eh may vid cia na sbe nya gsto nya bad boy.. you should learn your lesson na cguro. We know na mlkas dating ng may pgka bad boy...But no..You'll suffer the consequences.
12:12 and 1:13, 11:18 is not victim blaming. 11:18 is merely stating the consequences of our choices. Haven't you heard the saying, play with fire and you get burned?" It's the same logic, choose a person with questionable character, and you might suffer either physically or emotionally.
When we say we like bad boys, what we really mean is we like their aesthetic or fashion style (black leather, ripped jeans, cool hair, motorbike/car). We're not after literal bad boys with a horrible attitude. We don't like criminals. We just want guys who wear cool clothes.
May point naman si 11.18. I personally know women na kahit sinasaktan na sila physically or verbally, di maiwan yung partner kasi nga attracted talaga sila ng sobra. Sabi nga di ba, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. If for the second time, ginawa ulit and di ka bumitaw, then it’s your choice na
1:49PM dati, pag nakakapanood ako sa tv ng mga balita o palabas na nagpapakita ng mga babaeng hindi maiwan iwan ang asawa o bf nila kahit na nananakit physically or verbally, hindi ko maintindihan bakit di nila magawang lumabas sa relasyon. Pero iba pala talaga pag ikaw na ang nasa sitwasyon, napakahirap. alam mo ang dapat gawin pero di mo magawa. Kasi madalas, hindi naman black and white ang sitwasyon. I pray for women like me who suffer and want out pero conflicted.
640 i do not pray pero I hope you'll get the Courage to do what is right and just for you. And it is true na ang daling mag advice sa iba lalo na kapag wala ka nman tlagang alam at hindi mo personally naranasan.
Lol. I thought you'd say it's the other way around. Anyway, physically Kit was almost perfect, his height, built, facial features. But what's going on inside is a different matter. Scary.
What a comment! Mag isip isip ka nga. Katwirang ewan yung sinasabi mo. I'm sure may mga sisters ka, nieces, aunts, ang nanay mo babae, lola mo babae. Magkakaroon ka ng mga anak at grandchildren na babae. Payag kang mabugbog sarado sila? They're not a good catch anyway, ganun na lang?
12:19 kahit anong pang rason mali na manakit lalo na yung muntik na mabulag. Tsaka ka lalaki nyang tao nananakit sya ng babae. Tapos sabi mo may 2 sides of story pa. Cguro naman nakita mo yung mga litrato ni ana?!! If yes. Wow! Ikaw na! Ang galing mo! Tsk tsk
11:46 nabugbog xa. Anu ba ang protocol pag nabugbog tatahimik na lang? she is putting light on women’s violence to give other women experiencing what she had courage to have a voice and fight too.. gets mo?
12:19am sis the only acceptable reason for me na ibeat up sya ni kit ng ganun, is if hypothetically may anak na si kit tas nahuli na sinasaktan or minomolestya nyan ni ana, pero anything else, nahuli ni kit may kasamang lalaki or kalandian sa chat heck kahit caught in the act sa bed, noooo never na acceptable yan, kahit pa sabihin mo na 2sides of story unless yung hypothetical reason above yung ngyari, hindi mo pwede sabihin yang 2sides chuchu na yan, it's wrong no if, no buts.
Teh 1246 pwede mandilim paningin mo sa selos. Kaya nga may crime of passion. Maraming murders pag ibig ang dahilan! Hindi ako nagvivictim blame or kumakampi kay kit, sinasabi ko lang katotohanan. Swerte mo kung sa buong buhay mo di mo maranasan yang mandilim paningin mo sa galit.
11:50 punishable by law ang physical injury tapos tahimik and kill with kindness na lang ba ang drama? 🤣 nakakaawa ka. Tell thqt to yourself pag ikaw or kapatid or anak mo na yung nabugbog
Kill them with your kindness? Tingin mo yung mga abuser matatamaan sa kindness? Di nga sila normal magisip, wala sa kanila yang konsensya. Hayaan mong piliin ng victim ang pamamaraan nya magcope.
Pag ginulpi nanay mo o anak mo, kill them with your kindness pa rin ba? Madaling magsalita kasi di natin kaano ano si ana, wa tayo care. Pero kung kapamilya natin, baka tayo pa makipagaway. Yung point ng argument mo, point ng walang sympathy.
Huh? Naospital na nga sya at nagsampa ng kaso. Anong wala lang? Kasi post sya ng post sa socmed? May protocol ba na dapat kapag nabugbog hindi na pwedeng bumangon at magpost sa social media? Kaloka! Kampi kasi kayo sa gwapo kuno pero abusado nman. Ipagpatuloy nyo yan baka kayo na ang mabiktima at sabihan ka rin ng kapitbahay nyo na deserve mo o parang wala lang. Lol
sa ganitong paraan ba siya nagcocope para kanyang mental health eme? kung ganito man way niya para maka move on sa nangyari sa kanya. let her be. iba iba naman tayo kung paano mag move on. though sa iba, oa o papansin, nope, intindihin na lang natin siya.
One thing I learned from my worst break-up is not to go to socmed right away because you might say or do things you may regret later. It’s always best to surround yourself with people you trust and those who truly care for you. Sa una lang na kala mo makakaluwag sa dibdib na nailabas mo yung galit mo in public because you get sympathy from other people and they would hate the person who hurt you. In reality, wala kang peace of mind.
Nabugbog ka rin po ba? O mutual naman yung hiwalayan? Magkaibang magkaiba po yung sitwasyon nyo. Malamang ikaw magsisisi ka magsalita ng hindi maganda kung mutual naman ang hiwalayan.
Tama lang. Lets give attention to the woman na sinaktan physically ng isang walang kwentang lalaki. Dapat lagi natin isipin yung nangyari sakanya bago tayo pumasok sa isang relasyon.
12:35 bakit xa yung bina bash nyo??! She is putting loght on women’s violence!!! Ano yun tatahimik na lng? Accept accept na lang na may lalaking nambubugbog?? Are you that t@ng*?!
Naman! Dapat lang sa kanya ang attention no. Sa gandan at sexy nyang yan binugbog lang sya. Gamitin nya ang platform nya to inform women na maski pa anong hitsura, pwedeng baliw rin maski pa artista.
Lol. You're probably one of those that get punched in the face by your partner but you have NO self value, so you let people abuse you. Good luck sa buhay mo anon 1:23
Daming nagmamarunong dito. If she's been toxic on socmed, sure you can complain. But if this is one of her outlets to express herself, let her be. This isn't a normal breakup people! Give her a f*ing break. The young ones need awareness.
Yes, you should be able to recognize the red flags. And I am not condoning what Keith did, that was inexcusable, but this girl has been married before so she should know better.
2:38 nung grassroots movement palang ang me too it actually was good. But if you read up on what had unfolded eversince nahijack ang movement ng mga celebrities and high powered lawyers nakakaloka what transpired.
Okay naman talaga sya at d sya namatay. Nakakahinga at nakakakilos pa din. kinakaya nya as long as she can. Kaya dont judge her kung ano man kaya na nyang gawin. Unti unti yan hindi yan biglaan.
eh may vid cia na sbe nya gsto nya bad boy.. you should learn your lesson na cguro. We know na mlkas dating ng may pgka bad boy...But no..You'll suffer the consequences.
ReplyDeleteVictim blaming ka pa. I like bad boys too but that doesn’t mean I want to be beaten up.
DeleteBad ka talaga!
DeleteHindi naman porket gusto bad boy gagawin mo literal.
Delete12:12 aysows women know kung ano pinapasok nila, i know a lot of women attracted sa bad boys, 2 lang yan either mambababae or mananakit
Delete12:33 stop victim blaming
Delete12:12 and 1:13, 11:18 is not victim blaming. 11:18 is merely stating the consequences of our choices. Haven't you heard the saying, play with fire and you get burned?" It's the same logic, choose a person with questionable character, and you might suffer either physically or emotionally.
DeleteBad boy meaning she meant yung kayang ipagtanggol siya pag may gustong manakit sa kanya. Hindi yung gusto nya sinasaktan siya. Tsk.
DeleteWhen we say we like bad boys, what we really mean is we like their aesthetic or fashion style (black leather, ripped jeans, cool hair, motorbike/car). We're not after literal bad boys with a horrible attitude. We don't like criminals. We just want guys who wear cool clothes.
DeleteDepends if gusto nya ba talaga literal na bad boy or mukhang bad boy. There are few bad boy looking pero iyakin na nga at Mama's boy pa. Lol
Delete11:18 soo kasalanan nya kaya nabugbog xa?!
DeleteMay point naman si 11.18. I personally know women na kahit sinasaktan na sila physically or verbally, di maiwan yung partner kasi nga attracted talaga sila ng sobra. Sabi nga di ba, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. If for the second time, ginawa ulit and di ka bumitaw, then it’s your choice na
DeleteNot everything is victim blaming. In fact, we should look at what society tells us is acceptable. Kakapanood ng Wattpad, gusto bad boy
Delete1:49PM dati, pag nakakapanood ako sa tv ng mga balita o palabas na nagpapakita ng mga babaeng hindi maiwan iwan ang asawa o bf nila kahit na nananakit physically or verbally, hindi ko maintindihan bakit di nila magawang lumabas sa relasyon. Pero iba pala talaga pag ikaw na ang nasa sitwasyon, napakahirap. alam mo ang dapat gawin pero di mo magawa. Kasi madalas, hindi naman black and white ang sitwasyon. I pray for women like me who suffer and want out pero conflicted.
Delete640 i do not pray pero I hope you'll get the Courage to do what is right and just for you. And it is true na ang daling mag advice sa iba lalo na kapag wala ka nman tlagang alam at hindi mo personally naranasan.
DeleteButi na lang hiwalay sila ni Kit. She's not a good catch anyway. Kit could find someone better.
ReplyDeleteYou're a disgusting human being. Get help!
DeleteAy grabe! What kind of basura are you?
DeleteHaha, wow.
DeleteLol. I thought you'd say it's the other way around. Anyway, physically Kit was almost perfect, his height, built, facial features. But what's going on inside is a different matter. Scary.
DeleteHa? Basahin nga ulit ang comment mo 11:25? Mema.
DeleteBefore he goes searching for someone new, he needs to get his anger issues under control so he doesn't beat up another girl.
DeleteWhat a comment! Mag isip isip ka nga. Katwirang ewan yung sinasabi mo. I'm sure may mga sisters ka, nieces, aunts, ang nanay mo babae, lola mo babae. Magkakaroon ka ng mga anak at grandchildren na babae. Payag kang mabugbog sarado sila? They're not a good catch anyway, ganun na lang?
Delete11:25 wow eewww. I hope you end up with kit
DeleteYeah right. Good catch nga si Kit.
Delete951 amen! Lol
DeleteNaintindihan ko nangyari sa kanya pero ito na naman sila. Bat ba instead na manahimik muna..panay post nila at pahaging sa social media
ReplyDeleteAt yan nanaman kayo na laging nagpapatahimik sa mga kababaihan na naagrabyado.
DeleteWrong! Dapat talaga ishame yang mga nananakit na yan para magtanda.
Delete12:19 kahit anong pang rason mali na manakit lalo na yung muntik na mabulag. Tsaka ka lalaki nyang tao nananakit sya ng babae. Tapos sabi mo may 2 sides of story pa. Cguro naman nakita mo yung mga litrato ni ana?!! If yes. Wow! Ikaw na! Ang galing mo! Tsk tsk
DeleteEto na naman ang isang klaseng Marites. Makiki tsismis pero magrereklamo pa sa pinagtitsismisan!
Delete11:46 nabugbog xa. Anu ba ang protocol pag nabugbog tatahimik na lang? she is putting light on women’s violence to give other women experiencing what she had courage to have a voice and fight too.. gets mo?
DeleteQuiet na lang miss. Just work hard and be happy… kill them with your kindness:)
ReplyDeletekind nga ba talaga? Kit was wrong, but there are also 2 sides to every story.
Delete12:19 sabi nga ni rufa be king to everyone even with your ex LOL
DeleteNabugbog na nga, kill them with kindness pa ang advice mo? I say file a lawsuit now na!
Delete12:19am sis the only acceptable reason for me na ibeat up sya ni kit ng ganun, is if hypothetically may anak na si kit tas nahuli na sinasaktan or minomolestya nyan ni ana, pero anything else, nahuli ni kit may kasamang lalaki or kalandian sa chat heck kahit caught in the act sa bed, noooo never na acceptable yan, kahit pa sabihin mo na 2sides of story unless yung hypothetical reason above yung ngyari, hindi mo pwede sabihin yang 2sides chuchu na yan, it's wrong no if, no buts.
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DeleteTeh 1246 pwede mandilim paningin mo sa selos. Kaya nga may crime of passion. Maraming murders pag ibig ang dahilan! Hindi ako nagvivictim blame or kumakampi kay kit, sinasabi ko lang katotohanan. Swerte mo kung sa buong buhay mo di mo maranasan yang mandilim paningin mo sa galit.
DeleteCorrect ka 12:46
Delete11:50 punishable by law ang physical injury tapos tahimik and kill with kindness na lang ba ang drama? 🤣 nakakaawa ka. Tell thqt to yourself pag ikaw or kapatid or anak mo na yung nabugbog
Delete1234 true. Lol. Applicable pa kaya sinabi ni Rofa na be kind even with ur ex sa sitwasyon na ito. Hay Rofa, di ka na nadala.
DeleteKill them with your kindness? Tingin mo yung mga abuser matatamaan sa kindness? Di nga sila normal magisip, wala sa kanila yang konsensya. Hayaan mong piliin ng victim ang pamamaraan nya magcope.
DeletePag ginulpi nanay mo o anak mo, kill them with your kindness pa rin ba? Madaling magsalita kasi di natin kaano ano si ana, wa tayo care. Pero kung kapamilya natin, baka tayo pa makipagaway. Yung point ng argument mo, point ng walang sympathy.
Ewan ko sa yo teh. Parang wala lang.
ReplyDeleteHuh? Naospital na nga sya at nagsampa ng kaso. Anong wala lang? Kasi post sya ng post sa socmed? May protocol ba na dapat kapag nabugbog hindi na pwedeng bumangon at magpost sa social media? Kaloka! Kampi kasi kayo sa gwapo kuno pero abusado nman. Ipagpatuloy nyo yan baka kayo na ang mabiktima at sabihan ka rin ng kapitbahay nyo na deserve mo o parang wala lang. Lol
Deletesa ganitong paraan ba siya nagcocope para kanyang mental health eme? kung ganito man way niya para maka move on sa nangyari sa kanya. let her be. iba iba naman tayo kung paano mag move on. though sa iba, oa o papansin, nope, intindihin na lang natin siya.
ReplyDeleteIbigay nyo nalang muna yung moment kay girl. May pinagdadaanan yung tao please understand.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I learned from my worst break-up is not to go to socmed right away because you might say or do things you may regret later. It’s always best to surround yourself with people you trust and those who truly care for you. Sa una lang na kala mo makakaluwag sa dibdib na nailabas mo yung galit mo in public because you get sympathy from other people and they would hate the person who hurt you. In reality, wala kang peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteiba iba ang tao ateng..wag mo ipagpilitan katulad ng sayo.
DeleteNabugbog ka rin po ba? O mutual naman yung hiwalayan? Magkaibang magkaiba po yung sitwasyon nyo. Malamang ikaw magsisisi ka magsalita ng hindi maganda kung mutual naman ang hiwalayan.
DeleteTeh wala naman dapat sabihin sa case mo kasi normal na relasyon naman yung inyo.
DeleteIntindihin nyo sya
ReplyDeleteNa trauma sya
Hayaan nyo kung saan nya pwede ilabas ang hinanakit nya
Babae din kayo
She's loving the attention
ReplyDelete12:35 as she should! Bring down these men who physically hurt women!
DeleteTama lang. Lets give attention to the woman na sinaktan physically ng isang walang kwentang lalaki. Dapat lagi natin isipin yung nangyari sakanya bago tayo pumasok sa isang relasyon.
Delete12:35 bakit xa yung bina bash nyo??! She is putting loght on women’s violence!!! Ano yun tatahimik na lng? Accept accept na lang na may lalaking nambubugbog?? Are you that t@ng*?!
DeleteNaman! Dapat lang sa kanya ang attention no. Sa gandan at sexy nyang yan binugbog lang sya. Gamitin nya ang platform nya to inform women na maski pa anong hitsura, pwedeng baliw rin maski pa artista.
DeleteDaan mo sa husgado, di sa socmed court!
ReplyDeleteShe’s suing. Magbasa ka din ng balita sa socmed!
DeleteKamuka niya si elise
ReplyDeleteAng layo naman.
Deletei must say oo 12:48 am.. meron nga sya pics na may hawig sila.. and may pagka RR din
DeleteIkaw lang nakakakita labo naman ng mata mo teh
Deletemay hawig din
DeleteSobrang magkahawig sila dito sa pic na to
DeleteButi na lang hiwalay na sila ni Kit. She's not a good catch anyway. Kit could find someone better.
ReplyDelete1:23 hindi rin catch ang woman beater ano ka ba! Free pass porket “pogi”? 🙄
DeleteLol. You're probably one of those that get punched in the face by your partner but you have NO self value, so you let people abuse you. Good luck sa buhay mo anon 1:23
DeleteSay what? Girlfriend beater, good catch?
Delete???????????? literal binugbog sya. compared to himself Kit can find ANYONE better. kilabutan ka please sa inulit mo pang comment.
DeleteYuck. Kinampihan mo pa talaga ang woman beater.
DeleteKung sinasaktan naman sya ng guy then you’re right, buti nalang hiwalay na sila!
DeletePaulit ulit? Ikaw na lang sana ang ma-find nang makita mo hinahanap mo.
DeleteDaming nagmamarunong dito. If she's been toxic on socmed, sure you can complain. But if this is one of her outlets to express herself, let her be. This isn't a normal breakup people! Give her a f*ing break. The young ones need awareness.
ReplyDeleteWhy do i always get hurt by these bad boys type ;) :D :D
ReplyDelete4:10 oh shut up 🙄 key word is type. Ikaw nagsabi, bad boy type, hindi mismong bad boy na kayang mambugbog ng babae
DeleteHmmm, it’s very easy to see or learn the real character of a person if you are paying attention. Huwag lang mag bulag bulagan.
ReplyDeleteYes, you should be able to recognize the red flags. And I am not condoning what Keith did, that was inexcusable, but this girl has been married before so she should know better.
DeleteParang okay na ata siya eh. May paganito na agad agad.
ReplyDeleteDi ka ba aware sa me too movement? You should be proud of women who speak out about their abusers
DeleteGusto mo yata napurohan sya. Kaloka talaga tong ibang mga Pinoy. Lol
Delete2:38 nung grassroots movement palang ang me too it actually was good. But if you read up on what had unfolded eversince nahijack ang movement ng mga celebrities and high powered lawyers nakakaloka what transpired.
Delete11:42 the point is mas empowered na ang babae ngayon and hindi na uso yung victim blaming and yung tinatakot yung babae into silence
DeleteOkay naman talaga sya at d sya namatay. Nakakahinga at nakakakilos pa din. kinakaya nya as long as she can. Kaya dont judge her kung ano man kaya na nyang gawin. Unti unti yan hindi yan biglaan.
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