Awww i believe no one should experience the anxiety of coming out... and tama sya we have a long way to go when it comes to this issue lalo na dito sa Pinas which is sad :(
4:55, 2:50 is politely asking. How rude of you to say educate yourself. You can't change the fact that there's a ton of labels out there and it's truly is confusing for some if not most.
Ako rin, in my 50s, confused din. Sometimes, pinapa explain ko rin sa mga teens ko. Mas saavy sila sa mga new terms being used now. Buti na lang di nila ako sinasagot na "google is your friend, " or "educate yourself." In this day and age, bawal at masama na bang magtanong?
Queer po is both.You are either boy or a girl.Or questioning-your still confuse of who you are or still exploring your sexuality.It’s very confusing but these terms are already used since the 80’s but Philippines is a very conservative country kaya hanggang ngayon e hindi pa natatackle or na eexplain mn lang sa mga tao.
1:49 Hindi pilosopo si 7:30. Marami talaga kaming nacoconfuse. Gustohin man namin maintindihan, marami lang talagang kagaya ni 4:55 at mo na imbes na mag explain ng maayos eh mag aangas angas nang ganyan.
7:48 Philippines is not a “very conservative country”. Ang daming nabubuntis ng maaga at di kasal, ang daming kabit, at ang daming nag lilive in, ang daming naghihiwalay. Philippines is the most close minded country when it comes to lgptq matters.
What a haughty remark 11:57PM. A lot of the commenters are still confused and asking about LGBTQ+ terms. We're trying to understand kasi nag iinarte kayong we don't understand you, we don't honor your rights, etc. Kaya nga nagtatanong. Para maintidihan!
I'll answer this with humility. I encountered the word queer in Garbage's song called Queer and the book Perks of Being A Wallflower. Akala ko rin noon weird or odd lang ang meaning ng queer. Queer pala means 3rd sex. Pwede gay or lesbian. Huwag naman mag-maliit yung iba sa inyo. Sa totoo lang, marami ngang Pinoy na hindi alam na gay can be bakla or lesbian. Akala ng iba, pag gay sa bakla lang yun. Continued ang learning process sa language na English, bilang 2nd language natin eto. Kaya naman, wag sana maging rude yung iba.
Yung iba nga e grammar nazi kuno pero limited ang vocabulary.
Parang yung word na actor. It can refer to either a female or male person who does acting. May mga friends ako na kung ano lang yung natutunan nila sa school, yun lang ang alam nila. Which is sad.
True, I graduated with honors but I also didn’t know that gays can be bading or lesbian. Di kasi tinuturo yun and our basis was yung characters lang na portrayed by Roderick Paulate in the 90s… at yung kung ano ang nakikita ntn sa paligid— having eventually read more sexualized books, I kinda got it that gay may refer to badings and lesbians but then there came all these letters that confused me more… I still get confused a lot… kahit anong basa or pag aaral ng iba’t ibang studies di rin immediate learning eh… dapat deep and continuous ang interest mo to know— iba kasi yung practical experience; meeting different people and knowing how they label themselves, mas lalong nakakalito kasi you can’t be wrong at such sensitive case eh— pero when we assume, most of the time we are wrong; example someone can really be beautiful pala and girly yet identifies as lesbian, eh lumaki akong ang lesbians or tomboy ay butch na butch… at tlgng pa-maton kumilos… parang it trumps all the books I have read… but tama si rude commenter— dapat nga siguro I educate myself more kasi dapat updated tlg tayo— mahirap yung akala natin ang runong natin pero IRL, we know nothing… believe me, sa experience ko, it’s always a shocker cause we dont really understand what it means until we immerse into it…
That's very common for teenagers in all girls schools. They go into relationships with schoolmates. As they grow up and get exposed to more people, most of them go into heterosexual relationships. Only a few stay as lesbians.
I think din. Nun ganyan age i have a kafling na Lesbian, i thought it was love. Hehe pero nu nag 20s na ko. No pla, boy pala hanap ko kasi gusto ko magkapamilya. Pwedeng asa identical crisis pa sya.
1:13 noong ganyan ang edad ko nagdaan din ako sa tinatawag na identity crisis. Naging "tomboyish" ako. Pero lumipas din sa pagdaan ng panahon at dahil sa guidance ng family. Ngayon, married na at masaya ako kay hubby at dalawang cute na chikitings.
I can relate as my daughter is 16 now and nasa confusing phase. Way back sa high school ko that was an all-girls Catholic school, it was common to have a crush sa school mate mo. We thought nothing of it. Most (not all) have pursued heterosexual relationships later on in life.
12:39 For some people, it really is a phase. Teenagers in an exclusive girls school go into relationships with their schoolmates. But they grow and get exposed to different people. Some of them will go into hetero relationships. Some stay the same.
Identity crisis is normal sa mga kabataan during adolescence period. Yung iba nalalampasan ang phase na yan pero yung iba nadadala habang nage-edad. Well, what matters is huwag maging pasaway sa magulang at sa lipunan at higit sa lahat may pananalig kay God.
A lot of people think it’s “just a phase” kasi mag aasawa naman eventually. You realize this is because of societal pressure and non acceptance, not really because “it’s just a phase”. I know a lot of gays in their early days na nag asawa but guess what they’re still gay - na pressure lang kasi itatakwil. Also, younger generations now are smarter and braver. Ps wag mag marunong para mag sabi na phase lang yan para sa kanya kasi phase lang para sa inyo. Iba iba tayo ng experience.
Or also sa guys as well. Or even sa kapwa queer na not identifying as male or female. She did not say kasi na she’s lesbian, so probably she’s in self-discovery.
she said "gay". somewhat preferred ng karamihan ang gay woman rather than lesbian. kristen stewart/ruby rose use gay rather than lesbian pag sinasabi nila identity nila
I remember back in college, I had this huge crush sa classmate kong babae. I was 16-17 that time. I'm so confused and afraid na baka lesbian nga ako. I'm not boyish, I like to wear girl clothes. Usually girls yung friends ko. And it turned out, it's just a phase lang pala. Nagka identity crisis pala ako that time. After that incident, hindi na ako nagka gusto to any girl/s. Only my husband knows about it. Hehe
We all went to that kind of phase in out lives. Identity crisis, finding where we belong, what we really want. Mostly during high school days nangyayari yan. With the right guidance of the parent, it will pass.
Since we are on the topic of education, let me just express this. These are the type of comment that shows bigotry and homophobia. Are you saying that LGBT did not have the right guidance of parents? Why is there a need to pass this so called phase?
Awww i believe no one should experience the anxiety of coming out... and tama sya we have a long way to go when it comes to this issue lalo na dito sa Pinas which is sad :(
ReplyDeleteLesbian ba ang queer? Dami kasi nila labels confused tuloy ako
ReplyDeleteNo it’s not. Educate mo na lang ang sarili mo.
Delete4:55 no need to be harsh po kay 2:50. Even ako confused sa term na queer, even if ilang beses na ako nagbasa about LGBTQ+ terms.
Delete4:55 admit it vague talaga ang definition ng queer kahit mag tumbling tumbling kp kk google.
Delete4:55 respect others para irespect ka din, you should know that by now.
Deletepero for now, ako na mauuna rumespeto sayo,we will educate ourselves para hindi nakakahiya sayo and sorry again.
When this is the chance to educate and enlighten those who wanted to know the community more, may ganitong klaseng response! Oh well!
Delete7:30 talaga ilang beses na? Baka ayaw mo lang talaga unawain. Parang pasok sa kanang tenga, labas sa kaliwa.
Delete2:50 not necessarily.. queer could also be weird/odd/strange.
Delete4:55pm Yabang mo.
Delete4:55, 2:50 is politely asking. How rude of you to say educate yourself. You can't change the fact that there's a ton of labels out there and it's truly is confusing for some if not most.
DeletePilosopo mo naman 730.
Delete4:55 Asking others is wanting to educate one's self. Ang rude na ng mga tao ngayon
Delete4:55 please educate yourself about good manners and right conduct.
DeleteAko rin, in my 50s, confused din. Sometimes, pinapa explain ko rin sa mga teens ko. Mas saavy sila sa mga new terms being used now. Buti na lang di nila ako sinasagot na "google is your friend, " or "educate yourself." In this day and age, bawal at masama na bang magtanong?
DeleteQueer po is both.You are either boy or a girl.Or questioning-your still confuse of who you are or still exploring your sexuality.It’s very confusing but these terms are already used since the 80’s but Philippines is a very conservative country kaya hanggang ngayon e hindi pa natatackle or na eexplain mn lang sa mga tao.
Delete4:55 educate yourself about manners cos you clearly have none
Delete1:49 Hindi pilosopo si 7:30. Marami talaga kaming nacoconfuse. Gustohin man namin maintindihan, marami lang talagang kagaya ni 4:55 at mo na imbes na mag explain ng maayos eh mag aangas angas nang ganyan.
Delete7:48 Philippines is not a “very conservative country”. Ang daming nabubuntis ng maaga at di kasal, ang daming kabit, at ang daming nag lilive in, ang daming naghihiwalay. Philippines is the most close minded country when it comes to lgptq matters.
DeleteSadly, mukhang tama ka, 3:56. Very taboo kuno pag usapan ang sexuality or even acknowledge it. Twisted at dysfunctional.
DeleteWhat a haughty remark 11:57PM. A lot of the commenters are still confused and asking about LGBTQ+ terms. We're trying to understand kasi nag iinarte kayong we don't understand you, we don't honor your rights, etc. Kaya nga nagtatanong. Para maintidihan!
DeletePardon me 11:57PM/1:49AM. Allow me to expound further. LGBTQIA:
DeleteI understand Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Intersex, Asexual.
I understand Cisgender and Hetero.
I don't understand Queer. Is it non binary? Because the terms and definitions are always evolving and changing. No need to be condescending.
-7:30PM
I'll answer this with humility. I encountered the word queer in Garbage's song called Queer and the book Perks of Being A Wallflower. Akala ko rin noon weird or odd lang ang meaning ng queer. Queer pala means 3rd sex. Pwede gay or lesbian. Huwag naman mag-maliit yung iba sa inyo. Sa totoo lang, marami ngang Pinoy na hindi alam na gay can be bakla or lesbian. Akala ng iba, pag gay sa bakla lang yun. Continued ang learning process sa language na English, bilang 2nd language natin eto. Kaya naman, wag sana maging rude yung iba.
DeleteYung iba nga e grammar nazi kuno pero limited ang vocabulary.
Parang yung word na actor. It can refer to either a female or male person who does acting. May mga friends ako na kung ano lang yung natutunan nila sa school, yun lang ang alam nila. Which is sad.
True, I graduated with honors but I also didn’t know that gays can be bading or lesbian. Di kasi tinuturo yun and our basis was yung characters lang na portrayed by Roderick Paulate in the 90s… at yung kung ano ang nakikita ntn sa paligid— having eventually read more sexualized books, I kinda got it that gay may refer to badings and lesbians but then there came all these letters that confused me more… I still get confused a lot… kahit anong basa or pag aaral ng iba’t ibang studies di rin immediate learning eh… dapat deep and continuous ang interest mo to know— iba kasi yung practical experience; meeting different people and knowing how they label themselves, mas lalong nakakalito kasi you can’t be wrong at such sensitive case eh— pero when we assume, most of the time we are wrong; example someone can really be beautiful pala and girly yet identifies as lesbian, eh lumaki akong ang lesbians or tomboy ay butch na butch… at tlgng pa-maton kumilos… parang it trumps all the books I have read… but tama si rude commenter— dapat nga siguro I educate myself more kasi dapat updated tlg tayo— mahirap yung akala natin ang runong natin pero IRL, we know nothing… believe me, sa experience ko, it’s always a shocker cause we dont really understand what it means until we immerse into it…
DeleteShe's really confident in her own skin at hindi sya pampam talaga congratulations
ReplyDeleteUnlike her elder sizt
DeleteOh, Okay
ReplyDeleteBrave of you. Yung iba dyan umamin na ang aamin, 2022 naman na for sure madali na maglantad.
ReplyDeleteWho are you to say that 3:19PM? You know NOTHING.
Delete3:19PM wag pala desisyon sa buhay ng iba hindi mo alam gaano kahirap, hindi mo alam ang pinanggagalingan ng nasa closet kung ano ang mga reasons nila.
Delete3:19pm Since di mo alam ang story namin u better shut up. Respeto sa hirap ng buhay na di mo alam.
DeleteWhat an ignorant comment.
DeleteEasy for you to say. May mga pamilyang hindi open sa ganitong setup kahit 2022 na.
DeleteAno kaya reaksyon ni Tita shawie dito🤔
ReplyDeleteMeron na. Basahin mo at sigurado, papalakpak ka kasi puno siya ng pagmamahal. Ang Sarap lang maging anak nila.
DeleteWhat's a queer?
ReplyDeleteGoogle is your friend.
DeleteI am not 4:11 and yes ilI googled but um still confused sa queer na term. So please enlighten us if you know and don’t judge
DeleteLGBT, bes. Yun meaning ng queer. Either bakla or lesbian, etc.
Deleteits just a phase. she is only 17.
ReplyDeleteI think so too
DeleteWhether it’s a phase or not, whatever age pa man, it’s her choice and we have to respect it.
Deleteyes
DeleteShe's a woman so it will be easy society are cool with lesbians or whatever
DeleteSa mga lalake talaga sila diring diri pag nag e experiment e
That's very common for teenagers in all girls schools. They go into relationships with schoolmates. As they grow up and get exposed to more people, most of them go into heterosexual relationships. Only a few stay as lesbians.
DeleteI think din. Nun ganyan age i have a kafling na Lesbian, i thought it was love. Hehe pero nu nag 20s na ko. No pla, boy pala hanap ko kasi gusto ko magkapamilya. Pwedeng asa identical crisis pa sya.
DeleteAnonymousJune 15, 2022 at 4:48 PM
DeleteWhat phase are you talking about?! Research and learn before you comment. Educate yourself.
4:48pm Hopefully your ignorance isn't just a phase as well.
DeleteIdentity crisis ba ang tawag sa ganyan? Lahat naman yata nagdadaan sa ganyang phase at her age.
Delete12:39
DeleteWhen I was 15 I really really wanted to be a woman. Life could have been difficult if I went through the HRT Surgery.
Im 33 now. A gay male, who is secure to his sexuality and self.
Thanks for listening to my tedtalk
1:13 noong ganyan ang edad ko nagdaan din ako sa tinatawag na identity crisis. Naging "tomboyish" ako. Pero lumipas din sa pagdaan ng panahon at dahil sa guidance ng family. Ngayon, married na at masaya ako kay hubby at dalawang cute na chikitings.
DeleteI can relate as my daughter is 16 now and nasa confusing phase. Way back sa high school ko that was an all-girls Catholic school, it was common to have a crush sa school mate mo. We thought nothing of it. Most (not all) have pursued heterosexual relationships later on in life.
Deletemaybe it is maybe it's not. but don't assume that "it's just a phase".
DeleteNot ignorance 12:39. It's being realistic. Mga kabataan ngayon they love joining the bandwagon pero sooner or later magbabago din isip ng mga yan.
Deletethat's the worst possible thing you can say to them 4:48
Delete12:39 For some people, it really is a phase. Teenagers in an exclusive girls school go into relationships with their schoolmates. But they grow and get exposed to different people. Some of them will go into hetero relationships. Some stay the same.
Delete952 its true.
DeleteIdentity crisis is normal sa mga kabataan during adolescence period. Yung iba nalalampasan ang phase na yan pero yung iba nadadala habang nage-edad. Well, what matters is huwag maging pasaway sa magulang at sa lipunan at higit sa lahat may pananalig kay God.
DeleteA lot of people think it’s “just a phase” kasi mag aasawa naman eventually. You realize this is because of societal pressure and non acceptance, not really because “it’s just a phase”. I know a lot of gays in their early days na nag asawa but guess what they’re still gay - na pressure lang kasi itatakwil. Also, younger generations now are smarter and braver. Ps wag mag marunong para mag sabi na phase lang yan para sa kanya kasi phase lang para sa inyo. Iba iba tayo ng experience.
DeleteGanda ni Miel
ReplyDeleteyes. Cute na cute ako sa kanya.
Delete5:48, No, jokes mo baks.
Deletegusto ko sya dahil hindi sya loud tulad nung isa
DeleteFrankie Pangilinan is annoying. Let your sister shine.
ReplyDeleteWhat does “Yes, I’m the gay cousin” refer to? Gay cousin siya nino?
ReplyDelete9 siblings ang Pangilinan clan
Deleteexpression yun sis, not literal
DeleteBaka ng mga pangilinan and cuneta?
Deleteof Donny Pangilinan…
DeleteFans of Dons kasi label the cousins and family members hehehe
Sa Pangilinan clan. Sa magpipinsan siya yung gay
DeleteThank you, 9:12 and 9:18, for not giving sarcastic answers. I thought it was an internet slang or something. -2:24
DeleteYes for coming out! Stay loud and proud!
ReplyDeleteI understand it’s her sister pero ang papansin tlaga ni Frankie!
ReplyDeleteSo attracted siya sa kapwa babae?
ReplyDeleteOr also sa guys as well. Or even sa kapwa queer na not identifying as male or female. She did not say kasi na she’s lesbian, so probably she’s in self-discovery.
Deletegirl crush meron din ganyan
Deleteshe said "gay". somewhat preferred ng karamihan ang gay woman rather than lesbian. kristen stewart/ruby rose use gay rather than lesbian pag sinasabi nila identity nila
DeleteGood for you Miel! Stay true to yourself.
ReplyDeleteI remember back in college, I had this huge crush sa classmate kong babae. I was 16-17 that time. I'm so confused and afraid na baka lesbian nga ako. I'm not boyish, I like to wear girl clothes. Usually girls yung friends ko. And it turned out, it's just a phase lang pala. Nagka identity crisis pala ako that time. After that incident, hindi na ako nagka gusto to any girl/s. Only my husband knows about it. Hehe
ReplyDelete11:34 Kahit may makaalam mang iba, it’s really nothing to be ashamed of. Truly. 🤍
DeleteWalang masama sa pag-educate ng sarili.
ReplyDeleteKnowledge is power. Educate yourselves!
ReplyDeletemga batang to kala mo kung sino mga magna cum laude lol
DeleteWe all went to that kind of phase in out lives. Identity crisis, finding where we belong, what we really want. Mostly during high school days nangyayari yan. With the right guidance of the parent, it will pass.
ReplyDeleteSince we are on the topic of education, let me just express this. These are the type of comment that shows bigotry and homophobia.
ReplyDeleteAre you saying that LGBT did not have the right guidance of parents? Why is there a need to pass this so called phase?