Hindi end all and be all ang anak. Minsan nga magtataka ka. May anak nga pinalaki at pinaaral pero pagtanda niya walang kasama sa bahay. Nag iisa. Wala man lang mautusuan bumili kahit paracetamol.
true ka dyan @1:21 may kilala ako, ganyang ganyan. may mga anak nga, maanda din pero hanggang sa tumanda na sya walang anak na dumamay sa kanya lalo na ngayong pandemic walang anak na umuwi sa kanya kahit pwede naman siyang uwian.
Sana instead of pressuring us to have a child, these elders should educate us that having children is not for everyone- they won’t make a person fulfilled or happy. Madami ako kilala may anak pero di masaya kasehoda isa or 4 yung anak nya. Bakit ba nila pinipilit na need mag anak.
Like yung isang kapitbahay ko, masaya daw may anak, ngayon lahat ng apo nasa kanya around 10. Nakakakain pa ba sila nang tama? Nope. Nabibigay ba lahat ng needs? Nope. What's the point? Tapos sasabihin fulfilling. Well, mas fulfilling for me buhayin my parents. Iba iba kasi tao. Pero until now hindi magets ng iba.
I agree. We are childless and accepted it. In fact, we didn’t spend money on fertility treatment and decided to use our money to travel. Lol.
Pero yung mga kakilala namin, akala miserable kami because wala kaming anak. Pero after experiencing travel, and the advantage of not having a kid. We’re somehow happy with it. Haha!
Wala ko anak. Di naman ako malungkot. Malungkot ba un wala kang responsibilidad? HEHEH lalo ngayon pandemic. Buntot ko hila ko. Mahirap din magkaobligasyon ha. Un iba kasi gusto mandamay. Kung gusto mo ng anak, mag anak ka. Kung ayaw mo WALANG MASAMA DUN. Buhay mo yan. Mas masama un mandamay ka pa sa kahirapan mo. Mas nakakadiri un
12:46 narcissist agad? Ang alam ko pag narcissist, mataas ang tingin sa sarili and never umaako ng fault nila, laging ibang tao ang may kasalanan. So di ganun si Heart, madalas pa nga niyang laitin yung sarili niya eh. She always say na she's not perfect and marami siyang insecurities.
WOW self proclaimed psychiatrist si 12:46. Nadiagnosed mong narcissist dahil tinitingnan niya posts sa socmed? Un lang ba batayan ng narcissistic personality disorder
12:46 AM, I hope you know what you are talking about. I am not a fan but you are in no position to diagnose someone. I dated a narcissist so I at least have an idea. Vain, sure. Kaya chill ka lang sa pagiging "smart" mo.
Hindi ba pwedeng nasasaktan lang yun tao?? Personal masyado yun issue, hindi na yun tungkol sa trabaho niya. Wag naman sana natin alisan siya ng right masaktan o pumatol lalo na kung kapatol patol naman.
syempre need ihighlight ni Heart yan to gain sympathy.I like Heart before pero she's annoying na this past few months.Dami arte at hanash sa buhay.Kala ko ba masaya msya sya sa life nya? all her luxuries, her career, fashion eklavu? I hope itigil nya mag invite sa negative vibes kase maamaya drama with anxiety na nman ang Peg.
Naku having a child is not so special naman na. Ang raming tao na sa mundo. I mean you can always adopt and also marami din namang tao both guy and girl na ayaw magka anak. Walang masama at all. Kung gugustihin naman ni Heart magka baby she will prioritize it pero mukhang di naman yun ang focus nya. Husband naman nya may anak na sa 1st wife kaya parang sya talaga must in their relationship. Wag ma sya ma offend. Mas nakakairita sya na she validated it pa
12:24: Minsan madaling sabihin, pero mahirap gawin. Kahit ako maiirita, yung gustong gusto mo magkaanak and meron ka namang means, tapos hindi ka mag karon.
It should not be wrong for calling out someone that has a twisted mindset of how a woman should perceive herself. Correction are mostly done by calling them they are wrong.
1:05 Hellloooooo kung may mag comment sa instagram account MO, di mo babasahin? Just because binabasa mo, doesn’t mean uhaw na uhaw ka sa validation. Misused ang ‘need ng validation’ sa mga kagaya mo.
12:19 PM - girl do you get thousands of comments a day? Hindi. But Heart does. And she reads them because she needs validation. If she didn't, she won't bother sa dami ng comments. pero oo ikaw pwede kasi ilan lang naman un. 1:05AM hit the bulls eye when it comes to what does someone who needs validation does - Sift through thousands of comments a day.
We don't condone it, we are just realistic. You think slapping a comment like that would stop someone from bashing? If they're trolls, they don't have feelings, they don't get hurt with replies like that. Kaya nasa kay Heart yun kung babasahin nya at papatulan lahat ng comments about her.
5:08 okay nga na yung ganyang topic is napaguusapan. Heart represents a number of women/Filipinas who are married and do not have kids, either by choice or not. Palibhasa, sanay ka na sa Filipino culture na mamahiya ng mga married women without kids. FYI, married ako and I have a son. Dati rin mentality ko yan, why get married if you decide not to have kids? Tignan mo, kung sino pa napaka daming anak, sila wala kakayahan bumuhay.
Grabe naman kasi ang ibang tao. It's up to the couple if they want children or not. Kung gusto rin nina Heart and Chiz na magkaanak pero wala pa, let them be. Huwag na tayong masyadong pakialamera. Besides, just like love or a partner, hindi naman pagiging incomplete ang walang anak. Not all were given the chance na magkaanak din so do not force them to everybody.
Grabe naman kasi ang ibang tao. It's up to the couple if they want children or not. Kung gusto rin nina Heart and Chiz na magkaanak pero wala pa, let them be. Huwag na tayong masyadong pakialamera. Besides, just like love or a partner, hindi naman pagiging incomplete ang walang anak. Not all were given the chance na magkaanak din so do not force them to everybody.
In western countries there are couples who opt to have no children they even have an organized group..to them having children is a big responsibility, morally and financially and sometimes a hindrance to their success or it curtails their time for their own happiness or work and travel.
Bakit ganun ang mga boomer? Nanay ko lagi kong pinagsasabihan, halimbawa pag may nakita sya sa tv or kakilala..ang taba ni ganto, ang itim ni ganon. Maganda sana pero mataba, maganda sana maitim nga lang, bakla siguto yan or parang bakla. Haaaay pag pinagsabihan naman sasama pa loob sayo. Minsan gusto ko pang magsolo na lang.
1:26 sometimes it’s not in the generation they belong to but in the person’s character and values. let’s not generalize because I get the same comments from both older and younger generations.
Heart alam namin na gusto mo maging relatable at maka masa but don't entertain na comments about that issue Just ignore or block They will never stop they are evil people
I like Heart! Tao lang naman din sya naaapektuhan din. Lahat naman ng tao need ng validation. Palibhasa mga tao ang daming say sa buhay ng iba, kala mo may ambag lol
Nakaka trigger naman talaga lalo kung gusto mo talaga magkaanak pero di mangyari yari.. Masakit yun noh!!! I experienced 10 years of infertility, those people who don’t will never understand..
Traumatic kaya to lose a child what more twins pa. Frustrating din hindi sya mabuntis agad kaya siguro sensitive sya about motherhood. Don't rub it in her face, at least she's a good stepmom to Chiz children.
Cguro people sees Heart as someone who they think have it all, kaya tinitira sya kung anu rin sa tingin nila she's lacking of. Wala na sila maisip ipuna sknya I think.
I wish Heart won’t make patol na lang to those kind of comments para mag die down nalng on its own and at the same time, less stress on her na din. Love you Hearty
10:34 As someone struggling from infertility and then when finally nakabuo, nakunan pa… I really get Heart. Minsan you’re okay, minsan pipitik ka talaga kasi nakakainis na talaga ang mga insensitive people. Minsan gusto mo talaga patulan para ma educate ang tao. Same concept as pag sinabihan kang “tumaba ka”. May times na gusto mong patulan to educate about body shaming
Ang victim blaming niyo naman! Bakit di niyo sabihan yung mga tao na yan na tigilan na si Heart?? Papatulan ni Heart yung ganyan comment kasi masyadong personal and offensive. Alam naman natin na gusto niya magka anak pero nahihirapan siya so tigilan na yung pagdiin nun sakaniya. Mukha naman fulfilled na siya sa buhay niya and may anak man o wala ang isang babae, complete parin ang pagkatao niya. Tong mga boomers na to.
ang chaka rin naman kasi ng mga tao sa comments section! ang babastos! mag comment ka ba naman about someone's personal life?! ugghh! para lang manira?! kadiri ang socmed etiqette ng pinoy sa true lang
12:33 wala naman kinalaman ang pagiging third world country. going by your logic, di sana ibang third world country ganyan din magcomment sa social media? no, nasa culture yun. there are people din who lives in a first world country na pakilamera. dami ngang Pinoy nakatira na abroad nagmigrate na sa mga first world countries, pakilamera pa rin, lol! basa ka lang dito sa FP eh
Yeah, celebrate your age. She pushing 40 but insists on wearing makeup for tweens and those in their early 20s. She looks beautiful so I don't get why she insists on looking like a tween or a Kardashian - she's like several folds more beautiful than any Kardashian.
May anak si heart. Anak nya ang mga anak ni Chiz. Hindi purkit Hindi sa kanya lumabas, Hindi na nya anak yun. And she is a good mother to Chiz’s children.
Mayaman at maganda pero organic. Go Hearty😊
ReplyDeleteHindi end all and be all ang anak. Minsan nga magtataka ka. May anak nga pinalaki at pinaaral pero pagtanda niya walang kasama sa bahay. Nag iisa. Wala man lang mautusuan bumili kahit paracetamol.
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true ka dyan @1:21 may kilala ako, ganyang ganyan. may mga anak nga, maanda din pero hanggang sa tumanda na sya walang anak na dumamay sa kanya lalo na ngayong pandemic walang anak na umuwi sa kanya kahit pwede naman siyang uwian.
Deletethey deserve it. pero wag naman 100X. isa lang pwede na.
ReplyDeleteIsa lang pero ung pupulutin niya ung durog durig niyang pustiso niya sa sahig, hahaha
DeleteIsa pero ung mapupulot ng durog durog na pustiso sa sahig, ewan ko lang kung hindi matauhan yan matandang bastusin na yan!!!
DeleteIsang set of 100. Char.
DeleteMag asawang tampal is fine
DeleteSana instead of pressuring us to have a child, these elders should educate us that having children is not for everyone- they won’t make a person fulfilled or happy. Madami ako kilala may anak pero di masaya kasehoda isa or 4 yung anak nya. Bakit ba nila pinipilit na need mag anak.
ReplyDeleteDiyan mo makikita na maraming taong makikitid ang utak
DeleteLouder 12:14!
DeleteLike yung isang kapitbahay ko, masaya daw may anak, ngayon lahat ng apo nasa kanya around 10. Nakakakain pa ba sila nang tama? Nope. Nabibigay ba lahat ng needs? Nope. What's the point? Tapos sasabihin fulfilling. Well, mas fulfilling for me buhayin my parents. Iba iba kasi tao. Pero until now hindi magets ng iba.
DeleteI agree. We are childless and accepted it. In fact, we didn’t spend money on fertility treatment and decided to use our money to travel. Lol.
DeletePero yung mga kakilala namin, akala miserable kami because wala kaming anak. Pero after experiencing travel, and the advantage of not having a kid. We’re somehow happy with it. Haha!
Im in my 30s and I guess ganyan talaga mentality ng karamihan sa nakakatanda satin. I hope magstop na yun ganyan way of thinking sa generation natin.
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DeleteBecause heart prefers worldly things.
DeleteTRUE!!!
DeleteWala ko anak. Di naman ako malungkot. Malungkot ba un wala kang responsibilidad? HEHEH lalo ngayon pandemic. Buntot ko hila ko. Mahirap din magkaobligasyon ha. Un iba kasi gusto mandamay. Kung gusto mo ng anak, mag anak ka. Kung ayaw mo WALANG MASAMA DUN. Buhay mo yan. Mas masama un mandamay ka pa sa kahirapan mo. Mas nakakadiri un
DeleteAt 2:05. Me & hubby are doing the same thing. And we are happy!
DeleteThey hate seeing women who don’t have kids. They secretly think it’s unfair that they’re suffering while other women aren’t.
DeleteI like heart but sana ignore na lang ung mga nonsense na bashers instead of highlighting them
ReplyDeleteShe's narcissist kasi, aminado sya na tinitignan nya talaga yung mga posts about her. Kaya no wonder na pinapatulan nya rin talaga yung iba.
Delete12.46AM way down below the belt ate ang tira sa kanya, kailangan patulan na. not because she is narcissist excuse me!
DeleteKailangan nya kasi lagi ng validation kaya laging nakababad sa comment section.
DeleteI'm the opposite. Give attention to few, especially those who deserves to be called out. It's not bad to teach some lessons.
Delete12:46 narcissist na yon sayo?
Delete12:46 narcissist agad? Ang alam ko pag narcissist, mataas ang tingin sa sarili and never umaako ng fault nila, laging ibang tao ang may kasalanan. So di ganun si Heart, madalas pa nga niyang laitin yung sarili niya eh. She always say na she's not perfect and marami siyang insecurities.
DeleteWOW self proclaimed psychiatrist si 12:46. Nadiagnosed mong narcissist dahil tinitingnan niya posts sa socmed? Un lang ba batayan ng narcissistic personality disorder
Delete12:46 AM, I hope you know what you are talking about. I am not a fan but you are in no position to diagnose someone. I dated a narcissist so I at least have an idea. Vain, sure. Kaya chill ka lang sa pagiging "smart" mo.
DeleteKaloka na overused ung word na narcissist. Ung totoo?? Hahahaha maka narcissist lang eh
DeleteGamit na gamit na issue na to kay Heart. Sya lang di nagfufuel sa issue..
DeleteHindi ba pwedeng nasasaktan lang yun tao?? Personal masyado yun issue, hindi na yun tungkol sa trabaho niya. Wag naman sana natin alisan siya ng right masaktan o pumatol lalo na kung kapatol patol naman.
Delete1246 Ingat ka sa pagbitiw ng narcissist na term, I’ve suffered a bad relationship because of that. Hindi ganyan ang ugaling binaggit mo.
DeleteWell she has very few bashers compared to other more popular artist kaya talagang pinapansin or pampam lang talaga para umingay.
Delete12:24 Sana kayo na ang bilis mag judge, ma experience niyo rin ang nawexperience niya. Tignan natin kung di rin kayo papalag.
Deletesusko issue pa ba kung may anak o wala ang isang tao?!
ReplyDeletesyempre need ihighlight ni Heart yan to gain sympathy.I like Heart before pero she's annoying na this past few months.Dami arte at hanash sa buhay.Kala ko ba masaya msya sya sa life nya? all her luxuries, her career, fashion eklavu? I hope itigil nya mag invite sa negative vibes kase maamaya drama with anxiety na nman ang Peg.
DeleteSuwail na anak sinuportahan pa ng celeb na ayaw mapansin ang issue pero comment naman ng comment.
ReplyDeletetrue.
DeleteNaku having a child is not so special naman na. Ang raming tao na sa mundo. I mean you can always adopt and also marami din namang tao both guy and girl na ayaw magka anak. Walang masama at all. Kung gugustihin naman ni Heart magka baby she will prioritize it pero mukhang di naman yun ang focus nya. Husband naman nya may anak na sa 1st wife kaya parang sya talaga must in their relationship. Wag ma sya ma offend. Mas nakakairita sya na she validated it pa
ReplyDelete12:24: Minsan madaling sabihin, pero mahirap gawin. Kahit ako maiirita, yung gustong gusto mo magkaanak and meron ka namang means, tapos hindi ka mag karon.
ReplyDeleteThis!
DeleteIsang sampal lang, pero ung magpupulot ng dentures sa sahig please!!
ReplyDeleteI hope she considers having a baby through IVF or surrogacy if she badly wants to have one. Afford nman nya, no doubt.
ReplyDeleteYes, after finishing all her projects.
DeleteGirl bawasan din kasi ang pagbabad sa comment section. Lagi kasing need ng validation kaya lahat na lang pinapatulan.
ReplyDeleteIt should not be wrong for calling out someone that has a twisted mindset of how a woman should perceive herself. Correction are mostly done by calling them they are wrong.
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Delete1:05 Hellloooooo kung may mag comment sa instagram account MO, di mo babasahin? Just because binabasa mo, doesn’t mean uhaw na uhaw ka sa validation. Misused ang ‘need ng validation’ sa mga kagaya mo.
Delete12:19 PM - girl do you get thousands of comments a day? Hindi. But Heart does. And she reads them because she needs validation. If she didn't, she won't bother sa dami ng comments. pero oo ikaw pwede kasi ilan lang naman un. 1:05AM hit the bulls eye when it comes to what does someone who needs validation does - Sift through thousands of comments a day.
Delete2.51/1.05 Why do you condone bashing instead of confronting it? You guys are nuts.
DeleteWe don't condone it, we are just realistic. You think slapping a comment like that would stop someone from bashing? If they're trolls, they don't have feelings, they don't get hurt with replies like that. Kaya nasa kay Heart yun kung babasahin nya at papatulan lahat ng comments about her.
Delete5:08 okay nga na yung ganyang topic is napaguusapan. Heart represents a number of women/Filipinas who are married and do not have kids, either by choice or not. Palibhasa, sanay ka na sa Filipino culture na mamahiya ng mga married women without kids. FYI, married ako and I have a son. Dati rin mentality ko yan, why get married if you decide not to have kids? Tignan mo, kung sino pa napaka daming anak, sila wala kakayahan bumuhay.
DeleteGrabe naman kasi ang ibang tao. It's up to the couple if they want children or not. Kung gusto rin nina Heart and Chiz na magkaanak pero wala pa, let them be. Huwag na tayong masyadong pakialamera. Besides, just like love or a partner, hindi naman pagiging incomplete ang walang anak. Not all were given the chance na magkaanak din so do not force them to everybody.
ReplyDeleteGrabe naman kasi ang ibang tao. It's up to the couple if they want children or not. Kung gusto rin nina Heart and Chiz na magkaanak pero wala pa, let them be. Huwag na tayong masyadong pakialamera. Besides, just like love or a partner, hindi naman pagiging incomplete ang walang anak. Not all were given the chance na magkaanak din so do not force them to everybody.
ReplyDeleteIn western countries there are couples who opt to have no children they even have an organized group..to them having children is a big responsibility, morally and financially and sometimes a hindrance to their success or it curtails their time for their own happiness or work and travel.
ReplyDeleteBakit ganun ang mga boomer? Nanay ko lagi kong pinagsasabihan, halimbawa pag may nakita sya sa tv or kakilala..ang taba ni ganto, ang itim ni ganon. Maganda sana pero mataba, maganda sana maitim nga lang, bakla siguto yan or parang bakla. Haaaay pag pinagsabihan naman sasama pa loob sayo. Minsan gusto ko pang magsolo na lang.
ReplyDeleteIt’s a defence mechanism, finding fault in others so they’re pulled down to their level.
Delete1:26 sometimes it’s not in the generation they belong to but in the person’s character and values. let’s not generalize because I get the same comments from both older and younger generations.
DeleteHeart, if it’s a non-issue for you. Just ignore it. Pero patol ka pa rin so ibig sabihin big deal pa rin sa’yo.
ReplyDeleteYou can't have it all.
ReplyDeleteHeart alam namin na gusto mo maging relatable at maka masa but don't entertain na comments about that issue
ReplyDeleteJust ignore or block
They will never stop they are evil people
Masarap magkaanak in your 20s or 30s. Pero pag 40s na, nakaka stress na siguro. Lalo ngaun pandemic, andami uncertainties.
ReplyDeleteWhat’s happening to her. She is looking too weird na.
ReplyDeleteI like Heart! Tao lang naman din sya naaapektuhan din. Lahat naman ng tao need ng validation. Palibhasa mga tao ang daming say sa buhay ng iba, kala mo may ambag lol
ReplyDeleteHohum, as usual she is full of herself. Pampam pa more.
ReplyDeleteNakaka trigger naman talaga lalo kung gusto mo talaga magkaanak pero di mangyari yari.. Masakit yun noh!!! I experienced 10 years of infertility, those people who don’t will never understand..
ReplyDeleteTraumatic kaya to lose a child what more twins pa. Frustrating din hindi sya mabuntis agad kaya siguro sensitive sya about motherhood. Don't rub it in her face, at least she's a good stepmom to Chiz children.
ReplyDeleteBakit ba pinipit ang mga babae na magka anak? zTo each his own.
ReplyDeleteSometimes kelangan rin ni heart sumagot sa mga insensitive na comments na to.
ReplyDeleteCguro people sees Heart as someone who they think have it all, kaya tinitira sya kung anu rin sa tingin nila she's lacking of. Wala na sila maisip ipuna sknya I think.
ReplyDeleteDi naman sinuportahan it was a joke meron pa ngang charaught sa huli. And even if serious, tama lang for being ignorant
ReplyDeleteBakit ang sosyal kapag si Heart nagsasabi ng charaught hahaha
ReplyDeleteNatuwa ako sa patol niya
ReplyDeleteSa panahon ngayon marami ang ayaw mag anak, nung unang panahon lang naman required mag anak after mag asawa, di na uso yan ngayon
ReplyDeleteHahahaha dami kong tawa.
ReplyDeleteI wish Heart won’t make patol na lang to those kind of comments para mag die down nalng on its own and at the same time, less stress on her na din. Love you Hearty
ReplyDelete10:34 As someone struggling from infertility and then when finally nakabuo, nakunan pa… I really get Heart. Minsan you’re okay, minsan pipitik ka talaga kasi nakakainis na talaga ang mga insensitive people. Minsan gusto mo talaga patulan para ma educate ang tao. Same concept as pag sinabihan kang “tumaba ka”. May times na gusto mong patulan to educate about body shaming
DeleteAng victim blaming niyo naman! Bakit di niyo sabihan yung mga tao na yan na tigilan na si Heart?? Papatulan ni Heart yung ganyan comment kasi masyadong personal and offensive. Alam naman natin na gusto niya magka anak pero nahihirapan siya so tigilan na yung pagdiin nun sakaniya. Mukha naman fulfilled na siya sa buhay niya and may anak man o wala ang isang babae, complete parin ang pagkatao niya. Tong mga boomers na to.
ReplyDeleteang chaka rin naman kasi ng mga tao sa comments section! ang babastos! mag comment ka ba naman about someone's personal life?! ugghh! para lang manira?! kadiri ang socmed etiqette ng pinoy sa true lang
ReplyDeleteIt’s a third world country. What do you expect?
Delete12:33 wala naman kinalaman ang pagiging third world country. going by your logic, di sana ibang third world country ganyan din magcomment sa social media? no, nasa culture yun. there are people din who lives in a first world country na pakilamera. dami ngang Pinoy nakatira na abroad nagmigrate na sa mga first world countries, pakilamera pa rin, lol! basa ka lang dito sa FP eh
DeleteThat is not a flattering picture of her. And mejo nauumay na ako sa makeup nya na ganyan..
ReplyDeleteYeah, celebrate your age. She pushing 40 but insists on wearing makeup for tweens and those in their early 20s. She looks beautiful so I don't get why she insists on looking like a tween or a Kardashian - she's like several folds more beautiful than any Kardashian.
DeleteMay anak si heart. Anak nya ang mga anak ni Chiz. Hindi purkit Hindi sa kanya lumabas, Hindi na nya anak yun. And she is a good mother to Chiz’s children.
ReplyDeleteOkay lang na wala kang anak. Isampal mo lang sa kanila yung 10 na Cartier bracelets mo na suot mo lahat sa beach.. char!
ReplyDeleteThat woman most likely can’t afford to feed her child aka child abuser.
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