Naku ha. Buhay pa si Caridad. Utang na loob, itigil na ang pag-aaway sa social media para sa kapakanan ng ina nyo. Settle this privately. Di na kayo mga bata.
sablay din naman kasi yung kapatid na lalaki. di pa tinawagan na lang yung ate nya to berate or whatever he wants to say...so ako man, i will defend myself din on socmed kasi dun ako kinol ang attention
I’m with the brother on this. Di lahat gusto nasa soc med. And Kung ang gusto talaga makatulong, Hindi ba dapat unahing respetuhin ang immediate family? Revealing a medical condition is a violation of privacy.
Sometimes saying it out loud helps in the process. I am with you Cathy as I had the same experience with my mom. But your brother has a point too. I do hope that the family can sit down & talk & come to terms. Your mother would have loved it that way. Good luck & prayers to all of you.
Tama na please, for the sake of your mom... kung mahal nyo nanay nyo, itigil na, pag-usapan in private ang family matters. hindi maiiwasan ang mga chismosa sa social media, may sasabihin at sasabihin.
Health matter is private and it’s up to the person if willing to share. If true Na May dementia then wala permission to share ang daughter. Tapos yung brother disagree din. Kung May power of attorney either of them then sya yung May say / call. They should settle this privately and obviously may disagreements which is usual for siblings.
Dementia is a condition. There is no problem sharing a story of dementia if indeed she has dementia. Secondly, that’s not her story to tell, the family, including the person who is afflicted should have given it a go.
It’s not your story to tell! She’s not just your Mum, she’s your other siblings Mother! Lastly, did you ask for her consent? Because according to your brother, mukhang nakaka-alala pa sya. Also, did you ask your mothers brothers and/or sisters? AGAIN, This is not your story and your concern alone, it is family matters, not because you have a social media you can use that as an excuse to raise awareness chuva! RESPECT PRIVACY!
Kasi naman hindi naman siya ang nagaalaga sa nanay nya tapos hindi rin nakatira sa kanya dumadalaw lang sya so dapat kinonsult nya muna ang kapatid nya.
Not all chismis in FP. Tagal na rin classmates, mag sis or besh, many understand Cathy and feel for her lalo na sa lockdown na ito. We also understand the brother. Alam namin no disrespect or eskandalo intended. Thank you both for sharing your mom with us through the years. We pray for all of you at this difficult time. From FP classmates.
Naku ha. Buhay pa si Caridad. Utang na loob, itigil na ang pag-aaway sa social media para sa kapakanan ng ina nyo. Settle this privately. Di na kayo mga bata.
ReplyDeleteBasta ako I hope and pray that Ms Caridad will be okay. Healing and peace
ReplyDeletesablay din naman kasi yung kapatid na lalaki. di pa tinawagan na lang yung ate nya to berate or whatever he wants to say...so ako man, i will defend myself din on socmed kasi dun ako kinol ang attention
DeleteI’m with the brother on this. Di lahat gusto nasa soc med. And Kung ang gusto talaga makatulong, Hindi ba dapat unahing respetuhin ang immediate family? Revealing a medical condition is a violation of privacy.
DeleteSa socmed talaga magsasagutan?
ReplyDeleteMag-usap kayo within the family 'te.... Mahirap sa social media, marami kaming mga tsismosa...
ReplyDeleteSometimes saying it out loud helps in the process. I am with you Cathy as I had the same experience with my mom. But your brother has a point too. I do hope that the family can sit down & talk & come to terms. Your mother would have loved it that way. Good luck & prayers to all of you.
ReplyDeleteTama na please, for the sake of your mom... kung mahal nyo nanay nyo, itigil na, pag-usapan in private ang family matters. hindi maiiwasan ang mga chismosa sa social media, may sasabihin at sasabihin.
ReplyDeleteShe needs to shut up. It’s all about her. Give your mama peace and dignity.
ReplyDeleteHealth matter is private and it’s up to the person if willing to share. If true Na May dementia then wala permission to share ang daughter. Tapos yung brother disagree din. Kung May power of attorney either of them then sya yung May say / call. They should settle this privately and obviously may disagreements which is usual for siblings.
ReplyDeleteDementia is a condition. There is no problem sharing a story of dementia if indeed she has dementia. Secondly, that’s not her story to tell, the family, including the person who is afflicted should have given it a go.
ReplyDeleteArtista din ba yun mga anak kaya kailangan in public magsagutan?
ReplyDeleteDiagnosed kaya yan ng Duktor or nagfefeeling
ReplyDeleteDuktor k?
Link on my bio. Duh
ReplyDeleteIt’s not your story to tell! She’s not just your Mum, she’s your other siblings Mother! Lastly, did you ask for her consent? Because according to your brother, mukhang nakaka-alala pa sya. Also, did you ask your mothers brothers and/or sisters? AGAIN, This is not your story and your concern alone, it is family matters, not because you have a social media you can use that as an excuse to raise awareness chuva! RESPECT PRIVACY!
ReplyDeleteKahit ano pa sabihin mo, you should have not made the decision to announce your mom's condition to the public on your own.
ReplyDeleteKasi naman hindi naman siya ang nagaalaga sa nanay nya tapos hindi rin nakatira sa kanya dumadalaw lang sya so dapat kinonsult nya muna ang kapatid nya.
ReplyDeleteNot all chismis in FP. Tagal na rin classmates, mag sis or besh, many understand Cathy and feel for her lalo na sa lockdown na ito. We also understand the brother. Alam namin no disrespect or eskandalo intended. Thank you both for sharing your mom with us through the years. We pray for all of you at this difficult time. From FP classmates.
ReplyDeleteMeh, she is making it all about her by broadcasting her mother’s private struggle to the world.
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