Wednesday, April 20, 2022

Insta Scoop: LJ Reyes Writes Appreciation Post for Aki


Images courtesy of Instagram: lj_reyes

14 comments:

  1. Pag nagkaka baby talaga ng unplanned, madalas na kawawa yung mother. Yup, nothing can compare the joy of having a baby pero kawawa pa din yung mother lalo na kung iiwan ng tatay. Kaya hanga ako sa mga single mom! Babae 💪🏻

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    1. Mismo. It’s a blessing oo but better if you are prepared and with a supportive partner. Kaya stop na yun mga marites na magsasalita sa ibang babae na kailangan ka magkaka anak kasi what if that woman is not yet ready or does not want to have a child at all.

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    2. Hindi lahat single mom! May single fathers also...

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    3. 12:31 Oo naman May single fathers pero kadalasan single mothers. They are the majority. Let them have their moment naku.

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    4. 12:28 Nakuha mo mars. Lagi ako tinatanong kelan ako mag aasawa. Im not emotionally & financially ready yet. There's no way na magdadala ako ng bata sa mundo sa saktuhang budget lang.

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    5. True, kaya sana girls, be smart. Mura lang condom or IUD. If not, thats 9 months of carrying a baby, and then you carry them for a very long time after birth!

      Tapos sa Pinas, daming deadbeat dads kasi walang kwenta ang singilan ng child support. Parang yung nanay pa ang nagmamakaawa for support imbes na magkusa ang ama. Kakaasar!

      From stretch marks to putting a pause on your studies or career for at least 2 years of your life, not to mention bearing the wrath of your parents and being the chismis of the month ng mga Marites, the ladies have so much to lose and so much to sacrifice in an unplanned pregnancy! So yeah, be smart. Say no if needed.

      Have a baby at a time when you're stable and with a supportive partner can be very rewarding. Mae-enjoy mo pa yung journey.

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    6. Ano pinagkaibang hirap kung babae or lalaking single parent? Parehas silang hirap

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    7. Ang pinagkaiba ay ang double standards sa babae. Kapag lalaki single father May idea na “ay ang galing naman ng Tatay na yan” pero kapag babe ay single mother usually sinisisi sila. Kesyo nabuntis ng maaga or bata pa sya. Laging mad higher ang expectations sa babae kesa sa lalaki lalo na sa pagiging magulang.

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  2. Carbon copy ni Paulo, kay LJ lang yung mata

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  3. Ang laki ng gap nila ni Summer kaya super kuya-baby relationship sila

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  4. LJ, Aki, Summer 💖

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  5. High respect for Single Moms! You're doing a great job LJ.

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  6. Cute ng pangalan ng mga anak niya Aki means autumn sa Japanese tapos Summer anak nila ni PC

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  7. LJ, please learn lessons from your painful experiences. Choose your partner or husband wisely.

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