Insta Scoop: Carla Abellana on Removing IG Followers, Pettiness of Unfollowing-Following Important Persons, Mindfulness on 'Distractions and Diversions'
super toxic na tlga ng socmed ngaun. Fake news,trolls,etc. Buti p dati na wlng soc med.life is better. Kea some hollywood celebs wlng social media accounts. Like IG.
9:37 nawawala ang mystery ng halos bawat tao ever since nag exist ang social media especially FB kung saan kaliwa't kanan may pa-screenshot and cryptic posts. It makes most of us appear childish imbes na itago mo na ganun pala attitude mo. Bihira sa mga tao sa social media ang hindi mahilig magparinig. Kahit now na may freelance work ako, panay pa rin post and rants ko tbh. Sana meron social media school or subject para bumalik ang pagiging classy ng bawat tao. Although much better pa rin na maging mabuting tao sa personal iba pa rin yung maayos ang feed mo. :) I know it's all common sense pero sana may social media etiquette na subject. I mean diba yung ultimong manner nga ng pagkain tinuturo eh. Sa mga rich people tinuturo ang manners and lahat ng klase ng utensils at paano gamitin yun. Eh di sana pati social media manners tinuturo din. 😅
1041 so? Paki mo kung ganyan sya. Kesa nman dyan sa atin, isang kahig isang tuka na nga lang mag aanak pa ng isang dosena. Pabayaan mo ang ibang babae na may standards, anobey! Pero pampam na nga c Carla at Tom nowadays. 🤣
sayang naman ginastos nila sa pagpapakasal. siguro may red flags na kay Carla pero tinuloy nya pa rin ang kasal kay tom. double tsk. Lesson to all brides-to-be, if you see a red flag before your marriage date, do not compromise your principles. run!!!
siguro may nangyayari na nun mga time na yun pero hopeful sila na baka maayos pa or baka pressure nalang kasi naannounce na and nakapagbayad na sa mga suppliers and matagal nadin naman sila
Ay di mo gets. Tom was saying he was blocked (temporarily) but Carla was saying din na di nya style ang unfollowing/blocking (kasi di daw sya grade schooler). She was removed nga daw. Meaning it was Tom who removed her in his follower list.
She is saying that they did not unfollow Tom. It was Tom who removed her, her sister, and her mother as his followers. Sabi ni Carla, spiteful daw si Tom.
i vlog mo na lang yan Carla , isama mo na ung tutorial ng pag edit mo ng wedding ring sa daliri mo. kaumay ka na, sa personal mo awayin si Tom di ung panay parinig ka at FYI sumagot lang si Tom sa parinig nyo na binura din nya naman agad agad
almost 8 years , napipilitan? super tyaga naman ni tom non eh kahit wala si carla sumasama sya sa fam ni carla , nakiki sleep over nga sya kahit wala si carla sinabi nya sa interview nya 2019 pa
Carlaa, nabubutingting mo pa mga ganyang bagay? Kung finollow, unfollow, blocked ka man, kung ayaw mo na dun sa tao, ano naman sayo? Conscious ka sa likers mo at naging big deal pa yan? Kung important person/family, talk in private, viber kayo, messenger. Di IG ang best platform dyan, prone to miscommunication.
To Carla: What are you, 12?! Judging by how you reacted to whatever the issue is, muka ka ngang 12 or even younger. Yung just to prove your point eh sangkatutak na photo kailangan mong iedit at post.
Wala talaga sa tagal ang tibay ng relationshps. Akala ng lahat pang forever at ideal couple sila kasi walang issues noong di pa sila kinakasal. And look at them now.. Sad for them. Sana maka move on silang dalawa. Di talaga mag wowork mga ganyan.
You know what? I used to care about them as a couple. I hoped na rumours lang na hiwalay na sila. Or if totoo na they can still fix it. But now seeing them act like mga bata I finally stopped caring na. ✌️
Shocks can you imagine? Grabe talaga ang tagal nila branded as silent, low key, classy couple pa nga e, tapos nung kinasal panay sabi pa may forever, perfect couple, tapos after 3 months nagkakalat sila ng ganito? OMG
Bakit parang itong Carla ang toxic. Ang hirap kasama ang ganyan, de numero ang kilos mo. Lahat may meaning, lahat may masasabi. Parang mahirap tantiyahin.
If hindi 3rd party ang issue. I will not be surprised bakit sila may problem. I remember yun recent postdito sa FP about sa honeymoon nila. May disclaimer pa na it is not their honeymoon yet yun boracay trip nila. Anong problem if doon mag honeymoon.
Maybe she's in so much pain na gusto niyang gumanti sa nanakit sa kanya kaya lang hindi niya magawa. Praying for her. Napakahirap ng ganyang sitwasyon.
Wala bang family and friends na kumakausap sa mag asawang to? Pati mngt? Ang kalat na nila. Mas madrama pa sila sa mga teenagers na nagka selosan sa kabilang station
Stop washing your dirty laundry in public. I find it so cheap. Carla what is your point over follow/ unfollow block? If ganyan ka toxic ang pina-follow mo at araw araw mo makikita posts nya, I would rather stop following her. Tsaka Ang dami mo na kayang blocked na followers and even avid supporters mo hindi dahil bashed ka, but ang message lang naman ay magkaayos pa kayo. Di ba? What a selfish brat!! Don’t ask for kindness if you yourself cannot give it to others
Are you all missing the point? She's just saying hindi nya inunfollow si T. Si T ang nag remove sa kanya insinuating na baka may tinatago. Or prolly just clearing up her name na whatever is happening between them, she's not that petty. Di ako fan nyan ha. Ang tanging napanood ko nga lng serye dyan e My Husband's Lover.
Not a fan, pero bat andaming affected senyo?hahahaha It's their life, thay chose to vent out that way. Last time i checked, your social media - your rules. Kung gusto nila magpost ng ganon, eh ano naman, ig naman nila yan. Kung papansin sya, edi successful sya sa ginawa nya kase lahat kayo napansin sya, lels.
Toxic kasi. Kahit ako limited lang. di ako nag IG,Twitter, Facebook lang ako. 100 lang friends ko sa fb. Yung ibang kamag anak na di naman close tinanggal at di ko na inaccept friend request. Yung iba nang aabang lang naman hindi totoong may pake. Aabang lang ng may maichichismis sayo
Carla, clearly both of you seem to be struggling with your marriage. Whatever issues na meron kayo - please, you can do better than this - Marites who cares
Napapaisip na ako sa kanilang dalawa kung sino may problema. Kung ako nanay ng lalake at ganyan ka butangera yun asawa, dinadaan lahat sa social media, naku naku red flag ka na uy sa akin. Likewise sa asawa nya din. Wala bang mga telepono to dalawa o di gumamit ng text and call para mag usap?
Luh. mom ni carla una nagpost, sunod si carla, then si erica her sister. After nila mag ig story saka sumagot si Tom pero dinelete din agad. Abangers ako jan sa dalawang yan because im a tom and carla fan
Kung kelan kinasal saka sila nagkakaganyan. Understandable pa sana kung whirlwind yung romance nila gaya nung kina Derek & Ellen but they were together for 7 yrs and not just simpleng bf-gf but living together talaga. So weird. Makes you think gaano kalaki ang kasalanan ni Tom na parang hirap si Carla to move past it. My inner Maritess is naiinip na for the tea. Ano ba kasi talaga? 😂
super toxic na tlga ng socmed ngaun. Fake news,trolls,etc. Buti p dati na wlng soc med.life is better. Kea some hollywood celebs wlng social media accounts. Like IG.
ReplyDeleteagree
Deletetalaga? matapos mo magcomment dito e social media din to
Delete@8:27 this is not social media. this is a website.
DeleteAt lahat ng yan sinabi mo through social media 😂🤣
Delete2022 na di pa rin alam ng ibang utaw ano ang social media
DeleteMag usap nga kayong dalawa
ReplyDeleteTong mag-asawang to, wag kayo magparinigan sa socmed! Ano kayo, mga teenager?!
DeleteOo nga. Ang tatanda na. Sana konting maturity naman at mag usap ng maayos outside of soc med. Enjoy pa ata silang pinagpipiyestahan.
DeleteSo Tom unfollowed Carla and removed her as a follower. Tapos nagkaroon ng temporary blocking kaya nawala din lahat ng likes.
Delete9:37 nawawala ang mystery ng halos bawat tao ever since nag exist ang social media especially FB kung saan kaliwa't kanan may pa-screenshot and cryptic posts. It makes most of us appear childish imbes na itago mo na ganun pala attitude mo. Bihira sa mga tao sa social media ang hindi mahilig magparinig. Kahit now na may freelance work ako, panay pa rin post and rants ko tbh. Sana meron social media school or subject para bumalik ang pagiging classy ng bawat tao. Although much better pa rin na maging mabuting tao sa personal iba pa rin yung maayos ang feed mo. :) I know it's all common sense pero sana may social media etiquette na subject. I mean diba yung ultimong manner nga ng pagkain tinuturo eh. Sa mga rich people tinuturo ang manners and lahat ng klase ng utensils at paano gamitin yun. Eh di sana pati social media manners tinuturo din. 😅
DeleteThanks ms know-it-all as if hindi namin alam ang feature na ganyan sa IG.
ReplyDeleteI didnt know may ganyan palang feature ang ig. So you can block followers ng iba, not just your own.
Delete753 ako nman wlang Ig baka next year na. 😂
DeleteHindi kaya...nagtaka nga ako e kaya I tried.You can only remove your follower,others can't.Try mo din he he
DeletePampam talaga tong si carla 😁 gusto lang mapag usapan 🤭
ReplyDeleteNarealize na kaya nya na hindi porke kayang magkabahay ng lalaki eh ok na? Di ba no house no wedding daw?
Delete1041 so? Paki mo kung ganyan sya. Kesa nman dyan sa atin, isang kahig isang tuka na nga lang mag aanak pa ng isang dosena. Pabayaan mo ang ibang babae na may standards, anobey! Pero pampam na nga c Carla at Tom nowadays. 🤣
DeleteNarealize ko ang saya saya ni maya sa asawa nya
DeleteYes standards are good but not to the point of degrading others because they don’t meet yours
DeleteMasyadong papansin Kung kailan tumanda ang babaeng Yan saka nagging immature...
DeleteDaming ka artehan :) follow unfollow blocked whatever :) try nyo mag file ng annulment mas ok yan :)
ReplyDeleteHahaahahah
DeleteKorek! Asan ang tapang nya ngayon?
DeleteNapa childish ni Carla, sya din naman nag delete ng comments ni Tom sa IG. Papansin much.
DeleteAnong drama na naman ito, Carla.
ReplyDeleteArte sila sila Rin yan
DeleteSagutan pa more.mag usap kasi.haiiz
ReplyDeleteBilang babae ramdam na ramdam ko ang sakit ng na nararamdaman ni carla.
ReplyDeleteLol! Huwag affected!
DeleteBe strong carla,andito lang kming mga fans mo.
ReplyDeletesayang naman ginastos nila sa pagpapakasal. siguro may red flags na kay Carla pero tinuloy nya pa rin ang kasal kay tom. double tsk. Lesson to all brides-to-be, if you see a red flag before your marriage date, do not compromise your principles. run!!!
ReplyDeleteyeah i agree with you..yon ngang marriage vows nila ang awkward pakinggan...hindi sweet p may kulang...
DeleteKaloka 7 years live in may red flags na tinuloy pa rin?
Deletesiguro may nangyayari na nun mga time na yun pero hopeful sila na baka maayos pa or baka pressure nalang kasi naannounce na and nakapagbayad na sa mga suppliers and matagal nadin naman sila
DeleteAng sarcastic ng family nila.
ReplyDeleteNagbibigay na pala ng tutorials to si Carla. Nice /s
ReplyDeleteHahahahaahhaahahhahahaahahah
kung ano man ang pinagdadaanan niya ngayon ibigay na natin sa kanya mga baks!! halata naman na nasaktan talaga sya lalo pa na kakakasal lang nila 😔
ReplyDeleteparapapampam
ReplyDeleteparang ikaw din naman to beshy
ReplyDeleteNo one can remove a follower kundi ikaw o ig friends mo
ReplyDeleteEven your following and followers can’t do that
Lame excuse
Ay di mo gets. Tom was saying he was blocked (temporarily) but Carla was saying din na di nya style ang unfollowing/blocking (kasi di daw sya grade schooler). She was removed nga daw. Meaning it was Tom who removed her in his follower list.
Deleterolling eyes
ReplyDeleteShe is saying that they did not unfollow Tom. It was Tom who removed her, her sister, and her mother as his followers. Sabi ni Carla, spiteful daw si Tom.
ReplyDeleteKasi masyadong public itong si kara akaa she’s prim and proper.
DeleteEwan sa inyo
ReplyDeleteIs being passive agressive with your social media posts also not considered immature as well?
ReplyDeleteUhmm, that's IG basics.
ReplyDeleteNgayon lang ba nya nalaman?
MATAGAL na naming alam gamitin ang feature na yan, Carla. NAPAKA PAPANSIN MO.
ReplyDeletei vlog mo na lang yan Carla , isama mo na ung tutorial ng pag edit mo ng wedding ring sa daliri mo. kaumay ka na, sa personal mo awayin si Tom di ung panay parinig ka at FYI sumagot lang si Tom sa parinig nyo na binura din nya naman agad agad
ReplyDeleteIt’s so petty to make patama in social media. Why can’t they address once and for all the status so wla na paliguy-ligoy be honest.
ReplyDeleteMay time sya dito, pero wala syang time magsalita sa issue/rumor ng hiwalayan nila ng asawa nya kahit may nadamay ng iba. Lols
ReplyDeleteHaha! True yan! Nasisira pa yung mga nadadamay
DeleteApplicable Lang ata yan sa mga di verified Ang accounts. Try nyo guys walang ganyan features sa verified accounts
ReplyDeleteYung akala mo classy couple, isip bata rin pala 😂😂😂
ReplyDeletePansin ko sa loob ng ilang years ngayon lang sila nagpasiklab ng ganyan.
Delete11.23 which doesn't add up kasi live-in sila for long din.
DeleteManalamin ka muna, ikaw kaya ang petty. Grade school much kayong mag asawa
ReplyDeleteGanyan naman siya kahit sa exes niya
DeleteGo to marriage counselling na lang kaya.
ReplyDeleteAng daming kaekekan ng mag asawa na to. Buti na lang di ako cum laude at classy kundi panay din drama ko sa socmed.
ReplyDeleteIKR yung mga classy ang daming issue sa buhay.
DeleteTried clicking the 3 dots, walang remove follower sa menu
ReplyDeleteShe and her mom should just delete all of the pictures with tom on their instagram accounts and then file for annullment para tapos na. 🙄
ReplyDeleteNaku wala pa isang taon na kasal annull agad? Parang ampangit naman nun
DeleteI have always felt na hindi talaga comfortable si tom pag kasama family ni carla parang napipilitan lang siyang makisama ganun.
ReplyDeletealmost 8 years , napipilitan? super tyaga naman ni tom non eh kahit wala si carla sumasama sya sa fam ni carla , nakiki sleep over nga sya kahit wala si carla sinabi nya sa interview nya 2019 pa
DeleteNaka2sawa na lagi na lang may issue, dina lng kasi mag usap at tapusin na yong relasyon kung ayaw na talaga, sobra cheap na.
ReplyDeleteMarried couples are now dealing with a major issue in their lives - instagram. Lol.
ReplyDeleteSo true!
DeleteCarlaa, nabubutingting mo pa mga ganyang bagay? Kung finollow, unfollow, blocked ka man, kung ayaw mo na dun sa tao, ano naman sayo? Conscious ka sa likers mo at naging big deal pa yan? Kung important person/family, talk in private, viber kayo, messenger. Di IG ang best platform dyan, prone to miscommunication.
ReplyDeleteTo Carla:
ReplyDeleteWhat are you, 12?!
Judging by how you reacted to whatever the issue is, muka ka ngang 12 or even younger. Yung just to prove your point eh sangkatutak na photo kailangan mong iedit at post.
Lol katakot takot na paliwanag, dami time mag edit at post sa ig
DeleteWala talaga sa tagal ang tibay ng relationshps. Akala ng lahat pang forever at ideal couple sila kasi walang issues noong di pa sila kinakasal. And look at them now.. Sad for them. Sana maka move on silang dalawa. Di talaga mag wowork mga ganyan.
ReplyDeleteAng totoo, nung di pa sila kasal, for some reasons parqng may off sa kanila. Well, ako lang naman yun
DeleteYou know what? I used to care about them as a couple. I hoped na rumours lang na hiwalay na sila. Or if totoo na they can still fix it. But now seeing them act like mga bata I finally stopped caring na. ✌️
ReplyDeleteI love real life teleserye :) Much much better stories and pettiness :) Next level na ito guys :D :D :D
ReplyDeleteShocks can you imagine? Grabe talaga ang tagal nila branded as silent, low key, classy couple pa nga e, tapos nung kinasal panay sabi pa may forever, perfect couple, tapos after 3 months nagkakalat sila ng ganito? OMG
ReplyDeleteCno ung nasa baba? Sorry d ko kilala
ReplyDeleteBakit parang itong Carla ang toxic. Ang hirap kasama ang ganyan, de numero ang kilos mo. Lahat may meaning, lahat may masasabi. Parang mahirap tantiyahin.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Kht sa mga aspeto ng buhay nya na walang kinalaman sa lovelife nya, parang ang nega masyado.
DeletePara nga syang control freak, na lahat ng gagawin mo di tama kasi yong way lang nya ang right.
DeleteHay naku Carla you cheapen yourself..i thought you’re a classy lady!
ReplyDeleteClassy … how hihihi maarte
DeleteHay naco pag Ganyan sila yung marriage Hinde Hinde mag prosper. Simula pa Lang ang Dami na nila issues sa isat isa. Nag pakasal pa kasi kayo.
ReplyDeleteIf hindi 3rd party ang issue. I will not be surprised bakit sila may problem. I remember yun recent postdito sa FP about sa honeymoon nila. May disclaimer pa na it is not their honeymoon yet yun boracay trip nila. Anong problem if doon mag honeymoon.
ReplyDeleteGusto out of the country para sosyal
DeleteParang ang gulo nga nya. Vacation after their wedding yun so more or less honeymoon na rin siya sabay di daw. Anggulo nya db?
DeleteRight? Medyo taka nga din ako don.
DeleteMaybe she's in so much pain na gusto niyang gumanti sa nanakit sa kanya kaya lang hindi niya magawa. Praying for her. Napakahirap ng ganyang sitwasyon.
ReplyDeleteThe irony of calling someone petty, while doing something petty.
ReplyDeleteWala bang family and friends na kumakausap sa mag asawang to? Pati mngt? Ang kalat na nila. Mas madrama pa sila sa mga teenagers na nagka selosan sa kabilang station
ReplyDeleteBase sa post ni FP, parang walang pakialam ang mom and sister ni Carla na mag mediate sa couple. How sad. Petty din ng family ni Carla.
DeleteStop washing your dirty laundry in public. I find it so cheap. Carla what is your point over follow/ unfollow block? If ganyan ka toxic ang pina-follow mo at araw araw mo makikita posts nya, I would rather stop following her. Tsaka Ang dami mo na kayang blocked na followers and even avid supporters mo hindi dahil bashed ka, but ang message lang naman ay magkaayos pa kayo. Di ba? What a selfish brat!! Don’t ask for kindness if you yourself cannot give it to others
ReplyDeleteSo did Tom remove her as a follower? So why not just say that, or better yet, discuss with him and resolve your drama offline.
ReplyDeleteGanda nga pero etong pinapakita nya mejo ka suka haha
ReplyDeleteMore drama nonsense ni lola. Hohum.
ReplyDeleteLol, useless and pointless nothing.
ReplyDeleteAre you all missing the point? She's just saying hindi nya inunfollow si T. Si T ang nag remove sa kanya insinuating na baka may tinatago. Or prolly just clearing up her name na whatever is happening between them, she's not that petty. Di ako fan nyan ha. Ang tanging napanood ko nga lng serye dyan e My Husband's Lover.
ReplyDeleteAs if naman yung pagpaparinig on social media is not juvenile behavior.
ReplyDeleteAkala ko pa naman matalino tong si Carla. Nakaka disappoint sya, akala ko classy.
DeleteNot a fan, pero bat andaming affected senyo?hahahaha
ReplyDeleteIt's their life, thay chose to vent out that way.
Last time i checked, your social media - your rules.
Kung gusto nila magpost ng ganon, eh ano naman, ig naman nila yan.
Kung papansin sya, edi successful sya sa ginawa nya kase lahat kayo napansin sya, lels.
Sure, pero shes saying na pettey daw si Tom, while sya din same rin naman petty din actions nya. Pampam.
DeleteToxic kasi. Kahit ako limited lang. di ako nag IG,Twitter, Facebook lang ako. 100 lang friends ko sa fb. Yung ibang kamag anak na di naman close tinanggal at di ko na inaccept friend request. Yung iba nang aabang lang naman hindi totoong may pake. Aabang lang ng may maichichismis sayo
ReplyDeleteAnd to think na classy and smart ang tingin ng netizens sa kanya. INTELLIGENT PEOPLE IGNORE.
ReplyDeleteyung totoo? ano ba tlga kuda ng mag asawang to? magiisang buwan n yang follow unfollow kineme nila. Usap usap din kse kaloka!
ReplyDeleteWho is playing a hateful game? I think both of you are guilty of playing games..sana you find it in your heart to move on and find peace.
ReplyDeleteCarla, clearly both of you seem to be struggling with your marriage. Whatever issues na meron kayo - please, you can do better than this - Marites who cares
ReplyDeleteSorry ha pero parang ang babaw babaw lang ng pinag awayan nila.
ReplyDeleteUsually it started w/ petty quarrels that mushroomed into a gigantic bubble that burst! Now this girl is washing her dirty linens in public!
Delete10:20 pwede mag tagalog teh
DeleteHer ex is LOL now
ReplyDeleteNapapaisip na ako sa kanilang dalawa kung sino may problema. Kung ako nanay ng lalake at ganyan ka butangera yun asawa, dinadaan lahat sa social media, naku naku red flag ka na uy sa akin. Likewise sa asawa nya din. Wala bang mga telepono to dalawa o di gumamit ng text and call para mag usap?
ReplyDeleteTom posted first. Sumagot lang si Carla.
DeleteLuh. mom ni carla una nagpost, sunod si carla, then si erica her sister. After nila mag ig story saka sumagot si Tom pero dinelete din agad. Abangers ako jan sa dalawang yan because im a tom and carla fan
DeleteAng sad ng family nila, imbes na pag ayusin ang mag asawa parang gumagatong pa.
DeleteKung kelan kinasal saka sila nagkakaganyan. Understandable pa sana kung whirlwind yung romance nila gaya nung kina Derek & Ellen but they were together for 7 yrs and not just simpleng bf-gf but living together talaga. So weird. Makes you think gaano kalaki ang kasalanan ni Tom na parang hirap si Carla to move past it. My inner Maritess is naiinip na for the tea. Ano ba kasi talaga? 😂
ReplyDeleteMay ganun talaga ateng, minsan diba we hear stories, ilang years ta tapos nag hiwalay eh yung iba kelang lang nagkilala mag-finace na.
DeleteHala daming time, nag essay writing contest talaga si mamshie hehe
ReplyDeleteAng haba, tamad ako mag basa. Get a job lola Karla and get busy. Enough useless nonsense.
ReplyDelete