Ma shy ka talaga teh kasi hindi magandang ugali yang nag iinvalidate ng feelings ng ibamg tao. Not because mas malala ang problema ng ibang tao na hndi na sya pwedenh magkaron ng sarili nyang struggles. What is easy for you maybe hard for others.
Ammmm not recognizing her struggle as valid dahil tingin nio is mas maliit ang problema nya kesa sa ibang tao is exactly invalidating. Wala nagsabi na ilagay ang problrma nya sa pedestal. That is her strugfle and if hindi ka makarelate then you may follow other stories na mas makakarelate ka as tingin mo mas deserve ng attention mo. May mga taong ae ng struggle sa kanya and the message is for them. Hindi din nagrerevolve ang mundo sa yo na ang kailangam lang nya ipost is kung ano ung tingin mo na valid struggle. -not a fan of moira, just pointing things out.
Fight or flight yun baks. Parang sa school lang, almost nobody ever gets excited to present in class but when your grade depends on it at papaluin ka ng nanay mo pag bumagsak ka, your a** is gonna get up in front of the class and do it kahit pumipilipit ka pa o di mapigil sumayaw sayaw sa harapan dahil halos maihi ka sa takot.
Yung hindi sya confident pero nakakapagperform, that isinspirational. You dont know what goes on behind the stage bago sya magperform or kung anong klaseng pagpapalakas ng loob sa sarili ang gnagawa nya bago sya magperform. Hindi porket nakangiti or nakaka tawa amg tao means na wala syang struggle. It only means na gnagawa ng taong yun ung best nya DESPITE the struggle. Be kind sis.
In my personal opinion addictive ang makeup, you get to a point na hindi mo na nakikita na you are putting on too much cause you stop focusing on your face as a whole and you just start zooming in on each and every little flaw that you want to get rid of. Hindi kasing extreme ng may mga klase ng dysmorphia but I feel like medyo similar yung naeexperience nung mga addict sa makeup but to a lesser extent, na kung yung mga anorexic hindi nila nakikita sa salamin na buto't balat na sila cause all they focus on is the need to have the flattest possible tummy or to have small enough thighs, o di kaya yung nagpapasurgery to the point na mukha na silang deformed cause they want certain individual features that don't suit their bone structure/face, yung mga addict sa makeup they would always see uneveness in their complexion, asymmetry, having too small of this or too big of that even if in reality, people don't really check out each other like that at ikaw lang ang nakakakita.
Sinabi nya na nga na shes been struggling with insecurity diba? Hindi porket may confidence na sya ibig sabhn hndi na sya pwedenh makaramdam ng insecurity every now and then sa ibat ibamg situation. Parang ikaw ung tipo ng tao na kapag may nakita kang taong nahulog sa upuan, tatadyakan mo pa para lalo maramdaman ung sakit.
...Or maybe its her life and she can deal with her insecurity the way that she deem right for her. Wag masyado mapagdikta sa buhay ng iba. Di naman sya namimilit na iview ang posts nya.
Parang si wais na misis din tong si moira. Hindi nga lang financial ang iniingay. Mga pa-deep na wisdom. Minsan dai, hindi naman kailangan ng long caption. Simplehan lang natin. Gets ka naman namin
Omg. Akala ko ako lang naartehan kay pabebe Moira. Hihi.. Sorry na, alam kong marami siyang fans dahil sa mga hugot songs nya pero diko sya maenjoy kasi sa ASAP dati pag ibang genre na ng songs sintunado sya talaga. Tapos napanood ko sa talkshow dati pabebe much. Yikes.
Inaarte lang naman nya ung pagkanta nya. Ung mga past performances nya, normal lng ung beat ng boses nya, di ung kala mo nanghehele. Ang arte arte. Do something about your insecurities or accept it. Di ung nag iinarte ka di naman bagay.
12:06 i dont care if she doesnt like me or know me. im not a celebrity. meanwhile she is an artist and her career and existence is anchored on people liking her or knowing her. kailangano ko pang explain sayo to? 😂 - yes ako si 12:40
Do not place your happiness nor confidence on a man. It is unfair for him. He is not your savior. You have to be your own savior because what if he leaves you? Where will you gain your confidence again?
Ang weak. Kailangan pa ng lalaki to regain confidence. Basta ako sabi ng mama ko nong bata ako na maganda ako. Sapat na yun. Kaya kahit ano pang sabihin ng ibang tao saken, isang malaking TSE! Haha
12:33 im sorry to hear that pero hindi lang siya ang may problema sa panahon ngayon. Di ba may covid. Kadaming tao may problema. Wag niya na idagdag sarili niya. Matatanda na yan alam na nila pano gagawin sa problema nila.
Ang arte arte
ReplyDeleteAno kaya itsura niya pag walang make up? Nakita ko siya sa isang event. Ang kapal ng foundation niya. Mas makapal pa dyan
DeleteChusera! Mga tao confident basta me camera! And isa siya dun!
ReplyDeleteSusko ang arte nga yung iba teh mas malala struggle sa life... nawalan ng trabaho at walang makain.
ReplyDeleteIkaw pananaba! Shy ako ha
Ganun talaga, iba iba tayo ng struggle sa buhay. Hindi porket 'mababaw' para sa ilan ang pinagdadaanan mo eh hindi na valid.
DeleteBawal na ba malungkot pag mapera at nakakakain 3x a day?
Ma shy ka talaga teh kasi hindi magandang ugali yang nag iinvalidate ng feelings ng ibamg tao. Not because mas malala ang problema ng ibang tao na hndi na sya pwedenh magkaron ng sarili nyang struggles. What is easy for you maybe hard for others.
Delete10:08 hindi namin invalidate feelings ng tao pero hindi din namin ilalagay sa pedestal ang problema ni Moira. The world doesn't revolve around her.
DeleteAmmmm not recognizing her struggle as valid dahil tingin nio is mas maliit ang problema nya kesa sa ibang tao is exactly invalidating. Wala nagsabi na ilagay ang problrma nya sa pedestal. That is her strugfle and if hindi ka makarelate then you may follow other stories na mas makakarelate ka as tingin mo mas deserve ng attention mo. May mga taong ae ng struggle sa kanya and the message is for them. Hindi din nagrerevolve ang mundo sa yo na ang kailangam lang nya ipost is kung ano ung tingin mo na valid struggle. -not a fan of moira, just pointing things out.
DeleteWalang confidence pero kayang magperform sa harap ng maraming tao. Paano pa kaya kapag nagka-confidense na.
ReplyDeleteperform ng mga kantang nakaka antok.
DeleteNakakaantok na bumenta naman!
DeleteFight or flight yun baks. Parang sa school lang, almost nobody ever gets excited to present in class but when your grade depends on it at papaluin ka ng nanay mo pag bumagsak ka, your a** is gonna get up in front of the class and do it kahit pumipilipit ka pa o di mapigil sumayaw sayaw sa harapan dahil halos maihi ka sa takot.
DeleteYung hindi sya confident pero nakakapagperform, that isinspirational. You dont know what goes on behind the stage bago sya magperform or kung anong klaseng pagpapalakas ng loob sa sarili ang gnagawa nya bago sya magperform. Hindi porket nakangiti or nakaka tawa amg tao means na wala syang struggle. It only means na gnagawa ng taong yun ung best nya DESPITE the struggle. Be kind sis.
DeleteTeh si mariah carey may stage fright pero isa sya sa mga legends at icon
Delete2:45 wala na kasi hindi na uso ang boring at depressive songs.
Deleteano naman ngayon kung may issue sya sa pag perform. Problema ba nating lahat yan?
DeleteNaging problemao yan 7:34 nung nagsimula ma makichismis sa article. LOL.
DeleteBakit ang kapal ng make up sa pool? You make up screams insecurity darling!
ReplyDeleteIn my personal opinion addictive ang makeup, you get to a point na hindi mo na nakikita na you are putting on too much cause you stop focusing on your face as a whole and you just start zooming in on each and every little flaw that you want to get rid of. Hindi kasing extreme ng may mga klase ng dysmorphia but I feel like medyo similar yung naeexperience nung mga addict sa makeup but to a lesser extent, na kung yung mga anorexic hindi nila nakikita sa salamin na buto't balat na sila cause all they focus on is the need to have the flattest possible tummy or to have small enough thighs, o di kaya yung nagpapasurgery to the point na mukha na silang deformed cause they want certain individual features that don't suit their bone structure/face, yung mga addict sa makeup they would always see uneveness in their complexion, asymmetry, having too small of this or too big of that even if in reality, people don't really check out each other like that at ikaw lang ang nakakakita.
DeleteSinabi nya na nga na shes been struggling with insecurity diba? Hindi porket may confidence na sya ibig sabhn hndi na sya pwedenh makaramdam ng insecurity every now and then sa ibat ibamg situation. Parang ikaw ung tipo ng tao na kapag may nakita kang taong nahulog sa upuan, tatadyakan mo pa para lalo maramdaman ung sakit.
Deleteif she is struggling with insecurity then maybe showbiz is not the best career for her. She should do some soul searching and all that.
Delete...Or maybe its her life and she can deal with her insecurity the way that she deem right for her. Wag masyado mapagdikta sa buhay ng iba. Di naman sya namimilit na iview ang posts nya.
DeleteParang si wais na misis din tong si moira. Hindi nga lang financial ang iniingay. Mga pa-deep na wisdom. Minsan dai, hindi naman kailangan ng long caption. Simplehan lang natin. Gets ka naman namin
ReplyDeleteEh ano naman. Kanta kanyang trip yan
DeleteAng hirap iplease ng mga netizen LOL. Account nya ipost nya gusto nya. Pero ikaw choice mo naman tumingin o hindi.
DeleteKapal ng makeup jusko ggss talaga at laging fishing for compliments ugh
ReplyDeletePromoting confidence pero magswimming ng naka full make up and false lashes?
ReplyDeleteFull make up talaga?
ReplyDeleteconfident daw po eh haha
Deletewalang ganap kaya vlogger ang ending.
Deletekaya nga pag ahon sa tubig iba na ang itsura :)
Delete1-Neri
ReplyDelete2-Dimples
3-Bettina
4-Moira
And the list goes on...lol
Ay! Parang alam ko yang list mo Mars, mga Humble braggers ba itey? Hahahahaha
DeleteAy bet na bet ko na nasa listahan mo si Dimples baks. Akala ko ako lang nakakapuna sa kanya. Hehe. @1:07am
DeleteAdd Rica. Hahaha
DeleteButi na lang wala akong fina-follow sa mga yan haha dito lang ako sa fo nakakasagap ng news lol
Delete10:55 same baks i dont follow any of them. tama na yung paminsan minsan nababalitaan ko sila dito sa FP anything more is umay 😂
DeleteYou nailed it siz, high five!
DeleteSame here, 7.41
DeleteSame obsevation. Kaya I don’t folow these women on IG.
Deletehindi naman ako nayayabangan kay Dimples.
Deleteand Kris Bernal too!
DeleteBut she is so glammed up in the pic, so malamang it helped to boost your confidence?! Musta naman ang false eyelashes?
ReplyDeleteDaming essay writing sa instagram gusto lang naman mag post ng pic na feeling nila maganda sila
ReplyDeleteTrue! Madalas walang connect sa photos nila na pinopost ang caption.
Deletekadalasan din cut and paste mga caption.
DeleteSus, daming arte!
ReplyDeleteThank you ghostwriter! That was an amazing essay! Keep it up!
ReplyDeleteI know her and she’s a good writer. Chusera ka
DeleteOmg. Akala ko ako lang naartehan kay pabebe Moira. Hihi.. Sorry na, alam kong marami siyang fans dahil sa mga hugot songs nya pero diko sya maenjoy kasi sa ASAP dati pag ibang genre na ng songs sintunado sya talaga. Tapos napanood ko sa talkshow dati pabebe much. Yikes.
ReplyDeleteI never like her style of singing..bakit kaya pinasikat ito ng abs di naman talented!
ReplyDeletebacker system teh.
DeleteAno daw, tamad ako mag basa.
ReplyDeleteIsa si Moira sa ang haba palagi ng caption sa bawat post parang laging gusto ng validation.
ReplyDelete@2:29 AM, all women loves validation :) Try checking IG posts... karamihan babae dressed in skimpy clothing and shaking their booties :)
Deleteno, we dont need validation lalo na kung confident ka sa sarili mo.
Delete8:42 sino sino ba kasing mga fina follow mo sa insta? haha kaloka ka choice mo kung anong gusto mong makita.
DeleteParehong nakaka-antok ang caption and singing niya. Kaloka.
ReplyDeletetrue...boring masyado.
Deletehindi maganda ang mga ganyang genre na depressing lalo na sa panahon ngayon. You need something to uplift people not to bring you on a gloomy mood.
Deletetigilan na niya yung antok na pagkanta at mga depressing na topic. It is not nice during times of crisis.
DeleteHahaa winner ang comments! Di lang pala ako ang naartehan kay other pabebe Moira
ReplyDeletenaboboringan pa kami at naantok sa mga kanta niyang emo.
DeleteImagine needing a man to regain your confidence.
ReplyDeleteInaarte lang naman nya ung pagkanta nya. Ung mga past performances nya, normal lng ung beat ng boses nya, di ung kala mo nanghehele. Ang arte arte. Do something about your insecurities or accept it. Di ung nag iinarte ka di naman bagay.
ReplyDeletemga kanta na nakaka depress sana baguhin niya. Hindi maganda na nagkakalat tayo ng lungkot sa sangkatauhan. Fix it girl.
Deleteconfident pero naka-make-up mag-swimming?
ReplyDeletei never liked her nor her music
ReplyDeletei dont like boring and cursive singing
Do you think she likes you este knows you???
DeleteI dont like her. Napaplastikan ako.
Delete12:40 same here.. Ayoko kasi ng tagalog na ini-slang pa..yun eh opinyon ko lang naman. Sa mga fans nya ehdi gow. 😁
Delete12:06 i dont care if she doesnt like me or know me. im not a celebrity. meanwhile she is an artist and her career and existence is anchored on people liking her or knowing her. kailangano ko pang explain sayo to? 😂
Delete- yes ako si 12:40
Parang ggss!
ReplyDeleteOo nga bakit naka makeup?
ReplyDeleteA strong woman doesn't need a man to regain confidence. Yun lang masasabi ko. Ciao!
ReplyDeleteTrots
DeleteTotally agree. Moira is sending a wrong message to young women. Relying your confidence on a man? What if he leaves?
Deletesays someone who finds a valid excuse for being single
Delete10:29. True!
DeleteDo not place your happiness nor confidence on a man. It is unfair for him. He is not your savior. You have to be your own savior because what if he leaves you? Where will you gain your confidence again?
ReplyDeleteAng weak. Kailangan pa ng lalaki to regain confidence. Basta ako sabi ng mama ko nong bata ako na maganda ako. Sapat na yun. Kaya kahit ano pang sabihin ng ibang tao saken, isang malaking TSE! Haha
ReplyDeletekailangan nga ng validation ang personal problems niyang naka post dito.
DeleteDami bitter dito. May psoriasis po sya. If you dont know that condition then google it.
ReplyDelete12:33 im sorry to hear that pero hindi lang siya ang may problema sa panahon ngayon. Di ba may covid. Kadaming tao may problema. Wag niya na idagdag sarili niya. Matatanda na yan alam na nila pano gagawin sa problema nila.
ReplyDeleteparang gusto ni moira since problemado siya, problema din nating lahat. wag ganun.
ReplyDeletesearch moira dela torre nung 2012. sobrang iba. kaya di mo ako maconvince sa paself-love eme na long captions mo eh.
ReplyDelete