I had the same experienced (blighted ovum)sa kanya last 2019. I underwent d&c and after 6mos. God bless me with another pregnancy.now I had my 1 yr and 4 mos baby boy. In perfect time alex, ibibigay ulit ni GOd yan😊
Ako hindi D&C ginawa. I was injected with methotrexate in the hospital here in Canada. Then pinauwi na ako to allow the drug to induce medical pregnancy loss. This happened after 8 yrs of trying to get pregnant kaya when we learned it wasn't a viable pregnancy, hubby and I were crushed. I was alone when I had the miscarriage. Nadatnan na lang ako ng hubby ko, passed out from the pain. Both physical and emotional. Its an experience we never forgot. We were fortunate though, a year after that, we finally had our son. Two yrs after, our daughter.
I also want to share my experience..last 2018 my husband and I got pregnant to our 1st baby but sadly after 4months my cervix opened and a lot of blood came out of me..I was all alone while experiencing the pain..the baby didn't come out so I was rushed to the hospital, there I waited for a long time before my baby came out lifeless..we were really heartbroken, but I still have to go through d&c bcoz my placenta didnt come out with the baby..it was really an unbearable pain..i really prayed to God that it will never happen again to us...we got pregnant again after a year but again after 6weeks another miscarriage happened...i didn't get to undergo d&c bcoz my ob said all of it came out..i experienced miscarriage not once but twice but it did not stop us from trying..It tested our faith to God but we did not lose hope..we know he has a purpose and fortunately we had our 3rd baby and this time we really tried our best to not again have a 3rd miscarriage and thankfully I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl and she's now 1 yr and 3months old...we are so thankful and God really made wonders bcoz unexpectedly I am again pregnant to our 4th child....I am sharing this to give hope to all of those who are almost giving up and questioning their faith..never lose hope..Always pray and ask for it bcoz he will bless you with everything that your hearts desire..maybe not now but soon when he knows that you are ready..
Hindi ko mn naranasan ang nangyari kay Ms. Alex, pero bilang isang babae, bilang isang ina, ramdam ko ang sakit na dala nito sa kanila 😭💔 Pagaling ka po Ms. Alex. Be strong and kapit lng kayo kay God.
The photos wil be remembered dearly ..sarap ng feeling ng first pregnancy eh yung umaasa ka na may little angel sa tummy mo...yun nga lang nag end agad..
her page her rule. every mom-to-be may diff approach. kaya kung dyan sya makaka heal let her be. meron ako iba kilala hindi celeb gumagaan loob nya pag nag post sya sa social media nya. hindi sya papansin pero doon gumagaang loob nya. ngyn kung ayaw mo makita unfollow mo lng. RESPECT HER PAGE
Jusko naman napansin pa yun. Mga katulad nyo lahat nagawan ng issue. Kaloka! Malay mo candid ung picture nila ng asawa nya di nila alam pinicturan sila or something. Wag ka na ngang umimik kaloka ka
Anong pictorial? Shoot ba yan? Nagtake lang ng ilang pics, pictorial agad? People take pics to commemorate this happening in this lives even though it's painful, the baby's life had value no matter how short it was.
Palagay ko ang pictures ay para sa kanila. Na I share na lang dahil madaming mahadera. Di sila nag pictorial like nag pose at umanggulo on purpose. Sadyang may nag pi picture lang. Parang sa lamay o burol or libing, di ba mag nag pi picture din. Sana ay nakatulong ito na maintindihan mo ha?
You don’t need to understand the whole pictorial either. People cope with loss and pain differently, and if that includes documenting everything they went through, including taking photos of themselves to help with their healing, then let them be.
Your way of coping is not the same for everyone. If taking photos or even vlogging would help them heal, then let them. Loss, is loss, whatever face it may look like.
8:20 It’s not pictorial if someone else took the photo candidly. How I wish someone took my photo during my doctor’s visits and when I miscarried. That way I would have something to look back to. Now everything is just in my mind, and it’s slowly fading away..
I miscarried twice. Both times we took photos. Pag naranasan nyo you will understand. Yan na lang ang last time makakasama ang baby. Kahit pa blighted ovum yan. It’s letting go of the little angel you thought would come in a few months. Sa sobrang sakit, hindi na ako umasa na yun 3rd pregnancy ko tutuloy. Feeling ko blighted ovum na naman. Though kami naman we are very private people. Pinost ko na nga lng sa social media nun nanganak na ako. Pero ibaiba ang tao. Gusto nila ipost, let them. Gusto nyo ipost yun sangkatutak nyong selfies, go. Especially during these very crazy and chaotic times, wag na tayo kontrabulate sa ikasasaya ng ibang tao.
When my mom died recently, I realised how much less photos we had together. Yung kami lang talaga. This is one of my many regrets. Some things we remember well, some memories fade away slowly. I should have taken more photos with my mom as a reminder of those memories.
12:34 “I have seen that most parents immediately agree to remembrance photos because they are creating lasting memories,” said Carolina Villegas, a mental health therapist at Orlando Health Winnie Palmer Hospital for Women & Babies. “This type of loss can be a very lonely experience. Women in perinatal support groups have shared that finding the words and speaking about their loss is painful, so sharing the pictures with loved ones and people they trust helps open their communication.”
“The greatest way to remember a loved one is by sharing stories about their life,” said licensed marriage and family therapist Saniyyah Mayo. “Psychology teaches us that the way to healing is by talking about the pain. The more you talk about tragic events in your life, the less power it has over you. It is the same reason why people go to therapy. They talk about their pain, which allows them to take the power away from the pain and transition that power into strength.”
8:20 ako nga na di artista e nakadocument yung miscarriage ko kasi 1st pregnancy ko yan. kahit na masakit para sakin ng mr ko, gusto ko pa rin magka remembrance ng part na yun ng buhay namin kahit yung happy naging sad in a matter of 3 mos. Di ko pa rin matingnan mga pix na yun but in time...
12:45 celebrity kasi si Alex may privacy sila pero meron din yung iniinform nila ung kunting detail sa life nila para sa fans niya o ibang taong kilala nila(isang bagsakan nalang yung post). Nasa saiyo na yun kung ishare mo o hindi walang basagan ng trip 2021 na lahat na nga umiikot na sa social media wala ng bago kahit nga siguro pagligo o pagpopo*ps mo vlinovlog na nga ng ibang tao nowadays. Mali lang kasi kay Lolits pinangunahan ang mag asawa magshare ng painful story nila. Napakachismosa at atribida ang dating.
Do you know it’s not a great advice to tell people to move on from a miscarriage because may dadating naman? Let them heal. Let them cherish the little one that was not meant to be born.
My heart goes out to the couple. Nakakainis na inunahan sila ng ibang tao na ikwento yung pinagdaraanan nila. May they heal soon. May they be blessed with another baby in God's time.
Nag meet ang egg and sperm cell. Naitanim sa inunan, pero di na nag develop. Hindi nag progress yung development ni baby - blighted ovum
Bilang hindi nag-dedevelop, yung katawan ng babae, i-re-recognize nyang foreign body yun. At natufal course yung i-expel sya ng katawan, hence, the miscarriage.
Oo na, tama si LOLIT sa itsinismis nya. Pero who gave her the right to bring it out? Wala syang karapatan! Sensitibong topic ito na dapat nire-respeto at hindi yung ipagka-kalat para lang pagpiyestahan for the sake of vlog earnings!!!
The couple are still hoping for a miracle that the embryo will continue to develop but Lolit's news of the miscarriage s premature. Baby is still in mommy' tummy pero si Lolit, wala na ang baby.
Yung ang mas masama 2:45. Kasi Oct 9 tsinismis ni Lolit. Baka nung mga panahong yun nagdadasal pa buong pamilya na may mabuo. Oct 12 nila klinose yung book eh.
Hindi lahat. Case to case basis pa rin yan. My friend had the same case. It’s been almost 5 yrs since the miscarriage until now di pa rin sila nakabuo ulit.
I had the same experience with Alex… Waited 6 years for a baby but ended up in miscarriage. Iba ung pain physically, emotionally and mentally… be strong you guys! I pray to God for healing for the both of you.
Ayan Lolit Solis, kahit 74 ka na, matuto ka sanang rumespeto sa kapwa mo. It’s not your story to tell, masyadong tampalasan ang bibig mo. Kahit saang anggulo mali talaga eh. Praying for complete healing for the couple.
I had my fair share of story. We tried for 7 months and ung every time na magpPT ka ng negative ang result, sobrang nakaka trauma. Then dadating ung period mo prang pinagsakluban ako ng langit at lupa. For 7 months ganun. Luckily, after trying a help from a lube and sinabayan ng diet, nakabuo din kami. Praying for all parents out there who are going through this kind of pain.
Having their pictures taken serves as a memory na they had a child na namatay. Miscarriage is very hard kasi namatayan ka nag anak na wala man lang mabibisitang puntod on their anniversary and people will forget the baby ever existed after some time. Kaya its one of their ways to remember that that baby existed kahit sandali lang. Eto yung mga situations na dapat walang bashing!!
Sad 😭
ReplyDeleteAww.. Be strong Alex and Mikee! I hope wala munang negative comments. Let them heal.
ReplyDeleteThis.
DeleteHay. Hoping for the emotional recovery of the two. Hoping din for a rainbow baby soon
ReplyDeleteKakalungkot naman, tpos ngpost p ng ganun si lolit (oct 11) eh oct 12 lang pla nangyare oh. Haist sad.
ReplyDeleteYes. Super disrespectful. Its not her place to announce something so personal like this
DeleteGrabe noh. Bakit kaya may mga ganun na tao. Ang tanda na paman niya.
DeleteOct 9 pa nga ata yung post ni lolit
DeleteOct 9 nagpost si lolit. Check her IG
DeleteWala pang miscarriage pero inunahan na ni Lolit
Delete.
It was not a place for anyone to reveal this painful event, other than the couple. If they're ready.
DeleteI had the same experienced (blighted ovum)sa kanya last 2019. I underwent d&c and after 6mos. God bless me with another pregnancy.now I had my 1 yr and 4 mos baby boy. In perfect time alex, ibibigay ulit ni GOd yan😊
ReplyDeletePwede naman tagalog kaysa mali mali na english ate
DeleteAko hindi D&C ginawa. I was injected with methotrexate in the hospital here in Canada. Then pinauwi na ako to allow the drug to induce medical pregnancy loss. This happened after 8 yrs of trying to get pregnant kaya when we learned it wasn't a viable pregnancy, hubby and I were crushed. I was alone when I had the miscarriage. Nadatnan na lang ako ng hubby ko, passed out from the pain. Both physical and emotional. Its an experience we never forgot. We were fortunate though, a year after that, we finally had our son. Two yrs after, our daughter.
DeleteThis gives hope, thank you po for your post.. in gods perfect time.
DeleteI also want to share my experience..last 2018 my husband and I got pregnant to our 1st baby but sadly after 4months my cervix opened and a lot of blood came out of me..I was all alone while experiencing the pain..the baby didn't come out so I was rushed to the hospital, there I waited for a long time before my baby came out lifeless..we were really heartbroken, but I still have to go through d&c bcoz my placenta didnt come out with the baby..it was really an unbearable pain..i really prayed to God that it will never happen again to us...we got pregnant again after a year but again after 6weeks another miscarriage happened...i didn't get to undergo d&c bcoz my ob said all of it came out..i experienced miscarriage not once but twice but it did not stop us from trying..It tested our faith to God but we did not lose hope..we know he has a purpose and fortunately we had our 3rd baby and this time we really tried our best to not again have a 3rd miscarriage and thankfully I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl and she's now 1 yr and 3months old...we are so thankful and God really made wonders bcoz unexpectedly I am again pregnant to our 4th child....I am sharing this to give hope to all of those who are almost giving up and questioning their faith..never lose hope..Always pray and ask for it bcoz he will bless you with everything that your hearts desire..maybe not now but soon when he knows that you are ready..
DeleteHindi ko mn naranasan ang nangyari kay Ms. Alex, pero bilang isang babae, bilang isang ina, ramdam ko ang sakit na dala nito sa kanila 😭💔 Pagaling ka po Ms. Alex. Be strong and kapit lng kayo kay God.
ReplyDeleteBe strong Alex and Mikee 🙏🙏🙏 tapos ganun pa sasabihin ni Lolit grabeeeee 😞
ReplyDeletei could understand the pain but what i could never understand is the whole pictorial. nothing more to say.
ReplyDeleteThe photos wil be remembered dearly ..sarap ng feeling ng first pregnancy eh yung umaasa ka na may little angel sa tummy mo...yun nga lang nag end agad..
Deleteher page her rule. every mom-to-be may diff approach. kaya kung dyan sya makaka heal let her be. meron ako iba kilala hindi celeb gumagaan loob nya pag nag post sya sa social media nya. hindi sya papansin pero doon gumagaang loob nya. ngyn kung ayaw mo makita unfollow mo lng. RESPECT HER PAGE
DeleteJusko naman napansin pa yun. Mga katulad nyo lahat nagawan ng issue. Kaloka! Malay mo candid ung picture nila ng asawa nya di nila alam pinicturan sila or something. Wag ka na ngang umimik kaloka ka
DeleteAnong pictorial? Shoot ba yan? Nagtake lang ng ilang pics, pictorial agad? People take pics to commemorate this happening in this lives even though it's painful, the baby's life had value no matter how short it was.
DeleteWhat pictorial? Those pictures were proof that they once had a baby. It's their right and way how to remember that very moment.
DeletePalagay ko ang pictures ay para sa kanila. Na I share na lang dahil madaming mahadera. Di sila nag pictorial like nag pose at umanggulo on purpose. Sadyang may nag pi picture lang. Parang sa lamay o burol or libing, di ba mag nag pi picture din. Sana ay nakatulong ito na maintindihan mo ha?
DeleteYou don’t need to understand the whole pictorial either. People cope with loss and pain differently, and if that includes documenting everything they went through, including taking photos of themselves to help with their healing, then let them be.
DeleteYour way of coping is not the same for everyone. If taking photos or even vlogging would help them heal, then let them. Loss, is loss, whatever face it may look like.
pictorial yan sayo? 😆
DeleteTaking pictures is a way to document events in life, kahit yung mga masasakit na pangyayari. So, let them be.
DeleteAgree.
Deletepictorial ba pede sabihin dyan? hindi ba pedeng gumawa lang sila ng souvenir ng kanilang now angel para kahit paano mayron silang alaala?
Delete8:20 It’s not pictorial if someone else took the photo candidly. How I wish someone took my photo during my doctor’s visits and when I miscarried. That way I would have something to look back to. Now everything is just in my mind, and it’s slowly fading away..
DeleteAnong masamang mag-picture sila?!?!? Nothing more to say ka pa dyan
DeleteMasama ba magpicture sila pang memories nila?
DeletePictorial yan obvious naman di ba.. Mga faney na ito bulag
DeleteBaka pangvlog dapat - oo na, masama ung iniisip ko. Sorry. Pero, I admire Alex for posting this. Pwede namang sakanila nalang and keber na sa issue
Delete8:20 idk sa pinas pero in the US, there are remembrance or bereavement photographers in hospitals like chrissy teigen’s
DeleteI miscarried twice. Both times we took photos. Pag naranasan nyo you will understand. Yan na lang ang last time makakasama ang baby. Kahit pa blighted ovum yan. It’s letting go of the little angel you thought would come in a few months. Sa sobrang sakit, hindi na ako umasa na yun 3rd pregnancy ko tutuloy. Feeling ko blighted ovum na naman. Though kami naman we are very private people. Pinost ko na nga lng sa social media nun nanganak na ako. Pero ibaiba ang tao. Gusto nila ipost, let them. Gusto nyo ipost yun sangkatutak nyong selfies, go. Especially during these very crazy and chaotic times, wag na tayo kontrabulate sa ikasasaya ng ibang tao.
DeleteGanito din post ng friend ko when na miscarriage sila. Though Wala Lang sila picture nagyayakapan sila mag asawa.
DeleteAlam mo meaning ng pictorial? Eh ano naman nakikitingin ka lang?
DeleteWhen my mom died recently, I realised how much less photos we had together. Yung kami lang talaga. This is one of my many regrets. Some things we remember well, some memories fade away slowly. I should have taken more photos with my mom as a reminder of those memories.
DeleteI think iba ang pictorial. You get dolled up pag pictorial.
DeleteSi nadine samonte ang nagpapictorial with all the receipts. yun ang pictorial
12:34 “I have seen that most parents immediately agree to remembrance photos because they are creating lasting memories,” said Carolina Villegas, a mental health therapist at Orlando Health Winnie Palmer Hospital for Women & Babies. “This type of loss can be a very lonely experience. Women in perinatal support groups have shared that finding the words and speaking about their loss is painful, so sharing the pictures with loved ones and people they trust helps open their communication.”
Delete“The greatest way to remember a loved one is by sharing stories about their life,” said licensed marriage and family therapist Saniyyah Mayo. “Psychology teaches us that the way to healing is by talking about the pain. The more you talk about tragic events in your life, the less power it has over you. It is the same reason why people go to therapy. They talk about their pain, which allows them to take the power away from the pain and transition that power into strength.”
12:34 it’s disgusting that you have no sympathy. However they choose to grieve is their decision, not yours.
Delete8:20 ako nga na di artista e nakadocument yung miscarriage ko kasi 1st pregnancy ko yan. kahit na masakit para sakin ng mr ko, gusto ko pa rin magka remembrance ng part na yun ng buhay namin kahit yung happy naging sad in a matter of 3 mos. Di ko pa rin matingnan mga pix na yun but in time...
Delete12:45 celebrity kasi si Alex may privacy sila pero meron din yung iniinform nila ung kunting detail sa life nila para sa fans niya o ibang taong kilala nila(isang bagsakan nalang yung post). Nasa saiyo na yun kung ishare mo o hindi walang basagan ng trip 2021 na lahat na nga umiikot na sa social media wala ng bago kahit nga siguro pagligo o pagpopo*ps mo vlinovlog na nga ng ibang tao nowadays. Mali lang kasi kay Lolits pinangunahan ang mag asawa magshare ng painful story nila. Napakachismosa at atribida ang dating.
Deletesana yung mga nega commenters dito di nyo ma experience makunan or maka experience ng any reproductive health issues.
DeleteYou will never understand until you go through it.
DeleteIt’s their first pregnancy, the only memories meron sila sa panganay sana nila. Wag kang ano dyan
DeleteThis is so sad. And I admire their strength. Praying for comfort. I hope walang nega comments here.
ReplyDeleteSame kami ng case ni alex.. dont worry alex baby gurl yan nxt time
ReplyDeleteDo you know it’s not a great advice to tell people to move on from a miscarriage because may dadating naman? Let them heal. Let them cherish the little one that was not meant to be born.
DeleteMy heart goes out to the couple. Nakakainis na inunahan sila ng ibang tao na ikwento yung pinagdaraanan nila. May they heal soon. May they be blessed with another baby in God's time.
ReplyDeleteNalulungkot ako kahit dko maintindihan ung blighted ovum ba un. Basta nakunan ganern nakakalungkot
ReplyDeleteNag meet ang egg and sperm cell. Naitanim sa inunan, pero di na nag develop. Hindi nag progress yung development ni baby - blighted ovum
DeleteBilang hindi nag-dedevelop, yung katawan ng babae, i-re-recognize nyang foreign body yun. At natufal course yung i-expel sya ng katawan, hence, the miscarriage.
Sana nakatulong.
Oo na, tama si LOLIT sa itsinismis nya. Pero who gave her the right to bring it out? Wala syang karapatan! Sensitibong topic ito na dapat nire-respeto at hindi yung ipagka-kalat para lang pagpiyestahan for the sake of vlog earnings!!!
ReplyDeleteI think mali si manay, given ung date n binigay ni alx
DeleteThe couple are still hoping for a miracle that the embryo will continue to develop but Lolit's news of the miscarriage s premature. Baby is still in mommy' tummy pero si Lolit, wala na ang baby.
DeleteYung ang mas masama 2:45. Kasi Oct 9 tsinismis ni Lolit. Baka nung mga panahong yun nagdadasal pa buong pamilya na may mabuo. Oct 12 nila klinose yung book eh.
DeleteMay right sya kasi artista si alex. Scoop nia yan eh tapos totoo naman. Walang masama doon.
DeleteWala na nireveal na ni lolit
ReplyDeletepakatatag kayu
ReplyDeleteHaaaay. Prayers
ReplyDeleteMabilis na sya mag preggy kasi na scrape na at nalinis
ReplyDeleteI guess this is true. Nakunan ako ng october 2012. December 2012 buntis ulit ako.
DeleteNang nililinis ako, iyak ako ng iyak. Masakit na ang baby mo inaalis na nila.
DeleteHindi lahat. Case to case basis pa rin yan. My friend had the same case. It’s been almost 5 yrs since the miscarriage until now di pa rin sila nakabuo ulit.
Delete4:15 is it physically painful? Yung pag linis?
DeleteSa legs masakit kasi naka bukaka ka during d & c...
DeleteGrabeh sobrang recent pala. Kaloka ka Lolit hindi makapag timpi ng bunganga, inunahan oa yung mag asawa nag announce
ReplyDeleteAng sad :( dagdag pa frustration sa pakikialam ni lolit
ReplyDeleteI had the same experience with Alex… Waited 6 years for a baby but ended up in miscarriage. Iba ung pain physically, emotionally and mentally… be strong you guys! I pray to God for healing for the both of you.
ReplyDeletepaano nalaman ni Lolit ?
ReplyDeleteA blighted ovum is a false positive. Technically wala naman baby tlga. Still sad though.
ReplyDeletei hope they won't blog it. Stay healthy Alex.
ReplyDeleteI love FP classmates, pag serious, respeto talaga, like here yung kay Alex, may time and place for everything.
ReplyDeleteAyan Lolit Solis, kahit 74 ka na, matuto ka sanang rumespeto sa kapwa mo. It’s not your story to tell, masyadong tampalasan ang bibig mo. Kahit saang anggulo mali talaga eh. Praying for complete healing for the couple.
ReplyDeleteKaya naman pala ganun naging reaction ng asawa kay Lolit Solis dahil naghohope pa sila.
ReplyDeleteKonek. Nagho hope pa sila na kakapit ang embryo pero nilaglag na ni Lolit.
DeleteImbyerna sila kasi nai-spluk na ni Manay Lolit
ReplyDeleteIkaw b hndi magagalit kapag ung masakit n bagay n pinagdaanan mo ittsismis ng mga marites bago mo p mn ipaalam s iba? Marites ka din no
DeleteI had my fair share of story. We tried for 7 months and ung every time na magpPT ka ng negative ang result, sobrang nakaka trauma. Then dadating ung period mo prang pinagsakluban ako ng langit at lupa. For 7 months ganun. Luckily, after trying a help from a lube and sinabayan ng diet, nakabuo din kami. Praying for all parents out there who are going through this kind of pain.
ReplyDeleteMind.your.own business as simple as that
ReplyDeleteTalagang ganyan, you are still a young couple, seguro hindi para sa inyo ang baby na yon, (SAD TO SAY) ingat sa ulit mong pag bubuntis, GOD BLESS.
ReplyDeleteTapos ang sasabihin ng mga mesirable ang buhay later on ay baog.
ReplyDeleteHaving their pictures taken serves as a memory na they had a child na namatay. Miscarriage is very hard kasi namatayan ka nag anak na wala man lang mabibisitang puntod on their anniversary and people will forget the baby ever existed after some time. Kaya its one of their ways to remember that that baby existed kahit sandali lang. Eto yung mga situations na dapat walang bashing!!
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