true..his kids with his first wife was also young when he abandoned them, did he make up for his mistakes?don't think so..good thing her wife met a good partner and accepted her kids and became a father for them na dapat obligasyon nya...and here he is again, repeating the history...
Ang mistake yung pag isa o dalawang beses nangyari, may effort ka na matuto at baguhin yung sarili mo. Pero yung paulit ulit, maraming beses mo na ginawa regardless kung naanakan mo o hindi, hindi na mistake yan. Pagkatao na niya yan.
@12:33 you got that right. Mistake page once or twice, pag paulut ulit na lang, walang moralidad na yan. Pinalaking walang respeto sa babae. His excuse ay marupok daw lang siya....who is not faced with temptations everyday? If you were raised with a good foundation, no temptation will break you down because you know to respect your partner and your children. Just another guy who thinks he is God's gift to womankind. I also want to say, what girl would hook up with a man who already has a partner and kids? The woman involved was not raised right also, she is clueless about morality. Birds of the same feather !!!
imbis na ayusin pa nya, wala e si Lj pa naginist ayusin ung relasyon nila oara sa mga bata nilunok na ung pride pero anong ginawa nya tinanggihan nya umayaw na sya, di masisisi si Lj kung ilayo nya ung mga bata. nireject sila kung matino pagiisip ni Paolo nung time na malabo na sya dapat tong unang umayos, e hindi eh, inuna pa mag baguio nagliwaliw. walan talaga syang balak ayusin ung relasyon nila.. kahit sa mga anak nya wala.
Totoo, and as a mom sobrang sakit nun para kay LJ no doubt ganyan din talaga nangyari before with Lian, since sa interview din nya super hurt sya, pareho talaga
Naku. Wala ng pag asa yan. For sure madami ng nag advice sa lalaking yan. Sadyang may problema na yan sa pag uugali at pag iisip. Biruin mo palagi nya ng ginagawa? Parang manika lang ang mga anak iniiwan basta basta.
For fun lang, napatitig ako mukha nung paolo contis na yan at walang trace na katiwa tiwala. Kung ako sayo 3rd party e run away from him na, takbo dali
This i agree so much, yan ang mukhang hindi katiwa tiwala for some reason i couldnt explain so nun nalaman ko na pumatol yun Lj considering her past... i was surprised... shes not a very good judge of character umfortunately but at least now alam nya na. And she definitely better off without him,
He is selfish, sarili nya lang talaga iniisip nya. Wala syang pakialam how this events will affect his children basta ang mahalaga masustain ang needs at wants nya. Lahat pati apology nya walang sincerity, it was just made to save his career, their movie and to protect that woman.
I like Kuya Kim’s advice. He did not discriminate, yet he didn’t condone Paolo’s attitude as well. Sabi nga nila, to err is human. Tao lang tayo, walang perpekto. Magkakamali at magkakamali ta’yo. Nasa sa atin din to be accountable for our mistakes and its consequences.
With that said, sana ay matauhan at magbago na ang lalake na ito before it’s too late. Good luck na lang.
Patterns of our behavior are due to deep seated trauma in our lives especially when we were young. For people who cannot commit, they may have bad or traumatic experiences with people who are suppose to love and care for them. Pwede sa magulang or pwede din sa iba. Kaya some people cannot sustain relationships because of those traumas and bad memories stored in their subconscious. Unless they have intervention, the pattern will continue in every relationship the person gets into. He will subconsciously do something to protect himself from getting hurt at least from the point of view of the person who was deeply hurt in the past.
While possible ang sinasabi mo, that is not always the case. Kasi parang langing may reason kaya gumagawa ng mali ang isang tao. Na iba ang may kasalanan kaya ka nagkasala. Hindi ba pwede na one is a shitty person period? Pati Disney villains ginagawan na ng backstory for the reason kaya sila evil. Diba pwede na some people are villainous, period.
Gurl 1:29am reading comprehension lesson ka muna. Sabi ni Kuya Kim (in other words) oo nagkamali ka na pero hindi pa huli ang lahat. Magbago ka at bumawi ka sa MGA anak mo. Yun ang message niya. Gets?
Maawa naman kayo dun sa babae, seryoso ba pinupush nyo pa na balikan nya si lj after throwing her love like a piece of thrash. Sa totoo lang naiinis ako sa mga ganyan na nagsasabi or nagpupush na ayusin nyo or mapapatawad ka pa, like, yung hell na pinagdaanan nung tao, is it a joke to you? Ang iadvice nyo nalang dyan maging responsableng ama pero yung ipush nyo pa balikan si lj witit, kung kaibigan ko yan ako pa mismo magsasabi maawa ka dun sa babae matapos mong wasakin may nerve ka pang balikan ulit para ano durugin ulit.
Mga marses tanong ko lang. Bakit ang lalaki pag inayawan ang nanay pati anak inaayawan? Ibig ba sabihin nasa relasyon sila dahil mahal nila ang ina at pag ndi n nila mahal, lalayas n lng sila kahit may anak n. Bakit gnon cla?
Why is everyone shocked na dead beat dad si Paolo? :) May history na siyang nang iwan ng anak at ng asawa :) Isa ka nalang bulag kung hindi mo alam :) Oh and by the way, water is wet :)
Sana ganon lang kadali yung “ayaw na”. Nagpababa na nga ng pride yung babae para lang mabuo yung pamilya. Ang bata bata pa ng mga bata pero manloloko tatay nila. Hindi na nahiya si paolo sa dalawang unang anak niyang babae, sa pangatlong anak pa niya di na rin nahiya. Puro babae pa anak mo paolo. Kaya ingat ingat ka sa pinang gagawa mo.. Wag sana maranasan ng mga anak mo paglaki nila na makabingwit ng lalaki na katulad mo.. Be careful lang sana. Oo lahat nagkakamali pero siya Choice niya ang mistakes niya. Ang kawawa yung mga babae. Nakakaloka
true. never believe apologies. madali lang magsabi ng sorry sa post na insencere. the mere fact na inabandon nya mga anak nya para mag buhay bachelor kuno and even did it twice already says a lot. kaloka. masakit na nga ang ginawa niya kay lj as is pero mas masakit kasi may anak sila eh!
he can still be a great father wag ng ipush na magkabalikan sila ni LJ. hayaan na natin na makapag move on ng maayos si gurl pede naman silang maging mabuting magulang pareho kahit may kanya kanya na silang buhay... saka mahirap magpatawad kahit gaano mo kamahal yan minsan akala natin napatawad na natin mga asawa nating naligaw ng landas but the truth is hindi pa... yung tuwing makikita mo sya maaalala mo lahat ng ginawa nya masasaktan ka at magagalit ulit. hindi healthy yun everyday kang mabubuhay na may sakit worst kapag inulit ulit pa. better na yang nag-hiwalay na sila at ayusing ang kanya kanyang buhay.
sadyang hindi lang talaga pang forever ang relationships niya with his ex-wife, Lian and his latest ex, LJ. Ang mali niya, imbis na makipaghiwalay ng maayos eh mas pinili niya pa maging “marupok” at magloko.
Kaya maraming babae na nabibiktima pa rin because of this mindset na give chance, give benefit of the doubt, baka nagbago na, etc. Di ba yan din sabi ni LJ? Alam nya na may bad image si Paolo but she thought Paolo had changed. EH ano ngayon? Pwedeng magtino for awhile ang isang babaero, pero babalik din sa dati years later. Look at Paolo, Cesar Montano, etc. Pag may pattern of behavior na, may history na, it's better to save yourself from the headache and heartache. Hanap ka ng ibang walang bad history or bad pattern.
Useless yang sinasabi mo na walang bad history/pattern coz kasi pwedeng magumpisa yan. Can't you still get it? Filipino men are like this because the inconsistencies of the Philippine government allowed them to be like this. Here in America all men here cannot choose to do what they want because their paycheck is already spliced even before they get their paycheck. Unlike in the Philippines that after you won the case in court, you still have to force the father to hand you the money. Wtf!
Eto yung mga nakakairita sa ibang artista. If they are friends with P, i-comfort nila in private. There's power in fame. Tinotolerate nila ang BS ng ibang tao in public, para na din nilang iniencourage na ok lang manakit kasi hinde ka naman perfect. Mga walang sense of accountability. Sabagay, hinde na ako magtataka kay Kim Atienza. Isa nga siya sa nagcongratulate doon sa st***** na isa ring home wrecker. Yak.
Kadiri. Nilawayan ng yan ng ibang babae tapos advice nyo pabalikin kay lj??? Bigyan nyo ng dignidad ang sakit na naramdaman ni lj! Nakkaasuka mga advice nyo!
Why dont you reach out to him in private? Obvious masyado intentions nyo lol gusto nyo rin pag usapan. Oh well out of sight out of mind kayong mga artista kaya sawsaw kayo lahat ng mga latest issues.
Obviously, di na dapat nilalapitan ng mga babae si Paolo. Nakakatakot yung gnawa nya kay Lian at sa mga bata. Si LJ naman, single parent na kay Aki, sumigi pa kay Paolo - sobrang risky. I think secondary na lang yung third-party issue - ang issue talaga ay financial at naglilead sya ng double-life. If Paolo won't take LJ back, she should consider it as a blessing. Sana she learns to be discerning sa susunod nyang partner.
I hope Paolo gets psychological help nd make amends with his kids, asap.
Also, if LJ said that Paolo changed that's why she took him as abf, I hope that meant, he started taking care of his 2 children with Lian. Otherwise, asan ang change dun ano. Naive din si ate, nagtake advabtage naman si Paolo
Pero nung si Lian ang dumanas nito, ni wala man lang akong narinig na celebrity na nagtanggol kay Lian. Mas masakit ung dinanas nya dahil 2 anak nila, legal pa silang kasal tapos he dropped his family like a hot potato na walang exlanation at biglang lipad sa US. Nakiusap pa si Lian na kung may problema, sabihin dahil mag-asawa sila.
Well kasi unang beses palang nag abandona ang people gave benefit of the doubt na baka hindi na nagwork ang relationship kaya naghiwalay. Kay LJ, twice ng ginawa kaya galit na ang mga tao sa kanya
Tatablan pa ba yan???nagawa nga niyang abandonahin 2 niyang anak..ang isa pa kaya
ReplyDeletetrue..his kids with his first wife was also young when he abandoned them, did he make up for his mistakes?don't think so..good thing her wife met a good partner and accepted her kids and became a father for them na dapat obligasyon nya...and here he is again, repeating the history...
DeleteAng mistake yung pag isa o dalawang beses nangyari, may effort ka na matuto at baguhin yung sarili mo. Pero yung paulit ulit, maraming beses mo na ginawa regardless kung naanakan mo o hindi, hindi na mistake yan. Pagkatao na niya yan.
ReplyDeleteTHIS!
Delete@12:33 you got that right. Mistake page once or twice, pag paulut ulit na lang, walang moralidad na yan. Pinalaking walang respeto sa babae. His excuse ay marupok daw lang siya....who is not faced with temptations everyday? If you were raised with a good foundation, no temptation will break you down because you know to respect your partner and your children. Just another guy who thinks he is God's gift to womankind. I also want to say, what girl would hook up with a man who already has a partner and kids? The woman involved was not raised right also, she is clueless about morality. Birds of the same feather !!!
DeleteTrue. Yan ang karakter nya
DeleteKesa dates sa baguio inaatupag mo, sundan mo mga anak mo. Yes, “mga”
ReplyDeleteimbis na ayusin pa nya, wala e si Lj pa naginist ayusin ung relasyon nila oara sa mga bata nilunok na ung pride pero anong ginawa nya tinanggihan nya umayaw na sya, di masisisi si Lj kung ilayo nya ung mga bata. nireject sila kung matino pagiisip ni Paolo nung time na malabo na sya dapat tong unang umayos, e hindi eh, inuna pa mag baguio nagliwaliw. walan talaga syang balak ayusin ung relasyon nila.. kahit sa mga anak nya wala.
ReplyDeleteTotoo, and as a mom sobrang sakit nun para kay LJ no doubt ganyan din talaga nangyari before with Lian, since sa interview din nya super hurt sya, pareho talaga
DeletePaolo’s logic: Kapag nagkamali, hanap nalang ng iba para clean slate pero uulit ule ng kasalanan. Hanggang sa naging pattern na niya.
ReplyDeleteEnabler naman talaga si Kim Atienza ever since.
ReplyDeleteI didnt find his advice as enabling Paolo. I think he meant for Paolo to actually try and correct his mistakes and reconcile at least with his kids.
DeleteAnon 1:19 - Same here. I read his advice as own up your mistakes and fix it while you can. Far from enabling cheating.
DeleteOo nga pano naging enabler yung commernt ni kuya kim
Deletei agree 1:19.. kulang yata sa comprehension si 12:46 tsk
DeleteLam mo po ba meaning ng enabler? Mahinahon lang niyang pinayuhan si Paolo.
Delete12:46, tagalog na nga waley ka pa rin sa comprehension. Wag ka na muna maki tsismis dito. Ayusin mo muna ang comprehension mo.
DeleteReading comprehension mo anon 12:46?
DeleteSame 119
Deleteteh may google, paki define ano ang enabler.
DeletePaolo is lucky for having an ate and kuya in the person of Giselle and Kim. Sana, makinig at magbago.
ReplyDeleteNaku. Wala ng pag asa yan. For sure madami ng nag advice sa lalaking yan. Sadyang may problema na yan sa pag uugali at pag iisip. Biruin mo palagi nya ng ginagawa? Parang manika lang ang mga anak iniiwan basta basta.
ReplyDeletetrue..for sure din inaadvisan na sya ni michael v na family man...importante kay PC kaligayahan nya..typical selfish person...
DeleteFor fun lang, napatitig ako mukha nung paolo contis na yan at walang trace na katiwa tiwala. Kung ako sayo 3rd party e run away from him na, takbo dali
ReplyDeleteThis i agree so much, yan ang mukhang hindi katiwa tiwala for some reason i couldnt explain so nun nalaman ko na pumatol yun Lj considering her past... i was surprised... shes not a very good judge of character umfortunately but at least now alam nya na. And she definitely better off without him,
DeleteKuya Kim, ayaw na nga niya tanggapin si LJ and kids. Siya ang umayaw.
ReplyDeleteHe is selfish, sarili nya lang talaga iniisip nya. Wala syang pakialam how this events will affect his children basta ang mahalaga masustain ang needs at wants nya. Lahat pati apology nya walang sincerity, it was just made to save his career, their movie and to protect that woman.
ReplyDeleteI like Kuya Kim’s advice. He did not discriminate, yet he didn’t condone Paolo’s attitude as well. Sabi nga nila, to err is human. Tao lang tayo, walang perpekto. Magkakamali at magkakamali ta’yo. Nasa sa atin din to be accountable for our mistakes and its consequences.
ReplyDeleteWith that said, sana ay matauhan at magbago na ang lalake na ito before it’s too late. Good luck na lang.
Patterns of our behavior are due to deep seated trauma in our lives especially when we were young. For people who cannot commit, they may have bad or traumatic experiences with people who are suppose to love and care for them. Pwede sa magulang or pwede din sa iba. Kaya some people cannot sustain relationships because of those traumas and bad memories stored in their subconscious. Unless they have intervention, the pattern will continue in every relationship the person gets into. He will subconsciously do something to protect himself from getting hurt at least from the point of view of the person who was deeply hurt in the past.
ReplyDeleteWhile possible ang sinasabi mo, that is not always the case. Kasi parang langing may reason kaya gumagawa ng mali ang isang tao. Na iba ang may kasalanan kaya ka nagkasala. Hindi ba pwede na one is a shitty person period? Pati Disney villains ginagawan na ng backstory for the reason kaya sila evil. Diba pwede na some people are villainous, period.
DeleteToxic positivity at enabler etong si Kuya Kim, kung kinakailangan pukpukin (not literally) si Paolo ay yun ang dapat sa kanya.
ReplyDeleteIf I were LJ I won’t take him back. He had his chance. I’ll move on without that kind of a man. This is her chance now that she’s in the US. IMO
ReplyDeleteDakilang sawsawero talaga itong si Kuya Kim.
ReplyDeleteButi nga may nag aadvise . Sa klase ng lakake ni pao. Need nyan iganyan. Ikaw kya da kalagayan ni Lj. Atleast may concern
DeleteGurl 1:29am reading comprehension lesson ka muna. Sabi ni Kuya Kim (in other words) oo nagkamali ka na pero hindi pa huli ang lahat. Magbago ka at bumawi ka sa MGA anak mo. Yun ang message niya. Gets?
DeleteMaawa naman kayo dun sa babae, seryoso ba pinupush nyo pa na balikan nya si lj after throwing her love like a piece of thrash. Sa totoo lang naiinis ako sa mga ganyan na nagsasabi or nagpupush na ayusin nyo or mapapatawad ka pa, like, yung hell na pinagdaanan nung tao, is it a joke to you? Ang iadvice nyo nalang dyan maging responsableng ama pero yung ipush nyo pa balikan si lj witit, kung kaibigan ko yan ako pa mismo magsasabi maawa ka dun sa babae matapos mong wasakin may nerve ka pang balikan ulit para ano durugin ulit.
ReplyDeleteVery true! It’s psychological abuse.
DeleteTotally agree!
DeleteKasi daw para buo ang pamilya..
Napakatoxic lang
Sa TANDA nyan yan? Tingin nyo magbabago pa? Nahh.
ReplyDeleteKuya Kim ...
ReplyDeleteHindi na nya accept si LJ
Hindi sya katulad natin
Todo sya Kung magmahal kuno Kasi maikli lang daw buhay nya
Mga marses tanong ko lang. Bakit ang lalaki pag inayawan ang nanay pati anak inaayawan? Ibig ba sabihin nasa relasyon sila dahil mahal nila ang ina at pag ndi n nila mahal, lalayas n lng sila kahit may anak n. Bakit gnon cla?
ReplyDeletenope, LJ deserves better. kung bumalik man yan hindi possibleng gawin niya ulit yan may pattern na eh.
ReplyDeletetitigil lang si Paolo kapag matanda na.
ReplyDeleteWhy is everyone shocked na dead beat dad si Paolo? :) May history na siyang nang iwan ng anak at ng asawa :) Isa ka nalang bulag kung hindi mo alam :) Oh and by the way, water is wet :)
ReplyDeleteKuya Kim's post indirectly telling Pao to fix things with LJ. Good Job, Kuya Kim!
ReplyDeleteSana ganon lang kadali yung “ayaw na”. Nagpababa na nga ng pride yung babae para lang mabuo yung pamilya. Ang bata bata pa ng mga bata pero manloloko tatay nila. Hindi na nahiya si paolo sa dalawang unang anak niyang babae, sa pangatlong anak pa niya di na rin nahiya. Puro babae pa anak mo paolo. Kaya ingat ingat ka sa pinang gagawa mo.. Wag sana maranasan ng mga anak mo paglaki nila na makabingwit ng lalaki na katulad mo.. Be careful lang sana. Oo lahat nagkakamali pero siya Choice niya ang mistakes niya. Ang kawawa yung mga babae. Nakakaloka
ReplyDeletemay panahon pa pro wala na nga syang feelings. c lj na nga ngpakumbaba.
ReplyDeletefave ko si paolo contis. since bata pa ako crush ko na sya. pero anyare pao? *tyra voice* i was rooting for you! we were all rooting for you!!!!
ReplyDeletePakialamera ang dalawang to. Mind your own business tanders.
ReplyDeleteDon't believe apologies, believe patterns instead.
ReplyDeletetrue. never believe apologies. madali lang magsabi ng sorry sa post na insencere. the mere fact na inabandon nya mga anak nya para mag buhay bachelor kuno and even did it twice already says a lot. kaloka. masakit na nga ang ginawa niya kay lj as is pero mas masakit kasi may anak sila eh!
Deletehe can still be a great father wag ng ipush na magkabalikan sila ni LJ. hayaan na natin na makapag move on ng maayos si gurl pede naman silang maging mabuting magulang pareho kahit may kanya kanya na silang buhay... saka mahirap magpatawad kahit gaano mo kamahal yan minsan akala natin napatawad na natin mga asawa nating naligaw ng landas but the truth is hindi pa... yung tuwing makikita mo sya maaalala mo lahat ng ginawa nya masasaktan ka at magagalit ulit. hindi healthy yun everyday kang mabubuhay na may sakit worst kapag inulit ulit pa. better na yang nag-hiwalay na sila at ayusing ang kanya kanyang buhay.
ReplyDeleteLJ needs peace and strength to push through with her life. Hindi niya kailangan si Paolo
ReplyDeleteDapat ang babae din kasi ma-realize na may mga nasaktan sya. It takes two to tango.
ReplyDeletesadyang hindi lang talaga pang forever ang relationships niya with his ex-wife, Lian and his latest ex, LJ. Ang mali niya, imbis na makipaghiwalay ng maayos eh mas pinili niya pa maging “marupok” at magloko.
ReplyDeletePayo kayo ng payo eh hindi na nga magtitino yan haha
ReplyDeleteKaya maraming babae na nabibiktima pa rin because of this mindset na give chance, give benefit of the doubt, baka nagbago na, etc. Di ba yan din sabi ni LJ? Alam nya na may bad image si Paolo but she thought Paolo had changed. EH ano ngayon? Pwedeng magtino for awhile ang isang babaero, pero babalik din sa dati years later. Look at Paolo, Cesar Montano, etc. Pag may pattern of behavior na, may history na, it's better to save yourself from the headache and heartache. Hanap ka ng ibang walang bad history or bad pattern.
ReplyDeleteUseless yang sinasabi mo na walang bad history/pattern coz kasi pwedeng magumpisa yan. Can't you still get it? Filipino men are like this because the inconsistencies of the Philippine government allowed them to be like this. Here in America all men here cannot choose to do what they want because their paycheck is already spliced even before they get their paycheck. Unlike in the Philippines that after you won the case in court, you still have to force the father to hand you the money. Wtf!
DeleteEto yung mga nakakairita sa ibang artista. If they are friends with P, i-comfort nila in private. There's power in fame. Tinotolerate nila ang BS ng ibang tao in public, para na din nilang iniencourage na ok lang manakit kasi hinde ka naman perfect. Mga walang sense of accountability. Sabagay, hinde na ako magtataka kay Kim Atienza. Isa nga siya sa nagcongratulate doon sa st***** na isa ring home wrecker. Yak.
ReplyDeleteKuya Kim Is that the same advice you dished out regarding L?
ReplyDeleteHindi ba matapos tapos itong LJ-Paolo breakup issue? Andami nakisawsaw. Kaloka😡😡
ReplyDeleteKadiri. Nilawayan ng yan ng ibang babae tapos advice nyo pabalikin kay lj??? Bigyan nyo ng dignidad ang sakit na naramdaman ni lj! Nakkaasuka mga advice nyo!
ReplyDeleteI hope magising itong si Paolo at sumama na sa kanyang mag iina. Go to the US. Wag ipalit ang career sa pamilya.
ReplyDeleteWhy dont you reach out to him in private? Obvious masyado intentions nyo lol gusto nyo rin pag usapan. Oh well out of sight out of mind kayong mga artista kaya sawsaw kayo lahat ng mga latest issues.
ReplyDeletePeople like Paolo should not have kids.
ReplyDeleteKonsintedor din manager nya.
ReplyDeletePaolo makinig ka dyan sa dalawang yan. Jusko matakot ka sa dyos.
ReplyDeleteObviously, di na dapat nilalapitan ng mga babae si Paolo. Nakakatakot yung gnawa nya kay Lian at sa mga bata. Si LJ naman, single parent na kay Aki, sumigi pa kay Paolo - sobrang risky. I think secondary na lang yung third-party issue - ang issue talaga ay financial at naglilead sya ng double-life. If Paolo won't take LJ back, she should consider it as a blessing. Sana she learns to be discerning sa susunod nyang partner.
ReplyDeleteI hope Paolo gets psychological help nd make amends with his kids, asap.
Also, if LJ said that Paolo changed that's why she took him as abf, I hope that meant, he started taking care of his 2 children with Lian. Otherwise, asan ang change dun ano. Naive din si ate, nagtake advabtage naman si Paolo
Pero nung si Lian ang dumanas nito, ni wala man lang akong narinig na celebrity na nagtanggol kay Lian. Mas masakit ung dinanas nya dahil 2 anak nila, legal pa silang kasal tapos he dropped his family like a hot potato na walang exlanation at biglang lipad sa US. Nakiusap pa si Lian na kung may problema, sabihin dahil mag-asawa sila.
ReplyDeleteWell kasi unang beses palang nag abandona ang people gave benefit of the doubt na baka hindi na nagwork ang relationship kaya naghiwalay. Kay LJ, twice ng ginawa kaya galit na ang mga tao sa kanya
DeleteWorthless man
ReplyDelete