What a very immature way of handling a marital conflict! That means yung long years ng pagsasama nila before their marriage ay ilusyonada sya na Ang relationship is premised on the birds and the bees... She's living in a dream. Somebody must wake her up and let her face reality...What she's doing is not the right way to handle her marital discord.. Dapat ang naging marital vows nya ay "for better or for better....in health and in health...for richer or for richer..." Hindi sya marunong maghandle ng crisis. 🥳🥳😃
3:28pm oo teh. Na-ganyan din ako. Nakakabaliw talaga. Psychological damage siya. Kung nakakalait ka nang ganyan sa kanya, good for you na hindi mo naranasan yan. :’(
Yan ang makabagong pagwawala, sa social media ang ganap!
Pero girl, kalma lang... log off from social media muna! parang di nakakatulong sa iyong mental health eh! Hindi magandang coping mechanism yan, but I'm sure deep down in your gut alam mo yan.
Wag kame Carla. Kung totoo man you allowed yourself eh kaso 7 years kayo and both public figures! Imposibleng wala kayong alam sa buong pagkatao nyo. This is all paandar!
She’s obviously hurting, sino bang hindi kung ganyan ang end up ng relationship. At some point, nag lash out na din kayo na di pinaburan ng lahat. Pwede ba.
Very uncalled for na ang pag like nya sa mga comments against Tom. Not taking sides here. If indeed may mali si Tom at ayaw na nya tanggapin si Tom, separate ways amicably. wag ng daanin sa social media.
Si carla cum laude ng psychology sa DLSU pero mukang di maapply ang natutunan in real life. Nagkakalat siya sa IG instead mag part ways nalang ng maayos. Since kasal pa sila, kasiraan niya din yan e. Sana payuhan siya ng manager niya. Found out na since last year lumipat na siya sa manager ni Tom.
Not even a fan of this couple All i know maganda reputation nila as a couple at parang lahat happy for them and supports them Tapos after how many years and marriage ganito lang pala pagsak nila So sad
If hiwalay na sila, magka balikan pa Kaya sila? Toxic kasi ng ganitong galawan eh, sa social media dinadaan sa halip pag usapan privately dami tuloy nakikisawsaw.
12:10 kahit sa ibang bansa ka magpakasal kung Filipino Citizen ka, sa Philippine Embassy padin ang report of marriage. Wala pading divorce. Unless sa foreigner ka magpakasal at hindi nyo irereport ang kasal sa Pinas.
Mas shunga ka 12:44! Walang divorce dito sa Pinas. Maka shunga kay 11:35 wagas! FYI, annulment po ang meron dito sa Pinas? Okay? Next time huwag puro pagmamarites ang inaatupag! Basa basa rin para medyo valid ang pagsabi ng "shunga" next time!
Fyi, pag parehong Filipino citizen, kahit saang lupalop pa sila ng mundo magpakasal, batas pa rin ng Pilipinas mag-apply. So di rin ihohonor yung divorce nila na finile sa ibang bansa.
Let her deal with their situation however she wants. Gusto nya gawin in public? Let her. Di naman tayo affected eh. Sila lang mag asawa ang affected nyan. Hayaan natin sila.
hindi din, depende sa babae yan. kung si lj reyes nga na matindi may anak pa pero di gumaganyan ganyan. sadyang gusto lang magkalat ni carla wag mo na idefend
I graduated from the same university and had some psychology major friends. some of them are not also good in dealing with such things. may mga tao tlga siguro na hindi mai.apply sa sarili nila yung theories or concept.
Iw, what a toxic mindset you have. Porque ba psychology graduate dapat sanay ka na ring ideal yung problems mo? Alam mo, mas mahirap talagang harapin yung sariling problema, kumpara sa problema ng iba. And kung ano man yung ginagawa niya ngayon, hayaan niyo lang siya. Nasaktan yung tao, and I think it's her way to vent out her feelings. And wag niyong sabihin na artista siya, kaya dapat hindi ganyan yung inaasal niya. Ghorl tao pa rin siya, baka nakakalimutan niyo. Taong may feelings, and flaws.
I am against cheating, pero may mga friends ako na married na nagsasabi na iba pag married na kayo na at the end of the day gusto mo maayos or bigyan ng chance ang marriage niyo if willing naman kayo ayusin marriage is a choice daw kasi so baka naman maayos pa nila.
Butdepende kasi siguro sa case ng cheating like if nagkaanak sa iba or matagal na non negotiable pero ayun nga hindi natin alam if ano ba nangyari talaga sa kanila pero sa case na to parang ang annoying ni carla 😂
Ang difficult sa cheating ay yung nawalang trust, mahirap ibalik, may times na okay ka, mas madaming times na hindi. May moments na nakakatrigger kaya bigla mo pa rin mararamdaman yung pain kahit minsan sa pakiramdam mo nakamove on ka na. Mahirap din lalo pag may anak at conservative ang family. Minsan feeling mo masasalvage pa, minsan ayaw mo na lang ng pain kaya gusto mo na hiwalayan tapos makikita mo anak mo at malulungkot ka. Pinakamahirap kasi yung nacheat ka ng exbf mo, tapos nag asawa ka at this time nagcheat naman yung asawa mo. (2 diff persons yan ha)
She’s really hurt and angry at the moment.. been there.. if that is her way to cope hayaan na natin. Give her some space to venf out. Isipin mo kakasal lang nya tapos ang gulo na
Dati nung may away din kami ng asawa ko at ayoko paalam sa iba na nagbabardagulan na kami puro like and quotes lang din post ko. Hayaan nyo na si Carla baka yan lang nagpapagaan sa kalooban nya. Iba iba naman kasi tayo pano magcope sa problem at lungkot.
Meron kasi tinatawag "seven itch" parang sumpa sa relationship na pag 7 years na kayo dun dadaan na sa problema. If malagpasan ng couple yung seven itch usually nagtatagal.
Carla, please lang. Wag mong pagmukhaing t*nga sarili mo sa ginagawa mo. Don’t stoop down to his level jusko. Sya pala may sala. Sya dapat ang mabaliw.
Grabe sobrang disaster ng break up nila, 7yrs naging mag jowa tapos 3months lang hiwalay na after wedding? Prang sana si nalang nagpakasal baka mas forever pa sila magsama, irony of life
Cheating is a super deal breaker for me. Sabi nga ng commenter, buti nalang wala pang anak so, kung ako kay carla, makipag divorce na siya kasi malabong mabalik ba yung 100% trust mo sa partner mo once nag cheat siya
Hindi pa. Pero yun ang isang common reason para magkaganyan ang isang wife. It’s either betrayal/infidelity or abuse. But i’m leaning towards betrayal sa case nila.
Ganyan talaga kapag sobrang sakit ginawa sayo ng asawa mo. Betrayal yan eh kaya di natin sya masisisi kung panay ang like nya sa mga comments against her husband.
She is really angry at Tom. I hope humupa at magkaayos sila mag asawa. Mukhang di pinapatulan ni Tom ang galit ni Carla kaya mas nabwibwiset si ate. Tom clearly wants to save his marriage. Walang masama sa second chance kahit ano pa ang reason kung worth it ang tao at ang relasyon. Put God in the center of your relationship. There is really something in marriage that put pressures to couple. I wish them good luck.
I agree. Recently married pero ibang iba talaga kesa nung bf gf pa lang kami. Kasi andyan na yung sawa factor na lagi kayo magkasama, yung pressure to have a child, or pressure to raise a child kung meron na, dealing with new family members na toxic, pressure ng mga monthly bayarin and the list goes on. Yung kilig ng bf gf ang hirap na isustain.
12:30 kaya mo yan. Enjoy the little things. It's better to grow together than grow with someone else. When I said grow, yung as a person, yung good and bad side, kasi people think to believe makukuha nila sa iba yan but the truth is you will experience same again, you have to accept our partners imperfections.
Tanggalan una social media to si Carla lalong lumalala e. I mean gets kung galit siya pero lalo sila pagpyestahan kung ganyan. Kung gusto niya icrucify si Tom e di magpost siya directly tas tag niya.
Carla,talk to Tom in private,please.Your network and company sponsors would like you to have a peaceful relationship. Make your image be aligned with their good image.
Gigil na gigil si Carla. Mapride din kasi sya kaya di nya ma admit na hiwalay na sila after ikasal. Ayan dinadaan sa liking spree. Kim K lang ang peg 72days tapos na.
I wish them both luck. If kaya iforgive then take your time and pag feel mo na iforgive mo. If not then, file ka na ng annulment/divorce kesa magliking spree lalo kayo paguusapan. Tapos if magbalikan eh tatawanan pa si Carla
Not defending her. But I think yung sakit na nararamdaman nya is mainly because alam natin napakaperfectionist nitong si Carla. Very obvious yon pati sa pagpplano ng kasal nila. Parang gusto nya perfect na perfect tingin sa kanila ng public. Tapos mangyayari ito, ang laking sampal sa mukha considering the timing na a few months lang after the wedding. Kung ako man yan na narcissistic perfectionist hay naku mawawala nga ako sa katinuan. Stay strong, Tom and Carla.
This! Yung iba kasi galit kay Carla kasi gusto nila magsalita na. Intindihin natin na iba iba tayo ng coping mechanism. Let her cope whichever way she wants to cope. At the end of the day, regardless of their celebrity status tao pa rin mga yan.
She can’t handle trials in a marriage..better go to a marriage counselor to help cope w/ her problems..socmed won’t solve it! Ikaw lang Carla ang maka solve ng problema mo!
Oo tapos kapag naging honest at straightforward, sasabihin airing your dirty laundry in public - hindi ma satisfy ang mga ibang nakiki marites. Iba iba nga tayo ng coping mechanism. Kung dominante talaga yan, matagal ng tumalak yan
Baka nagsawa na c boy Sa ugali ni girl na masyadong dominante! Masyadong mabait c boy pero ang tao napupuno rin at naghahanap ng iba that will treat him good.
So may problema nga sa marriage nila talaga pag wala yan todo mag stories yan sila Carla and Tom na magkakasama sila pati na sa vlogs. Ang sad naman pag hahantong lang sila sa hiwalayan. Haay! Medyo nakaka trauma din at nakakabaliw
Sino ngayon ang mahilig sa spiteful games? Marriage is not for everyone talaga. It's better for her to lie low or spill everything. Hindi yung puro likes at pa hint. Diretsuhin mo na lang sagutin ang issued. Napaka pabebe and dragging this way too long..
E ayaw nga ni madam, ayaw nya pakinggan asawa nya ayaw nya makipagusap kay Tom. Mula nag away sila never pa yata sya hinarap ni carla (based sa reply ni tom sa fans before)
Hhaha. Di ko mapigilan hindi magcomment sa mga Marites na ang iinit ng ulo. Let her cope the way she wants to. She has the right to get angry and deal with it her way. For years, their relationship has been lowkey, ngayon lang naman umingay. I think lahat naman tayo napagdaanan ang ganoong point. Do not blame her for this, in fact hindi naman siya mag-behave ng ganyan if it weren’t for her bad experience with the person.
Keep your misogynistic comments to yourself! Can’t believe you guys are disregarding the fact that he might had cheated, he might had lied pero ang sisi sa babae parin? Worse if you are a woman yourself, to be commenting like that!
Based sa yt channel ni c hindi talaga siya nakikinig sa sinasabi ni tom and she doesn't let him speak his mind. She only wants to do all the talking. While the guy is just a wallflower. 🙄
how messy.. dyan talaga makikita ang scorned woman.. what can i say.. it really hurts when people cheat on you (obv basing it on her likes to cheating comments).
Dami kong tawa sa mga nagsasalita ng nega against Carla. Dyusme yung iba nga mas malala pa dyan. Buti pa sya nagtitimpi pa. Kaloka kayo. Ano to, To Have and to Hold all over again. Mas may simpatya sa cheater and publiko. Nanggigigil pa rin ako sa serye na yan.
Carla nararamdaman ko ung galit mo sa asawa mo,hayaan mo ang mga araw ang magsasaysay sa mga gawa nya,exit w/ grace carla kung hindi mo na kayang makisama sa knya.kpag dumating araw na un sasabihin mo sa mga nangbabash sayo ngaun,"that is what im trying to tell all of you".
sorry. ayaw ko makita na ang ganitong news linggo linggo sa newsfeed ko. ang daming drama. dinaman sabihin ang facts. marami kanamang aso cerla, pate nga sa simbahan sinasama mo, yan nalang atupagin mo muna
Let her be! She’s hurting. And so what if she went liking the comments? I bet most of you nga ditong mga marites, magpopost kayo agad sa status niyo sa FB at magpaparinig pa. Don’t be hypocrites. Easy for you all to say na manahimik siya, kakakasal lang niya so the pain is double.
I understand that she’s hurting but she shouldn’t let her life become a circus show for everyone to see. She should rise above that and give herself some dignity. If she believes her marriage is over then file for annulment but if not then whatever she’s doing now will only hurt her in the future.
I don't get all the hate for Carla here. I mean yes we don't know what really happened but sa nakikita ko, confirmed or not na nagcheat si Tom is nakay Carla pa rin ung galit nyo just because she's been liking comments?!? So what if totoo na Tom cheated? I mean can't you read between the lines. Parang ang tindi ng galit the fact na ginagawa nya yan. And she probably is hurting.
ganyan talaga pag ang taas ng tingin mo sa sarili mio at feeling mo palagi na mas maswerte yung taong nagmamahal sa yo tapos bigla kang niloko or niloloko ka pala all this time. guguho talaga ang mundo mo at maloloka ka nang bongga. dominante pa naman sya at ms. know-it-all tapos naloko pa!
Madunong pa kayo kay Carla eh sa nasaktan nga yung tao eh ,way nya yan para mailabas Kayo tong marites lang sa account nya Kayo pa galit Her IG account her rule.
Why do i have a feeling na nagla like si carla ng comments against Tom para magalit naman tao kay Tom hahaha. Sa ig ni tom ng dami nya padin supporters and most of those are mga datihan na ding fans ni carla. Baka yamot si carla na sa kanya pa naiinis mga tao kaya ayan liking spree ang ganap para mabalimg naman may tom. kahit nonsense na comment na kc bsta against tom nila like nya eh
Wow dami na kumakampi kay Carla. Reader yan dto sa fp kaya Mission accomplished ka girl, sa pag like mo ng comments against Tom ayan nasayo na sympathy e kase naman nakaraan na posts dto sa fp sayo pa inis mga tao. So congrats , the tables are turned , pero ung gay si Tom? hahahaha sana di mo pagsisihan soon na pati yan ni like mo at sana di bumalik sayo one day yan. thats very degrading sa pagkatao ni tom lalo na at di naman totoo, right Carling? 😂
Cheating is a big blow to anyone especially when you are married. In an ideal world, sana hiniwalayan na lang muna bago mahumaling sa iba pero in human nature and sa psychology rin, there is always something that triggers more excitement kapag forbidden hence the betrayal in the end pag nahuli.
No one should judge Carla. She is the victim here, based sa mga rumors and ayan na, sa liking spree nya. Ang hirap pa, Philippine laws are useless to protect the party that is aggravated.
Kung hindi man siya classy magdala ng separation nya, hayaan nyo na. Lahat ng tao snaps too, extend compassion.
And please, hindi naman negative na maging matalino at perfectionist.
And people say 'marriage is just a piece of paper'. Anyare sa 2 toh? Ang ganda2 nung hindi pa kasal. Nung kinasal... May probs din naman siguro sila dati pero hindi naging ganito si Carla. Anyway, sana maayos nila ng tahimik.
Kung ganyan sya maka cope, pabayaan natin sya. Tao lang naman din mga artista. Di naman yan mag ririsk mag like like ng ganyan siguro kung walang truth behind it or evidence to support her claims. Ang hirap maging artista, problema mo na sayo lang dapat nagiging problema ng buong nasyon.
Weird lang na Psychology Grad tapos di ma apply sa sarili niya, like ang weird lang kasi kung ikaw maging client niya tapos ang nararanasan mo ngayon ay yung nararanasan niya.. Magpapa kunsulta ka pa kaya? Bakit ka makikinig sa payo niya kung siya mismo di mahandle situation niya? Its a no, no for me..
Eh hindi naman sya nagppractice as Psychologist sis. She's a professional actress, that's her job. At hindi nman ibig sabihin na pag Psych grad ka eh Psychologist lang ang mgging trabaho mo. Madaming klaseng work ang pwde pag psych grad ka. Obviously wala kang knowledge regarding the course. I'm not Carla or her fan ha. Registered Nurse ako kaya I know.
And let's say na nagppractice sya as Psychologist talaga, hindi naman ibig sabihin nun na d na sya pwde magka emotional breakdown pag nahurt sya. They've been living together for years and they just got married last November ba o October? Tapos hiwalay agad after ilang months. I cannot imagine the pain they are both going through. 💔 Dito nga sa America may mga Psychiatrists/Psychologists na sila mismo nkakaranas ng depression due to life changing events sa buhay nila. Nothing's wrong kung makaramdam man ng anger, depression etc. As long as na-vvent out mo un, you seek help from professionals and may strong support system ka from family and friends, that's fine. Just let them. Carla and Tom, maghiwalay man kayo o magkabalikan, it's fine. Time heals all the pain so just take your time.
Carla, kung nagbabasa ka dito at nababasa mo ito, alam ko nasaktan ka at kung mahal mo pa si Tom magusap kayo para magkaliwanagan(Tom kung nababasa mo ito, mag initiate ka makipagusap sa asawa mo). Kayong dalawa lang ang makakaayos nyan. Pero kung hindi mo na mahal si Tom, bigay mo nalang sya sakin. 😅😘
She’s losing her mind.
ReplyDeleteMukang sya yung problema no? Kahit diko alam ang behind the scenes mukang nakikita ko na may ugali siya.
DeleteOr she's confirmed suspicions...
DeleteShe's hurt real bad
DeleteWouldn’t you, if you were in her situation?
DeleteI know how this feels. Maya maya pagsisisihan niya 'to.
DeleteKung ako man ang kakakasal at ganyan ang mangyare saken masisira talaga ulo ko
DeleteNagaabang na sya ng ila-like nya. Twisted.
DeleteNasaktan si Ate Gurl. Yaan niyo na. IG niya yan. NakikiMosang lang kayo. Di
DeleteNahh... that's her normal self :) Just remember, you finally see your partner once you get married :) The mask falls off :D :D :D
DeleteShe is hurt! Cut her some slack!
DeleteWhat a very immature way of handling a marital conflict! That means yung long years ng pagsasama nila before their marriage ay ilusyonada sya na Ang relationship is premised on the birds and the bees... She's living in a dream. Somebody must wake her up and let her face reality...What she's doing is not the right way to handle her marital discord..
DeleteDapat ang naging marital vows nya ay "for better or for better....in health and in health...for richer or for richer..." Hindi sya marunong maghandle ng crisis. 🥳🥳😃
If that's her way of coping with pain let her be.
Delete404 ok ka lang? She wont be like that for no reason. Buti nga nae.express nya subtly galit nya
Delete3:28pm oo teh. Na-ganyan din ako. Nakakabaliw talaga. Psychological damage siya. Kung nakakalait ka nang ganyan sa kanya, good for you na hindi mo naranasan yan. :’(
DeleteYan ang makabagong pagwawala, sa social media ang ganap!
DeletePero girl, kalma lang... log off from social media muna! parang di nakakatulong sa iyong mental health eh! Hindi magandang coping mechanism yan, but I'm sure deep down in your gut alam mo yan.
Yung last one napindot lang or totoo.
ReplyDeleteIf this is true, ground for annulment yan di ba? Then she can just file and matahimik na ang buhay nya pati ang mga marites.
DeleteWag kame Carla. Kung totoo man you allowed yourself eh kaso 7 years kayo and both public figures! Imposibleng wala kayong alam sa buong pagkatao nyo. This is all paandar!
DeleteYung last comment ang nagdala
ReplyDeleteReel to real? #mhl
DeleteGirl tama na please lang! Magbakasyon ka na muna!
ReplyDeleteToxic attitude.
ReplyDeleteHala, yung last comment. 🤔
ReplyDeleteAng lowkey nga ng relationship nila compared sa ibang real life couples sa station nila ano kaya nangyari.
ReplyDeleteKAYO KAYA ANG MANAHIMIK? Bakit kasi kayo nangengelam hahahhahaha
ReplyDeleteShe’s obviously hurting, sino bang hindi kung ganyan ang end up ng relationship. At some point, nag lash out na din kayo na di pinaburan ng lahat. Pwede ba.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness! What happened to her? Napaka bitter nya.
ReplyDeleteE nasaktan yun tao e..
DeleteNapaka-bitter? Sayo kaya mangyari yan, di ka magreact the same way? Ewan ko lang.
DeleteHahahahahah katawa ung last
ReplyDeleteVery uncalled for na ang pag like nya sa mga comments against Tom.
ReplyDeleteNot taking sides here. If indeed may mali si Tom at ayaw na nya tanggapin si Tom, separate ways amicably. wag ng daanin sa social media.
Let her. It's her marriage anyway. Pabayaan niyo siya.
ReplyDeleteAFFECTED NA AFFECTED SI ATEH O!!! PANG ALL CAPS DRAMA!!! Dapat gumawa si Big Brother ng Married edition tapos ipasok si Tom at Carla HAHAHA
ReplyDeleteShe needs help. Sana mapayuhan sya ng mga kaibigan nya. Asan na din mga ninang at ninong nila, pakitulungan na lng po
ReplyDeleteFor sure meron yan. Pero seems like she’s really hurting. Kailangan nya support sa mga tao hindi pang babash porket di alam pinagdadaanan nya
DeleteSi carla cum laude ng psychology sa DLSU pero mukang di maapply ang natutunan in real life. Nagkakalat siya sa IG instead mag part ways nalang ng maayos. Since kasal pa sila, kasiraan niya din yan e. Sana payuhan siya ng manager niya. Found out na since last year lumipat na siya sa manager ni Tom.
Delete... then, file an annulment, Ma'am.
ReplyDeletePapansin ka carla tumigil ka na lang
ReplyDeleteExcuse me lang a wag kang plastic. Pabayaan mo siya naapekto ka ba sa pag like niya? Natural yan she’s hurting. As if perfect ka ano?
DeleteMga ganitong comments parang siya yung klase ng tao makikita mo sa tiktok umiiyak iyak pag broken hearted. Cut her some slack🙄
Deleteahahahahahahhahaahah! pinagpahinga c Carla. mas napagod ung mga Marites sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteOMG seryoso ba yung last one?
ReplyDeleteANG KALAT
ReplyDeleteNot even a fan of this couple
ReplyDeleteAll i know maganda reputation nila as a couple at parang lahat happy for them and supports them
Tapos after how many years and marriage ganito lang pala pagsak nila
So sad
For show lang ata yung perfect couple nila. Apparently, they didnt come to know each other enough sa 5+ yrs nilang couple and magka live in.
DeleteMy Gosh need na talaga mamagitan mga parents nila ikulong sa kwarto yang mga man ang mag usap
ReplyDeleteYun huli baka kaya ganun na lang yun sakit for Carla, gets ko na.
ReplyDeleteGirl, you need therapy. This liking spree isn't helping your peace of mind. Mas lalo ka lang matritrigger.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, her ego was greatly affected.
Dali mag bigay ng advice pag hindi akaw yung nasa position niya no? wag kang makialam
DeleteIf hiwalay na sila, magka balikan pa Kaya sila? Toxic kasi ng ganitong galawan eh, sa social media dinadaan sa halip pag usapan privately dami tuloy nakikisawsaw.
ReplyDeleteso shallow this girl
ReplyDeleteLet her be. She’s going through something difficult and painful.
Deleteso judgemental this girl 5:46 🗑
DeleteOh em gee. The last one!!
ReplyDeleteTong dalwa dapat PRIVATE NA LANG INAAYOS 🤦🏻♀️
ReplyDeleteKung kailan KINASAL tsaka pa nag gaganyan na issues
Ayan kasi nagpakasal ka.. sa Pinas pa 😂
ReplyDeleteWhat do you mean? Ano kung sa Pinas sila nagpakasal eh dyan naman talaga sila nakabase?
DeleteWalang divorce, same reason bakit mga celebrity naten na iba, sa ibang bansa nagpapakasal.
Delete11:35pm Pahirapan kasi ang divorce dito sa Pilipinas. Shunga ka.
Delete12:44 anong pahirapan? Shonga! wala pang divorce dito.
Delete12:10 grabe naman so kaya nagpapakasal ang iba sa abroad para just in case maghiwalay may divorce? Ibig sabihin hindi sila tiwala sa mga partner nila.
Delete12:10 kahit sa ibang bansa ka magpakasal kung Filipino Citizen ka, sa Philippine Embassy padin ang report of marriage. Wala pading divorce. Unless sa foreigner ka magpakasal at hindi nyo irereport ang kasal sa Pinas.
DeleteMas shunga ka 12:44! Walang divorce dito sa Pinas. Maka shunga kay 11:35 wagas! FYI, annulment po ang meron dito sa Pinas? Okay? Next time huwag puro pagmamarites ang inaatupag! Basa basa rin para medyo valid ang pagsabi ng "shunga" next time!
Delete12.44 wala sa hulog comment ni 6:21 pero isa ka pa. kelan pa nagkaroon ng divorce sa Pilipinas? baka gusto mo magpunta ng congress
DeleteAnong ayan kasi nagpakasal ka? So dapat di nagpakasal? Lol
DeleteFyi, pag parehong Filipino citizen, kahit saang lupalop pa sila ng mundo magpakasal, batas pa rin ng Pilipinas mag-apply. So di rin ihohonor yung divorce nila na finile sa ibang bansa.
Delete1244 walang divorce sa pinas mas shunga ka
DeleteBkt pag magpapakasal ba kayo iisipin niyo di magwowork??? Nagpakasal pa kayo kung iisipin niyo dn pala san madali maghiwalay
DeleteLet her deal with their situation however she wants. Gusto nya gawin in public? Let her. Di naman tayo affected eh. Sila lang mag asawa ang affected nyan. Hayaan natin sila.
ReplyDeleteTama. Some people here are trying to dictate how she should act. Buhay niya yan. Let her be.
DeleteAyun 🎯 💯
DeleteDi mo malaman sa mga Marites dito andaming angal. Kung ayaw niyo makita sila magkalat wag niyong pansinin
DeleteTama! Dami kasing tao nakikichismis nalang, ang daming harsh comments as if part sila nung problema. Mga ipokrito
DeleteAy yun last one. Kalurks!
ReplyDeletePAPANSIN 😂😂 wala ba syang true friends? hahahahahahaha
ReplyDeleteShe’s entitled to her feelings. Anong kinalaman ng pagkakaroon ng true friends with whatever it is that she’s going through?
DeletePakialam nyo ba sa nararamdaman ni Carla, she’s obviously hurt. Yaan nyo syang kumuda.
ReplyDeleteMismo
DeleteObviously nasa ‘Anger stage’ pa si Carla…sana maayos kung kaya pa.
ReplyDeleteLet her vent out her frustrations. Kung sa inyo kaya nangyari ang nangyari sa kanya? Baka mas masahol pa gagawin ninyo.
ReplyDeletehindi din, depende sa babae yan. kung si lj reyes nga na matindi may anak pa pero di gumaganyan ganyan. sadyang gusto lang magkalat ni carla wag mo na idefend
DeleteNah. There are a few na kaya pang i-save ang dignidad nila. And those women are rare and admirable.
DeleteSlowburn yung kay lj, somehow alam nyang may issue di lang mapinpoint. Etong kay carla, mukhang sya nagulat din kaya nagalit ng ganyan.
DeleteLJ is more admirable,mas masakit yun kc may anak sila at basta na lang pinili yong isa.
DeleteSolong responsibilidad pa yong kay LJ.
Mas pride ni Carla nasaktan lalo na perfectionist sya.
Kaya di nya matanggap.
She is a psychology grad but her behavior on social media doesn't reflect on the core values and principles she learned from college.
ReplyDeleteI graduated from the same university and had some psychology major friends. some of them are not also good in dealing with such things. may mga tao tlga siguro na hindi mai.apply sa sarili nila yung theories or concept.
DeleteCum Laude pa nga yata yan sya if I'm not mistaken.
DeleteSo parang sinabi mo rin na dapat ang mga doctor eh sila rin ang mag-diagnose sarili nila.
DeleteHahahahaa ok ms perfect kayo na 110:6 7:48 napaka judgmental kadiri
Delete12.18 san banda naging judgmental? baka ikaw yun mas kadiri ka
DeleteIw, what a toxic mindset you have. Porque ba psychology graduate dapat sanay ka na ring ideal yung problems mo? Alam mo, mas mahirap talagang harapin yung sariling problema, kumpara sa problema ng iba. And kung ano man yung ginagawa niya ngayon, hayaan niyo lang siya. Nasaktan yung tao, and I think it's her way to vent out her feelings. And wag niyong sabihin na artista siya, kaya dapat hindi ganyan yung inaasal niya. Ghorl tao pa rin siya, baka nakakalimutan niyo. Taong may feelings, and flaws.
DeleteYan ang classy at matalino😜
ReplyDeleteMatalino naman talaga sya. She's an achiever.
DeleteMay problema ka sa matatalino? Kawawa ka nman. Lol, she was classy but nasaktan kaya ayan medyo nagkalat.
DeleteI am against cheating, pero may mga friends ako na married na nagsasabi na iba pag married na kayo na at the end of the day gusto mo maayos or bigyan ng chance ang marriage niyo if willing naman kayo ayusin marriage is a choice daw kasi so baka naman maayos pa nila.
ReplyDeleteButdepende kasi siguro sa case ng cheating like if nagkaanak sa iba or matagal na non negotiable pero ayun nga hindi natin alam if ano ba nangyari talaga sa kanila pero sa case na to parang ang annoying ni carla 😂
Ang difficult sa cheating ay yung nawalang trust, mahirap ibalik, may times na okay ka, mas madaming times na hindi. May moments na nakakatrigger kaya bigla mo pa rin mararamdaman yung pain kahit minsan sa pakiramdam mo nakamove on ka na. Mahirap din lalo pag may anak at conservative ang family. Minsan feeling mo masasalvage pa, minsan ayaw mo na lang ng pain kaya gusto mo na hiwalayan tapos makikita mo anak mo at malulungkot ka. Pinakamahirap kasi yung nacheat ka ng exbf mo, tapos nag asawa ka at this time nagcheat naman yung asawa mo. (2 diff persons yan ha)
DeleteShe’s really hurt and angry at the moment.. been there.. if that is her way to cope hayaan na natin. Give her some space to venf out. Isipin mo kakasal lang nya tapos ang gulo na
ReplyDeleteDati nung may away din kami ng asawa ko at ayoko paalam sa iba na nagbabardagulan na kami puro like and quotes lang din post ko. Hayaan nyo na si Carla baka yan lang nagpapagaan sa kalooban nya. Iba iba naman kasi tayo pano magcope sa problem at lungkot.
ReplyDeleteNag disable na si hubby ng comments, panggulo kasi si wifey!
ReplyDeleteGusto mag trending!
ReplyDeletePaki lawakan po ang pag-iisip. May pinagdadaanan yung tao. Be kind.
DeleteOMG! Yung last one MHL Vibes haha! With Dennis ba as 3rd party? Char!
ReplyDeletei understand 2 mos natiis asawa ko nga pinalayas ko ..aalis pero babalik after 1 hr...
ReplyDeleteMarami pa yan mga classmates. Meron pa isa ni like nya "Bad and evil incluenced? How true sweetie? " Si C lang ang liker. 😂
ReplyDeleteSa 7 years na pagsasama, possible ba na hindi maradaran yun ng partner?
ReplyDeleteDko alam kung ganun din sa Jenner at King couple. Serious question lang mga mars no bashing
Meron kasi tinatawag "seven itch" parang sumpa sa relationship na pag 7 years na kayo dun dadaan na sa problema. If malagpasan ng couple yung seven itch usually nagtatagal.
Delete11:53 that's not what I mean. Ung katulad sa Jenner and the King couple...you know? Yung last comment na ni-like ni Carla. About dun. The radar.
DeleteParang bata natong si Carla. Ang totoxic!
ReplyDeleteCarla, please lang. Wag mong pagmukhaing t*nga sarili mo sa ginagawa mo. Don’t stoop down to his level jusko. Sya pala may sala. Sya dapat ang mabaliw.
ReplyDeleteGrabe sobrang disaster ng break up nila, 7yrs naging mag jowa tapos 3months lang hiwalay na after wedding? Prang sana si nalang nagpakasal baka mas forever pa sila magsama, irony of life
ReplyDeleteWala bang friends or mother na nag aadvice dito?!
ReplyDeleteNapaka-vindictive naman pala ni ate.
ReplyDeleteIkaw naman very judgemental. May problema siya. Hayaan mo siya sa kung anong paraan niya gusto i-deal yung problema niya.
DeleteWhat happened to you both,kung kelan kinasal saka nagkamajor problem. Naglivein na nga kayo prior to the wedding dapat resolve your issues privately.
ReplyDeleteNakakahiya na si miss know it all hahaha ayan kaya ka iniwanan ng asawa mo.
ReplyDeleteEwe a misogynist spotted in the comments section. Why shame the one left behind? Shame the one who who did something wrong.
DeletePinili niya si Tom. Nasunod yung mga plano niya.
ReplyDeleteCheating is a super deal breaker for me. Sabi nga ng commenter, buti nalang wala pang anak so, kung ako kay carla, makipag divorce na siya kasi malabong mabalik ba yung 100% trust mo sa partner mo once nag cheat siya
ReplyDeleteTeh napatunayan na ba na nagcheat? Wala pa namang kunpirmasyon kaloka ka!
DeleteHindi pa. Pero yun ang isang common reason para magkaganyan ang isang wife. It’s either betrayal/infidelity or abuse. But i’m leaning towards betrayal sa case nila.
Delete12:32 really? Hindi ba pwedeng bored lang talaga si girl kaya gumagawa ng ingay para mapansin?
DeleteGanyan talaga kapag sobrang sakit ginawa sayo ng asawa mo. Betrayal yan eh kaya di natin sya masisisi kung panay ang like nya sa mga comments against her husband.
ReplyDeleteOthers have been betrayed but they keep it private.
DeleteIf Tom really cheated on her, I fully understand her
ReplyDeleteYEah
DeleteBIGAY NA NATEN KAY CARLA YAN.
Shes hurting pa eh
Kawawa Naman.
ReplyDeleteShe is really angry at Tom. I hope humupa at magkaayos sila mag asawa. Mukhang di pinapatulan ni Tom ang galit ni Carla kaya mas nabwibwiset si ate. Tom clearly wants to save his marriage. Walang masama sa second chance kahit ano pa ang reason kung worth it ang tao at ang relasyon. Put God in the center of your relationship. There is really something in marriage that put pressures to couple. I wish them good luck.
ReplyDeleteI agree. Recently married pero ibang iba talaga kesa nung bf gf pa lang kami. Kasi andyan na yung sawa factor na lagi kayo magkasama, yung pressure to have a child, or pressure to raise a child kung meron na, dealing with new family members na toxic, pressure ng mga monthly bayarin and the list goes on. Yung kilig ng bf gf ang hirap na isustain.
Delete10:47 12:30 good point most of these commenter couldn't understand.
Delete12:30 kaya mo yan. Enjoy the little things. It's better to grow together than grow with someone else. When I said grow, yung as a person, yung good and bad side, kasi people think to believe makukuha nila sa iba yan but the truth is you will experience same again, you have to accept our partners imperfections.
DeleteNag off na ng comment section si Tom. 😂
ReplyDeleteGo girl, expose that cheater!
ReplyDeleteTanggalan una social media to si Carla lalong lumalala e. I mean gets kung galit siya pero lalo sila pagpyestahan kung ganyan. Kung gusto niya icrucify si Tom e di magpost siya directly tas tag niya.
ReplyDeletePwede yang idea mo sa China o Russia but not here sa Pinas. Bakit gusto mo siya busalan? She’s entitled to her feelings.
DeleteThe last comment though omg. Was that a wrong press??
ReplyDeleteHmmm, she can read diba. That was deliberate, obviously.
DeleteShe's enraged. He must have really hurt her.
ReplyDeleteIf she’s enraged why on socmed?!
DeleteI agree. Naawa ako kay Carla.
DeleteCarla,talk to Tom in private,please.Your network and company sponsors would like you to have a peaceful relationship. Make your image be aligned with their good image.
ReplyDeleteGigil na gigil si Carla. Mapride din kasi sya kaya di nya ma admit na hiwalay na sila after ikasal. Ayan dinadaan sa liking spree. Kim K lang ang peg 72days tapos na.
ReplyDeleteKarapatan niya yan. Ok lang may pride, she knows her worth
DeleteI wish them both luck. If kaya iforgive then take your time and pag feel mo na iforgive mo. If not then, file ka na ng annulment/divorce kesa magliking spree lalo kayo paguusapan. Tapos if magbalikan eh tatawanan pa si Carla
ReplyDeleteNot defending her. But I think yung sakit na nararamdaman nya is mainly because alam natin napakaperfectionist nitong si Carla. Very obvious yon pati sa pagpplano ng kasal nila. Parang gusto nya perfect na perfect tingin sa kanila ng public. Tapos mangyayari ito, ang laking sampal sa mukha considering the timing na a few months lang after the wedding. Kung ako man yan na narcissistic perfectionist hay naku mawawala nga ako sa katinuan. Stay strong, Tom and Carla.
ReplyDeleteThis!
DeleteYung iba kasi galit kay Carla kasi gusto nila magsalita na. Intindihin natin na iba iba tayo ng coping mechanism. Let her cope whichever way she wants to cope. At the end of the day, regardless of their celebrity status tao pa rin mga yan.
She was too busy planning the "perfect" wedding that she forgot to see The person she was marrying.
DeleteShe can’t handle trials in a marriage..better go to a marriage counselor to help cope w/ her problems..socmed won’t solve it! Ikaw lang Carla ang maka solve ng problema mo!
DeleteOo tapos kapag naging honest at straightforward, sasabihin airing your dirty laundry in public - hindi ma satisfy ang mga ibang nakiki marites. Iba iba nga tayo ng coping mechanism. Kung dominante talaga yan, matagal ng tumalak yan
DeleteBakit sabi living together sila before ng wedding. Bakit ngayon lang nagka issue kung kelan kasal na
ReplyDeleteBaka nagsawa na c boy Sa ugali ni girl na masyadong dominante! Masyadong mabait c boy pero ang tao napupuno rin at naghahanap ng iba that will treat him good.
Delete12:38 di excuse yon para saktan niya si carla
Delete12:38 wow gumawa ng plot. LOL.
DeleteOk lang na gawin ni Carla yan kesa kung ano pa masabi niya through IG stories at vlog. Let the public speculate for now.
ReplyDeleteSo may problema nga sa marriage nila talaga pag wala yan todo mag stories yan sila Carla and Tom na magkakasama sila pati na sa vlogs. Ang sad naman pag hahantong lang sila sa hiwalayan. Haay! Medyo nakaka trauma din at nakakabaliw
ReplyDeleteSino ngayon ang mahilig sa spiteful games? Marriage is not for everyone talaga. It's better for her to lie low or spill everything. Hindi yung puro likes at pa hint. Diretsuhin mo na lang sagutin ang issued. Napaka pabebe and dragging this way too long..
ReplyDeleteCarla and Tom
ReplyDeleteEver heard of MARRIAGE COUNSELING???
E ayaw nga ni madam, ayaw nya pakinggan asawa nya ayaw nya makipagusap kay Tom. Mula nag away sila never pa yata sya hinarap ni carla (based sa reply ni tom sa fans before)
DeleteGonna repost this kasi applicable again:
ReplyDeleteHhaha. Di ko mapigilan hindi magcomment sa mga Marites na ang iinit ng ulo. Let her cope the way she wants to. She has the right to get angry and deal with it her way. For years, their relationship has been lowkey, ngayon lang naman umingay. I think lahat naman tayo napagdaanan ang ganoong point. Do not blame her for this, in fact hindi naman siya mag-behave ng ganyan if it weren’t for her bad experience with the person.
Hurt talaga ate mo
ReplyDeleteBaka may mabalita na naman na na-hack
ReplyDeleteInday carla manahimik ka na it’s destroying your image! Gayahin mo ang lola mo na si Delia Razon walang scandal sa time nya..educada sya.
ReplyDeleteKung totoong si tom ang unang nag block sa kanya? Bakit siya nakakalike ng mga comments sa ig ni tom?
ReplyDeletePa like like ng ngative comments tapos ngayon nag post ng bait baitan bible quotes sa ig story. Hahaha
ReplyDeleteSad all around.
ReplyDeleteNaturingan pang edukada, ang drama magalit. Iwan mo na, ilabas mo baho, Di yung puro like para lang marami magsimpatya
ReplyDeleteKeep your misogynistic comments to yourself! Can’t believe you guys are disregarding the fact that he might had cheated, he might had lied pero ang sisi sa babae parin? Worse if you are a woman yourself, to be commenting like that!
ReplyDeleteBased sa yt channel ni c hindi talaga siya nakikinig sa sinasabi ni tom and she doesn't let him speak his mind. She only wants to do all the talking. While the guy is just a wallflower. 🙄
ReplyDeleteSelf destruct na si Carla, toxic na ang relasyon pag ganyan.
ReplyDeletehow messy.. dyan talaga makikita ang scorned woman.. what can i say.. it really hurts when people cheat on you (obv basing it on her likes to cheating comments).
ReplyDeleteThis is just getting messier and messier
ReplyDeleteOA na siya talaga. Get over yourself Carla. Puro ka lang social media ek ek e.
ReplyDeleteOmg, she is losing it na. That’s bad.
ReplyDeleteLol, matagal na silang live-in pero ngayon lang niya nalaman. Grabe naman yan.
ReplyDeleteHay naku. He likes what he likes. There is nothing you can do about it. Better get a life and job and get busy. Stop wasting your time Carla.
ReplyDeleteDami kong tawa sa mga nagsasalita ng nega against Carla. Dyusme yung iba nga mas malala pa dyan. Buti pa sya nagtitimpi pa. Kaloka kayo. Ano to, To Have and to Hold all over again. Mas may simpatya sa cheater and publiko. Nanggigigil pa rin ako sa serye na yan.
ReplyDeleteCarla nararamdaman ko ung galit mo sa asawa mo,hayaan mo ang mga araw ang magsasaysay sa mga gawa nya,exit w/ grace carla kung hindi mo na kayang makisama sa knya.kpag dumating araw na un sasabihin mo sa mga nangbabash sayo ngaun,"that is what im trying to tell all of you".
ReplyDeleteShe should stay away from socmed. Go out be with nature muna.
ReplyDeleteIkaw ba si carla
Deletesorry. ayaw ko makita na ang ganitong news linggo linggo sa newsfeed ko. ang daming drama. dinaman sabihin ang facts. marami kanamang aso cerla, pate nga sa simbahan sinasama mo, yan nalang atupagin mo muna
ReplyDeleteE hwag kng mgbasa.
DeleteLet her be! She’s hurting. And so what if she went liking the comments? I bet most of you nga ditong mga marites, magpopost kayo agad sa status niyo sa FB at magpaparinig pa. Don’t be hypocrites. Easy for you all to say na manahimik siya, kakakasal lang niya so the pain is double.
ReplyDeleteI understand that she’s hurting but she shouldn’t let her life become a circus show for everyone to see. She should rise above that and give herself some dignity. If she believes her marriage is over then file for annulment but if not then whatever she’s doing now will only hurt her in the future.
ReplyDeleteCarla is carla, you are you!
DeleteI don't get all the hate for Carla here. I mean yes we don't know what really happened but sa nakikita ko, confirmed or not na nagcheat si Tom is nakay Carla pa rin ung galit nyo just because she's been liking comments?!? So what if totoo na Tom cheated? I mean can't you read between the lines. Parang ang tindi ng galit the fact na ginagawa nya yan. And she probably is hurting.
ReplyDeleteAgree 11:58
DeleteAyyy, akala ko ok na sila???
ReplyDeleteganyan talaga pag ang taas ng tingin mo sa sarili mio at feeling mo palagi na mas maswerte yung taong nagmamahal sa yo tapos bigla kang niloko or niloloko ka pala all this time. guguho talaga ang mundo mo at maloloka ka nang bongga. dominante pa naman sya at ms. know-it-all tapos naloko pa!
ReplyDeleteMadunong pa kayo kay Carla eh sa nasaktan nga yung tao eh ,way nya yan para mailabas
ReplyDeleteKayo tong marites lang sa account nya
Kayo pa galit
Her IG account her rule.
Why do i have a feeling na nagla like si carla ng comments against Tom para magalit naman tao kay Tom hahaha. Sa ig ni tom ng dami nya padin supporters and most of those are mga datihan na ding fans ni carla. Baka yamot si carla na sa kanya pa naiinis mga tao kaya ayan liking spree ang ganap para mabalimg naman may tom. kahit nonsense na comment na kc bsta against tom nila like nya eh
ReplyDeleteWow dami na kumakampi kay Carla. Reader yan dto sa fp kaya Mission accomplished ka girl, sa pag like mo ng comments against Tom ayan nasayo na sympathy e kase naman nakaraan na posts dto sa fp sayo pa inis mga tao. So congrats , the tables are turned , pero ung gay si Tom? hahahaha sana di mo pagsisihan soon na pati yan ni like mo at sana di bumalik sayo one day yan. thats very degrading sa pagkatao ni tom lalo na at di naman totoo, right Carling? 😂
ReplyDeleteCheating is a big blow to anyone especially when you are married. In an ideal world, sana hiniwalayan na lang muna bago mahumaling sa iba pero in human nature and sa psychology rin, there is always something that triggers more excitement kapag forbidden hence the betrayal in the end pag nahuli.
ReplyDeleteNo one should judge Carla. She is the victim here, based sa mga rumors and ayan na, sa liking spree nya. Ang hirap pa, Philippine laws are useless to protect the party that is aggravated.
Kung hindi man siya classy magdala ng separation nya, hayaan nyo na. Lahat ng tao snaps too, extend compassion.
And please, hindi naman negative na maging matalino at perfectionist.
correct! sana huwag nila maranasan kung ano man pinag dadaanan ni carla.
DeleteAnd people say 'marriage is just a piece of paper'. Anyare sa 2 toh? Ang ganda2 nung hindi pa kasal. Nung kinasal... May probs din naman siguro sila dati pero hindi naging ganito si Carla. Anyway, sana maayos nila ng tahimik.
ReplyDeleteKung ganyan sya maka cope, pabayaan natin sya. Tao lang naman din mga artista. Di naman yan mag ririsk mag like like ng ganyan siguro kung walang truth behind it or evidence to support her claims. Ang hirap maging artista, problema mo na sayo lang dapat nagiging problema ng buong nasyon.
ReplyDeleteang kalat
ReplyDeleteWeird lang na Psychology Grad tapos di ma apply sa sarili niya, like ang weird lang kasi kung ikaw maging client niya tapos ang nararanasan mo ngayon ay yung nararanasan niya.. Magpapa kunsulta ka pa kaya? Bakit ka makikinig sa payo niya kung siya mismo di mahandle situation niya? Its a no, no for me..
ReplyDeletea psych graduate does not mean psycholosgist na siya 🤪 engs
Deletemo naman kung magpapa consult ka kay carla
Eh hindi naman sya nagppractice as Psychologist sis. She's a professional actress, that's her job. At hindi nman ibig sabihin na pag Psych grad ka eh Psychologist lang ang mgging trabaho mo. Madaming klaseng work ang pwde pag psych grad ka. Obviously wala kang knowledge regarding the course. I'm not Carla or her fan ha. Registered Nurse ako kaya I know.
DeleteAnd let's say na nagppractice sya as Psychologist talaga, hindi naman ibig sabihin nun na d na sya pwde magka emotional breakdown pag nahurt sya. They've been living together for years and they just got married last November ba o October? Tapos hiwalay agad after ilang months. I cannot imagine the pain they are both going through. 💔 Dito nga sa America may mga Psychiatrists/Psychologists na sila mismo nkakaranas ng depression due to life changing events sa buhay nila. Nothing's wrong kung makaramdam man ng anger, depression etc. As long as na-vvent out mo un, you seek help from professionals and may strong support system ka from family and friends, that's fine. Just let them. Carla and Tom, maghiwalay man kayo o magkabalikan, it's fine. Time heals all the pain so just take your time.
Carla, kung nagbabasa ka dito at nababasa mo ito, alam ko nasaktan ka at kung mahal mo pa si Tom magusap kayo para magkaliwanagan(Tom kung nababasa mo ito, mag initiate ka makipagusap sa asawa mo). Kayong dalawa lang ang makakaayos nyan. Pero kung hindi mo na mahal si Tom, bigay mo nalang sya sakin. 😅😘
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