Sana tlaga magkabalikan sila at may changes na tutal siguro naman nkapag reflect na kayo habang magkalayo. Bagay pa naman sila. They look so cute together.
Kung mag bf/gf lang sila at walang anak ok lang na di na sila mag balikan pero since they have two young daughters mas maganda kung buo ang family nila tsaka muka namang mahal nila ang isat isa at mutual naman ang kanilang decision to get back together kaya ok lang to give their marriage another chance. Sa susunod na lang sila mag give-up pag di talaga nag work out itong reconciliation nila.
Yung magkaibigan minsan merong di pagkaintindihan, mas lalo naman ang mag asawa. The key is acceptance. Your partner was raised by a different family which has different practices and ba backgrounds. Ikaw ganun din. There is no such thing as compatibility because one way or another meron talagang differences. For instance, your husband likes meat but you prefer healthy food choices. Pagkain lang yan pero minsan nagkakapikunan ang mga mag asawa jan. Pero kung tanggap mo yung pagkakaiba nyo, di mo hinahanap sarili mo sa kanya at di mo pinipilit gusto mo, walang masyadong gulo at di hahantong sa hiwalayan. Syempre una sa lahat, you pray for each other. This is my advice for young couples here on FP.
thankyuuu 12:45 apakaganda ng sinabi mo. totoo yan bilang my asawa din. sobrang mgkaiba din kmi ng thinking pero intindihan lng tlga unawaan pra sa ikakaayus pg sasama. sk tigilan mgpost sa socialmedia period.
True 12:45, marriage is compromise. There’s no such thing has sobrang parehas kayo ng partner mo. It’s not about how same practices you both have but it’s about how you handle your differences. Married here with a foreigner, I have nothing in common with him but compromising is the key. It’s also an effective way to learn new things and discover things that you don’t know you might be good at.
Depende yan sa situation nyo, kung ang isa accept lang ng accept yung isa naman masyadong dominant. That person will push you to your limits, that person will eventually change you. Sana maisip din ng iba ang difference ng acceptance at pagtitiis. Acceptance should come both ways hindi pwedeng isa lang.
Depende talaga sa sitwasyon. It is normal for humans to err, pag di naman mortal na kasalanan, puede mag usap at magpatawad. Laging manalangin para samahan ng Dios ang pagsasama kasi meron laging kalaban na handang manggulo ng mag asawam
12.45 Well you have to learn how to talk and not play tampo. Acceptance on incompatibilities that's what they're talking about here but you are talking about something else which you didn't specify. Like i said learn how to talk and be specific.
12:15, agree with you. Sometimes you compromise and accept too much, you forget that you also need boundaries to maintain self respect. Women have a tendency to lose themselves in service of their loved ones. We also need to realise when we should walk away..even with children. If the dynamic is toxic, it won't be healthy for children anyway.
12:36 Tampo is normal as long as you don't make it last. Research says that negative emotions cause bone loss. Ayoko namang magka osteoporosis dahil sa sobrang tampo. Acceptance is helpful, but of course it depends on the issue. If it affects or delays daily activities, of course you have to talk about it, otherwise, it could waste money and time. Yung maliliit na tampuhan, pag hindi napag-usapan ng maayos, dun na magsisimula ang kapaitan o bitterness. Magkakalamat na at unti-unti nang masisira ang relasyon.
Sa dami ng hanash ni gurl dun pa rin pala kay guy bagsak nya. All is well that ends well. Kaloka kayo minsan nga wag magkalat sa harap ng publiko.ðŸ¤ðŸ˜„
12:29 Aba syempre ano gusto mo bumagsak sya sa ibang lalaki. Normal lang humanash ang babae at sadyang madrama naman talaga ang babae in nature at madada. Ang importante naayos pa din nila relasyon nila at ikaw maging happy ka na lang para sa kapwa mo!
Mas gusto ko nang magkabalikan sila kaysa maghanap ng iba. Ang tendency kasi pag may bagong partner, ikokompara mo yung bago sa dati at siguradong gulo yan. Mahirapan din ang mga bata. Tuwang tuwa pa si taning nyan kasi yan ang goal nya, ang sirain ang pamilya. Pag sira na ang mag asawa, damay na pati mga bata. Isa pa, nasa bible yan, God hates divorce. So hanggat maari sana magkaayos sila at magpatawaran. Couples can be allowed to be separated if may buhay na nakasalalay like adik yung isa o nananakit na. Pero kung hindi naman ganun, as much as possible, magbati sana.
Mas maraming masaya for the both of them. May mga couples din naman na nagkahiwalay for whatever reason, pero nagkabalikan din at mas naging strong ang relationship. Nasa pagtanggap lang yan ng mali ng bawat isa at higit sa lahat huwag pairalin ang pride. All's well that ends well.
Lesson dyan, wag kukuda kung di nman sure na mapanindigan ang desisyon. Tahimik nalang dapat di naman lahat kelangang isiwalat sa madla ang mga personal na problemang mag asawa.
Umpisa palang ng away nila alam ko magkakabalikan yan. Alam nyo yun. At the end of the day uuwi at uuwi tayo sa taong nakakaintindi ng topak at kaweirduhan natin sa buhay.
Open naman pala sa pagbabalikan tapos nag ingay pa sila sa social media. Jusko kung may balak pa kayo balikan mga asawa niyo wa niyong ilabas ang mga baho m. Kayo lang nagmumukhang katawa tawa.
Ganyan talaga ang moms, hindi gusto not complete family kapag may anak.Kung mahal nila isat isa talaga, very good.Pero pwede rin magkabalikan pero wala talagang patutungohan dahil medyo bata pa talaga sila.Sana magiging okay the second time around. God works in mysterious ways.
She sounds like my cousin na panay parinig sa socmed pero binalikan din pala ang asawa nya. After all the pagkakalat at seeking out advices mapapakamot ulo ka na lang.
Mukhang labs nyo banan talaga isa't-isa, eh! Go!
ReplyDeleteNARARAPAT LANG....
DeleteComeback is real?
ReplyDeleteTama lang yan iba kasi pag kasal kesa bf/gf you have to exhaust all means para no regrets, no what ifs.
ReplyDeleteSana tlaga magkabalikan sila at may changes na tutal siguro naman nkapag reflect na kayo habang magkalayo. Bagay pa naman sila. They look so cute together.
ReplyDeleteKung mag bf/gf lang sila at walang anak ok lang na di na sila mag balikan pero since they have two young daughters mas maganda kung buo ang family nila tsaka muka namang mahal nila ang isat isa at mutual naman ang kanilang decision to get back together kaya ok lang to give their marriage another chance. Sa susunod na lang sila mag give-up pag di talaga nag work out itong reconciliation nila.
DeleteYung magkaibigan minsan merong di pagkaintindihan, mas lalo naman ang mag asawa. The key is acceptance. Your partner was raised by a different family which has different practices and ba backgrounds. Ikaw ganun din. There is no such thing as compatibility because one way or another meron talagang differences. For instance, your husband likes meat but you prefer healthy food choices. Pagkain lang yan pero minsan nagkakapikunan ang mga mag asawa jan. Pero kung tanggap mo yung pagkakaiba nyo, di mo hinahanap sarili mo sa kanya at di mo pinipilit gusto mo, walang masyadong gulo at di hahantong sa hiwalayan. Syempre una sa lahat, you pray for each other. This is my advice for young couples here on FP.
Deletethankyuuu 12:45 apakaganda ng sinabi mo. totoo yan bilang my asawa din. sobrang mgkaiba din kmi ng thinking pero intindihan lng tlga unawaan pra sa ikakaayus pg sasama. sk tigilan mgpost sa socialmedia period.
DeleteIniscreen shot ko comment ko anon 1245
DeletePara tuwing magkakarom kme ng misunderstandings ng partner ko, eto ung magging reminder ko.
True 12:45, marriage is compromise. There’s no such thing has sobrang parehas kayo ng partner mo. It’s not about how same practices you both have but it’s about how you handle your differences. Married here with a foreigner, I have nothing in common with him but compromising is the key. It’s also an effective way to learn new things and discover things that you don’t know you might be good at.
DeleteMarried for 11 years here.
Very well said 12:45!!! Salamat sa advice. 1 year palang kami ng asawa ko and naka relate ako sa post mo.
DeleteBasta walang cheating, walang domestic violence at good provider, okay lang.
Delete12:45 Super agree on that! Thank you!
Deletesome people sees it as acceptable pero sa iba nagtitiis nalang sila which is sad. nagtitiis hanggang mapuno na.
Delete12:45 best comment/advice for this topic. Very realistic. 100% agree.
DeleteDepende yan sa situation nyo, kung ang isa accept lang ng accept yung isa naman masyadong dominant. That person will push you to your limits, that person will eventually change you. Sana maisip din ng iba ang difference ng acceptance at pagtitiis. Acceptance should come both ways hindi pwedeng isa lang.
DeleteDepende talaga sa sitwasyon. It is normal for humans to err, pag di naman mortal na kasalanan, puede mag usap at magpatawad. Laging manalangin para samahan ng Dios ang pagsasama kasi meron laging kalaban na handang manggulo ng mag asawam
Delete12.45 Well you have to learn how to talk and not play tampo. Acceptance on incompatibilities that's what they're talking about here but you are talking about something else which you didn't specify. Like i said learn how to talk and be specific.
Delete12:15, agree with you. Sometimes you compromise and accept too much, you forget that you also need boundaries to maintain self respect. Women have a tendency to lose themselves in service of their loved ones. We also need to realise when we should walk away..even with children. If the dynamic is toxic, it won't be healthy for children anyway.
Delete12:36 Tampo is normal as long as you don't make it last. Research says that negative emotions cause bone loss. Ayoko namang magka osteoporosis dahil sa sobrang tampo. Acceptance is helpful, but of course it depends on the issue. If it affects or delays daily activities, of course you have to talk about it, otherwise, it could waste money and time. Yung maliliit na tampuhan, pag hindi napag-usapan ng maayos, dun na magsisimula ang kapaitan o bitterness. Magkakalamat na at unti-unti nang masisira ang relasyon.
DeleteSa dami ng hanash ni gurl dun pa rin pala kay guy bagsak nya. All is well that ends well. Kaloka kayo minsan nga wag magkalat sa harap ng publiko.ðŸ¤ðŸ˜„
ReplyDelete12:29 Aba syempre ano gusto mo bumagsak sya sa ibang lalaki. Normal lang humanash ang babae at sadyang madrama naman talaga ang babae in nature at madada. Ang importante naayos pa din nila relasyon nila at ikaw maging happy ka na lang para sa kapwa mo!
DeleteMas gusto ko nang magkabalikan sila kaysa maghanap ng iba. Ang tendency kasi pag may bagong partner, ikokompara mo yung bago sa dati at siguradong gulo yan. Mahirapan din ang mga bata. Tuwang tuwa pa si taning nyan kasi yan ang goal nya, ang sirain ang pamilya. Pag sira na ang mag asawa, damay na pati mga bata. Isa pa, nasa bible yan, God hates divorce. So hanggat maari sana magkaayos sila at magpatawaran. Couples can be allowed to be separated if may buhay na nakasalalay like adik yung isa o nananakit na. Pero kung hindi naman ganun, as much as possible, magbati sana.
DeleteJusmio after everything.
ReplyDeleteSiguro ikaw di ka na binalikan ng jowa mo kaya di ka natutuwa pag ganyang may nagkakabalikan.
DeleteMas maraming masaya for the both of them. May mga couples din naman na nagkahiwalay for whatever reason, pero nagkabalikan din at mas naging strong ang relationship. Nasa pagtanggap lang yan ng mali ng bawat isa at higit sa lahat huwag pairalin ang pride. All's well that ends well.
Deletesa dami nang mga naghihiwalay i am rooting for this couple sana magkabalikan sila
ReplyDelete2nd chances sounds good
ReplyDeleteSana magka balikan sila
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteAkala ko si Kean
ReplyDeleteHay naku kaya minsan pag isipan muna mga idadakdak sa socmed at baka kainin mo lahat ang sinabi mo.
ReplyDeleteMahal ang annulment at matagal haha kaya tiis tiis na lang muna
ReplyDelete300K, 2 yrs yung samin. worrh all the headaches and drama i will no longer experience with my ex
Deletemaaga kasi nag asawa.
ReplyDeleteLesson dyan, wag kukuda kung di nman sure na mapanindigan ang desisyon. Tahimik nalang dapat di naman lahat kelangang isiwalat sa madla ang mga personal na problemang mag asawa.
ReplyDeleteUmpisa palang ng away nila alam ko magkakabalikan yan. Alam nyo yun. At the end of the day uuwi at uuwi tayo sa taong nakakaintindi ng topak at kaweirduhan natin sa buhay.
ReplyDeleteWTF girl...
ReplyDeleteMatapos nyong mag-ina na kaladkarin s kahihiyan yung tao kahit pa you didn't mention any names? Kung ako si Alwyn, thanks but no thanks.
ReplyDeleteButi naman mabawasan ang couples na naghihiwalay sa Pinas
ReplyDeleteSeems na hindi talaga ito cheating.
ReplyDeleteMarupok ang lola nyo hahahah
ReplyDeleteKung walang violence or third party lalo na Sa babae pwedeng pwede pa magbalikan.
ReplyDeletePag titiis na naman hanggang mapuno.
ReplyDeleteBet na bet ko na magkabalikan sila. Pero sana di na nagkalat sa social media 😅
ReplyDelete9:38 nangyari na eh. Huwag nang sisihin. Support na lang natin sila.
DeleteOpen naman pala sa pagbabalikan tapos nag ingay pa sila sa social media. Jusko kung may balak pa kayo balikan mga asawa niyo wa niyong ilabas ang mga baho m. Kayo lang nagmumukhang katawa tawa.
ReplyDeleteNag social media diarrhea muna bago magkabalikan
ReplyDeletepano na yung letter na sinulat nya before?
DeleteThey should have kept their married life private!
ReplyDeleteGanyan talaga ang moms, hindi gusto not complete family kapag may anak.Kung mahal nila isat isa talaga, very good.Pero pwede rin magkabalikan pero wala talagang patutungohan dahil medyo bata pa talaga sila.Sana magiging okay the second time around. God works in mysterious ways.
ReplyDeleteShe sounds like my cousin na panay parinig sa socmed pero binalikan din pala ang asawa nya. After all the pagkakalat at seeking out advices mapapakamot ulo ka na lang.
ReplyDeleteRemember why you broke up. Remember your non-negotiables.
ReplyDeleteEk ek lang pala niya ang nangyari. Shameless.
ReplyDeleteTigilan kasi ang POST NG POST
ReplyDeletePrivate nyo na lang grabe!
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