Yah its very traumatizing not only if there is a kid involve pero of course its financial na din. Here in Canada lawyer palang $2k na agad.. may mga assest pa kailngan pag hatiaan and child custody.. sobrang emotionally draining.
Trauma din sa mga bata. Bihira lang yon ex couple na civil sa isat isa lalo na pagdating sa co-parenting. Yon iba toxic pa din kahit hiwalay na, sinisiraan yon exes sa mga bata, kaya yon mga bata may resentment sa parents.
Divorce itself is not a bad thing. It gives you another chance to break free of a bad marriage and start fresh! From the eyes of other people, you may look like a failure but deep within, know you are a winner, a survivor. It takes a lot of courage and determination para magfile ng divorce. But the process to get there is very painful and traumatic esp. if you know gave everything you got and wasted many years of your life to make it work tapos ganito lang. But we all heal and I still believe this is the best decision I made in my adult years and best decision for my kids' peace and well being. Sabi nga ni Marilyn Monroe "It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone - so far."
girl, kung habol nya citizenship, ndi sya makikipag divorce, kase 3 years of residency and required pag married ka, pag hiwalay ma kayo 5 years na. kaya disadvantage yun sa part nya na nagdivorced sila. 🙄
3.58 its called fake love and wanting to have a kid and gc probably. Sa kanilang dalawa my sympathy goes to the guy because he is the one who's gonna pay big time not her.
Maganda talaga pag may divorce Para move on na agad sa next pag di nag work out Unahan ko na kayo parents ko 30 years na pero naghiwalay pa din, ayun sa edad nila na matanda na may bagong jowa na sila pareho ay so happy sila Yun nga lang married pa rin sila sa papel
Agree ako with divorce. Di ko gets yung argument ng iba na against the Bible pag may divorce, eh dito nga sa Pilipinas may annulment. Sa annulment, kelangan mong patunayan na void ang kasal. Sa divorce, you recognize the marriage, but you end the contract.
Imagine ang daming kailangang lies para lang mapatunayan na void ang kasal (common sa Pinas -- psychologically incapacitated ang partner). Yung taong minahal mo, ipipilit mo sa court na baliw at walang capacity to consent to the marriage? Talaga ba???
Para sa akin, ang accepted lang na reason for annulment ay kung minor ang isa and manipulated to sign the marriage contract.
Otherwise, divorce na lang sana. You can't stand to be with each other, end the contract na lang.
Personally i am ok with divorce pero sana ilagay din nila na dumaan muna sa marriage counseling bago yung divorce talaga lalo na kung indifference ang reason. This generation needs healing, kasi mas dumadami ang product of broken families.
12.09 nice how you put it together it makes so much sense.. i agree with you .. in the end any broken marriage any selfish parents, the kids end up victims divorce or not whther its annulment legal separation the kids will always bear the trauma until one day they get over it and move on or they continue to suffer and have grudge
Mali po yata pagkakaintindi mo sa annulment, hindi void ang kasal sa annulment. Iba pa un. Sa sinabing mong minor at manipulated ang sign ng contract dun lang papasok ang void/null marriage. Iba pa po un sa annulment.
7:05 pain and trauma of children dont come from having a broken family or having divorced, separated or annuled parents. napaka oldish na pananaw na yan. This trauma comes from seeing their parents constantly fight, argue, hurt each other or say and do mean things to each other and most importantly misdirect their anger toward their kids by hurting them coz they cannot leave a loveless unhappy marriage. May trauma pa din ang bata kahit sa isang seemingly "buong" pamilya kuno. Children will thrive knowing they are loved and supported by both amicable parents together or apart Alisin ang usaping pera and custody, the kids want lto feel loved kaso maraming parents ang selfish at nagtatago ng anak pag naghihiwalay na and im sad it still how it is in Philippines dahil mahina ang family law at walang matibay na child support law in place.
ok,ask ka na ng child & spousal support,hirap ng solo ka,di nman masyadong lucratice ang job nya & she can’t go home to manila for good coz ang bata di papayag ang tatay.
Ang bitter mo nman 1259. Fyi lang, sa ibang bansa nasa Law yang child at spousal support no. Hindi gaya sa atin na anak lang ng anak wala nmang suporta. Mga feeling God's gift. 🙄
Sana lahat ng magulang kaya tong gawin. Yung tito at tita ko almost 30 yrs married pero sadsad ang respeto sa isat isa. Kawawa yung nagiisang anak nila. Nakitulog ako sa kanila once tapos natrauma ko kasi first time ko maexperience makakita ng murahan at batuhan ng gamit. Ayun pala normal everyday life na nila yun. Kakaawa yung anak sobra.
Agree with on divorce 11 yrs n kmi hiwalay may 1anak. May ago n syang family . Ayaw nmin Ng annulment KC uungkatin p yun bad experiences Athos can you say our marriage didn't exist when we have a sonsana lgyan nlng Ng limityung divorce pra di maabuso like 1 time k lng pqede mg divorce
Parang na foresee ko na to na di magtatagal sila. Idk why. But its okay kung mutual decision naman sila and maging happy in their own lives. Kaso yun nga may anak, so pano kaya co-parenting sila or baka kay Mich ang anak nila.
Anyways, lakas appeal pa din si Mich lalo na sa mga foreigners marami pa din magkakagusto sa kanya.
Kaya pala nagcomment nung minsan sa IG ng ex niya 👀
ReplyDeleteParang grencard lang tlga ang aim ni gurl, grabe karma is digital.
DeleteGrabe buti pa sya may greencard na
DeleteHindi naman. Kung greencard lang di na sya nag anak.
DeleteHay, ang hirap cgro makipaghiwalay sa asawa. Stay Strobg M!
ReplyDeleteLOL tuwang tuwa nga sila pareho e
DeleteYes I am married too & I heard & believe that divorce can cause a major trauma in your life.
DeleteYah its very traumatizing not only if there is a kid involve pero of course its financial na din. Here in Canada lawyer palang $2k na agad.. may mga assest pa kailngan pag hatiaan and child custody.. sobrang emotionally draining.
DeleteTrauma din sa mga bata. Bihira lang yon ex couple na civil sa isat isa lalo na pagdating sa co-parenting. Yon iba toxic pa din kahit hiwalay na, sinisiraan yon exes sa mga bata, kaya yon mga bata may resentment sa parents.
DeleteNakuha na siguro citizenship kaya pwede na.
DeleteDivorce itself is not a bad thing. It gives you another chance to break free of a bad marriage and start fresh! From the eyes of other people, you may look like a failure but deep within, know you are a winner, a survivor. It takes a lot of courage and determination para magfile ng divorce. But the process to get there is very painful and traumatic esp. if you know gave everything you got and wasted many years of your life to make it work tapos ganito lang. But we all heal and I still believe this is the best decision I made in my adult years and best decision for my kids' peace and well being. Sabi nga ni Marilyn Monroe "It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone - so far."
Deletewonder what the reason is?
ReplyDeleteGreencard char
DeleteIncompatible.
Delete11:40 judgmental ka wag ganun. Parang ang stereotype tuloy sa mga pinay gold digger
DeletePrang greencard lang ginusto nya, di na umefort ayusin
Deletegirl, kung habol nya citizenship, ndi sya makikipag divorce, kase 3 years of residency and required pag married ka, pag hiwalay ma kayo 5 years na. kaya disadvantage yun sa part nya na nagdivorced sila. 🙄
DeleteCorrect naghintay lang na maprocess ang green card.lels Sakto sa processing time eh.
Deleteuhhmmm did you see her husband? kung ganyan nmn ang makakapag bigay ng greencard e gusto ko na ren ng greencard. ahahahahaha
Delete7:26 correct me if I’m wrong, parang nakuha na niya ang US citizenship niya. Must’ve seen it before in one of her posts.
DeleteBaka akala niyo after magpakasal may green card agad? Napaka habang proseso niyan! Kung un lang habol niya di makikipag divorce yan!
DeleteGreen cArd nyo mga mukha nyo ‘asyado kayo judgemental! Mag aanak b sya kng hndi nya minahal ung asawa nya
Delete3.58 its called fake love and wanting to have a kid and gc probably. Sa kanilang dalawa my sympathy goes to the guy because he is the one who's gonna pay big time not her.
DeleteBakit ang daming naghihiwalay? Eto ba epekto ng pandemic?
ReplyDeleteEpekto ng pandemic magkakasakit. Anuveh.
DeleteHindi naman pandemic. But mostly internal and really Christ is the answer.
DeleteMaganda talaga pag may divorce
ReplyDeletePara move on na agad sa next pag di nag work out
Unahan ko na kayo parents ko 30 years na pero naghiwalay pa din, ayun sa edad nila na matanda na may bagong jowa na sila pareho ay so happy sila
Yun nga lang married pa rin sila sa papel
Agree ako with divorce. Di ko gets yung argument ng iba na against the Bible pag may divorce, eh dito nga sa Pilipinas may annulment. Sa annulment, kelangan mong patunayan na void ang kasal. Sa divorce, you recognize the marriage, but you end the contract.
DeleteImagine ang daming kailangang lies para lang mapatunayan na void ang kasal (common sa Pinas -- psychologically incapacitated ang partner). Yung taong minahal mo, ipipilit mo sa court na baliw at walang capacity to consent to the marriage? Talaga ba???
Para sa akin, ang accepted lang na reason for annulment ay kung minor ang isa and manipulated to sign the marriage contract.
Otherwise, divorce na lang sana. You can't stand to be with each other, end the contract na lang.
Same tayo! I like divorce kesa annulment.
DeletePersonally i am ok with divorce pero sana ilagay din nila na dumaan muna sa marriage counseling bago yung divorce talaga lalo na kung indifference ang reason. This generation needs healing, kasi mas dumadami ang product of broken families.
Delete12.09 nice how you put it together it makes so much sense.. i agree with you .. in the end any broken marriage any selfish parents, the kids end up victims divorce or not whther its annulment legal separation the kids will always bear the trauma until one day they get over it and move on or they continue to suffer and have grudge
DeleteMali po yata pagkakaintindi mo sa annulment, hindi void ang kasal sa annulment. Iba pa un. Sa sinabing mong minor at manipulated ang sign ng contract dun lang papasok ang void/null marriage. Iba pa po un sa annulment.
DeleteDivorce is good for long suffering and unhappy wife or vice versa. The Phils is so 3rd world and double standard!
Deletemasyado lang pineperahan ang gustong magpa annulment
DeleteAng cheating ba ay grounds ng annulment?
Delete1:11 cheating per se is not grounds pero pwedeng i argue na its a form of psychological incapacity ito.
Delete7:05 pain and trauma of children dont come from having a broken family or having divorced, separated or annuled parents. napaka oldish na pananaw na yan. This trauma comes from seeing their parents constantly fight, argue, hurt each other or say and do mean things to each other and most importantly misdirect their anger toward their kids by hurting them coz they cannot leave a loveless unhappy marriage. May trauma pa din ang bata kahit sa isang seemingly "buong" pamilya kuno. Children will thrive knowing they are loved and supported by both amicable parents together or apart Alisin ang usaping pera and custody, the kids want lto feel loved kaso maraming parents ang selfish at nagtatago ng anak pag naghihiwalay na and im sad it still how it is in Philippines dahil mahina ang family law at walang matibay na child support law in place.
Delete12.09 Men don't want to pay and that's the reason why.
DeleteSarap talaga ng may divorce
ReplyDeleteDi masyado ma stress
Ok on to the next one
ok lang yan pag nagkaproblema kayo ng asawaat hindi ka na masaya don’t hesitate na makipaghiwalay choose your happiness....choose you
ReplyDeleteButi na lang may divorce. Less stress. Tingnan niyo na lang yung mga kinasal na celebs dito na naghiwalay. halos di na makamove on sa issue.
ReplyDeletedami hanash sabihin mo ginusto mo lang maging us citizen at successful ka naman don. on to the next boylet!
ReplyDeleteUs citizen n sya last yr pa
Deleteinggit ka baks?
DeleteSows why would she have a kid with the guy then?
DeleteHindi ba nabuntis muna sya bago sya pakasalan?
DeleteI think so too, nagkataon lang na nabuntis sya.
DeleteAgad? Sabi ko na. Di makatagal LOL
ReplyDeleteAnong hanash nanaman yan? Diba dati pa sila divorced
ReplyDeletefinalized na ang divorce nila,last yr pa sila nag file.
DeleteTotoo talaga minsan na kung sino yung uber sweet sa socmed kabaligtaran in real life. Yung panay flex sa mga kasweetan yon pa mabilis maghiwalay.
ReplyDeleteOo nga bat ganun
DeleteTruth!!! Kaya kmi nu hubby super occasional lang mag post, saka si hubby lang ang may FB, ako wala haha! Iwas stress
DeleteGood for you @ 4:23.
DeleteSana all may divorce
ReplyDeleteok,ask ka na ng child & spousal support,hirap ng solo ka,di nman masyadong lucratice ang job nya & she can’t go home to manila for good coz ang bata di papayag ang tatay.
ReplyDeleteAng bitter mo nman 1259. Fyi lang, sa ibang bansa nasa Law yang child at spousal support no. Hindi gaya sa atin na anak lang ng anak wala nmang suporta. Mga feeling God's gift. 🙄
DeleteDivorce pls lang maapprove ka na dito sa pinas !
ReplyDeleteOA ng iba dyan! They both have support for their daughter. They’re in good terms. Mga marites tlga, gusto lang ng drama and issue.
ReplyDeleteSana lahat ng magulang kaya tong gawin. Yung tito at tita ko almost 30 yrs married pero sadsad ang respeto sa isat isa. Kawawa yung nagiisang anak nila. Nakitulog ako sa kanila once tapos natrauma ko kasi first time ko maexperience makakita ng murahan at batuhan ng gamit. Ayun pala normal everyday life na nila yun. Kakaawa yung anak sobra.
ReplyDeleteAng bangs garcia ng usa sa pag geo tag ng locations
ReplyDeleteAgree with on divorce 11 yrs n kmi hiwalay may 1anak. May ago n syang family . Ayaw nmin Ng annulment KC uungkatin p yun bad experiences Athos
ReplyDeletecan you say our marriage didn't exist when we have a sonsana lgyan nlng Ng limityung divorce pra di maabuso like 1 time k lng pqede mg divorce
Ang gulo baks hehe!
DeleteYung mga post sa SOCMED eh nakakalinlang din. Puro happy, nice, lovey dovey contents...next thing you hear,divorced na. Hay buhay !!!
ReplyDeleteOk Lang yan nagkaron ka nman ng green card LOL
ReplyDelete1:26 tinodo muna, citizenship na nga lol
DeleteBaka sila na talaga ni Chris Ross
ReplyDeletebet ko talaga silang dalawa
DeleteAno kaya ang dahilan ng hiwalayan ng dalawang ito
ReplyDeleteParang na foresee ko na to na di magtatagal sila. Idk why. But its okay kung mutual decision naman sila and maging happy in their own lives. Kaso yun nga may anak, so pano kaya co-parenting sila or baka kay Mich ang anak nila.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, lakas appeal pa din si Mich lalo na sa mga foreigners marami pa din magkakagusto sa kanya.