Totoo. Sya na nagsabi na request ni Carla wag magsalita but did it anyway nakakaloka ka kuya!!!
Pero sana Carla will leave Tom na. If you have plans of staying, don’t let your partner know that you know they cheated dahil parang nireward mo lang yung ginawa nila. Since it is known, just leave na lang Carla.
Imagine tolerating cheating kahit nangyari sa daughter mo… Carla, you did the right thing. Habang maaga pa, you left the guy. I hope you heal from this traumatic experience kung totoo nga.
Ngayon lang ba nangyari yon cheating after sila kinasal? Sa tagal na nila masesense naman siguro nya kung may something is off doon sa guy. Stressful,mahal at mahaba ang process ng annulment sana hiniwalayan na nya noon may nakita syang red flags.
Imagine how Carla feels after learning about his dad’s words. Betrayed na by Tom, betrayed pa by own father. Kadiri ng mga lalakeng toh. Mas malala yung tatay
12:09 6 yrs din kami ng ex ko bago ko nalaman may tinatago. Ma-se-sense mo naman pero dahil ma-effort sila at wala kang evidence maniniwala ka pag nag deny.
totoo yan. ako tsinansingan ng asawa ng tita ko, kinampihan ng nanay ko. kasi alam nya salabahe talaga yun and naawa sya na maapektuhan kapatid nya. toxic mga tao. screwed up values. tatay ko galit na galit pero pasikreto kasi nanay ko pinagbabawalan sya magreact.
Gusto ata nito sumikat katulad nung isang tatay na nilaglag din ang anak na babae at siya nagsabi na hiwalay na ang anak at manugang niya. Tong mga tatay na to!!!!!!!!!!
Ano ba naman hndi nga nagsasalita yung couple eto namang tatay ang daldal! Kapag nasa internet na yam forever na yan dyan, mas lalo mahhirapan mag hral ang anak mo. Kaloka.
Para lang siyang si Robin nung height ng hiwalayan ni Aljur at Kylie. I don't know why most men their age think na "normal" lang sa lalaki ang magloko. Kahit pa one night stand yan or full on affair, cheating is cheating. Nung mga oras na ginawa niya yun, what was he thinking? Hindi niya naisip si Carla? O naisip niya pero dahil sa "tempatation" in that moment, he just didn't care?
I think ganyan lahat ng matandang tatay even on normal people, they feel ok lang mambabae. Im not saying tama, pero parang ganyang utak ng mga thunders.
12:45 my mother did. Yung tatay ko galit pero yung mama ko kahit umiiyak na ako ang sabi pa "hayaan mo kung may iba ang mahalaga sayo pa umuuwi at di kayo pinapabayaan"
nakakagigil yung ganyang mentality no? porket madalas gawin ng lalake eh akala nila normal na lang. ang kakapal ng ganyan, hindi ba nila naranasang maloko in their life? nakakasira ng mental health yan.
Dadskie may permission ba yan galing sa anak mo?kontimg respeto sana sa away ng dalawa pero ha talagang masasaktan ako pag ako si girl..imagine sa tagal niyo na at nagpakasal tapos nalaman mong one night stand ang drama..sori pero hiwalayan agad yan
Talagang tinolerate pa ang cheating kahit na yung sarili nyang anak got cheated on??? Karma is real at nagbabayad nito sarili nyang anak!! Carla, i wish you all the best because you seem like a good person. You deserve better.
Tama nman c Rey pj abellana, nangyayari talaga yan Sa mga lalake! I’m not saying na Tama cya pero pwede cyang patawarin kc wala nman nawawala Sa lalake! Ang masama kung ang babae ang kumaliwa! Sa mga tataas ang kilay dyan na kesyo double standard, oh well Ganyan talaga ang life. Babae ako pero yan ang pananaw ko.
@12:20am boomer ka ba? walang nawawala sa lalaki?? mygosh kadiring pananaw to. ang baba siguro ng tingin mo sa sarili mo para tanggapin na normal lang ang ganyan.
well ikaw lang yun. any gender. same parin yun. cheating is still cheating. wrong is wrong. i feel sorry na matatangap mo cheating ng partner mo. dahil sa. rason na wala mawawala.
Pwede mo patawarin if gusto magbago or walang s*x involve like napabarkada or napasugal. Ibang usapan na itong one night stand mapababae o lalaki pa yan. Siguro wala ka pa asawa para masabi mo yan or di mo pa naranasan. Tatanungin mo sarili mo kung ano kulang o san ka nagkulang para may mahanap na "iba".
Teh kung wala kang respeto sa sarili mo bilang babae, wag mo idamay yung iba. Cheating is a conscious decision. Kung tinutukan siya ng baril at pinagbantaan, dun pwede pa siyang maexcuse. My gaz. Bat may babaeng kagaya mo?
Ano pong mawawala sa babae pag nag cheat na hindi mawawala sa lalake? Ano pong pwedeng patawarin ang lalake? Ang babae ba di pwede patawarin pag nag cheat? Kaloka po kayo.n
One of my parents cheated multiple times pero as someone who grew up in that enviroment, never ko naman naisip na 'normal' mag cheat. I understand na 'ganyan ang life' pero it doesnt mean na normal yun.
sa babae may nawawala ba??? lol. more of the sexual aspect, cheating is the ultimate betrayal of trust. i feel sorry for 12:20 na stuck na sa 1800s kung saan walang karapatan ang mga babae lol.
Sa mga nag yuck kay 12.20, naranasan nyo nabang lokohin ng mga jowa nyo? Im sure meron isa sa inyo na naloko na at nagpatawad. Wag nga kayong mga ano jan! May 2022 pa kayong nalalaman.
12:20 hindi ka siguro mahal ng asawa mo at ng tatay mo at yung tatay mo hindi rin mahal nanay mo. Ang totoong nagmamahal hindi gagawin yan sa taong mahal nya. Wag gawing normal ang mali at pinakamasakit.
Kahit mukhang may attitude si Carla naawa ako sa kanya and I hope she will not give this guy a chance. She is still young, mahirap man pero hiwalayan niya na and move on kahit gaano kasakit. Mas mahirap mabuhay na sira na ang tiwala mo. Anyway she is capable naman unlike sa iba na nakaasa sa income ng asawa
She does not have the "attitude". She's got a strong personality and there's always a reason behind that. Ikaw ba naman ang may Tatay na 'di ka kayang protektahan. Stay strong Carla.
Tigilan na sana yung ganitong perception na may attitude ang isang babae if they are assertive. Sa filipino society if you are a woman who wants to do good (do well in their careers, do well in making their parents happy and secure, do well as a parent) tapos non-confrontational at walang clear boundaries sila they always get sh*t on. Sh*t on by their colleagues. Sh*t on by their family members. Sh*t on by their own spouses. I'm one of those woman na tahimik and matiisin and how I wished na someone guided me not to take that path in life. Good for carla that she doesn't take bs from anybody dahil walang tao na deserving to be betrayed and taken advantage of.
Nakiusap yung anak niya na wag magsasalita sa media tungkol sa problema nilang mag-asawa pero nagsalita pa rin. Sana nirespeto man lang niya si Carla and her desire to settle things with her husband privately.
Sa mga kasal dyan. Pray for your marriage. Put God in the center of your relationship. Dadating talaga ang time na mahaharap ka sa ganitong sitwasyon, either ikaw or ang asawa mo ang natempt, it is up to the woman to keep the marriage (decide). They say it is the wife who keeps the marriage. That's how powerful your role is in marriage. Heavy but powerful. Marriage is constant forgiveness, love, understanding. Malalagpasan din ang unos. Marriage is not perfect romance.
12:32 AM - Marriage is an obsolete social contract established to protect clans from invading clans. That's how obsolete it is. But I digress. Like any contract, BOTH parties are expected to fulfill their duties and responsibilities. Hindi lang babae, ang lalaki din may responsibilidad. If he values the marriage, no matter how tempting - kahit pa ang palay ang lumapit sa manok he can say no. Hindi ung natempt, nagenjoy then sorry sa wife then wife has the sole burden of deciding to keep the marriage tapos when she decides to end the marriage because heller he cheated then pasok kayong mga holier than thou blaming her for the failed marriage - she didn't love him enough, she nagged, she didn't put God as the center of their relationship, she couldn't forgive blah blah. Wife is the one who keeps the marriage? This is just a very roundabout gaslighting that shifts the entire burden of marriage on the wife.
Totoo toh.. been there, at ako nagpatawad ako dhl may anak kami, pero pinangako sa sarili ko kapag naulit pa, wla ng usapan iiwan namin siya ng anak ko.. nasainyo padn if you will fight for your marriage..
Ang dami din na marriage na kahit they put God at the center of their life/marriage nagloloko parin. Marami din couples na maayos naman kahit wala silang pinaniniwalaan.
wow. why is it up to girl to keep the marriage? there are cheating wives too and those who abuse their husbands. and you can only forgive so much. kung binubugbog ka na, understand ka lang Ng understand? it should be up to both of you to have a good marriage. don't put the weight on the woman alone. either should be able to decide kung Hindi na talaga nagwowork
I can't even begin to unpack this. Hirap talaga maging babae lol men don't get sexist advice like these and just get away with whatever the heck they do. Women are literally expected to be responsible for the marriage, responsible for the family, and still f*cking work a full time job cause men nowadays aren't even competent providers anymore. And people have the audacity to claim na diyos ang center ng ganitong exploitative and oppressive na dynamics sa relationship and try to romanticize this horrible situation.
So, asan na yung g na g kay Carla? 😂 But seriously, amg sakit sa ulo nyan ang mahal at tagal ng annulment sa atin. Kaloka! Sa tagal nilang magbf gf, ngayon pa tlaga na kasak na sila.
I feel bad for Carla. A dad who thinks that cheating is just "normal" and a cheater husband. She's surrounded with low quality men. Now I understand why she's having some sort of meltdown on social media.
Daldal ng lalakeng to, regardless kung matanda o bata ka pa. Ang daldal daldal mo!!! ONE NIGHT STAND, hindi third party??? Yung nakakachat nga lang, nacoconsider na third party eh. YAN PA KAYANG NAG-S*X NA?! Nasaan ang utak nitong taong to?
I'm not a fan of her pero sakit nito kung sa akin ginawa Yan na di naman ako maganda sobrang masasaktan ako. Baka sisihin pa ako ng guy dahil sa itsura ko Kaya sya nagcheat ☹️
carla run! buti no babies yet. you are beautiful makakahanap ka pa ng matinong lalaki. maybe better a guy not into showbiz. babae ang talo sa ganitong situation
Galing, mang-uto ni Cristy para makakuha ng information. Iaangat yung iniinterview kunyari para masabi yung gusto nyang sagot sa tanong. Maka-anak anak. Jusme, dapat di nagsalita tatay ni carla he just made things worse. Hindi rin tinupad hiling ng anak to keep quiet, una ayaw nya magsalit pero eventually nauto ni fermin
Siguro kung mangaliwa ang mister ko, at independent woman ako meaning may pera at kaya kong buhayin sarili ko, same din gagawin ko. Iiwanan ko ang asawa ko. Nagawa nyang minsan, magagawa nya uli
Hiwalayan mo na carla, marami nagsasabi dito hiwalayan mo.normal na yan hiwalayan, hindi k naman nagiisa sa mundo, atleast may pilipinas version na tayo mala kim kardashian with ex husband chris H.
Toxic ang dad ni Carla. Hayaan mo muna si Carla wag mo madaliin ang process. Whatever ang maging desisyon ni Carla tanggapin mo bilang tatay. Wag mo sabihin na normal na magbabae kasi pano kung gawin ulit ni Tom since ok ka naman pala mangbabae siya. The longer Carla stays mas magiging hard himiwalay. May chance pa siya maghanap kung gusto niya
After this humiliation from her own father, malabo nang magkaayos si TomCar. I don’t think Carla was planning to say anything at all para kung magkabalikan man, nobody would be the wiser how exactly Tom had disrespected her. But with this pasabog from her dad, wala na, Carla’s pride will stop her from taking Tom back kasi she’ll look desperate na tinanggap pa rin niya kahit alam ng lahat na she was cheated on.
Why the hell would you even cheat on a woman like Carla? She is the type of woman who will not tolerate cheating. He should have known that once he decides to cheat, she will never forgive him na.
Grabe tong Tom na to. Ang tindi. Pero matindi rin yung babaeng pumatol knowing na may long time gf/fiance tong si lalaki. Marami talagang babae tinetake as challenge mang akit ng mga walang kwentang lalaki, noh?
Pra sabhn niyang ok lang yung one night stand eh mukhang gawain dn niya kasi kung hnd niya yan gngwa malamng nabugbog na yang si tom.. so unusual for a father na hnd protecthan ang anak
kung di ito naging public, baka maayos pa ang marital problems nila pero naisapubliko na, mas maraming usisyero/usisyera at ang pressure on both sides especially from Carla matindi. Kaya sa tingin ko wala ng pag asa. There is grace in silence. Especially away mag asawa. Dapat kayo lang nakakaalam.
Sana dina lang sya nagsalita🙄Yung anak nya nananahimik,nire-resolve yung issue nila mag-asawa in private..hay naku pinalala nyo lamg yung problem ng mag-asawa
Naalala ko tuloy yung isang nag ispluk na naka one night stand niya si Tom. Naisip ko, kahit sino na lang papatulan pala nitong si Tom. Pero fan ako ni Carla kaya tinanggap ko sino gusto at mahal ng idol ko.😭
Rey PJ hindi ka maka angal kase gawa mo yan noon! Sana dika nalang nagsalita dahil ang sakit sa anak mo na marinig niyang “normal” para sa yo ang one night stand and you dont consider it cheating. Magsama sama kayo nila Robin!
nakiusap daw si Carla to respect their privacy and to sttle things on their own, pero panay din naman ang post ng mga pa-intriga at cryptic messages sa soc med. na parang nagpapapansin.
Cristy tigilan mo na paninira ng buhay ng mga artista. You should have stopped and ended the interview when PJ said nakiusap si Carla to let them sort their problems out themselves. Nanghingi na nga ng privacy, pinush mo pa. Ibang klase ka talaga.
Ang ingay ni PJ ha. anyway, dapat magstatement na ang management, at settle na ang TomCar sa kanilang issues. Hindi man magkabalikan, pwede isaayos na lang nilang ang mga bagay bagay. Maliit ang mundo, hanggang kelan sila mag-iiwasan
feeling ko napaka lame reveal na ito after all that pagpaparinig at away nila sa socmed na akala mo kung anong malaking naganap, he cheated wow shocking!! I dont tolerate cheating pero ang OA pa din talaga nung isa sana dinerecho na lang pinahaba pa nila parang mga pampamn
It’s not his story to tell. Parang may agenda itong tatay na ito. Lagot sya lalo sa anak nya at di na sya malamang kakausapin. Baka meron pa sanang hope na magkabalikan, mas lalong di na yan matutuloy dahil nasira na reputation ni Tom. So if magreconcile sila ni Carla, sasabihin ng mga tao na martyr sya. Being someone with a strong personality, parang natapakan ang ego nya nun if she’ll reconcile with him after everything that happened. Sorry to the fans, I don’t think may balikan pang magaganap.
what Rey was trying to say is there was no emotional affair that happened according to Tom. But he still cheated on her needless to say. Na kay Carla na yan kung paano nya i-handle ito. Rey is the father so you cant blame him for blurting it out lalo na kung mismong anak nya di man lang sya nakausapbuti nga nilabas na nya yan para matigil na din ang speculations
Hays mga itay, ba't naman kayo ganyan?! Naiintindihan nyo mga kabaro nyong nag cheat, pero hindi nyo iniintindi ang feelings nung babaeng naloko?! Most especially anak nyo ang na cheat, na betrayed?! Wow, ganyan pala sila... Kaya pala sinabing anak taga bayad ng kalokohan sa buhay ng tatay or both parents! Tsk!
Wala naman respeto to sa anak nya. Pinakiusapan na nga sya na hwag mag divulge ng kahit ano sa press tapos ginawa pa din. Masama dyan kinampihan pa yun kalokohan ng son in law publicly. If yun yung opinion nya Sana binigyan nya na lang ng kahihiyaan si Carla by shutting up. Tawag dito adding insult to injury. Pag ganito tatay di na din masisis yun anak kung ayaw na makipagusap.
Now you understand why Divorce is still not allowed here in the phils, the Old tradional Politicians mostly Men (with mistresses) dont approve it coz of this twisted thinking, cheating is normal for men kaya the Wife should just suck it up and continue being the traditional wife, despite husband have numerous mistresses. My father in law have the same thinking hes a cheater so his Son thinks the same, so now his son and I are seperated and no we are not reconciling ever. Most men here thinks cheating is normal so dont be surprised. ONly the women of course dont agree as I do. I hope in the future we can have divorce here .. praying
OMG her dad has a loud mouth. I still want them to reconcile though. TOMCAR FOR LIFE.
ReplyDeleteTotoo. Sya na nagsabi na request ni Carla wag magsalita but did it anyway nakakaloka ka kuya!!!
DeletePero sana Carla will leave Tom na. If you have plans of staying, don’t let your partner know that you know they cheated dahil parang nireward mo lang yung ginawa nila. Since it is known, just leave na lang Carla.
You mean big mouth.
DeleteImagine tolerating cheating kahit nangyari sa daughter mo… Carla, you did the right thing. Habang maaga pa, you left the guy. I hope you heal from this traumatic experience kung totoo nga.
ReplyDeleteAgree. Toxic masculinity. “Norma” na talaga sa kanila Mag cheat so kahit sa anak nila mangyari, ok lang.
DeleteNgayon lang ba nangyari yon cheating after sila kinasal? Sa tagal na nila masesense naman siguro nya kung may something is off doon sa guy. Stressful,mahal at mahaba ang process ng annulment sana hiniwalayan na nya noon may nakita syang red flags.
DeleteImagine how Carla feels after learning about his dad’s words. Betrayed na by Tom, betrayed pa by own father. Kadiri ng mga lalakeng toh. Mas malala yung tatay
Delete*HER dad’s words (sorry nagmadali mag comment)
Delete12:45 true. Doble sakit. Kaya di naman pala nakakapagtaka why di nagkekwento sa tatay si carla.
Delete12:09 may nagtanong kay C noon if ever nagseselos sya sabi nya may trust sya kay Tom.
Delete12:09 6 yrs din kami ng ex ko bago ko nalaman may tinatago. Ma-se-sense mo naman pero dahil ma-effort sila at wala kang evidence maniniwala ka pag nag deny.
DeleteOr that may have been planned (that dad will be the spokesperson)
DeleteCheating is never OK. Machismo sa kulturang pinoy.
Deletetotoo yan. ako tsinansingan ng asawa ng tita ko, kinampihan ng nanay ko. kasi alam nya salabahe talaga yun and naawa sya na maapektuhan kapatid nya. toxic mga tao. screwed up values. tatay ko galit na galit pero pasikreto kasi nanay ko pinagbabawalan sya magreact.
DeleteAyyyyyyyy
ReplyDeleteNaku kahit marites ako dapat di na nagsalita yung father nya! Kawawa naman si Carla, one night stand is cheating period!
ReplyDeleteGusto ata nito sumikat katulad nung isang tatay na nilaglag din ang anak na babae at siya nagsabi na hiwalay na ang anak at manugang niya. Tong mga tatay na to!!!!!!!!!!
DeleteAno ba naman hndi nga nagsasalita yung couple eto namang tatay ang daldal! Kapag nasa internet na yam forever na yan dyan, mas lalo mahhirapan mag hral ang anak mo. Kaloka.
DeleteFelt bad for Carla.
ReplyDeleteKinampihan p ang cheater n son in law 🤮
DeletePara lang siyang si Robin nung height ng hiwalayan ni Aljur at Kylie. I don't know why most men their age think na "normal" lang sa lalaki ang magloko. Kahit pa one night stand yan or full on affair, cheating is cheating. Nung mga oras na ginawa niya yun, what was he thinking? Hindi niya naisip si Carla? O naisip niya pero dahil sa "tempatation" in that moment, he just didn't care?
ReplyDeleteI think ganyan lahat ng matandang tatay even on normal people, they feel ok lang mambabae. Im not saying tama, pero parang ganyang utak ng mga thunders.
Deletemy father-in-law and my own father said the same thing to me when my husband cheated on me. as in nakakaloka talaga!
DeleteBaka mashock ka pag nalaman mong may babaeng ganyan din mag isip. 🤢🤮
Delete12:45 my mother did. Yung tatay ko galit pero yung mama ko kahit umiiyak na ako ang sabi pa "hayaan mo kung may iba ang mahalaga sayo pa umuuwi at di kayo pinapabayaan"
DeleteMeron isa dito sa comment section, 12:45. Wala daw kasing mawawala sa lalake 🤷
DeleteKorek. @12:45am nanay ko ganyan mag isip
Deletenakakagigil yung ganyang mentality no? porket madalas gawin ng lalake eh akala nila normal na lang. ang kakapal ng ganyan, hindi ba nila naranasang maloko in their life? nakakasira ng mental health yan.
DeleteJusko Rey PJ, pinayagan ka ba ng anak mo na sabihin yan? Kaloka
ReplyDeleteDadskie may permission ba yan galing sa anak mo?kontimg respeto sana sa away ng dalawa pero ha talagang masasaktan ako pag ako si girl..imagine sa tagal niyo na at nagpakasal tapos nalaman mong one night stand ang drama..sori pero hiwalayan agad yan
ReplyDeleteone night stand still a one night stand that ruins/scar one’s relationship. I feel sad for Carla. I will pray for her healing.
ReplyDeleteLeave Carla! Dalawa tatlo o One night stand is cheating. Pareho lang yun!
ReplyDeleteI agree! Isauli mo sa Ina nya Carla
DeleteAnd chances are uulit ulitin pa yan
DeleteMismo! Paano nakaka siguro na one night stand lang ?!?
DeleteSick to tolerate cheating/one night stand while in marriage. Not because you are lalake eh normal yan at okay lang. 🤮🤢
ReplyDeleteDad..alam namin na tatay ka pero sana may pahintulot yan galing sa anak mo ng pag ispluk mo ng away nila ha
ReplyDeleteRun carla run.
ReplyDeleteHabang maaga pa carla,you deserve to be love as you love.
ReplyDeleteI hope they both heal and surpass this storm. Naniniwala pa rin ako sa forever nyo tomcar.❤️
ReplyDeleteSana nagloko nalang ng bf/ gf pa kau,bat ngaun kakakasal nyo lang.
ReplyDeleteNanigarado si guy itinali nya muna.
DeleteKahit saan kahit kelan ang tukso ay nasa paligid lang. Depende na sa tao kung padadala sya sa tukso o lalabanan nya.
DeleteTalagang tinolerate pa ang cheating kahit na yung sarili nyang anak got cheated on??? Karma is real at nagbabayad nito sarili nyang anak!! Carla, i wish you all the best because you seem like a good person. You deserve better.
ReplyDeleteWhy is it always the deadbeat dads pa talaga ang umiispluk sa media? Carla already requested for him to keep quiet muna eh
ReplyDeleteTruth! Buti pa mga nanay nag gegenuine support lang.
DeleteKaya pala ang tagal bago siya natanggap din ni Carla kase deadbeat at ganyan ang ugali… ang daldal pa!
DeleteNgaun palang nangaliwa na ano pat sa mga darating na mga araw.
ReplyDeleteTama nman c Rey pj abellana, nangyayari talaga yan Sa mga lalake! I’m not saying na Tama cya pero pwede cyang patawarin kc wala nman nawawala Sa lalake! Ang masama kung ang babae ang kumaliwa! Sa mga tataas ang kilay dyan na kesyo double standard, oh well Ganyan talaga ang life. Babae ako pero yan ang pananaw ko.
ReplyDeleteLuh. Ayaw ko na lang magtalk
DeleteKadiri talaga ng mga babaeng misogynist. Imbis na babae ang mas nakakaintindi sana sa kapwa nila babae, ijujustify pa at inonormalize ang cheating.
DeleteMali ang pananaw mo po.
Delete12:20 magbago k n gurl. Hndi porket ganyan life, tatanggapin mo n lng. 2022 n po. Wala n tyo sa sinaunang panahon. 🙄🙄
DeleteBoth should not cheat. Period. Regardless of your gender.
Delete@12:20am boomer ka ba? walang nawawala sa lalaki?? mygosh kadiring pananaw to. ang baba siguro ng tingin mo sa sarili mo para tanggapin na normal lang ang ganyan.
DeleteThen, bad for you and good for your husband. Lol, goodluck!
DeleteOH MY GOD. “ pwede cyang patawarin kc wala nman nawawala Sa lalake”
DeleteWhat a waste of brain cells
well ikaw lang yun. any gender. same parin yun. cheating is still cheating. wrong is wrong. i feel sorry na matatangap mo cheating ng partner mo. dahil sa. rason na wala mawawala.
DeletePwede mo patawarin if gusto magbago or walang s*x involve like napabarkada or napasugal. Ibang usapan na itong one night stand mapababae o lalaki pa yan. Siguro wala ka pa asawa para masabi mo yan or di mo pa naranasan. Tatanungin mo sarili mo kung ano kulang o san ka nagkulang para may mahanap na "iba".
DeleteIkaw yung naka-ONS no? Hahahahahaha
DeleteK.
DeleteTeh kung wala kang respeto sa sarili mo bilang babae, wag mo idamay yung iba. Cheating is a conscious decision. Kung tinutukan siya ng baril at pinagbantaan, dun pwede pa siyang maexcuse. My gaz. Bat may babaeng kagaya mo?
DeleteWTF HAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
DeleteThats sad.
DeleteWOW. JUST WOW.
DeleteRespect my opinion ba?
For sure mababago pananaw mo once nangyari sayo yan and sabhn ng parents mo na normal yan. Goodluck, girl.
Deletepity you kung ganun
DeleteAno pong mawawala sa babae pag nag cheat na hindi mawawala sa lalake? Ano pong pwedeng patawarin ang lalake? Ang babae ba di pwede patawarin pag nag cheat? Kaloka po kayo.n
DeleteWOW 12:20! Anong thinking yan?!
DeleteGirl I feel sorry for you and sa pananaw mo. Sana makahanap ka ng lalake na magpaparamdam sayo ng real love that will change your thinking.
DeleteMaling magcheat, kesehodang babae o lalake. Period!
Ibang usapan na kung papatawarin mo o hindi ang cheater. Pero hindi mas mali o mas tama ang isang tao base sa gender nila.
I really do hope magimprove ang baluktot mong paniniwala.
12:20 para kang yung nanay ni zanjoe sa the broken marriage vow. Blame the victim para lang ijustify ang pangangaliwa ng lalaki. Disgusting.
DeleteOne of my parents cheated multiple times pero as someone who grew up in that enviroment, never ko naman naisip na 'normal' mag cheat. I understand na 'ganyan ang life' pero it doesnt mean na normal yun.
DeleteSame lang yan. Ke lalaki ang nag cheat or yung babae, masasaktan parin yung betrayed partner. Yung iba nahahawaan pa ng sakit
DeleteHala si ateng! Sira ang moral compass mo 😂
DeleteAyoko mag judge pero mukhang lumaki ka sa ganyang environment.. alam mo hnd normal yan.. kawawa ka
DeleteHay naku na high blood ako sayo baka magsabi ako ng bad words LOL
DeleteOMG you’re a joke!
Delete“Ganyan talaga ang life.” Girl, life mo lang yan. Wag mo kami idamay. HAHAHAHA I KENNAT!
DeleteSobrang baluktot ng pananaw na to...
Deletesa babae may nawawala ba??? lol. more of the sexual aspect, cheating is the ultimate betrayal of trust. i feel sorry for 12:20 na stuck na sa 1800s kung saan walang karapatan ang mga babae lol.
DeleteSa mga nag yuck kay 12.20, naranasan nyo nabang lokohin ng mga jowa nyo? Im sure meron isa sa inyo na naloko na at nagpatawad. Wag nga kayong mga ano jan! May 2022 pa kayong nalalaman.
Deleteibaba mo din sa pedestal ang lalake uy. typical taong tabon. 🤦
DeleteSis, ginamit mo pa pagiging babae mo to validate your argument when it just reeks of internalized misogyny. Sit down.
DeleteShut up. You make no sense with your nonsense. Have some self-respect. Don’t justify your nonsense to us.
Delete12:20, get some help baks. You are lost.
Delete12:20 hindi ka siguro mahal ng asawa mo at ng tatay mo at yung tatay mo hindi rin mahal nanay mo. Ang totoong nagmamahal hindi gagawin yan sa taong mahal nya. Wag gawing normal ang mali at pinakamasakit.
DeleteGeez! You’re disgusting! Napaka basura ng mentality mo! Magbago ka uy!
Delete@12:20 mahiya ka sa pinagsasabi mo uy
DeleteIsa pa to kahit one night stand pa yan cheating pa rin yon. Pwede yan makasira ng marriage na habang buhay ninyo binuo
DeleteAng sakit nito,yang mga ganyan di na dapat binibigyan ng 2nd chance.
ReplyDeleteLove you carla be strong andito lang kming mga fans mo
ReplyDeleteEww tolerating cheating. Yuck. Carla run.
ReplyDeleteToxic Masculinity tlga😑😒😒🙄
ReplyDeleteKahit mukhang may attitude si Carla naawa ako sa kanya and I hope she will not give this guy a chance. She is still young, mahirap man pero hiwalayan niya na and move on kahit gaano kasakit. Mas mahirap mabuhay na sira na ang tiwala mo. Anyway she is capable naman unlike sa iba na nakaasa sa income ng asawa
ReplyDelete💯 agree with you mars
DeleteShe does not have the "attitude". She's got a strong personality and there's always a reason behind that. Ikaw ba naman ang may Tatay na 'di ka kayang protektahan. Stay strong Carla.
DeleteTigilan na sana yung ganitong perception na may attitude ang isang babae if they are assertive. Sa filipino society if you are a woman who wants to do good (do well in their careers, do well in making their parents happy and secure, do well as a parent) tapos non-confrontational at walang clear boundaries sila they always get sh*t on. Sh*t on by their colleagues. Sh*t on by their family members. Sh*t on by their own spouses. I'm one of those woman na tahimik and matiisin and how I wished na someone guided me not to take that path in life. Good for carla that she doesn't take bs from anybody dahil walang tao na deserving to be betrayed and taken advantage of.
DeleteHey Dad, not your story to tell. Do not normalize cheating just because you’ve done it in the past. Cheating is wrong. Plain simple.
ReplyDeletemadaldal talaga itong tatay ni carla parang babae
ReplyDeleteInternational women's month pero nagkalat pa rin mga ganitong backward gender stereotypes
DeleteI feel so bad for Carla and I can't blame her for leaving Tom. ZERO TOLERANCE for cheating.
ReplyDeleteNakiusap yung anak niya na wag magsasalita sa media tungkol sa problema nilang mag-asawa pero nagsalita pa rin. Sana nirespeto man lang niya si Carla and her desire to settle things with her husband privately.
ReplyDeleteSa mga kasal dyan. Pray for your marriage. Put God in the center of your relationship. Dadating talaga ang time na mahaharap ka sa ganitong sitwasyon, either ikaw or ang asawa mo ang natempt, it is up to the woman to keep the marriage (decide). They say it is the wife who keeps the marriage. That's how powerful your role is in marriage. Heavy but powerful. Marriage is constant forgiveness, love, understanding. Malalagpasan din ang unos. Marriage is not perfect romance.
ReplyDelete12:32 sorry pero no to cheating. Don’t use God as an excuse to normalize cheating
Delete12:32 AM - Marriage is an obsolete social contract established to protect clans from invading clans. That's how obsolete it is. But I digress. Like any contract, BOTH parties are expected to fulfill their duties and responsibilities. Hindi lang babae, ang lalaki din may responsibilidad. If he values the marriage, no matter how tempting - kahit pa ang palay ang lumapit sa manok he can say no. Hindi ung natempt, nagenjoy then sorry sa wife then wife has the sole burden of deciding to keep the marriage tapos when she decides to end the marriage because heller he cheated then pasok kayong mga holier than thou blaming her for the failed marriage - she didn't love him enough, she nagged, she didn't put God as the center of their relationship, she couldn't forgive blah blah. Wife is the one who keeps the marriage? This is just a very roundabout gaslighting that shifts the entire burden of marriage on the wife.
DeleteTotoo toh.. been there, at ako nagpatawad ako dhl may anak kami, pero pinangako sa sarili ko kapag naulit pa, wla ng usapan iiwan namin siya ng anak ko.. nasainyo padn if you will fight for your marriage..
DeleteNailed it.
DeleteAng dami din na marriage na kahit they put God at the center of their life/marriage nagloloko parin. Marami din couples na maayos naman kahit wala silang pinaniniwalaan.
DeleteNasa tao yan walang kinalaman ang Diyos.
Constant forgiveness...pero hindi sa womanizing. That's a NO NO NO.
Deletewow. why is it up to girl to keep the marriage? there are cheating wives too and those who abuse their husbands. and you can only forgive so much. kung binubugbog ka na, understand ka lang Ng understand? it should be up to both of you to have a good marriage. don't put the weight on the woman alone. either should be able to decide kung Hindi na talaga nagwowork
DeleteI can't even begin to unpack this. Hirap talaga maging babae lol men don't get sexist advice like these and just get away with whatever the heck they do. Women are literally expected to be responsible for the marriage, responsible for the family, and still f*cking work a full time job cause men nowadays aren't even competent providers anymore. And people have the audacity to claim na diyos ang center ng ganitong exploitative and oppressive na dynamics sa relationship and try to romanticize this horrible situation.
Delete12:32 AM Agree.
DeleteThis!👍 so true, 1232am.
DeleteAgree.
DeleteSo, asan na yung g na g kay Carla? 😂
ReplyDeleteBut seriously, amg sakit sa ulo nyan ang mahal at tagal ng annulment sa atin. Kaloka! Sa tagal nilang magbf gf, ngayon pa tlaga na kasak na sila.
Hindi na kailangan ng annulment sa Tagal ng process niyan kahit mayayaman hindi na pinipili yan divorce na lang
DeleteWla nmn issue sknla yung pera.. ang masakit lang kung kailan nagpakasal saka nangyari..
DeleteBaka naman the cheating happened before and now lang nalaman na kasal na
ReplyDeleteStill cheating 🤷♀️
DeleteMy thoughts too.
DeleteRegardless
DeleteI feel bad for Carla. A dad who thinks that cheating is just "normal" and a cheater husband. She's surrounded with low quality men. Now I understand why she's having some sort of meltdown on social media.
ReplyDelete12:34 AM True.
DeleteWorse, he’s a dad who thinks a one-night stand is NOT cheating.
DeleteMen who don’t know how to respect and truly love a woman think that way. Kahit patawarin ni Carla, may wound na sa puso niya. The trust is damaged.
DeleteSigurado bang "one night"stand lang yan??baka matagal niya ng ginagawa yan..palusot .com lang yan na isang beses lang daw..mga lalake talaga
ReplyDeleteSa totoo lang sis! He did it once, ano pang idadahilan nya not to do it again diba?
DeleteDi ako fan ni Carla pero bilang isang babae din na dumaan sa ganyan better run girl .Been there done that .No to second chance.
ReplyDeleteWhat… Anong normal ayan yung ginawa mo it bounced back to your daughter. one night stand and cheating it’s the same
ReplyDeleteAgree!!
DeleteDyan palang sa wedding pictures nila nahalata Kong may mali sa mga ngiti nila .Iba yung ngiti ng tears of joy ..
ReplyDeleteDaldal ng lalakeng to, regardless kung matanda o bata ka pa. Ang daldal daldal mo!!!
ReplyDeleteONE NIGHT STAND, hindi third party??? Yung nakakachat nga lang, nacoconsider na third party eh. YAN PA KAYANG NAG-S*X NA?!
Nasaan ang utak nitong taong to?
Di ba??? Parang ok lang daw yun? No way!!
DeleteKorek. Yung simpleng pag chat pero alam mo sa sarili mo na iba yung intentions mo, that's considered as cheating!
DeleteI'm not a fan of her pero sakit nito kung sa akin ginawa Yan na di naman ako maganda sobrang masasaktan ako. Baka sisihin pa ako ng guy dahil sa itsura ko Kaya sya nagcheat ☹️
ReplyDeletecarla run! buti no babies yet. you are beautiful makakahanap ka pa ng matinong lalaki. maybe better a guy not into showbiz. babae ang talo sa ganitong situation
ReplyDeletesi lalaki di makapaghintay or makapagtimpi knowing ikakasal na or kinasal na!
ReplyDeleteI'm actually happy with this news! SO HINDI BAKLA SI TOM mga maritess hahaha
ReplyDeleteSana all happy pag may nagchecheat noh? Normal ka?
Deleteyuck! happy kpa tlga
DeleteWhat's to be happy about?
DeleteReally? Nakaka happy ba yun despite his sexual orientation cheating is cheating
Delete12:47, Hmmm, kasi one night stand lang daw, not a third party kabit. Lol.
DeleteHnd naman talaga, remember cai cortez, sabi jumbo hotdog daw c tom haha
DeleteGaling, mang-uto ni Cristy para makakuha ng information. Iaangat yung iniinterview kunyari para masabi yung gusto nyang sagot sa tanong. Maka-anak anak. Jusme, dapat di nagsalita tatay ni carla he just made things worse. Hindi rin tinupad hiling ng anak to keep quiet, una ayaw nya magsalit pero eventually nauto ni fermin
ReplyDeleteSiguro kung mangaliwa ang mister ko, at independent woman ako meaning may pera at kaya kong buhayin sarili ko, same din gagawin ko. Iiwanan ko ang asawa ko. Nagawa nyang minsan, magagawa nya uli
ReplyDeleteKaya di naman pala nakakapagtaka why di nagkekwento sa tatay si carla. Ganyan naman pala mindset na okay lang ang cheating at ang ingay pa.
ReplyDeleteParang si Robin lang din pala to
ReplyDeleteHiwalayan mo na carla, marami nagsasabi dito hiwalayan mo.normal na yan hiwalayan, hindi k naman nagiisa sa mundo, atleast may pilipinas version na tayo mala kim kardashian with ex husband chris H.
ReplyDeletePano maaayos eh nagsalita kna? Pinangunahan mo na. Siniwalat mo na lahat, mas okay sana yun na wala pang may alam sa totoong rason. Grabe!
ReplyDeleteToxic ang dad ni Carla. Hayaan mo muna si Carla wag mo madaliin ang process. Whatever ang maging desisyon ni Carla tanggapin mo bilang tatay. Wag mo sabihin na normal na magbabae kasi pano kung gawin ulit ni Tom since ok ka naman pala mangbabae siya. The longer Carla stays mas magiging hard himiwalay. May chance pa siya maghanap kung gusto niya
ReplyDeleteAfter this humiliation from her own father, malabo nang magkaayos si TomCar. I don’t think Carla was planning to say anything at all para kung magkabalikan man, nobody would be the wiser how exactly Tom had disrespected her. But with this pasabog from her dad, wala na, Carla’s pride will stop her from taking Tom back kasi she’ll look desperate na tinanggap pa rin niya kahit alam ng lahat na she was cheated on.
ReplyDeleteHow dare you divulge your daughter’s business to the public lalo na you were told not to do it.
ReplyDeleteThanks daddy for sharing what you know. Lol 👁️👄👁️
ReplyDeleteWhy the hell would you even cheat on a woman like Carla? She is the type of woman who will not tolerate cheating. He should have known that once he decides to cheat, she will never forgive him na.
ReplyDeleteSusme! One night stand lang pala. Baka sa stag party ni Tom.
ReplyDeleteEmotional damage. He betrayed her trust. She should file for annulment.
ReplyDeleteAh, you are such a loudmouth (probably) in the name of promo for your upcoming project / role.
ReplyDeleteThis is the down side of being an artista..your personal life is being scrutinized by the public.
ReplyDeleteGrabe tong Tom na to. Ang tindi. Pero matindi rin yung babaeng pumatol knowing na may long time gf/fiance tong si lalaki. Marami talagang babae tinetake as challenge mang akit ng mga walang kwentang lalaki, noh?
ReplyDeletePra sabhn niyang ok lang yung one night stand eh mukhang gawain dn niya kasi kung hnd niya yan gngwa malamng nabugbog na yang si tom.. so unusual for a father na hnd protecthan ang anak
ReplyDeletekung di ito naging public, baka maayos pa ang marital problems nila pero naisapubliko na, mas maraming usisyero/usisyera at ang pressure on both sides especially from Carla matindi. Kaya sa tingin ko wala ng pag asa. There is grace in silence. Especially away mag asawa. Dapat kayo lang nakakaalam.
ReplyDeleteDahil ba to sa lock-in taping? Naku daming nasira na relasyon sa mga ganyan.
ReplyDeleteSana dina lang sya nagsalita🙄Yung anak nya nananahimik,nire-resolve yung issue nila mag-asawa in private..hay naku pinalala nyo lamg yung problem ng mag-asawa
ReplyDeleteNO to men saying this is normal. NO to excuses like tukso lang, lalaki ganyan talaga. NO to cliches like seven year itch o however many years’ itch.
ReplyDeleteReal women stand with Carla.
Carla: dad, wag muna ipagsabi sa iba.
ReplyDeleteDad: *grants interview*
Carla should leave both Tom and her father who has no respect for her privacy.
ReplyDeleteNaalala ko tuloy yung isang nag ispluk na naka one night stand niya si Tom. Naisip ko, kahit sino na lang papatulan pala nitong si Tom. Pero fan ako ni Carla kaya tinanggap ko sino gusto at mahal ng idol ko.😭
ReplyDeleteTHIS DAD!!! NAKAKALOCA!!!
ReplyDeletefeeling ko confused tatay ni Carla d malaman kung kausap nya si lolit or si cristy hahaha panay nanay or manay 😄😆😄
ReplyDeleteAyaw sabhn sau ng anak mo kc ang daldal mo daw dadeh.
ReplyDeleteRey PJ hindi ka maka angal kase gawa mo yan noon! Sana dika nalang nagsalita dahil ang sakit sa anak mo na marinig niyang “normal” para sa yo ang one night stand and you dont consider it cheating. Magsama sama kayo nila Robin!
ReplyDeletesa level ng ganda ni Carla nagawa pa ni Tom un. saddddd
ReplyDeletenakiusap daw si Carla to respect their privacy and to sttle things on their own, pero panay din naman ang post ng mga pa-intriga at cryptic messages sa soc med. na parang nagpapapansin.
ReplyDeleteAng daldal ng mamang ito puwede naman sabihin itanong na lang sa anak niya. I feel bad for Carla!
ReplyDeleteWas the one night stand before or after the wedding? It’s cheating no matter what but I wanna know. Lol.
ReplyDeleteAyan! ANG katotohanan! Ok tapos na pati relasyon nila lol.
ReplyDeleteWhen your dad is THE MARITESS. Aray.
ReplyDeleteAnd he did a Robin Padilla. Kaloka. 🙄
ReplyDeleteCristy tigilan mo na paninira ng buhay ng mga artista. You should have stopped and ended the interview when PJ said nakiusap si Carla to let them sort their problems out themselves. Nanghingi na nga ng privacy, pinush mo pa. Ibang klase ka talaga.
ReplyDeleteAng ingay ni PJ ha. anyway, dapat magstatement na ang management, at settle na ang TomCar sa kanilang issues. Hindi man magkabalikan, pwede isaayos na lang nilang ang mga bagay bagay. Maliit ang mundo, hanggang kelan sila mag-iiwasan
ReplyDeletefeeling ko napaka lame reveal na ito after all that pagpaparinig at away nila sa socmed na akala mo kung anong malaking naganap, he cheated wow shocking!! I dont tolerate cheating pero ang OA pa din talaga nung isa sana dinerecho na lang pinahaba pa nila parang mga pampamn
ReplyDeleteIt’s not his story to tell. Parang may agenda itong tatay na ito. Lagot sya lalo sa anak nya at di na sya malamang kakausapin. Baka meron pa sanang hope na magkabalikan, mas lalong di na yan matutuloy dahil nasira na reputation ni Tom. So if magreconcile sila ni Carla, sasabihin ng mga tao na martyr sya. Being someone with a strong personality, parang natapakan ang ego nya nun if she’ll reconcile with him after everything that happened. Sorry to the fans, I don’t think may balikan pang magaganap.
ReplyDeleteTotoo. It's up to her to decide but with her father's st*pid move, sobrang liit na ng chance mag reconcile.
DeleteHahahahaha, okay lang pala sa kanya ang cheater. Shameless and disgusting old man.
ReplyDeleteSera ulo pala to. One night stand is not a third party?
ReplyDeleteGrabe si tanda. A shameless fool.
ReplyDeletewhat Rey was trying to say is there was no emotional affair that happened according to Tom. But he still cheated on her needless to say. Na kay Carla na yan kung paano nya i-handle ito. Rey is the father so you cant blame him for blurting it out lalo na kung mismong anak nya di man lang sya nakausapbuti nga nilabas na nya yan para matigil na din ang speculations
ReplyDelete10:31 he may be the father, but it is not up to him to bulgar
DeleteShameless siya at walang respeto sa paki usap ni Carla na wag magsalita habang inaayos nila
DeleteIpa tulfo na yan para marinig natin buong story hahahahaha
ReplyDeleteEwww.... disgusting.
ReplyDeleteAng daldal naman ng tatay ni Carla! Walang respect sa anak nya! Not your story to tell man!
ReplyDeleteAng one night stand ay normal lang sa lalaki na may asawa. Normal.
ReplyDelete- Rey PJ Abellana
Wow kawawang Carla. Malas sa asawa. Malas sa tatay.
Hays mga itay, ba't naman kayo ganyan?! Naiintindihan nyo mga kabaro nyong nag cheat, pero hindi nyo iniintindi ang feelings nung babaeng naloko?! Most especially anak nyo ang na cheat, na betrayed?! Wow, ganyan pala sila... Kaya pala sinabing anak taga bayad ng kalokohan sa buhay ng tatay or both parents! Tsk!
ReplyDeleteHays mas kinampihan pa si tom kaysa sa sariling anak
ReplyDeleteNag ala Robin si popshie.
ReplyDeleteEw. Sariling tatay mo nag tolerate sa cheating ng asawa mo? Kadiri, nakakahiya
ReplyDeleteWala naman respeto to sa anak nya. Pinakiusapan na nga sya na hwag mag divulge ng kahit ano sa press tapos ginawa pa din. Masama dyan kinampihan pa yun kalokohan ng son in law publicly. If yun yung opinion nya Sana binigyan nya na lang ng kahihiyaan si Carla by shutting up. Tawag dito adding insult to injury. Pag ganito tatay di na din masisis yun anak kung ayaw na makipagusap.
ReplyDeleteNow you understand why Divorce is still not allowed here in the phils, the Old tradional Politicians mostly Men (with mistresses) dont approve it coz of this twisted thinking, cheating is normal for men kaya the Wife should just suck it up and continue being the traditional wife, despite husband have numerous mistresses. My father in law have the same thinking hes a cheater so his Son thinks the same, so now his son and I are seperated and no we are not reconciling ever. Most men here thinks cheating is normal so dont be surprised. ONly the women of course dont agree as I do. I hope in the future we can have divorce here .. praying
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