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Having close family ties can either be advantageous or disadvantageous in a relationship. Family support is important for a couple to have peace of mind and assurance that no resentment will occur between the family and the lover. By contrast, family can interfere with the goals of a couple if family members are in doubt. Thus, parties can be in a dilemma between following their family and their feelings.

Valued Elder (VE) of Male Talent (MT) has expressed apprehension about his choice of Lovely Lover (LL). VE senses that MT is seriously in love with LL, but has doubts. Over time, VE has been observing the behavior of LL in social media and even looked into the past of LL. VE told MT about her thoughts and controversial suggestion. MT assured VE he has control and LL is fine.

Allegedly, VE wants LL to undergo a test to ensure she’s in the right frame of mind. MT was surprised at the request and did not want to offend VE or LL. MT consulted a friend on how to please VE while not hurting LL in any way. MT was advised to take the same test and not just leave LL alone to undergo what VE wants. When MT broached the idea to LL, he was received with laughter and assurance that her mind is in the correct state.

‘I've learned that you have to make careful choices because everything has an impact. I've also learned that you can't please everyone in life, so please yourself and figure out what really matters.’ − Gretchen Bleiler

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