If that was when Bugoy was 15 and EJ was 20 and got pregnant, then nakakabother talaga. Bugoy is missing the point. It’s not about taking responsibility. What if it’s the other way around? 20 years old na lalaking nakabuntis ng menor de edad na babae?
Hindi ata gets nung bugoy na un ej ang binabash kasi nga sya ang nakakatanda sa kanilang 2. He was still a minor when she got pregnant. Puro lang sya at least pinandigan nya. Ok we get it. Ang point ng mga tao un ej matanda na so dapat sya ang nag guide sa minor na bugoy. E di sana hindi nakabuntis at a very very young age.
Nakakaasiwa yung picture nila. Totoy na totoy pa si Bugoy. Hindi natin alam ang buong pangyayari pero palagay na nating si Bugoy ang nag first move, yung EJ bilang mas nakatatanda at mas mature sana pinigilan nya na humantong sa pagbubuntis nya.
Hindi ang pagiging responsableng ama ni Bugoy ang question dito. Kundi yung morals at maturity ni EJ.
Kung 20 si bugoy at 25 si EJ katanggap tanggap pa sa society eh. Pero 15?? Corruption of minor yan, girl!
Anu ba yan. Dami na talaga oras ng tao ngayon mag kilatis since halos lahat ngayon nasa bahay haha. Na stress na din sila sa mga ganito balita sana na lang hinde na lang sila nag post ng ganito para wala na keme keme alam niyo naman lahat na lang may sinasabi mga tao sa nga post post natin sa ating life. Oh well... ganun talaga
Hindi sa kinikilatis ng bayan buhay nila pero mali ang magkarelasyon at magka sexual relations ang isa 15 yr old and 20 yr old. Baka sa tingin mo ayos lang ito dahil ang mas bata yung lalaki or dahil may consent. Pero ang punto ay bata ang 15 yr old at minor siya para makipagrelasyon sa isang 20 yr old. At kapag binaliktad mo na 15 yr old na babae and 20 yr old na lalaki hindi ka ba mababahala? Pareho dapat ang pagtrato mapalalaki man o babae yung mas bata. Kailangan protektahan ang mga menor de edad sa mga posibleng grooming or predators.
Then why hid it from the public nong time na nabuntis kayo? Because you both knew it was wrong. Ngayon malakas loob niyong ijustify yung ginawa niyo. If it was the girl who was 15, it would be a different story.
HAHAHAHAHAHA!! napakahusay ng comment na to 😂😂😂😂 ako naman nung una kong madinig ito grabe ang reaksyon ko ay diba halos kaka crcmcise lang ng 15. Sorry not sorry
ganito lang yan. Tayo mga chismosa at chismoso lang dito. Kahit anu opinion natin balewala na sa kanila yun. thats their life Let them be. Andiyan na yan e wala na tayo magagawa what happened to their past tapos na yun hinde na natin pwede balikan ang nakaraan kahit anu halukay mo wala na hinde na natin yun mababago o mapapalitan. Kung kaya nila gapanan maging mabuti magulang sa bata Let them be ganun naman dapat e. Hayaan niyo na sila. Lesson dito wag niyo sila tuluran kung ayaw niyo mangyari ito sa buhay niyo . Ganun lang yun para hinde Ma stress at mapag usapan at makutya ng nga tao.
12.44 is not normalizing, totoo naman, nangyari na ang nangyari. Ano ba gusto nyo gawin mgsampahan pa ng kaso? If both parties have moved on and the parents are doing their best to raise their child. Then hayaan nyo na sila. Masyado kayong righteous, ang pperfect nyo naman, hindi ba kayo ngkakamali sa buhay? Let them be and give them second chance. Though agree ako na sana quiet na lang sila EJ abt this matter para hindi na napag fiestahan.
11:47 Kaya nga pinupuna para di pamarisan. It's not about being perfect or righteous, it's about trying to remind society about what is right. Hindi porket ginagawa na nang lahat ay okay na. Ngayon 15 years old okay na, ano bukas twelve years old? Ano, a century from now 7 years old pwede na mag ano? And yes girl you are normalizing something na dapat sana ay mali in the eyes of society.
you are right. wala mali si bugoy. pag malawak na pag uutak nya ay maiintindihan din to ni bugoy. for now. mga abogado.. dswd at magulang ni bugoy ang kailangan umaksyon.
It’s not about taking responsibility, it’s the fact that someone, who should have known better, took advantage of a minor. Also, grabe ang double standard ha. Kung yung babae ang minor pinako nyo na lahat sa krus siguro yung lalaki.
Ang puntong hindi magets ni Bugoy at ng ibang nagdedefend sa ganito is that Ej should have known better. Kung 20 siya that time, dapat naisip nya na pwede nya masira childhood nung bata. She shouldn't have shown interest or at least waited man lang til he's old enough. Bigyan mo ba naman ng responsibilidad ng ganyan kabata. Yes, what happened was consensual pero naisip ba ni Ej na wala pa sa hustong maturity si Bugoy that time. Bugoy could have had a bright future ahead, he has a showbiz career, hindi pa tapos sa pag aaral, sa edad niya na naging tatay sya he should be doing other things that other boys his age do like get to know themselves and enjoy their youth but ninakaw ni Ej yun sakanya. Now it's easy for him to say na "at least pinanindigan" niya pero one day when he gets older and more matured he'll realize that.
And that's the consequence that Ej will pay. Infidelity is just around the corner. Sorry to say that but, To be honest he's just 15!! Like, Girl what were u thinking?!!
1:17 age of consent is 12 to consider minority groups na pwede nang ikasal yung 12 years old. Ayaw ng batas na i-discriminate sila. Pero yung totoo, 18 talaga ang age of consent. Do some research.
2:31 age of consent MORALLY ay 18. pero dito sa pilipinas, sa batas natin, 12. so kahit pagbaliktarin nyo pa mundo, wala na tayo magagawa sa nangyari at hindi mapaparusahan ung babae bc its not considered as statutory rape.
RA 7610: ARTICLE III Child Prostitution and Other Sexual Abuse
Section 5. Child Prostitution and Other Sexual Abuse. – Children, whether male or female, who for money, profit, or any other consideration or due to the coercion or influence of any adult, syndicate or group, indulge in sexual intercourse or lascivious conduct, are deemed to be children exploited in prostitution and other sexual abuse.
Section 3 defines children as persons below 18. I’d say this EJ/Bugoy case is a resounding CHILD ABUSE.
People who are judging them are highly toxic people. what grooming they are referring to? What if the boy is already sexually active around time? Would people still call it grooming? Yes, its wrong but who are you to judge and declare that she groomed him?! It just so happened that the girl is older than him and he decided to stick with her makes people go crazy.
Buti nga may nagreact pa. Isipin mo nlang besh kung ang babae ang menor de edad, hindi reaction makikita mo...violent reaction pa. Wag na tayo magpakaplastik pa.
at ang dami ring katulad mo na baluktot mag-isip. ung kitang-kita nang mali, pinipilit pa ring i-normalize kesyo pinanindigan naman eklavu. you don't get the point because you choose not to see the point. kadiri.
To Anonymous 3:36AM: Sir/Maam, whether or not Bugoy was sexually active when he was 15 while EJ was 20 years old is beside the point. EJ was "more adult" when she and Bugoy did the deed. EJ should have exercised self-restraint and acted wisely instead of giving in to her human desires. What do you think people would have said if the ages were reversed? Would you have commented the same? I believe people would have been quick to judge had it been Bugoy who was 20 and EJ was 15.
He was a minor at 15, mahirap bang intindihin, 3:36PM? Kapwa ba nya minor nabuntis nya? No. 5 years older 'yung girl. Pag lalake 'yan baka mas nagre-react kayo.
9:55 Dahil mas matanda si EJ dapat sya yung mas naging responsible? No. Lahat tayo have the capacity to have a CHOICE and decide. Both had the option not to do "it" pero pinili nilang gawin pa rin kahit morally wrong. Bugoy was just 15 kamo. Menor de edad kamo. Pero alam na nya - apologies if this will sound bastos - kung pano mabubuntis ang isang babae. Pareho silang aware. Stop pointing fingers kung sino ang mas mali. And let's stop judging people for their mistakes.
It is good that bugoy is taking responsibility. Pero hindi naman si bugoy ang issue dito e. It’s that ej girl. Age does not matter but bugoy is too young while the girl is the supposed to be the more mature one who could have handled the situation better. And bugoy always raising the card that he took responsibility just goes to show how young he is. He cannot even comprehend that no one is bashing him but that ej girl.
Supposedly but obvious naman na hindi rin ganoon ka matured si girl dahil first of all, hindi siya papatol sa minor kung emotionally matured na siya e. I remember nung twenty ako, mas marami pang alam tungkol sa relasyon at experience yung mga peers ko na 4 to 5 yrs. younger than me. Hindi kasi natin pwedeng pwersahin ang twenty years old na mag-matured dahil twenty na siya. MAturity and wisdom come from experience and guidance from people around you. I believe na in love din si EJ at hindi lang dahil gusto niya lang makipagrelasyon sa minor and bugoy at the age of fifteen, mukhang di naman siya ganoon kainosente. Ang tanong, nasaan ang mga parents nila? Bakit wala namang pumigil, di ba? The parents of bugoy na alam nilang mali, bakit nila kinunsinti? Hindi ba dapat din silang sisihin. The parents of EJ, bakit pumayag na magsama sila e alam na minor si bugoy. It means, tinanggap na lang nila kasi nga wala na silang magagawa. Although we shouldn't normalize grooming naman talaga, we shouldn't normalize pagiging pakialamero sa buhay ng ibang tao lalo na at pinanindigan nila at ang pinaka kawawa is yung bata na mahal ng mga magulang at sinusubukang panindigan tapos kung anu-ano maririnig sa ibang tao. The only thing we can do is to try to educate our kids at huwag hayaang mangyari iyon. Sadly, we can only be responsible sa sarili nating mga buhay.
No one is bashing you bugoy. If at all, people are bashing ej. She is the mature one and should have acted like one. Now if you do not get it, then it goes to show na talagang bata ka pa nga.
15 lang nung nakabuntis, eh pag nagkasakit ganyang edad pwede pang tanggapin sa paedia eh. Di nagets ni B yung point. You were too young nung nkabuntis ka.
No, bugoy. No one's talking about taking responsibilities here... What happened here is -- you were GROOMED by ej. Hindi mo pa narerealize yun kasi nga bata ka pa
What if si kuya pala ang mas may gusto hindi si girl? Kahit minor de edad si guy? Grooming pa rin ang tawag dun? Porket mas matanda si girl sya na dapat sisihin? Both CONSENTED so both are accountable.
For me wala naman masyadong problema ang age gap. Pwede naman yung mas matanda yung lalaki sa babae or yung babar sa lalaki gaya ng case nila Bugoy. BUT! Huwag naman po sana menor de edad. Ang bata pa masyado ni Bugoy. Grabe
This goes to show how young and naive Bugoy is. Bata pa talaga siya at hindi niya ma-comprehend na biktima siya ng girlfriend niya. Hindi niya magets kung bakit valid ang angry reactions ng mga tao kahit hindi nila alam yung buong kwento.
In this instance, even just knowing that a 20 year old had sexual relations with a 15 year old is enough to justify the people’s anger. Grooming a child can never ever be justified.
May tanong ako. So kung yung kapatid/pinsan/pamangkin/anak nyo na 15 years old na lalaki, okay lang ba sa inyo na mabuntis ang kapitbahay nyo na 20 years old na Ate-Ate nya kuno? Yung tipong pinapa alaga nyo pa kay Ate si Totoy kung may pupuntahan lang kayo ng saglit?
Exactly,mas matanda ka alam mo na tama sa mali.. And napaka double standard naman eh parang ganito din yung case ni Arnold and Sara. Di niya gets ang point
Masaya na cla as a family pero sinisira ng mga tao, oo na di maganda ung past nila pero tinatama na nila.. Ano ba gusto nyo kasuhan nya yung girlfriend nya na simulat sapul mahal na nya? Tigilan nyo na, ang importante nagmamahalan.
Dahil lang sa masaya na sila. Magiging okey na ang naging set-up nila? Di mo ba nakikita ang magiging epekto nito lalo sa mga kabataan? They're public figure. Baka isipin nila na tama ang ganitong set-up ng relationship.
1:02 ang epekto nyan? Natuto cla sa pagkakamali, unti unti nilang inaayos mga buhay nila ng mgkasama. Pamilya nga ni Bugoy naging supportive ehh. Oo na, creepy, nag take advantage si girl, pero okay na po cla wag nyo na cla problemahin.
8:31 pano kinunsinti ni 9:31 kaanak ba nya ung 2? ikaw naman, sampahan mo na nga ng kaso ung girlfriend ni Bugoy mukhang malala pinaglalaban mo eh.. kalungkot naman na nanggagalaiti kayo tapos yung 2 masaya sa buhay nila. :P
12:35 chill lang girl hindi ka naman kamag anak nung EJ mas triggered ka pa. Wag masyadong magpapaka fanatic sa ganitong "love" story baka magulat ka next time 10 yrs old may ka live in na baka maka inspired ka pa ng mga pumapatol sa minor. 🥴
11:09 between the 2 of us ako pa yung triggered? And you even resorted to name-calling LOL but sure you can call me fanatic, inspired pumatol sa minor, yeah sure, accusations pa more :P
It needs to be said. Everyone, especially minors, needs to know and recognize when they are being groomed. Andyan na yung bata, may magagawa pa ba tayo? Oo naman. Gusto natin na hindi ito mangyari sa iba pang menor de edad.
Bugoy was small in height at 15. EJ Laure is tall for a girl at 5'7". One of the reasons why this looks super cringey. But Bugoy's attitude, actions, and most likely hormones at that time would be similar to any other 15 year-old. While it may seem 'irregular' tingnan kasi 5 years ang tanda ni EJ, in terms of emotional maturity, hindi na sila nagkakalayo at that point. Maiiba siguro ang usapan if say, EJ was 20, and Bugoy was say, 9 or 10 years old. Because a 10 year-old's emotional and psychological maturity is waaay different than a 15 year old's. Short of saying, alam na ni Bugoy ang ginagawa nya at pinapasok nya when he was that age. I don't think EJ 'forced' or 'groomed' him. Baka nga nung time na yun, si Bugoy pa ang mapilit - we never know.
He's stayed in the relationship so far, so we can conclude from that, na this is really something he chose - gusto nya talaga. I mean, within that three years, kung sakaling feeling nya something unjust was done to him, kumawala sya, same with his family. Pero parang wala naman.
@12:59 this!People keep crucifying Ej for the mistake she's done. sana yung mga rational ang comments sa immorality ay icomment din ang solutions ninyo in mind. ano ba, we'll just keep condemning Ej? until when? how far? they're living as a family na. if any person can build a legal action against her, then encourage them so there will be a solution. but as for now and for the past 3 years, this is their stories, their mistakes, their lives. they actually haven't hurt any stranger, just their own parents, but it seems naman they've accepted it.
That's exactly my point 4:44. Many are totally missing something in the equation here. BUGOY WAS 15 for crying out loud! He acted like any mapusok na 15-year old and stood by his decision to enter a relationship with someone older. Hindi ko alam kung nagpapanggap lang ba for the sake of sounding morally upright ang mga tao - but come on, we were all 15 once. We all know how that feels like. We knew what we were doing at that age. We did things because we WANTED to. We knew full well the consequences.
Males are known to mature slower than women, although to be fair, it depends on the person. Bugoy was still a minor at 15, EJ was 20. That's wrong on so many levels.
10:42pm, do you consider the decisions that you made when you were 15 as a mature decision? Kaya nga po may tinatawag na menor de edad at kung bakit may age requirement ang pagboto at pagpasok sa ibang trabaho.
Bugoy you are not questioned. It was Ej who has committed this immoral act. She's in her katinuan when he abused you. She corrupted your innocence mind. Nakakadiri siya sa part na iyon. Talaga. As in. this shouldn't be normalized or justified just because pinanindigan ka niya or naging responsable ka or masaya kayo.
Ok, andun na tayo sa responsable ka. Saludo ko syo sa part na un Bugoy. Ang kinukwestyon eh si Ate Gurl okay? Pwede naman din syang mag air ng side nya para di naman sya maging todo sama. Magpakumbaba ka na lang sana di ung puro responsable ka chuchu. Kasi walang amount ng pagsusugar coat mo ang makakapagtama sa maling nangyari.
Yung iba dito kung makapag salita. Ni minsan HINDI ba kayo nagdesisyon sa buhay nyo na tingin or sa mata nila ay tama? Menor de edad ek ek ek sa gusto na nila kayo ba magpapakain sa kanila?
Bugoy, you may not see it now but the truth is she robbed you of your youth. You're just 18 and you are taking on responsibilities of a full grown adult. Good for you na pinanindigan mo sya, pero hanggang kailan? In the end ang kawawa is yung anak nyo dahil hindi nyo pinagplanuhan at pinagisipan ang mga desisyon nyo sa buhay.
Napaka medieval ng iba dito. Majority. Gusto nyo ba ng public trial for Ej? Gusto nyo mag file ng case si Bugoy? Eh mahal niya yan eh. Anong gusto niyong mangyari? Paki explain. Anong point ng morality issue? Sigurado ako na sila lang naman ang tatanggap ng consequences ng actions nila balanag araw. Pero sana ibless sila, mas maging matibay, huwag mag hiwalay. Grabe makasumpa mga tao dito eh.
Naku wag mo sila kontrahin baka pagbintangan ka ng mga yan na pumapatol ka sa menor de edad, masabihan ka pa ng yuck. LOL. baka ikinadungis nila yung pagsasama ng dalawa kaya affected cla.
8.25pm, hindi naman ang point ng comment ko is to encourage people na pumatol sa minor. Josko naman, lahat ng tao may kakayahan mag isip ke 10 yo or 90 yo pa yan. Ang akin lang, ano nga gusto niyo mangyari? Ipublic trial si Ej because nag mahalan sila ni bugoy? Rape ba yung ginawa niya? If so, ano gusto nyo ihabla siya ng taong nag mamahal sa kanya? Or gusto nyo lang siyang husgahan because of her mistake na sigurado akong lahat ng tao sa mundo nagkakamali. Yun ngang nahuling pumatay ng asawa dahil nahuli niya sa akto ang asawa niyang nakikiapid na actual na nagsisiping hindi naman nakukulong yun. Pumatay yun ha. Yung ngang magulang ni bugoy inaaccept eh. Tingin niyo si God nang gagaliiti ngayon, kung oo, hayaan niyo na siya na humusga. Moralidad pala eh.
Watch the updates of the infamous case of Mary Kay Letourneau and Vili Fualaau. He defended their "love" for yeaaars pero nang natauhan na siya, he wanted out and tried to separate pero wala na e, wala ng point. He did admit at the end hindi healthy ang relationship nila.
After reading the comments, yun din yung gusto kong malaman. Anong end game? Yes, I think nagkamali si EJ dito kasi siya ang nakatatanda at 15 pa lang si Bugoy. Nandoon na tayo. Pero anong gustong mangyari? Kasuhan si EJ ng child abuse? Ipakulong? Ipangalaga sa DSWD ang anak nila?
I actually think that the point the netizens are trying to make is to dont normalize this kind of relationships. Because the youth may interpret the amount of likes and comments as 'support' for the couple. Kahit saang anggulo kasi tignan, mali yung naging umpisa ng relasyon nila. The fact na hinintay pa nila na mag-18 si Bugoy to 'come out" as a family only adds to their guilt.
People are not asking for them to separate. Rather, don't brag na lang their relationship sa social media kasi di naman sjla inspirational tbh
5:31 "The fact na hinintay pa nila na mag-18 si Bugoy to 'come out" as a family only adds to their guilt." > precisely, alam nila yun, guilty cla.. do we need to rub it on their faces? wala din dito nagsasabi na ok lang ang ginawa nila ang punto lang ng minority dito is wag naten ipublic trial via socmed kasi may anak, may batang involved.. mga tao kasi G na G makaprosecute.
For sure, alam naman nila bugoy at ej ang pinunpunto ng mga nagcocomment, inililihis lang nila ang atensyon...oo hjndi naten alam ang totoong pangayyari sa knilang dalawa pero ang obvious naman na mali ying nagyari sa kanila sa mata ng batas...at hindi na dapat pang tularan.
If that was when Bugoy was 15 and EJ was 20 and got pregnant, then nakakabother talaga. Bugoy is missing the point. It’s not about taking responsibility. What if it’s the other way around? 20 years old na lalaking nakabuntis ng menor de edad na babae?
ReplyDeleteYeah, pwede kasuhan ng rape
Delete12:49 NO you cannot be charge with rape because it was consensual, statutory rape in the Philippines is 12 years old and under.
DeleteHindi ata gets nung bugoy na un ej ang binabash kasi nga sya ang nakakatanda sa kanilang 2. He was still a minor when she got pregnant. Puro lang sya at least pinandigan nya. Ok we get it. Ang point ng mga tao un ej matanda na so dapat sya ang nag guide sa minor na bugoy. E di sana hindi nakabuntis at a very very young age.
ReplyDeleteIbang guide yung ginawa ng EJ. Hindi maintindihan ni Bugoy.
DeleteNakakaasiwa yung picture nila. Totoy na totoy pa si Bugoy. Hindi natin alam ang buong pangyayari pero palagay na nating si Bugoy ang nag first move, yung EJ bilang mas nakatatanda at mas mature sana pinigilan nya na humantong sa pagbubuntis nya.
DeleteHindi ang pagiging responsableng ama ni Bugoy ang question dito. Kundi yung morals at maturity ni EJ.
Kung 20 si bugoy at 25 si EJ katanggap tanggap pa sa society eh. Pero 15?? Corruption of minor yan, girl!
Anu ba yan. Dami na talaga oras ng tao ngayon mag kilatis since halos lahat ngayon nasa bahay haha. Na stress na din sila sa mga ganito balita sana na lang hinde na lang sila nag post ng ganito para wala na keme keme alam niyo naman lahat na lang may sinasabi mga tao sa nga post post natin sa ating life. Oh well... ganun talaga
ReplyDeleteHow did you find this not disturbing? If you find this normal. You better check your brain.
DeleteHindi sa kinikilatis ng bayan buhay nila pero mali ang magkarelasyon at magka sexual relations ang isa 15 yr old and 20 yr old. Baka sa tingin mo ayos lang ito dahil ang mas bata yung lalaki or dahil may consent. Pero ang punto ay bata ang 15 yr old at minor siya para makipagrelasyon sa isang 20 yr old. At kapag binaliktad mo na 15 yr old na babae and 20 yr old na lalaki hindi ka ba mababahala? Pareho dapat ang pagtrato mapalalaki man o babae yung mas bata. Kailangan protektahan ang mga menor de edad sa mga posibleng grooming or predators.
DeleteKawawa talaga si Bugoy di nya pa narerealize nabiktima sya ni Ej.
ReplyDeleteagree besh, hayyy
DeleteThen why hid it from the public nong time na nabuntis kayo? Because you both knew it was wrong. Ngayon malakas loob niyong ijustify yung ginawa niyo. If it was the girl who was 15, it would be a different story.
ReplyDeleteBiruin mo 20 years old ka tas jowa mo endorser ng moose gear 😂
ReplyDeleteKalokah ka bwisit
DeleteHahaha true
DeleteHindi ko din kinakaya yung magpapabebe ka sa harap ng jowa mong menor de edad. 🥴
Delete1242 omg so true!! kaloka diba then sa iba ok lang? child abuse ito, walang tanong dyan. bata pa si bugoy noon, madaling mauto
Deletebest comment hahaha
DeleteHHHAHAHAHAHAHHA SHETTT PANALO KA!! BEST COMMENT EVER!!
DeleteHAHAHAHAHAHA!! napakahusay ng comment na to 😂😂😂😂 ako naman nung una kong madinig ito grabe ang reaksyon ko ay diba halos kaka crcmcise lang ng 15. Sorry not sorry
DeleteHahahha natawa ako baks
Deletenabilaukan ako sa comment mo ghorl! :)
DeleteKaya hindi talaga ako naniniwala dyan sa kasabihan na Age Doesn't Matter
DeletePara sa di magets na bata pa ang 15year old: MOOSE GEAR APPAREL!
Deleteganito lang yan. Tayo mga chismosa at chismoso lang dito. Kahit anu opinion natin balewala na sa kanila yun. thats their life Let them be. Andiyan na yan e wala na tayo magagawa what happened to their past tapos na yun hinde na natin pwede balikan ang nakaraan kahit anu halukay mo wala na hinde na natin yun mababago o mapapalitan. Kung kaya nila gapanan maging mabuti magulang sa bata Let them be ganun naman dapat e. Hayaan niyo na sila. Lesson dito wag niyo sila tuluran kung ayaw niyo mangyari ito sa buhay niyo . Ganun lang yun para hinde Ma stress at mapag usapan at makutya ng nga tao.
ReplyDeleteThis mindset shouldnt be validated.
Delete1:07 YOUR mindset shouldn't be validated. Get off your high horse. We all make mistakes and we all deserve another chance.
DeleteWe shouldn't normalize immorality.
Delete12.44 is not normalizing, totoo naman, nangyari na ang nangyari. Ano ba gusto nyo gawin mgsampahan pa ng kaso? If both parties have moved on and the parents are doing their best to raise their child. Then hayaan nyo na sila. Masyado kayong righteous, ang pperfect nyo naman, hindi ba kayo ngkakamali sa buhay? Let them be and give them second chance. Though agree ako na sana quiet na lang sila EJ abt this matter para hindi na napag fiestahan.
Delete11:47 Kaya nga pinupuna para di pamarisan. It's not about being perfect or righteous, it's about trying to remind society about what is right. Hindi porket ginagawa na nang lahat ay okay na. Ngayon 15 years old okay na, ano bukas twelve years old? Ano, a century from now 7 years old pwede na mag ano? And yes girl you are normalizing something na dapat sana ay mali in the eyes of society.
DeleteBugoy, good job cos you are a responsible “kid”. Yung partner mo ang issue dito, not you
ReplyDeleteyou are right. wala mali si bugoy. pag malawak na pag uutak nya ay maiintindihan din to ni bugoy. for now. mga abogado.. dswd at magulang ni bugoy ang kailangan umaksyon.
DeleteBaks natumbok mo kaloka ka hahahahaha
ReplyDeletenacacaloca ang mga balita ngayon 2020 every month may pasabog ang showbizlandia kahit may covid. Hahahaha
ReplyDeleteOh mga bata wag niyo sila tuluran.
Ako nga 30 wala pa jowa at anak. Inunahan pa ako ni bugoy buiset
Hahahaha kainis
Bugoy is missing the point.
ReplyDeleteIt’s not about taking responsibility, it’s the fact that someone, who should have known better, took advantage of a minor. Also, grabe ang double standard ha. Kung yung babae ang minor pinako nyo na lahat sa krus siguro yung lalaki.
ReplyDeleteAng puntong hindi magets ni Bugoy at ng ibang nagdedefend sa ganito is that Ej should have known better. Kung 20 siya that time, dapat naisip nya na pwede nya masira childhood nung bata. She shouldn't have shown interest or at least waited man lang til he's old enough. Bigyan mo ba naman ng responsibilidad ng ganyan kabata. Yes, what happened was consensual pero naisip ba ni Ej na wala pa sa hustong maturity si Bugoy that time. Bugoy could have had a bright future ahead, he has a showbiz career, hindi pa tapos sa pag aaral, sa edad niya na naging tatay sya he should be doing other things that other boys his age do like get to know themselves and enjoy their youth but ninakaw ni Ej yun sakanya. Now it's easy for him to say na "at least pinanindigan" niya pero one day when he gets older and more matured he'll realize that.
ReplyDeleteAnd that's the consequence that Ej will pay. Infidelity is just around the corner. Sorry to say that but, To be honest he's just 15!! Like, Girl what were u thinking?!!
DeletePeople should realize na ang age of consent sa pinas ay 12! Walang masama jan at hindi yan illegal.
ReplyDeleteLegally, yes. Morally, a big NO.
DeleteFake news ka diyan anon 1:17 AM
Delete1:17 age of consent is 12 to consider minority groups na pwede nang ikasal yung 12 years old. Ayaw ng batas na i-discriminate sila. Pero yung totoo, 18 talaga ang age of consent. Do some research.
Delete2:31 age of consent MORALLY ay 18. pero dito sa pilipinas, sa batas natin, 12. so kahit pagbaliktarin nyo pa mundo, wala na tayo magagawa sa nangyari at hindi mapaparusahan ung babae bc its not considered as statutory rape.
DeleteThat’s child sexual abuse. Kasi adult si EJ and Bugoy was minor (below 18). But not rape kasi age of consent is 12.
DeleteAge of consent sa Pinas is 12. Nakakaloka isipin but it’s not rape. Know the law.
ReplyDeleteAgree unless may magfile ng case but i think tanggap naman ng family bugoy. Sa Us kase walang say oarents kapag cps na usapan. Kaso pa din
DeletePinagsasabi mo dyan te?
DeleteOh, people know the law. And jusy because it is the law does not make it right. Have some morals.
DeletePero pwede yan sa child abuse since minor (below 18) si Bugoy that time.
DeleteGulat nga ako bat age of consent sa pinas is 12yrs old Dito sa Canada 16... nkkatakot naman yun.
DeleteRape hinde pero child abuse pwede
DeleteOmg, how can a child consent to anything at 12? That’s insane. That’s sexual abuse and exploitation at that age.
DeleteHi 1:17 and 1:23. Review mo din to:
ReplyDeleteRA 7610: ARTICLE III
Child Prostitution and Other Sexual Abuse
Section 5. Child Prostitution and Other Sexual Abuse. – Children, whether male or female, who for money, profit, or any other consideration or due to the coercion or influence of any adult, syndicate or group, indulge in sexual intercourse or lascivious conduct, are deemed to be children exploited in prostitution and other sexual abuse.
Section 3 defines children as persons below 18. I’d say this EJ/Bugoy case is a resounding CHILD ABUSE.
People who are judging them are highly toxic people. what grooming they are referring to? What if the boy is already sexually active around time? Would people still call it grooming? Yes, its wrong but who are you to judge and declare that she groomed him?! It just so happened that the girl is older than him and he decided to stick with her makes people go crazy.
ReplyDeleteDaming moralista sa pinas talaga..
Buti nga may nagreact pa. Isipin mo nlang besh kung ang babae ang menor de edad, hindi reaction makikita mo...violent reaction pa. Wag na tayo magpakaplastik pa.
Deleteat ang dami ring katulad mo na baluktot mag-isip. ung kitang-kita nang mali, pinipilit pa ring i-normalize kesyo pinanindigan naman eklavu. you don't get the point because you choose not to see the point. kadiri.
DeleteTo Anonymous 3:36AM:
DeleteSir/Maam, whether or not Bugoy was sexually active when he was 15 while EJ was 20 years old is beside the point. EJ was "more adult" when she and Bugoy did the deed. EJ should have exercised self-restraint and acted wisely instead of giving in to her human desires. What do you think people would have said if the ages were reversed? Would you have commented the same? I believe people would have been quick to judge had it been Bugoy who was 20 and EJ was 15.
He was a minor at 15, mahirap bang intindihin, 3:36PM? Kapwa ba nya minor nabuntis nya? No. 5 years older 'yung girl. Pag lalake 'yan baka mas nagre-react kayo.
Delete9:55 Dahil mas matanda si EJ dapat sya yung mas naging responsible? No. Lahat tayo have the capacity to have a CHOICE and decide. Both had the option not to do "it" pero pinili nilang gawin pa rin kahit morally wrong. Bugoy was just 15 kamo. Menor de edad kamo. Pero alam na nya - apologies if this will sound bastos - kung pano mabubuntis ang isang babae. Pareho silang aware. Stop pointing fingers kung sino ang mas mali. And let's stop judging people for their mistakes.
Delete9.41 maturity ang pinaguusapan dito Hindi yong kaalaman sa paggawa ng bata.
Delete2:31, Ikaw ang magresearch. Nasa recent news lang na gusto itaas ng congress sa 16. Lol. Magbasa nga kayo ng real news!
ReplyDeleteIt is good that bugoy is taking responsibility. Pero hindi naman si bugoy ang issue dito e. It’s that ej girl. Age does not matter but bugoy is too young while the girl is the supposed to be the more mature one who could have handled the situation better. And bugoy always raising the card that he took responsibility just goes to show how young he is. He cannot even comprehend that no one is bashing him but that ej girl.
ReplyDeleteSupposedly but obvious naman na hindi rin ganoon ka matured si girl dahil first of all, hindi siya papatol sa minor kung emotionally matured na siya e. I remember nung twenty ako, mas marami pang alam tungkol sa relasyon at experience yung mga peers ko na 4 to 5 yrs. younger than me. Hindi kasi natin pwedeng pwersahin ang twenty years old na mag-matured dahil twenty na siya. MAturity and wisdom come from experience and guidance from people around you. I believe na in love din si EJ at hindi lang dahil gusto niya lang makipagrelasyon sa minor and bugoy at the age of fifteen, mukhang di naman siya ganoon kainosente. Ang tanong, nasaan ang mga parents nila? Bakit wala namang pumigil, di ba? The parents of bugoy na alam nilang mali, bakit nila kinunsinti? Hindi ba dapat din silang sisihin. The parents of EJ, bakit pumayag na magsama sila e alam na minor si bugoy. It means, tinanggap na lang nila kasi nga wala na silang magagawa. Although we shouldn't normalize grooming naman talaga, we shouldn't normalize pagiging pakialamero sa buhay ng ibang tao lalo na at pinanindigan nila at ang pinaka kawawa is yung bata na mahal ng mga magulang at sinusubukang panindigan tapos kung anu-ano maririnig sa ibang tao. The only thing we can do is to try to educate our kids at huwag hayaang mangyari iyon. Sadly, we can only be responsible sa sarili nating mga buhay.
DeleteNo one is bashing you bugoy. If at all, people are bashing ej. She is the mature one and should have acted like one. Now if you do not get it, then it goes to show na talagang bata ka pa nga.
ReplyDelete15 lang nung nakabuntis, eh pag nagkasakit ganyang edad pwede pang tanggapin sa paedia eh. Di nagets ni B yung point. You were too young nung nkabuntis ka.
ReplyDeleteAno say kaya ng parents nila
ReplyDeleteHinfi makuha ni Bugoy ang point! Why? Totoy pa kasi! Immature. Si babae naman, pinatulan siguro dahil artista...na bata.....
ReplyDeleteNo, bugoy. No one's talking about taking responsibilities here... What happened here is -- you were GROOMED by ej. Hindi mo pa narerealize yun kasi nga bata ka pa
ReplyDeleteWhat if si kuya pala ang mas may gusto hindi si girl? Kahit minor de edad si guy? Grooming pa rin ang tawag dun? Porket mas matanda si girl sya na dapat sisihin? Both CONSENTED so both are accountable.
DeleteFor me wala naman masyadong problema ang age gap. Pwede naman yung mas matanda yung lalaki sa babae or yung babar sa lalaki gaya ng case nila Bugoy. BUT! Huwag naman po sana menor de edad. Ang bata pa masyado ni Bugoy. Grabe
ReplyDeleteDefend pa more ng age of consent is 12 kayo Dyan. kaya niyo talaga? As in nasisikmura niyo?
ReplyDeleteThis goes to show how young and naive Bugoy is. Bata pa talaga siya at hindi niya ma-comprehend na biktima siya ng girlfriend niya. Hindi niya magets kung bakit valid ang angry reactions ng mga tao kahit hindi nila alam yung buong kwento.
ReplyDeleteIn this instance, even just knowing that a 20 year old had sexual relations with a 15 year old is enough to justify the people’s anger. Grooming a child can never ever be justified.
May tanong ako. So kung yung kapatid/pinsan/pamangkin/anak nyo na 15 years old na lalaki, okay lang ba sa inyo na mabuntis ang kapitbahay nyo na 20 years old na Ate-Ate nya kuno? Yung tipong pinapa alaga nyo pa kay Ate si Totoy kung may pupuntahan lang kayo ng saglit?
ReplyDeleteExactly,mas matanda ka alam mo na tama sa mali.. And napaka double standard naman eh parang ganito din yung case ni Arnold and Sara. Di niya gets ang point
DeleteMalamang High Five ang ibigay ko.....at magselos din na bakit hindi nangyare sa akin!
DeleteOkay. So ano Po gusto niyo mangyari ngayon?
ReplyDeleteanon 12:42 shu** ka baks hahaha d q kinaya jusq!!!!
ReplyDeleteAyoko nga tingnan picture nla eh. Cringy.
ReplyDeleteMasaya na cla as a family pero sinisira ng mga tao, oo na di maganda ung past nila pero tinatama na nila.. Ano ba gusto nyo kasuhan nya yung girlfriend nya na simulat sapul mahal na nya? Tigilan nyo na, ang importante nagmamahalan.
ReplyDeleteDahil lang sa masaya na sila. Magiging okey na ang naging set-up nila? Di mo ba nakikita ang magiging epekto nito lalo sa mga kabataan? They're public figure. Baka isipin nila na tama ang ganitong set-up ng relationship.
Delete1:02 ang epekto nyan? Natuto cla sa pagkakamali, unti unti nilang inaayos mga buhay nila ng mgkasama. Pamilya nga ni Bugoy naging supportive ehh. Oo na, creepy, nag take advantage si girl, pero okay na po cla wag nyo na cla problemahin.
DeleteKadiri ka 6:06
DeleteMas kadiri ang judgemental 12:57.
Delete9:31 konsintidor
Delete8:31 pano kinunsinti ni 9:31 kaanak ba nya ung 2? ikaw naman, sampahan mo na nga ng kaso ung girlfriend ni Bugoy mukhang malala pinaglalaban mo eh.. kalungkot naman na nanggagalaiti kayo tapos yung 2 masaya sa buhay nila. :P
Delete12:35 chill lang girl hindi ka naman kamag anak nung EJ mas triggered ka pa. Wag masyadong magpapaka fanatic sa ganitong "love" story baka magulat ka next time 10 yrs old may ka live in na baka maka inspired ka pa ng mga pumapatol sa minor. 🥴
Delete11:09 between the 2 of us ako pa yung triggered? And you even resorted to name-calling LOL but sure you can call me fanatic, inspired pumatol sa minor, yeah sure, accusations pa more :P
Delete1:19 yeah go ahead keep fantasizing this old/teen love story. Disgusting
DeleteIt needs to be said. Everyone, especially minors, needs to know and recognize when they are being groomed. Andyan na yung bata, may magagawa pa ba tayo? Oo naman. Gusto natin na hindi ito mangyari sa iba pang menor de edad.
ReplyDeleteBugoy was small in height at 15. EJ Laure is tall for a girl at 5'7". One of the reasons why this looks super cringey. But Bugoy's attitude, actions, and most likely hormones at that time would be similar to any other 15 year-old. While it may seem 'irregular' tingnan kasi 5 years ang tanda ni EJ, in terms of emotional maturity, hindi na sila nagkakalayo at that point. Maiiba siguro ang usapan if say, EJ was 20, and Bugoy was say, 9 or 10 years old. Because a 10 year-old's emotional and psychological maturity is waaay different than a 15 year old's. Short of saying, alam na ni Bugoy ang ginagawa nya at pinapasok nya when he was that age. I don't think EJ 'forced' or 'groomed' him. Baka nga nung time na yun, si Bugoy pa ang mapilit - we never know.
ReplyDeleteHe's stayed in the relationship so far, so we can conclude from that, na this is really something he chose - gusto nya talaga. I mean, within that three years, kung sakaling feeling nya something unjust was done to him, kumawala sya, same with his family. Pero parang wala naman.
Isa ka ring Bugoy, hindi nagets ang point. Lol
Delete@12:59 this!People keep crucifying Ej for the mistake she's done. sana yung mga rational ang comments sa immorality ay icomment din ang solutions ninyo in mind. ano ba, we'll just keep condemning Ej? until when? how far? they're living as a family na. if any person can build a legal action against her, then encourage them so there will be a solution. but as for now and for the past 3 years, this is their stories, their mistakes, their lives. they actually haven't hurt any stranger, just their own parents, but it seems naman they've accepted it.
DeleteThat's exactly my point 4:44. Many are totally missing something in the equation here. BUGOY WAS 15 for crying out loud! He acted like any mapusok na 15-year old and stood by his decision to enter a relationship with someone older. Hindi ko alam kung nagpapanggap lang ba for the sake of sounding morally upright ang mga tao - but come on, we were all 15 once. We all know how that feels like. We knew what we were doing at that age. We did things because we WANTED to. We knew full well the consequences.
DeleteMales are known to mature slower than women, although to be fair, it depends on the person. Bugoy was still a minor at 15, EJ was 20. That's wrong on so many levels.
DeleteMeh, it’s double standard lang talaga sa pinas. If a man did that to a girl, everyone will call it as rape.
Delete10:42pm, do you consider the decisions that you made when you were 15 as a mature decision? Kaya nga po may tinatawag na menor de edad at kung bakit may age requirement ang pagboto at pagpasok sa ibang trabaho.
DeleteBugoy you are not questioned. It was Ej who has committed this immoral act. She's in her katinuan when he abused you. She corrupted your innocence mind. Nakakadiri siya sa part na iyon. Talaga. As in. this shouldn't be normalized or justified just because pinanindigan ka niya or naging responsable ka or masaya kayo.
ReplyDeletepwede bang i cancel na yung atleast bla bla bla culture? kapag mali wag na i sugar coat pa.
ReplyDeleteMali yata pagkakaintindi mo sa sugarcoat
DeleteKung may The Buzz lang ngayon, sure ako may special interview kina EJ at Bugoy. "Susunod! Sino EJ at Bugoy, magsasalita na!" =))
ReplyDeletenarinig ko nga boses ni tito boy hahaha
DeleteParang bunsong kapatid lang ni EJ si Bugoy
ReplyDeleteit takes two to tango. wag judgmental!
ReplyDelete6 26, Wrong ka. She was the adult, he was the child. Gets mo ba yan. In other countries she could go to jail for that.
DeleteSHE took advantage of HIS young, experimental and curious stage. I think that's what people are trying to say.
ReplyDeleteOk, andun na tayo sa responsable ka. Saludo ko syo sa part na un Bugoy. Ang kinukwestyon eh si Ate Gurl okay? Pwede naman din syang mag air ng side nya para di naman sya maging todo sama. Magpakumbaba ka na lang sana di ung puro responsable ka chuchu. Kasi walang amount ng pagsusugar coat mo ang makakapagtama sa maling nangyari.
ReplyDeleteYung iba dito kung makapag salita. Ni minsan HINDI ba kayo nagdesisyon sa buhay nyo na tingin or sa mata nila ay tama? Menor de edad ek ek ek sa gusto na nila kayo ba magpapakain sa kanila?
ReplyDeleteibang case eto girl atleast majority dito hindi pumapatol sa menor de edad.
DeleteNakakarelate ka ba 12:15? Mukhang nasapul kb sa mga comments?
DeleteYun na nga ang point. Ang bata mong nagkaroon ng mabigat na responsibility na buhay sila. Ang tanda na nya...sana nag-isio sya noon.
ReplyDeleteEwww and yuck.
ReplyDeleteBugoy, you may not see it now but the truth is she robbed you of your youth. You're just 18 and you are taking on responsibilities of a full grown adult. Good for you na pinanindigan mo sya, pero hanggang kailan? In the end ang kawawa is yung anak nyo dahil hindi nyo pinagplanuhan at pinagisipan ang mga desisyon nyo sa buhay.
ReplyDelete15 is too young to be a father! His child is going to be like his brother or sister!
ReplyDeleteMag fast forward nalang kayo. Isipin niyo na lang bugoy is 25 and the girl is 30. By then okay na sa society ang mas matanda ang girl na partner
ReplyDeleteNapaka medieval ng iba dito. Majority. Gusto nyo ba ng public trial for Ej? Gusto nyo mag file ng case si Bugoy? Eh mahal niya yan eh. Anong gusto niyong mangyari? Paki explain. Anong point ng morality issue? Sigurado ako na sila lang naman ang tatanggap ng consequences ng actions nila balanag araw. Pero sana ibless sila, mas maging matibay, huwag mag hiwalay. Grabe makasumpa mga tao dito eh.
ReplyDeleteThis 4:52 lalo na yung last line mo. Karamihan sa mga nag comment mga banal banalang ipokrita. Kala mo mga perfect sila at di nagkakasala.
Deletekung ganito mindset ng lahat sure ako mas lalakas ang loob ng mga taong pumapatol sa menor de edad. ew
DeleteNaku wag mo sila kontrahin baka pagbintangan ka ng mga yan na pumapatol ka sa menor de edad, masabihan ka pa ng yuck. LOL. baka ikinadungis nila yung pagsasama ng dalawa kaya affected cla.
Delete8.25pm, hindi naman ang point ng comment ko is to encourage people na pumatol sa minor. Josko naman, lahat ng tao may kakayahan mag isip ke 10 yo or 90 yo pa yan. Ang akin lang, ano nga gusto niyo mangyari? Ipublic trial si Ej because nag mahalan sila ni bugoy? Rape ba yung ginawa niya? If so, ano gusto nyo ihabla siya ng taong nag mamahal sa kanya? Or gusto nyo lang siyang husgahan because of her mistake na sigurado akong lahat ng tao sa mundo nagkakamali. Yun ngang nahuling pumatay ng asawa dahil nahuli niya sa akto ang asawa niyang nakikiapid na actual na nagsisiping hindi naman nakukulong yun. Pumatay yun ha. Yung ngang magulang ni bugoy inaaccept eh. Tingin niyo si God nang gagaliiti ngayon, kung oo, hayaan niyo na siya na humusga. Moralidad pala eh.
DeleteSo ano gusto nyo mangyari sa kanilang dalawa?
ReplyDeleteYan din ang gusto ko malaman. Puro judging, May magpa-file ba ng kaso kay EJ? G na G eh.
DeleteOmg people, wrong is wrong. Don’t defend and justify it. Don’t accept child abuse and exploitation as normal.
ReplyDeleteI get your point. So public trial nga? Let Bugoy decide anong gusto niyang mangayri since siya naman itong "biktima"
DeleteTrue. In pinas kasi anything goes lang. Kahit mali, parang wala lang sa kanila.
DeleteWatch the updates of the infamous case of Mary Kay Letourneau and Vili Fualaau. He defended their "love" for yeaaars pero nang natauhan na siya, he wanted out and tried to separate pero wala na e, wala ng point. He did admit at the end hindi healthy ang relationship nila.
ReplyDeleteAfter reading the comments, yun din yung gusto kong malaman. Anong end game? Yes, I think nagkamali si EJ dito kasi siya ang nakatatanda at 15 pa lang si Bugoy. Nandoon na tayo. Pero anong gustong mangyari? Kasuhan si EJ ng child abuse? Ipakulong? Ipangalaga sa DSWD ang anak nila?
ReplyDeleteI actually think that the point the netizens are trying to make is to dont normalize this kind of relationships. Because the youth may interpret the amount of likes and comments as 'support' for the couple. Kahit saang anggulo kasi tignan, mali yung naging umpisa ng relasyon nila. The fact na hinintay pa nila na mag-18 si Bugoy to 'come out" as a family only adds to their guilt.
DeletePeople are not asking for them to separate. Rather, don't brag na lang their relationship sa social media kasi di naman sjla inspirational tbh
none of these but just to stop romanticizing corruption of minors
Delete5:31 "The fact na hinintay pa nila na mag-18 si Bugoy to 'come out" as a family only adds to their guilt."
Delete> precisely, alam nila yun, guilty cla.. do we need to rub it on their faces? wala din dito nagsasabi na ok lang ang ginawa nila ang punto lang ng minority dito is wag naten ipublic trial via socmed kasi may anak, may batang involved.. mga tao kasi G na G makaprosecute.
For sure, alam naman nila bugoy at ej ang pinunpunto ng mga nagcocomment, inililihis lang nila ang atensyon...oo hjndi naten alam ang totoong pangayyari sa knilang dalawa pero ang obvious naman na mali ying nagyari sa kanila sa mata ng batas...at hindi na dapat pang tularan.
ReplyDeleteSana may batas tayo similar sa US na magpoprotect sa mga minors sa ganitong situation.
ReplyDelete