Marami talaga ako batang babae nakikita na naglalaro ng mga toys for boys, pero yung mga pamangkin ko lahat lalake ayaw talaga maglaro ng laruan na pang girl.. haha
12:22 I don’t think nakakailang. SIguro narinig sa matatanda na “barbies are for girls, are you a girl?” :((( kasi mga pamangkin ko ayaw maglaro ng barbie kasi laging sinasabihan ng ganyan :(((
Adults give meaning, rules and labels to everything. Kids will play with whatever they pick up or anything that pleases their eyes. Hindi maiilang ang bata, matatanda yung naiilang.
Psychiatrists said most boys who play with dolls when they are young grow up to be doting, nurturing dads. It’s usually the adults who cause a stir about this.
Pati yung “why are you crying? Are you a girl?’ mentality, no wonder most men tend to keep their pent up emotions to themselves and end up being weak inside if not suffering from heart problems.
Yes, why not? Toys are toys, toys do not have gender. Please educate yourself a little bit more. The kids and toys are not the problem, its the adults who introduce stereotyping to the children’s minds.
Yes. My nephew played with dolls when he was little because his mom is a progressive and did not believe in limiting toys based on stereotypes. He is now all grown up and continues to identify male. Toys don’t cause gender preference, people are born certain ways, and nothing you play with can change that
How do you know they're straight e bata pa sila? Unless sabihin ng bata na eto ang preferred kong gender identity. Wala naman masama maglaro ng barbie at paper dolls. Ikakapahamak ba ng bata? Dapat pagtuunan kung choking hazard ang laruan o age appropriate lalo na kung baril, pellet o toy knife.
U can see if they are straight or not kahit bata pa sila gaya ng mga pamangkin ko bata palang malalambot na and nung lumaki na sila trans na sila and yung iba kong mga pamangkin na bata pa lang nakikibogbogan na sa kanto at nung lumaki naging mga pasaway na na mga lalaki! Haha
I played dolls with my friends when I was young. Some of my playmates were boys. Anak anakan namin yung dolls while playing bahay bahayan. If you don’t want your children to be playing with dolls because you stereotype innocent children who play with them, the problem is clearly not the toy but your mindset.
ganyan din kaisipan ko dati dont stereotype. When my son is 2years old I tried palaruin sya ng mga pink items wlang issue sa kanya. Pero nung binigyan ko ng barbie, ayaw. Wala naman nagturo sa kanya na pang girl lang un. Hindi dn nya napapanuod sa tv kasi wala pa sya screen time nun. Basta ayaw nya daw kasi pang Mommy daw un.
12:38 linawin mo kung barbie dolls ba yan o mga cabbage patch dolls o action figure dolls. And anung age yang little na yan baka baby pa kasi like 2 below. Now kung 8 na pakilinaw anong dolls?
pag magkakalaro yung mga bata di ba halo halo na ang mga laruan nila may mga panlalaki at pambabae kaya pwede din nilang laruan yung nasa ibang gender stereotype na laruan. Ang mahalaga enjoy mga bagets at nagkakaroon ng interaction.
Ahhhh... OO. Ang laruan ay laruan. Kita mo naman, ang recommendation lang ay depende sa edad, para maingatan sa paglalaro ng mga toys na may small parts. Other than that, hindi nilalagay na ang Barbie ay para sa girls lang or ang toy cars ay sa boys lang ganern.
Ikaw ang hayzz. Mas hayzz ang kagaya mong backward ang thinking. Mas hayzz ang kagaya mong walang alam pero mema. Sa social sciences, may term na gender socialization. At regarding sa trans, kaya nga sinasabi nilang Transgender sila. Di naman nila kine-claim na Cisgender sila. OK, I bet di mo alam, so Google mo na lang ang Cisgender. And please, calling them names such as transginger is not funny. Considering you are on this page, whose some readers are part of LGBTQIA.
Nung bata ako, pag bibisita kami sa tita ko, nilalaro ko yung shotgun and Matchbox cars ng mga pinsan ko. Sa bahay namin, ang laruan ko Barbie at platu-platuhan.
ako pag kalaro ko mga lalaki nakikilaro din ako ng mga toy soldiers at nakiki laro ng gagamba, sumpit etc. Yung mga lalaki naman nakikipag laro din sa lutu lutuan na palayok at sa mga laruan na pang babae. Pag sungka lahat na kasali.
so hindi na pwedeng maging specific? kunwari bibilhan ko ng damit yung pamangkin kong lalaki, kapag sinabi ko sa tindera na hanap ko ay damit lang, binigyan nya ako ng blouse hindi ko parin pwede sabihin na damit panlalaki?
Yung mga taong tulad ninyo ang tinatawag na “deliberately missing the point” may masabi lang. Di kayo Nagmumukhang mas matalino sa pagpipilosopo ninyo.
She has a point 11.12 at sana huwag mo g umoisahan ang sagot mo ng..mga taong tulad ninyo... dahil hibdi magandang pakinggan. Important ang SPECIFICITY sa lahat ng bagay dahil yun ang guide ng mga scientists kung ano ang isang tao o isang bagay. Yun lang!
Ma'am, sorry, mawalang galang lang po, sure ka na dyan? Pinagsasabi mo! Ang toys ay walang kinalaman sa magiging sexual orientation ng bata. Ang daming lalaking naglaro ng robot at kotse-kotsehan o babae na naglaro ng Barbie at lutu-lutuan nung bata pero hindi sila heterosexual ngayon. Maraming factors ang sexual orientation at hindi laruan ang isa sa mga yon.
Anong cultural revisionism? Walang nirerevise. Toys are toys. I'm a girl. I was born in 80s, I played with robots. I don't like pink. Now my son plays with lutu-lutuan among other toys. NO TO STEREOTYPING.
Anong culture kemerut 12:23? Kelan kb pinanganak? Panahon ng titanic? I have a boy and a girl, they choose to buy toys na pang lalake o pambabae pero they share pag naglalaro sila whether car or a doll at di ko sila pinakikialaman.
A toy is an item that is used in play, mainly intended for use by children. Playing with toys can be an enjoyable means of training young children for life in society.
A society is a group of individuals involved in social interaction, subject to the same political authority and dominant cultural expectations.
Bye boomers! Pawala na ang mga uri nyong close minded! Yang mentalidad na yan ang dahilan bat maraming beki sa panahon nyo na tago, nagpakacloseta at nagjusawa para lang masabing straight sila... and ended up being miserable and suicidal. Anong masama kung maglaro ng jumping rope ang lalake, o RC cars ang babae? Ikamamatay ba ng bata yun?
Nakakatawa pag naalala ko ang mga laruan binbili minsan ng mom ko mga pink na walis at may dust pan pa. Sana binili na lang ng tunay na walis kasi mahal ang walis toy set hahhaha
Noong bata pa ako, binilhan ako ng nanay ko ng hello kitty na umiilaw. Nagalit ang tatay ko kasi pambabae daw yun. Pero di naman ako straight so okay lang.
Yes to breaking gender stereotypes. I played with both boys and girls and their robots, dolls, toy guns and kitchen sets because yes, toys are toys for all kids even if im only a sweet girl.
Pero bakit nasabi nung bata na Hindi purket nakapanggirl yong lalaki ay bakla na? So anong dahilan ng lalaki para magsuot ng ganun? It doesn't make sense at all.
It's a fact na toys are made for boys and girls just like clothes. I applaud the child's maturity to answer the question that way. But the question is based on facts. May toys na pambabae at may toys na panlalaki. Parang hindi naman mahirap intindihin yun.
What fact? I played with robots as a little girl. Are you telling me it was wrong? Ano bang physical requirement para makapaglaro ang isang bata ng manika o ng kotse? Mas maigsi ba braso ng batang babae kaya di makapagpaandar ng kotse? Mahina ba grip ng batang lalaki kaya di makahawak ng suklay ni barbie?
2:11 are you telling me that barbie dolls - with perfect beauty, perfect body, perfect make up and all sets of dresses and two piece swimsuits, high heels - are not particularly made for girls?
2:36 pa on point ka pa dyan eh Mali nga yung question eh. Mali yung concept na certain toys are just for boys or girls. Mas maya Lino pa si grade 1 sa yo.
11:16 so Yung barbie dolls na may perfect beauty, perfect make up, iba't ibang dress and two piece swimsuits, high heels are intentionally made for boys also? Kaya nga meron Ken na counterpart ni barbie eh. Yun ang para sa boys. Sana gets mo na ibig kong sabihin. Talino ka eh.
Facts ka dyan, hahaha! Di ko interes ang dolls at lutu-lutuan nung bata ako. Ang mga laruan ko: lego, carpentry set, board games at RC cars. Lagi akong naka-shorts at nakasakay sa bike. Lumaki naman akong straight, complete with kikay clothes and heels. Yun nga lang, may engineering degree ako because #whynot?
9:19 yabang naman neto. Barbie dolls nilalaro ko Nung bata pero engineer din ako hahaha. So Ang barbie dolls ba ay made particularly for boys also? Lol
I think it was a girl who answered that question. But I don't think a boy would answer the same thing to the same question. So i dont think Barbie doll is for both genders.
Ung anak ko babae nglalaro ng robot, baril barilan. Puro panglalaki kaya wla nmn amli nakikita mali dun pro ung anak ko lalaki tntpon ung barbie sa kapatid nya babae.
Hay naku bianca babae mga anak mo kaya ok lang malaro ng laruan ng panlalaki. Ewan ko lang kung lalaki anak mo kung kaya mo ipagsigawan na naglalaro ng barbie.
2:21 son ko was diagnosed with autism when he was two. Nung tima na nag OT siya, I bought him a baby doll, kasi I was teaching him parts of the face and parts of the body. No shame, kahit makita ng father in law ko kasi ano naman nakakahiya dun? Hangang ngayon naglalaro rin anak ko nung luto lutuan, why? It helps with imagination, role play game. Sa totoo lang, toys lang yan.
wala pa akong anak. pero kung magkakaroon na, bibilhan ko sya ng toy ayun sa gender nya. now kung gusto nya mag laro ng pang ibang gender, ok lang sa akin. let it be, but i will not impose.
2:50, Hmmm, you make no sense because you already imposed your belief by saying that you will only buy toys based on their gender as per your definition. Kaloka.
Sabi niya, bibili daw siya ng toy based sa gender ng anak niya, pero kung ayaw ng batang laruin yun, hindi niya ipipilit. Simple! Omg, lost in translation lagi ang mga tao dito. Hayst!
I have a 2 year old girl. Mas gusto nya laruin yung mga cars at helicopters. Hindi sya mahilig sa dolls and stuffed toys. Though recently nagustuhan nya si hello kitty. Pero more on cars and helicopters pa din. Ok lang nman. I mean I let her play with whatever she prefers.
Relate ako dyan classmate, dahil ganyan din mga laruan ko dati. Maybe she will be interested in a STEM career later on, dahil yun ang ending ko. Straight girl ako ha!
I have a 6 years old daughter. Hindi ko naman siya tinuruan ng this is pang babae or pang lalaki na toys. Pero she identifies them na pang girl or pang pang boy. I will bring her to the toy store and I will ask her sometimes if she wants this and that and she will tell me No mama it looks more like its for boys. She is an only child and she grew up playing by herself pretty much. They are just making a big deal out of this gender stereotypes in my opinion. I think we should just start respecting each other’s preferences. Like each one of us have different parenting skills. If some parents dont want their sons to play with dolls so be it. Its their choice. Ngayon lang naman yan naging issue. Hindi naman siya issue before. ngayon na lang na nauso ang internet at social media lahat na lang issu at kailangan bigyan ng opinion.
Your daughter learned that from tv, movies, pictures, friends, neighbours, etc. The toys themselves are identified by the pictures of girls or boys on the packages, as intended for their gender. She’ll notice that for sure. Gets mo.
What's the point of the question anyway? Bakit kailangan itanong to sa mga bata? Pareho Lang to sa color the house brown, leaves green, comb red, etc. Pag gusto mong colorful Yung house, wrong Yung answer mo. Nonsense Yung mga tanong.
Sus ngayon lang nman yan. Dati ang pang boys png boys. Ang pang girls pang girls. Nung preschool ang anak ganyan nman talaga meron pang damit pang babae at ang pang lalaki. Para alam nila kung ano sila
I played Lego and robots when I was a kid. pero tignan niyo ngayon bakla ako. I am never fond of dolls when I was a kid. So stop Streotyping the kind of toys your kids play.
Ok sabi nyo eh. Little boys playing with dolls is harmless? Playing dress up for little boys as girls harmless den? Lokohin nyo mga lola nyo. We know better.
My son has Marvel action figures but interact with his sister's Dora dolls. He also watches Barbie and My Little Pony shows with the little sis. He does that because he's a sensitive kuya who understands how to play with the little sis. Why place boundaries on what children can play with if it makes them better people?
Lol, you make no sense. I never played with dolls and I never tried women’s dresses but I still turned out gay. I played basketball, lol. You are dispensing myths.
Yes they are harmless. For kids who just wanted to explore ,that doesn't really matter. I had a collection of robots when I was younger and have been interested in physical sports growing up yet I ended up being gay.
May point naman yung bata. Ako I played action figure with my brother kasi wala siyang kalaro eh ayoko kalaro ate ko kahit i want to play with dolls. ok naman straight kami. Toys are toys that's it.
I don't believe the child actually thought about that. For kids, it doesn't matter to them. Wala silang idea whether a toy is specifically for boys or girls so lalaruin nila kung anuman yung available. The mother could have done that and asked her child to write it para maging viral at sabihing wow, ang smart nong bata. Whether we admit it or not, there will always be toys specifically made for both genders. It may be okay for girls to play with robots and guns. Same as them wearing pants or shorts. But if we let boys play barbie or wear skirts, would you still say or think the same?
wag ka nga! kmeng mga may masters nakikichismis din noh at interesado sa point of view ng mga artista. so condescending naman na porke artista at walang pinagaralan ay wala na karapatan maging opinionated.
Yung mga mahilig mag "please educate yourself" dyan so ano mas "edukado" ka kasi di kayo parehas ng paniniwala? Dahil taliwas sa paniniwala nyo e wala ng say sa issue?
I am a gay man and wala ako nakikitang mali sa pambabae o panlalake.
Pano yung mahihilig sa over hype baby showers? Pag gunamit ng blue or pink e mali na agad? PS. Most likely alam nyo kung sino blue and pink dyan sooo mali na agad yun kasi "tagging"?
Marami talaga ako batang babae nakikita na naglalaro ng mga toys for boys, pero yung mga pamangkin ko lahat lalake ayaw talaga maglaro ng laruan na pang girl.. haha
ReplyDeleteNakakailang kaya maglaro ng barbie doll kung lalaki ka.
Delete12:22 bata ka pa bakit ka maiilang, mali lang turo ng magulang mo na istereotype at ilimit ang ano ang pambabae at panlalaki
Delete12:22 I don’t think nakakailang. SIguro narinig sa matatanda na “barbies are for girls, are you a girl?” :((( kasi mga pamangkin ko ayaw maglaro ng barbie kasi laging sinasabihan ng ganyan :(((
DeleteAdults give meaning, rules and labels to everything. Kids will play with whatever they pick up or anything that pleases their eyes. Hindi maiilang ang bata, matatanda yung naiilang.
DeleteMas mature pa mag isip tong bata kesa sa ibang kilala ko o natin. *wink
ReplyDeleteSa America ang mga puti kahit lalake ang anak linalagay sa gymnastics at balet bukod sa sports. Tinitingnan nila kung saan sila magaling.
ReplyDeleteTeh iba naman ang gymnastics sa mga laruang barbie at baril barilan at kahit sa America walang straight na batang lalaki na naglalaro ng barbie noh
DeleteWell, dito sa Pilipinas may kapitbahay kaming guy na naglaro ng Barbie kasama kaming mga babae. Pero one time lang yun. Lumaki naman straight si guy.
Delete2:31 Pano mo naman nalamang straight sya? Di yun basta makikita sa kilos at panlabas na kaanyuan but dun sa nararamdaman nya
DeleteWhaat? My kuya used to behead my barbies as part of war games with his other toys. Ayun spoiled kaming sisters, wife and daughters sa kanya hahahaha.
DeletePsychiatrists said most boys who play with dolls when they are young grow up to be doting, nurturing dads. It’s usually the adults who cause a stir about this.
DeletePati yung “why are you crying? Are you a girl?’ mentality, no wonder most men tend to keep their pent up emotions to themselves and end up being weak inside if not suffering from heart problems.
So okay lang maglaro ang mga straight kids ng Barbie and paper dolls? Seriously?
ReplyDeleteYes, why not? Toys are toys, toys do not have gender. Please educate yourself a little bit more. The kids and toys are not the problem, its the adults who introduce stereotyping to the children’s minds.
DeleteYes. My nephew played with dolls when he was little because his mom is a progressive and did not believe in limiting toys based on stereotypes.
DeleteHe is now all grown up and continues to identify male. Toys don’t cause gender preference, people are born certain ways, and nothing you play with can change that
There is nothing wrong with that. How do you even know they are straight at a very young age?
DeleteI have a son pero di ko sya papayagan maglaro ng barbie ayoko pagtawanan sya ng mga kaedad nyang mga lalaki!
DeleteHow do you know they're straight e bata pa sila? Unless sabihin ng bata na eto ang preferred kong gender identity. Wala naman masama maglaro ng barbie at paper dolls. Ikakapahamak ba ng bata? Dapat pagtuunan kung choking hazard ang laruan o age appropriate lalo na kung baril, pellet o toy knife.
DeleteU can see if they are straight or not kahit bata pa sila gaya ng mga pamangkin ko bata palang malalambot na and nung lumaki na sila trans na sila and yung iba kong mga pamangkin na bata pa lang nakikibogbogan na sa kanto at nung lumaki naging mga pasaway na na mga lalaki! Haha
DeleteI played dolls with my friends when I was young. Some of my playmates were boys. Anak anakan namin yung dolls while playing bahay bahayan. If you don’t want your children to be playing with dolls because you stereotype innocent children who play with them, the problem is clearly not the toy but your mindset.
Delete12:41 that’s sad pero supposedly laruan naman talaga yan. Adult lang talaga problema, tinatatak nila sa isip ng bata ganito laruan ng babae at lalaki.
Deleteganyan din kaisipan ko dati dont stereotype. When my son is 2years old I tried palaruin sya ng mga pink items wlang issue sa kanya. Pero nung binigyan ko ng barbie, ayaw. Wala naman nagturo sa kanya na pang girl lang un. Hindi dn nya napapanuod sa tv kasi wala pa sya screen time nun. Basta ayaw nya daw kasi pang Mommy daw un.
Delete12:38 linawin mo kung barbie dolls ba yan o mga cabbage patch dolls o action figure dolls. And anung age yang little na yan baka baby pa kasi like 2 below. Now kung 8 na pakilinaw anong dolls?
Deletepag magkakalaro yung mga bata di ba halo halo na ang mga laruan nila may mga panlalaki at pambabae kaya pwede din nilang laruan yung nasa ibang gender stereotype na laruan. Ang mahalaga enjoy mga bagets at nagkakaroon ng interaction.
DeleteToys are designed for fun and entertainment purposes, hindi para i-determine ang gender orientation ng bata.
DeleteAhhhh... OO. Ang laruan ay laruan. Kita mo naman, ang recommendation lang ay depende sa edad, para maingatan sa paglalaro ng mga toys na may small parts. Other than that, hindi nilalagay na ang Barbie ay para sa girls lang or ang toy cars ay sa boys lang ganern.
DeleteGrabe na toh pati mga laruan sabagay nowadays pati mga transginger woman ginagawang mga babae kahit hindi naman hayzz!
ReplyDelete12:19 What's transginger? 😄
DeleteIkaw ang hayzz. Mas hayzz ang kagaya mong backward ang thinking. Mas hayzz ang kagaya mong walang alam pero mema. Sa social sciences, may term na gender socialization. At regarding sa trans, kaya nga sinasabi nilang Transgender sila. Di naman nila kine-claim na Cisgender sila. OK, I bet di mo alam, so Google mo na lang ang Cisgender. And please, calling them names such as transginger is not funny. Considering you are on this page, whose some readers are part of LGBTQIA.
Delete12:45, google mo na lang rin.
DeleteNung bata ako, pag bibisita kami sa tita ko, nilalaro ko yung shotgun and Matchbox cars ng mga pinsan ko. Sa bahay namin, ang laruan ko Barbie at platu-platuhan.
ReplyDeleteHindi mo naman pinost kung lalaki ka o babae.
DeleteThanks for your curiosity 12:41. Babae po.
DeleteTHATS THE POINT 12:41
DeleteIt doesnt matter kung anong gender mo!
TOYS ARE TOYS
1:10 kung lalaki kasi siya tapos ganyan post niya Ask ko kung bakla ba siya now.....but since girl naman pala so ok lang.
Deleteako pag kalaro ko mga lalaki nakikilaro din ako ng mga toy soldiers at nakiki laro ng gagamba, sumpit etc. Yung mga lalaki naman nakikipag laro din sa lutu lutuan na palayok at sa mga laruan na pang babae. Pag sungka lahat na kasali.
Delete12:41AM And what's your gender? Aren't you going to ask the other commenters below too?
Deleteso hindi narin pwedeng gamitin yung salitang damit pambabae/panlalaki?
ReplyDeleteGustong ituro na damit lang. Pwede sa Lahat!
Deleteso hindi na pwedeng maging specific? kunwari bibilhan ko ng damit yung pamangkin kong lalaki, kapag sinabi ko sa tindera na hanap ko ay damit lang, binigyan nya ako ng blouse hindi ko parin pwede sabihin na damit panlalaki?
Delete2:01 hahaha you have a point
DeleteYung mga taong tulad ninyo ang tinatawag na “deliberately missing the point” may masabi lang. Di kayo Nagmumukhang mas matalino sa pagpipilosopo ninyo.
DeleteAng point is may mga toys an panlalake at pambabae pero pwedeng laruin ng babae Ang toys na panlalake at Ang lake Ang toys na pambabae.
DeleteShe has a point 11.12 at sana huwag mo g umoisahan ang sagot mo ng..mga taong tulad ninyo... dahil hibdi magandang pakinggan. Important ang SPECIFICITY sa lahat ng bagay dahil yun ang guide ng mga scientists kung ano ang isang tao o isang bagay. Yun lang!
DeleteRespeft our culture! Toys for girls are only for girls.. Toyz for boyz are only for boyz!
ReplyDeleteAGREE! NO TO CULTURE REVISIONISM! RESPECT!
DeleteWhose culture is that? Definitely not ours.
DeleteSorry to tell you di po yan part ng culture. At ang culture nag-eevolve. Mga boomer mag-isip talaga sobrang unprogressive
DeleteTeh anon 12:23, pakiayos muna paggamit mo ng letrang z bago ka kumuda dyan tungkol sa kultura. Kaloka ka
DeleteI respect the loving Filipino culture. Where are you from?
Delete12:23 anong culture pinagsasabe mo dyan. hahaha
DeleteMa'am, sorry, mawalang galang lang po, sure ka na dyan? Pinagsasabi mo! Ang toys ay walang kinalaman sa magiging sexual orientation ng bata. Ang daming lalaking naglaro ng robot at kotse-kotsehan o babae na naglaro ng Barbie at lutu-lutuan nung bata pero hindi sila heterosexual ngayon. Maraming factors ang sexual orientation at hindi laruan ang isa sa mga yon.
DeleteAnong cultural revisionism? Walang nirerevise. Toys are toys. I'm a girl. I was born in 80s, I played with robots. I don't like pink. Now my son plays with lutu-lutuan among other toys. NO TO STEREOTYPING.
Deleteare you living in a cave?
DeleteHaha CULTURE? TOYS are not part of the culture. Alamin mo muna ibig sabihin ng CULTURE bago ka mag lecture diyan or you can just stay IGNORANT. 😅
DeleteAnong culture kemerut 12:23? Kelan kb pinanganak? Panahon ng titanic? I have a boy and a girl, they choose to buy toys na pang lalake o pambabae pero they share pag naglalaro sila whether car or a doll at di ko sila pinakikialaman.
Delete2:54 AM Toys have a cultural relevance.
DeleteA toy is an item that is used in play, mainly intended for use by children. Playing with toys can be an enjoyable means of training young children for life in society.
A society is a group of individuals involved in social interaction, subject to the same political authority and dominant cultural expectations.
Bye boomers! Pawala na ang mga uri nyong close minded! Yang mentalidad na yan ang dahilan bat maraming beki sa panahon nyo na tago, nagpakacloseta at nagjusawa para lang masabing straight sila... and ended up being miserable and suicidal. Anong masama kung maglaro ng jumping rope ang lalake, o RC cars ang babae? Ikamamatay ba ng bata yun?
DeleteNakakatawa pag naalala ko ang mga laruan binbili minsan ng mom ko mga pink na walis at may dust pan pa. Sana binili na lang ng tunay na walis kasi mahal ang walis toy set hahhaha
ReplyDeleteHehehe kulet
DeleteNaku magwawala ang mga "moralista" nyan! LOL!
ReplyDeleteNoong bata pa ako, binilhan ako ng nanay ko ng hello kitty na umiilaw. Nagalit ang tatay ko kasi pambabae daw yun. Pero di naman ako straight so okay lang.
ReplyDeleteHe, he, he.. Ayos.
DeleteYes to breaking gender stereotypes. I played with both boys and girls and their robots, dolls, toy guns and kitchen sets because yes, toys are toys for all kids even if im only a sweet girl.
ReplyDeleteOk lang yun girl ka naman kasi. Pero kung nagsusuot ka na ng brief.....
DeleteAyaw akong pagsuutin ng mommy ko ng brief. Kababaeng tao ko daw. Sabi ko, ok lang. toy lang naman ito.
DeletePero bakit nasabi nung bata na Hindi purket nakapanggirl yong lalaki ay bakla na? So anong dahilan ng lalaki para magsuot ng ganun? It doesn't make sense at all.
DeleteWhen I was in college, I have a boy toy. Yun pala, girl toy siya. Buwiset.
Delete12:23 anong our culture? Kitid ng pananaw. Laruan lang yan. Huwag mong i-embrace ang outdated gender roles and notions.
ReplyDeleteAng daming time mag react ng mga artista ng Channel 2. Karaniwan ng maingay sa socmed puro taga ABS. Sana magkaroon na talga sila ng trabaho.
ReplyDeletePansin ko rin yun haha
DeleteI don't watch local shows but these "maingay" Channel 2 artists earned my respect. #SanaAllMaySubstance
Delete1:04 teh, malamang may pera pa rin sila kahit wala sila work ngayon. Eh ikaw kaya? Kaloka ka! Pati yun pinansin mo pa
DeleteTHERE IS HOPE!
ReplyDeleteThank GOD
Ang bata pa, may sense of equality na siya!
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Hindi kaya mali lang talaga sya sa answers nya?
Delete@9:26am may piling din akong scripted
Deletehaaay nako, this is the problem of this generation.
ReplyDeleteNo, this is our solution for the problems that your generation caused.
Delete11.09. I think no.. Dahil Confusion ang effect nito pag walang specificity.
DeleteThank you Bianca for your most insightful opinion... now I feel better!
ReplyDeleteIt's a fact na toys are made for boys and girls just like clothes. I applaud the child's maturity to answer the question that way. But the question is based on facts. May toys na pambabae at may toys na panlalaki. Parang hindi naman mahirap intindihin yun.
ReplyDeleteOo nga..daming OA
DeleteWhat fact? I played with robots as a little girl. Are you telling me it was wrong? Ano bang physical requirement para makapaglaro ang isang bata ng manika o ng kotse? Mas maigsi ba braso ng batang babae kaya di makapagpaandar ng kotse? Mahina ba grip ng batang lalaki kaya di makahawak ng suklay ni barbie?
Deletemas matalino sa u ang grade 1 ngayon.
DeleteNatutuwa lang naman ang mga tao na kahit grade 1 pa lang yung bata eh bukas na yung isip niya na walang gender ang mga laruan.
DeleteOn point! Hindi ibig sabihin eh Hindi na pwede maglaro Ang batang babae ng toys na panlalake and vice versa. Just stick to the question.
Delete2:11 basa at intindi please
Delete2:11 are you telling me that barbie dolls - with perfect beauty, perfect body, perfect make up and all sets of dresses and two piece swimsuits, high heels - are not particularly made for girls?
Delete2:36 pa on point ka pa dyan eh Mali nga yung question eh. Mali yung concept na certain toys are just for boys or girls. Mas maya Lino pa si grade 1 sa yo.
Delete11:16 so Yung barbie dolls na may perfect beauty, perfect make up, iba't ibang dress and two piece swimsuits, high heels are intentionally made for boys also? Kaya nga meron Ken na counterpart ni barbie eh. Yun ang para sa boys. Sana gets mo na ibig kong sabihin. Talino ka eh.
DeleteFacts ka dyan, hahaha! Di ko interes ang dolls at lutu-lutuan nung bata ako. Ang mga laruan ko: lego, carpentry set, board games at RC cars. Lagi akong naka-shorts at nakasakay sa bike. Lumaki naman akong straight, complete with kikay clothes and heels. Yun nga lang, may engineering degree ako because #whynot?
Delete9:19 yabang naman neto. Barbie dolls nilalaro ko Nung bata pero engineer din ako hahaha. So Ang barbie dolls ba ay made particularly for boys also? Lol
DeleteLol, so you think that girls can never be engineers, astronauts, rocket scientists, pilots, etc. Kaloka ka.
DeleteI think it was a girl who answered that question. But I don't think a boy would answer the same thing to the same question. So i dont think Barbie doll is for both genders.
DeleteUng anak ko babae nglalaro ng robot, baril barilan. Puro panglalaki kaya wla nmn amli nakikita mali dun pro ung anak ko lalaki tntpon ung barbie sa kapatid nya babae.
ReplyDeletebakit yung mga boys nakikilaro din sa mga girls pag tindatindahan na? wala naman siguro masama.
ReplyDeletetinda tindahan lang naman Kasi yun. Try mong lalaki ang anak mo tapos dinadamitan at sinusuklayan si Barbie at niyayakap si Ken pagtulog.
DeleteHay naku bianca babae mga anak mo kaya ok lang malaro ng laruan ng panlalaki. Ewan ko lang kung lalaki anak mo kung kaya mo ipagsigawan na naglalaro ng barbie.
ReplyDeleteMay punto ka.
DeleteLol
DeleteGood point 2:21. Batang babaeng naglalaro ng robot, kotse-kotsehan - acceptable pa. Pero batang lalaki na naglalaro ng Barbie? Nako kabahan ka na.
Delete2:21 son ko was diagnosed with autism when he was two. Nung tima na nag OT siya, I bought him a baby doll, kasi I was teaching him parts of the face and parts of the body. No shame, kahit makita ng father in law ko kasi ano naman nakakahiya dun? Hangang ngayon naglalaro rin anak ko nung luto lutuan, why? It helps with imagination, role play game. Sa totoo lang, toys lang yan.
DeleteI have a boy and he plays with my little pony. I don't see anything wrong with that
Deletewala pa akong anak. pero kung magkakaroon na, bibilhan ko sya ng toy ayun sa gender nya. now kung gusto nya mag laro ng pang ibang gender, ok lang sa akin. let it be, but i will not impose.
ReplyDelete2:50, Hmmm, you make no sense because you already imposed your belief by saying that you will only buy toys based on their gender as per your definition. Kaloka.
Delete“Bibilhan ko sya ng toys na ayon gender nya”...
DeleteSabi mo you won’t impose eh yung statement mo na yan naimpose mo na nga Yung gender pati gender stereotype of toys so ano ba talaga
Sabi niya, bibili daw siya ng toy based sa gender ng anak niya, pero kung ayaw ng batang laruin yun, hindi niya ipipilit. Simple! Omg, lost in translation lagi ang mga tao dito. Hayst!
DeleteI have a 2 year old girl. Mas gusto nya laruin yung mga cars at helicopters. Hindi sya mahilig sa dolls and stuffed toys. Though recently nagustuhan nya si hello kitty. Pero more on cars and helicopters pa din. Ok lang nman. I mean I let her play with whatever she prefers.
ReplyDeleteRelate ako dyan classmate, dahil ganyan din mga laruan ko dati. Maybe she will be interested in a STEM career later on, dahil yun ang ending ko. Straight girl ako ha!
DeleteI have a 6 years old daughter. Hindi ko naman siya tinuruan ng this is pang babae or pang lalaki na toys. Pero she identifies them na pang girl or pang pang boy. I will bring her to the toy store and I will ask her sometimes if she wants this and that and she will tell me No mama it looks more like its for boys. She is an only child and she grew up playing by herself pretty much. They are just making a big deal out of this gender stereotypes in my opinion. I think we should just start respecting each other’s preferences. Like each one of us have different parenting skills. If some parents dont want their sons to play with dolls so be it. Its their choice. Ngayon lang naman yan naging issue. Hindi naman siya issue before. ngayon na lang na nauso ang internet at social media lahat na lang issu at kailangan bigyan ng opinion.
ReplyDeleteYour daughter learned that from tv, movies, pictures, friends, neighbours, etc. The toys themselves are identified by the pictures of girls or boys on the packages, as intended for their gender. She’ll notice that for sure. Gets mo.
DeleteWhat's the point of the question anyway? Bakit kailangan itanong to sa mga bata? Pareho Lang to sa color the house brown, leaves green, comb red, etc. Pag gusto mong colorful Yung house, wrong Yung answer mo. Nonsense Yung mga tanong.
ReplyDeleteSus ngayon lang nman yan. Dati ang pang boys png boys. Ang pang girls pang girls. Nung preschool ang anak ganyan nman talaga meron pang damit pang babae at ang pang lalaki. Para alam nila kung ano sila
ReplyDeleteI played Lego and robots when I was a kid. pero tignan niyo ngayon bakla ako. I am never fond of dolls when I was a kid. So stop Streotyping the kind of toys your kids play.
ReplyDeleteTalagang higit na malawak ang pang unawa ng mga bata kumpara sa matatanda. Very good, ayesha!
ReplyDeleteKung sasagutin base sa tanong na kung pang lalaki o pambabae ang toy, pang kanino yung jumping rope?
ReplyDeleteOk sabi nyo eh. Little boys playing with dolls is harmless? Playing dress up for little boys as girls harmless den? Lokohin nyo mga lola nyo. We know better.
ReplyDeleteIKR. Well sa household namin, si kuya hinawakan ang barbie doll ko, bugbog yan kay papa.
DeleteMy son has Marvel action figures but interact with his sister's Dora dolls. He also watches Barbie and My Little Pony shows with the little sis. He does that because he's a sensitive kuya who understands how to play with the little sis. Why place boundaries on what children can play with if it makes them better people?
DeleteLol, you make no sense. I never played with dolls and I never tried women’s dresses but I still turned out gay. I played basketball, lol. You are dispensing myths.
DeleteYes they are harmless. For kids who just wanted to explore ,that doesn't really matter. I had a collection of robots when I was younger and have been interested in physical sports growing up yet I ended up being gay.
DeleteI bought my son luto lutuan forlearning development and pretend play.
ReplyDeletewhen you grow up poor kahit na ano basta toy lalaruin ko kasi minsan lang maka hagilap ng toy, iba nga wala talaga.
ReplyDeleteMay point naman yung bata. Ako I played action figure with my brother kasi wala siyang kalaro eh ayoko kalaro ate ko kahit i want to play with dolls. ok naman straight kami. Toys are toys that's it.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe the child actually thought about that. For kids, it doesn't matter to them. Wala silang idea whether a toy is specifically for boys or girls so lalaruin nila kung anuman yung available. The mother could have done that and asked her child to write it para maging viral at sabihing wow, ang smart nong bata. Whether we admit it or not, there will always be toys specifically made for both genders. It may be okay for girls to play with robots and guns. Same as them wearing pants or shorts. But if we let boys play barbie or wear skirts, would you still say or think the same?
ReplyDelete12:47 Super agree with you!
DeleteThis is what I'm talking about.
DeleteAyan na naman si Bianca. Nakikita kontalaga siyang nagcocomment kahit saan para ibigay o masabi niya yung opinion/comment niya 😆
ReplyDeleteTama! Walang gender-gender sa laruan. Ako nga Barbie laruan ko nung bata, kaya ngayon girl din gusto ko.. hahaha
ReplyDelete-Anjolina Jolie
ang dapat ma-educate is yung mga galing-galingan e. 'tong mga pinoy artista na ito kala mo may mga masters degree maka-react.
ReplyDeletetumigil na nga kayo oy. mga hopeless faney nyo lang naman nakikinig sa inyo hindi mga educated citizens!
7:22 G na G lng? Kaloka ka. Ikaw nga you put time and effort to make a comment
Deletewag ka nga! kmeng mga may masters nakikichismis din noh at interesado sa point of view ng mga artista. so condescending naman na porke artista at walang pinagaralan ay wala na karapatan maging opinionated.
DeleteShut up people. This is 2020, boys and girls can do whatever they can or want to do. Live with it.
ReplyDeleteAs the saying goes - Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times. :)
ReplyDeleteYung mga mahilig mag "please educate yourself" dyan so ano mas "edukado" ka kasi di kayo parehas ng paniniwala? Dahil taliwas sa paniniwala nyo e wala ng say sa issue?
ReplyDeleteI am a gay man and wala ako nakikitang mali sa pambabae o panlalake.
Pano yung mahihilig sa over hype baby showers? Pag gunamit ng blue or pink e mali na agad? PS. Most likely alam nyo kung sino blue and pink dyan sooo mali na agad yun kasi "tagging"?
Naaalala ko ung elem ako ung mga boys kalaro ko sa jackstone... magagaling sila kesa samin mga girls
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