Josmio 11:14 STOP. Cringey ung way ng paghandle ni Sarah ng situation pero we are not in the position para sabhin kung anong trabaho dapat nya gawin at sinisi pa sya sa rape? You are one DISGUSTING human being.I just hope na wala kang anak because with that way of thinkig kawawa ang bata.
11:14, rape victin dont choose to be rape kahit sa anong sitwasyon, na niniwala akong na rape sya, sa totoo lang sobrang baba ng reported rape sa philippines, ung ibang tao ang di ma gets, pag na rape ka you always feel powerless na wala ka ng magagawa, you try bury it inside you brain, but sometimes may trigger, ung bigla bigla maalala mo, tapos magagalit ka kasi 11 yrs old ka lang nun, ngayon matanda ka na at alam mo na dapat may ginawa dapat naging matapang ka dapat may tumulong sayo pero wala, atleast sya na tuto syang mag trust ulit sa lalake, meron iba until now ayaw padin sa intimacy sa lalake, one thing for sure di nakaka limutan ang rape ma alala mo un at malala kahit anong pilit mong kalimutan.
Is social media really the best avenue to say all these things especially involving your family? I hope a psychiatrist will reach out to her confidentially.
parang nasa process sya ng therapy, pero eto kasi ung delikado na stage, kapag naopen ang trauma, sapat derederetso ang tnerapy. I hope she finds healing soon.
4:12 Hindi kaya libre yung therapy nya? Diba sa UK meron silang tinatawag na NHS (National Health Service) where they can avail free medical services? Kasi the UK is a welfare state. I could be wrong.
Yes she can get it free, I live in the UK she can get all the support that she will need. She can get child support as well if she’s in a low income category.
12:36 as a victim of abuse and my mother not doing anything, I understand why she is like this. Granted, I do not have a celebrity status like she and her family do, I do feel so much for her and it’s her only way to release YEARS AND YEARS of coping and repressing memories until you can no longer suppress the injustice. So not all of it is for attention, to be raped and abused comes with severe trauma. I was abused for many years with different people as a minor and no one even stepped up for me. And survivors cope differently. Actually, mas maganda nilalabas nya yan ng ganyan kaysa self harm and drugs - don’t you think?
Well said 4:20.. Sana maintindihan ng mga tao, iba iba ang coping mechanisms natin.. Sabi nga nya, mas lumuluwag pakiramdam nya, kung nailalabas nya. Yun ang pakiramdam nya, sino tayo to judge her? And also to be fair, hindi parin natin alam side ng mom nya, pero as she claimed as the victim, lets all be respectfull sa knya..
There she goes again. I dont want to judge her dahil baka na rape nga sya talaga. Kaso it seems like she is using it for fame? And people with anxiety, ganyan ba talaga ka grabe yung sweat ng hands? Sweaty hands ko pero di naman visible na ganyan. I am open for opinions.
Nope hindi po ganyan,na halos tumutulo yung pawis.pinagpawisan lang po ng malamig at halos d ka nnn makaka usap pag umaaaTKe N kase ganun po ako. Exagg namna masyaDo uung kanya at nakakapag picture pa. Eh ako pag inaatake na d mo nga halos alam kong an gagawin mo basta mahirap ang anxiety attack at panic attack d ma explain ang naramdaman mo. Feeling mo mamatay kana hayyy. Pero kanya ewN ko masyadong sobrang basa naman para nilubog muna aa tubig 🤔
Hi. I’m sorry you experience anxiety too. But if you are unaware... It is different for everyone. When I’m Anxious and have nothing going on, my world shuts down. When I’m anxious in a social scenario, i black out. When I’m anxious and I have to get shit done, I tune everything out. It’s different for every situation
And if you’re wondering why shes letting this out on social media. It’s because she is being HEARD. For the first time in her life, Mayroong gustong makinig. It doesn’t matter what or who it is. But she has pain she needs to let go of, pain she needs to pour out and finally someone wants to listen.
Parents are molder of people. Literally responsible of someone else’s life and how they would deal with their future going forth . I feel so bad for the trauma she has to experience her whole life because of someone who was incapable of taking care of her
Hi! I watch her mom's vlogs, may condition sila ng mom nya na ganyan. Sa nanay nya namana. Feaniture sa vlog yung paggagamot nya ng kamay. Minsan nga pwede daw pigaan ng basahan sa sobrang tulo
I’ve been suffering from hyperhidrosis my entire life and my palms sweat ng ganyan kalala. I don’t have anxiety disorder but the sweaty palms makes me socially anxious and embarrassed most times. Imagine Ama Namin during mass, handshakes during interviews, HHWW-ing someone for the first time. Ugh
Truth 1:04. I know somehow n grabe rin pagpawisan ang hands, yung feeling para sponge n kapaghinahawakan ko ang hands nya. But hndi nman sya umaabot s tumutulo ang pawis
Hay, dati before my kids, talagang konting trigger lang ng anxiety no hindi mo mapipigilan yung shake ng katawan mo na nanlalamig. Dito ko lang sa fp nabasa na anxiety na pala yun. Akala ko nababaliw na ako o kaya may sakit.
I feel you 2:06 same here. No anxiety pero may season na ganyan talaga yung sweat ng kamay ko. Kaya lumaki akong may baong panyo or bimpo na para lang sa kamay ko. Same here, Ama Namin and handshakes can be embarrassing. I wanted to pursue interior design but opted out because, excessively sweaty hands.
2:06 I feel you... I dont have anxiety (Tnx God) but grabe mag pawis kamay at paa ko. Tumutulo talaga. Kaya parati ako talo sa ML kasi pawisin kamay ko hahhaha
antidepressants are used to treat anxiety. one of the side effects is night sweats, so sometimes u wake up drenched in sweat kahit sobrang lamig.. i know cos it happens to me
I don't get it. why in social media? if indeed it happened to her dapat sa authorities cya makipag usap and file a case. as for anxiety dapat sa doctor nya cya mag consulta bakit sa social media. Netizens ba ang mag file ng case for her and also cure her for her anxiety? ang makukuha nya wagas na bashing. KSP pa more.
We can't judge her. Sabi nga nya may nakakausap sya pero hindi sapat. So i think dahil nakakakuha sya ng attention thru social media kaya dito nya idinadaan ang feelings nya. Kumbaga nagiging outlet nya ito dahil sa kanyang condition. Maaaring mali para sa atin na nakakasagap tayo ng personal issues nila. But it helps her in coping with her anxiety or mental issues. Hope somebody could help her, mukhang kelangan talaga ng psych treatment sa trauma nya from what happened
Agree! Kahit sabihin na hindi dapat ipubliko ang issue nila, social media ang outlet niya para mag-cope. To each their own, iyan ang pakiramdam niya na nakakatulong sa mental health niya.
Not a celebrity but sharing private matters in socmed? Anong point? And how can she nonchalantly say she was gang raped? Does she want every one to hate her mom to exact the pain she is suffering? I’ve worked with rape victims and it wasn’t that easy for them to say na-rape ako. Most of them were either ashamed of it or was too painful to even talk about it, let alone share it with people they don’t know.
Tapos sya parang ginagawa nya pang identity. Sana ilugar nya yung tapang nya. Instead mag ingay sya edi file for a case or mention nya mga nang baboy sa kanya. What is she really gaining from babbling about this.
Truth 12:47. Ang iba p nga ay umaabot p ng ilang taon bago gumaling ang sakit from that experience on which hndi p alam ng love ones nila n nangyari yun s kanila.
Didn't you read? It was not easy for her to say it at first. She said she suppressed her feeling for a really long time at now lang niya talaga masabi. Basa basa muna bago react.
i saw a rape of a family relative to a family relative at a tender age of 8. and we all turned out extremely successful in our fields of work. i, myself, was a victim to multiple acts of lasciviousness by older adults. they took my youth and it still haunts me to this day but i can never share it blithely as she does. we can all feel victims for the rest of our lives but the choice to be normal is always there for the taking. stop being a victim and start living. there are many of us who choose that route. getting stuck in the past is never healthy.
11:16 nagbasa kaba ng post nya?? Mader nga nya nag blame sa kanya and walang naisampa na kaso dhl walang aksyon Mama nya! Kung sakin nangyare un baka ipa salvage ang mga rapist ng tatay ko! Kht 50yrs payan maalala mopa pang rarape sayo. Ano yun iligo mo lang limot mona?? Masyado kang bulag sa idol mo
1:09 am, Ang gulo niya, paiba-iba ang post/istorya niya. Sabi niya hanapin daw record sa Pasig. Ngayon, sabi daw hindi ng-file ng rape case?
Kung may record siya sa Pasig, meron din iyan recorded medical examination na magagamit nila against those people who rape her.
Naka-focus lang siya sa galit over the years and not doing anything to seek justice?
Kung hindi siya tinulugnan ng Nanay niya to file a rape case kase bata pa siya when it happened, why didnt She do it (herself) when she's 16 or 18 years old?
If Sarah wants justice after being gang rape,she should purse those who rape her.
I was sexually harassed so i knew how it felt.
What she doing is to let public fest on her private family life. May makukuha ka bang justice sa socmed?
I’m not saying na nanay niya lang. But the Mom is gets the equal blame here. Imagine na i-bugaw mo (if it’s true..) ang underage? That’s child abuse at sa totoo lang nakakasuka.
So sana talaga, hindi niya ginagawa ‘to just to gain attention..
12:53 Uhm.. lahat naman tayo may social media account kahit hindi celebrity... lahat din tayo pwedeng mag post ng kahit ano, depende nalang kungmay papansin. Anong ironic sa sinabi niyang hindi sya celebrity? pinagsasabi mo?
12:30 bilang mahina ang comprehension mo te ako na mag explain. She said she isn’t a celebrity but she’s pretending to be one. If she’s a private person, why would she entertain q&a and share it publicly? Why would she air her personal problems publicly when she could have dealt with it in private- therapy groups/psychiatrist/her own family, etc. If you’re a private person, you don’t want anybody minding your business or giving you unsolicited advice. Let’s be honest, she wants revenge on her mom. She’s obviously at the bottom and she wants to take everyone with her as well and her sister and mom knows what she’s doing kaya hindi siya pinapansin.
This girl is obviously disturbed. If true yung allegations nya, then better see a therapist frequently to deal with her trauma and file a case. Wag siya magkalat sa social media.
Minsan hindi enough yong isang tao lang kausap mo...mas gumagaan ang pakiramdam kung marami kang nasasabihan ng problema. Ang mali lang is sa social media sya nagsumbong na kung saan maraming mosang and it's a very sensitive topic. Nakakaloka...kung totoo man yong sinasabi nya, it's very sad. Ang magulang dapat nagpoprotekta sa anak😫
The answer is, because she has no one to lean on. She’s living in UK and she’s living with her kids who she obviously can’t vent out. She’s married to British who I’m thinking doesn’t want to be involved too much about family drama (it’s not on their culture, trust me. I’m married to British too)
When you’re feeling alone overseas, it’s helpful to vent out on social media. Or else you’ll be eaten alive.
The only thing I could think of and also I did when I had issues with my family in Philippines, I went to a counsellor. It helped me lessen venting out on social media.
102 grabe nakaka relate ako sa'yo European din hubby ko at true hindi talaga sila nakikialam sa mga ganyan. Isa pa makikinig nman hubby ko but wlang reaction or anumang sympathy na gusto mo. 😂 Sa akin lang, hindi ako nagpopost online. Nakakahiya din. Kaya cgro pa depress na ako buti nlang nagkaanak ako kaya masaya na uli ang buhay. 😄
@1:43. Baka kasi mas malaki ang kinikita niya compared sa husband niya. Siyempre kung sino ang stronger earner yun talaga maiiwan sa pagtratrabaho tapos sa bahay yung isa. Parang dito lang din sa Pinas, may mga houseband kung tawagin pag no choice na dapat may maiwan sa kids.
Life is full of choices. If you gain an advantage living a life that has social security, loneliness naman ang abot mo. Like I said, choices. And ang choices meron ding excuses.
Ganyan ang buhay. May times na situations will test your character and how people judge you. In this case, di akong magtataka na may mali din siguro ung mom nya na lumaki ng ganito.
Then again, if her mom is into money as Sarah claims, then how come she is with a humble ambulance driver? Dba pag pera habol mo, ur instinct is to 'aim higher' ika nga?
If she was indeed molested as a minor then surely there were other people besides the mom na sinabihan nya. If so, bakit hindi? So many questions. But bless you, Sarah.
2:18 bat ang sama ng sagot mo??? Nag iinform lang naman yung tao about what she did better to vent anger since nasa UK din sya. Eh bat ikaw bat di ikaw mag reach out tutal kulang pa daw
I agree with Pinay living in UK. Medyo depressing nga dyan sa UK. A cousin of mine took her life due to depression. Okay nga yan si girl, nailalabas nya yun nga lang medyo di maganda lang mga post. I can't blame her kasi she had a bad experience, hindi hinarap kaya ngayon may effect sa mental health nya
They were minors with no other parent. What is supposed to happen to a 10 and 11 year old children without any parents. How will a minor afford a lawyer and even know what to do? Use your brain
There are support groups of organizations whose advocacy is to help people like Sarah. Talaga? Itag si pia at sagutin ang fans ni Pia?
Im sorry she went through what she did but she wont get the help shes looking for kung toxic na instagram comments any hagap nya. And may private message sa groups.
How can she not grab attention with behavior like that? She does not even make her profile private. Bakit kailangang madaming tao ang makarinig? Wish her all the best but social media wont help her in the long run.
She was born with sweaty hands condition. She showed it in a Vlog even using a machine to treat it Meaning, the sweaty hands is not just because of anxiety.
Hindi ba pareha sa ibang Eu countries na one year maternity leave with pay sa Uk? At after pwede na ilagay sa parang day care yung baby or baka ayaw nila ng ganyan. Or pwede din paternity leave ng many months with pay para may kasama ang mga anak. Ganyan kasi ginagawa ng iba. Iba nman sa akin 3years maternity leave ko but yung 2 years wlang pay na.
I am the Pinay living in UK. It's true. It's cheaper expenses kung isa lang mag wowork. Pag dalawang parents nagwowork, lalo na both full time, mas mahal ang gastos sa bata dahil kailangan ng child minder. Baka akala mo presyo ng child minder dito sa UK? Kung magpapart time naman yung isa, mapupunta lang din yung sweldo sa child minder during the time na nagwowork sila di pa nila nasusubaybayan mga anak nila. Common thing dito sa UK na kapag may anak ka, isa lang magwowork sainyo para maalagaan din mabuti yung bata, nakakatipid pa. I work fulltime, my husband does too. We chose not to have kids dahil kailangan ko tumigil sa work pag nagkaanak ako and I don't want to stop working.
Thanks for sharing your story. I understand your reasons for choosing not to have kids.
I'm unmarried and child free. I hope to meet a guy who wants to remain child free too. I never wanted kids and never wanted to be a mother. Most (if not all) Pinoys here can't understand my decision. Alam mo naman ang mga tao dito. Hardcore traditional.
07:46 it was my husband who's actually don't want kids. Pero 7 years na kami and I am starting to understand na mahirap mag anak talaga lalo na wala akong kamag anak na kasama mag alaga dito sa UK unless titigil ako sa pagwowork which I don't want to. At the same time, me and my husband love to spend time together, we travel a lot, we eat and drink out on weekends, we do not want commitment na pipigil samin gawin yon. My family in Philippines ask me about this all the time but they don't get it. However ngayon pandemic mas naiintindihan nila na mas madali ang walang bata during this difficult time
The hate, anxiety and all the negative feelings she has towards her mother is deeply rooted. But if she dishes out everything on social media lahat talo. Walang mananalo as ginagawa niya.
I agree. She needs therapy and that's not something she can get from social media. Someone in her small circle needs to intervene and help. Maybe Pia is trying, but we don't know that.
2:43 maybe nman Pia try to reach out to her but its hard to process to Sarah since what I can see, Pia seems to be neutral or in the middle of her mom and sister. Dba sbi p nga ni Sarah n okay n sila ni Pia?? Mabait si Pia and Im glad n hndi sya nag aair ng sentiment nya about this on SNS since lalo lang lalala ang situation ng pamilya nila. Its still the best n pag usapan nila ito privately. If hndi p kaya ng either camp, best n lumayo muna sila s SNS since wla din nman magandang magagawa ito.
Ang totoong may anxiety problems, di sa social media magtatatalak, sa psychologist siya makikipag-usap 🤷🏻♂️ May anxiety na nga daw siya kuno, magsococial media pa siya kung saan pwede siyang lalong magstressed ng comments ko at comments niyo 😉
Grabe impact nito sa image and career ni Pia! Imagine the endorsements and all! Syempre di maiiwasang may magtanong and magisip if she experienced the same thing also. Hopefully NOT
Let her lash out. She has every right to. When someone goes through extreme trauma like that, the victim is allowed to lash out anyway she wants. It will help her heal.
At the expense of others, 4;11? she could private her lash outs kasi the more she do this, the more it's difficult for their family to be fix and for her to be heal because pinagpipiyestahan k and your family.
Ang daming galit ah. I just hope hindi niyo pagdaanan ang pinagdaanan at pinagdadaanan niya. Stop comparing her to other people na may anxiety o na-rape kasi we deal with our traumas differently, walang point yang pag compare niyo. Show some compassion, lalo na kung wala naman kayong 1st hand knowledge kung ano totoong nangyari. Her post may be public but it doesn't give you the right to be mean and judge her.
Her posts are public, its fair game and open to discussion and scrutiny. Harsh, but that's just how the world works..saka wag ka magmalinis, cheese mozarella ka din.
If your own mother fed you to your abusers then she doesn’t deserve any respect. She forfeited her right as a mom when she turned her back on protecting her child.
Normal dito yung parehong may trabaho ang mag-asawa. Lalo na pinoy family. Yung lalake panggabi, yung babae pang-araw or the opposite. It is not very ideal kasi bihira silang magkakasama bilang mag-anak ng kumpleto. Pero kung gusto nilang may income na sapat, may ganung klaseng sakripisyo. Kaya hindi ako bilib sa excuse ni Sarah. My husband has minimum income pero sumasideline siya, bukod dun full time din ako. Pareho kaming pagod pero kailangan eh.
Maybe its normal, but its not for everyone.ung iba mas gusto nila maeron naiiwan sa mga bata and may iba naman mas priority ang mas malaking income. Depende yan sa tao and pag uusap ng mag asawa. Hindi namana tama nanixompare mo sha sayo or sa iba kase iba iba ang circumstances and needs ng bawat isa sa atin. In other words, what works for you may not work for you or other people and viceversa.
Different strokes for different folks it doesn’t mean it works for you works for everyone. The guidance that the parent gives to the child is better and it cannot be bought by money. So don’t assume Anon 7:12 am
How many kids do they have? Dalawa na ba? Sana kung nun isa palang anak at alam nila hirap financially, sana hangang isa na lang. sana people will practice responsible parenting. Ako nga hangang isa lang kasi alam ko mahirap buhay and children need a lot of attention aside from financial needs.
Bakla, kung sa tulfo yan mas lalo silang pagpi pyestahan. Nakakaawa na yong sitwasyon nila ngayon kung totoo man yong nangyari sa kanya, mas magiging malala ang sitwasyon pag sa tulfo.
Read again 9:42, no one is telling her here to stop looking for justice. What people are saying is social media is not the right avenue, if she wants to file a case sa korte dapat.
9:42 Gurl, huge percentage of people her tells her that social media is not the right venue for this. Go to court!! Get out on SNS kasi wla nman tlgang naiitulong ang paggaganito nya. Imbes, lalo lng lala ang situation and her condition. Also, she needs to take her therapy seriously. This is for her own good.
2:50, 5:28, Justice isn't always available in the courts, and as Filipinos dapat sobrang familiar na tayo dyan diba. I always find this statement "dalhin mo nalang yan sa korte" as invalidating and another way to try to shut a victim up. Gross behavior, if you ask me.
10:10 so ano purpose sa social media? To vent? Hindi lahat ng tao can be trusted. She can seek help from groups, for sure sila makakatulong ndi random person sa internet. Kahit i-kwento naman niya sa lahat, ang ending naman talaga nito is dadalhin sa korte. Unless, ang goal niya talaga is siraan mother niya sa public?
6:01, yes, mas malamang na alam ng therapist niya na nag-vevent siya sa social media. Kung iyon ang isang way na makatulong sa healing niya, then the therapist will support it.
kakaloka si girl, kung totoo na si mommy C. ang dahilan ng pag kaka rape niya, hindi ko ipapaalaga ang anak ko, ni hindi ko iiwan mag isa sa pangangalaga ni Mommy C, nanonood ako ng vlogs ni mother and nakikita ko talagang pinapaalagsan yung kids kay Mommy C, may time pa nga napanood ko bumili si Mommy C ng necklace na may whistle para daw to protect Lara lalo na pag nasa public. and you can see na close ang kids sa lola nila, i think hindi mapepeke yung closeness ng kids sa lola nila. Kakalungkot to see na kung anu-ano tinatawag niya sa mom niya.
I agree! May vlog pa nga na pinag uusapan ni Pia at ni Mommy C mga anak nya at tuwang tuwa sila. Na male version daw nyang si sarah si logan. I cant help but to hate this woman! Mabuti lang hanggang may pakinabang sya! Pag wala na aba sisirain. Nanay pa mandin nya
May pinaghuhugutan yan, hindi yan ganyan kung wala. Probably she is saying the truth. Minsan kasi nag mamanifest na lang yung effect ng past pagkalipas ng marami years. I know because I've seen that to some people.
Ginoo ko. I just saw her tirade yesterday on YouTube kaya napa comment ako sa channel ng nanay nya kasi naawa ako. Kung maka sabi sya ng f*** her parang di nya nanay yong sinabihan. What is it now??? OMG grabe na to. I feel bad for every one involved.
Kung totoo yong sinasabi nya, what a horrible thing for a parent to do!di ko ma imagine magagawa yon ng nanay nya sa kanya, pero sila lang nakakaalam ng totoo. sana lang instead na sa social media sya nag ganyan, naghanap sana sya ng at least two friends nya na makakausap. 2020 is such a horrible year. Sana magharap silang mag-ina at pag usapan yong issues nila. This is too much.
Has anyone her got raped multiple times before? Kung hindi, wala kayong karapatan mag comment because you don’t understand the pain, lalo na kung yung sarili ina pa pala yung nang bugaw sa kanya (kung totoo man). For ffs, she was only 12 years, not even a teenager.
Yung “pagpapapansin” niya sa social media is probably a way to cope with the trauma. Yung sabihan niyo sayang ang toxic at ang nega is beyond unacceptable. You don’t understand the rage she feels sa mga gumawa neto.
Bakit ngayon Lang siya nag iingay? It’s because it’s not easy to admit it and it’s not easy to tell people about it.
Wag sa social media at mag file dapat ng kaso? How? She’s in the UK.
Lawakan ang comprehension at ang understanding mga kumare at sana hindi mangyari sa inyo to.
2:58 that's really true. My husband has less compassion than most of the people I know. He grew up na malayo loob niya sa family niya so medyo wala siyang emotion when it comes to other people. Sakin lang siya may emotion and sa puppy namin. Other than that, he doesn't care about family dramas. When we were first together siyempre more say siya ng mga inputs niya pero he's very straight to the point na my family will never change so I should make my own changes para di ako maapektuhan at ang marriage namin. Kasi nga naman he doesn't like seeing me cry because of my family in Philippines (yes, it's all about money) that's why he doesn't like my family but at the same time, ayaw niya ng mga drama kasi waste of time daw.
Lift it all to God and pray for forgiveness and healing and He will set you free Sarah.Life is too short.Only God can help you emotionally,spiritually, and financially.If God can forgive us who are we to not forgive.Godbless you.
Why don’t you try to look at her in her point of view? Would she publicly shame her Mom if it was baseless? I feel for her because I saw my cousin go through the same thing and everyone in the family knew but kept quiet because ‘Nanay mo yan. Nakakahiya pa kung ma eskandalo tayo.’ Its horrific to think that the person who should be protecting you is doing the complete opposite. But it happens! Aminin niyo yan. May mga kilala kayong ganyan.
I pity her, but she's an adult now so she should act mature. Whatever happened to her in the past, she needs to overcome and rise above it instead of dragging everyone down with her. May kids na sya, baka maging negative pa impact ng rants nya sa kids nya
I think it's time for Pia and her mother to speak up, for this sensitive issue's clarification. If this lady's accusation with her mother is true, what kind of a mother she is? If it's a lie, what is Sarah's motive to ridicule her mother? Sad, this is happening to this family.
The way this goes on can only be irreparable. Right now it's a point of no return. Marami na nasabi hurtful words and accusations. One thing for sure, kung totoo therapy nya, continue w/o posting negatively. Prayers on all involved. Sana hindi ma-apektuhan career ni Pia, kasi looks like nakakatulong naman sa pamilya earnings nya. Nothing is impossible, hoping for a happy ending. I only hope ok si Logan&Lara.
I find it so hard to believe her. If you were solicited by your mom as a child, would you entrust your own kids to the same person? Dun pa lang, questionable na
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Ba nag file sya sa Pasig ng rape case?
Baket ngayon sinasabi nya na wala?
Everything else aside , mali nanay nya.
If she's telling the truth.
She keeps digging herself a deeper and deeper grave. Totally the wrong way to approach her problems.
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DeleteJosmio 11:14 STOP. Cringey ung way ng paghandle ni Sarah ng situation pero we are not in the position para sabhin kung anong trabaho dapat nya gawin at sinisi pa sya sa rape? You are one DISGUSTING human being.I just hope na wala kang anak because with that way of thinkig kawawa ang bata.
Delete11:14 maligo ka ng holy water. Sana wag mong maranasang marape.
Delete11:14, rape victin dont choose to be rape kahit sa anong sitwasyon, na niniwala akong na rape sya, sa totoo lang sobrang baba ng reported rape sa philippines, ung ibang tao ang di ma gets, pag na rape ka you always feel powerless na wala ka ng magagawa, you try bury it inside you brain, but sometimes may trigger, ung bigla bigla maalala mo, tapos magagalit ka kasi 11 yrs old ka lang nun, ngayon matanda ka na at alam mo na dapat may ginawa dapat naging matapang ka dapat may tumulong sayo pero wala, atleast sya na tuto syang mag trust ulit sa lalake, meron iba until now ayaw padin sa intimacy sa lalake, one thing for sure di nakaka limutan ang rape ma alala mo un at malala kahit anong pilit mong kalimutan.
DeleteOmg..11:14 pinagsasabe mo?magnilay nilay ka naman kht minsan lols
DeleteIs social media really the best avenue to say all these things especially involving your family? I hope a psychiatrist will reach out to her confidentially.
ReplyDelete13th photo she said she's doing therapy
DeleteMahal kaya doctor’s fee ng mga psychiatrists. Siya na nagsabi wala siyang pera.
Deleteparang nasa process sya ng therapy, pero eto kasi ung delikado na stage, kapag naopen ang trauma, sapat derederetso ang tnerapy. I hope she finds healing soon.
Delete4:12 Hindi kaya libre yung therapy nya? Diba sa UK meron silang tinatawag na NHS (National Health Service) where they can avail free medical services? Kasi the UK is a welfare state. I could be wrong.
DeleteYes she can get it free, I live in the UK she can get all the support that she will need. She can get child support as well if she’s in a low income category.
DeleteI feel bad for her...pero I dont think soc med is the right platform for this sensitive topic. Marami lang makikisawsaw.
ReplyDeleteI think she's enjoying the attention she's receiving now.
DeleteI'm curious, anong ending ang gusto nya mangyari sa posts nya? Get her mom in jail?
DeleteThis is what they mean when they say “spiraling out of control”.
Delete12:32 true, and tbh no one would be giving her all this attention if Pia wasn’t her sister.
Delete9:17, yet, she is Pia's sister anyway.
Delete12:36 as a victim of abuse and my mother not doing anything, I understand why she is like this. Granted, I do not have a celebrity status like she and her family do, I do feel so much for her and it’s her only way to release YEARS AND YEARS of coping and repressing memories until you can no longer suppress the injustice. So not all of it is for attention, to be raped and abused comes with severe trauma. I was abused for many years with different people as a minor and no one even stepped up for me. And survivors cope differently. Actually, mas maganda nilalabas nya yan ng ganyan kaysa self harm and drugs - don’t you think?
Delete4:20 agree
DeleteWell said 4:20.. Sana maintindihan ng mga tao, iba iba ang coping mechanisms natin.. Sabi nga nya, mas lumuluwag pakiramdam nya, kung nailalabas nya. Yun ang pakiramdam nya, sino tayo to judge her? And also to be fair, hindi parin natin alam side ng mom nya, pero as she claimed as the victim, lets all be respectfull sa knya..
DeleteThere she goes again. I dont want to judge her dahil baka na rape nga sya talaga. Kaso it seems like she is using it for fame?
ReplyDeleteAnd people with anxiety, ganyan ba talaga ka grabe yung sweat ng hands? Sweaty hands ko pero di naman visible na ganyan.
I am open for opinions.
I have sweaty hands pero walang anxiety and yet gnyan kalala ang pawis ko sa kamay. Maybe ganun din for people with anxiety.
DeleteNope hindi po ganyan,na halos tumutulo yung pawis.pinagpawisan lang po ng malamig at halos d ka nnn makaka usap pag umaaaTKe N kase ganun po ako. Exagg namna masyaDo uung kanya at nakakapag picture pa. Eh ako pag inaatake na d mo nga halos alam kong an gagawin mo basta mahirap ang anxiety attack at panic attack d ma explain ang naramdaman mo. Feeling mo mamatay kana hayyy. Pero kanya ewN ko masyadong sobrang basa naman para nilubog muna aa tubig 🤔
DeleteHi. I’m sorry you experience anxiety too. But if you are unaware... It is different for everyone. When I’m
DeleteAnxious and have nothing going on, my world shuts down. When I’m anxious in a social scenario, i black out. When I’m anxious and I have to get shit done, I tune everything out. It’s different for every situation
And if you’re wondering why shes letting this out on social media. It’s because she is being HEARD. For the first time in her life, Mayroong gustong makinig. It doesn’t matter what or who it is. But she has pain she needs to let go of, pain she needs to pour out and finally someone wants to listen.
Parents are molder of people. Literally responsible of someone else’s life and how they would deal with their future going forth . I feel so bad for the trauma she has to experience her whole life because of someone who was incapable of taking care of her
Hi! I watch her mom's vlogs, may condition sila ng mom nya na ganyan. Sa nanay nya namana. Feaniture sa vlog yung paggagamot nya ng kamay. Minsan nga pwede daw pigaan ng basahan sa sobrang tulo
DeleteWhenever my anxiety is attacking me malamig din pakiramdam ko balot ako ng kumot and i keep on crying. Paano kaya sya nakapag picture taking pa.
DeleteI’ve been suffering from hyperhidrosis my entire life and my palms sweat ng ganyan kalala. I don’t have anxiety disorder but the sweaty palms makes me socially anxious and embarrassed most times. Imagine Ama Namin during mass, handshakes during interviews, HHWW-ing someone for the first time. Ugh
DeleteTruth 1:04. I know somehow n grabe rin pagpawisan ang hands, yung feeling para sponge n kapaghinahawakan ko ang hands nya. But hndi nman sya umaabot s tumutulo ang pawis
DeleteHay, dati before my kids, talagang konting trigger lang ng anxiety no hindi mo mapipigilan yung shake ng katawan mo na nanlalamig. Dito ko lang sa fp nabasa na anxiety na pala yun. Akala ko nababaliw na ako o kaya may sakit.
DeleteIt’s probably hyperhidrosis of the palmar hands.
DeleteI feel you 2:06 same here. No anxiety pero may season na ganyan talaga yung sweat ng kamay ko. Kaya lumaki akong may baong panyo or bimpo na para lang sa kamay ko. Same here, Ama Namin and handshakes can be embarrassing. I wanted to pursue interior design but opted out because, excessively sweaty hands.
DeleteIt's not common pero hindi rin sya impossible.
2:06 I feel you... I dont have anxiety (Tnx God) but grabe mag pawis kamay at paa ko. Tumutulo talaga. Kaya parati ako talo sa ML kasi pawisin kamay ko hahhaha
DeleteFYI, hindi po lahat pare-pareho ang nararamdaman kapag may anxiety or panic attacks.
Delete2:09 kaya nga this thread was created. To educate orher :)
Deleteantidepressants are used to treat anxiety. one of the side effects is night sweats, so sometimes u wake up drenched in sweat kahit sobrang lamig.. i know cos it happens to me
Delete1:48 well-said. I agree with you.
Deletegirl tapos na 15 minutes mo haha
ReplyDeletewere waiting for sandra and her tea na charot
she needs to stop airing their dirty laundry. as she said, she is not a celebrity.
ReplyDeleteWala ako kinakampihan sa kanilang dalawa ng nanay nya, but what's the point of airing this in public?
ReplyDeleteThis girl still hasnt learned her lesson, to think before you click.
ReplyDeleteI don't get it. why in social media? if indeed it happened to her dapat sa authorities cya makipag usap and file a case. as for anxiety dapat sa doctor nya cya mag consulta bakit sa social media. Netizens ba ang mag file ng case for her and also cure her for her anxiety? ang makukuha nya wagas na bashing. KSP pa more.
ReplyDeleteshe called her mom an animal yet she has a key to your house. 🤯
ReplyDeleteYes dabaaa?
DeleteMedyo Ironic
12:37 dabaaaaaa?
DeleteOo na galit ka na sa nanay mo alam na namin!
ReplyDeleteHay buhay. My prayers for Sarah’s healing.
ReplyDeleteWe can't judge her. Sabi nga nya may nakakausap sya pero hindi sapat. So i think dahil nakakakuha sya ng attention thru social media kaya dito nya idinadaan ang feelings nya. Kumbaga nagiging outlet nya ito dahil sa kanyang condition. Maaaring mali para sa atin na nakakasagap tayo ng personal issues nila. But it helps her in coping with her anxiety or mental issues. Hope somebody could help her, mukhang kelangan talaga ng psych treatment sa trauma nya from what happened
ReplyDeleteAgree! Kahit sabihin na hindi dapat ipubliko ang issue nila, social media ang outlet niya para mag-cope. To each their own, iyan ang pakiramdam niya na nakakatulong sa mental health niya.
DeleteKorek
DeleteNot a celebrity but sharing private matters in socmed? Anong point? And how can she nonchalantly say she was gang raped? Does she want every one to hate her mom to exact the pain she is suffering? I’ve worked with rape victims and it wasn’t that easy for them to say na-rape ako. Most of them were either ashamed of it or was too painful to even talk about it, let alone share it with people they don’t know.
ReplyDeleteTapos sya parang ginagawa nya pang identity. Sana ilugar nya yung tapang nya. Instead mag ingay sya edi file for a case or mention nya mga nang baboy sa kanya. What is she really gaining from babbling about this.
DeleteTruth 12:47. Ang iba p nga ay umaabot p ng ilang taon bago gumaling ang sakit from that experience on which hndi p alam ng love ones nila n nangyari yun s kanila.
DeleteNa observe ko nga din parang ordinary word lang sa kanya eh sobrang traumatic nun pag nangyari sa isang babae. Not once but twice and yun pa gang....
DeleteDidn't you read? It was not easy for her to say it at first. She said she suppressed her feeling for a really long time at now lang niya talaga masabi. Basa basa muna bago react.
Delete2:19, Sarah is barking on a wrong tree. Doon siya magalit as mga ng-rape sa kanya. ( hindi sa nanay niya)
DeleteConsidering na twice siya na gang-rape. Ano ginagawa niya noon? Saan ka ba nag-puPunta? Sino sino ba kasama niya?
Mahilig ba siya as social life at gumala?
It's more than 20 years
11:16 what a victim blamer you are. she was 10 years old when it started. READ.
Deletei saw a rape of a family relative to a family relative at a tender age of 8. and we all turned out extremely successful in our fields of work. i, myself, was a victim to multiple acts of lasciviousness by older adults. they took my youth and it still haunts me to this day but i can never share it blithely as she does. we can all feel victims for the rest of our lives but the choice to be normal is always there for the taking. stop being a victim and start living. there are many of us who choose that route. getting stuck in the past is never healthy.
Delete11:16 nagbasa kaba ng post nya?? Mader nga nya nag blame sa kanya and walang naisampa na kaso dhl walang aksyon Mama nya! Kung sakin nangyare un baka ipa salvage ang mga rapist ng tatay ko! Kht 50yrs payan maalala mopa pang rarape sayo. Ano yun iligo mo lang limot mona?? Masyado kang bulag sa idol mo
Delete1:09 am, Ang gulo niya, paiba-iba ang post/istorya niya. Sabi niya hanapin daw record sa Pasig. Ngayon, sabi daw hindi ng-file ng rape case?
DeleteKung may record siya sa Pasig, meron din iyan recorded medical examination na magagamit nila against those people who rape her.
Naka-focus lang siya sa galit over the years and not doing anything to seek justice?
Kung hindi siya tinulugnan ng Nanay niya to file a rape case kase bata pa siya when it happened, why didnt She do it (herself) when she's 16 or 18 years old?
If Sarah wants justice after being gang rape,she should purse those who rape her.
I was sexually harassed so i knew how it felt.
What she doing is to let public fest on her private family life. May makukuha ka bang justice sa socmed?
chusera. the unsuccessful inggit one strikes again. magtrabaho ka nalang kesa gumigimik ka pa ng ganyan
ReplyDeleteHindi niyo kasi pinansin nang ilang araw. Ayan tuloy...
ReplyDeleteSerious accusation ‘to towards her Mom. And if true bakit hindi siya magdemanda?
12:51 grabe nman kung mother nya ang una nya kakasuhan keysa s totoong may sala which is the rapists.
DeleteI’m not saying na nanay niya lang. But the Mom is gets the equal blame here. Imagine na i-bugaw mo (if it’s true..) ang underage? That’s child abuse at sa totoo lang nakakasuka.
DeleteSo sana talaga, hindi niya ginagawa ‘to just to gain attention..
Diba may statute of limitations ang rape? she was 12 lampas na siguro
Delete2:20, Displacement of anger ginagawa ni Sarah.
DeleteDoon siya magalit as mga nagrape sa kanya.
Ano ba kailagan my babae ito? Ano ba gusto niya mangyari? IPA-tulfo mo yan, para ma-imbestigahan
11:20AM Tulfo is not the solution to all problems.
DeleteNot a celebrity but there she is. The irony.
ReplyDeleteSister is a wannabe. If she values her privacy and for her kids, she would have set her ig into private before posting these rants.
Delete12:53 Uhm.. lahat naman tayo may social media account kahit hindi celebrity... lahat din tayo pwedeng mag post ng kahit ano, depende nalang kungmay papansin. Anong ironic sa sinabi niyang hindi sya celebrity? pinagsasabi mo?
Delete12:30 bilang mahina ang comprehension mo te ako na mag explain. She said she isn’t a celebrity but she’s pretending to be one. If she’s a private person, why would she entertain q&a and share it publicly? Why would she air her personal problems publicly when she could have dealt with it in private- therapy groups/psychiatrist/her own family, etc. If you’re a private person, you don’t want anybody minding your business or giving you unsolicited advice. Let’s be honest, she wants revenge on her mom. She’s obviously at the bottom and she wants to take everyone with her as well and her sister and mom knows what she’s doing kaya hindi siya pinapansin.
DeleteSo yeah, that’s irony for you.
She’s probably the saddest person in 2020.
ReplyDeleteThis girl is obviously disturbed. If true yung allegations nya, then better see a therapist frequently to deal with her trauma and file a case. Wag siya magkalat sa social media.
ReplyDeleteShe cannot afford it.
DeleteShe is seeing a therapist. Universal healthcare in UK- there are services she is able to tap into for that.
DeleteMinsan hindi enough yong isang tao lang kausap mo...mas gumagaan ang pakiramdam kung marami kang nasasabihan ng problema. Ang mali lang is sa social media sya nagsumbong na kung saan maraming mosang and it's a very sensitive topic. Nakakaloka...kung totoo man yong sinasabi nya, it's very sad. Ang magulang dapat nagpoprotekta sa anak😫
DeleteWhy is she airing it in public?
ReplyDeleteThe answer is, because she has no one to lean on. She’s living in UK and she’s living with her kids who she obviously can’t vent out. She’s married to British who I’m thinking doesn’t want to be involved too much about family drama (it’s not on their culture, trust me. I’m married to British too)
When you’re feeling alone overseas, it’s helpful to vent out on social media. Or else you’ll be eaten alive.
The only thing I could think of and also I did when I had issues with my family in Philippines, I went to a counsellor. It helped me lessen venting out on social media.
Pinay living in UK too
Hirap tlaga sa abroad.
DeletePero teh, BAKET di sya ang mag alaga ng anak nya at yun ASAWA nya ang mag work.
Im sure mas malake sweldo ng british kesa sa pinay
She has no friends in the UK? Since you're in the UK naman pala, and you understand her, why dont you try to be her friend.
DeleteVenting out in social media wont solve anything. People are just following her for the tea, i dont think they're genuinely concerned about her.
Delete1:02 im sad to hear that buy we all know n hndi Social media ang sagot para makapagvent out k. Kung toxic n ang real world, mas toxic ang internet.
DeleteVenting in social media is one thing, but to do it publicly and all these nasty posts is another. Palengkera si sis.
Delete102 grabe nakaka relate ako sa'yo European din hubby ko at true hindi talaga sila nakikialam sa mga ganyan. Isa pa makikinig nman hubby ko but wlang reaction or anumang sympathy na gusto mo. 😂 Sa akin lang, hindi ako nagpopost online. Nakakahiya din. Kaya cgro pa depress na ako buti nlang nagkaanak ako kaya masaya na uli ang buhay. 😄
DeleteShe said she was living in the uk since she was 12 or 14 and now she’s 28 na. if anything, she would have more memories living there kesa sa pinas.
Delete@1:43. Baka kasi mas malaki ang kinikita niya compared sa husband niya. Siyempre kung sino ang stronger earner yun talaga maiiwan sa pagtratrabaho tapos sa bahay yung isa. Parang dito lang din sa Pinas, may mga houseband kung tawagin pag no choice na dapat may maiwan sa kids.
DeleteLife is full of choices. If you gain an advantage living a life that has social security, loneliness naman ang abot mo. Like I said, choices. And ang choices meron ding excuses.
DeleteGanyan ang buhay. May times na situations will test your character and how people judge you. In this case, di akong magtataka na may mali din siguro ung mom nya na lumaki ng ganito.
Then again, if her mom is into money as Sarah claims, then how come she is with a humble ambulance driver? Dba pag pera habol mo, ur instinct is to 'aim higher' ika nga?
If she was indeed molested as a minor then surely there were other people besides the mom na sinabihan nya. If so, bakit hindi? So many questions. But bless you, Sarah.
1:43 depende rin sa educational background. Kahit british ang asawa pero walang degree or kahit skills, baka mas maliit parin ang sweldo.
Delete2:18 bat ang sama ng sagot mo??? Nag iinform lang naman yung tao about what she did better to vent anger since nasa UK din sya. Eh bat ikaw bat di ikaw mag reach out tutal kulang pa daw
DeleteI agree with Pinay living in UK. Medyo depressing nga dyan sa UK. A cousin of mine took her life due to depression. Okay nga yan si girl, nailalabas nya yun nga lang medyo di maganda lang mga post. I can't blame her kasi she had a bad experience, hindi hinarap kaya ngayon may effect sa mental health nya
DeleteEchoSARAH. HAHA kaloka ka. Post sa Stories then delete agad agad.
ReplyDeleteIto dapat ipasok sa bahay ni Kuya. Ang Papampam ng London!!! Utak teenager naman sya.
ReplyDeleteAyaw talaga tumahimik! Respect your mother!
ReplyDeleteThis lady needs to stop nakakasuka na sya ggggrrrr��
ReplyDeleteIF THIS IS TRUE
ReplyDeleteWHY DID PIA CONDONE THIS?
WHY DID SHE NOT HELP HER FILE A CASE
JUST ASKING...
Sorry Pia pero damay ka talaga eh
They were minors with no other parent. What is supposed to happen to a 10 and 11 year old children without any parents. How will a minor afford a lawyer and even know what to do? Use your brain
Delete6pm
DeletePia can help her now
2:42 malay ba natin kung ngayon lang din nalaman ni Pia? Ang tulong lang siguro magagawa niya is to hire a lawyer for her.
DeleteShe’s posting it on social media because she feels there is a community there accepting of her. Finally for the first time she is being heard.
ReplyDeleteHer mom never listened. But strangers do. She is in pain. And needs to release this pain. This is the only way that seems right for her.
I don’t think she wants attention. A rape victim does not want any more attention. This is an outlet. She feels heard here.
I understand where she is coming from
DeleteThere are support groups of organizations whose advocacy is to help people like Sarah. Talaga? Itag si pia at sagutin ang fans ni Pia?
DeleteIm sorry she went through what she did but she wont get the help shes looking for kung toxic na instagram comments any hagap nya. And may private message sa groups.
How can she not grab attention with behavior like that? She does not even make her profile private. Bakit kailangang madaming tao ang makarinig? Wish her all the best but social media wont help her in the long run.
She was born with sweaty hands condition. She showed it in a Vlog even using a machine to treat it Meaning, the sweaty hands is not just because of anxiety.
ReplyDeletePlease remember what your sissy answered during q and a "think before you click"
ReplyDeleteWalanghiyang anak ito. Hindi naman consistent sinasabi.
ReplyDeleteWag mong sabihin Sarah lahat ng mag asawa dyan laging isa lang nagta trabaho?
korek! pwde nman mggraveyard shift
DeletePag walang yaya at the kids are young pa, yes. My cousin's husband left her and she didnt work until one of her older sons graduated from hs.
DeleteKapag school age na ang bata, puwede kang magtrabaho kahit part-time habang nasa school sila.
Delete6:48 Wait lang, what do we know about UK laws and jobs? Hindi yan tipong dito sa Pinas na kukuha nalang ng graveyard shift.
DeleteHindi ba pareha sa ibang Eu countries na one year maternity leave with pay sa Uk? At after pwede na ilagay sa parang day care yung baby or baka ayaw nila ng ganyan. Or pwede din paternity leave ng many months with pay para may kasama ang mga anak. Ganyan kasi ginagawa ng iba. Iba nman sa akin 3years maternity leave ko but yung 2 years wlang pay na.
Delete1:55 of course not! Some of us can afford day care and nannies. Pag wala kang pera wag ka na lang mag anak
DeleteI am the Pinay living in UK. It's true. It's cheaper expenses kung isa lang mag wowork. Pag dalawang parents nagwowork, lalo na both full time, mas mahal ang gastos sa bata dahil kailangan ng child minder. Baka akala mo presyo ng child minder dito sa UK? Kung magpapart time naman yung isa, mapupunta lang din yung sweldo sa child minder during the time na nagwowork sila di pa nila nasusubaybayan mga anak nila. Common thing dito sa UK na kapag may anak ka, isa lang magwowork sainyo para maalagaan din mabuti yung bata, nakakatipid pa. I work fulltime, my husband does too. We chose not to have kids dahil kailangan ko tumigil sa work pag nagkaanak ako and I don't want to stop working.
DeleteDear Pinay living in UK 6:19PM,
DeleteThanks for sharing your story. I understand your reasons for choosing not to have kids.
I'm unmarried and child free. I hope to meet a guy who wants to remain child free too. I never wanted kids and never wanted to be a mother. Most (if not all) Pinoys here can't understand my decision. Alam mo naman ang mga tao dito. Hardcore traditional.
07:46 it was my husband who's actually don't want kids. Pero 7 years na kami and I am starting to understand na mahirap mag anak talaga lalo na wala akong kamag anak na kasama mag alaga dito sa UK unless titigil ako sa pagwowork which I don't want to. At the same time, me and my husband love to spend time together, we travel a lot, we eat and drink out on weekends, we do not want commitment na pipigil samin gawin yon. My family in Philippines ask me about this all the time but they don't get it. However ngayon pandemic mas naiintindihan nila na mas madali ang walang bata during this difficult time
DeleteGirl tama na, mamalasin ka sa buhay, pramis. I am not minimizing your pain, tutuo siya, at this point kung kaya mo, lift it up to the Lord.
ReplyDeleteThe hate, anxiety and all the negative feelings she has towards her mother is deeply rooted. But if she dishes out everything on social media lahat talo. Walang mananalo as ginagawa niya.
ReplyDeleteI agree. She needs therapy and that's not something she can get from social media. Someone in her small circle needs to intervene and help. Maybe Pia is trying, but we don't know that.
ReplyDeleteDi pa pala tapos... natabunan na kasi siya ng Miss Universe Philippines drama , kaya kailangan magingay rin. Kalurks.
ReplyDeleteImagine impact nito sa buhay ni Pia if her Mom indeed solicited Sarah..
ReplyDeleteIf this accusation of sarah is troohhh
DeleteAno na Pia?
Why did u not help your sister?
You were older right?
So baka naman .... nde totoo?
Imagine the impact on Sarah when she was being gang raped at 10.
Delete2:51 Pia was a minor herself. If Sara was gang raped at 10 how old was Pia? !! or 12? Ano magagawa ng 12 year old? ang shunga mo
Delete5:57
DeleteI think if its true
Pia should help her sister
2:43 maybe nman Pia try to reach out to her but its hard to process to Sarah since what I can see, Pia seems to be neutral or in the middle of her mom and sister. Dba sbi p nga ni Sarah n okay n sila ni Pia?? Mabait si Pia and Im glad n hndi sya nag aair ng sentiment nya about this on SNS since lalo lang lalala ang situation ng pamilya nila. Its still the best n pag usapan nila ito privately. If hndi p kaya ng either camp, best n lumayo muna sila s SNS since wla din nman magandang magagawa ito.
Delete2:43 Pia has been helping her family and has been a breadwinner when she was teenager.
DeleteMay edad na si Pia at its time for her to have her own family too
Ang totoong may anxiety problems, di sa social media magtatatalak, sa psychologist siya makikipag-usap 🤷🏻♂️
ReplyDeleteMay anxiety na nga daw siya kuno, magsococial media pa siya kung saan pwede siyang lalong magstressed ng comments ko at comments niyo 😉
that is one way of coping—- venting out to people..this is her therapy. Thats the sad part
DeleteTapos magbebenta ng masks ng lipstics at masks after her rants. Now guest speaker pa sa isang online meeting about mental health. Kalokah si Ateng
DeleteHindi mo ba binasa? She said she's on therapy
DeleteKawawa naman pala si Sarah sa ga nangyari. Victim blaming at its worst!
DeleteGrabe impact nito sa image and career ni Pia! Imagine the endorsements and all! Syempre di maiiwasang may magtanong and magisip if she experienced the same thing also. Hopefully NOT
DeletePansin ko di siya yung pretty na kasing pretty ni Pia. Typical story ng maganda sa pamilya at di masyado maganda. May inggitan at bubog.
ReplyDeleteSo since mas maganda si Pia di dapat paniwalaan si Sarah? Ang tindi ng bilib mo sa fairy tales.
DeleteHindi pa tapos to. File a case against your nanay. Case closed.
ReplyDeleteWalang time Sayo mother mo busy making a livelihood in Youtube. Suggest ko mag Youtube ka na din extra income sayo.
ReplyDeletePero nakaka sad nangyari sa kanya wag natin i judge
ReplyDeleteLet her lash out. She has every right to. When someone goes through extreme trauma like that, the victim is allowed to lash out anyway she wants. It will help her heal.
ReplyDeleteAt the expense of others, 4;11? she could private her lash outs kasi the more she do this, the more it's difficult for their family to be fix and for her to be heal because pinagpipiyestahan k and your family.
DeleteHa? Lol
DeleteWith that kind of attitude...I dont believe her! She’s not even consistent on her story!
ReplyDeleteAng daming galit ah. I just hope hindi niyo pagdaanan ang pinagdaanan at pinagdadaanan niya. Stop comparing her to other people na may anxiety o na-rape kasi we deal with our traumas differently, walang point yang pag compare niyo. Show some compassion, lalo na kung wala naman kayong 1st hand knowledge kung ano totoong nangyari. Her post may be public but it doesn't give you the right to be mean and judge her.
ReplyDeleteTHIS!!!
DeleteHer posts are public, its fair game and open to discussion and scrutiny. Harsh, but that's just how the world works..saka wag ka magmalinis, cheese mozarella ka din.
DeleteSo you think she’s doing the right thing? Calling your mother an animal? The nerve.
Delete1:38 if her mother did what she did, yes, Sarah has every right.
DeleteIf your own mother fed you to your abusers then she doesn’t deserve any respect. She forfeited her right as a mom when she turned her back on protecting her child.
Delete10:40 Kung ganoon, eh Bakit pina-paalaga ni Sarah Ang mga anak niya sa Nanay niya?
DeleteMay something off talaga sa kanya.
Sarah, ikaw na mag-alaga sa sarili mong mg anak.
Normal dito yung parehong may trabaho ang mag-asawa. Lalo na pinoy family. Yung lalake panggabi, yung babae pang-araw or the opposite. It is not very ideal kasi bihira silang magkakasama bilang mag-anak ng kumpleto. Pero kung gusto nilang may income na sapat, may ganung klaseng sakripisyo. Kaya hindi ako bilib sa excuse ni Sarah. My husband has minimum income pero sumasideline siya, bukod dun full time din ako. Pareho kaming pagod pero kailangan eh.
ReplyDeleteMaybe its normal, but its not for everyone.ung iba mas gusto nila maeron naiiwan sa mga bata and may iba naman mas priority ang mas malaking income. Depende yan sa tao and pag uusap ng mag asawa. Hindi namana tama nanixompare mo sha sayo or sa iba kase iba iba ang circumstances and needs ng bawat isa sa atin. In other words, what works for you may not work for you or other people and viceversa.
DeleteDifferent strokes for different folks it doesn’t mean it works for you works for everyone. The guidance that the parent gives to the child is better and it cannot be bought by money. So don’t assume Anon 7:12 am
DeleteHow many kids do they have? Dalawa na ba? Sana kung nun isa palang anak at alam nila hirap financially, sana hangang isa na lang. sana people will practice responsible parenting. Ako nga hangang isa lang kasi alam ko mahirap buhay and children need a lot of attention aside from financial needs.
DeleteBakit ang dami galit ky Sarah? Honestly, sa nanay niya ako galit. Focus on the issue.
ReplyDeleteName them na girl. Di biro ang gang. Sending you prayers.
ReplyDeleteipa TULFO na yan!!! 😆
ReplyDeleteBakla, kung sa tulfo yan mas lalo silang pagpi pyestahan. Nakakaawa na yong sitwasyon nila ngayon kung totoo man yong nangyari sa kanya, mas magiging malala ang sitwasyon pag sa tulfo.
DeleteShe just told everyone she was raped at 10 and all the comments here are telling her to stop seeking for justice. Ang sasahol niyo.
ReplyDeleteRead again 9:42, no one is telling her here to stop looking for justice. What people are saying is social media is not the right avenue, if she wants to file a case sa korte dapat.
Delete9:42 Gurl, huge percentage of people her tells her that social media is not the right venue for this. Go to court!! Get out on SNS kasi wla nman tlgang naiitulong ang paggaganito nya. Imbes, lalo lng lala ang situation and her condition. Also, she needs to take her therapy seriously. This is for her own good.
DeleteEwan ko sayo ate masyado kang nadadala ng emotions mo.
Delete2:50, 5:28, Justice isn't always available in the courts, and as Filipinos dapat sobrang familiar na tayo dyan diba. I always find this statement "dalhin mo nalang yan sa korte" as invalidating and another way to try to shut a victim up. Gross behavior, if you ask me.
Delete10:10 so ano purpose sa social media? To vent? Hindi lahat ng tao can be trusted. She can seek help from groups, for sure sila makakatulong ndi random person sa internet. Kahit i-kwento naman niya sa lahat, ang ending naman talaga nito is dadalhin sa korte. Unless, ang goal niya talaga is siraan mother niya sa public?
DeleteMuch as I like teas in all form, I think Sarah has gone overboard on this issue. Imagine calling your mother an "animal?" Grabe na!
ReplyDeleteLet go and Let God.
ReplyDeleteOctober 30. 2:34 AM
ReplyDeleteTAMA KA DYAN
PAPANO MAKAKATULONG SA KANYA ANG SOCIAL MEDIA?
LALO LANG SYA MA STRESS
NASA UK SYA SEE A THERAPIST
BAKIT KAILANGAN IPAALAM SA BUONG PILIPINAS?????
WHY WHY WHY?????😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Just wondering kasama kaya sa advice ng therapist nya ang pagrant sa social media? Or is the therapist even aware of this?
Delete6:01, yes, mas malamang na alam ng therapist niya na nag-vevent siya sa social media. Kung iyon ang isang way na makatulong sa healing niya, then the therapist will support it.
DeleteKelan ba sya matatapos.. ang ingay na talaga.. hindi na po empowering..
ReplyDeletewhy air this out now? yes it happened when she was young but what is it about this year na naisipan nya i-rehash yan? why not before
ReplyDelete11:27, if you read her answers, she mentioned that she dealt with the traumatic events by suppressing it. Her memories of it returned during therapy.
Deletekakaloka si girl, kung totoo na si mommy C. ang dahilan ng pag kaka rape niya, hindi ko ipapaalaga ang anak ko, ni hindi ko iiwan mag isa sa pangangalaga ni Mommy C, nanonood ako ng vlogs ni mother and nakikita ko talagang pinapaalagsan yung kids kay Mommy C, may time pa nga napanood ko bumili si Mommy C ng necklace na may whistle para daw to protect Lara lalo na pag nasa public. and you can see na close ang kids sa lola nila, i think hindi mapepeke yung closeness ng kids sa lola nila. Kakalungkot to see na kung anu-ano tinatawag niya sa mom niya.
ReplyDeleteI agree! May vlog pa nga na pinag uusapan ni Pia at ni Mommy C mga anak nya at tuwang tuwa sila. Na male version daw nyang si sarah si logan. I cant help but to hate this woman! Mabuti lang hanggang may pakinabang sya! Pag wala na aba sisirain. Nanay pa mandin nya
DeleteShe repressed those memories, lately niya lang naalala nung nagpatherapy siya
Deleteyou know its a good thing if nagpapatherapy na siya. She needs that. It would help her cope with past hurts.
DeleteWhat Covid-19 lockdown pandemic can do to one’s mental health - either positive or negative results.
ReplyDeleteUy, pampam yata to for MMK expose
ReplyDeleteMay pinaghuhugutan yan, hindi yan ganyan kung wala. Probably she is saying the truth. Minsan kasi nag mamanifest na lang yung effect ng past pagkalipas ng marami years. I know because I've seen that to some people.
ReplyDeleteNah! I dont believe her!
DeleteYes. Suppression tawag diyan, where you block off mga negative experiences unconsciously, tapos 1 day pag may magtrigger lalabas at lalabas lahat
DeleteGinoo ko. I just saw her tirade yesterday on YouTube kaya napa comment ako sa channel ng nanay nya kasi naawa ako. Kung maka sabi sya ng f*** her parang di nya nanay yong sinabihan. What is it now??? OMG grabe na to. I feel bad for every one involved.
ReplyDeleteMay youtube na rin si sisterette?
Delete1:14 walang YouTube channel si Sarah. May nag upload lang ng pagwawala nya sa YouTube. Hanapin mo lang don.
DeleteKung totoo yong sinasabi nya, what a horrible thing for a parent to do!di ko ma imagine magagawa yon ng nanay nya sa kanya, pero sila lang nakakaalam ng totoo. sana lang instead na sa social media sya nag ganyan, naghanap sana sya ng at least two friends nya na makakausap. 2020 is such a horrible year. Sana magharap silang mag-ina at pag usapan yong issues nila. This is too much.
ReplyDeleteHas anyone her got raped multiple times before? Kung hindi, wala kayong karapatan mag comment because you don’t understand the pain, lalo na kung yung sarili ina pa pala yung nang bugaw sa kanya (kung totoo man). For ffs, she was only 12 years, not even a teenager.
ReplyDeleteYung “pagpapapansin” niya sa social media is probably a way to cope with the trauma. Yung sabihan niyo sayang ang toxic at ang nega is beyond unacceptable. You don’t understand the rage she feels sa mga gumawa neto.
Bakit ngayon Lang siya nag iingay? It’s because it’s not easy to admit it and it’s not easy to tell people about it.
Wag sa social media at mag file dapat ng kaso? How? She’s in the UK.
Lawakan ang comprehension at ang understanding mga kumare at sana hindi mangyari sa inyo to.
2:58 that's really true. My husband has less compassion than most of the people I know. He grew up na malayo loob niya sa family niya so medyo wala siyang emotion when it comes to other people. Sakin lang siya may emotion and sa puppy namin. Other than that, he doesn't care about family dramas. When we were first together siyempre more say siya ng mga inputs niya pero he's very straight to the point na my family will never change so I should make my own changes para di ako maapektuhan at ang marriage namin. Kasi nga naman he doesn't like seeing me cry because of my family in Philippines (yes, it's all about money) that's why he doesn't like my family but at the same time, ayaw niya ng mga drama kasi waste of time daw.
ReplyDeleteLift it all to God and pray for forgiveness and healing and He will set you free Sarah.Life is too short.Only God can help you emotionally,spiritually, and financially.If God can forgive us who are we to not forgive.Godbless you.
ReplyDeleteI feel sorry for her. But I also have this feeling that she's also the one asking the questions. La lang.
ReplyDeleteSame. Question mo sagot mo.
DeleteWhy don’t you try to look at her in her point of view? Would she publicly shame her Mom if it was baseless? I feel for her because I saw my cousin go through the same thing and everyone in the family knew but kept quiet because ‘Nanay mo yan. Nakakahiya pa kung ma eskandalo tayo.’ Its horrific to think that the person who should be protecting you is doing the complete opposite. But it happens! Aminin niyo yan. May mga kilala kayong ganyan.
ReplyDeleteI pity her, but she's an adult now so she should act mature. Whatever happened to her in the past, she needs to overcome and rise above it instead of dragging everyone down with her. May kids na sya, baka maging negative pa impact ng rants nya sa kids nya
DeleteI think it's time for Pia and her mother to speak up, for this sensitive issue's clarification. If this lady's accusation with her mother is true, what kind of a mother she is? If it's a lie, what is Sarah's motive to ridicule her mother? Sad, this is happening to this family.
ReplyDeleteTbh, pia should not speak as she's going to be caught in between. This is between sarah and her mom.
Delete11:19 i prefer not. If they speak up, lalo lng pagpipiyestahan sila. So ayusin nila privaty ang issue nila
DeleteThe way this goes on can only be irreparable. Right now it's a point of no return. Marami na nasabi hurtful words and accusations. One thing for sure, kung totoo therapy nya, continue w/o posting negatively. Prayers on all involved. Sana hindi ma-apektuhan career ni Pia, kasi looks like nakakatulong naman sa pamilya earnings nya. Nothing is impossible, hoping for a happy ending. I only hope ok si Logan&Lara.
ReplyDeleteI find it so hard to believe her. If you were solicited by your mom as a child, would you entrust your own kids to the same person? Dun pa lang, questionable na
ReplyDeleteIm so sorry to say this but you need to see the shrink girl. This cannot go on.
ReplyDeleteAng pathetic nitong bitter sister nato
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