Alam ko nga may sariling bahay si Hearty tapos katabi din ng kay Chiz. Parang townhouse style. Pero siyempre mega millions na townhouse. Tapos may house din together. Eh anong masama naman? mas okay nga un na may space si Hearty at may space din un mga anak ni Chiz. Privacy tawag dun para di sila magclash. At sa separation ng bed. Si Miriam ganun din eh. Kasi lakas maghilik ng asawa niya. Nanay at tatay ko din. Pero tatlo anak nila. Kanya kanyang trip, style at diskarte lang yan. Kung afford mo walang problema. Nagkakaproblema lang pag di afford ng many bedroom o many houses. Tiis ka
1:09 di kumportable ang war plug. At saka may mga tao na sensitive ang tulog. Di pwedeng madisrupt kasi nagkaka insomnia. Kaya dapat madilim at tahimik talaga. Pati temperatura dapat tama.
We're on separate ròoms, too. Kasi different shift sa work at ayaw naminmagkastorbohan. Pag weekends, join uli sa isang bedroom. When you love your spouse, let him sleep. It makes a person healthy and happy.
Tatay at nanay ko din hindi tabi matulog. Magkahiwalay sila ng kwarto kasi hindi makatulog nanay ko sa lakas ng hilik ni tatay hehe. Pero 39 years na sila married.
My partner and I have separate rooms as well. Hindi nya kaya ang lakas ng hilik ko kasi sensitive ang tenga nya. Depende naman talaga yun kung saan arrangment kayo mas nagkakasundo.
My husband and I doesnt sleep in the same room anymore eversice our daughter was born. We are still happily married. Its just that our daughter had health problems when she was born and i slept with her in her bedroom for four years. When she started school thats when we started her to train her to sleep alone. But me and my husband are not used of sharing the same bed anymore. Its either his snoring keeps me up all night or me moving alot and waking him at night. So im sleeping in our Guest room for 2 years now and him in pur bedroom. Works better that way 😂
Sorry naman. I was supposed to delete some words because i changed my sentence. I didnt realize na hindi ko pala nadelete all of them. Sa mga grammar nazzis. Sorry po 😂
Oh gosh! I thought Im not normal. Im happily married as well. But we dont sleep together. My daughter had sleeping problem before and kaya andun ako sa bedroom nila natutulog. Until now works well. Iba kase ung skeeping pattern also ni hubby ko at ako. But wirks perfectly ang set up nmen.
It's an ideal set up for independent folks who have a lot of things going on with their own lives. And then after a time apart, ang dami niyong napaguusapan -- long, deep conversations and kahit may ibang mababaw. You make the most of the time you spend with each other. This set up is definitely not for needy housewives and clingy partners.
3:10, it's really not contradictory. Independence is even more important when married imho. Otherwise, not only will it get boring, you also risk losing yourself. You should be complete by yourself. Having a partner should be a choice, not a need. Only healthy way really..
Haha sa early marriages lang yang mga clingy clingy sis. Pag after ilang years kung san kyo kumportable. Doesnt mean you love each other less. Like me, 20yrs married at katabi ko matulog ung 6yr old daughter ko. Di ako sanay pag diko katabi baby ko. My husband sleeps with my 15yr old daughter. But we are in the same room, tabi tabi ang 2 queen sized beds sa floor. Anyway sooner our eldest will ask for her own room. Lalaki na din ang 6yr old ko and its just me and my husband na lang.
Wag kang sarcastic. Here's the thing: there is no fixed template of how marriage works. What works for you might not be what works best for others. Just because other people's marriage does not fit what is ideal or normal for you does not mean it's wrong, or it's not working.
Masyadong namang backwards ang pagiisip mo. Progresibo na ang panahon ngayon. So many relationships are in LDR. Kanya-kanyang setup. Living together isn't 100% bliss for everyone. Think of those who live in the same house but are experiencing domestic violence?
Kaya alam mo, there are people who prefer their own space even while married, others who prefer staying together 24/7. Having your own space allows you to grow as a person. At the end of the day it's about the fact that both are happy, have respect, understanding, and love for each other regardless of their sleeping arrangements.
3:10 try to read the whole context where independent was used. Wag mong isingle out yung word or else hindi mo talaga maiintindihan. You’re welcome. :)
Paano nga naman matutulog sa same room eh nasa Sorsogon nga si Chiz at nasa Manila si Heart???? Mga tanga! Mag ala super man ka na lang Chiz para pag gabi nasa Manila ka kaagad.
Kami clingy kami. Ayaw namin magkayakap kasi uncomfy pero we make sure na may dikit samin na body part kahit paa man yan o daliri hahaha. Cant imagine my husband sleeping sa kabilang kwarto.
To answer your question 2:24- No. I have insomnia and I'm a very light sleeper. Konting ingay lang nagigising na kaagad ako. My hubby wakes up at 3:30 am since he works on an early morning shift. Yun yung time na I actually feel drowsy so to save my well-being, we decided to sleep in separate rooms. I can say that I have a happy marriage and we don't feel distant towards each other just because we sleep in different beds. We do take naps together during weekends and holidays.
May mga taong hindi dependent sa asawa. Iyung hindi masyadong clingy o needy. Syempre nagiging intimate din naman pero hindi un 24/7 na nakapulupot sa isa't isa.
My parents had their own rooms. They preferred it that way. Different work schedules and also they both snored so loud. No 3rd party. Married for more than 40 yrs before Papa died. Dedicated and loyal til the end. It just worked for them.
Personally for me mas ok matulog kami na hiwalay. Husband ko kasi konting galaw or kaluskos ko nagigising. Ang likot ko matulog and late sleeper ako so mas prefer namin hiwalay ng tulog. That way hindi na kami nag aaway.
Depende sa kondisyon. May mga tao malakas maghilik, o kaya maingay, magulo katabi o kaya malikot, tayo ng tayo pupunta CR. Minsan tinitiis na lang. Minsan sanay na un iba. Minsan talaga mas priority un magandang tulog kasi may work pa kinabukasan kaya separate rooms muna
I love our set up. I have my own personal space which I really need after a whole day of stress. And he get to have his own peace and quiet time while he watches youtube videos of fishing and hunting on the tv. We do spend time together naman muna before our alone times. we both read book to our daughter, talk about our day. Then tucked her in. And me and my hubby naman sometimes will have our adult talks too, but there are days na we both are tired and we both go to our rooms after we bring our daughter to bed. But all my personal stuff naman like clothes are still in our bedroom pa.. I kept it there.
We're both clingy so sleeping in separate rooms won't work for us. I cannot sleep if he's not beside me or if he's not in the same room. Same goes for him. Although ako yung tipo ng tao na dapat madilim, tahimik at saka malamig dapat ung kwarto pero natiis ko tsaka natutunan ko na din mag-adjust kasi lagi bukas ung monitor sa gabi (morning shift ako sa bpo/night shift sya sa bpo tapos WAH pa). Ewan ko ba. Di ako mapakali pag di ko sya kasama. Tsaka yung snoring nia eh nagpapatulog sa akin hahaha maybe pag tumahimik eh saka lang ako kakabahan. Kanya-kanya lang naman yan. No need to set a standard on what a husband and wife should or shouldn't do in the privacy of their own homes. :)
Agree with the others, having your own space is important! Plus, once you've tried it due to work/your child, it's hard to go back. Especially if sleep is a luxury and he snores, moves a lot, farts, whatever - and you're a light sleeper.
There are studies that show sleeping together is beneficial. I know anP not too old couple who hadn't slept together for many years. Palagi sila nag aaway with the slightest provocation. Yung anak nila kung saan sila nakatira decided to have them go back to their own house. Doon sa bahay na yun, wala Sila choice but to sleep in one bed. Siguro di naman biglaan but there's a significant change in the way they treat each other. Today, we see them post sweet pictures in FB. Noon walang ganun e. Sleeping together foster intimacy kasi e
We love our personal spaces and we stayed together for a long time because of it. Mas nag aaway kami kapag sa iisang bed kami natutulog. Napupuyat kasi sya sa lakas ng hilik ko so badtrip sya buong araw kinabukasan. Kaya mas healthy sa amin pareho na may sarili kaming room.
Snoring is one of the cause of sleepness nights sa mag asawa. Ako naman I like the sound of my BF snore. Nasanay kasi siguro ako while growing up naririnig ko snore ng dad ko and I don't mind it nung nag live in na kami ng bf ko... its a white noise for me. Nakaka tulog ako ng maayos
You'll get used to it talaga. When you wake up in the middle of the night tapos sobrang quiet, kakabahan ka na talaga kasi nasanay ka na sign yun na buhay pa katabi mo :D
Same! Nasanay na ako. Actually nung naguumpisa pa lang kami magsama ng asawa ko, nahihirapan ako pag nagsnore sya, usually pinapauna nya ako matulog para di ako magising na kapag nagssnore sya. Pero ngaun, sanay na ako lalo na pag pagod na pagod ako, mabilis lang ako nakakatulog and hindi na istorbo ung paghilik nya!
Papa at Mama ko hindi din magkatabi matulog pero nasa iisang kwarto magkaiba lang ang kama. bale 2 ang kama nila sa kwarto. at 4 kaming magkakapatid ha lol
My husband snores VERY LOUD diko talaga kaya so my adjacent room, syempre pag gising watch tv kwentuhan same room, pag love act but pag tulog na talaga kanya kanya na para walang issue!
Sa mga nagsasabi na sa mga clingy and needy lang ang nagtatabi matulog na mag asawa, di niyo ba naisip na iyon ang norm? If your setup is different than the norm, you don't have to call those normal setup clingy or needy while defending your different setup. Just saying.
5.54 there's no norm actually because this depends on variety of things like if you have a career in the morning, your work schedule, if you are light sleeper, etc.
I love how this opened up a conversation abt sleeping arrangements. Clingy kaming mag-asawa pero pagdating sa sleep sked magkaibang magkaiba kami. We started sleeping in separate areas of the house and every weekend naman bawing bawi.
my parents have been married for over 50yrs and maybe half that time hindi na sila magkatabi matulog. When they go home sa pinas for vacation, some friends/relatives nagtataka why they have separate rooms in our house. Sabi lang namin, yun ang trip nila.
Many marriage experts say that sleeping together promotes healthy relationship. Kahit na minsan nagi snore or may trouble sleeping, you still find comfort and emotional intimacy In sleeping together. I am sure that given a chance, Heart and Chiz prefer to sleep together. Yun lang palagi nasa Sorsogon si Chiz. Pero malamang naman, mag katabi yan pag umuuwi siya.
That's true 7:39. Sleeping together is the best and it improves health and personal intimacy but maybe some couple prefer not to for their own personal reasons.
One of the reasons why I left the. Whenever I’m not around , some of my office mates would open my payslips just to see how much I was earning. Horrible work behavior.
nasa isang room kami ng asawa ko pera di na kami magkatabing matulog.Eversince magka anak kami 12 years ago. Wala namang problema, masaya naman .Nakatatlo na nga kami .Hello
lolo at lola ko ganyan din, 65yrs na silang kasal haha, simula nagkaisip ako (which is 40++yrs ago) magkahiwalay na sila matulog pero sweet na sweet pa rin till now haha
Asawa ko naman very light sleeper, konting galaw ko lang nagigising na. Eh ako naman malikot sa bed. Pero magkatabi pa rin kami matulog, mas lalo kasi sya hndi nkakatulog pag hindi nya ako katabi hahaha!
I personally does not want to sleep with my husband because I want all the bed for myself. Haha. We have two bedrooms at home, one for me, and one for my husband. We only sleep on the same bed once or twice a week. No issue for us.
Malinaw naman ang pagkakasabi and Hearty even explained it sa latest vlog nya. Di sila magkatabi because Gov was in Sorsogon and Heart was in Manila. Hearty even said if nasa iisng bahay sila magkatabi sila minsan na nga lang daw sila magkita because of their works di pa daw ba sila magtatabi?!
Go go go
ReplyDeleteChiz is governor of Sorsogon kasi. Heart has work commitments in Manila. If Heart doesn't work, she can stay rin naman sa Sorsogon.
DeleteTwins live and study rin in Manila. Normal lang naman yan.
They meet at least 2x a week daw. It's not a problem naman.
Alam ko nga may sariling bahay si Hearty tapos katabi din ng kay Chiz. Parang townhouse style. Pero siyempre mega millions na townhouse. Tapos may house din together. Eh anong masama naman? mas okay nga un na may space si Hearty at may space din un mga anak ni Chiz. Privacy tawag dun para di sila magclash. At sa separation ng bed. Si Miriam ganun din eh. Kasi lakas maghilik ng asawa niya. Nanay at tatay ko din. Pero tatlo anak nila. Kanya kanyang trip, style at diskarte lang yan. Kung afford mo walang problema. Nagkakaproblema lang pag di afford ng many bedroom o many houses. Tiis ka
ReplyDeleteKapag naghihilik, try using rubber ear plugs
DeleteDi rin nagtatabi nanay at tatay ko pero 45 years na silang kasal. Walang 3rd party o ano pa basta trip lang nilang wag magtabi.
DeleteI cant stand rubber ear plugs. Its putting too much pressure in my ear and I couldn’t bear the pain.
DeleteAgree!
Delete1:09 di kumportable ang war plug. At saka may mga tao na sensitive ang tulog. Di pwedeng madisrupt kasi nagkaka insomnia. Kaya dapat madilim at tahimik talaga. Pati temperatura dapat tama.
DeleteWe're on separate ròoms, too. Kasi different shift sa work at ayaw naminmagkastorbohan. Pag weekends, join uli sa isang bedroom. When you love your spouse, let him sleep. It makes a person healthy and happy.
DeleteTatay at nanay ko din hindi tabi matulog. Magkahiwalay sila ng kwarto kasi hindi makatulog nanay ko sa lakas ng hilik ni tatay hehe. Pero 39 years na sila married.
DeleteMy partner and I have separate rooms as well. Hindi nya kaya ang lakas ng hilik ko kasi sensitive ang tenga nya. Depende naman talaga yun kung saan arrangment kayo mas nagkakasundo.
Deleteloud snoring is not normal. you should have it checked out, baka may sleep apnea sila.
DeleteFor sure iba ang nagrereply sa account niya..parang reply ng mgabtsismosa
ReplyDeleteHindi siya big deal lalo na kung malakas maghilik un lalake.
ReplyDeleteHindi na dapat nya pinatulan, he doesnt have to answer to anyone kung alam mo naman or kilala mo naman sarili mo
ReplyDeleteokey na rin kahit minsan sumasali rin sya sa mosas like us. gusto ko yan well rounded ang reps natin and not sitting in their ivory towers.
DeletePag naman hindi nag react, sabihin totoo.
DeleteIt’s his first and only statement so far on the issue para hindi na mag drag on. And tama naman sinabi nya to focus on more relevant issues
DeleteTheir marriage their RULES!
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMy husband and I doesnt sleep in the same room anymore eversice our daughter was born. We are still happily married. Its just that our daughter had health problems when she was born and i slept with her in her bedroom for four years. When she started school thats when we started her to train her to sleep alone. But me and my husband are not used of sharing the same bed anymore. Its either his snoring keeps me up all night or me moving alot and waking him at night. So im sleeping in our Guest room for 2 years now and him in pur bedroom. Works better that way 😂
ReplyDeleteSorry naman. I was supposed to delete some words because i changed my sentence. I didnt realize na hindi ko pala nadelete all of them. Sa mga grammar nazzis. Sorry po 😂
DeleteGets naman namin sis. Kung sa kayo mas kumportableng mag asawa dun kayo. Mas ok nga yon.
DeleteIyung moving a lot pwede din makaistorbo gaya ng hilik. Lalo na pag pupunta ng CR o bububksan ang ilaw sa CR. Un mga ihi ng ihi sa gabi.
DeleteTagalogin kasi
DeleteOh gosh! I thought Im not normal. Im happily married as well. But we dont sleep together. My daughter had sleeping problem before and kaya andun ako sa bedroom nila natutulog. Until now works well. Iba kase ung skeeping pattern also ni hubby ko at ako. But wirks perfectly ang set up nmen.
DeleteIt's an ideal set up for independent folks who have a lot of things going on with their own lives. And then after a time apart, ang dami niyong napaguusapan -- long, deep conversations and kahit may ibang mababaw. You make the most of the time you spend with each other. This set up is definitely not for needy housewives and clingy partners.
ReplyDeleteNagpakasal pa tapos independent? Contradictory yung comment mo.
DeletePag kinasal ba dapat maging dependent sa partner? Baka ikaw lang yon.
DeleteDon’t rely your happiness and your whole life to your partner, di kayo maggrow. You can be both inlove yet still be independent:)
Delete3:10, it's really not contradictory. Independence is even more important when married imho. Otherwise, not only will it get boring, you also risk losing yourself. You should be complete by yourself. Having a partner should be a choice, not a need. Only healthy way really..
DeleteHaha sa early marriages lang yang mga clingy clingy sis. Pag after ilang years kung san kyo kumportable. Doesnt mean you love each other less. Like me, 20yrs married at katabi ko matulog ung 6yr old daughter ko. Di ako sanay pag diko katabi baby ko. My husband sleeps with my 15yr old daughter. But we are in the same room, tabi tabi ang 2 queen sized beds sa floor. Anyway sooner our eldest will ask for her own room. Lalaki na din ang 6yr old ko and its just me and my husband na lang.
Delete3:10 naawa naman ako sayo for thinking that one will or should lose his/her independence once married. wow.
DeleteYes DAPAT kahit na kasal na, independent ka pa rin. Hindi naman pwede lahat na lang iaasa mo sa asawa mo. Ano ka parasite?
DeleteAnon 3:10
DeleteWag kang sarcastic. Here's the thing: there is no fixed template of how marriage works. What works for you might not be what works best for others. Just because other people's marriage does not fit what is ideal or normal for you does not mean it's wrong, or it's not working.
Masyadong namang backwards ang pagiisip mo. Progresibo na ang panahon ngayon. So many relationships are in LDR. Kanya-kanyang setup. Living together isn't 100% bliss for everyone. Think of those who live in the same house but are experiencing domestic violence?
Kaya alam mo, there are people who prefer their own space even while married, others who prefer staying together 24/7. Having your own space allows you to grow as a person. At the end of the day it's about the fact that both are happy, have respect, understanding, and love for each other regardless of their sleeping arrangements.
Kaloka.
3:10 try to read the whole context where independent was used. Wag mong isingle out yung word or else hindi mo talaga maiintindihan. You’re welcome. :)
DeleteKawawa nman to c 310, wla ka pang asawa no? Lol, so dapat pala pag may asawa na hindi na independent? Ti wlang makakatagal sayo kung ganyan ka. ✌
Deletenaku huh! magkasama sila 4-5 times a year. LOL anubah!
ReplyDeleteAh pag ganun di lang simpleng hiwalay ng kama o room. Hahahaha. Hiwalay ng syudad na un o probinsya
DeleteAng classy. 🙄
ReplyDeleteHe actually replied to that??
ReplyDeleteReplied because he's guilty
Deletesi chiz ba talaga ngtweet nyan???? mukhang hindi..haha c heart ata yan lol
Deletewe have our individual me time. Kailangan din non.
ReplyDeletePaano nga naman matutulog sa same room eh nasa Sorsogon nga si Chiz at nasa Manila si Heart???? Mga tanga! Mag ala super man ka na lang Chiz para pag gabi nasa Manila ka kaagad.
ReplyDeleteCurios question for those couples here who are not sharing the same bed. Bakit? Hindi ba kayo nakak feel na distant kayo sa isat isa?
ReplyDeletePersonally I can’t imagine na we are on separate room or bed magka away man or hindi.
Kami clingy kami. Ayaw namin magkayakap kasi uncomfy pero we make sure na may dikit samin na body part kahit paa man yan o daliri hahaha. Cant imagine my husband sleeping sa kabilang kwarto.
DeleteTo answer your question 2:24- No. I have insomnia and I'm a very light sleeper. Konting ingay lang nagigising na kaagad ako. My hubby wakes up at 3:30 am since he works on an early morning shift. Yun yung time na I actually feel drowsy so to save my well-being, we decided to sleep in separate rooms. I can say that I have a happy marriage and we don't feel distant towards each other just because we sleep in different beds. We do take naps together during weekends and holidays.
DeleteMay mga taong hindi dependent sa asawa. Iyung hindi masyadong clingy o needy. Syempre nagiging intimate din naman pero hindi un 24/7 na nakapulupot sa isa't isa.
DeleteMy parents had their own rooms. They preferred it that way. Different work schedules and also they both snored so loud. No 3rd party. Married for more than 40 yrs before Papa died. Dedicated and loyal til the end. It just worked for them.
DeletePersonally for me mas ok matulog kami na hiwalay. Husband ko kasi konting galaw or kaluskos ko nagigising. Ang likot ko matulog and late sleeper ako so mas prefer namin hiwalay ng tulog. That way hindi na kami nag aaway.
DeleteDepende sa kondisyon. May mga tao malakas maghilik, o kaya maingay, magulo katabi o kaya malikot, tayo ng tayo pupunta CR. Minsan tinitiis na lang. Minsan sanay na un iba. Minsan talaga mas priority un magandang tulog kasi may work pa kinabukasan kaya separate rooms muna
DeleteI love our set up. I have my own personal space which I really need after a whole day of stress. And he get to have his own peace and quiet time while he watches youtube videos of fishing and hunting on the tv. We do spend time together naman muna before our alone times. we both read book to our daughter, talk about our day. Then tucked her in. And me and my hubby naman sometimes will have our adult talks too, but there are days na we both are tired and we both go to our rooms after we bring our daughter to bed. But all my personal stuff naman like clothes are still in our bedroom pa.. I kept it there.
DeleteWe're both clingy so sleeping in separate rooms won't work for us. I cannot sleep if he's not beside me or if he's not in the same room. Same goes for him. Although ako yung tipo ng tao na dapat madilim, tahimik at saka malamig dapat ung kwarto pero natiis ko tsaka natutunan ko na din mag-adjust kasi lagi bukas ung monitor sa gabi (morning shift ako sa bpo/night shift sya sa bpo tapos WAH pa). Ewan ko ba. Di ako mapakali pag di ko sya kasama. Tsaka yung snoring nia eh nagpapatulog sa akin hahaha maybe pag tumahimik eh saka lang ako kakabahan. Kanya-kanya lang naman yan. No need to set a standard on what a husband and wife should or shouldn't do in the privacy of their own homes. :)
DeleteAgree with the others, having your own space is important! Plus, once you've tried it due to work/your child, it's hard to go back. Especially if sleep is a luxury and he snores, moves a lot, farts, whatever - and you're a light sleeper.
DeleteThere are studies that show sleeping together is beneficial. I know anP not too old couple who hadn't slept together for many years. Palagi sila nag aaway with the slightest provocation. Yung anak nila kung saan sila nakatira decided to have them go back to their own house. Doon sa bahay na yun, wala Sila choice but to sleep in one bed. Siguro di naman biglaan but there's a significant change in the way they treat each other. Today, we see them post sweet pictures in FB. Noon walang ganun e. Sleeping together foster intimacy kasi e
DeleteWe love our personal spaces and we stayed together for a long time because of it. Mas nag aaway kami kapag sa iisang bed kami natutulog. Napupuyat kasi sya sa lakas ng hilik ko so badtrip sya buong araw kinabukasan. Kaya mas healthy sa amin pareho na may sarili kaming room.
DeleteSnoring is one of the cause of sleepness nights sa mag asawa. Ako naman I like the sound of my BF snore. Nasanay kasi siguro ako while growing up naririnig ko snore ng dad ko and I don't mind it nung nag live in na kami ng bf ko... its a white noise for me. Nakaka tulog ako ng maayos
ReplyDeleteI believe this! Ako kahit nagrereklamo ung partner ko sa hilik ko, di yan makakatulog till d nya marinig ung hilik ko. hehe
DeleteAko din sanay na sa snoring. Hubby and si doggy lalakas mag snore para akong sinandwich sa 2 tambutso hahaha pero I got used to it.
DeleteYou'll get used to it talaga. When you wake up in the middle of the night tapos sobrang quiet, kakabahan ka na talaga kasi nasanay ka na sign yun na buhay pa katabi mo :D
DeleteSame! Nasanay na ako. Actually nung naguumpisa pa lang kami magsama ng asawa ko, nahihirapan ako pag nagsnore sya, usually pinapauna nya ako matulog para di ako magising na kapag nagssnore sya. Pero ngaun, sanay na ako lalo na pag pagod na pagod ako, mabilis lang ako nakakatulog and hindi na istorbo ung paghilik nya!
DeletePapa at Mama ko hindi din magkatabi matulog pero nasa iisang kwarto magkaiba lang ang kama. bale 2 ang kama nila sa kwarto. at 4 kaming magkakapatid ha lol
ReplyDeleteParang sa kdrama di ba, 2 kama sa kwarto. Yung parents ng friend ko ganyan din set-up nila, but there's nothing wrong with their marriage.
DeleteKami naman magkahiwalay ngayon ng kuwarto dahil sa Covid.
DeleteSame sutuation here 8:04 am. Sacrifice muna kc seniors na kmi at 2 lang 2 sa bahay. Ang hirap kung may magkacovid sa amin.
DeleteSame here! It's because of covid!
DeleteMy husband snores VERY LOUD diko talaga kaya so my adjacent room, syempre pag gising watch tv kwentuhan same room, pag love act but pag tulog na talaga kanya kanya na para walang issue!
ReplyDeletemas gusto ko lang katabi sa pagtulog ang anak ko (still a toddler) kaysa sa asawa ko haha. kanya kanyang trip lang mga cyst
ReplyDeleteKanya kanya naman yan. Kung yun ang set up na nagwowork, why not? samin naman iisang bed pero kanya kanyang blanket. very important ang sleep no.
ReplyDeleteSa mga nagsasabi na sa mga clingy and needy lang ang nagtatabi matulog na mag asawa, di niyo ba naisip na iyon ang norm? If your setup is different than the norm, you don't have to call those normal setup clingy or needy while defending your different setup. Just saying.
ReplyDelete5.54 there's no norm actually because this depends on variety of things like if you have a career in the morning, your work schedule, if you are light sleeper, etc.
DeleteI love how this opened up a conversation abt sleeping arrangements. Clingy kaming mag-asawa pero pagdating sa sleep sked magkaibang magkaiba kami. We started sleeping in separate areas of the house and every weekend naman bawing bawi.
ReplyDeleteEwww, yucky couple. Yuck.
ReplyDeleteHeno naman if di magkatabi? Try nyo expand ng minds nyo minsan
ReplyDeletemalakas din maghilik si hubby pero same bed pa rin kami kasi bingi ako and no difficulty sleeping kahit may dumadaan na tren. LOL!
ReplyDeletemy parents have been married for over 50yrs and maybe half that time hindi na sila magkatabi matulog. When they go home sa pinas for vacation, some friends/relatives nagtataka why they have separate rooms in our house. Sabi lang namin, yun ang trip nila.
ReplyDeleteMany marriage experts say that sleeping together promotes healthy relationship. Kahit na minsan nagi snore or may trouble sleeping, you still find comfort and emotional intimacy In sleeping together. I am sure that given a chance, Heart and Chiz prefer to sleep together. Yun lang palagi nasa Sorsogon si Chiz. Pero malamang naman, mag katabi yan pag umuuwi siya.
ReplyDeleteSorry marriage experts. I’m the expert of my own marriage. My hubby and I don’t sleep together but we have a very healthy and loving relationship.
DeleteThat's true 7:39. Sleeping together is the best and it improves health and personal intimacy but maybe some couple prefer not to for their own personal reasons.
DeleteFilipinos are good in sticking their noses in other people's business. Nosy bunch.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Can they f*cking mind their own business?
DeleteKaya nga tayo anditey sa site ni FP @8:03!
Delete~FP ‘mosa since 2013 and proud! 🤣🤣
One of the reasons why I left the. Whenever I’m not around , some of my office mates would open my payslips just to see how much I was earning. Horrible work behavior.
Deletenasa isang room kami ng asawa ko pera di na kami magkatabing matulog.Eversince magka anak kami 12 years ago. Wala namang problema, masaya naman .Nakatatlo na nga kami .Hello
ReplyDeleteMy parents sleep on separate rooms too. My mom likes the AC on but my dad is ginawin. They've been married for 37 years now.
ReplyDeleteMy partner and I don’t sleep on the same bed.
ReplyDeleteHe snores.
Nothing wrong with not sleeping on the same bed. Boomers with their primitive mentality 🤷🏻♂️
Boomers agad? Eto na naman mga nakikioag gen wars.
DeleteIn the old days, rich people did not sleep on the same bed. It's nothing new.
ReplyDeleteOFW families do that all the time.. Just sayin..
ReplyDeletelolo at lola ko ganyan din, 65yrs na silang kasal haha, simula nagkaisip ako (which is 40++yrs ago) magkahiwalay na sila matulog pero sweet na sweet pa rin till now haha
ReplyDeleteAsawa ko naman very light sleeper, konting galaw ko lang nagigising na. Eh ako naman malikot sa bed. Pero magkatabi pa rin kami matulog, mas lalo kasi sya hndi nkakatulog pag hindi nya ako katabi hahaha!
ReplyDeleteI personally does not want to sleep with my husband because I want all the bed for myself. Haha. We have two bedrooms at home, one for me, and one for my husband. We only sleep on the same bed once or twice a week. No issue for us.
ReplyDeletePang mayayaman lang setup na yan obviously.
ReplyDeleteMalinaw naman ang pagkakasabi and Hearty even explained it sa latest vlog nya. Di sila magkatabi because Gov was in Sorsogon and Heart was in Manila. Hearty even said if nasa iisng bahay sila magkatabi sila minsan na nga lang daw sila magkita because of their works di pa daw ba sila magtatabi?!
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