12:34 kaya nga mas gusto magsumbong ng mga tao sa social media and kay Tulfi dhil you can easily get your "justice". Regardless kung totoong victim ka or isang pavictim lang pala
I don’t know if you watched the whole thing, pero may part na sinabi niyang lumapit na siya sa kinauukulan. She’s just speaking out now to spread awareness, kasi she wasn’t warned that night kahit alam na pala nung mga tao sa paligid na shady person yung guy.
Uhm, it's obvious you didn't watch the video. She already filed a police report. She's already consulted a lawyer. She's trying to spread awareness in the meantime. Watch before you criticize.
5:28 FYI she came from a RICH family she knows what she's doing kaya nga walang name MUNA she can fight this battle! She's an event host at di masyado kilala but don't belittle her she's smart and rich! She can fight!
Thank you for posting this, Bianca. I wish you well as you move forward to healing from and overcoming your traumatic experience. I hope that guy would get his comeuppance soon.
I hope she finds the courage to name this person or to file charges or lawsuit against him, so she can get reparations and also get on to the path to healing.
bawal magbigay daw ng name sabi ng isang comment na atty. pwede sya idemanda back nung suspect hangang wala pa hatol sa korte. and yes nagdemanda na sya .
If you have a criminal lawsuit to file against this man who assaulted you, you should have filed a case accordingly.
Do not let social media do the justice you are needing as the online world is more toxic than you are expecting in my opinion. As you have posted, it seemed you have heard and perhaps searched for this Man's criminal background.
It is commending for coming out in the open and spreading the awareness takes a lot of courage as not all women can do the same.
10:16 PM - she's doing this precisely because she filed a case. She hopes that other victims will come out with this video and they can provide their own statements to strengthen her case against him and encourage them to file their own suits too.
Bakit sa soc med pa nag susumbong?? Kuha sympathy, awareness, and character assasination of the assailant if ever? I think better diretso sa law enforcement as IT SHOULD BE ng makasuhan na yan lalo if gawain niya.
You wouldn't understand the reason why she's doing this kasi wala ka sa position niya. All you can do is sympathize. Mahirap ba yon? Maraming pinagdadaanan ang isang taoong biktima ng ganitong kawalanghiyaan. Kaya wala tayo sa position to question her actions! Sana gets mo?
Yes, may mga ilan sa sexually assaulted victims na kayang magsumbong at lumantad kaagad. Pero karamihan sa kanila hirap talaga lumantad at magsumbong agad sa maraming kadahilanan na sila lang ang nakakaalam. Kaya wag sila husgahan or batuhin ng hindi magagandang salita kung hindi agad sila nagsalita. Kahit June 2021 pa yan nangyari, pwedeng-pwede pa kahusan yung tao. I believe 10 yrs ang statutory of limitation sa rape/sexual assault. Kumakalap pa siguro sya ng maraming ebidensya para ma-shoot at ma-seal na sa banga yung manyak na yun. Wishing you well, healing and justice, Bianca.
All of these comments could easily be answered if you bothered to watch the video. But instead you just ignorantly criticize. You don't think she's already reported it to the police? These things take years.
If this is true, why can't they just say his name outloud? Did she report it to the police? How and where did he do It? If it's in a party, it means there were people around them. Did they not even say anything?
May girl na recently na jombag nag pa-press con pa. San ka dun di ba? Wala na tayo dun sa gusto nilang gawin and how they choose to heal. Sila na nga biktima. High profile daw si Kuya at mukang nasa HK. So mahirap talaga ito when it goes to court. Drug related pa ang kaso ni kuya and yet he is out and about, obvious na he is really connected and protected by those may pera.
And their circle knows who this guy is and they let him get away with this! Kadiri! Kadiri to the max.
Go to the police to prevent this man from doing it to another woman. Social media doesn’t put the criminal in jail. If you’re only looking for sympathy go to your family, friends, and a trusted therapist. Social media is the wrong place for this serious offense.
did she ever file a case against this guy? If not, I am soooo confused why not and instead she preferred to cry in public. Para ano? Awarenes daw? eh mag file ka muna bago ko ma get ang logic nia.
Ang haba haba ng mga pinagsasabi di naman pinangalanan kung sino. Daming chenes chenes. Kung mag share ka ng ganyan might as well kumpletuhin mo na lahat details. Anong use nyang aware-awareness mong sinasabi kung hindi naman alam sino yan. Di sana sinolo mo na lang di mo ka na nag video pa ng ganyan.
I think if you're in her social circle, or at least the same socio-economic level, you might be able to figure this out because you'd know who's being described. Now if you don't get it, then maybe it's not for you because anyway, you wouldn't bump into the guy anyway. 🤷
8:37 - then she should have made that video private to be viewed only by people from her social circle. or put a disclaimer that this video is only for a certain socio-economic level, otherwise ignore.
12:07 - Yes because I'm sure this guy only attacks girls from his social circle or socio-economic level. You don't think you've learned anything from this video even though its obvious you aren't from her crowd?
And it's also obvious none of you have ever filed a court case before. You think it's like in the movies where you file and then next day you're in court? Coming out with the name prior to this can be sued for defamation/libel. Meanwhile this predator is still out there attacking girls.
Kase may nakasampa na na kaso mga demanding na teh. Pag pinangalanan nya, sya naman ang pwede mademanda.
Ang awareness ba kailangan sa specific na tao lang kaya dapat pangalanan? Hindi ba pwedeng kung nadinig mo ang kwento nya e di magiging conscious ka na at maiisip mong pwede din mangyari sayo not necessarily involving the same person? GETS?
4:25 ate masyadong condescending ang tono mo, porket hindi mayaman hindi pwede magtanong at malaman kung sino? bakit mo naman nasabi hindi belong si 1207 sa alta de ciudad? how sure are you that he preys only from his social circle? close kayo? alta ka rin ba? ba't ka nandito?
eh dapat naman talaga na hindi masyadong too trusting sa tao, never let your guard down.
WAIT lang mga ka fp nag file na sya mg police report at just waiting pa sa mga lalabas na victims para isahan na lang Ok? don't y'all worry she's from a rich family she can fight
To everyone asking why she didnt file a case, it's because it's not that simple. When you go through the legal process, you expose yourself to judgement (eg mala-pokpok siguro suot mo noon, malandi ka kasi, hindi ka na virgin sino pa magkakagusto sayo, etc) and the horror of having to relive the trauma in court (like sa cross examination). In her case, man is very rich and powerful--it's practically a lost cause already. She cant also name him because it'll have consequences. It's also pointless to file a case at this point, wala ng makukuhang evidence kung nagpamedico-legal siya. You cant blame her also for not filing a case agad because hello, nakakatrauma ang nangyari. Pag namatayan ka ng minamahal diba hindi mo naaasikaso lahat kaagad? Parang ganun din yun.
Let's be kinder to women. She said her piece to warn girls of this pig, upon finding out that she is not the only victim. Seeing the comments here is really sad--society truly is complicit. Siya na nga naharrass, inaaccuse pa siyang papapansin??
True. Ang dami ngang ganyan here na obvious nman na kampi sa guy kaya nagsasabi na sana wag na sa socmed. 🙄 Everyone is in socmed nowadays at ang dami ng cases na nakatulong ng malaki ang socmed tlaga. For sure magpafile yan ng kaso but isipin nyo nlang ang trauma nyan na pinagdadaanan lalo nasa court na. Dapat dun tayo sa mga abusado at masasamang tao magalit. Biktima na nga, pinapababa pa ang moral.
Teh haba ng sinulat no pero asa video naman na nag file na sya ng kaso. Wala naman epek warning nya di binigay yun name or picture nung nag assault sa kanya.
Yep, 12:55. Very true ka dyan gurl. Sad but thats the reality of world. Perverts always save while the victims always blaming for being attack. Hndi ko nman sinasabi na lahat ng victim ay victim tlga huh. Kasi some ay pavictim lng. But then again, ang sakit lng n just because ikaw ay babae or mahirap or both, lagi ka hahanapan ng reason why you been attack/harrass.
To those saying file a case/go to the police/ bakit ka sa social media nagsusumbong, PANOORIN NIYO KASI, hindi yung nagcomment lang kayo basta. She did say she's honoring other victims by coming out and by filing a case. She's warning others not to fall prey. And she's encouraging victims to not let those incident eat them up. Mga kagaya niyong puro dakdak ang reason bakit madaming hindi nagsasalita at natatakot.
As a victim myself na nanahimik, I find solace and power sa sinabi niya. Nakakaencourage magpush forward. Kaya nakakainis/ nakakagigil makabasa ng backwards thinking ng iba dito. Hindi black and white ang life. Hindi ganon kadali magfile ng case or magsumbong. After the incident—pagod ka, magulo isip, natatakot. Hindi niyo kasi alam gano kahirap magsalita lalo na if ang tingin sa sarili nung biktima ang liit liit niya and ang powerful nung predator. O kaya by speaking makakasakit ka ng pamilya o kaibigan o masisira trabaho.
Kaya sa mga b*b*ng nagvivictim blame na nagsasabing file a case, bakit di ka sa police magsumbong, bakit ka sa social media nagsasalita, nagpapresscon pa—isipin niyo kung mangyari sainyo yan kayanin niyo kaya na gawin yung sinasabi niyo. And isipin niyo rin if tama ba sinasabi niyo baka kasi may katabi kayong nananahimik at mas lalo pang mananahimik kasi wala silang support system na nakukuha from you at natatakot na baka ijudge niyo lang sila.
Sorry super triggered ako sa comments kasi yan exactly ang rason bakit di pa rin ako makapagsalita. Mga judgemental, mga puro dakdak wala namang alam. Inuuna magsalita ng walang kwenta kesa isipin yung nararamdaman ng biktima. Mga mema!!! -from a Marites na may pinaglalaban
File a police report or take it to the courts or it didn't happen :) :D :D Sorry, but pinas have laws against these things and the guilty should be prosecuted :) :) :) Saying it on social media will not help you a bit :D :D :D It will only make your situation worse :) :)
Wow so much smiley faces. You seem to find satisfaction at women/people being assaulted and criminals getting away with it. Sorry ka na lang she has the financial means to fight this and she has gone to the polive and filed a case. Watch your predator idol burn!!
Yes because we all know how efficient and just the system can be. And I'm sure without even having to name him, his friends and colleagues know exactly who it is and are abandoning him left and right. Good luck trying to come back from this.
Nakakaawa. Obviously wala na siyang choice but to resort to social media dahil sa bagal at unfair ng batas natin lalo na babae ang victim. I hope makuha niya ang justice that she deserves. Walang babae dapat ang inaabuso at pinagsasamantalahan. Pray hard and believe in karma,girl.
True. Yung ibang Marites parang kulang sa bitamina at hindi alam gaano kabagal, kaunfair at kawalang hustisya sa atin. Kaya maski sa socmed, if makatulong then go!
Bakit hindi na lang pangalanan ng diretso? Pag ganyan kasi kung anu-anong speculation ng mga tao. Turo dito, turo diyan.. si ganito, si ganyan.. pati yung inosente madadamay lang sa trial by publicity
Sa pinas ka ba nakatira talaga? Pag hindi ka nagingay wala mangyayari sa kaso mo. Alam naman nv lahat yan. Sa bagal ng kaso dito at pagmalakas pa kalaban mo wala na talaga mangyayari. Katulad ng kay bree. Napatay na nabasura pa kaso. Alam lang nila mag red tag.
AWARENESS nga e. Para maisip mo na pwedeng mangyari sayo, not necessarily from the same person, pero pwedeng ang mga taong kilala mo, nakapaligid sa yo ang gumawa sayo ng parehong ginawa sa kanya.
I hope you are reading this. you have taken the first step towards healing. But it is important to take the second step too. Pls file a case, kahit pangit ang justice system dito sa Pilipinas. Just go for it, present those devils in court.
I hope women do not resort to ''no regrets'' or ''i'm okay na, im healing'' even if those devils were not presented for judgement. BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY LIKE, IT MAKES THEM FEEL SATISFIED. Hindi lang sexual attack ang pakay niyan, they want to see you reduced in guilt feeling and replaying in your whole psyche what happened and just be okay with it as time goes by, this is deceitful and will create more victims.
They attack because they ''assume'' that victims will be victims everyday in their lives.
It's okay to come out with a video and heal. But this is not the end solution. Pls fight, name them, let us know who they are and see their faces.
Because if these victims don't fight (and they will be okay with putting things to silence) then you might just be one those other people in the event that ''knows'' and yet did nothing.
Kung yung mga missing because of e-sabong is crying for justice. Then pls find strength to do the same. Regardless of outcomes.
mare, nagfile na ng case. she's onto legal proceedings already kaya nga ndi nia mabanggit un name kasi ongoing na un case pede sia makasuhan ng libel if she happen to mention a name. i appreciate your letter pero mas maganda kun pinanood mo baka may nakuha ka na clue. but all is good.
Kaya nakakatakot magsumbong ng sexual assault eh, palaging yung victim ang may mali. Na hindi pinangalanan, hindi nagsampa ng kaso... Grabe eh. Ang daming judgment.
You guys will never know how it feels until you're in the same position.
So many of the comments here are blaming the victim. Mga katulad ninyong mga enablers ang isa sa mga dahilan kung bakit napeperpetuate ang rape culture dito sa bansa natin. Pray that no one in your family goes through what these victims go through.
Ito yung unfair eh, yung victim kilala natin and they will forever have that stigma na namolestya or na-rape and worst, sila pa ang sisisihin sa sinapit nila. But the perpetrator will always be faceless and nameless. I'm really hoping that they get proper justice by bringing it to the court para malaman ng tao kung sino yang mga lowlife na yan whether they win the case or not.
so unfortunate that she was harasssed by this man all night kahit panay iwas na nya til eventually got sexually assaulted. very painful experience, i was sooo mad at this pig na kapal ng mukha na takutin pa sya. sa dami ng tao sa event, this could have been avoided if someone just stepped up and helped her. kawawa talaga ang victim tapos kapal pa ng iba dito magcomment na sana kasuhan or sana magsumbong. omg you have no idea the hell this girl went through or ano nang steps ginawa nya. she looks really desperate for help but the man seemed really powerful. tsk!
Name name name. That's all you guys care about. Don't you think she would say it already if she could? The legal process can take months/years. All while this girl is reliving the memories every day and this creep is out there violating more girls. Imagine if you or your gf was her just for one second and show some damn sympathy.
Im friends with the guy. Sure dismiss yun case baka kaya nag post sa soc med. if you reveal the identity whether true or not that is cyber libel. She cant reveal
It's so sad and pathetic that many of you are blaming her for speaking out. So she's attacked, get's blamed for being attacked, and now blamed again for not giving enough details in her video? Because I'm sure her goal in life was to go through something like this and be victim shamed by everyone. You don't think she's scared for her life right now?
what kind of people a) invite a known sexual predator to a private party and b) don't make sure to warn all of the girls he is talking to of his history? it's almost like they wanted this to happen to her???
Ito na kaya ang turning point para finally makulong na itong lalaking ito. Sa mga nagsasabi na ireveal ang pangalan, maghintay pa kayo and everything will eventually make sense kung bakit hindi minemention ang pangalan niya. I think everybody will get an aha moment when sh*t hits the fan.
Kaya ang daming nabibiktima dahil ang titigas ng ulo ng iba lalo na mga nagcooment sa taas. Bianca came out to spread awareness. Na pwedeng mangyari sa kahit sino sa atin. Hindi ibig sabihin gagawin sa atin nung taong gumawa sa kanya (dahil oo, hindi naman tayo parepareho ng ginagalawan na circle), pero pwedeng gawin din sa atin ng mga tao sa circle natin --- katrabaho, kaibigan, kakilala ng kakilala. Ganon.
Lahat tayo pwedeng maging biktima sa mga circusmtances at tao na hindi natin aakalain. YUN ANG POINT.
At kung nangyari sa atin, sana magkalakas tayo ng loob lumaban.
IF those people at the party knew about the attackers past behavior and still stood by and kept quiet, then I hope one day this happens to you or your wife/girlfriend/daughter. Then you will understand the pain she is going through. Being abandoned and betrayed. Did they secretly want this to happen to her? They are all accomplices to this crime.
was it in the same venue where the party is happening? was she convinced to get into a private room? why did she give her trust when in fact she said she was not interested in that person whenever he approach her? was she drugged? why didn’t she yell for help?
we do not know what was the exact scenario when the assault occurred.
Uhm, girl...sue him maybe?
ReplyDeleteRight? Inuna pa magpost kesa mag habla
DeleteMinsan, people need to resort to this lalo na pag madaming pera yung may sala. Ang pangit ng justice system dito e
DeleteTagal na din. June 2021.
DeleteSo basically mag-ingat muna mga kababaihan sa mga mukhang cuddly teddy bear so mukhang Panda ito.
Delete8:52 she reported it and will sue. don’t judge so easily. being a victim of assault is not easy
Delete12:34 kaya nga mas gusto magsumbong ng mga tao sa social media and kay Tulfi dhil you can easily get your "justice". Regardless kung totoong victim ka or isang pavictim lang pala
DeleteJust in case di niyo alam, you need money to sue
DeleteI don’t know if you watched the whole thing, pero may part na sinabi niyang lumapit na siya sa kinauukulan. She’s just speaking out now to spread awareness, kasi she wasn’t warned that night kahit alam na pala nung mga tao sa paligid na shady person yung guy.
DeleteUhm, it's obvious you didn't watch the video. She already filed a police report. She's already consulted a lawyer.
DeleteShe's trying to spread awareness in the meantime. Watch before you criticize.
8:52 at 12:33 inuna nyo pa kasi pagkachismosa nyo via comment kesa panuorin ung video. Nagfile na sya.
Delete5:28 gurl soo you know her? Bianca Valeria is an old rich
DeleteOld rich 12:54? Like the zobel ayala araneta lopez?!
Delete5:28 FYI she came from a RICH family she knows what she's doing kaya nga walang name MUNA she can fight this battle!
DeleteShe's an event host at di masyado kilala but don't belittle her she's smart and rich! She can fight!
209 bakit, kilala mo lahat ng old rich sa Pinas bukod pa dyan sa namention mo? Gosh!🙄
Deletekung sino man yan dapat syang mahuli at makulong, about time to speak up! madami na pala syang naging biktima
ReplyDeleteThank you for posting this, Bianca. I wish you well as you move forward to healing from and overcoming your traumatic experience. I hope that guy would get his comeuppance soon.
ReplyDeleteSino kaya? Clue naman mga classmates
ReplyDeleteI hope she finds the courage to name this person or to file charges or lawsuit against him, so she can get reparations and also get on to the path to healing.
ReplyDeleteShe's doing that she's finding more victims pa, she's from a rich family
Deletebawal magbigay daw ng name sabi ng isang comment na atty. pwede sya idemanda back nung suspect hangang wala pa hatol sa korte. and yes nagdemanda na sya .
DeleteHala. Strikes again si * ? Manyak. Dapat masakote na yan?
ReplyDeleteSpill sino
DeleteSino pa nga ba search nyo ung controversial last 2014
DeleteWho is geography101
ReplyDeleteDa who did cuddly bear
ReplyDeleteIf you have a criminal lawsuit to file against this man who assaulted you, you should have filed a case accordingly.
ReplyDeleteDo not let social media do the justice you are needing as the online world is more toxic than you are expecting in my opinion. As you have posted, it seemed you have heard and perhaps searched for this Man's criminal background.
It is commending for coming out in the open and spreading the awareness takes a lot of courage as not all women can do the same.
she did file a case. sana pinanood mo before commenting all that
Delete10:16 PM - she's doing this precisely because she filed a case. She hopes that other victims will come out with this video and they can provide their own statements to strengthen her case against him and encourage them to file their own suits too.
DeleteAte before you comment, panoorin mo muna ung video. Dami mo pang sinabi, pahiya ka ngayon
Deleteda who itetch? blind item pa?
ReplyDeleteBakit sa soc med pa nag susumbong?? Kuha sympathy, awareness, and character assasination of the assailant if ever? I think better diretso sa law enforcement as IT SHOULD BE ng makasuhan na yan lalo if gawain niya.
ReplyDeleteYou wouldn't understand the reason why she's doing this kasi wala ka sa position niya. All you can do is sympathize. Mahirap ba yon? Maraming pinagdadaanan ang isang taoong biktima ng ganitong kawalanghiyaan. Kaya wala tayo sa position to question her actions! Sana gets mo?
Deleteshe reported to police and sought legal action. how dare you
Deletedada kasi ng dada
Yes, may mga ilan sa sexually assaulted victims na kayang magsumbong at lumantad kaagad. Pero karamihan sa kanila hirap talaga lumantad at magsumbong agad sa maraming kadahilanan na sila lang ang nakakaalam. Kaya wag sila husgahan or batuhin ng hindi magagandang salita kung hindi agad sila nagsalita. Kahit June 2021 pa yan nangyari, pwedeng-pwede pa kahusan yung tao. I believe 10 yrs ang statutory of limitation sa rape/sexual assault. Kumakalap pa siguro sya ng maraming ebidensya para ma-shoot at ma-seal na sa banga yung manyak na yun. Wishing you well, healing and justice, Bianca.
Delete10:32 I hope you will never be forced to be in someone like Bianca's shoes para lang maintindihan mo ang ginawa niya.
DeleteAll of these comments could easily be answered if you bothered to watch the video. But instead you just ignorantly criticize. You don't think she's already reported it to the police? These things take years.
DeleteWish the guy’s name was written in the comment. Hope you would overcome this Bianca
ReplyDeleteGoogle the clues
DeleteGruesome Act
DeletePangalanan mo na!
ReplyDeleteSinetch ang manyakis mga Klasmeyts? Sino si PR?
ReplyDeleteIf this is true, why can't they just say his name outloud? Did she report it to the police? How and where did he do It? If it's in a party, it means there were people around them. Did they not even say anything?
ReplyDeleteAll of this is answered if you bother to watch the video.
DeleteAng haba ng blind item.
ReplyDeleteClassmates kindly post sino yung teddy bear. I cannot finish very long eh. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteSame here!
DeleteWala hindi sinabi.
DeleteSue the guy
ReplyDeletedahu?
ReplyDeletesino yung nag assault sa kanya?
ReplyDeleteMay girl na recently na jombag nag pa-press con pa. San ka dun di ba? Wala na tayo dun sa gusto nilang gawin and how they choose to heal. Sila na nga biktima. High profile daw si Kuya at mukang nasa HK. So mahirap talaga ito when it goes to court. Drug related pa ang kaso ni kuya and yet he is out and about, obvious na he is really connected and protected by those may pera.
ReplyDeleteAnd their circle knows who this guy is and they let him get away with this! Kadiri! Kadiri to the max.
Everyone saying that she should file a case, sana po pinanood niyo yung video because she clearly said that she already reported it to the police.
ReplyDeleteGo to the police to prevent this man from doing it to another woman. Social media doesn’t put the criminal in jail. If you’re only looking for sympathy go to your family, friends, and a trusted therapist. Social media is the wrong place for this serious offense.
ReplyDeleteSympathy or creating awareness? Hay mga tao ngayon, bakit ganyan ka magisip?
Delete12:21 how will women be aware of him when women don’t even know his name?
DeleteTumpak!
DeleteMarch is international women's month kaya naisip nya mag post awareness para sa women
DeleteObviously the right people know just from her description of him. He's infamous.
Deletewatch the video before you post useless comments like this. Or don't watch and just don't comment.
DeleteKasuhan mo na
ReplyDeleteOMG watch the video. May kaso na nga.
Deleteshe wants to warn other potential victims but she didn't name the perpetrator. how does that work?
ReplyDeleteExactly the same thot!
Deletetheir circle know who he is.
DeletePeople who were at the same party will know who she is talking about. Wordwill get to the other victims
Deletedid she ever file a case against this guy? If not, I am soooo confused why not and instead she preferred to cry in public. Para ano? Awarenes daw? eh mag file ka muna bago ko ma get ang logic nia.
ReplyDeleteDid you even watch the video before commenting?
DeleteManood ka ng video bago tumalak.
DeleteNagfile na. So nagets mo na ba ang logic nya?
DeleteAng haba haba ng mga pinagsasabi di naman pinangalanan kung sino. Daming chenes chenes. Kung mag share ka ng ganyan might as well kumpletuhin mo na lahat details. Anong use nyang aware-awareness mong sinasabi kung hindi naman alam sino yan. Di sana sinolo mo na lang di mo ka na nag video pa ng ganyan.
ReplyDeleteI think if you're in her social circle, or at least the same socio-economic level, you might be able to figure this out because you'd know who's being described. Now if you don't get it, then maybe it's not for you because anyway, you wouldn't bump into the guy anyway. 🤷
Delete8:37 - then she should have made that video private to be viewed only by people from her social circle. or put a disclaimer that this video is only for a certain socio-economic level, otherwise ignore.
Delete12:07 - Yes because I'm sure this guy only attacks girls from his social circle or socio-economic level. You don't think you've learned anything from this video even though its obvious you aren't from her crowd?
DeleteAnd it's also obvious none of you have ever filed a court case before. You think it's like in the movies where you file and then next day you're in court? Coming out with the name prior to this can be sued for defamation/libel.
DeleteMeanwhile this predator is still out there attacking girls.
Kase may nakasampa na na kaso mga demanding na teh. Pag pinangalanan nya, sya naman ang pwede mademanda.
DeleteAng awareness ba kailangan sa specific na tao lang kaya dapat pangalanan? Hindi ba pwedeng kung nadinig mo ang kwento nya e di magiging conscious ka na at maiisip mong pwede din mangyari sayo not necessarily involving the same person? GETS?
4:25 ate masyadong condescending ang tono mo, porket hindi mayaman hindi pwede magtanong at malaman kung sino? bakit mo naman nasabi hindi belong si 1207 sa alta de ciudad? how sure are you that he preys only from his social circle? close kayo? alta ka rin ba? ba't ka nandito?
Deleteeh dapat naman talaga na hindi masyadong too trusting sa tao, never let your guard down.
WAIT lang mga ka fp nag file na sya mg police report at just waiting pa sa mga lalabas na victims para isahan na lang Ok? don't y'all worry she's from a rich family she can fight
ReplyDeleteKaya nga!! Try nio muna kasi iresearch background n Ms. Bianca bago kayo kumada!!
DeleteTo everyone asking why she didnt file a case, it's because it's not that simple. When you go through the legal process, you expose yourself to judgement (eg mala-pokpok siguro suot mo noon, malandi ka kasi, hindi ka na virgin sino pa magkakagusto sayo, etc) and the horror of having to relive the trauma in court (like sa cross examination). In her case, man is very rich and powerful--it's practically a lost cause already. She cant also name him because it'll have consequences. It's also pointless to file a case at this point, wala ng makukuhang evidence kung nagpamedico-legal siya. You cant blame her also for not filing a case agad because hello, nakakatrauma ang nangyari. Pag namatayan ka ng minamahal diba hindi mo naaasikaso lahat kaagad? Parang ganun din yun.
ReplyDeleteLet's be kinder to women. She said her piece to warn girls of this pig, upon finding out that she is not the only victim. Seeing the comments here is really sad--society truly is complicit. Siya na nga naharrass, inaaccuse pa siyang papapansin??
True. Ang dami ngang ganyan here na obvious nman na kampi sa guy kaya nagsasabi na sana wag na sa socmed. 🙄 Everyone is in socmed nowadays at ang dami ng cases na nakatulong ng malaki ang socmed tlaga. For sure magpafile yan ng kaso but isipin nyo nlang ang trauma nyan na pinagdadaanan lalo nasa court na. Dapat dun tayo sa mga abusado at masasamang tao magalit. Biktima na nga, pinapababa pa ang moral.
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DeleteTeh haba ng sinulat no pero asa video naman na nag file na sya ng kaso.
DeleteWala naman epek warning nya di binigay yun name or picture nung nag assault sa kanya.
But she didn’t mention the pig’s name though so she’s not really warning other girls. She’s just doing a blind item ala fashionpulis.
DeleteThank you so much. Ganito tayo dapat. Marites pero empathetic and marunong magisip. Kudos to you!! ❤️
DeleteYep, 12:55. Very true ka dyan gurl. Sad but thats the reality of world. Perverts always save while the victims always blaming for being attack. Hndi ko nman sinasabi na lahat ng victim ay victim tlga huh. Kasi some ay pavictim lng. But then again, ang sakit lng n just because ikaw ay babae or mahirap or both, lagi ka hahanapan ng reason why you been attack/harrass.
DeleteTo those saying file a case/go to the police/ bakit ka sa social media nagsusumbong, PANOORIN NIYO KASI, hindi yung nagcomment lang kayo basta. She did say she's honoring other victims by coming out and by filing a case. She's warning others not to fall prey. And she's encouraging victims to not let those incident eat them up.
ReplyDeleteMga kagaya niyong puro dakdak ang reason bakit madaming hindi nagsasalita at natatakot.
As a victim myself na nanahimik, I find solace and power sa sinabi niya. Nakakaencourage magpush forward. Kaya nakakainis/ nakakagigil makabasa ng backwards thinking ng iba dito. Hindi black and white ang life. Hindi ganon kadali magfile ng case or magsumbong. After the incident—pagod ka, magulo isip, natatakot. Hindi niyo kasi alam gano kahirap magsalita lalo na if ang tingin sa sarili nung biktima ang liit liit niya and ang powerful nung predator. O kaya by speaking makakasakit ka ng pamilya o kaibigan o masisira trabaho.
Kaya sa mga b*b*ng nagvivictim blame na nagsasabing file a case, bakit di ka sa police magsumbong, bakit ka sa social media nagsasalita, nagpapresscon pa—isipin niyo kung mangyari sainyo yan kayanin niyo kaya na gawin yung sinasabi niyo. And isipin niyo rin if tama ba sinasabi niyo baka kasi may katabi kayong nananahimik at mas lalo pang mananahimik kasi wala silang support system na nakukuha from you at natatakot na baka ijudge niyo lang sila.
Sorry super triggered ako sa comments kasi yan exactly ang rason bakit di pa rin ako makapagsalita. Mga judgemental, mga puro dakdak wala namang alam. Inuuna magsalita ng walang kwenta kesa isipin yung nararamdaman ng biktima. Mga mema!!! -from a Marites na may pinaglalaban
sorry this happened to you girl. i hope in time you find peace.
DeleteFile a police report or take it to the courts or it didn't happen :) :D :D Sorry, but pinas have laws against these things and the guilty should be prosecuted :) :) :) Saying it on social media will not help you a bit :D :D :D It will only make your situation worse :) :)
ReplyDeleteShe did all that you are "suggesting", or did you not understand the video?
DeleteKnow it all
Not surprised you'd say this. You're the exact person who would do this to a woman that was assaulted
DeleteDisgusting person
DeleteWow so much smiley faces. You seem to find satisfaction at women/people being assaulted and criminals getting away with it. Sorry ka na lang she has the financial means to fight this and she has gone to the polive and filed a case. Watch your predator idol burn!!
DeleteYes because we all know how efficient and just the system can be. And I'm sure without even having to name him, his friends and colleagues know exactly who it is and are abandoning him left and right. Good luck trying to come back from this.
DeleteNakakaawa. Obviously wala na siyang choice but to resort to social media dahil sa bagal at unfair ng batas natin lalo na babae ang victim. I hope makuha niya ang justice that she deserves. Walang babae dapat ang inaabuso at pinagsasamantalahan. Pray hard and believe in karma,girl.
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DeleteTrue. Yung ibang Marites parang kulang sa bitamina at hindi alam gaano kabagal, kaunfair at kawalang hustisya sa atin. Kaya maski sa socmed, if makatulong then go!
DeleteMukhang di naman natapos ng iba dito yung video. Ang dali lang mag comment. Pero if kayo yung nasa lugar nya. Hindi yan madali for sure.
ReplyDeleteHindi mapangalanan baka makasuhan ng libel. Haaaay kayo talaga! nag file na daw siya ng report sa police
ReplyDeleteBakit hindi na lang pangalanan ng diretso? Pag ganyan kasi kung anu-anong speculation ng mga tao. Turo dito, turo diyan.. si ganito, si ganyan.. pati yung inosente madadamay lang sa trial by publicity
ReplyDeleteSa pinas ka ba nakatira talaga? Pag hindi ka nagingay wala mangyayari sa kaso mo. Alam naman nv lahat yan. Sa bagal ng kaso dito at pagmalakas pa kalaban mo wala na talaga mangyayari. Katulad ng kay bree. Napatay na nabasura pa kaso. Alam lang nila mag red tag.
DeleteKasi pwede siya idemanda habang wala pang proof. Use your brain. Nag aral ka naman diba?
DeleteI feel for her but it she hasn't helped anyone by keeping him anonymous.
ReplyDeleteAWARENESS nga e. Para maisip mo na pwedeng mangyari sayo, not necessarily from the same person, pero pwedeng ang mga taong kilala mo, nakapaligid sa yo ang gumawa sayo ng parehong ginawa sa kanya.
DeleteI pray for justice for this woman! Sana mahuli na yung guy at makulong ng wala ng ma biktima. 🙏
ReplyDeleteShe didnt mention the name because she can be sued for libel. Baka mas mapahamak pa siya. She already filed a police report, it's a good step.
ReplyDeleteDear Ms Bianca and all women/girls,
ReplyDeleteI hope you are reading this. you have taken the first step towards healing. But it is important to take the second step too. Pls file a case, kahit pangit ang justice system dito sa Pilipinas. Just go for it, present those devils in court.
I hope women do not resort to ''no regrets'' or ''i'm okay na, im healing'' even if those devils were not presented for judgement. BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY LIKE, IT MAKES THEM FEEL SATISFIED. Hindi lang sexual attack ang pakay niyan, they want to see you reduced in guilt feeling and replaying in your whole psyche what happened and just be okay with it as time goes by, this is deceitful and will create more victims.
They attack because they ''assume'' that victims will be victims everyday in their lives.
It's okay to come out with a video and heal. But this is not the end solution. Pls fight, name them, let us know who they are and see their faces.
Because if these victims don't fight (and they will be okay with putting things to silence) then you might just be one those other people in the event that ''knows'' and yet did nothing.
Kung yung mga missing because of e-sabong is crying for justice. Then pls find strength to do the same. Regardless of outcomes.
Praying for you to be fully okay.
mare, nagfile na ng case. she's onto legal proceedings already kaya nga ndi nia mabanggit un name kasi ongoing na un case pede sia makasuhan ng libel if she happen to mention a name. i appreciate your letter pero mas maganda kun pinanood mo baka may nakuha ka na clue. but all is good.
DeleteKaya nakakatakot magsumbong ng sexual assault eh, palaging yung victim ang may mali. Na hindi pinangalanan, hindi nagsampa ng kaso... Grabe eh. Ang daming judgment.
ReplyDeleteYou guys will never know how it feels until you're in the same position.
So many of the comments here are blaming the victim. Mga katulad ninyong mga enablers ang isa sa mga dahilan kung bakit napeperpetuate ang rape culture dito sa bansa natin. Pray that no one in your family goes through what these victims go through.
ReplyDeleteYou're so right. It's not so simple to just file a case especially given the state of the justice system. A little empathy will go a long way.
DeleteNakakaloka nga eh, karamihan pa nman sa commenters here are babae.
Deletewhat these victims went through wag sana mangyari sa fanily nyo at next generatikn nyo
ReplyDeleteIto yung unfair eh, yung victim kilala natin and they will forever have that stigma na namolestya or na-rape and worst, sila pa ang sisisihin sa sinapit nila. But the perpetrator will always be faceless and nameless. I'm really hoping that they get proper justice by bringing it to the court para malaman ng tao kung sino yang mga lowlife na yan whether they win the case or not.
ReplyDeleteso unfortunate that she was harasssed by this man all night kahit panay iwas na nya til eventually got sexually assaulted. very painful experience, i was sooo mad at this pig na kapal ng mukha na takutin pa sya. sa dami ng tao sa event, this could have been avoided if someone just stepped up and helped her. kawawa talaga ang victim tapos kapal pa ng iba dito magcomment na sana kasuhan or sana magsumbong. omg you have no idea the hell this girl went through or ano nang steps ginawa nya. she looks really desperate for help but the man seemed really powerful. tsk!
ReplyDeleteName name name. That's all you guys care about. Don't you think she would say it already if she could? The legal process can take months/years. All while this girl is reliving the memories every day and this creep is out there violating more girls. Imagine if you or your gf was her just for one second and show some damn sympathy.
ReplyDeleteIm friends with the guy. Sure dismiss yun case baka kaya nag post sa soc med. if you reveal the identity whether true or not that is cyber libel. She cant reveal
ReplyDeleteShe knows what she's doing, may laban sya she's rich too! FYI
DeleteHay, ewan sa ibang Marites here oy. Parang wlang natutunan about libel.
DeleteWhy are you still friends with him?
DeleteAng daming mga predator sa workplace kahit noong araw pa..ang daming pinoy na mga maniaquis! Sana makulong ang mga ito!
ReplyDeleteIt's so sad and pathetic that many of you are blaming her for speaking out. So she's attacked, get's blamed for being attacked, and now blamed again for not giving enough details in her video? Because I'm sure her goal in life was to go through something like this and be victim shamed by everyone. You don't think she's scared for her life right now?
ReplyDeleteOmg!!! I know the guy and the app he’s dealing with
ReplyDeletewhat kind of people a) invite a known sexual predator to a private party and b) don't make sure to warn all of the girls he is talking to of his history? it's almost like they wanted this to happen to her???
ReplyDeletebianca said he was not invited (she found out after)
Deletebut he was allowed to stay. you don't stay at a private party unless someone knows him and said it was okay.
DeleteIto na kaya ang turning point para finally makulong na itong lalaking ito. Sa mga nagsasabi na ireveal ang pangalan, maghintay pa kayo and everything will eventually make sense kung bakit hindi minemention ang pangalan niya. I think everybody will get an aha moment when sh*t hits the fan.
ReplyDeleteKaya ang daming nabibiktima dahil ang titigas ng ulo ng iba lalo na mga nagcooment sa taas. Bianca came out to spread awareness. Na pwedeng mangyari sa kahit sino sa atin. Hindi ibig sabihin gagawin sa atin nung taong gumawa sa kanya (dahil oo, hindi naman tayo parepareho ng ginagalawan na circle), pero pwedeng gawin din sa atin ng mga tao sa circle natin --- katrabaho, kaibigan, kakilala ng kakilala. Ganon.
ReplyDeleteLahat tayo pwedeng maging biktima sa mga circusmtances at tao na hindi natin aakalain. YUN ANG POINT.
At kung nangyari sa atin, sana magkalakas tayo ng loob lumaban.
THIS!
DeleteIF those people at the party knew about the attackers past behavior and still stood by and kept quiet, then I hope one day this happens to you or your wife/girlfriend/daughter. Then you will understand the pain she is going through. Being abandoned and betrayed. Did they secretly want this to happen to her?
ReplyDeleteThey are all accomplices to this crime.
My question is, how did it all happen?
Deletewas it in the same venue where the party is happening?
was she convinced to get into a private room?
why did she give her trust when in fact she said she was not interested in that person whenever he approach her?
was she drugged?
why didn’t she yell for help?
we do not know what was the exact scenario when the assault occurred.
May update ba na ba dito?
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