What?? Depression which leads to suicide is not just a matter of feeling loved. Madami pa din nag suicide kahit they were loved. It’s an internal struggle that no one can really understand, not even to the person who has such thoughts.
Most probably she felt alone, otherwise, she would not do it because she would think of reaching out to her loved ones. Perhaps, she felt there is no one she can turn to or depend on.
No. Kahit marami nagmamahal sayo pwede ka pa rin magkaroon ng ng depression. Tingin mo ba sa depressed na tao malungkot or di maramamdaman mahal sya ng nakapaligid sa kanya. Aral ka pa ng konti 12.14.
12:14, my papa was a popular man, beloved by many and I know he knew that because people most people he knew knew how to show him. But depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain that is sometimes so severe, only medication can ease it. And even with medication, in some cases it’s still not enough.
also have experienced depression and its hard to deal with it. Im just keeping my faith to battle my mind and get inspiration from mh kids, its really hard to judge as it vomes from different experiences or traumas.
I also experience grabeng depression while here in Australia and I couldn’t go home dyan sa Manila. Dito na din ako nanganak without friends and family. Sobrang nakakadepress raising my child without my family pero kinakaya. I’m lucky pa din to have a very loving and supportive partner at nakatulong yung paglilinis ko ng bahay ng bongga (I used to be a minimalist). And to those struggling please read The Courage To Be Disliked. It helped me a lot.
I’ve been in Canada for 12 years, Wala akong naging friends at etong pandemic Ay parang normal nalang sakin dahil Hindi naman ako pala labas, minsan May mga moments na naiisip ko yan pero ang sinasabi ko sa sarili ko ang tagal mo nang lumalaban ngayon Kapa susuko. Depende narin siguro sa tao kung gano katatag at yung pananampalataya mahalaga. Hindi kami yung type ng pamilya na vocal sa isat isa pero pag kailangan mo naman sila andyan sila para sayo.
Ganun tlaga baks kapag nasa ibang bansa. Tapos gustung gusto mo pa na makita ng parents mo ang anak kaso hindi pwede. Gusto ko na rin umuwi kaso 2 babies ang dadalhin ko, maski anong calculate ko di ko kaya mag isa. May trabaho kasi ang asawa ko at di sya pwedeng more than one month mag stay sa Pinas🤣. Goodluck and sending hugs to you.
Sending virtual hugs po. I'll check this book, thanks for recommending it. I was diagnosed with clinical depression. Na trigger ulit when my dad passed away 2019 and my mom last year. 3 of my siblings nasa abroad and ako lang mag isa to face everything sa parents ko, wala ding financial help from them. I'm thankful with the support of my husband and a very few friends. Every time ma trigger I just acknowledge the feeling and let go. It made me strong and iniisip ko every time may problem, kaya ko to, what could be worst? So keep the faith, transcend, transform into a better version of yourself.
1:56 Relax, my gosh! Some news outlets kasi included Marian’s tribute. 12:52 was probably just sharing that fact and not necessarily reacting to what FP posted. Goodness!
My life motto is to trust God with all my life.I been through in life.I been experiencing ups and down.All of these I surpassed because GOD is the center of my life.Praise God!😘🙏❤❤❤
Hindi na lang sana mag judge. Hindi lahat ng depression magkapareha. Please do your research before magconclusion. Mental health is a very complex matter.
Yung expression natin na nakakadepress itong ganito ganyan. Iba ang depression na medical.
Hindi sana kayo ang tunay na madepress kasi doon nyo lang mararamdan ang totoong pakiramadam pagiisip etc.
Haist..lets not invalidate the feeling of everyone piro ako nga walang jowa..walang work..almost 50 na and laging bombarded with why's ng mga tsismosang kakilala at kamag anak oag nagkikita piro never ko naisip magsuicide..not even when im struggling alone and in deep pain physically and emotionally...laban lang..matatapos din kasi alam ko god loves me..
Hmmmm… ewan ko. Andaming puedeng angles na palabasin na suicide. If murder, siguradong pinag planuhang maige. Sana icheck ng NYPD or FBI if may insurance or malaking investment si Cheslie. Kasi possible talaga. Lawyer siya… anything is possible. RIP, Cheslie. Gone too soon.
Hindi lang sya simpleng walang makausap and/or pakiramdam na walang nagmamahal sayo. Usually maraming bagay sya na nagpatong patong and then there aren't enough resources and give up na lang. I went through depression and suicidal thoughts nung teenager ako nung late 90s. In the outside, I looked ok, always smiling and well off yung family ko. Bagong lipat ako nun kaya medyo malungkot ako kaya nagkabf ako na mas matanda but predator pala sya and in short na rape ako. Wala akong mapagsabihan and di ko rin makwento sa family ko kasi baka di nila maintindihan. I didn't have much friends din kasi nga bagong lipat ako ng school. Naging withdrawn ako and lagi lang akong nagkukulong sa kwarto and marami na akong naisip na paraan how to end it pero di ko rin natuloy kasi takot ako sa physical pain of the process. Sa pamilya ko teenage angst lang yung pinagdadaanan ko. Tumagal ang panahon nagpagod din ako always being down. Pinasok din ako ng mom ko sa isang retreat and it is where the healing started and it's where I realized when you have nothing left it is when you realize God is all you need. Medyo matagal yung healing process but slowly naka recover din ako and I use my experience and share it in talks sa youth now that I'm a bit older. I understand that religion isn't the path for all going through depression but it was the one that helped me and for anyone going through something, don't be afraid to reach out. There are many resources and strategies to help you. And for us naman na relatively ok, always be kind and sensitive and watch out for each other. You never know what the other is experiencing.
"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom." If your worldview has no God, the one true God, the biblical God in it, you will end up like a ship without a rudder in the middle of the sea called life. Turn to Jesus. Believe in Him. Repent and have faith because He is the Saviour! To Go be all the glory!
For me, self-righteousness is one of many self-centered attributes of a prideful person.
But 8:58's comment is true to its insight. It is so low to tell to themselves that they are righteous. But God can make them make them to be righteous, IF they are really with God.
So I will double down with what 8:58's comment regarding the issue.
Its really devastating I Experienced that feeling that you're unloved you're alone and your love ones don't understand and cared.dont have money..crying inside you...but Ifocused to the Lord and I prayed the rosary again and again..and again..And I the strength carry the long suffering..that's why I am surviving up to this day
Even if we have friends around us,loneliness stills lingers around. Our close relationship with God perhaps is a big help God will never leave us nor forsake us, if we only find a way to reach out for Him most especially when we are sooo depressed and down feeling no one is with us and for us.
Depression is real. There are moments in our life that we felt unloved, we want to give up because life become meaningless.But there is someOne up there who understans us more than our lovedones do. We are not alone, God loved us so much and he is willing to listen to our heartaches, regrets and negative feelings. He want us to acknowledge Him as Lord and Savior and be with is in our journey. Whatever happens, He is there...just a prayer away. We can talk to Him anytime and anywhere. We long for the love amd acceotance thqt only God can do. Human is very conditional in their love, God isn't. He loves us with all our flows and strenght. He cares indeed. Walk away with God ...we will never ever feel so alone.
Yes 12:16 but we have different opinions and beliefs. Hindi pi lahat mag-a-agree na religion is the answer. Buti po kayo prayerful. May ibang tao hindi ganun.
Palakasan talaga ng mental health ngayon mas lalo pandemic pa! Kaya mahalaga din na aliwin ang sarili kung wala talaga makausap at higit sa lahat ang mapalapit kay God.
Bat naman ganun.kawawa naman pamilya m cguro wala mapag sabihan ng problema.ako nga iniwan ng asawa ayaw pa ipakita or ipahiram ang manga bata hnd k nagawa kc may manga kapamag anak ako na nasabihan ng problema.cguro wala sya na pag sabihin kaya ganun.sana walang judgmental jan.pray nalng natin po sya
For sure, afford nya ang psychiatrist, treatment medication at kung anu ano pa. Maski nga yata bumili ng kausap. Ganun kasi tlaga ang depression hindi mo alam kaylan aatake ng malala.
Mental health issue talaga ang problema ng karamihan now. Maraming bouts of anxiety lalo na pandemic. It doesn't mean that a person seems to be happy and doesn't show signs of depression, hindi sila depressed. Karamihan sa kanila masaya bago nag suicide. Sino nga ba yun rapper na nagpakamatay din na last video nya e super saya nila ng anak niya? The following day he ended his life. So yeah, importante na even if we don't see signs sa kaibigan, katrabaho, kakilala or kapamilya, it doesn't mean wala silang pinagdadaanan. Always check on your loved ones.gone too soon.
If she felt your love di sana di za nagsuicide...she felt so alone cguro
ReplyDeleteWag kang judger! Hindi mo alam ang feeling ng depressed person so shut up!
DeleteWhat?? Depression which leads to suicide is not just a matter of feeling loved. Madami pa din nag suicide kahit they were loved. It’s an internal struggle that no one can really understand, not even to the person who has such thoughts.
DeleteMaybe this is true. But Being suicidal is mental disorder that needs professional help, medication and therapy.
DeleteMost probably she felt alone, otherwise, she would not do it because she would think of reaching out to her loved ones. Perhaps, she felt there is no one she can turn to or depend on.
DeleteIba iba kase tayo, may mga taong kahit ramdam nila na marami nagmamahal sa kanila, may times na maffeel mo na ayaw mo na talaga
DeleteNo. Kahit marami nagmamahal sayo pwede ka pa rin magkaroon ng ng depression. Tingin mo ba sa depressed na tao malungkot or di maramamdaman mahal sya ng nakapaligid sa kanya. Aral ka pa ng konti 12.14.
Deletewag mo isisi sa kanila ang decision ni miss usa. kaloka ka. marami at hindi natin alam pinagdadaanan ng ibang tao.
DeleteHindi rin baks. We dont know whats in her mind. She has everything.
DeleteDai, a lot of people who commit suicide are good at hiding their pain. Now is not the time to finger point.
DeleteWow haha! Sa kanila lang ba umikot buhay ni chesley?
Delete12:14, my papa was a popular man, beloved by many and I know he knew that because people most people he knew knew how to show him. But depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain that is sometimes so severe, only medication can ease it. And even with medication, in some cases it’s still not enough.
DeleteI pity you... such ignorant comment of yours.
DeleteDon’t be quick to judge. Just be kind.. the world needs kinder people
DeleteNope. You are wrong wrong wrong. Please educate yourself about mental illness and suicide.
DeleteKaloka ka baks, you're too shallow (:
DeleteMay nagbasa ako nagbreak ata sila ng bf nys
Deletealso have experienced depression and its hard to deal with it. Im just keeping my faith to battle my mind and get inspiration from mh kids, its really hard to judge as it vomes from different experiences or traumas.
Deleteang bata pa, only 30 years old. ano kayang reason bakit siya nag suicide?
ReplyDelete30 and a successful lawyer…. Life wasted.
DeleteI also experience grabeng depression while here in Australia and I couldn’t go home dyan sa Manila. Dito na din ako nanganak without friends and family. Sobrang nakakadepress raising my child without my family pero kinakaya. I’m lucky pa din to have a very loving and supportive partner at nakatulong yung paglilinis ko ng bahay ng bongga (I used to be a minimalist). And to those struggling please read The Courage To Be Disliked. It helped me a lot.
ReplyDeleteSending hugs...
DeleteBig hug and prayers for you dear 12:30AM
DeleteI’ve been in Canada for 12 years, Wala akong naging friends at etong pandemic Ay parang normal nalang sakin dahil Hindi naman ako pala labas, minsan May mga moments na naiisip ko yan pero ang sinasabi ko sa sarili ko ang tagal mo nang lumalaban ngayon Kapa susuko. Depende narin siguro sa tao kung gano katatag at yung pananampalataya mahalaga. Hindi kami yung type ng pamilya na vocal sa isat isa pero pag kailangan mo naman sila andyan sila para sayo.
DeleteGanun tlaga baks kapag nasa ibang bansa. Tapos gustung gusto mo pa na makita ng parents mo ang anak kaso hindi pwede. Gusto ko na rin umuwi kaso 2 babies ang dadalhin ko, maski anong calculate ko di ko kaya mag isa. May trabaho kasi ang asawa ko at di sya pwedeng more than one month mag stay sa Pinas🤣. Goodluck and sending hugs to you.
DeleteSending virtual hugs po. I'll check this book, thanks for recommending it. I was diagnosed with clinical depression. Na trigger ulit when my dad passed away 2019 and my mom last year. 3 of my siblings nasa abroad and ako lang mag isa to face everything sa parents ko, wala ding financial help from them. I'm thankful with the support of my husband and a very few friends. Every time ma trigger I just acknowledge the feeling and let go. It made me strong and iniisip ko every time may problem, kaya ko to, what could be worst? So keep the faith, transcend, transform into a better version of yourself.
DeleteNakasama rin pala sya ni Marian
ReplyDeleteGurl, wla sya dyan above. Pinagsasabi mo dyan. Nakakaloka!
Delete1:56 sobra siguro hate mo ky Marian. Read her comment properly before ka magreact. Nakakaloka la gurl.
DeleteBaka ibig nya sabihin nung last MU. Pareho silang judge.
DeleteShe was a segment host in Miss U 2021 so nakasama niya si Marian
Delete1:56 ang ibig niyang sabihin nakasama ito ni marian sa recent Miss Universe, she is one of the judges
Delete1:56 Relax, my gosh! Some news outlets kasi included Marian’s tribute. 12:52 was probably just sharing that fact and not necessarily reacting to what FP posted. Goodness!
DeleteWell, Pia and Cat lang above 101. I don't get these people here in fp na isinisingit ang name ng iba, wala nman sa article. Lol
DeleteMy life motto is to trust God with all my life.I been through in life.I been experiencing ups and down.All of these I surpassed because GOD is the center of my life.Praise God!😘🙏❤❤❤
DeleteShe had beauty, brains, achievements but the loneliness got the best of her. Gone too soon
ReplyDeleteDepression po siya. Hindi lang basta loneliness.
DeleteA big part of depression is loneliness
DeleteIba talaga mag post si Pia. Pag hindi about her, it will not make it about her or even isingit fez nya sa pic 🙂
ReplyDeleteHindi na lang sana mag judge. Hindi lahat ng depression magkapareha. Please do your research before magconclusion. Mental health is a very complex matter.
ReplyDeleteYung expression natin na nakakadepress itong ganito ganyan. Iba ang depression na medical.
Hindi sana kayo ang tunay na madepress kasi doon nyo lang mararamdan ang totoong pakiramadam pagiisip etc.
Oftentimes being alone and loneliness can make us do things we surely regret given the second cnance
ReplyDeleteHaist..lets not invalidate the feeling of everyone piro ako nga walang jowa..walang work..almost 50 na and laging bombarded with why's ng mga tsismosang kakilala at kamag anak oag nagkikita piro never ko naisip magsuicide..not even when im struggling alone and in deep pain physically and emotionally...laban lang..matatapos din kasi alam ko god loves me..
ReplyDeleteHmmmm… ewan ko. Andaming puedeng angles na palabasin na suicide. If murder, siguradong pinag planuhang maige. Sana icheck ng NYPD or FBI if may insurance or malaking investment si Cheslie. Kasi possible talaga. Lawyer siya… anything is possible. RIP, Cheslie. Gone too soon.
ReplyDeleteIf you read her essay sa allure magazine somehow you’ll understand her state of mind.
DeleteI was wondering about her last post on IG. Para kanino kaya yun?
ReplyDeleteHindi lang sya simpleng walang makausap and/or pakiramdam na walang nagmamahal sayo. Usually maraming bagay sya na nagpatong patong and then there aren't enough resources and give up na lang.
ReplyDeleteI went through depression and suicidal thoughts nung teenager ako nung late 90s. In the outside, I looked ok, always smiling and well off yung family ko. Bagong lipat ako nun kaya medyo malungkot ako kaya nagkabf ako na mas matanda but predator pala sya and in short na rape ako. Wala akong mapagsabihan and di ko rin makwento sa family ko kasi baka di nila maintindihan. I didn't have much friends din kasi nga bagong lipat ako ng school. Naging withdrawn ako and lagi lang akong nagkukulong sa kwarto and marami na akong naisip na paraan how to end it pero di ko rin natuloy kasi takot ako sa physical pain of the process. Sa pamilya ko teenage angst lang yung pinagdadaanan ko. Tumagal ang panahon nagpagod din ako always being down. Pinasok din ako ng mom ko sa isang retreat and it is where the healing started and it's where I realized when you have nothing left it is when you realize God is all you need. Medyo matagal yung healing process but slowly naka recover din ako and I use my experience and share it in talks sa youth now that I'm a bit older. I understand that religion isn't the path for all going through depression but it was the one that helped me and for anyone going through something, don't be afraid to reach out. There are many resources and strategies to help you. And for us naman na relatively ok, always be kind and sensitive and watch out for each other. You never know what the other is experiencing.
"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom." If your worldview has no God, the one true God, the biblical God in it, you will end up like a ship without a rudder in the middle of the sea called life.
ReplyDeleteTurn to Jesus. Believe in Him. Repent and have faith because He is the Saviour! To Go be all the glory!
Ang self righteous mo naman.
DeleteFor me, self-righteousness is one of many self-centered attributes of a prideful person.
DeleteBut 8:58's comment is true to its insight. It is so low to tell to themselves that they are righteous. But God can make them make them to be righteous, IF they are really with God.
So I will double down with what 8:58's comment regarding the issue.
God is the ONLY solution!
Its really devastating I Experienced that feeling that you're unloved you're alone and your love ones don't understand and cared.dont have money..crying inside you...but Ifocused to the Lord and I prayed the rosary again and again..and again..And I the strength carry the long suffering..that's why I am surviving up to this day
ReplyDeleteShe was the last person I thought of getting into suicide, she was so strong, smart and more... a true embodiment of a confident woman..
ReplyDeleteEven if we have friends around us,loneliness stills lingers around. Our close relationship with God perhaps is a big help God will never leave us nor forsake us, if we only find a way to reach out for Him most especially when we are sooo depressed and down feeling no one is with us and for us.
ReplyDeleteDepression is real. There are moments in our life that we felt unloved, we want to give up because life become meaningless.But there is someOne up there who understans us more than our lovedones do. We are not alone, God loved us so much and he is willing to listen to our heartaches, regrets and negative feelings. He want us to acknowledge Him as Lord and Savior and be with is in our journey. Whatever happens, He is there...just a prayer away. We can talk to Him anytime and anywhere. We long for the love amd acceotance thqt only God can do. Human is very conditional in their love, God isn't. He loves us with all our flows and strenght. He cares indeed. Walk away with God ...we will never ever feel so alone.
ReplyDeleteYes 12:16 but we have different opinions and beliefs. Hindi pi lahat mag-a-agree na religion is the answer. Buti po kayo prayerful. May ibang tao hindi ganun.
DeletePalakasan talaga ng mental health ngayon mas lalo pandemic pa! Kaya mahalaga din na aliwin ang sarili kung wala talaga makausap at higit sa lahat ang mapalapit kay God.
ReplyDeleteBat naman ganun.kawawa naman pamilya m cguro wala mapag sabihan ng problema.ako nga iniwan ng asawa ayaw pa ipakita or ipahiram ang manga bata hnd k nagawa kc may manga kapamag anak ako na nasabihan ng problema.cguro wala sya na pag sabihin kaya ganun.sana walang judgmental jan.pray nalng natin po sya
ReplyDeleteFor sure, afford nya ang psychiatrist, treatment medication at kung anu ano pa. Maski nga yata bumili ng kausap. Ganun kasi tlaga ang depression hindi mo alam kaylan aatake ng malala.
DeleteMental health issue talaga ang problema ng karamihan now. Maraming bouts of anxiety lalo na pandemic. It doesn't mean that a person seems to be happy and doesn't show signs of depression, hindi sila depressed. Karamihan sa kanila masaya bago nag suicide. Sino nga ba yun rapper na nagpakamatay din na last video nya e super saya nila ng anak niya? The following day he ended his life. So yeah, importante na even if we don't see signs sa kaibigan, katrabaho, kakilala or kapamilya, it doesn't mean wala silang pinagdadaanan. Always check on your loved ones.gone too soon.
ReplyDelete