this is so sad. i cant imagine the pain and frustration. kung ako ngang nahihirapan magbuntis,nafufrustrate ako every time madedelay ang period ko, only to find out na di pa rin preggy; how much more yung umasa at dinala mo na nang ilang buwan yung baby mo tapos mawawala pa. i'll be praying for you, kyla.
Same tayo ttc for years, pero just as it is heartbreaking for her it's also heartbreaking for me (us) knowing how much we try we don't get pregnant pa din. 😢
Thank you Kyla for such an honest and sincere account. Please don't lose heart. And sana mabawasan na sa culture natin yung mag uusisa pa on pregnancy given we rarely know other people's battles.
This made me cry. 4 years ago, I was in her situation and I still feel emotional kapag nakakabasa ako ng ganito. Natritrigger din emotions ko kapag someone asks me kung kailan ko plano magka-anak, matanda na ako. Mahirap tumanda ng walang anak, etc. Sana ganun kadali sa mga kagaya ko na may fertility issues na mabuntis. Kung sana may pera lang kami to afford IVF, I know hindi guarantee yun na mabubuo pero at least it'll give us a better chance. Praying for all the women like us to find happiness kahit hindi kami mabigyan ng chance na magka-anak.
ang lungkot naman nito. knowing how calm and purehearted kyla is. Isa sya sa mga celebs dito sa pilipinas na makokonsensya ka pag pinagsalitaan mo ng di maganda. I wish her healing
So sad and nakakainit ng ulo na kung sino pa yung capable bumuhay ng anak, sila pa yung hirap magkaanak samantala yung iba na walang pambuhay sa anak, isang dosena ang anak. So unfair.
PS: Ang sakit nito. Nakita ko mama ko noon kung ilang taon nyang dinala pagkawala ng mga kapatid ko. Dapat may kuya (1 year older than me) at younger brother ako (1 year younger than me). Kaso parehas nakunan mama ko sakanila. Buti nabuo pa ako...
I feel your sadness, Kyla.. It's ok to not be ok. If you feel like crying, go on and cry. Pour out all your sadness, anger, frustrations. Losing your babies is really heartbreaking. Getting over them is hard. Praying for healing and may the Lord bless your womb soon.
May you find peace knowing children cannot make you happy… you alone can make you truly happy. But if you really want to be a mother you can adopt too.
I think it's not that "children makes her happy" e, I think losing them is preventing her to be happy... but you're 100% right about adoption, when she's ready..
This is so painful to read. I wish Kyla healing. I hope that one day she will get over this, no matter how difficult & maybe impossible to achieve.
ReplyDeleteStay strong, ibibigay din ni lord yan, we love you
ReplyDeletethis is so sad. i cant imagine the pain and frustration. kung ako ngang nahihirapan magbuntis,nafufrustrate ako every time madedelay ang period ko, only to find out na di pa rin preggy; how much more yung umasa at dinala mo na nang ilang buwan yung baby mo tapos mawawala pa. i'll be praying for you, kyla.
ReplyDeletepraying for you din girl🙏
DeleteSame tayo ttc for years, pero just as it is heartbreaking for her it's also heartbreaking for me (us) knowing how much we try we don't get pregnant pa din. 😢
DeleteWoah.......babies.....andami na.....sad
ReplyDeletePrayers to you to one day live with the loss without pain.
ReplyDeleteBe strong Kyla. You will get through this. It's okay not to be okay.
ReplyDeleteThank you Kyla for such an honest and sincere account. Please don't lose heart. And sana mabawasan na sa culture natin yung mag uusisa pa on pregnancy given we rarely know other people's battles.
ReplyDeletei feel you kyla..8 years naming hinintay tapos 13weeks lang pinadama sakin ang pagiging nanay..hugs
ReplyDeletesame 💔 kaya di na ako umaasa because it will lead to frustration-sadness-depression.
DeleteGod has better plans for me than i have for myself.
This made me cry. 4 years ago, I was in her situation and I still feel emotional kapag nakakabasa ako ng ganito. Natritrigger din emotions ko kapag someone asks me kung kailan ko plano magka-anak, matanda na ako. Mahirap tumanda ng walang anak, etc. Sana ganun kadali sa mga kagaya ko na may fertility issues na mabuntis. Kung sana may pera lang kami to afford IVF, I know hindi guarantee yun na mabubuo pero at least it'll give us a better chance. Praying for all the women like us to find happiness kahit hindi kami mabigyan ng chance na magka-anak.
ReplyDeleteang lungkot naman nito. knowing how calm and purehearted kyla is. Isa sya sa mga celebs dito sa pilipinas na makokonsensya ka pag pinagsalitaan mo ng di maganda. I wish her healing
ReplyDeletetrue.She is really kind and classy
DeleteMy heart breaks for her. I know exactly how she feels.
ReplyDeleteVirtual hugs for you, Kyla
ReplyDeleteSo sad and nakakainit ng ulo na kung sino pa yung capable bumuhay ng anak, sila pa yung hirap magkaanak samantala yung iba na walang pambuhay sa anak, isang dosena ang anak. So unfair.
ReplyDeletestay strong kyla. i feel you 🙏🏻
ReplyDeleteKyla, kaya mo yan ah. Papakatatag ka.
ReplyDeletePS: Ang sakit nito. Nakita ko mama ko noon kung ilang taon nyang dinala pagkawala ng mga kapatid ko. Dapat may kuya (1 year older than me) at younger brother ako (1 year younger than me). Kaso parehas nakunan mama ko sakanila. Buti nabuo pa ako...
I feel your sadness, Kyla..
ReplyDeleteIt's ok to not be ok. If you feel like crying, go on and cry. Pour out all your sadness, anger, frustrations. Losing your babies is really heartbreaking. Getting over them is hard. Praying for healing and may the Lord bless your womb soon.
May you find peace knowing children cannot make you happy… you alone can make you truly happy. But if you really want to be a mother you can adopt too.
ReplyDeletealam ko may isa na siyang anak... so children is a happiness for her kaya masakit sa kanya na nakukunan siya palagi.
DeleteI think it's not that "children makes her happy" e, I think losing them is preventing her to be happy... but you're 100% right about adoption, when she's ready..
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