salamat sa 911 caller at nailigtas si girl. Sa akin naman emotional assault. Nagsisigaw ang partner ko kapag galit at ayaw na pansinin ang mga anak namin. Haay bat ba may mga sobrang immature na mga lalake
Me from the very beginning sabi ko sa bio dad ng anak don’t ever lay a finger on me and don’t cheat on me kung Ayaw Mong isauli kita sa ina. Well never he hurt me pero nambabae naman ayun Ora Mismo sinauli ko sa ina nya never nag sustento well it’s fine never n sya nakilala ng anak nya . my daughter was grade 2 then now tapos n ng college at nag work n sa global marketing company
8:07 hinay2x ka din magsalita. Baka dito lang naglabas ng sama ng loob si 6:58 pinagsermonan mo pa. Learn to be compassionate. If you have nothing nice to say, tumahimik ka!
8:07 I strongly agree with you! I grew up na yung mama ko laging sinasabi na "padre pamilya sya kaya dapat sya masusunod" kahit sobrang toxic na ng ginagawa ng papa ko. Lumaki akong ganun kaya ngayon konting di ko magustuhan sa jowa ko, sinasabi ko talaga kaagad. At dapat kaming dalawa magdedesisyon lagi.
8:07 hindi ka nakakatulong sa ganyang klaseng advice. Sa pamilyang pilipino lahat halos siguro mag eend sa broken family kapag ang pagiisip ng nanay ay ganyan.
8:07 that's the thing, isn't it. It's so much harder when you have kids to consider, but there should be unforgivables in any relationship. Boundaries - we need it in any relationship, not just romantic ones.
9:40 salamat naman at may mga kagaya mo pa. Yang si 8:07 siguro konting dagok lang sa buhay may-asawa eh aadvice ka na nyan na iwan na ang asawa mo. Kaloka
8:07 iyung palasigaw (pag galit) lang ang issue ko sa asawa ko, wala ng iba. Oo masakit iyung ginagawa niya pero mas maraming bagay ang 'magaganda' at hindi ko naisip hiwalayan ang asawa ko. Ako naman magpapayo sa iyo, sana magisip ka ng mas malalim kapag ikaw naman ang nasa ganitong sitwasyon. Baka nga mas malala pa ang naranasan ng nanay/kapatid/kaibigan mo kaysa sa akin pero still, hindi sila nakipaghiwalay, dahil hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon ay ito ang solusyon.
Madalas ang mga pagsubok sa buhay natin ay dumadaan lang, minsan nga lang mas matagal mawala. Pero kapag sumuko na lang agad-agad, paano mo mararanasan ang ginhawa?
Hindi ako agree na dapat hiwalayan na agad, iyung tatay ko madami din kasalanan (umiinom madalas, nagsusugal, ma barkada) pero tiniis lang namin lahat kahit ayaw magpapa pigil. At finally after ng ilang taon, nagbago din as in nawala na lahat ng bisyo niya. Mapagmahal at hard working siya maski noon na may bisyo pa siya. Mas lalo pang nag improve ngayon. So yes, hindi sa lahat ng sitwasyon ay hihiwalayan mo na lang. kasali sa buhay mag-asawa ang sakripisyo…matinding sakripisyo
1123 never would i understand kung bakit may mga babaeng nagtitiis sa panget na relation. na para bang mas okay na merong sira ulong tatay na nananakit sa nanay at anak nya kesa single mom na walang nananakit.
staying and exposing your kids to a toxic father isnt always the best.
9:40 PM tama ka but tama rin si 8:07. Minsan kasi kailangan din natin maging harsh and prangka dhil kung puro compassion lang tayo, hndi matututo ang tao and mas lalala ang sitwasyon nila. They would never stand for themselves. Kung baga, nagiging enabler ka lang for letting them to be abused.
Its better to stay away from toxic person than let your child/children to grow on that toxic environment. Kasi i am telling you, super lala ng trauma and epek nito sa bata. You just letting the toxic and abusive cycle continue.
108 part nman kasi yang panget na relasyon sa isang relasyon lalo na sa mag asawa kasi nga for better or for worse, etc. As long as hindi ka nman sinasaktan physically or nagcheat sayo. Jusko, kung sana lahat ng marriage perfect eh di wala na sanang maghihiwalay. Lol
1:08 tama. The kids will grow up thinking okay lang i treat ang partner nila ng ganyan since their mom tolerated it. This tolerance will just breed a new generation of abusers and emotionally stunted individuals. Jusko. Maybe try to talk to your partner that you don't like that kind of behavior and it sets a bad example to your kids.
Tama naman si 8:07 eh. Dapat don't allow the man to hurt you, physical, emotional, whatever. Once kasi inallow mo siya, magiging practice na niya yun dahil sabi nga ni 8:07 tinolerate ng babae. Pakiintindi namang mabuti ang sinabi ni 8:07. Wala siyang particular na pinagsabihan. Reminder niya nga na deserve ng tao kung anuman ang kanyang hinayaang gawin sa kanya, yun lang yun. Kaloka kayo. Basahin niyo kasing mabuti mga comments.
ako tahimik lang but the rare times na sigawan ng hubby ko dahil he doesn't like me asking him about something (may tinatago kasi siya lol), i yell back at him too. he doesn't lay a finger on me (subukan niya lang lol) so okay lang. maybe raising his voice is his way of destressing too. other times he makes up for whatever naman so forgivable na din.
Hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon e totoo yung pag kinanti ka kahit katiting e hiwalayan mo agad. Nagtiis din ako sa ex husband ko ng ilang taon na verbal at physical abuse. Sinusuntok nya ko sa tiyan at sa upper thigh, basta sa parts na hindi exposed kahit nakashorts. So one saw the marks kahit me pasa pasa ako. Tapos akala ng pamilya ko sobrang bait, kasi kahit saan sila makita nagmamano etc. Di nila alam halimaw. Pero nagtiis ako dahil during that time mahal ko at ayoko maging separada. Pero dumating din ako sa breaking point, napuno at nakipaghiwalay.
Walang masama sa hiwalayan kung nagkakasakitan na. Partners need space so they can work on themselves. They can still get back together kung ok na sila pareho. Kung mahal ka, babalikan ka. Kung mahal mo, hihintayin mo at hindi ipagpapalit sa iba.
Mga baks wlang perfect na marriage kasi kung meron man wla sanang maghihiwalay. As long as hindi ka nman jinujumbag ng asawa mo at hindi nagchecheat, ok na yan. Kubg sisigawan ka, eh di sigawan mo rin. Lol, ganun tlaga in marriage eh, you annoyed each other sometimes. Lol
Saludo talaga ako sa lahat ng babae na malakas ang loob mang iwan agad agad ng mga asawa nila isang pagkakamali pa lang. Pero di rin ako nag jjudge ng mga babaeng gsto mag stay. In marriage life, madaming mangyyari. Nasa inyo kung gusto nyo ayusin together or apart.
10:03 excuse me mas ok na makipaghiwalay ang babae kung sinasaktan at inaabuso na xa. Kaysa naman lumaki ang mga bata sa buo pero in a dysfunctional violent family! Eh ano ngayon kung madaming lalaki sa broken family? The fact that their father is abusive to their mother means their family IS ALREADY BROKEN anyway
Ah Friday ngayon, ibig sabihin d sya mkkpag post ng bail ng weekend. Maghimas ka muna ng rehas at magmuni muni sa mga ginawa mo boy. And remember, don't pick up the soap 😉
Dapat blacklisted na mga kagaya nyan sa industriya. Kaya malakas loob ng mga lalaki kasi they know they will always be favored over women lalo na sa showbiz.
Oh so influenced by alcohol si Kit. Girlaloo left the room probably so they can both cool off. She fell asleep in the hallway natakot siguro bumalik sa room. Then he brought her back and started assaulting her. According to police. Yikes.
Hindi nila talent yan. Cornerstone may hawak diyan parang Viva kanila Anne C, Sarah G, at Vice na may projects lang sa ABSCBN. Kukulit niyo eh Cornerstone lang naman ang nagrerelease ng statement
Sus mga nagsasabing hindi yan Abs talent kce bad publicity yan pero kung good publicity am pretty sure aangkinin ninyo at proud kayo na sa Abs yan 😂🤣 HYPOCRITES
Napaka walang hiya naman ng ginawa mo Kit sa babae. There are no justifiable reasons for anyone to hurt his / her partner. Ladies, choose your partner wisely. Hindi porke gwapo and everything, if you find a red flag during the early stage of the relationship, I hope you will have the courage to walk away and save yourself. I hope you recover well from the physical, emotional and psychological trauma Ms. Ana.
Sa lahat ng babae dito, if ever ypu notice red flags esp in the early stages of relationship- disengage agad. The earlier you take off, the fater you will heal. If they abuse ypu in whatever form- emotional, mental, physical, financial iwanan nyo agad. Some guys will even gaslight you and manipulate you and then you lose ypurself in the relationship.
Kahit anong mangyari, love yourself first. Para kapag nagkahiwalay kayo, you are still standing tall.
I grew up in a household of domestic abuse. My mum would emotionally and psychologically abuse us - calling us names, instilling in us fear, over the smallest of things, if she was having a bad day. Our dad beats us. He and my mom would always fight and he would slap her, and she would retort to him words that would hurt. In turn, fir the smallest of things, he would hurt me and my siblings. He would hang us from the second floor of the house and threaten to let go. He would punch us and hit us. In my case, he would hit my head so hard that all I can see is stars and darkness and I would pass out. I grew up like this, with our grandparents trying to save us, but we always end up with our parents when the weekend comes. I grew up in fear and tears as I watched my parents tear each other apart and pretend to the world that everything is ok. When I was 16 I got a scholarship for college and left, never looking back. If the BF or husband as well as the GF or mother get together in a toxic relationship, they forget to be parents, and the children become long-term victims. I sometimes go to school with a black eye and they know who did it. Since my parents come from a respectable clan who are church goers, no one was daring enough to help my siblings and me. We grew up in fear and today we still work through our many issues and insecurities. Kit reminds me of my father and Ana's face and fate reminds me of mine and my sister's on many occasions. To this day I wonder how we managed to live. There is no excuse for such violence.
4:38 thank you. We are still working on it and trying to understand. So I studied psychology to try and find out the reasons for their behavior and manage our ownn fears and the long term effects of child and domestic abuse. It is very difficult but we want to take back our lives. There is never any justifiable excuse to violence, especially towards helpless victims the perpetrator profess to love and protect.
I hope that this statement is not in defense of Kit. People may not be perfect pero never should we resort to violence. Halos patayin na ni Kit si Ana. May mga mistake na pwede mo forgive and let slide, pero yung mga ganitong case, pwede mag escalate and should not be tolerated. Dapat dyan ikulong.
Yan ang favorite bible verse ng mga tiga showbiz at ng mga politiko. Gasgas na gasgas na yan pero d nman isinasapuso. Show some remorse naman kahit papaano.
Mabuti nga sa iyo, mayabang ka.
ReplyDeleteGustong kong sumabog sa inis sayo kit sa magsabi ng masasamang… wordssss
DeleteNaging crush ko pa naman to. Never thought na kaya niyanh manakit ng babae. Tsk tsk. Sobrang red flag yung ganun.
DeleteGood at hinuli rin siya. Sampahan na rin sana ng kaso at litisin ng tama para ma bigyan ng hustisya yung babae.
DeleteKit na nananaKIT,bow. Goodbye career, hello bars. I'll make friends with you now bars until I learn domestic violence is not cool and against the law
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ReplyDeleteDasurv, u already earned a spot down there!!!!
ReplyDeleteButi nga sayo. You belong there.
ReplyDeleteHay naku, goodbye career!
ReplyDeleteSee you later… sapok!
ReplyDeletesalamat sa 911 caller at nailigtas si girl. Sa akin naman emotional assault. Nagsisigaw ang partner ko kapag galit at ayaw na pansinin ang mga anak namin. Haay bat ba may mga sobrang immature na mga lalake
ReplyDeleteRemember, you deserve what you tolerate. Sana magkaroon ka ng respeto sa sarili to finally walk away.
Delete08:07 you deserve what you tolerate?? why do you put the blame on the victim??!!!
DeleteAt 8:07pm
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anon 658, I was in your situation before. me at my new born. hay naku. pinalayas ko talaga siya nung sobra na.
DeleteMe from the very beginning sabi ko sa bio dad ng anak don’t ever lay a finger on me and don’t cheat on me kung Ayaw Mong isauli kita sa ina. Well never he hurt me pero nambabae naman ayun Ora Mismo sinauli ko sa ina nya never nag sustento well it’s fine never n sya nakilala ng anak nya . my daughter was grade 2 then now tapos n ng college at nag work n sa global marketing company
Delete8:07 hinay2x ka din magsalita. Baka dito lang naglabas ng sama ng loob si 6:58 pinagsermonan mo pa. Learn to be compassionate. If you have nothing nice to say, tumahimik ka!
Delete8:07 I strongly agree with you! I grew up na yung mama ko laging sinasabi na "padre pamilya sya kaya dapat sya masusunod" kahit sobrang toxic na ng ginagawa ng papa ko. Lumaki akong ganun kaya ngayon konting di ko magustuhan sa jowa ko, sinasabi ko talaga kaagad. At dapat kaming dalawa magdedesisyon lagi.
Delete8:07 hindi ka nakakatulong sa ganyang klaseng advice. Sa pamilyang pilipino lahat halos siguro mag eend sa broken family kapag ang pagiisip ng nanay ay ganyan.
Delete8:07 that's the thing, isn't it. It's so much harder when you have kids to consider, but there should be unforgivables in any relationship. Boundaries - we need it in any relationship, not just romantic ones.
Delete9:40 salamat naman at may mga kagaya mo pa. Yang si 8:07 siguro konting dagok lang sa buhay may-asawa eh aadvice ka na nyan na iwan na ang asawa mo. Kaloka
Delete8:07 kaloka ang you deserve what you tolerate parang walang kasalanan ang partner ni ate.
Delete8:07 huuy lahat ng mag asawa ay dadaan talaga sa mga pagsubok. Kung ganyan ka mag advice, am sure lahat na lang papayuhan mo maghiwalay
Delete8:07 iyung palasigaw (pag galit) lang ang issue ko sa asawa ko, wala ng iba. Oo masakit iyung ginagawa niya pero mas maraming bagay ang 'magaganda' at hindi ko naisip hiwalayan ang asawa ko. Ako naman magpapayo sa iyo, sana magisip ka ng mas malalim kapag ikaw naman ang nasa ganitong sitwasyon. Baka nga mas malala pa ang naranasan ng nanay/kapatid/kaibigan mo kaysa sa akin pero still, hindi sila nakipaghiwalay, dahil hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon ay ito ang solusyon.
DeleteMadalas ang mga pagsubok sa buhay natin ay dumadaan lang, minsan nga lang mas matagal mawala. Pero kapag sumuko na lang agad-agad, paano mo mararanasan ang ginhawa?
DeleteOmg how do I live with that kind of man so disrespectful
DeleteHindi ako agree na dapat hiwalayan na agad, iyung tatay ko madami din kasalanan (umiinom madalas, nagsusugal, ma barkada) pero tiniis lang namin lahat kahit ayaw magpapa pigil. At finally after ng ilang taon, nagbago din as in nawala na lahat ng bisyo niya. Mapagmahal at hard working siya maski noon na may bisyo pa siya. Mas lalo pang nag improve ngayon. So yes, hindi sa lahat ng sitwasyon ay hihiwalayan mo na lang. kasali sa buhay mag-asawa ang sakripisyo…matinding sakripisyo
Delete1123 never would i understand kung bakit may mga babaeng nagtitiis sa panget na relation. na para bang mas okay na merong sira ulong tatay na nananakit sa nanay at anak nya kesa single mom na walang nananakit.
Deletestaying and exposing your kids to a toxic father isnt always the best.
1:08 i don’t think sinasaktan siya physically. Try reading the comment again
Delete1:08 no relationship is perfect esp no man is perfect. Basta ba may toxic trait na, hiwalayan na?
Delete9:40 PM tama ka but tama rin si 8:07. Minsan kasi kailangan din natin maging harsh and prangka dhil kung puro compassion lang tayo, hndi matututo ang tao and mas lalala ang sitwasyon nila. They would never stand for themselves. Kung baga, nagiging enabler ka lang for letting them to be abused.
DeleteIts better to stay away from toxic person than let your child/children to grow on that toxic environment. Kasi i am telling you, super lala ng trauma and epek nito sa bata. You just letting the toxic and abusive cycle continue.
Delete108 part nman kasi yang panget na relasyon sa isang relasyon lalo na sa mag asawa kasi nga for better or for worse, etc. As long as hindi ka nman sinasaktan physically or nagcheat sayo. Jusko, kung sana lahat ng marriage perfect eh di wala na sanang maghihiwalay. Lol
Delete1:08 tama. The kids will grow up thinking okay lang i treat ang partner nila ng ganyan since their mom tolerated it. This tolerance will just breed a new generation of abusers and emotionally stunted individuals. Jusko. Maybe try to talk to your partner that you don't like that kind of behavior and it sets a bad example to your kids.
Delete1:22 you need to educate yourself abuse is in the form of physical, emotional, verbal and mental
DeleteTama naman si 8:07 eh. Dapat don't allow the man to hurt you, physical, emotional, whatever. Once kasi inallow mo siya, magiging practice na niya yun dahil sabi nga ni 8:07 tinolerate ng babae. Pakiintindi namang mabuti ang sinabi ni 8:07. Wala siyang particular na pinagsabihan. Reminder niya nga na deserve ng tao kung anuman ang kanyang hinayaang gawin sa kanya, yun lang yun. Kaloka kayo. Basahin niyo kasing mabuti mga comments.
Delete9:40 May God bless you and people like you.
Delete8:07 Ang insensitive mo naman. May mga circumstances na mahirap iwan ang asawa lalo na kung may mga anak sila. Victim blaming ka pa
Deleteako tahimik lang but the rare times na sigawan ng hubby ko dahil he doesn't like me asking him about something (may tinatago kasi siya lol), i yell back at him too. he doesn't lay a finger on me (subukan niya lang lol) so okay lang. maybe raising his voice is his way of destressing too. other times he makes up for whatever naman so forgivable na din.
Delete123 tama. no such thing as perfect. no one is.
DeleteHindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon e totoo yung pag kinanti ka kahit katiting e hiwalayan mo agad. Nagtiis din ako sa ex husband ko ng ilang taon na verbal at physical abuse. Sinusuntok nya ko sa tiyan at sa upper thigh, basta sa parts na hindi exposed kahit nakashorts. So one saw the marks kahit me pasa pasa ako. Tapos akala ng pamilya ko sobrang bait, kasi kahit saan sila makita nagmamano etc. Di nila alam halimaw. Pero nagtiis ako dahil during that time mahal ko at ayoko maging separada. Pero dumating din ako sa breaking point, napuno at nakipaghiwalay.
DeleteWalang masama sa hiwalayan kung nagkakasakitan na. Partners need space so they can work on themselves. They can still get back together kung ok na sila pareho. Kung mahal ka, babalikan ka. Kung mahal mo, hihintayin mo at hindi ipagpapalit sa iba.
DeleteMga baks wlang perfect na marriage kasi kung meron man wla sanang maghihiwalay. As long as hindi ka nman jinujumbag ng asawa mo at hindi nagchecheat, ok na yan. Kubg sisigawan ka, eh di sigawan mo rin. Lol, ganun tlaga in marriage eh, you annoyed each other sometimes. Lol
DeleteSaludo talaga ako sa lahat ng babae na malakas ang loob mang iwan agad agad ng mga asawa nila isang pagkakamali pa lang. Pero di rin ako nag jjudge ng mga babaeng gsto mag stay. In marriage life, madaming mangyyari. Nasa inyo kung gusto nyo ayusin together or apart.
Delete5:47 yan ang usual linyahan ng mga babaeng financially dependent sa asawa at walang confidence. Tiis tiis na lang for years.
Delete10:03 excuse me mas ok na makipaghiwalay ang babae kung sinasaktan at inaabuso na xa. Kaysa naman lumaki ang mga bata sa buo pero in a dysfunctional violent family! Eh ano ngayon kung madaming lalaki sa broken family? The fact that their father is abusive to their mother means their family IS ALREADY BROKEN anyway
DeleteMatindi tinding clean up ang kailangang gawin ng ABS at ng Cornerstone dito. Para nanaman ako manonood ng The Devil's Advocate movie nito. 🤡🍿
ReplyDeleteWhy blame the network or management? Yung Keith ang magdusa dyan. ABS could easily drop him. Sikat ba cya? He's not an asset but a liability.
DeleteKulong nyo yan. MapanaKIT!
ReplyDeleteAh Friday ngayon, ibig sabihin d sya mkkpag post ng bail ng weekend. Maghimas ka muna ng rehas at magmuni muni sa mga ginawa mo boy. And remember, don't pick up the soap 😉
ReplyDeleteYikes.
DeleteYikes. A pretty boy like him?
DeleteThe serve. Chares
ReplyDeleteGood riddance!🤬
ReplyDeleteCancel era
ReplyDeleteI think if the charge is assault (no matter the gender), and WILL be legally proven, then cancelling him is just… fair.
DeleteAy hindi ba ca cancel cancel..
DeleteTama. Corny mo 7:59 kung kumakampi ka kay Kit Thompson. Dapat lang i-cancel pag may ginawang krimen.
DeleteHe deserves it though... so, what's your point?
DeletePang mop lang sa floor good looks mo dyan koyah!
ReplyDeletePaangat na sana career nito pero lumabas din ang totoong kulay. Tsk tsk.
ReplyDeleteActually matagal na syang off. Wala din talent. So i wonder bakit sya sikat.
Delete10:29 he can act FYI susugal ba producers jan kung alam nila bano yan naka ilang movies na sya
DeleteTama. Maswerte na syang nagkaron pa ng projects. Daming nawalan work na artista. Tapos sya hindu nabakante kaso di inaalagaan. Hay goodluck.
DeleteDapat blacklisted na mga kagaya nyan sa industriya. Kaya malakas loob ng mga lalaki kasi they know they will always be favored over women lalo na sa showbiz.
ReplyDeleteMamaya lang makakapag-bail na yan tapos magueguest sa ang probinsyano lol
ReplyDeleteLol 😂
DeleteHAHAHA sa true lang! tingnan niyo next year wala na yang issue na yan back to work na si kuya mo
DeletePaano na ang online series nila ni Hipon?
DeleteSinayang mo mganda mong image. Sana hiniwalayan mo na lang. wag na wag mananakit kahit ano pa ginawa nya. Just walk away.
ReplyDeleteOh so influenced by alcohol si Kit. Girlaloo left the room probably so they can both cool off. She fell asleep in the hallway natakot siguro bumalik sa room. Then he brought her back and started assaulting her. According to police. Yikes.
ReplyDelete940 hindi lahat nang lasing nananakit
DeleteHindi valid reason ang pagkalasing
DeleteMapanaKIT Thompson!
ReplyDeleteNaku good luck sayo sa bilangguan pretty boy… you’ll surely learn your lesson.
ReplyDeleteKasuka kang starler ka. Paging abs cbn pls naman pagsabihan nyo mga talent nyo dahil nagkakalat.
ReplyDeleteHindi nila talent yan. Cornerstone may hawak diyan parang Viva kanila Anne C, Sarah G, at Vice na may projects lang sa ABSCBN. Kukulit niyo eh Cornerstone lang naman ang nagrerelease ng statement
DeleteSus mga nagsasabing hindi yan Abs talent kce bad publicity yan pero kung good publicity am pretty sure aangkinin ninyo at proud kayo na sa Abs yan 😂🤣 HYPOCRITES
DeleteWake up call mo na yan, magbago ka na.
ReplyDeleteAkala ko kung sinong mabait to noon at gentleman
ReplyDeleteWatch natin and the network will do nothing, instead he will be rewarded with more projects.
ReplyDeleteHe's a cornerstone talent FYI walang pake ang abs cbn sa kanya they can drop him easily
DeleteHe probably has anger management problem. He may also need help from professionals.
ReplyDelete12:54 may angre management problem po tlga sya. Apparent ito nung PBB pa.
DeleteI guess he was not taught by his mom not to lay his hands on women.
ReplyDeleteOn anyone
DeleteHe will be released soon. Abangan nyo.
ReplyDeleteMabulok ka dyan! Tigas ng muka nito mag artista. 🤮
ReplyDeleteNapaka walang hiya naman ng ginawa mo Kit sa babae. There are no justifiable reasons for anyone to hurt his / her partner. Ladies, choose your partner wisely. Hindi porke gwapo and everything, if you find a red flag during the early stage of the relationship, I hope you will have the courage to walk away and save yourself. I hope you recover well from the physical, emotional and psychological trauma Ms. Ana.
ReplyDeleteHe will likey do it again if he doesn't learn his lesson this time.
ReplyDeleteSikat ka na Kit.Sana sa kulungan nalang ang kasikatan mo.Sana wala ka nang showbiz career na babalikan.
ReplyDeleteSa lahat ng babae dito, if ever ypu notice red flags esp in the early stages of relationship- disengage agad. The earlier you take off, the fater you will heal. If they abuse ypu in whatever form- emotional, mental, physical, financial iwanan nyo agad. Some guys will even gaslight you and manipulate you and then you lose ypurself in the relationship.
ReplyDeleteKahit anong mangyari, love yourself first. Para kapag nagkahiwalay kayo, you are still standing tall.
Naku, that’s the end of his showbiz nonsense. He can go back to New Zealand na lang.
ReplyDeleteBye bye kit kit. There’s always work at the mall.
ReplyDeleteI grew up in a household of domestic abuse. My mum would emotionally and psychologically abuse us - calling us names, instilling in us fear, over the smallest of things, if she was having a bad day. Our dad beats us. He and my mom would always fight and he would slap her, and she would retort to him words that would hurt. In turn, fir the smallest of things, he would hurt me and my siblings. He would hang us from the second floor of the house and threaten to let go. He would punch us and hit us. In my case, he would hit my head so hard that all I can see is stars and darkness and I would pass out. I grew up like this, with our grandparents trying to save us, but we always end up with our parents when the weekend comes. I grew up in fear and tears as I watched my parents tear each other apart and pretend to the world that everything is ok. When I was 16 I got a scholarship for college and left, never looking back. If the BF or husband as well as the GF or mother get together in a toxic relationship, they forget to be parents, and the children become long-term victims. I sometimes go to school with a black eye and they know who did it. Since my parents come from a respectable clan who are church goers, no one was daring enough to help my siblings and me. We grew up in fear and today we still work through our many issues and insecurities. Kit reminds me of my father and Ana's face and fate reminds me of mine and my sister's on many occasions. To this day I wonder how we managed to live. There is no excuse for such violence.
ReplyDeleteHello. I hope you completely heal from your experience.
Delete4:38 thank you. We are still working on it and trying to understand. So I studied psychology to try and find out the reasons for their behavior and manage our ownn fears and the long term effects of child and domestic abuse. It is very difficult but we want to take back our lives. There is never any justifiable excuse to violence, especially towards helpless victims the perpetrator profess to love and protect.
DeleteHope you and your sisters get to heal someday baks. Your parents do not deserve to be parents, specially to smart women like you.
DeleteNobody's perfect. "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her."
ReplyDeleteselective ka sa sins?
DeleteI hope that this statement is not in defense of Kit. People may not be perfect pero never should we resort to violence. Halos patayin na ni Kit si Ana. May mga mistake na pwede mo forgive and let slide, pero yung mga ganitong case, pwede mag escalate and should not be tolerated. Dapat dyan ikulong.
DeleteNobody is but it doesnt mean there doesnt have to be justice. Atrocious acts like these should be condemned and not tolerated.
DeleteYan ang favorite bible verse ng mga tiga showbiz at ng mga politiko. Gasgas na gasgas na yan pero d nman isinasapuso. Show some remorse naman kahit papaano.
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