Hay naku straight to the point ka na lang Jennica, para sa asawa mo yan. Hwag ka na mandamay ng mga ibang tao na advise mo kuno sa parents or married couples. Isa pa wala kang credibility to give advice on such matters.
Si Jesus Christ nga minahal at forgave our sins and failings, why are you trying to control your husband na pati pag watch ng tv at pag gamit ng cellphone pinagbawalan mo? Why are you trying to play God in your household? Para sabihin ka ng grupo nyo na banal ka na tao?
Natawa naman ako sa kanya. As if nasa posisyon siya to preach and give advice eh sarili lang naman niya pinapaniwala niya. A strong, independent woman know how to handle challenges in life with grace and dignity. Hindi na kailangang may pa-announce sa socmed. She just move on and deal with it.
Well girl your spouse won’t be coming back to you if you keep posting passive aggressive posts about him. It’s only going to assure him that walking away from your crazy was the best decision.
Right ... it’s easy to blame Jennica because she’s “different”. Unless you know them, and are with them 24/7, you don’t have any right to pass judgement. Neither do we. In these trying times, just try being kind, yes?
Self righteous, Jennica. Walk your talk. Who are you to preach? Pakitingin muna sa sarili mo bago magbigay ng advice sa iba. Huwag kang mag banal banalan diya.
Di naman sya banal banalan. Shes just giving unsolicited advice to those who are going through the same thing dahil na experience na nya. And she walks her talk obviously. Kaya nga hiwalay na sila di ba. Pabayaan nyo na sya, mahirap dn naman kasi mahiwalay sa asawa. Especially if fulltime mom ka. Di mo alam pano ka mag uumpisa. I hope u wont go through the same thing she went through. Bitter mo
Hindi ako si 2:22. Iniwan ako ng asawa ko dahil may iba siya. Mahirap at masakit but it never occurred to my mind to speak ill of my husband kahit sa mga friends. At least pera ang problema nila but mas masakit kung iniwan ka dahil may iba na siya. Yes, my faith in God helped me survived that difficult phase in my life but hindi ko ito bino broadcast. There is always dignity in silence.
If you truly believe that there is indeed no better life than the one God has planned for you, then stop the moaning and groaning. Walk your talk. May plano ka na palang ine expect, bakit nagrereklamo ka pa rin?
Pag pati papanoorin mo pinapakaleman. Pag pati kakainin ko kinocontrol. Pag lahat ng kilos mo denumero. RUN AWAY. FAST. Sa una mo lang matitiis yan. While love is young and new. Pagtagal your resentment will grow. Pag may ganitong pandemic and very limited ang pwede mo gawin yet you still have strict rules to follow marerealize mo how much you are wasting your life. Hindi masama to want to be happy naman. Yung maluwag at magaan ang pakiramdam.
I disagree with her advice. If your spouse needs some time alone, give it. They deserve it too. Baka naman hindi niya pinapayagan kahit lumabas lang kahit minsan with friends. Unhealthy yun. Hindi lang sa Diyos at pamilya umiikot ang mundo. Importante din ang hobbies at social life. Dapat balance.
Based on what im reading here in the comments, seems like she and I have the same issue and that is "CONTROL". I used to not allow our children to use tv, gadgets..parang purist / organic feel.. haha hindi rin namin kinaya in the long run..there are some things we need to consider COMPROMISE.
Hay naku straight to the point ka na lang Jennica, para sa asawa mo yan. Hwag ka na mandamay ng mga ibang tao na advise mo kuno sa parents or married couples. Isa pa wala kang credibility to give advice on such matters.
ReplyDeleteOk naman din xa magbigay cguro ng advice kc shes been there..naexperience nya at alam nya kung ano feeling..
DeleteYes cling to Jesus, not in Social Media..
DeleteSi Jesus Christ nga minahal at forgave our sins and failings, why are you trying to control your husband na pati pag watch ng tv at pag gamit ng cellphone pinagbawalan mo? Why are you trying to play God in your household? Para sabihin ka ng grupo nyo na banal ka na tao?
DeleteNasaan na ung till death do u part? Kaya di masisi ung iba to not believe in marriage.
ReplyDeleteAt siya pa talaga nagbigay ng advice hahaha. Parinig queen.
ReplyDeleteNatawa naman ako sa kanya. As if nasa posisyon siya to preach and give advice eh sarili lang naman niya pinapaniwala niya. A strong, independent woman know how to handle challenges in life with grace and dignity. Hindi na kailangang may pa-announce sa socmed. She just move on and deal with it.
ReplyDeleteWell girl your spouse won’t be coming back to you if you keep posting passive aggressive posts about him. It’s only going to assure him that walking away from your crazy was the best decision.
ReplyDeleteRight ... it’s easy to blame Jennica because she’s “different”. Unless you know them, and are with them 24/7, you don’t have any right to pass judgement. Neither do we. In these trying times, just try being kind, yes?
DeleteWalang kinalaman si God sa relasyon niyo kayo may decision niyan kung ano man pinagdadaanan niyo.
ReplyDeleteI admire her. She knows what to do.
ReplyDeleteSelf righteous, Jennica. Walk your talk. Who are you to preach? Pakitingin muna sa sarili mo bago magbigay ng advice sa iba. Huwag kang mag banal banalan diya.
ReplyDeleteDi naman sya banal banalan. Shes just giving unsolicited advice to those who are going through the same thing dahil na experience na nya. And she walks her talk obviously. Kaya nga hiwalay na sila di ba. Pabayaan nyo na sya, mahirap dn naman kasi mahiwalay sa asawa. Especially if fulltime mom ka. Di mo alam pano ka mag uumpisa. I hope u wont go through the same thing she went through. Bitter mo
DeleteHindi ako si 2:22. Iniwan ako ng asawa ko dahil may iba siya. Mahirap at masakit but it never occurred to my mind to speak ill of my husband kahit sa mga friends. At least pera ang problema nila but mas masakit kung iniwan ka dahil may iba na siya. Yes, my faith in God helped me survived that difficult phase in my life but hindi ko ito bino broadcast. There is always dignity in silence.
DeleteThere are two of you in your marriage, working on it. Or not. Huwag mandamay ng third party like Satan.
ReplyDeleteIf you truly believe that there is indeed no better life than the one God has planned for you, then stop the moaning and groaning. Walk your talk. May plano ka na palang ine expect, bakit nagrereklamo ka pa rin?
ReplyDeleteSo why didn't you stay? regardless of everything... stay put!
ReplyDeleteGirl akala ko religious ka? Edi stop using the name of God para magparinig sa asawa mo. Alam mo dapat yan. Kabahan ka naman ng kaunti pls.
ReplyDeleteNaiyak ako dito.going thru same thing.almost 25 yrs,kids grown and have graduated.trusting in God and His plans for us.
ReplyDeleteGrabe ganyan pala sya kapayat? Super stress siguro sa nangyari sa kanilang mag asawa
ReplyDeleteGo convince yourself 🙃
ReplyDeletePag pati papanoorin mo pinapakaleman. Pag pati kakainin ko kinocontrol. Pag lahat ng kilos mo denumero. RUN AWAY. FAST. Sa una mo lang matitiis yan. While love is young and new. Pagtagal your resentment will grow. Pag may ganitong pandemic and very limited ang pwede mo gawin yet you still have strict rules to follow marerealize mo how much you are wasting your life. Hindi masama to want to be happy naman. Yung maluwag at magaan ang pakiramdam.
ReplyDeleteI disagree with her advice. If your spouse needs some time alone, give it. They deserve it too. Baka naman hindi niya pinapayagan kahit lumabas lang kahit minsan with friends. Unhealthy yun. Hindi lang sa Diyos at pamilya umiikot ang mundo. Importante din ang hobbies at social life. Dapat balance.
ReplyDeleteIngay mo. Work and create your own paradise with your daughters. Silence is a virtue.
ReplyDeleteBased on what im reading here in the comments, seems like she and I have the same issue and that is "CONTROL". I used to not allow our children to use tv, gadgets..parang purist / organic feel.. haha hindi rin namin kinaya in the long run..there are some things we need to consider COMPROMISE.
ReplyDeleteBoth of you should step back and take an honest look at your doing. Ang daling makapuna ng pagkakamali ng iba, pero sa sarili, bulag.
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