Don’t seek validation with strangers on toxic social media.
ReplyDeleteThis is both truthful yet not judgmental. This is how you speak in love, concern, and care; by not sugar-coating the truth yet understanding where someone is coming from.
Deleteit takes a lot of bravery to do this. the comments above ang patunay kung bakit takot humingi ng tulong or ibahagi kwento ng karamihan that are suffering with mental health.
ReplyDeletekesyo bat pa vinivideo-han, iprivate nalang daw. mapasa kaya sainyo mga pinagdadaanan nya, tingnan lang natin kung pano kayo mag rereact. karamihan talaga ng nandito mga titang marites na nakadaster at nag aabang kung sino buntis sa lugar nila eh.
Eh true naman mga sinasabi ng mga tita mo. Dami nya na ginagawa for mental health. I dont think nagkulang sya sa tulong or support. Tumira pa sya sa Bali for Yoga ata. Yung social media ang napakatoxic tapos doon mo pa idadaan? Alam mong madami hanash tao online. Also everyone is already aware about her situation. Dami nya na po post.
DeleteI have MDD but how am I reacting? Hindi ko pinopost for everyone to pity me. I'm not saying na Maxene should stay quiet too, if this is her way of coping. Reality check lang na since she's a public figure, there will be people out there who can cause more harm than help once they see her video.
DeleteHi, 2:40. I’m a lawyer who also took up Medicine. I don’t own a “daster.”
DeleteI’m an RN and MD and I don’t wear a daster as well. And what’s wrong with wearing one if it’s comfy.
DeleteHopefully she get professional help asap. But this can trigger people too who is suffering from depression. So, this video is very worrisome for her and people watching this that going thru the same conditions.
ReplyDeleteTrue. I am also struggling from a mental health disorder and watching her IG post made me feel very heavy. I scanned through her IG posts and it is not the first time, she also had a previous post with a photo of her crying. She not someone I want to sorround myself with or even follow online. She needs a professional :(
DeleteI think matagal na talagang may pinagdadaanan to si Maxene and before she was vocal about it na may tantrums sya like anger issues i guess. She tried going to Bali and try to medicate herself throigh yoga and meditation but i dont think umeffect. Try to seek God, Max.
ReplyDeleteI think we have our own ways of coping with sadness or kung anu mang emosyon...
ReplyDeleteSiguro this is her way. I don't think it's for views lang..
Hayaan na natin sya and just pray for everyone who is getting through something na mas maging strong sila
We dont need to emphatize or sympathize kay maxene.hayaan nalang at wag na tayo makibash
Oftentimes, the only person who can help yourself is your own self. Try it. Talk to yourself. Don't talk to anyone else and don't post anything on social media. It will give you clarity nobody else can give you.
ReplyDeleteUmuwi ka muna sa mother mo. Talk to her about what's bothering you. I'm sure she will listen to you intently. Always pray, girl.
ReplyDeleteIt’s a cry for help.Pls.don’t bash her.Makikita mo sa mata niya ang lungkot.
ReplyDeleteshe said it in her next video. Matagal na daw to. gusto lang niya post pang awareness chuchu. ok naman daw siya
DeleteHmmm. I understand her struggles. But do you really have to film yourself crying? Asking a friend.
ReplyDeleteIt's really ridiculous
Deletefilming yourself crying, just get help and don't let the whole world to know
Half of her problems will be resolved if she gets off social media. Hinging her identity and worth on likes and views.. will just leave her more depressed and anxious.. not to mention this is a very narcissistic behavior.
ReplyDeleteHindi ko Alam yung pinag dadaanan ni Maxene or kung ano ba intention nya sa pag post nyan. Pero ang sa’kin, let’s be kind. Mukhang need talaga nya ng tulong.
ReplyDeleteHinde ako artista and i have my own struggles and pain too up to this day pero yung filming myself crying ang dami makakakita Or makakanood parang hinde ko kaya tatabi na lang ako sa isang sulok that only Me Can hear my cry. Maybe this is her only way ti vent out? Iba iba kasi pag cope up ng tao. So i dont know sa iba? Not unless Maxene is naghahanap ng kausap that is her husband.
ReplyDeleteYes! Mas ok sa may mental health problem ang shinashare at nagopen up, kaya nagsuicide yun iba hindi kasi sila open. We need understanding sa may mental health problem.
ReplyDeleteBy sharing this, it might have a negative effect on other depressed people. Like they will see that sa lagay na yan, si maxene na yan yet nahihirapan mag cope, paano pa akong simpleng mamamayan.. OR buti pa si maxene ang daming nakikiramay, sa akin wala.. you know what I mean? Minsan oversharing is also very selfish.
DeletePag nagpakita ng problema nilalait, pag may ginawang masama sa sarili na masama sasabihin bakit di nagsabi. Saan lulugar mga besh? Minsan mas okay pa mag seek ng attention and help from strangers kesa friends and family.
ReplyDeleteLet’s be a little kinder. Hindi natin alam pinagdadaanan niya. Maswerte ang iba na that they don’t need to be in her situation.
ReplyDeleteThis!! First reaction ko is kelangan talaga magvideo? Naisip pa nya yan ha? Pero nung pinanood ko na mismo yung video, i felt the pain. I also had episodes and lucky I am that I can handle it alone, that I easily got back on track pero I know at some point pwede ko din di kayanin.
DeleteSad that her last resort is to press that Video record button of her cellphone and upload it for the netizens.
ReplyDeleteDapat wag muna sya mag open ng social media after she posted this. Baka lalo sya ma depress pag nakita nya iba ibang opinion ng mga tao about her. Better to talk to family, trusted friends or seek a specialist. Praying for you Maxene and to all those who are fighting own battles silently.
ReplyDeletehindi siya umaarte. please don't ever think of it that way. i have talked to one who is going thru the same thing and even she says she doesn't know why she acts the way she does, she can't control her thoughts no matter how hard she tries to. 'yung iba hindi nila kinakaya hence the suicidal thoughts. be kind to people, everyone. be thankful you are not in their shoes. it is a struggle that even those around them will find exhausting.
ReplyDelete1:13 Ofcourse! Hindi naman talaga ma control minsan ang thoughts, pero ang pag video sa sarili, di rin ba ma control yon? Did she share the videos to raise awareness or for some other purpose?
Delete615 of course ka din! if that is her way of coping, just let her be. you can always ignore others and mind your own business. if ayaw mo mapanood, wag mo panoorin. bakit mo naman panonoorin ang video if you can control yourself from watching one?
DeleteSana maging busy na siya para wala na siyang time mag ganyan. Nag emo moments ako noon nung wala akong work. Kung ano ano naiisip. Ngayon naman na may work at super busy ni maisip na mag emote wala na at naging fast paced masyado buhay ko.
ReplyDeleteAgree sis! Kaya takot na takot akong mabakante sa buhay kasi ganyan din ako. Kaya gusto ko busy ako lagi.
DeleteNapanood ko na yung clip. Those tears hinde siya arte. Tears of pain siya. I know kasi ganun din ako pag umiiyak pag in pain. Hinde siya acting crying.
ReplyDeleteWala naman nag question if it is acting crying. Ang issue is, dapat pa ba ipost yan. Ang hina din eh.
DeleteA lot of people here are ignorant when it comes to mental health issues talaga. 🤦♀️
ReplyDelete2:07 And some people are condescending know-it-alls.
DeleteBakit ang mental health problem ba ay ipinangangalandakan sa buong mundo.? Eksperto ang kailangan hindi mga Marites. Yan ang kung may mental health issue nga
DeleteO ikaw na may alam.
DeletePorket bumenta sa iyo at sa amin hindi, ignorante na kami?
DeleteNaaawa nga ako sa kanya. If ever totoo man, hiwalay sya sa husband nya. Or if hindi man, pinili ng asawa nya to be by himself. Pero buti na lang close sila ng family nung guy. Parang naamin na nya before na she has mental health challenges and for you to feel alone, talagang nakakadagdag yan sa stress. Kahit na ba sabihin na nagtetherapy. If you have depression or anxiety, you need a lifelong maintenance and support from family and friends. This is the first time na hindi ako nainis sa ganyang post kasi somehow I understand her kasi paano if wala na sya matakbuhan to support or help her.
ReplyDeleteI have generalized anxiety disorder and I never thought of filming my panic attacks and posting them on socmed for what, validation? sympathy? pero acct nya yan, so let her be na lang.
ReplyDeleteBakit hindi sila mag usap ng kapatid nya? Kung sinu sino gine guest sa podcast nilang mag asawa dapat si Max ang kausapin nila ng kausapin!
ReplyDeleteWhen I am down, I always thought of Charles Darwin's famous quote and theory..
ReplyDelete"It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change." and "The survival of the fittest".
Practically speaking? it made sense.
Bakit ang OA ng comments lol. She was just sharing its okay to be vulnerable and to let it all out sometimes. Ang dami agad assumptions.
ReplyDeleteMaxene should stay away from social media and start to reconnect with the people around her. Most specially her family. Healing depends on your choices.
ReplyDeleteI'm feeling down sobrang sakit...but wait, lemme get my phone or whatever muna to record my sadness. Recording na ba? OK! Pwede nang mag emote...go! Ay teka...mali napindot ko. Stop muna ang pag emote. OK, pindot ng correct button. Pwede na ulit! Go!
ReplyDeleteHelp yourself no one else can
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