I don't blame her, I blame the adults in her life. Kulang sya sa parangal at guidance at such a critical age. Where was her mother or guardian when she was being groomed by a 28 year old guy? Wala ba silang napansin na may karelasyon pala si Venus? Kaloka. Fear ko talaga for my nieces and nephews who are in their teens na maloko sila ng predatory types na tao.
may mga teens din na matitigas talaga ulo. kahit ano gawin ng magulang tumatakas pa nga. lalo at kung habang lumalaki si venus e me mga nanliligaw sa kanya na mga twenty year olds. siempre feeling nya, ang ganda ganda nya kaya magtitigas ng ulo sa magulang yan. lalo kung bata pa lang sinasabihan lagi ng kapitbahay na mukha siyang beauty queen. nako, ganyan mga anak na sakit ng ulo ng magulang yung mga feeling.
Go go go Miss Venus, when God is in the center of our life, even if we have major major problems we have also major major solution through the help our GOD and Family. Basta bahala na kayo umunawa sa grammar ko. Basta ang mahalaga, naituwid ni venus ang pagkakamali nya, naghanap kasi sya ng isang Ama kaya nagawa nyang makipag relasyon sa mas matanda sa kanya. Wag nga kayong ipokrito/ipokrita eh minsan din kayong nagbunyi nung nakapasok sa top 5 si venus at nabreak nya ang sumpa.
Grabe naman mag husga mga tao. Bakit hindi usigin yung 28 years old na nag pursue sa isang 16-yr old? Bakit hindi yung issue na yon ang pag usapan imbes na pahiyain at alipustahin yung 16-yr old? Mail po yung ganyan.
I met this lady in person. She was our resource speaker. She inspired me and my colleagues in her speech. She talked about helping rape victims and depressed teens. She was also a victim and should not be blamed for the wrong choices she made when she was a teenager.
Miss Venus, thank you for sharing your story. Ganyan talaga, even God can't please everyone. Focus on the lives you've touched. Focus on people who resonated with your stories. ❤
Parang hindi naman, I mean you can't please all and dapat handa ka sa sasabihin ng tao after ng pa reveal mo. More on disappointed siya na hindi siya ganun ma trending despite of her dirty laundry in public
@12:20 Alam mo naawa ako syo kasi instead na pang unawa ang naramdaman mo, negativity ang lumabas sa puso mo. Dear i think you need to reflect baka kasi may pinag dadaanan ka na nag turn syo into the kind of person that you are.
Alam nyo naman bagsak sa reading Comprehension halos lahat ng mga Pinoy. But ako I understand and support you Madam Venus! 👏 👏 👏 👏 Bilib nga ako wirh your courage and honesty.
Well nowadays people are becoming more and more negative and judgmental so it would be better not to share your past experience. Mas maraming masamang tao kesa sa mabuti so just keep your story to yourself Venus kasi masasaktan ka lang sa mga negang Maritess.
Ay grabe kasalanan pa nya and mang victim blame? In the first place she was a minor when the incident happened. I myself had almost the same experience when I was 14. I was raped and like her ang dumi ng pakiramdam ko and fell into depression up to a point that I wanted to end it all. Buti mahina loob ko at di ko tinuloy and I found comfort in God. I found the courage to pick up the pieces and speak up and share my experience. Meron at meron talagang di makaka gets sa nangyari samin but sila na may problema but it shouldn't be a deterrent to share our story of hope and redemption.
@1:04 May sinabi ba ako kasalanan nya? My point is useless na mag share ng experience sa mga tao ngayon because they will just use it against her. Maganda intention nya to inspire ang mga gaya nya pero tingnan mo diba mas maraming nega at nabash pa sya. Padami ng padami ang mga salbaheng tao ngayon lalo sa social media kaya mas better ng maging quiet about sa mga experience natin sa buhay. Kahit nga isang picture na harmless ipost mo hahanapan ka pa din ng kapintasan ng mga makaka kita. Ganyan na kalala ang mundo ngayon.
12:25/1:24 I believe you are one person. Venus was merely sharing her experience para rin may mapulot na lesson ang ibang tao who went thru the same dilemma as her. Yes, you can choose to be silent but you can also say something to save others. marami pa dyan nakaranas ng same experience but kept quiet because they fear rejection and humiliation to think sila pa yung victim. Some of them even ended their lives. But for Venus to share her story, some may even gain courage to speak up or seek professional help. Although may point ka, wala na rin po tayong pakialam if one will share it or not. Also, Venus chose to be a motivational speaker. Trabaho na nya ito so let her be..
1:41 Alam mo dear wala ka din pakialam if this is my point of view sa pag share ni Venus ng experience nya. I have nothing against her, in fact naaawa ako sa kanya dahil instead na naging positive ang response sa kanya ng mga nakapanood ng interview nya eh binigyan pa ng masamang kahulugan at yan dahilan kaya i said that it is better to stay quiet kasi mas maraming makikitid ang utak ng kesa mapang unawa.
11:46 Ako galit? Im not mad, why should I? Sinagot ko lang ang sinabi mo na "wala tayong pakialam if one will share or not" Hindi ba yan ang sinabi mo sa comment mo about my opinion? so i said wala ka din pakialam sa point of view ko. Gets na?
11:46 I think with the way you answered, it is you who's pissed with my comment to the extent that you even called me a hypocrite. Why are you so affected with my POV? I only said what I think should be done in order to avoid being bashed by ruthless people. You need a chill pill lol
@12:57 Common sense, pwede nya na aminin yan sa beauty pageant??? Eh di nasira sya agad sa mga judges. Amuneyen tanong mo baks! Tulog ilang brain cells mo no?
I feel you Venus... I was also groomed at 16, the guy was 25. We were a 'couple' until I was 23, then I met my husband 2 yrs later. Doon ko narealize how wrong my previous relationship was... He broke up with me kasi adult na ako, i was already standing up for myself. Ang gusto nya ay yung kaya nyang manipulahin-- the very definition of a predator. Good thing we didn't have sex. Pero grabe. Can't imagine my daughter having 'relations' with someone like that person. That's probably my biggest fear now.
I don't blame her, I blame the adults in her life. Kulang sya sa parangal at guidance at such a critical age. Where was her mother or guardian when she was being groomed by a 28 year old guy? Wala ba silang napansin na may karelasyon pala si Venus? Kaloka. Fear ko talaga for my nieces and nephews who are in their teens na maloko sila ng predatory types na tao.
ReplyDeletemay mga teens din na matitigas talaga ulo. kahit ano gawin ng magulang tumatakas pa nga. lalo at kung habang lumalaki si venus e me mga nanliligaw sa kanya na mga twenty year olds. siempre feeling nya, ang ganda ganda nya kaya magtitigas ng ulo sa magulang yan. lalo kung bata pa lang sinasabihan lagi ng kapitbahay na mukha siyang beauty queen. nako, ganyan mga anak na sakit ng ulo ng magulang yung mga feeling.
DeleteI admire you Ms V for being brave sharing your life lessons. Another thing i learned is what you see in socmed are all fake
ReplyDeleteMe kaso dapat yun pag ganun. Pero......
ReplyDeleteGo go go Miss Venus, when God is in the center of our life, even if we have major major problems we have also major major solution through the help our GOD and Family. Basta bahala na kayo umunawa sa grammar ko. Basta ang mahalaga, naituwid ni venus ang pagkakamali nya, naghanap kasi sya ng isang Ama kaya nagawa nyang makipag relasyon sa mas matanda sa kanya. Wag nga kayong ipokrito/ipokrita eh minsan din kayong nagbunyi nung nakapasok sa top 5 si venus at nabreak nya ang sumpa.
ReplyDeleteGrabe naman mag husga mga tao.
ReplyDeleteBakit hindi usigin yung 28 years old na nag pursue sa isang 16-yr old? Bakit hindi yung issue na yon ang pag usapan imbes na pahiyain at alipustahin yung 16-yr old? Mail po yung ganyan.
I met this lady in person. She was our resource speaker. She inspired me and my colleagues in her speech. She talked about helping rape victims and depressed teens. She was also a victim and should not be blamed for the wrong choices she made when she was a teenager.
ReplyDeletepa-relevant naman itong la ocean na itey
ReplyDeleteWhat a comment! Natutunan mo lang pa-relevant na yan, ginagamit mo na maski wala sa lugar. Mangilabot ka nga. Gosh!
DeleteMiss Venus, thank you for sharing your story. Ganyan talaga, even God can't please everyone. Focus on the lives you've touched. Focus on people who resonated with your stories. ❤
ReplyDeleteParang hindi naman, I mean you can't please all and dapat handa ka sa sasabihin ng tao after ng pa reveal mo. More on disappointed siya na hindi siya ganun ma trending despite of her dirty laundry in public
ReplyDelete@12:20 Alam mo naawa ako syo kasi instead na pang unawa ang naramdaman mo, negativity ang lumabas sa puso mo. Dear i think you need to reflect baka kasi may pinag dadaanan ka na nag turn syo into the kind of person that you are.
DeleteAlam nyo naman bagsak sa reading Comprehension halos lahat ng mga Pinoy. But ako I understand and support you Madam Venus! 👏 👏 👏 👏 Bilib nga ako wirh your courage and honesty.
ReplyDeleteWell nowadays people are becoming more and more negative and judgmental so it would be better not to share your past experience. Mas maraming masamang tao kesa sa mabuti so just keep your story to yourself Venus kasi masasaktan ka lang sa mga negang Maritess.
ReplyDeleteAy grabe kasalanan pa nya and mang victim blame? In the first place she was a minor when the incident happened.
DeleteI myself had almost the same experience when I was 14. I was raped and like her ang dumi ng pakiramdam ko and fell into depression up to a point that I wanted to end it all. Buti mahina loob ko at di ko tinuloy and I found comfort in God. I found the courage to pick up the pieces and speak up and share my experience. Meron at meron talagang di makaka gets sa nangyari samin but sila na may problema but it shouldn't be a deterrent to share our story of hope and redemption.
@1:04 May sinabi ba ako kasalanan nya? My point is useless na mag share ng experience sa mga tao ngayon because they will just use it against her. Maganda intention nya to inspire ang mga gaya nya pero tingnan mo diba mas maraming nega at nabash pa sya. Padami ng padami ang mga salbaheng tao ngayon lalo sa social media kaya mas better ng maging quiet about sa mga experience natin sa buhay. Kahit nga isang picture na harmless ipost mo hahanapan ka pa din ng kapintasan ng mga makaka kita. Ganyan na kalala ang mundo ngayon.
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DeleteI believe you are one person. Venus was merely sharing her experience para rin may mapulot na lesson ang ibang tao who went thru the same dilemma as her.
Yes, you can choose to be silent but you can also say something to save others. marami pa dyan nakaranas ng same experience but kept quiet because they fear rejection and humiliation to think sila pa yung victim. Some of them even ended their lives.
But for Venus to share her story, some may even gain courage to speak up or seek professional help.
Although may point ka, wala na rin po tayong pakialam if one will share it or not. Also, Venus chose to be a motivational speaker. Trabaho na nya ito so let her be..
1:41 Alam mo dear wala ka din pakialam if this is my point of view sa pag share ni Venus ng experience nya. I have nothing against her, in fact naaawa ako sa kanya dahil instead na naging positive ang response sa kanya ng mga nakapanood ng interview nya eh binigyan pa ng masamang kahulugan at yan dahilan kaya i said that it is better to stay quiet kasi mas maraming makikitid ang utak ng kesa mapang unawa.
Delete4:05 nagagalit ka kase pinapakialaman ang point of view mo? pero hindi ba ganyan din ginagawa mo kay Venus? pinapakialaman mo din sya? hypocrite much?
Delete11:46 Ako galit? Im not mad, why should I? Sinagot ko lang ang sinabi mo na "wala tayong pakialam if one will share or not" Hindi ba yan ang sinabi mo sa comment mo about my opinion? so i said wala ka din pakialam sa point of view ko. Gets na?
Delete11:46 I think with the way you answered, it is you who's pissed with my comment to the extent that you even called me a hypocrite. Why are you so affected with my POV? I only said what I think should be done in order to avoid being bashed by ruthless people. You need a chill pill lol
DeleteIt was good that she shared her story but she should expect some bashing. Kasi nga part na yan ng socmed. Good for her na she overcame it.
ReplyDeleteSabi nya wala pa syang major major mistake nung 21 sya sa MU, 16 pala meron na bat di nya isinagot yan
ReplyDelete@12:57 Common sense, pwede nya na aminin yan sa beauty pageant??? Eh di nasira sya agad sa mga judges. Amuneyen tanong mo baks! Tulog ilang brain cells mo no?
DeleteHi 12:57 AM. Hindi Ikaw si God. God is the ultimate author of our lives. Kaya wag ka mag condemn kung iba sagot ni Venus nung 2010.
DeleteI feel you Venus... I was also groomed at 16, the guy was 25. We were a 'couple' until I was 23, then I met my husband 2 yrs later. Doon ko narealize how wrong my previous relationship was... He broke up with me kasi adult na ako, i was already standing up for myself. Ang gusto nya ay yung kaya nyang manipulahin-- the very definition of a predator. Good thing we didn't have sex. Pero grabe. Can't imagine my daughter having 'relations' with someone like that person. That's probably my biggest fear now.
ReplyDeleteyou are lying! prove it!
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