The second to the last line really hits. It's kind of sad that this is probably what's keeping KC from making a commitment. But what do I know? Assumera lang na chismosa hahaha
hindi siya favorite. it's because she's the only one who has no one. all alone; me, myseld and i lang ang meron siya. kung saan may space, nandoon si kc, otherwise, nag-iisa. sad but true.
Wow ha, 1:05am. You obviously aren't a part of a blended family. KC doesn't have to go the extra mile to spend time with her half siblings but she does. But whether you like it or not, they're still FAMILY. May masabi lang talaga. And if she doesn't acknowledge her half sisters, sasabihin naman she's selfish? Wala na talagang magawang tama ang mga celebrities in your eyes? Lol
Being legally adopted doesn’t mean you’re not alone. We don’t really know what’s going on inside. Maybe Kiko treated her as her own but we have no idea what’s popping in KC’s mind all these years. Maybe there’s a sense of belonging that she’s been yearning for.
Yan ang hirap kapag nag-hiwalay ang parents mo at a young age tapos bigla sila magkakaroon ng ibang pamilya. Kaya siguro minsan parang pa awra na lang ginagawa ni KC, pero kudos to her na close sa mga half siblings niya, andami diyan itchapwera nila mga kapatid nila.
I'm in that same situation, and honestly mahirap sya specially if your parents still have that "friction" between them. Remembered when I was young di ko alam saan ako mag spend ng Christmas or New year dahil both nagtatampo if I don't choose to be with the either. So my advise sa mga separated lalo na at galit na galit pa rin dun sa other parent, utang na loob, bingiyan nyo na nga ng broken family yung anak nyo the least that you can do is makipagkasundo dun sa other parent and pagusapan nyo lahat ng setup para di yung bata naiipit
Hay naku ganito din samin. 3 kids left by both parents tapos away pa ng away nakakaawa ang mga kids! Nagpapagalingan pareho namang walang silbi. Walang time walang pera
This is sad. Agree with you, tutal naman may history na yung parents, the least that they can do for their child is to be civil with each other. Nakakaawa yung children kapag naghiwalay na nga yung parents tapos puro bangayan pa.
i am so sorry to hear yourstory, but yeah sad to say these stories and situations really happens and exists. sa mga magulang na nagdesisyon na maghiwalay sana naman umayos na lang sila for their children sake. kaloka. move in din mga parents.
This is 1:29am, thank you mga baks, you might be strangers pero your empathy makes may heart feel warm.
I'm 31 y/o na and just last year nailabas ko sa parents ko yung compressed emotions ko at mega nag breakdown talaga ako. All my life kasi both are expecting me to understand them nung naghiwalay nga sila may muwang nako nun at 6 pero walang explanation na binigay, there was an adult na narinig ko lang nun na nagsabi, mabuti na hiwalay sila kesa naman magsama at nagaaway, which translated into it's okay na yung emotions ko at wellbeing ko iset aside nalang since atleast masaya sila, then there's pa na di maayos parang nagka nagka competition pa kung sino pipiliin ko na puntahan, they are also openly sharing their hate in front of me towards each other. Same as KC unfortunately, wala din ako kapatid and both have their own new family na. Parang saling pusa lang feeling ko tuloy lagi haha
Siguro due to isolation sa pandemic and may parents are still at it even though lowkey na pero andun pa din, I just exploded lahat ng pinakatatago tago kong hinanakit ng 24 years lumabas at bumaha ng luha, but still my parents make it about them and I should not blame them for what's happening to me na depressed ako for feeling not having anyone with me at all. It's a good release pinatawad ko na din sila even they are not asking for forgiveness since maybe iba kasi talaga nung panahon nila and maybe their generation were raised like that. Buti nalang I met great friends along the way who unknowingly help me coped with it.
Paghihiwalay ngyayari talaga yun, pero as parents sana ilessen nyo yung blow nun sa mga children na involve, pagkaharap at usapang bata, you can pretend or atleast maging civil at pagusapan nyo yung best na setup, pag wala na bata chaka nalang kayo magsuntukan because that simple effort will save your child from years if not a lifetime of suffering.
Parang mabait si KC talaga. Sweet and understanding. Siguro minsan lost cia. I feel like shes the poor little rich girl. Kahit madami tao sa paligid, minsan parang alone. Continue to be a sweet person KC. Dedma sa nega. You do you.
I know someone in the same situation. The only child in a broken marriage, many half siblings on both parents & trying to belong somewhere in the middle. Not an easy thing to go through but he learned to live with it. This is the card he's been dealt with & chose to be happy, content & love everyone in his blended family.
Siya talaga nag effort mag reach out sa mga half-siblings nya dati pa. She probably feels like she's navigating the world alone, lalo na with the death of grandma. Kaya papansin sa socmed because she's lost deep inside.
The second to the last line really hits. It's kind of sad that this is probably what's keeping KC from making a commitment. But what do I know? Assumera lang na chismosa hahaha
ReplyDeleteParang si kc talaga pinaka favorite ng parents nya.
ReplyDeletehindi siya favorite. it's because she's the only one who has no one. all alone; me, myseld and i lang ang meron siya. kung saan may space, nandoon si kc, otherwise, nag-iisa. sad but true.
Delete1:05, hindi naman siya who has no one... Lumaki siya kay Sharon at Kiko. Legally adopted pa nga siya ni Kiko noong ikinasal sila ni Sharon.
DeleteWow ha, 1:05am. You obviously aren't a part of a blended family. KC doesn't have to go the extra mile to spend time with her half siblings but she does. But whether you like it or not, they're still FAMILY. May masabi lang talaga. And if she doesn't acknowledge her half sisters, sasabihin naman she's selfish? Wala na talagang magawang tama ang mga celebrities in your eyes? Lol
DeleteBeing legally adopted doesn’t mean you’re not alone. We don’t really know what’s going on inside. Maybe Kiko treated her as her own but we have no idea what’s popping in KC’s mind all these years. Maybe there’s a sense of belonging that she’s been yearning for.
DeleteNothing wrong being the favorite daughter. Ayaw man aminin ng most parents, may mga favorite talaga sila sa mga anak.
DeleteWAIT, IF SHE WAS LEGALLY ADOPTED, DOES THAT MEAN HER LAST NAME ON PAPERS IS PANGILINAN?
DeleteSi Kc ang pinakmaganda sa lahat ng anak ni Gabby tisay kasi siya at more on kay Gabby siya kamukha at ang complexion niya kay Sharon.
DeleteI love this post of KC's. Her good heart and love for her family is shining through.
ReplyDeleteBlended family is a lot happier then no family at all. My prayer is for those who are alone.😪😔😞
ReplyDeleteThank you ❤️
DeleteYan ang hirap kapag nag-hiwalay ang parents mo at a young age tapos bigla sila magkakaroon ng ibang pamilya. Kaya siguro minsan parang pa awra na lang ginagawa ni KC, pero kudos to her na close sa mga half siblings niya, andami diyan itchapwera nila mga kapatid nila.
ReplyDeleteI wish nagkaron man lang sya ng kahit isa pang sibling from the same parents
DeleteAwww feeling ko until now hurting pa rin sya na lagi syang in-between. But kudos to her for making time with her siblings
ReplyDeleteMay sadness talaga lalo na at iyung taong pinakamalapit kay KC ( Mita Elaine) ay wala na din.
DeleteI'm in that same situation, and honestly mahirap sya specially if your parents still have that "friction" between them. Remembered when I was young di ko alam saan ako mag spend ng Christmas or New year dahil both nagtatampo if I don't choose to be with the either. So my advise sa mga separated lalo na at galit na galit pa rin dun sa other parent, utang na loob, bingiyan nyo na nga ng broken family yung anak nyo the least that you can do is makipagkasundo dun sa other parent and pagusapan nyo lahat ng setup para di yung bata naiipit
ReplyDeleteAwww baks. How are you now?
DeleteHugs, baks!
DeleteHay naku ganito din samin. 3 kids left by both parents tapos away pa ng away nakakaawa ang mga kids! Nagpapagalingan pareho namang walang silbi. Walang time walang pera
DeleteThis is sad. Agree with you, tutal naman may history na yung parents, the least that they can do for their child is to be civil with each other. Nakakaawa yung children kapag naghiwalay na nga yung parents tapos puro bangayan pa.
Deletei am so sorry to hear yourstory, but yeah sad to say these stories and situations really happens and exists. sa mga magulang na nagdesisyon na maghiwalay sana naman umayos na lang sila for their children sake. kaloka. move in din mga parents.
DeleteThis is 1:29am, thank you mga baks, you might be strangers pero your empathy makes may heart feel warm.
DeleteI'm 31 y/o na and just last year nailabas ko sa parents ko yung compressed emotions ko at mega nag breakdown talaga ako. All my life kasi both are expecting me to understand them nung naghiwalay nga sila may muwang nako nun at 6 pero walang explanation na binigay, there was an adult na narinig ko lang nun na nagsabi, mabuti na hiwalay sila kesa naman magsama at nagaaway, which translated into it's okay na yung emotions ko at wellbeing ko iset aside nalang since atleast masaya sila, then there's pa na di maayos parang nagka nagka competition pa kung sino pipiliin ko na puntahan, they are also openly sharing their hate in front of me towards each other. Same as KC unfortunately, wala din ako kapatid and both have their own new family na. Parang saling pusa lang feeling ko tuloy lagi haha
Siguro due to isolation sa pandemic and may parents are still at it even though lowkey na pero andun pa din, I just exploded lahat ng pinakatatago tago kong hinanakit ng 24 years lumabas at bumaha ng luha, but still my parents make it about them and I should not blame them for what's happening to me na depressed ako for feeling not having anyone with me at all. It's a good release pinatawad ko na din sila even they are not asking for forgiveness since maybe iba kasi talaga nung panahon nila and maybe their generation were raised like that. Buti nalang I met great friends along the way who unknowingly help me coped with it.
Paghihiwalay ngyayari talaga yun, pero as parents sana ilessen nyo yung blow nun sa mga children na involve, pagkaharap at usapang bata, you can pretend or atleast maging civil at pagusapan nyo yung best na setup, pag wala na bata chaka nalang kayo magsuntukan because that simple effort will save your child from years if not a lifetime of suffering.
Parang mabait si KC talaga. Sweet and understanding. Siguro minsan lost cia. I feel like shes the poor little rich girl. Kahit madami tao sa paligid, minsan parang alone. Continue to be a sweet person KC. Dedma sa nega. You do you.
ReplyDeleteI admire KC to be spend time and be close to all her half siblings!
ReplyDeleteI know someone in the same situation. The only child in a broken marriage, many half siblings on both parents & trying to belong somewhere in the middle. Not an easy thing to go through but he learned to live with it. This is the card he's been dealt with & chose to be happy, content & love everyone in his blended family.
ReplyDelete@8:24, slow bang reading comprehension ko? Are you pertaining to Gabby or KC? If in case, it's Gabby, your pronouns used were correct.
DeleteYung akala ko dati kaya sya mas close sa mga kapatid nya kay Gabby kasi mas malapit sa age nya. Pero ngayon, parang mali akala ko.
ReplyDeleteSo ikaw na ang Ulirang Anak? Kaya mo bang ipakita sa kanila ang IG content mo? Haha. Kayanin mo!
ReplyDeleteYung nag comment lang si Gabby ng hashtag ng resort niya. Hahahahahahaha.
ReplyDeleteYung comment talaga ni gabby
ReplyDeleteSiya talaga nag effort mag reach out sa mga half-siblings nya dati pa. She probably feels like she's navigating the world alone, lalo na with the death of grandma. Kaya papansin sa socmed because she's lost deep inside.
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of Karylle.But di ramdam sa kanila na blended family sila. Kudos kay Zsa Zsa
ReplyDeleteOh my, she aged so much na talaga.
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