Matagal nang nakasurface ang mga red flags ni Kit - pagdeath threat and anger mgmt issue. Just look back s pbb time nya - his relationship kay myrtle. Lagi lng inooverlook ng taong bayan dhil pogi. ABS also tolerate his behavior kya lumala
10:34 nope. Hanggang fling lng sila ni Kit sa loob ng bahay. Maraming nakafling si Kit sa bahay like si Karen but si Mrytle tlaga ang tumatak. Nakakatakot and super uncomfortable kasi tlga silang panoorin and ang relationship nila. Disturbing kung baga.
Speaking of professional help, psychiatrist ko ang psychiatrist ng PBB. I got better. Obviously si Kit hindi naging better kasi nasa tao pa rin talaga ang desisyon kung magbabago sila.
narcicisst won't and don't ack na may mali silang ginawa or may mali sa kanila. unless family will force them to go to therapy or court forced them to (due to crime committed).
Well I hope that Ana will push through with her case against Kit. Sayang ang mga parinig sa socmed if hanggang socmed lang kayo. The man will never be taught a lesson.
lesson learn..You must research or know your partners past or better hbng nsa getting to know each other plng kau. Hndi mo agad mkkta ang tunay na kulay nyang hbng bago plng kau.
Research? Karamihan nga sa mga nangbubugbog na yan hindi alam ng mismong mga magulang at kaibigan nila na may ganun silang ugali sa private. Kaya may mga biktima na takot magsumbong kasi iniisip nila baka hindi sila paniwalaan dahil ang alam ng marami eh mabait yung bf/husband nila.
True, kahit babae or lalaki, if you see a red flag, confront your partner, prospective partner about it, para malaman if they are willing to work on the issue. Or if hindi pa malalim ang relasyon, leave. Wag anng hintaying may bata na na magsiffer of ung nagjojombagan na physically and emotionally.
I'm a victim of abuse too.. verbal abuse. I now realized that a abuser are not aware na they are abusing their partner kasi may kasama sa ugali nilang narcissist. They think palagi silang tama and we (victim) deserve natin lahat ng pang aabuso nila. Also they think they can get away with the crime they commited kaya malakas loob ni kit na mananalo sya sa kaso
Same here. My ex was also manipulative and abuses you emotionally. He was a very convincing liar. Pag nagaaway kami he makes it a point to make it look like it was my fault. It was a very tiring year and looking back, it was a blessing that we broke up.
In some ways, an emotionally abusive ex is harder. Because it's not as clear cut and you tend to question and blame yourself. Abusers are often very charming and alternate between love bombing and harsh abuse. Sometimes too, you can't believe that you're abused. It happens so gradually.
Fact na meron physical injuries si Ana walang lusot sa criminal case si Kit. Kahit yung nakapatay nga na walang intensyon ay liable for homicide pa din yung akusado.
Ako naman i find him handsome. Parang lalakeng lalake yung vibe tapos matikas ang katawan. Pero syempre ekis na ekis dahil abusive at maraming issues sa buhay.
Idk if you guys remember this. I was an avid follower of their batch s pbb. I remember one scene na naiinis sya ky Clodette and umamba syang gusto nya suntukin. That scream red flag talaga for me that time and remember not voting for him anymore hehe. What im trying to say, may violent tendencies na talaga si kuya and his friends are gross for being associated with him.
@12:21 AM, so you're saying women are not good at choosing their mate? :D :D :D Kasi, from your post, all the blame is towards the guy :) As if batang musmos yung gilr :D :D :D Tama ba girl? :)
1:08 papatulan kita ksi napaka annoying mo, tbh. Wala ka bang kausap in irl kaya dito ka nagpapapansin with your pa-witty statements? I bet wala, kasi if that is also how you are irl, no one would want to associate themselves with you. You think you’re so cool with your pseudo-intellectual attitude? 🙄 get a life outside of FP
1:08 girl marami din tanga na babae sa pagibig kaya nabubudol. Basta gwapo at macho, o mayaman ay jowain na nila. Hindi muna nila kilalanin yung background nung tao.
I think that narrative applies to both genders coz when a man ignores red flags just because she's a number 8,9 or 10 and when they got bitten by a divorce, that's the only time they will recognize the past red flags.
Now you know.
ReplyDeleteUnti unti ng nagreresurface ang past
ReplyDeleteMatagal nang nakasurface ang mga red flags ni Kit - pagdeath threat and anger mgmt issue. Just look back s pbb time nya - his relationship kay myrtle. Lagi lng inooverlook ng taong bayan dhil pogi. ABS also tolerate his behavior kya lumala
Delete1:10 naging sila ba ni myrtle?
Delete10:34 nope. Hanggang fling lng sila ni Kit sa loob ng bahay. Maraming nakafling si Kit sa bahay like si Karen but si Mrytle tlaga ang tumatak. Nakakatakot and super uncomfortable kasi tlga silang panoorin and ang relationship nila. Disturbing kung baga.
Delete2012 pa yan mga klasmeyts. Susko it's been years and hindi man lamang kumuha ng professional help.
ReplyDeleteTama. May pera naman sya pang therapy. Ganyan na talaga sya
Deletepeople like that don’t normally ask for help on their own
Deleteesp if the guy is narcissistic, he thinks he’s doing the right thing
Dapat siya mismo ang mag acknowledge na kailangan niya ng professional help. Kasi wala ring mangyayaring progress kung napilitanlang na mag therapy.
DeleteBecause manipulative people dont know they need help. They are narcissistic and thinks they’re perfect
DeleteSpeaking of professional help, psychiatrist ko ang psychiatrist ng PBB. I got better. Obviously si Kit hindi naging better kasi nasa tao pa rin talaga ang desisyon kung magbabago sila.
DeleteNaalala ko si Kan/Ye...
Deletenarcicisst won't and don't ack na may mali silang ginawa or may mali sa kanila. unless family will force them to go to therapy or court forced them to (due to crime committed).
DeleteWell I hope that Ana will push through with her case against Kit. Sayang ang mga parinig sa socmed if hanggang socmed lang kayo. The man will never be taught a lesson.
ReplyDeleteGrabe kalakalan ng paaast
ReplyDeletethere you go
ReplyDeleteNasan ang magulang ni Kit? Bakit di manlang sya tulungan?
ReplyDeleteSigurado kang hindi nila tinutulungan? Hindi porke wala sa media ay hindi na.
Delete1:01 jusko katandang tao, magulang pa rin hahanapin nyo.
Deleteuy ex pala ni kit si “i hate kpop”
ReplyDeleteSusme! Hindi kasi kayo nanood ng PBB Teen Edition eh.
ReplyDeletesusko!
DeleteSorry because we have a life
DeleteHindi priority ang PBB.
Deletewhat is that even. mas madaming may saysay panoorin.
DeleteMadami kinikilig na girls kapag nasasabihan ni Kit ng— “You are mine. I am yours.” Pak!
ReplyDeleteLiteral na pak! Pero kung di mo naman sya talaga kilala as ana claims.. aba'y nakakakilig naman talaga.
Deletelesson learn..You must research or know your partners past or better hbng nsa getting to know each other plng kau. Hndi mo agad mkkta ang tunay na kulay nyang hbng bago plng kau.
ReplyDeleteWhatever ms perfect
DeleteEh di ikaw na ang di nagkakamali
DeleteLearned*
DeleteResearch? Karamihan nga sa mga nangbubugbog na yan hindi alam ng mismong mga magulang at kaibigan nila na may ganun silang ugali sa private. Kaya may mga biktima na takot magsumbong kasi iniisip nila baka hindi sila paniwalaan dahil ang alam ng marami eh mabait yung bf/husband nila.
DeleteWow. Bad boy ang type nung dalawa....ayaw mapagpayuhan.
DeleteSuper totoo to,, nasa personality at ugali talaga
ReplyDeleteAng ganda ng reply ng ex.
ReplyDeletewala ka nang career kit. sinayang mo lang
ReplyDeleteand she's back char. hope Kit gets professional help
ReplyDelete2:03 di mo naintindihan sabi ni FP ay resurfaces so meaning past na. Check mo 2012 pa. Kaloka ka.
DeleteBeh, one of our classmate ang nagsubmit nito kay FP and FP post this here. Hence may pa "Image courtesy of Fashion PULIS reader”
DeleteGirls beware of the red flags.
ReplyDeleteTrue, kahit babae or lalaki, if you see a red flag, confront your partner, prospective partner about it, para malaman if they are willing to work on the issue. Or if hindi pa malalim ang relasyon, leave. Wag anng hintaying may bata na na magsiffer of ung nagjojombagan na physically and emotionally.
DeleteI'm a victim of abuse too.. verbal abuse. I now realized that a abuser are not aware na they are abusing their partner kasi may kasama sa ugali nilang narcissist. They think palagi silang tama and we (victim) deserve natin lahat ng pang aabuso nila. Also they think they can get away with the crime they commited kaya malakas loob ni kit na mananalo sya sa kaso
ReplyDeleteSame here. My ex was also manipulative and abuses you emotionally. He was a very convincing liar. Pag nagaaway kami he makes it a point to make it look like it was my fault. It was a very tiring year and looking back, it was a blessing that we broke up.
DeleteIn some ways, an emotionally abusive ex is harder. Because it's not as clear cut and you tend to question and blame yourself. Abusers are often very charming and alternate between love bombing and harsh abuse. Sometimes too, you can't believe that you're abused. It happens so gradually.
DeleteStop making up stories and replying to yourself
DeleteFact na meron physical injuries si Ana walang lusot sa criminal case si Kit.
DeleteKahit yung nakapatay nga na walang intensyon ay liable for homicide pa din yung akusado.
Hey both of you. Give us example. Don't be vague.
DeleteDi porket gwapo e lundag na agad kayong mga babae
ReplyDeleteWala naman yan sa kung gwapo eh. Sympre dapat nagkakaingindihan kayo. E si Kit masyado palang seloso at oa sa pagseselos. Kahit pangit nagseselos din.
DeleteMay longtime girlfriend siya diba si Lea Ruiz.
ReplyDeleteOo nga, bago si Ana si Lea ang matagal niyang girlfriend. Pero nagpakasal na siya recently. Ano kaya reason ng hiwalayan? Hmmmm alam na
DeleteAanhin mo ang guwapo kung ito naman ay g*g*
ReplyDeletekung hindi gwapo gusto mayaman ayan tuloy
ReplyDeleteI don't find him handsome.
ReplyDeleteAko naman i find him handsome. Parang lalakeng lalake yung vibe tapos matikas ang katawan. Pero syempre ekis na ekis dahil abusive at maraming issues sa buhay.
DeleteSame here...
DeleteTama ba pagkarinig ko sa interview ni Ana with Tito Boy na nung una akala niya gay si Kit?
Delete1:13 Yes
DeleteIdk if you guys remember this. I was an avid follower of their batch s pbb. I remember one scene na naiinis sya ky Clodette and umamba syang gusto nya suntukin. That scream red flag talaga for me that time and remember not voting for him anymore hehe. What im trying to say, may violent tendencies na talaga si kuya and his friends are gross for being associated with him.
ReplyDeleteSabi nya kaya dati gusto nha saktan si Mrytle ba yun. Idadrag daw yung face ba yun? Basta yun
ReplyDeleteSan nya to sinabi? During their PBB days?
DeleteOmg that's so scary. Sana wala siyang mabudol na babae 😓
DeleteYes. Yun ang sinabi nya
Delete@12:21 AM, so you're saying women are not good at choosing their mate? :D :D :D Kasi, from your post, all the blame is towards the guy :) As if batang musmos yung gilr :D :D :D Tama ba girl? :)
DeleteMema si 1:08 hahaha. Pakiayos muna ang logic ng sentences mo bago kuda
Delete1:08 papatulan kita ksi napaka annoying mo, tbh. Wala ka bang kausap in irl kaya dito ka nagpapapansin with your pa-witty statements? I bet wala, kasi if that is also how you are irl, no one would want to associate themselves with you. You think you’re so cool with your pseudo-intellectual attitude? 🙄 get a life outside of FP
Delete1:08 pinagsasabi mo? not 12:21
Delete1:08 I guess troll, you must.
Delete1:08 no, you are wrong. Ano bang comprehension yan. Men and women alike minsan may nakakarelasyon na budol.
Delete1:08 girl marami din tanga na babae sa pagibig kaya nabubudol. Basta gwapo at macho, o mayaman ay jowain na nila. Hindi muna nila kilalanin yung background nung tao.
Delete108 hindi na nga sya likeable irl, annoying pa online. Hahaha. What a loser
DeleteHow to hide your daughters from guys like Kit?
ReplyDeleteiba talaga pag sinaktan ka na ng lalaki na pisikalan. Dapat kumawala ka na.
ReplyDeleteWhen a guy tells a girl all the sweet little lies she wants to hear, she will like him :D :D :D
ReplyDeleteBut when a guy tells a girl the truth she will hate you :) :D :D
So, do i tell the truth or lie kasi nanliligaw ako? :D :D :D Pretty interesting problem no? :D :D :D
I think that narrative applies to both genders coz when a man ignores red flags just because she's a number 8,9 or 10 and when they got bitten by a divorce, that's the only time they will recognize the past red flags.
DeleteBut then nobody likes you so you bash women here on Fp, right?
DeleteSO he said those things in PBB pero pinabayaan lang ng management?
ReplyDelete