Exactly, I know na maganda kung magkasama ang parents pero kung toxic sila sa isa't-isa, di maganda para sa bata ang ganong environment. Look at them now, hindi na man sila ni Andi pero atleast masaya sila at peaceful na both sides.
Indeed, and having her take domestic flights in the middle of the pandemic just to see both sides increases her risk of contracting covid unnecessarily, eh?
It is more healthy for kids to see their parents cordial kaysa together nga but with no respect towards each other. Plus staying together only for the sake of the kid is teaching your kid that when they grow up, they also need to stay in a relationship kahit there's no love left.
12:26 no one can ever be sure of what’s going to happen in life. Two people can be sure of what they’re feeling now but this may change in the next months or years. Kailangan maging flexible and adaptive ang tao sa mga bagay na nangyayari or nangyari sa buhay nila. Not because they think that is okay but because those are the things they have to deal with.
You can never be too sure in life honey. Perhaps you’ve never been in a similar situation so I get it.. You won’t understand. And why is this arrangement NOT okay? That I don’t get. Judging others without understanding the whole situation is what’s not okay!
I agree with Jake. Masyadong idealistic yun mindset na wag maghiwalay. Ang reality maraming grave na circumstances ang nangyayari na the couple needs to decide either continue as a family or separate na. May lalake na maloko at nanakit, same din sa babae. Yun ang mga bagay na non negotiable. Wag na natin ipilit. Pwede naman ang coparenting.
Wala djn gusto umasawa ky commenter sa ganitong thinking. They're doing well with coparenting nga eh. Eto yung mga taong looking down at Children fr broken Family kasi feeling nila pag buo lang maayos.
Halatang mema si basher. Paki remind sakanya na Andi and Jake were never married to begin with and that Jake knew of his fatherhood late with all the lies. Still both maintained civil and good co-parents. Not all parents living together are happy and good parents to their children.
idealistic din ako pero open minded naman when it comes to things like this. si basher, maipilit gusto niya eh. teh, ano yun? tanggalin na sa vocabulary yung single parent, co-parenting, etc dahil gusto mo walang naghihiwalay, so dapat non-existing na yung mga words na ganun? pakialamera!
Ikaw din pakialamera! Hindi lahat gusto ng hiwalay na parents! Kung sanay ka Sa ganun at ganun ang klase ng pamilya na kinamulatan mo, May ibang tao na buo ang pamilya!
9:37 Before you speak, try fitting into someone else's shoes tipong araw araw nagmumurahan at nagbabatuhan ng gamit yung magulang. Alam mo ba epekto nun sa bata? Ganon lumaki bf ko at ngayon nya lang narealize na hindi normal yung ganon na pagpapalaki. This is not 1:39.
Hahaha anong pinagsasasabi mo, 9:37. Who told u gusto ko ng sirang pamilya? It’s ideal but don’t be judgmental sa hindi. Like the other comments here, a complete family does not equate to a happy family. Complete or not, you can choose to be happy.
Hindi ibig sabihin na magkasama ang parents e healthy ang relationship at masaya ang mga bata. Hindi naman fairy tale ang totoong buhay. Dito lang sa Pilipinas sobrang pinapahalagahan na dapat buo ang pamilya kahit broken na. Very idealistic and religious kasi masyado.
toxic ng utak ng ibang pinoy talaga lol! pls pls stop saying na dapat mag stay in a relationship ang parents just because may anak sila. NOPE! what important is both parents ay ginagawa part nila as parents kahit mag ka hiwalay bakit mag stay kung toxic na relationship dba? kailangan talaga ng divorce sa pinas
I wish my parents separated instead of “considering their children first”. I grew up in such a toxic environment. I couldn’t wait to move out of the house
Ang point is bago maganak or magpaanak siguraduhin muna yung magiging asawa or partner para hindi magend up na broken family. Wala naman choice ang mga bata sa mga desisyon ng magulang.
i came from a broken family from age of 15. mas nakakarindi yung palaging nag aaway yung magulang mo, kahit hindi pa sa harap mo mafefeel mong they are not ok. mas payapa pa yung buhay ko when they separate. so yeah commenter wag ipilit. susme
Mas mahirap kung magkasama pero Hindi masaya. Parents do the best they can, mahirap din sa parents eto. I do admire Jake for being there for his daughter
That’s what my mom said too, stayed with my dad “para sa mga bata”. They didn’t know their bad days together just traumatized me and still haunting me until now that i’m an adult😂
Sana you'll meet someone who's gonna make you realize how to be loved properly. And if you're planning to have a family, make sure that your ideal family comes from you.
Same, my dad has been cheating on my di pa ata ako pinapanganak and im 26 na. last yr nahuli ko dad ko mismo sa kama nila ng mom ko with another woman (malala dto he's family has been tolerating him kasi ung long time kabit nya kilala nila lalo ng lola) I thought mag hihiwalay na sila nung sinabi ko sa mom ko pero hindi pa din, naniwala kasi sya sa palusot ng daddy na wala pa daw nangyayari😂 pero ako ung naging kontrabida cos I cant forgive my dad like what my mom wanted, ayaw nya daw kasing masira family namin, I told her tama na pls kasi yun na din gusto ng mga 2 younger siblings ko. Pero di rin nagtagal kasi nagseparate na talaga sila my mom learned na hindi pala nagbabago tatay ko, he's actually living with another woman, akala nya he's working on changing himself nung pinalayas nya😅😅 what happened really put strained sa relationship ko with my mom. Ang nangyari kasi since non lagi nya ako inaaway pag ayoko ipakita ung anak ko sa dad ko plus ako lang ung di parin okay kay daddy. I know to myself tlaga nagkatrauma ako sa nangyari, naging prob namin ng asawa ko ung trust issues during the first yrs of our relationship.
I agree.. better na maghiwalay and mag co-parenting kesa Makita Ng children na wala Ng respect and love Yun mag-asawa sa isat isa. My parents are like that..parang wala nang value Yun mother ko sa father ko and halata Naman na nagchecheat sya sa mother ko.pero wala, they decided to be together pa din for the sake of reputation and para sa children na din.. actually,Di ko appreciated..kase Kaya din ako takot mag-asawa kase ayoko makasal sa Gaya Ng father ko at maging ganyan marriage life ko.
kapag ba domestic flight di na required ang swab test or rapid test? kapag bata hindi required? sa ibang lugar kase bata pa mismo ang kailangan nagpatest.
In this day and age, we all should know that a complete family does not equate to a happy family and a broken family does not always equate to sad problematic children. Children thrives not with having both parents in one roof but rather both parents loving them and spending time with them and being there for them no matter what.
So, anong punto ni basher? Hindi naman alam ni Jake na sya yung biological father from the start? Nagkagulo pa nga? Di rin sila married ni Andi. Anong separation pinagsasasabi nun?
A safe and happy environment is what a child needs. Parents can’t give that if they are miserable with each other. Looks like Ellie gets the best of both worlds: island life with mom and siblings and city life with dad and cousins.
As a solo parent myself who had no choice, this comment offended me. Kagaya mo, gusto ko rin ng kumpletong pamilya para sa anak ko. Pero I had no choice kasi iniwan kami. Ayoko ipilit yung mga bagay na hindi na magwowork. I tried my best to keep my daughter’s connection with her father pero anong magagawa ko kung mismong tatay niya hindi nagrereach out?
Actually, mabuti pa nga sila Andi and Jake. I admire how much they love Ellie that they’re doing so well with co-parenting.
Hindi man kami nagkatuluyan ng tatay ng anak ko, gusto ko din sana na magkaroon pa rin ng father-daughter relationship ang anak ko sa dad niya. Although happy naman kami ngayon, iba pa rin kapag readily available ang tatay sa anak. L
You are so matured! Ang galing mo na nanay. I remember ganyan din yung prof kong single mom before na sinasabi nya sa kids nya to feel free to contact their dad and have a dad-daughter relationship. Pero yung kids nya mismo napuno yung longing nila sa dead beat father ng pagmamahal ng prof ko kaya yung kids na mismo di naghanap sa tatay.
Exactly, I know na maganda kung magkasama ang parents pero kung toxic sila sa isa't-isa, di maganda para sa bata ang ganong environment. Look at them now, hindi na man sila ni Andi pero atleast masaya sila at peaceful na both sides.
ReplyDeleteWell said Jake. Your daughter’s welfare should come first.
ReplyDeleteIndeed, and having her take domestic flights in the middle of the pandemic just to see both sides increases her risk of contracting covid unnecessarily, eh?
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ReplyDeleteIt is more healthy for kids to see their parents cordial kaysa together nga but with no respect towards each other.
ReplyDeletePlus staying together only for the sake of the kid is teaching your kid that when they grow up, they also need to stay in a relationship kahit there's no love left.
How about don’t have kids unless you’re sure. This arrangement still teaches them that this arrangement is ok.
Delete12:26, how about you learn to accept the fact that sometimes, things don't work out the way they are planned?
Delete12:26 no one can ever be sure of what’s going to happen in life. Two people can be sure of what they’re feeling now but this may change in the next months or years. Kailangan maging flexible and adaptive ang tao sa mga bagay na nangyayari or nangyari sa buhay nila. Not because they think that is okay but because those are the things they have to deal with.
DeleteYou can never be too sure in life honey. Perhaps you’ve never been in a similar situation so I get it.. You won’t understand. And why is this arrangement NOT okay? That I don’t get. Judging others without understanding the whole situation is what’s not okay!
Delete12:26 PM ang sure ako, the same situation MAY happen to anyone, including you.
DeleteI agree with Jake. Masyadong idealistic yun mindset na wag maghiwalay. Ang reality maraming grave na circumstances ang nangyayari na the couple needs to decide either continue as a family or separate na. May lalake na maloko at nanakit, same din sa babae. Yun ang mga bagay na non negotiable. Wag na natin ipilit. Pwede naman ang coparenting.
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DeleteWala djn gusto umasawa ky commenter sa ganitong thinking. They're doing well with coparenting nga eh. Eto yung mga taong looking down at Children fr broken Family kasi feeling nila pag buo lang maayos.
ReplyDeleteMinsan nga yung ibang buo ang pamilya mas malala pa sa broken family. Kaya mas mabuti na yung co parenting. Less trauma sa bata.
DeleteHalatang mema si basher. Paki remind sakanya na Andi and Jake were never married to begin with and that Jake knew of his fatherhood late with all the lies. Still both maintained civil and good co-parents. Not all parents living together are happy and good parents to their children.
ReplyDeleteQuestion lang sino kasama nya pabalik Siargao?
ReplyDeletePwede po mag accommodate ang mga airlines kung kailangan ng kasama ang Isang passenger.
DeleteHinahatid sundo daw ng yaya sissy
Deletebaka may yaya
Deletemagisa bumibiyahe si ellie pabalik sa island. hinatid lang nila jake sa labas ng airport tas sinusundo nila andi sa airport sa siargao.
DeleteMay special service po ang mga airlines sa mga unaccompanied minors. It’s normal na ngayon mag travel mag isa ang bata
Deleteidealistic din ako pero open minded naman when it comes to things like this. si basher, maipilit gusto niya eh. teh, ano yun? tanggalin na sa vocabulary yung single parent, co-parenting, etc dahil gusto mo walang naghihiwalay, so dapat non-existing na yung mga words na ganun? pakialamera!
ReplyDeleteIkaw din pakialamera! Hindi lahat gusto ng hiwalay na parents! Kung sanay ka Sa ganun at ganun ang klase ng pamilya na kinamulatan mo, May ibang tao na buo ang pamilya!
Delete9:37 Before you speak, try fitting into someone else's shoes tipong araw araw nagmumurahan at nagbabatuhan ng gamit yung magulang. Alam mo ba epekto nun sa bata? Ganon lumaki bf ko at ngayon nya lang narealize na hindi normal yung ganon na pagpapalaki. This is not 1:39.
Deletemahina comprehension nitong si 9:37, kawawa ka naman
DeleteHahaha anong pinagsasasabi mo, 9:37. Who told u gusto ko ng sirang pamilya? It’s ideal but don’t be judgmental sa hindi. Like the other comments here, a complete family does not equate to a happy family. Complete or not, you can choose to be happy.
DeleteHindi ibig sabihin na magkasama ang parents e healthy ang relationship at masaya ang mga bata. Hindi naman fairy tale ang totoong buhay. Dito lang sa Pilipinas sobrang pinapahalagahan na dapat buo ang pamilya kahit broken na. Very idealistic and religious kasi masyado.
ReplyDeleteAng dami kong kilala na lumaking “buo ang pamilya” pero toxic ang household. Na sana daw naghiwalay na lang ng maayos.
ReplyDeletetoxic ng utak ng ibang pinoy talaga lol! pls pls stop saying na dapat mag stay in a relationship ang parents just because may anak sila. NOPE! what important is both parents ay ginagawa part nila as parents kahit mag ka hiwalay bakit mag stay kung toxic na relationship dba? kailangan talaga ng divorce sa pinas
ReplyDeleteI wish my parents separated instead of “considering their children first”. I grew up in such a toxic environment. I couldn’t wait to move out of the house
ReplyDeleteAng point is bago maganak or magpaanak siguraduhin muna yung magiging asawa or partner para hindi magend up na broken family. Wala naman choice ang mga bata sa mga desisyon ng magulang.
ReplyDeletei came from a broken family from age of 15. mas nakakarindi yung palaging nag aaway yung magulang mo, kahit hindi pa sa harap mo mafefeel mong they are not ok. mas payapa pa yung buhay ko when they separate. so yeah commenter wag ipilit. susme
ReplyDeleteMas mahirap kung magkasama pero Hindi masaya. Parents do the best they can, mahirap din sa parents eto. I do admire Jake for being there for his daughter
ReplyDeleteThat’s what my mom said too, stayed with my dad “para sa mga bata”. They didn’t know their bad days together just traumatized me and still haunting me until now that i’m an adult😂
ReplyDeleteSana you'll meet someone who's gonna make you realize how to be loved properly. And if you're planning to have a family, make sure that your ideal family comes from you.
DeleteSame, my dad has been cheating on my di pa ata ako pinapanganak and im 26 na. last yr nahuli ko dad ko mismo sa kama nila ng mom ko with another woman (malala dto he's family has been tolerating him kasi ung long time kabit nya kilala nila lalo ng lola) I thought mag hihiwalay na sila nung sinabi ko sa mom ko pero hindi pa din, naniwala kasi sya sa palusot ng daddy na wala pa daw nangyayari😂 pero ako ung naging kontrabida cos I cant forgive my dad like what my mom wanted, ayaw nya daw kasing masira family namin, I told her tama na pls kasi yun na din gusto ng mga 2 younger siblings ko. Pero di rin nagtagal kasi nagseparate na talaga sila my mom learned na hindi pala nagbabago tatay ko, he's actually living with another woman, akala nya he's working on changing himself nung pinalayas nya😅😅 what happened really put strained sa relationship ko with my mom. Ang nangyari kasi since non lagi nya ako inaaway pag ayoko ipakita ung anak ko sa dad ko plus ako lang ung di parin okay kay daddy. I know to myself tlaga nagkatrauma ako sa nangyari, naging prob namin ng asawa ko ung trust issues during the first yrs of our relationship.
DeleteI agree.. better na maghiwalay and mag co-parenting kesa Makita Ng children na wala Ng respect and love Yun mag-asawa sa isat isa.
ReplyDeleteMy parents are like that..parang wala nang value Yun mother ko sa father ko and halata Naman na nagchecheat sya sa mother ko.pero wala, they decided to be together pa din for the sake of reputation and para sa children na din.. actually,Di ko appreciated..kase Kaya din ako takot mag-asawa kase ayoko makasal sa Gaya Ng father ko at maging ganyan marriage life ko.
Hindi naman sila mag asawa, they are parents, so bakit kailangan pilitin magsama?
ReplyDeletePakitanggalan ng wifi si Ate Shawie
ReplyDeletekapag ba domestic flight di na required ang swab test or rapid test? kapag bata hindi required? sa ibang lugar kase bata pa mismo ang kailangan nagpatest.
ReplyDeletePwede po saliva test. No swab na.
DeleteIn this day and age, we all should know that a complete family does not equate to a happy family and a broken family does not always equate to sad problematic children. Children thrives not with having both parents in one roof but rather both parents loving them and spending time with them and being there for them no matter what.
ReplyDeleteTotally agree 👍
DeleteSo, anong punto ni basher? Hindi naman alam ni Jake na sya yung biological father from the start? Nagkagulo pa nga? Di rin sila married ni Andi. Anong separation pinagsasasabi nun?
ReplyDeleteA safe and happy environment is what a child needs. Parents can’t give that if they are miserable with each other. Looks like Ellie gets the best of both worlds: island life with mom and siblings and city life with dad and cousins.
ReplyDeleteTrue! Im sure theyre all happy.
DeleteAs a solo parent myself who had no choice, this comment offended me. Kagaya mo, gusto ko rin ng kumpletong pamilya para sa anak ko. Pero I had no choice kasi iniwan kami. Ayoko ipilit yung mga bagay na hindi na magwowork. I tried my best to keep my daughter’s connection with her father pero anong magagawa ko kung mismong tatay niya hindi nagrereach out?
ReplyDeleteActually, mabuti pa nga sila Andi and Jake. I admire how much they love Ellie that they’re doing so well with co-parenting.
Hindi man kami nagkatuluyan ng tatay ng anak ko, gusto ko din sana na magkaroon pa rin ng father-daughter relationship ang anak ko sa dad niya. Although happy naman kami ngayon, iba pa rin kapag readily available ang tatay sa anak. L
You are so matured! Ang galing mo na nanay. I remember ganyan din yung prof kong single mom before na sinasabi nya sa kids nya to feel free to contact their dad and have a dad-daughter relationship. Pero yung kids nya mismo napuno yung longing nila sa dead beat father ng pagmamahal ng prof ko kaya yung kids na mismo di naghanap sa tatay.
Deletehindi ko hahayaan magbyahe mag isa ang bata. sasamahan ko yan hanggang makauwi sa kanila...
ReplyDeleteSure ka ba na hindi hinatid ni Jake ang anak nya??
DeleteAng cute talaga ni Ellie! Lalo yung style nya.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha, guilty kasi si Jake e. Kaloka.
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