easy for you to say that..hindi ko alam kung maiinis ako sayo...sana nararamdaman mo din yung mga feelings ng mga babae na tulad ko na hindi mabuntis agad...alam mo ba yung feeling na gusto din namin maramdaman pano maglihi, lumaki ang tyan, manganak...ewan ko sa ibang babae pero sakin last option na lang namin ang adoption...naniniwala parin ako at malakas ang faith ko na mabubuntis ako
12:13 Offensive comment. Not everyone wants to adopt. We, for one is having a difficult time conceiving and people have been bugging us to adopt.
Never comment such on a post about pregnancy or non-pregnancy. It is insensitive and offensive. Parang yan din yung mga tita at tito mo na tuwing makikita ka sasabihan kang, Ang bagal nyo naman! Tingnan mo si Ano at Ano, naka 100 na anak na.
It's easier said than done. My husband and I have been trying for 11 years but unfortunately hindi kami bigyan. Mentally and emotionally ready ako to adopt pero sya hindi. Let's respect other people's choices.
5:43 Oo maraming bata sa ampunan pero ano bang problema mo sa mga taong gustong magkaroon ng sarili nilang anak, mula sa sariling dugo’t laman? Yan ang tagalong ng yearning for your own blood, by the way. So paano naging egotistical yun? Paki explain. Ano, bawal na mag hope and pray na magkaroon ng sariling anak dahil maraming bata sa ampunan?
I have a friend, aftr 6yrs of marriage, nagadopt ng baby girl kht nung una ayaw ng husband nya. Aftr a year, olah, ngkaroon cla ng sariling baby boy nla. Just the same, pareho lang ang love nla sa 2 kids. Ilan din ang kilala kong nagadopt kaht pa nga may sarili silang kids and lalo cla sinuwerte sa buhay.
That is the problem when you publicly post very deeply personal information...you open yourself up to all kinds of comments, including the most inappropriate and selfish kind.
Consider Lang ba. Visit Sa ampunan,ganun.Tingnan ninyo Kung Keri ninyo magmahal Ng Bata na Hindi ninyo kadugo. We once attended a seminar about adoption somewhere in Cubao. Dun nagstart. Ngayon, 6 years old na ang anak namin. Hindi ko man kadugo Pero sobrang Mahal ko.
Kakatapos ko lang magdasal and somehow sinabi sa sarili ko na tanggap ko na na baka hindi talaga para sa akin ang pagiging mommy. Crying while ttping thos comment.
I feel you dear. Same thots but long as we keep the faith in God we will never go wrong. He has something in store for us & much bigger! Besides, these times like right now is not the best time to have kids I think. Cheer up!
12:14, I have a friend who tried in vitro fertilization twice but failed both times. When she and her husband finally gave up trying to have a child, then she got pregnant. My point is sometimes our body responds adversely to stress and pressure, so just relax. Anyway, I really like your positive outlook in life. May God bless you.
9yrs before I got pregnant na nanganak talaga ako. I had 2 miscarriages before our baby boy. Sa totoo lang give up na talaga kami. We just changed into a healthy lifestyle because I got sick last year. Ayun nadamay nagkababy. Praying for all of you because I know how it feels. 🙏
Wag ka mwalan ng hope. May mga friends ako dumaan sa medical process at gumastos ng todo2x but walang nangyari. Nung time na parang accepted na lang nla saka nman nabuntis. Aftr 10yrs pa nga ung isang couple.
Girl not because there are others who has the same situation as hers, it doesn’t mean pareho-pareho sila ng feelings. Some may ne patient and some are not. Some are still hopeful, some are not.
Awww. Kaya sa mga netizens diyan. Be sensitive lang. Huwag tanong ng tanong sa ibang tao o artista kung kelan sila mag aanak o bakit wala pa silang baby. Maybe baka ganito din pinagdadaanan nila na hindi lang nila sinasabi.
Exactly. And sa totoo lang mas di hamak na dapat alam to ng mga kamag-anak pero mas malala pa kadalasan kamag-anak. Buti nga at walang mga reunion ngayon, nakaligtas kami sa mga offensive na tyahin na kung makatanon with matching himas sa tyan eh akala mo napakadaling magkaroon ng baby.
I feel her. We're trying for more than a year and finally consulted the infertility clinic and running some tests. Sometimes, i really feel jealous when i see my friends having new babies and i pity myself why it's too hard for me to have one. I'm still praying and hoping for a miracle from God.
It’s HELL to deal with infertility. My heart aches for every woman who goes through it. Don’t ever let go of that hope no matter how hard it gets. Kapit lang. God hears all our prayers. After 2 miscarriages, He finally blessed us with a son. Sending positive vibes and sticky dusts to all!
Andaming mga batang pinabayaan ng mga magulang na naghahanap ng aruga tapos you hear about people spending a lot of money for treatments like this and for what? Masabi na may anak na “kanila” talaga?
Responsibilidad ba ng mga taong hindi magkaanak pero gusto nila ng sarili nilang anak na saluhin ang mga batang pinabayaan ng mga iresponsableng mga magulang? The answer is a big fat NO.
Don't loose hope. Kapit lang kay God. My hubby and I tried for years to conceive. Bcoz of PCOS, we had a hard time. Doctors, hilot, tests, meds/herbal at ivf. We were laughed at, called baog and all that. Sabi namin sa sarili namin if it wasn't ment to be na biyayaan kami, thank you. If not, we'll enjoy life instead na puro meds at tests na lang.
We stopped all the craziness. As in detox from all meds. A year later I felt sick after we came back from vacation. Never namin inexpect. Bff ko lang nagsuggest try mag-pt. yrs of trying and praying, we finally got pregnant.
Still have PCOS but extremely blessed with now a 10 yrs old son, a 5 yr old daugther and a 2 yr son. Funny thing is OB ok na nagrequest enough na yung 3 kids. Coz all my pregnancies were all high risked.
I tried for 6 years, I was 36 when I finally got pregnant and now my daughter is 21 years old. Never give up and stay positive. I had stopped all my meds and was resigned with not having a child when I learned I was pregnant. The Lord answered my prayers in His own time.
My sister had a very slim chance to get pregnant. She and her husband had to do everything just for her to get pregnant kaso wala talaga until both of them gave up. Napagod na sila from trying. Months after they stopped one day nalang my sister was feeling different yun pala buntis na sya. Miracles do happen. After the first birth sinabihan na sya na she will never get pregnant again. 6 years after nabuntis sya ulit. Kaya dasal lang talaga. Let go and let God.
I had miscarriages three times and the following day I had to take good care of my toddlers(5&4 years old). Now, am delayed for more than a month but I had my PT and its negative. I felt like my body is completely shutting my hope of baby #3. And I hated it when people constantly asked me why no baby #3. And had to asked me if I’m on contraceptive. Nobody considered the horror of miscarriages, let alone 3 times.
But, while it hurts, I know that God is a giver of life.
As mundane as this sounds, hugs and prayers to you sis. Take care of yourself muna and take it one day at a time. Di lang talaga natin alam ano ang nakatadhana para sa atin.
Sis, you had been blessed with 2 kids already. Don't pressure yourself dahil lang sa opinion ng ibang tao. Next time somebody asks you bat walang #3 tell them to shut it and mind their own business. It will make u feel better shutting the pakialameras.
I feel her I’ve been through IVF I know how it feels . After miscarriages and 2 IVF’s now a have a beautiful baby. Never give up , have faith. Nag novena kami ng husband ko for 9 months every month for 9 days . Pray hard , God will grant your prayers.
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ReplyDeleteEasy for you to say that.
Deleteeasy for you to say that..hindi ko alam kung maiinis ako sayo...sana nararamdaman mo din yung mga feelings ng mga babae na tulad ko na hindi mabuntis agad...alam mo ba yung feeling na gusto din namin maramdaman pano maglihi, lumaki ang tyan, manganak...ewan ko sa ibang babae pero sakin last option na lang namin ang adoption...naniniwala parin ako at malakas ang faith ko na mabubuntis ako
Delete12:13 Offensive comment. Not everyone wants to adopt. We, for one is having a difficult time conceiving and people have been bugging us to adopt.
DeleteNever comment such on a post about pregnancy or non-pregnancy. It is insensitive and offensive. Parang yan din yung mga tita at tito mo na tuwing makikita ka sasabihan kang, Ang bagal nyo naman! Tingnan mo si Ano at Ano, naka 100 na anak na.
Bakit ayaw ninyo mag-adopt?
DeleteIt's easier said than done. My husband and I have been trying for 11 years but unfortunately hindi kami bigyan. Mentally and emotionally ready ako to adopt pero sya hindi. Let's respect other people's choices.
DeleteOo nga eh napaka insensitive ng suggestion. Iba ang yearning for your own blood
DeleteAdoption is not for everybody
Deletetheres IVF ya know.
Delete12:13, Tsupe!
DeleteAng egotistical nung “yearning for your own blood” andami2ng bata sa ampunan.
Delete5:43 Oo maraming bata sa ampunan pero ano bang problema mo sa mga taong gustong magkaroon ng sarili nilang anak, mula sa sariling dugo’t laman? Yan ang tagalong ng yearning for your own blood, by the way. So paano naging egotistical yun? Paki explain. Ano, bawal na mag hope and pray na magkaroon ng sariling anak dahil maraming bata sa ampunan?
Delete@5:43 then adopt all those kids and leave all those struggling couples alone. They already have enough on their plate. They don't need your judgement
DeleteI have a friend, aftr 6yrs of marriage, nagadopt ng baby girl kht nung una ayaw ng husband nya. Aftr a year, olah, ngkaroon cla ng sariling baby boy nla. Just the same, pareho lang ang love nla sa 2 kids. Ilan din ang kilala kong nagadopt kaht pa nga may sarili silang kids and lalo cla sinuwerte sa buhay.
DeleteRespect people's choices! Wag makialam. Nagmamagaling eh!
DeleteThat is the problem when you publicly post very deeply personal information...you open yourself up to all kinds of comments, including the most inappropriate and selfish kind.
DeleteConsider Lang ba. Visit Sa ampunan,ganun.Tingnan ninyo Kung Keri ninyo magmahal Ng Bata na Hindi ninyo kadugo. We once attended a seminar about adoption somewhere in Cubao. Dun nagstart. Ngayon, 6 years old na ang anak namin. Hindi ko man kadugo Pero sobrang Mahal ko.
Delete5:43 bakit ako mag-aadopt e I was able to have babies the natural way?
Delete12:48 then stop posting your struggles on social media kung ayaw niyo may nakikialam
Kakatapos ko lang magdasal and somehow sinabi sa sarili ko na tanggap ko na na baka hindi talaga para sa akin ang pagiging mommy. Crying while ttping thos comment.
ReplyDeleteI feel you dear. Same thots but long as we keep the faith in God we will never go wrong. He has something in store for us & much bigger! Besides, these times like right now is not the best time to have kids I think. Cheer up!
DeleteI feel you..
Delete12:14, I have a friend who tried in vitro fertilization twice but failed both times. When she and her husband finally gave up trying to have a child, then she got pregnant. My point is sometimes our body responds adversely to stress and pressure, so just relax. Anyway, I really like your positive outlook in life. May God bless you.
DeleteDon't loose hope. I feel you as well.
Delete9yrs before I got pregnant na nanganak talaga ako. I had 2 miscarriages before our baby boy. Sa totoo lang give up na talaga kami. We just changed into a healthy lifestyle because I got sick last year. Ayun nadamay nagkababy. Praying for all of you because I know how it feels. 🙏
DeleteWag ka mwalan ng hope. May mga friends ako dumaan sa medical process at gumastos ng todo2x but walang nangyari. Nung time na parang accepted na lang nla saka nman nabuntis. Aftr 10yrs pa nga ung isang couple.
DeleteNever lose hope. Keep the faith.
ReplyDeleteP.S Ganda ng rings niya ha.
Gurl ur not alone, a lot of women are going through the same situation. Just be patient miracles do happen.
ReplyDeleteGirl not because there are others who has the same situation as hers, it doesn’t mean pareho-pareho sila ng feelings. Some may ne patient and some are not. Some are still hopeful, some are not.
DeleteShe is a member for an infertility support group on fb that im part of as well. Baby dust to us...
ReplyDeleteGone are the days that I hide my diary even from my family, for the sake of privacy.
ReplyDelete12:32 gone na talaga girl matagal na. it's the digital age. sang kweba k ba nagtago with your diary?
DeleteEwan ko din ba. Nawala na sense of propriety ng mga tao.
DeleteAwww. Kaya sa mga netizens diyan. Be sensitive lang. Huwag tanong ng tanong sa ibang tao o artista kung kelan sila mag aanak o bakit wala pa silang baby. Maybe baka ganito din pinagdadaanan nila na hindi lang nila sinasabi.
ReplyDeleteExactly. And sa totoo lang mas di hamak na dapat alam to ng mga kamag-anak pero mas malala pa kadalasan kamag-anak. Buti nga at walang mga reunion ngayon, nakaligtas kami sa mga offensive na tyahin na kung makatanon with matching himas sa tyan eh akala mo napakadaling magkaroon ng baby.
DeleteI feel her. We're trying for more than a year and finally consulted the infertility clinic and running some tests. Sometimes, i really feel jealous when i see my friends having new babies and i pity myself why it's too hard for me to have one. I'm still praying and hoping for a miracle from God.
ReplyDeleteDon't lose hope. We are trying to have a baby for 2 years and God finally answered our prayers this 2020 😍
DeleteI tried for 8 years and now we have a healthy 5yo.
DeleteMy husband and I changed into a healthier lifestyle and also had himself “checked”. May mga guys kasi mashadong ma-pride ayaw magpa-check.
Good luck sis.
It’s HELL to deal with infertility. My heart aches for every woman who goes through it. Don’t ever let go of that hope no matter how hard it gets. Kapit lang. God hears all our prayers. After 2 miscarriages, He finally blessed us with a son. Sending positive vibes and sticky dusts to all!
ReplyDeleteAndaming mga batang pinabayaan ng mga magulang na naghahanap ng aruga tapos you hear about people spending a lot of money for treatments like this and for what? Masabi na may anak na “kanila” talaga?
ReplyDeleteResponsibilidad ba ng mga taong hindi magkaanak pero gusto nila ng sarili nilang anak na saluhin ang mga batang pinabayaan ng mga iresponsableng mga magulang? The answer is a big fat NO.
DeletePlease try Keto Diet! It might work for you my dears...
ReplyDeleteBaby dust to everyone n gustong magkababy! Currently 38 weeks today after 4 miscarriages. God bless us all.
ReplyDeleteKapit lang. Si assunta nga more than 10 years bago nagkaanak..miracle baby niya kasi di nila inaasahan at naggive up na siya pero dumating bigla
ReplyDeleteSana mangyari na this 2021
ReplyDeleteDon't loose hope. Kapit lang kay God. My hubby and I tried for years to conceive. Bcoz of PCOS, we had a hard time. Doctors, hilot, tests, meds/herbal at ivf. We were laughed at, called baog and all that. Sabi namin sa sarili namin if it wasn't ment to be na biyayaan kami, thank you. If not, we'll enjoy life instead na puro meds at tests na lang.
ReplyDeleteWe stopped all the craziness. As in detox from all meds. A year later I felt sick after we came back from vacation. Never namin inexpect. Bff ko lang nagsuggest try mag-pt. yrs of trying and praying, we finally got pregnant.
Still have PCOS but extremely blessed with now a 10 yrs old son, a 5 yr old daugther and a 2 yr son.
Funny thing is OB ok na nagrequest enough na yung 3 kids. Coz all my pregnancies were all high risked.
I tried for 6 years, I was 36 when I finally got pregnant and now my daughter is 21 years old. Never give up and stay positive. I had stopped all my meds and was resigned with not having a child when I learned I was pregnant. The Lord answered my prayers in His own time.
ReplyDeleteMy sister had a very slim chance to get pregnant. She and her husband had to do everything just for her to get pregnant kaso wala talaga until both of them gave up. Napagod na sila from trying. Months after they stopped one day nalang my sister was feeling different yun pala buntis na sya. Miracles do happen. After the first birth sinabihan na sya na she will never get pregnant again. 6 years after nabuntis sya ulit. Kaya dasal lang talaga. Let go and let God.
ReplyDeleteMeron akong mga kakilala kung kelan nagstop magmedication, procedure, etc and parang nilift na lang nila fully to God lahat, dun nabbuntis.
DeleteI had miscarriages three times and the following day I had to take good care of my toddlers(5&4 years old). Now, am delayed for more than a month but I had my PT and its negative. I felt like my body is completely shutting my hope of baby #3. And I hated it when people constantly asked me why no baby #3. And had to asked me if I’m on contraceptive. Nobody considered the horror of miscarriages, let alone 3 times.
ReplyDeleteBut, while it hurts, I know that God is a giver of life.
As mundane as this sounds, hugs and prayers to you sis. Take care of yourself muna and take it one day at a time. Di lang talaga natin alam ano ang nakatadhana para sa atin.
DeleteSis, you had been blessed with 2 kids already. Don't pressure yourself dahil lang sa opinion ng ibang tao. Next time somebody asks you bat walang #3 tell them to shut it and mind their own business. It will make u feel better shutting the pakialameras.
DeletePeople can imagine how it feels like but only someone who has gone through the same journey can truly understand. Keep the faith!
ReplyDeleteDon’t fight mother nature. Some people are not meant to be biological mothers.
ReplyDeleteSome people are not meant to be tactful.
DeleteSome people are not meant to give opinions about this sensitive topic
DeleteAs per mother nature some people are not meant to open their mouth
ReplyDeleteI feel her I’ve been through IVF I know how it feels . After miscarriages and 2 IVF’s now a have a beautiful baby. Never give up , have faith. Nag novena kami ng husband ko for 9 months every month for 9 days . Pray hard , God will grant your prayers.
ReplyDeleteFor all struggling to get pregnant and if you believe in Mama Mary, try visiting Mountain of Salvacion in Batangas.
ReplyDeleteI failed IVF once, the second try, I got pregnant. I have 1 year old twins now. Walang mawawala if you try ;)
Ilang fertilized eggs?
DeleteI got 4 out of 6.
DeleteYes pray to mama Mary ,Immaculate Conception novena, also St Jude hope for the hopeless and St Anthony of Padua .
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