I disagree Diego. BUT you (meaning everyone) is 100% in control of your actions in life. You cant use your past as an excuse and justify your wrong doing. Your actions are your choices, your life, your happiness is your own responsibility. Thats what you call "owning up".
No, YOU read again 11:41. You’re the one who clearly needs comprehension. Don’t blame your past when you hurt other people. Just like what happened to Will Smith and Chris Rock. It’s not a matter of who made the mistake. It’s a matter of owning up to your actions and taking accountability for it. That’s what mature and logical people do.
I agree to 10:17. Relate nman ako sa post nung diego kasi may past experiences din ako na nkakaapekto sa present na attitude ko(this was noong single pa ako). But nung nameet ko husband ko, dun ko narealize na mali pala yung ugali ko na yun at dapat magbago ako. Totoo yun na nkakaapekto tlga sa tao yung past experiences at pano ka pinalaki pero hindi yun excuse para hindi ka magbago lalo na pag nakakasakit na ng kapwa. Take it as a lesson, change, and move on. Be responsible for your actions because it is part of growing up. Hindi lahat ng tao kailangang mag adjust para sayo.
Hindi ba parang may pagka selfish naman ito lalo na pag nasa tamang edad kna?? I mean, fix yourself first bago ka makipagrelasyon Or own up to your mistakes man lang sa karelasyon mo at magbago ka. #excusesngmgaimmature
But you can change your fate, Diego. Growing up in an unhealthy environment doesn't mean you have to live like a damaged person for the rest of your life. Some people do their best to live better lives. It's your choice, your decision.
Parang yung boyfriend ko sobrang sweet nya dati tapos ngayon na 6 yrs na kami, napapansin ko yung epekto ng pagiging adopted nya tapos hiwalay pa yung parents. Di lang basta hiwalay, tipong hanggang ngayon nagkikita sila para magmurahan at magsakitan in front of their kid. Kainis. Parang lost na si jowa. Di ko alam pano sya iapproach to help him.
Advise ko sa inyo, live in another country. Not a joke. Get as far away from toxic people so they will learn that their bad attitude drives people they love away and they will be forced to better themselves.
people want their lovers to act as their parent especially if wala silang real parents growing up. instead of treating their partners are their lovers, prang ngrerelie sila for them financially, emotionally kahit hindi nmn dapat at if hindi napagbigyan, away kaagad.
Kung makapagpatama ka sa ex. Parang kay linis ng past at ng pamilya. Buti nga si ex, aware and accept nya. Ikaw kaya kelan mo aaminin na may pagkukulang ka din.
Talk to a therapist or seek professional help and not a partner. If not then it is going to be a cycle of hurt and issues. Ipapass on mo lang yan and si partner mo naman magkakaron ng terrible experience.
Alam namin lahat Yan Diego, no need to preach it.
ReplyDeleteI disagree Diego. BUT you (meaning everyone) is 100% in control of your actions in life. You cant use your past as an excuse and justify your wrong doing. Your actions are your choices, your life, your happiness is your own responsibility. Thats what you call "owning up".
ReplyDeleteAnon 10:17 PM, read again his post. Hindi mo naintindihan. Need mo comprehension
DeleteIs he trying to make an excuse sa breakup nya?? Gosh, napakaUngentleman lang ha
DeleteObviously it wasn’t about him but patama sa ex
DeleteNo, YOU read again 11:41. You’re the one who clearly needs comprehension. Don’t blame your past when you hurt other people. Just like what happened to Will Smith and Chris Rock. It’s not a matter of who made the mistake. It’s a matter of owning up to your actions and taking accountability for it. That’s what mature and logical people do.
DeleteGwapo sya sa pic though baka filtered lang
ReplyDeleteGwapo talaga sha matangkad pa
Delete11:44 hindi sya matangkad
DeleteAgree. Di siya katangkaran sa persobal at di din gwapo.
DeleteI agree to 10:17. Relate nman ako sa post nung diego kasi may past experiences din ako na nkakaapekto sa present na attitude ko(this was noong single pa ako). But nung nameet ko husband ko, dun ko narealize na mali pala yung ugali ko na yun at dapat magbago ako. Totoo yun na nkakaapekto tlga sa tao yung past experiences at pano ka pinalaki pero hindi yun excuse para hindi ka magbago lalo na pag nakakasakit na ng kapwa. Take it as a lesson, change, and move on. Be responsible for your actions because it is part of growing up. Hindi lahat ng tao kailangang mag adjust para sayo.
ReplyDeletecorrect!
Delete11:16 agree 💯
DeleteHindi ba parang may pagka selfish naman ito lalo na pag nasa tamang edad kna?? I mean, fix yourself first bago ka makipagrelasyon Or own up to your mistakes man lang sa karelasyon mo at magbago ka. #excusesngmgaimmature
ReplyDeleteTruth! Ginagawang personality e tapos magiging toxic sa inosenteng tao.
DeleteMukhang pinatatamaan nya yung nambugbog ng girlfriend.
ReplyDeletegwapo sa personal si diego pero on screen so so lang
ReplyDeleteSusme! Isa pa ito na red flag sa girls. Keep out girls!!!
ReplyDeletegwapo siya pero walang appeal
ReplyDeleteBut you can change your fate, Diego. Growing up in an unhealthy environment doesn't mean you have to live like a damaged person for the rest of your life. Some people do their best to live better lives. It's your choice, your decision.
ReplyDeleteStill not an excuse para manakit ka ng ibang tao,, emotionally or physically.
ReplyDeleteParang yung boyfriend ko sobrang sweet nya dati tapos ngayon na 6 yrs na kami, napapansin ko yung epekto ng pagiging adopted nya tapos hiwalay pa yung parents. Di lang basta hiwalay, tipong hanggang ngayon nagkikita sila para magmurahan at magsakitan in front of their kid. Kainis. Parang lost na si jowa. Di ko alam pano sya iapproach to help him.
ReplyDeleteAdvise ko sa inyo, live in another country. Not a joke. Get as far away from toxic people so they will learn that their bad attitude drives people they love away and they will be forced to better themselves.
Deletepeople want their lovers to act as their parent especially if wala silang real parents growing up. instead of treating their partners are their lovers, prang ngrerelie sila for them financially, emotionally kahit hindi nmn dapat at if hindi napagbigyan, away kaagad.
ReplyDeleteKung makapagpatama ka sa ex. Parang kay linis ng past at ng pamilya.
ReplyDeleteButi nga si ex, aware and accept nya. Ikaw kaya kelan mo aaminin na may pagkukulang ka din.
Hahahahaha, as if he is any better. Too funny. Kaloka.
ReplyDeleteMeh, talaga? What has he achieved? Waley, diba.
ReplyDeleteagree! ask about his/her childhood, their family dynamics, how they treat each other - before going into a relationship with that person.
ReplyDeleteKaya palagi sinabi ng magulang ko na kilalanin muna magulang ng lalake bago or babae.
ReplyDeleteAko naman tingin ko the quote refers to his ex
ReplyDeleteTingin ko din
DeleteYes, I totally agree. 👍👍👍He is referring to the ex.
Deletered flag si guy, sa totoo lang.
DeleteIs he referring to Barbie? Kya nkipaghiwalay siya?
ReplyDeleteSeems to me...
Deletemaybe referring to himself. Mas dark ang past ng family side nya.
Delete“Don't let that hurt child make your grown up decisions.” — Kylie Sonique Love (RPDR AS6)
ReplyDeleteTalk to a therapist or seek professional help and not a partner. If not then it is going to be a cycle of hurt and issues. Ipapass on mo lang yan and si partner mo naman magkakaron ng terrible experience.
ReplyDeleteHurt people, hurt people. stop this cycle.