you don't wish for happiness if you already have it in your life. she obviously doesnt. cut her some slack, birthday naman nya and she’s going through some hard times
Mareng Taylor once said: "No, you don't. You don't have to forgive and you don't have to forget to move on. You can move on without any of those things happening. You just become indifferent, and then you move on."
1044 baks chismosa na nga tayo, paladesisyon ka pa. Kakaloka ha! Pabayaan mo sya magcope at magmove on sa paraang gusto nya. Hindi ikaw sya, sya ay hindi ikaw! 🙄
Ay bet ko yang sinabi ni Mareng Taylor. I was waiting for someone to apologize before but it never happened. I can still remember what he did but I just moved on.
1:12 kaya nga eh. Baka si 10:44 hanggang away jowa lang kaya ang daling magpatawad. Iba yung sakit na ang tagal mong jowa, livein pa, pero pinaabot pa sa kasal, super duper pang GG na sayo yun. Sobrang hassle, mapagastos ka pa, sinira yung pangarap mo. Ganung level ng kasamaan.
Eto na naman ung commentators kung maka react wagas na kesyo wag patawarin un nagkasala tapos mga SINGLE and alone pala sa buhay. In short, naghahanap ng karamay para di kawawa lol. Sige na, kayo na un single and independent women kunwari, yun pala wala lang magkamali. Nyahahaha wawa
10:44 what a garbage comment. You don't have the right to say that to a person who has been hurt. If being vindictive is what will make her happy, so be it.
10:49 pala desisyon ka. Let her be, siya ang nasaktan. Madali lang sa atin magsabi na magpatawad pero ndi naman tayo si Carla and ndi naman tayo ang niloko. Let her heal and forgive according sa panahon nya. Wag kang ano!
9:13 I'm curious... how can you say controlling yung tao if bits of pieces of their vlog were shared? And bakit naiinis tayo sa mga strong and independent woman who voiced their opinions. Is this 1521 pa ba na dapat mala maria clara ang peg?
Beauty and money can’t buy you happiness. You need to live the life you want. Find meaning to your life. Even if that means living a life away from societal pressure.
Why do you hate smart women @1057? Na noticed ko lang when women is opinionated and knows what she wants, sasabihin too controlling, strong personality... seriously kelangan ba meek lang mga babae na tulad ni carla?
Nobody wants to be in a broken relationship so kesa we judged women dahil masyado silang strong and na uunder nila mga husband nila, hindi ba pwede na let's just wish them the happiness and peace they need to heal? Di pa din naman natin alam ano ba nangyari at naghiwalay sila.
She just got married after years with Tom tapos biglang separated agad. Let her grieve and give her time to process everything that happened. Hindi yung puro dikta kung ano dapat maramdaman nya
You can see sadness in her eyes. To those saying that happiness is a choice,etc, that is true and i agree and I think she's aware of that. But its definitely hard to look at the brighter side if youre in that situation. Sana mas maging sensitive nalang din yung ibang tao. Yung iba kasi mag advice akala mo ang gagaling sa buhay
They are just saying their point of view since she is wishing herself happiness. They are not pushing it to her are they? Sometimes you gotta have to manage your emotions very well.
Its really true. Kasi if my bitterness ang anger ka sa puso mo, its really hard to find true happiness. Your heart is heavy kahit na you are with your family who makes you happy.
It's not a choice. Masaya ako pag maganda ang movie na pinanood ko. Hindi ako masaya kapag pangit ang movie. Malungkot ako dahil mataas ang presyo ng gas at bilihin. Malungkot ako noong heartbroken ako. Masaya ako ngayon may jowa ako.
Malungkot ako noong 911. Malungkot ako nung nalaman kong may H** ang nambully sa akin nung high school student pa ako. Malungkot ako nung namatay tito ko sa Covid.
Ang happiness naka-depende yan sa mga pangyayari. Masyado ka naman optimistic if choice para sa iyo ang happiness. If you're happy, then you're happy. If you're sad, you're sad. Hindi mo maiidikta ang feelings mo.
Wish you happiness. Offer ko na rin to look at this from showbiz lens, try mo to look beyond what in front of you - ultimate gift for you, after height of covid, your parents are alive. Your lolas are alive. Yun pa lang para you won the life lottery. Sana makatulong kahit onti.
Ang life may ups and downs at kailangan mong maging matatag sa lahat ng pagsubok, learn to accept the flaws dahil there’s no such thing as perfect person. The sooner you realize it the sooner na magiging happy ka ❤️
Happiness is a choice. Sometimes the answer is right in front of you but if you are full of anger, hatred and pride,it will take a while for you to achieve it. Sabi nga sa buhay, always choose kindness over rightfulness.
Madaling sabihin na happiness is a choice kaso for people battling depression, no matter how many times they choose to be happy they still feel empty or they don’t feel anything at all.
Yung mga commenters here na nagsasabi na happiness is a choice, really?! Kakahiwalay nya lang sa asawa for months at gusto nyo move on agad? Nakakaloka. Ang sakit nga na jowa lang, paano pa kaya kung asawa na. These people. 🙄
Dapat kasi ilabas nyo na ang totoong nangyari. Mga public figure kyo at alam ng lahat ang lovestory nyo. Nagegets naman siguro ng karamihan na walang forever, at kung sino man may kasalanan tanggapin nya yung bashings sa kanya.siguro luluwag pakiramdam mo kung nasabi mo na lang totoo.
You have everything, Carla. House, food, clothes, great family etc., count that as a blessing and happiness. If you happen to land with a great guy, that’s additional blessing to your life. Love yourself first.
wrong use of term ka teh! choosing to be happy is not toxic positivity. choosing to forgive is not toxic positivity. you do it for yourself para magstart ka magheal. you have to start somewhere so you dont get stuck in negativity, ang toxic positivity is yung pinipilit kang makipagbalikan sa ex mo kahit sinaktan ka na, yan ang invalidating your feelings - i dont see those comments here.
grabe mga judgemental ang ibang tao dito, easy for us to say count our blessings at hindi kailangan ng lalake sa buhay at mag move on. kakakasal lang nya, sino ba ang mag gusto mag fail ang marriage??? let her go through the pain and acceptance. don’t tell people to move on. you guys down own peoples pain. pwede ba leave her alone.
An educated and well-raised woman won’t ever think she’s perfect and expect to receive perfection from anyone. Why are so many of you seeing her as an almighty person who demands only perfection? Even children know very well that there is no such thing in life as perfect. Please use your heads. The audacity of you to even say that about her. She’s not dumb.
Don't we all.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly! Sino bang ayaw maging masaya?
DeleteHinde, kasi tayo gusto lang iretain ang happiness. Sya, wala talaga. Nakakaawa nga eh
DeleteKung nasa same position ka ni Carla. Yan din iwiwish mo
Delete6:07 happiness is fleeting. Anong retain pinagsasabi mo diyan? Walang tao na 24/7 masaya. Delusional tawag dun.
DeleteSame thoughts. But I realized, does it make it wrong to express it explicitly still?
Deleteyou don't wish for happiness if you already have it in your life. she obviously doesnt. cut her some slack, birthday naman nya and she’s going through some hard times
DeleteAww. Wishing you happiness
ReplyDeleteHappiness is subjective. You can be happy by choosing to forgive instead of being vindictive.
ReplyDeleteI also believe that it can take time for someone to be genuinely happy after a heartbreak
DeleteNapaka conceited ng comment na ‘to!
DeleteYou can be happy if you shut up 10:44pm.
DeleteMareng Taylor once said: "No, you don't. You don't have to forgive and you don't have to forget to move on. You can move on without any of those things happening. You just become indifferent, and then you move on."
DeleteSabi mo nga subjective. Kanya kanya yan. Wag kang judger. Eh di ikaw na ang mapag patawad. Santa yaarrrn? 😂
DeleteEasy for you to say dahil baka hindi ka pa nagka-lovelife.
Delete1044 baks chismosa na nga tayo, paladesisyon ka pa. Kakaloka ha! Pabayaan mo sya magcope at magmove on sa paraang gusto nya. Hindi ikaw sya, sya ay hindi ikaw! 🙄
DeleteKorek ka baks!
DeleteAy bet ko yang sinabi ni Mareng Taylor. I was waiting for someone to apologize before but it never happened. I can still remember what he did but I just moved on.
Delete10:44 who the hell are you to tell her how she will react after what happened to her marriage?!!
Delete1:12 kaya nga eh. Baka si 10:44 hanggang away jowa lang kaya ang daling magpatawad. Iba yung sakit na ang tagal mong jowa, livein pa, pero pinaabot pa sa kasal, super duper pang GG na sayo yun. Sobrang hassle, mapagastos ka pa, sinira yung pangarap mo. Ganung level ng kasamaan.
DeleteAgree Anon 10:44 brainy ka gurl. A person why filled with hatred cannot be happy. Pak ganurn.
DeleteVery good point 10:44
DeleteEto na naman ung commentators kung maka react wagas na kesyo wag patawarin un nagkasala tapos mga SINGLE and alone pala sa buhay. In short, naghahanap ng karamay para di kawawa lol. Sige na, kayo na un single and independent women kunwari, yun pala wala lang magkamali. Nyahahaha wawa
Delete10:44 what a garbage comment. You don't have the right to say that to a person who has been hurt. If being vindictive is what will make her happy, so be it.
DeleteBeing vindictive is a negative trait it’s very unhealthy and unhappiness will follow.
Delete11.18 What Carla posted? .... Yeah right. You're welcome!- not 10.44
Delete11:44 We can’t justify ang kamaliaan natin. Just because someone did us wrong, does not give us the right na gumawa din tayo ng masama sa taong yon.
DeleteWag kme. Kung gsto mo ma happy eh di wag muna awayin si tom. 🙄
ReplyDeleteSama kang tao and ignorante
Delete10:49 pala desisyon ka. Let her be, siya ang nasaktan. Madali lang sa atin magsabi na magpatawad pero ndi naman tayo si Carla and ndi naman tayo ang niloko. Let her heal and forgive according sa panahon nya. Wag kang ano!
DeleteTroo 10:49
Delete10:49 i hope you and your partner will also part ways para sabihan din kita na wag mo xa awayin
DeleteI think Carla is a bossy wife
Delete10:49- Awayin? Siya ba ang nang-aawaya? May pruweba ka ba na siya ang nang-aaway eh tahimik na nga yung tao.
DeleteHeres praying for your happiness! Hope youll find somebody who deserves you!
ReplyDeleteWish you all happiness and peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteYung mga ganyang post depressed na. She should take a break from social media
ReplyDelete10:52 agree.
DeleteMaybe it helped her cope to post and read her fans’ encouraging posts for her?
DeleteGandaaa!! Magnda na, matalino pa. Di lang pinapalad na makahanap ng tama sa kanya. In due time, may dadating na tamang lalaki sayo, keep the faith!
ReplyDeletebaguhin muna nya ang controlling attiude nya hahaha
Delete913, kung maka-comment parang kilalang kilala mo si C ah. Ano ba basis mo, yung vlog lang? 🙄
DeleteEh ikaw 3:14, ano rin basehan mo para ipagtanggol si Carla? HAHA
Delete623 hindi ako si 314 but between the 2 of you mas mukhang may sense sya at ikaw naman yong palaging zero sa classroom discussion.
Delete9:13 I'm curious... how can you say controlling yung tao if bits of pieces of their vlog were shared? And bakit naiinis tayo sa mga strong and independent woman who voiced their opinions. Is this 1521 pa ba na dapat mala maria clara ang peg?
DeleteBeauty and money can’t buy you happiness. You need to live the life you want. Find meaning to your life. Even if that means living a life away from societal pressure.
ReplyDeleteAgree baks. All superficial. Madami nagkakamali sa panandaliang happiness
DeleteAgree!
DeleteSinabi ba nya na beauty at money ang basis nya ng happiness?🙄
DeleteFisher din to eh. I used to like her until she became know it all at May pa tutor pa sa IG stories nya lol
ReplyDelete1057 smart shamer yarn?
DeletePansin ko strong personality nya kaya minsan tameme si Tom. Siya lang nagsasalita.
DeleteAgree 1057
Delete10:57 it isnt smart shaming if its calling out shtty behavior. Being smart isnt bad, but being obnoxious is.
DeleteShe’s so high and mighty that she fell flat on her face.
Delete10:57 I know right. Know it all tapos hypocrite pa. Talagang mahirap maging happy pag pangit ang totoong ugali.
DeleteWhy do you hate smart women @1057? Na noticed ko lang when women is opinionated and knows what she wants, sasabihin too controlling, strong personality... seriously kelangan ba meek lang mga babae na tulad ni carla?
DeleteNobody wants to be in a broken relationship so kesa we judged women dahil masyado silang strong and na uunder nila mga husband nila, hindi ba pwede na let's just wish them the happiness and peace they need to heal? Di pa din naman natin alam ano ba nangyari at naghiwalay sila.
Happiness is Overrated. I wish her peace and growth and more faith sa panginoon.
ReplyDeleteNa haggard na si Carla
ReplyDeleteKung ganyan haggard sayo, gusto ko na rin magpaka haggard.
DeleteNope baliktad
DeletePumayat sya at dumami beauty endorsements nya no!
Happiness is a choice Carla. At the end of the day ikaw gagawa ng ikakasaya mo.
ReplyDeleteHalata wala ka alam sa depression.
Deletepinagsasasabe neto. lol
Deleteis it diagnosed 12.07?
DeleteShe just got married after years with Tom tapos biglang separated agad. Let her grieve and give her time to process everything that happened. Hindi yung puro dikta kung ano dapat maramdaman nya
DeleteAwww. Can’t imagine the pain. Tapos sya pa ang nababash sa hiwalayan nila. Hope maging happy talaga sya
ReplyDeletePareho lang silang nababash
DeleteKalungkot, the last time na may hawak sya cake nung bridal shower nya na post din dito sa fp.
ReplyDeleteYou can see sadness in her eyes. To those saying that happiness is a choice,etc, that is true and i agree and I think she's aware of that. But its definitely hard to look at the brighter side if youre in that situation. Sana mas maging sensitive nalang din yung ibang tao. Yung iba kasi mag advice akala mo ang gagaling sa buhay
ReplyDeleteThey are just saying their point of view since she is wishing herself happiness. They are not pushing it to her are they?
DeleteSometimes you gotta have to manage your emotions very well.
1:48 its so easy for you to say that since you are not in her shoes. let her grieve and cope the way she knows how.
DeleteAno ba ginawa ni Carla 1:48? Some people can be imposing. Hayaan nyo sya! - not 12:38
Delete1238, true.
Delete148, yeah it’s easy to manage your emotions. 🙄
Jusko 148, obviously hindi mo napagdaanan yang situation ni Carla kaya tumahimik. Feelingera!
DeletePara kay 12.38 yong comment ko hindi kay carla! Gosh! Mga walang isip itong mga 'to. -1.48
DeleteHappiness is a choice, true that! Forgive mo mga nakagawa ng mali sayo dun pa lang sasaya ka na.
ReplyDeletefresh pa ang sugat tapos gusto mong gumaling kaagad? wow sana all st*pida.
Delete1.03 She wished happiness so it means gusto na niyang gumaling!- not 12.51
Delete12:51 invalidating lang? Kaloka ka. Napakadali ah.
DeleteIts really true. Kasi if my bitterness ang anger ka sa puso mo, its really hard to find true happiness. Your heart is heavy kahit na you are with your family who makes you happy.
DeleteIt's not a choice. Masaya ako pag maganda ang movie na pinanood ko. Hindi ako masaya kapag pangit ang movie. Malungkot ako dahil mataas ang presyo ng gas at bilihin. Malungkot ako noong heartbroken ako. Masaya ako ngayon may jowa ako.
DeleteMalungkot ako noong 911. Malungkot ako nung nalaman kong may H** ang nambully sa akin nung high school student pa ako. Malungkot ako nung namatay tito ko sa Covid.
Ang happiness naka-depende yan sa mga pangyayari. Masyado ka naman optimistic if choice para sa iyo ang happiness. If you're happy, then you're happy. If you're sad, you're sad. Hindi mo maiidikta ang feelings mo.
na-miscarriage ako at nagloko ang asawa ko pede akong maging bitter sa mga nangyari sakin BUT pinili ko maging happy at kasama ko pa rin ang asawa ko.
Delete9.59 ngek! Napakababaw ng take mo. Try harder.
DeleteBonding kayo ni Moira.
ReplyDeleteWish you happiness. Offer ko na rin to look at this from showbiz lens, try mo to look beyond what in front of you - ultimate gift for you, after height of covid, your parents are alive. Your lolas are alive. Yun pa lang para you won the life lottery. Sana makatulong kahit onti.
ReplyDeletegood way to look at things.
DeleteI wish she would be humble and not arrogant. She thinks highly of herself and that makes her so negative to everyone.
ReplyDelete3:18 Totoo yan baks. Feeling perfect talaga sha.
DeleteTrue
DeleteLearn to forgive though it may be hard for you. It is the first step to find happiness!
ReplyDelete3:23 totoo yan at agreed ako sayo baks!
DeleteAno kayang nangyari?
ReplyDeleteShe should see a theraphist so she can talk to someone who wont judge her.
ReplyDeleteshe probably won't. strong personality sya at getting help from a professional may be not an option.
DeleteAng life may ups and downs at kailangan mong maging matatag sa lahat ng pagsubok, learn to accept the flaws dahil there’s no such thing as perfect person. The sooner you realize it the sooner na magiging happy ka ❤️
ReplyDeleteHappiness is a lifetime commitment. Like a work in progress. We just need to compromise ✌️
ReplyDeleteEnough of Tom naman daw. At si Carla na ang topic nating mga Maritess 😂
ReplyDeleteHappiness is a choice. Sometimes the answer is right in front of you but if you are full of anger, hatred and pride,it will take a while for you to achieve it. Sabi nga sa buhay, always choose kindness over rightfulness.
ReplyDeleteMadaling sabihin na happiness is a choice kaso for people battling depression, no matter how many times they choose to be happy they still feel empty or they don’t feel anything at all.
Deleteif may depression, wag daanin sa social media na fishing sa mga comments at haka-haka nating mga marites hahaha
DeleteThen choose to be so!
ReplyDeleteKalungkot naman break up nila.. sana di sila ma trumatize
ReplyDeleteTo be happy, Carla, count your blessings. Very few celebrities have projects. Very few have awards.
ReplyDeleteSa mga nagsasabi dito nga “happiness is a choice,” e di kayo na ang matataas ang EQ.
ReplyDeleteAng ganda mo, ang yaman mo, sikat ka. Lalaki lang yan. Madami iba dyan, Carla.
ReplyDeleteTotally agree. What a kind and accurate comment. Sana mabasa ito ni Miss Carla.
DeleteYung mga commenters here na nagsasabi na happiness is a choice, really?! Kakahiwalay nya lang sa asawa for months at gusto nyo move on agad? Nakakaloka. Ang sakit nga na jowa lang, paano pa kaya kung asawa na. These people. 🙄
ReplyDelete4:11 kaya make sure magtira ng para sa sarili at makabangon kapag nadapa hindi yung plakda.
DeleteDapat kasi ilabas nyo na ang totoong nangyari. Mga public figure kyo at alam ng lahat ang lovestory nyo. Nagegets naman siguro ng karamihan na walang forever, at kung sino man may kasalanan tanggapin nya yung bashings sa kanya.siguro luluwag pakiramdam mo kung nasabi mo na lang totoo.
ReplyDeleteYou will find temporary happiness but it’s fleeting kasi dami mo baggages.
ReplyDeleteHintayin ko nlng si tom kasi magsasalita daw sya haha!! My off talaga sa babaeng to
ReplyDeleteBetter yet, learn how to pick your partner. You were with him for more than ten years but you didn’t know much about him. Kaloka.
ReplyDeleteTotal nonsense. It’s up to you if you want to be happy or not. Your happiness doesn’t depend on a guy. Grow up. Lol.
ReplyDeleteHappiness is a choice! If you choose to be happy then you will be happy.
ReplyDeletetakte un iba dto pati wish ng may bday kinontra pa hahaha toxic ng jutak nyo
ReplyDeleteYou have everything, Carla. House, food, clothes, great family etc., count that as a blessing and happiness. If you happen to land with a great guy, that’s additional blessing to your life. Love yourself first.
ReplyDeleteYou’ll never be happy when you always aim for perfection.
ReplyDeleteTotoo talaga yan baks 2:36. Dapat ma-accept nya na hindi sya perfect.
DeleteFrom i could see here, some people are toxic. Toxic positivity is so dangerous dahil u just invalidating your reality, your own emotions.
ReplyDeletewrong use of term ka teh! choosing to be happy is not toxic positivity. choosing to forgive is not toxic positivity. you do it for yourself para magstart ka magheal. you have to start somewhere so you dont get stuck in negativity, ang toxic positivity is yung pinipilit kang makipagbalikan sa ex mo kahit sinaktan ka na, yan ang invalidating your feelings - i dont see those comments here.
DeleteDisagree 11:25, please review your answer.
Delete2:14 you review your answer and read 11.25 again and again.
DeleteAno nga ba ang definition ni Carla ng "Happy"
ReplyDeleteOo nga, curious din ako. She has her family and friends naman, at may work pa sya. What can she do to make her self happy kaya?
DeleteIblack and white ang photo nya at ipost sa socmed.
Deletegrabe mga judgemental ang ibang tao dito, easy for us to say count our blessings at hindi kailangan ng lalake sa buhay at mag move on. kakakasal lang nya, sino ba ang mag gusto mag fail ang marriage??? let her go through the pain and acceptance. don’t tell people to move on. you guys down own peoples pain. pwede ba leave her alone.
ReplyDeleteif she want us to leave her alone then don't post sa social media. take a break, mag soul searching or mag-contemplate sya.
DeleteGive her a break. Her heart is broken, it takes time to mend a broken heart & to be happy again. Just be kind with your comments.
ReplyDeleteNot all broken hearted are full of negativity. She’s high and mighty so failed marriage is a dent on her ego.
ReplyDelete8:40 couldn't agree more
DeleteAn educated and well-raised woman won’t ever think she’s perfect and expect to receive perfection from anyone. Why are so many of you seeing her as an almighty person who demands only perfection? Even children know very well that there is no such thing in life as perfect. Please use your heads. The audacity of you to even say that about her. She’s not dumb.
ReplyDeleteNa kay carla yan.. e sya humihiwalay kay tom eh. Kwento ni ogie diaz na pinalayas nya si tom. Pwede tumanggi si carla sa issue pero hindi. Baka true.
ReplyDeletevictim playing, attention seeking narcissist freak?
ReplyDeleteI think hindi naman sya ganito.