Sorry but this letter is so done in a very bad taste. It reeks boastful terms, arrogance & feeling highly above John's situation at the moment. Their statement is overweening. They can do better than this!
Mahirap tulingan ang taong ayaw sumunod sa mga patakaran. Obviously, John was into something that he seems to be taking by himself. It is in their statement, hindi nga lang diretso nila sinabi.
they helped this actor kc sa sobrang awa nila sa sitwasyon nya. they called out for help and raised fund for him. madaming celebrities ang tumulong. marahil nakakita ng "oportunidad" yung actor sa mga ginawa ng mga taong ito and wanted all the raised fund for himself and to "manage" it on his own kaya he discharged himself from hospital against the advise of his doctors and just self medicate. Pag naubos na fund nya, he knows what to do na.. seek help from those known celebrities who gave him money. you cannot blame these friends iif they issued this statement. baka lumihis na sa tama at katinuan yung aktor upon learning the fund they raised for him.. tama lang na nag issue sila ng statement para alam ng mga tumulong yung ginawa sa fund and how the actor "repays" the help he received.
2:22, paano kung yung tao nawawala din sa sarili. Medications may side effects din even sa utak. May sakit yung tao, of, course, he's not hmself. Kung bibitwan nila, bakit may need pa to publicize? Matter of national concern ba?
1:54 and 2:22, puwede rin naman kasi na nahihiya na si John sa laki ng gastusin dahil hindi siya sanay na siya ang humihingi ng tulong dahil sanay siyang magtrabaho at nagbabayad ng gastusin niya.
John Regala has liver cirrhosis. What causes it? Alcohol abuse. In-abuso ni John yung katawan nya. Kaya nagkaron ng crowdfunding page para tulungan sya. Pero mukhang inaabuso pa rin ni John yung sarili nya, as to what was written on the joint statement. Read between the lines - terrible habit of constant and abusive self medication. Constant meaning palagi nya ginagawa. Nakakalungkot. Sumuko na yung mga tumutulong sa kanya.
I have to correct you there, 3:12. My husband has been diagnosed wtih NASH(nonalcoholic steatohepatitis), if left untreated, leads to liver cirrhosis. What caused it? The hepatologist believes its the medications he's been taking over the years for ulcerative colitis. Alcohol has been ruled out as he is nary a drinker. Tests have proven that. Kindly do research before you spread misinformation.
Thanks for your medical input 7:28PM. But your husband's case is different from John Regala's, despite both of them having liver cirrhosis. His previous actions and attitude are well known in showbiz circles. Nuff said.
Sorry but this letter is so done in a very bad taste. It reeks boastful terms, arrogance & feeling highly above John's situation at the moment. Their statement is overweening. They can do better than this!
318 ang smart mo din no? lol. baka gustong malaman ng smarts mo na hindi nanghihingi si la oro kaya di sya dapat mainggit. nagsasalita sya dahil para sa kanya may ibang mga nangangailangan na mas deserving matulungan. sulat mo yan ha tas basahil mo 10 times para maintindihan mo sana
Wrong move to publish this. Kung matigas ang ulo niya at uncooperative, natural Yan sa Maraming karamdaman. Wala sila sa katinuan especially Yung Maraming nararamdamam sakit sa katawan. Yung mga matatanda nga ganyan din. Hindi ito teleserye na super masunurin ang mga may sakit at magpa pakita ng pagiging grateful. Kaloka!
Hahaha trot, halleer ganon ang may sakit iritable. I just feel na parang d sila seryoso sa pagtulong and all it's a matter of publicity. Jusko sa umpisa lang pala magaleng mga to, d marunong umintindi at magpasensya. Sumuko agad.
Totoo ito. They need to understand people na may sakit. Wala sila sa kalagayan ng tao na un. Moody galit sa mundo. Paiba iba ugali. Ilan lng yan sa nga nararamasan ng taong may sakit. Deep understanding is what they need.
Mukhang expert ka sa pag-aalaga ng mga me pinagdadaanan E Ikaw na ang umako! Me mga donations na para panggastos now kung kulangin e magbukas ka ng acct para sa more donations. Ikaw ang karapat dapat mag-alaga!
i agree woth you...john had already a stroke naka affect din yon sa utak.f ang patient may severe gusto inumin lahat makuha lang pain..kasi ganyan ang papa ko.
These people had to issue a public statement because 1. They solicited money from others. Those people have the right to know how their donations will be used, and how the organizers of the fundraising will proceed moving forward. 2. They're celebrities - public people. Whether they issue a statement or not, pag-uusapan sila. So, might as well clear the air from the beginning, thus, the need to make a public statement. 3. The statement also serves as a 'warning' of sorts to those who might want to help John Regala. It's pretty obvious now why even his own family seems to be 'hands-off' with him - they just wanted to let other people know the reality behind his nakakaawa state.
And also, why are we so demanding of these people who have already gone above and beyond what their obligations are in their community? Nakapag-raise sila ng funds, naibigay nila kay John, they made sure he received prime healthcare - even sa ospital na hirap magpa-admit ngayon, nai-admit sya so they most likely pulled some major strings there - and yet, he remains uncooperative. And hindi yan dahil sa sakit lang ha. I'm sure the group is aware, and the doc made them aware, that irritability etc may be a side effect of medication. But, it seems to be more than that eh.
Dahil sa mga tulad mo! Para hindi sila makwestyon kung bakit nila pinabayaan o kung nasaan yung mga donations kung bigla mo na lang mabalitaang iniwan na nila si John na me bahagi sa puso mo! Akuin mo ang respinsibilidad ng pag-aaruga!
Couldn’t agree more mga classmates. This statement is made to humiliate a patient who’s not in his right mind because he’s suffering physically. Ganyan talaga pag May nararamdaman masungit at mahirap paki sama Han. I know because I’ve taken care of my aunt who was suffering from C. And that’s why I understand John. Hays
Kilala mo si John personally 12:51? Ang mga tao porke tumulong sa una e obligado silang tulungan ang tao hanggang sa kahuli-hulihan. Nag explain sila bakit ayaw na nila tumulong at tumanggap ng pera na dinodonate para dun kay John. Hindi nila responsibilidad kung tutuusin pero me hangganan rin ang pagmamagandang loob. Nakakapagod yan.
Sana hindi na Lang Nila tinulungan. Lalo pa nilang pinasama si John. No need to explain to the public or even show na tumulong ka. Gawin mo na Lang or hindi. May pa publicity ek ek pa itong tatlo.
E di nagkokokoment ka na ASAN NA YUNG MGA TAGA INDUSTRIYANG NAKASAMA NIYA? WALA MAN LANG TUMULONG! MALUPIT MGA SHOWBIZ PEOPLE! O di ba ganito magiging comment mong Hypocrite ka!!!!
Parang tumulong lang sila para may maipost sa FB/IG at masabing mabubuting tao sila to the expense of the person they helped. Hindi ba pwedeng tumulong na lang without expecting anything in return lalo na dun sa taong tinulungan mo?
Nope! Nagtitiis yun dahil nahihiya sa systema ng mundo na puro negosyo pati ospital negosyo! At nahihiya sa mga tulad mo na baka me maicomment pa tulad nito pero hindi naman magaangat ng kalingkingan para tumulong!
E di kinuwestyon mo ano nangyare sa mga donations na hiningi nila! Kaya me paganyan for transparency! Dahil kung iniwan lang nila e SIGURADO HIHINGI NAMAN KAYO NG TRANSPARENCY REPORT KUNG ANONG NANGYARE SA MGA NAPAKALAKING MGA DONATIONS!
Nakaka off especially akala ko mabait Sina chuckie and Nadia. Lahat ng Taong nakaranas mag alaga ng may edad na relative na may sakit, Alam ang experience na mahirap talaga silang alagaan and hindi sumusunod. Kung sinukuan Nila Sana Wala nang public statement, inintriga pa Nila e may sakit na nga. Walang saysay ang tulong nila Kung niyurakan pa Nila nang ganyan. Pinahiya pa Nila e for sure kahit papano nahihiya rin yang si John regala na ganyan ang sinapit niya.
This.. Agree ako sayo.. May inaalagaan din ako na relative na may sakit at matanda na eh.. Parang oras oras nasusubok ang pasensya mo eh.. pero never kong susukuan.. kase may totoong care ako sa tao
7:02 relative mo yun, natural aalagaan mo. tama si 3:27, wag nga kayo plastic. kung tutuusin, ndi naman nila kamag anak, they are not obliged to help. kung kayo matiyaga mag alaga, eh di kayo na kaya mag alaga sa kanya? sus. ndi niyo rin gagawin.
7.02 what kind of tulong iyang sinasabi mo? Financial or caregiving? Sa case ni john financial need niya kasi need niya ng kung ano anong gamot pero kung ayaw na niya bakit mo pipilitin? Dapat respect mo ang living will niya, hindi yong kagustuhan mo.
If it was done out of love and deep concern, hindi sila hahantong sa ganito. Roughly a month yet sinukuan agad. I hope someone will still look after him and take good care of the funds for his wellbeing.
Although kusa nilang tinulungan si John wala nmn pumilit sa kanila kaya siguro gumawa ng statement kasi nga humingi sila sa publiko ng tulong for John kapag hindi nila pinaalam na bumitaw na sila baka pag iisipan silang kinukuha yong pera or mahirap nila ipagkatiwala yong tulong kay John baka kung saan lng mapunta. Kung nag give up sila agad cguro di makita an kahit paano si John ng cooperation. Sana gumaling sya at may umalalay na anak o kamag anak sa kanya.
Parang it sounded "hugas kamay". Na kung may mangyaring hindi maganda kay john anytime it's not because of them. Yes it's easier said than done pero sana hindi na mag humuliate ng taong may sakit at hindi maayos ang ugali. He is difficult alam naman siguro nila yon noon pa. Pero lubog na wag ng ilubog pa.
Jusko Lord kelan ba kayo nakakita ng maysakit at maintenance pa ng gamot na madaling alagaan? Natural marami na yang nararamdaman at minsan nkakawala ho sa katinuan ang ibang gamot kaya minsan mahirap kausap at wla sa sarili. Para saan pa may paganetong effect yang tatlo? 😒
Tingin ko may mental health component din yung issue ni John? Why the need to humiliate him? Tuloy self-serving ang dating nung so-called charitable gestures nila.
Hala grabe naman di ba pwede private na lang, na post to sa Facebook e ang dami nag comment na isa family member nila may liver cirosis din at sabi nila masama daw ugali dahil sa sakit daw nag iiba ugali
Guys i think they published a statement for the benefit of those who donated - for proper accounting and transparency. Kase kung ikaw nagbigay ng mejo malaking amount maghahanap ka talaga ng update on John's status at kung mahihinto man ang support the donors also need to understand why. Hindi to para sa mga ususero at ususera.
2 lang ba or tatlo lang kaming nakagets ng message? nagseSELF medicate meaning hindi angkop or hindi kailangang i-take pero go si kuya sa gawain niya. hindi naman sa sinukuan, pero baka nahihirapan sila dahil baka matigas ulo o marunong pa sa doktor si kuya. anong klase ba ang ginagamit niya sa self medication? sana magets niyo yung gustong sabihin ni 154.
Yes! i agree with most, if not all of the comments here. Pagmay sakit and old na, nag-iiba ang ugali, may self-pity, et al. Kelangan talaga intindihan. I’ve personally witnessed this sa tito kong na-stroke. Sana sinabi nalang nila na istop na nila ang crowdfunding and nag thank you sa mga nagdonate. Tsk
But don't you Want to know why nila iiwan at mga walang kwenta silang mga kaibigan o tagatulong? Lol. You'll just figure it all by yourself coz parang mystery na isosolve. Yeah ganun ang ugali ng Mga Pinoy very research culture.
8:12 no, i dont want to know and wala din akong balak ishame sila for not continuing to help him. If anything, im grateful that they took the initiative to help him. I just dont like the way they handled the press about this.
I remember when my Lola first suffered from stroke, she's irritated at everyone and everything to the point minsan umiiyak nalang ako kasi bigla nalang magagalit. So, need talaga patience... lalo na kay John, since marami syang nararamdaman for sure na mas aaburido din sya sa buhay compared to my late Lola.
pwede namang bumitaw without maligning the sick person. sana tahimik na lang silang bumitaw. tutulong po tayo na walang inaantay na kapalit ot maging controlling sa buhay ng tinutulungan. decision nya gagawin nya kung ano man yan.
Thank you for helping financially but please know it does not give you any right to make any medical decisions, especially those concerning his preferred approach to treatment.
Hmmm, we had a relative just like that as well. We did everything for him but in the end we couldn’t do anything anymore because he did what he wanted to do.
No one asked them to help naman I think. But if they chose to do so, might as well panindigan nyo na. If not, tumahimik na lang kayo. Parang pinagmalaki pa ninyo na gumawa kayo ng good deed.
Not surprised. What surprised me is ang daming naawa may John regala. From what I remember, walang pinagkaiba ang ugali nya in real life sa kontrabida roles in movies. See Hindi nagtagal at lumabas kaagad ang tunay na ugali.
7:48, kaw lang yata saka iilan naka intindi dito. oh well, nakaka awa raw eh kasi may sakit. nakakapag taka, nasan ba mga relatives ni John Regala? Ndi ba sila dapat nag aalaga sa kanya? mukhang sinukuan din ba siya?
Bakit kayo ganyan. Siguro maraming nag-abot at maraming nagtatanong, kaya nila sinabi kung ano yung mga naging steps at future steps nila. Ang bibilis nyong maghusga, di naman kayo yung nag gugol ng oras para asikasuhin yung tao.
His problem is both physical and emotional. Mas mahirap gamutin ang emotional problem and his so-called friends do not have the patience to deal with it 🤷🏻♂️ Haanggang photo-op lang sila sa hospital visits tapos post sa social media.
Bakit me pa letter pa ng ganyan.. Hindi nman cla pinilit na tumulong ah Kung ayaw na nila ituloy eh di back off nlng quietly parang napasama pa ke John yung pag tulong nyo instead nkabuti. Sa susunod po wag ng magpress release Kung tutulong.. Kapag bukal sa puso ang pag tulong sa kapwa dapat walang regrets. Haiist
We help what we could period! Hindi yung lalagyan pa ng kung ano2ng spices. John is just testing you if pakitang tao lang kayo and yet sumuko agad in just a month!
WTH? They are publishing this because if they suddenly stop meron at meron pa rin kayong sasabihin. At bakit kailangan sila i-test sila ni John eh sya ang may kailangan ng tulong.
I remember my Dad, he was really sick. He refuse to take his medications, kasi "lalo" daw syang nanghihina. He will get mad at the doctors because they are giving him "wrong" medications. He gets easily mad and will give us a hard time with all his reklamo. I remember telling him, "don't drink too much water" (dialysis patient) or "bawal sayo yang food na yan" and he will tell me, "Hindi kasi kayo ang nakakaramdam, ang hirap kaya." He fought this sickness and sadly he passed. You will never feel or understand their pain, so if you really want to help someone who is sick, money is not the only thing they need. They need love, assurance and a LOOOOOOT of patience.
Dad ba nila si John????? Why are you people keep comparing your relatives situation with John????? Yung behavior niya ganyan na WALA PA SIYANG SAKIT!!!!
1:16, Wrong ka. They are not caregivers and they are not his relatives. They can’t take care of him anymore and they don’t have the responsibility to take care of him, especially because he is a very difficult patient. Gets mo.
I was just SHARING (not comparing) my experience with my Dad who was sick. I'm just saying these people needs a lot of understanding regardless of what they did before (my Dad abused himself with his vices) and especially what they are doing now. Don't be so quick on judging others.
But that's just me, I am not asking anyone to have the same view as mine. Always do what you want and what you think is best for you.
12.38 hindi mo ba na nagets na ayaw ng gumaling nung tao? Pag ganyan na kabaligtaran ang ginagawa ng ng pasyente sa katawan niya ibig sabihin ayaw niyang gumaling. So anong pasensiya ang sinasabi mo? Na ipilit pa din nila kagustuhan nila kay john kahit ayaw na nito? They can only do so much!
Yung letter nila na yan for transparency purpose. Dami niong kuda.. Kayo tumulong dun sa pasaway. Kung wala kayo ginugol ni isang oras na pag tulong ke john regala, wala kayo karapatang mang husga.
Parang ang bigat naman ng letter kemerut nila na yan. Bukod sa message na tinalikuran na nila yung pasyente, para pang bina-badluck pa nila yung susunod na mag aasikaso kay John. Charity for publicity lang pala tong mga to.
Of course they have to come out with a statement. Pangalan nila yun nakadikit doon sa pag ask ng donations for John. They have to declare ano mangyayari doon sa mga cash and other items na dinonate ng mga tao. Hindi pwede na basta basta lang si bibitaw na walang pasabi. Isa pa, mga kalsmeyts, read between the lines naman. Yun pag self medicate ni John ang reason kung bakit sya may liver disease ngayon at yun pa din yun ginagawa nya, walang kadala Dala. Mag isip naman kayo ano yun sineself medicate nya. History repeating itself lang yan. Masyado naman kayo nauto ni John.
Kelangan pong ibroadcast kasi may public donation drive sila na kanila nang ihihinto. So notice sa public yan na wag na silang magpadala ng tulong don sa account. Kelangan gawin for transparency
1:21, Wrong. They had to issue a statement because of the go fund money. They don’t want to be accused of pocketing it, thus they want to clarify everything and be transparent about it. Think ka naman pag may time.
John Regala's situation needs a lot of patience...if you are really willj g to help, hndi lng usaping pera eto but you also give time and patience and understanding sa pasyente...hndi naten alam ang takbo ng utak ng taong sobrang nakakaramdam ng disease or ang epekto ng mga gamutan sa kanila... I said this based on my own experience...mga tao nakakaranas ng kalagayan ni John Regala often moody, sensitive...because maybe they feel na weak na sila at gusto pa rin lumaban kaya nagiging mukhang pasaway sila....
2.58 I think hindi mo naiintindihan ang situation. Ang sitwasyon ay hindi galing kay John ang perang ginagastos at nawawaldas, pero kung pera niya ito ok lang na maging ganyan siya..
Ambilis nyo naman sumuko, sana hinabaan nyo pa ang inyong pasensya, alam nyo naman na maysakit yung tao. nagmukhan tuloy kayong plastik sa pinag gagawa ninyo.
@300 heller ang dami ko nang inalagaan na may sakit sa family namin. As in ICU galore, ilang bwan sa hospital at paguwi may karelyebo pa akong nurse at caregiver. Ganun Kalala! Pwede na nga stockholder yun pamilya ko sa hospital. Pati mga guard, nurses at janitors kilala na kami. Who you ka! Ikaw kilala mo ba si John? Mga millenial siguro kayo kaya hindi nyo sya kilala. FYI lang ibahin ninyo si John Regala, alamin nyo muna kung ano history at ugali nyan.
di naman siguro sila nagmamalaki or nagpapasikat.. I think ginawa lang yung letter na to para maging transparent sa mga nagdonate. Kung tutuusin di nga nila responsibility yun tao at may kamaganak naman siguro yun, pero chinoose pa din nila tumulong. Wag naman natin sila sintensyahan. Naiintindihan ko na dapat intindihin din si John kasi ako mismo 2 kapatid ko ang nagkasakit ng same kay John, mahirap talaga at susubukin ang pasensya mo. pero dahil kapatid ko sila talagang hahabaan ko pasensya ko, wag naman natin iexpect yun sa iba. anyway, wish ko lang.. world peace..
Let's try to understand where they are coming from. Hindi lng kc Isa, silang lhat nag back out na sa pag tulong meaning may something. Mali cgro un mga words na ginamit, pro bka gsto lamang nila iparating na wla s knla ang pagkukulang. Kc syempre un mga nag donate gsto rin nila malaman un reason.
Kaya madaming abusado kasi madaming nagpapa-abuso. Kung kailangan ng tulong dapat sya mismo willing na magbago. Madami pang mas deserving na tulungan kesa sa kanya. Madaming matatanda na walang trabaho, gustom at hirap parin. Ilang beses na syang binigyan ng chance, pero walang nangyari.
Sorry but this letter is so done in a very bad taste. It reeks boastful terms, arrogance & feeling highly above John's situation at the moment. Their statement is overweening. They can do better than this!
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DeleteMahirap tulingan ang taong ayaw sumunod sa mga patakaran. Obviously, John was into something that he seems to be taking by himself. It is in their statement, hindi nga lang diretso nila sinabi.
DeleteAgree 1:54 mahirap tulungan ang taong ayaw tulungan ang mismong sarili
Deletethey helped this actor kc sa sobrang awa nila sa sitwasyon nya. they called out for help and raised fund for him. madaming celebrities ang tumulong. marahil nakakita ng "oportunidad" yung actor sa mga ginawa ng mga taong ito and wanted all the raised fund for himself and to "manage" it on his own kaya he discharged himself from hospital against the advise of his doctors and just self medicate. Pag naubos na fund nya, he knows what to do na.. seek help from those known celebrities who gave him money. you cannot blame these friends iif they issued this statement. baka lumihis na sa tama at katinuan yung aktor upon learning the fund they raised for him.. tama lang na nag issue sila ng statement para alam ng mga tumulong yung ginawa sa fund and how the actor "repays" the help he received.
Delete2:22, paano kung yung tao nawawala din sa sarili. Medications may side effects din even sa utak. May sakit yung tao, of, course, he's not hmself. Kung bibitwan nila, bakit may need pa to publicize? Matter of national concern ba?
Delete1:54 and 2:22, puwede rin naman kasi na nahihiya na si John sa laki ng gastusin dahil hindi siya sanay na siya ang humihingi ng tulong dahil sanay siyang magtrabaho at nagbabayad ng gastusin niya.
DeleteJohn Regala has liver cirrhosis.
DeleteWhat causes it? Alcohol abuse.
In-abuso ni John yung katawan nya.
Kaya nagkaron ng crowdfunding page para tulungan sya. Pero mukhang inaabuso pa rin ni John yung sarili nya, as to what was written on the joint statement.
Read between the lines - terrible habit of constant and abusive self medication.
Constant meaning palagi nya ginagawa.
Nakakalungkot. Sumuko na yung mga tumutulong sa kanya.
3:12 tama! To think mahirap mag pull ng funds ngayon.
DeleteI have to correct you there, 3:12. My husband has been diagnosed wtih NASH(nonalcoholic steatohepatitis), if left untreated, leads to liver cirrhosis. What caused it? The hepatologist believes its the medications he's been taking over the years for ulcerative colitis. Alcohol has been ruled out as he is nary a drinker. Tests have proven that. Kindly do research before you spread misinformation.
DeleteThanks for your medical input 7:28PM. But your husband's case is different from John Regala's, despite both of them having liver cirrhosis. His previous actions and attitude are well known in showbiz circles. Nuff said.
DeleteSorry but this letter is so done in a very bad taste. It reeks boastful terms, arrogance & feeling highly above John's situation at the moment. Their statement is overweening. They can do better than this!
ReplyDeleteKawawa naman si John na pag chismisan pa
ReplyDeleteNaalala ko ang sttement ni La Oro tungkol sa mga taong hindi dapat tulungan at ung mga tunay na nangangailangan na dapt tulungan.
ReplyDeleteUn may halong inggit na bakit un iba natulungan ako hinde bwahahah
Delete318 ang smart mo din no? lol. baka gustong malaman ng smarts mo na hindi nanghihingi si la oro kaya di sya dapat mainggit. nagsasalita sya dahil para sa kanya may ibang mga nangangailangan na mas deserving matulungan. sulat mo yan ha tas basahil mo 10 times para maintindihan mo sana
DeleteIntindihin na lang sana nila. Ganyan talaga pag may sakit nag iiba ugali.
ReplyDeleteIkaw na kaya mag-alaga at umintindi ke John! Mukhang maintindihin ka naman sa mga ganyang me pinagdaraanan!
Deletejuiceko covid ngayon. buwis buhay lumabas. lumalabas si nadia liza dino para tumulong. hindi ngayon ang panahon nag pagiging matigas ang ulo.
DeleteWrong move to publish this. Kung matigas ang ulo niya at uncooperative, natural Yan sa Maraming karamdaman. Wala sila sa katinuan especially Yung Maraming nararamdamam sakit sa katawan. Yung mga matatanda nga ganyan din. Hindi ito teleserye na super masunurin ang mga may sakit at magpa pakita ng pagiging grateful. Kaloka!
ReplyDeleteHahaha trot, halleer ganon ang may sakit iritable. I just feel na parang d sila seryoso sa pagtulong and all it's a matter of publicity. Jusko sa umpisa lang pala magaleng mga to, d marunong umintindi at magpasensya. Sumuko agad.
DeleteTotoo ito. They need to understand people na may sakit. Wala sila sa kalagayan ng tao na un. Moody galit sa mundo. Paiba iba ugali. Ilan lng yan sa nga nararamasan ng taong may sakit. Deep understanding is what they need.
DeleteYou'll never know unless you are in that situation (od hwlping someone who does not help himself)
DeleteMukhang expert ka sa pag-aalaga ng mga me pinagdadaanan E Ikaw na ang umako! Me mga donations na para panggastos now kung kulangin e magbukas ka ng acct para sa more donations. Ikaw ang karapat dapat mag-alaga!
Deletei agree woth you...john had already a stroke naka affect din yon sa utak.f ang patient may severe gusto inumin lahat makuha lang pain..kasi ganyan ang papa ko.
DeleteThese people had to issue a public statement because
Delete1. They solicited money from others. Those people have the right to know how their donations will be used, and how the organizers of the fundraising will proceed moving forward.
2. They're celebrities - public people. Whether they issue a statement or not, pag-uusapan sila. So, might as well clear the air from the beginning, thus, the need to make a public statement.
3. The statement also serves as a 'warning' of sorts to those who might want to help John Regala. It's pretty obvious now why even his own family seems to be 'hands-off' with him - they just wanted to let other people know the reality behind his nakakaawa state.
And also, why are we so demanding of these people who have already gone above and beyond what their obligations are in their community? Nakapag-raise sila ng funds, naibigay nila kay John, they made sure he received prime healthcare - even sa ospital na hirap magpa-admit ngayon, nai-admit sya so they most likely pulled some major strings there - and yet, he remains uncooperative. And hindi yan dahil sa sakit lang ha. I'm sure the group is aware, and the doc made them aware, that irritability etc may be a side effect of medication. But, it seems to be more than that eh.
Why is there a need to do this? They chose to help John di ba? Whether that person is willing to live or not is beyond their control.
ReplyDeleteDahil sa mga tulad mo! Para hindi sila makwestyon kung bakit nila pinabayaan o kung nasaan yung mga donations kung bigla mo na lang mabalitaang iniwan na nila si John na me bahagi sa puso mo! Akuin mo ang respinsibilidad ng pag-aaruga!
Delete9.34 bakit anak ba ni john si 12.43? Kung makapagsalita ka parA kang sure.
DeleteAko nahiya sa pinagsasabe nitong tatlo sa statement nila. Nakakaloka po kayo.
ReplyDeleteBat kailangan maglabas mg ganyan? Alam nila may dakit yung tao at mahina. Parang dating nyang keme nila demand letter or affidavit. Juskoday mga to.
ReplyDeleteCouldn’t agree more mga classmates. This statement is made to humiliate a patient who’s not in his right mind because he’s suffering physically. Ganyan talaga pag May nararamdaman masungit at mahirap paki sama Han. I know because I’ve taken care of my aunt who was suffering from C. And that’s why I understand John. Hays
ReplyDeleteWala pang sakit e ganyan na ugali niyan!
DeleteKilala mo si John personally 12:51? Ang mga tao porke tumulong sa una e obligado silang tulungan ang tao hanggang sa kahuli-hulihan. Nag explain sila bakit ayaw na nila tumulong at tumanggap ng pera na dinodonate para dun kay John. Hindi nila responsibilidad kung tutuusin pero me hangganan rin ang pagmamagandang loob. Nakakapagod yan.
Deletekorek! And also, having a liver condition may increase one's ammonia level which affects their mental state, judgment and decision making.
DeleteSana hindi na Lang Nila tinulungan. Lalo pa nilang pinasama si John. No need to explain to the public or even show na tumulong ka. Gawin mo na Lang or hindi. May pa publicity ek ek pa itong tatlo.
ReplyDeleteE di nagkokokoment ka na ASAN NA YUNG MGA TAGA INDUSTRIYANG NAKASAMA NIYA? WALA MAN LANG TUMULONG! MALUPIT MGA SHOWBIZ PEOPLE! O di ba ganito magiging comment mong Hypocrite ka!!!!
Delete9:37 parang ikaw yung nagrerespond din sa ibang comments. Bakit galit na galit ka??
DeleteParang tumulong lang sila para may maipost sa FB/IG at masabing mabubuting tao sila to the expense of the person they helped. Hindi ba pwedeng tumulong na lang without expecting anything in return lalo na dun sa taong tinulungan mo?
ReplyDeleteTroot. Sad.
DeleteHahaha true, nagpaka relevant lang kaloka.
DeleteYup!
DeleteKaya madalas may mga taong nagtitiis na lang kesa humingi ng tulong lalo na sa panahon ngayon na nakabroadcast lahat sa socmed.
ReplyDeleteagree
DeleteNope! Nagtitiis yun dahil nahihiya sa systema ng mundo na puro negosyo pati ospital negosyo! At nahihiya sa mga tulad mo na baka me maicomment pa tulad nito pero hindi naman magaangat ng kalingkingan para tumulong!
Deleteagree po ako sa mga comments dito. kung ayaw na po nilang tumulong, d na po nila kelangan na i-publish ng ganito.
ReplyDeleteE di kinuwestyon mo ano nangyare sa mga donations na hiningi nila! Kaya me paganyan for transparency! Dahil kung iniwan lang nila e SIGURADO HIHINGI NAMAN KAYO NG TRANSPARENCY REPORT KUNG ANONG NANGYARE SA MGA NAPAKALAKING MGA DONATIONS!
DeleteSa 13 comments sa ibabaw dun sa 12 commenters kayo na ang magtuloy at mag-alaga since suko na sila.
ReplyDeleteBat di ikaw ang tumulong 1:17. Tutal mukang nakakaunawa ka naman gaya ng pinalalabas mo.
DeleteNakaka off especially akala ko mabait Sina chuckie and Nadia. Lahat ng Taong nakaranas mag alaga ng may edad na relative na may sakit, Alam ang experience na mahirap talaga silang alagaan and hindi sumusunod. Kung sinukuan Nila Sana Wala nang public statement, inintriga pa Nila e may sakit na nga. Walang saysay ang tulong nila Kung niyurakan pa Nila nang ganyan. Pinahiya pa Nila e for sure kahit papano nahihiya rin yang si John regala na ganyan ang sinapit niya.
ReplyDeleteThis.. Agree ako sayo.. May inaalagaan din ako na relative na may sakit at matanda na eh.. Parang oras oras nasusubok ang pasensya mo eh.. pero never kong susukuan.. kase may totoong care ako sa tao
DeleteHindi naman nila relative yan at hindi sila mga health workers. Mga kaibigan sila na nagextend ng tulong.
Delete7:02 relative mo yun, natural aalagaan mo. tama si 3:27, wag nga kayo plastic. kung tutuusin, ndi naman nila kamag anak, they are not obliged to help. kung kayo matiyaga mag alaga, eh di kayo na kaya mag alaga sa kanya? sus. ndi niyo rin gagawin.
Delete7.02 what kind of tulong iyang sinasabi mo? Financial or caregiving? Sa case ni john financial need niya kasi need niya ng kung ano anong gamot pero kung ayaw na niya bakit mo pipilitin? Dapat respect mo ang living will niya, hindi yong kagustuhan mo.
DeleteIf it was done out of love and deep concern, hindi sila hahantong sa ganito. Roughly a month yet sinukuan agad. I hope someone will still look after him and take good care of the funds for his wellbeing.
ReplyDeleteHindi nila responsibilidad at obligasyon yan
DeleteOnli in da pilipinas talaa Yung tumutulong tapos nakabroadcast Yung terms and agreements na akala mo may kontrata ng nalugi. Kaloka!
ReplyDeleteJoint statement na hindi pinagisipang mabuti. Done in bad taste! Hindi nalang sana tumulong kung ganyan ang kapalit!
ReplyDeleteTumutulong daw pero ang daming hanash.
ReplyDeleteBakit may joint statement? Choice naman Nila bumitaw kundi na Nila Kaya. No need pang isigaw na nahihirapan sila Kay John.
ReplyDeleteAlthough kusa nilang tinulungan si John wala nmn pumilit sa kanila kaya siguro gumawa ng statement kasi nga humingi sila sa publiko ng tulong for John kapag hindi nila pinaalam na bumitaw na sila baka pag iisipan silang kinukuha yong pera or mahirap nila ipagkatiwala yong tulong kay John baka kung saan lng mapunta.
ReplyDeleteKung nag give up sila agad cguro di makita an kahit paano si John ng cooperation. Sana gumaling sya at may umalalay na anak o kamag anak sa kanya.
Natumbok mo bhie!
DeleteParang it sounded "hugas kamay". Na kung may mangyaring hindi maganda kay john anytime it's not because of them. Yes it's easier said than done pero sana hindi na mag humuliate ng taong may sakit at hindi maayos ang ugali. He is difficult alam naman siguro nila yon noon pa. Pero lubog na wag ng ilubog pa.
ReplyDeleteim sorry but i find these 3 insincere!
ReplyDeleteJusko Lord kelan ba kayo nakakita ng maysakit at maintenance pa ng gamot na madaling alagaan? Natural marami na yang nararamdaman at minsan nkakawala ho sa katinuan ang ibang gamot kaya minsan mahirap kausap at wla sa sarili. Para saan pa may paganetong effect yang tatlo? 😒
ReplyDeleteTingin ko may mental health component din yung issue ni John? Why the need to humiliate him? Tuloy self-serving ang dating nung so-called charitable gestures nila.
ReplyDeleteHala grabe naman di ba pwede private na lang, na post to sa Facebook e ang dami nag comment na isa family member nila may liver cirosis din at sabi nila masama daw ugali dahil sa sakit daw nag iiba ugali
ReplyDeleteKailngan ipost baka kasi mdami pa mag transfer sa account ni nadia eh sumuko n nga daw sila sa pag assist kay john
DeleteGuys i think they published a statement for the benefit of those who donated - for proper accounting and transparency. Kase kung ikaw nagbigay ng mejo malaking amount maghahanap ka talaga ng update on John's status at kung mahihinto man ang support the donors also need to understand why. Hindi to para sa mga ususero at ususera.
ReplyDelete2 lang ba or tatlo lang kaming nakagets ng message? nagseSELF medicate meaning hindi angkop or hindi kailangang i-take pero go si kuya sa gawain niya. hindi naman sa sinukuan, pero baka nahihirapan sila dahil baka matigas ulo o marunong pa sa doktor si kuya. anong klase ba ang ginagamit niya sa self medication? sana magets niyo yung gustong sabihin ni 154.
ReplyDelete-GandaraParks
This 3:47
Delete3:47, alam mo naman mga Pinoy, masyado emotional. puro puso puso, naiiwan utak. sila na compassionate, sila na maga alaga kay John Regala kaya.
DeleteYes! i agree with most, if not all of the comments here. Pagmay sakit and old na, nag-iiba ang ugali, may self-pity, et al. Kelangan talaga intindihan. I’ve personally witnessed this sa tito kong na-stroke. Sana sinabi nalang nila na istop na nila ang crowdfunding and nag thank you sa mga nagdonate. Tsk
ReplyDeleteBut don't you Want to know why nila iiwan at mga walang kwenta silang mga kaibigan o tagatulong? Lol. You'll just figure it all by yourself coz parang mystery na isosolve. Yeah ganun ang ugali ng Mga Pinoy very research culture.
Delete8:12 no, i dont want to know and wala din akong balak ishame sila for not continuing to help him. If anything, im grateful that they took the initiative to help him. I just dont like the way they handled the press about this.
DeleteI remember when my Lola first suffered from stroke, she's irritated at everyone and everything to the point minsan umiiyak nalang ako kasi bigla nalang magagalit. So, need talaga patience... lalo na kay John, since marami syang nararamdaman for sure na mas aaburido din sya sa buhay compared to my late Lola.
ReplyDeleteIrritable talaga yan lalo na sa edad nya
DeleteYung mga may mabibigat na karamdaman na ay minsan makukulit at hindi nakakapag isip ng dorecho.Hindi mo rin mablame kasi wala ka sa katayuan ni John.
ReplyDeletepwede namang bumitaw without maligning the sick person. sana tahimik na lang silang bumitaw. tutulong po tayo na walang inaantay na kapalit ot maging controlling sa buhay ng tinutulungan. decision nya gagawin nya kung ano man yan.
ReplyDeleteThank you for helping financially but please know it does not give you any right to make any medical decisions, especially those concerning his preferred approach to treatment.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, we had a relative just like that as well. We did everything for him but in the end we couldn’t do anything anymore because he did what he wanted to do.
ReplyDeleteNo one asked them to help naman I think. But if they chose to do so, might as well panindigan nyo na. If not, tumahimik na lang kayo. Parang pinagmalaki pa ninyo na gumawa kayo ng good deed.
ReplyDeleteNot surprised. What surprised me is ang daming naawa may John regala. From what I remember, walang pinagkaiba ang ugali nya in real life sa kontrabida roles in movies. See Hindi nagtagal at lumabas kaagad ang tunay na ugali.
ReplyDelete7:48, kaw lang yata saka iilan naka intindi dito. oh well, nakaka awa raw eh kasi may sakit. nakakapag taka, nasan ba mga relatives ni John Regala? Ndi ba sila dapat nag aalaga sa kanya? mukhang sinukuan din ba siya?
DeleteBakit kayo ganyan. Siguro maraming nag-abot at maraming nagtatanong, kaya nila sinabi kung ano yung mga naging steps at future steps nila. Ang bibilis nyong maghusga, di naman kayo yung nag gugol ng oras para asikasuhin yung tao.
ReplyDeleteTHIS! Kung di sila nagsabi, for sure tong mga to din magtatanong at huhusga ng di maganda. Kung makahusga as if may naiambag.
Deleteeto yong literal na nadapa na nga..nginudngod pa..kung ayaw na tumulong- just leave...wag na madami pang ek-ek
ReplyDeleteHis problem is both physical and emotional.
ReplyDeleteMas mahirap gamutin ang emotional problem and his so-called friends do not have the patience to deal with it 🤷🏻♂️
Haanggang photo-op lang sila sa hospital visits tapos post sa social media.
Bakit me pa letter pa ng ganyan.. Hindi nman cla pinilit na tumulong ah Kung ayaw na nila ituloy eh di back off nlng quietly parang napasama pa ke John yung pag tulong nyo instead nkabuti. Sa susunod po wag ng magpress release Kung tutulong.. Kapag bukal sa puso ang pag tulong sa kapwa dapat walang regrets. Haiist
ReplyDeleteWe help what we could period! Hindi yung lalagyan pa ng kung ano2ng spices. John is just testing you if pakitang tao lang kayo and yet sumuko agad in just a month!
ReplyDeleteWTH? They are publishing this because if they suddenly stop meron at meron pa rin kayong sasabihin. At bakit kailangan sila i-test sila ni John eh sya ang may kailangan ng tulong.
DeleteTest? Bakit kelangan mong subukan yung kabaitan ng mga tao sayo na nagmagandang loob in the first place?
DeleteI remember my Dad, he was really sick. He refuse to take his medications, kasi "lalo" daw syang nanghihina. He will get mad at the doctors because they are giving him "wrong" medications. He gets easily mad and will give us a hard time with all his reklamo. I remember telling him, "don't drink too much water" (dialysis patient) or "bawal sayo yang food na yan" and he will tell me, "Hindi kasi kayo ang nakakaramdam, ang hirap kaya." He fought this sickness and sadly he passed.
ReplyDeleteYou will never feel or understand their pain, so if you really want to help someone who is sick, money is not the only thing they need. They need love, assurance and a LOOOOOOT of patience.
1:16, tell that to John's relatives. nasan ba sila?
DeleteDad ba nila si John????? Why are you people keep comparing your relatives situation with John????? Yung behavior niya ganyan na WALA PA SIYANG SAKIT!!!!
DeleteI'm sorry for your loss. But patience won't work sa taong ma-pride. May hangganan ang patience.
Delete1:16, Wrong ka. They are not caregivers and they are not his relatives. They can’t take care of him anymore and they don’t have the responsibility to take care of him, especially because he is a very difficult patient. Gets mo.
DeleteI was just SHARING (not comparing) my experience with my Dad who was sick. I'm just saying these people needs a lot of understanding regardless of what they did before (my Dad abused himself with his vices) and especially what they are doing now. Don't be so quick on judging others.
DeleteBut that's just me, I am not asking anyone to have the same view as mine. Always do what you want and what you think is best for you.
12.38 hindi mo ba na nagets na ayaw ng gumaling nung tao? Pag ganyan na kabaligtaran ang ginagawa ng ng pasyente sa katawan niya ibig sabihin ayaw niyang gumaling. So anong pasensiya ang sinasabi mo? Na ipilit pa din nila kagustuhan nila kay john kahit ayaw na nito? They can only do so much!
DeleteYung letter nila na yan for transparency purpose. Dami niong kuda.. Kayo tumulong dun sa pasaway. Kung wala kayo ginugol ni isang oras na pag tulong ke john regala, wala kayo karapatang mang husga.
ReplyDeleteFamily nga nya di ba? Nasan?
DeleteParang ang bigat naman ng letter kemerut nila na yan. Bukod sa message na tinalikuran na nila yung pasyente, para pang bina-badluck pa nila yung susunod na mag aasikaso kay John. Charity for publicity lang pala tong mga to.
ReplyDeleteParang sinentensyahan nung tatlo yung pasyente. Sakit nyo sa bangs mga atih.
ReplyDeleteOf course they have to come out with a statement. Pangalan nila yun nakadikit doon sa pag ask ng donations for John. They have to declare ano mangyayari doon sa mga cash and other items na dinonate ng mga tao. Hindi pwede na basta basta lang si bibitaw na walang pasabi. Isa pa, mga kalsmeyts, read between the lines naman. Yun pag self medicate ni John ang reason kung bakit sya may liver disease ngayon at yun pa din yun ginagawa nya, walang kadala Dala. Mag isip naman kayo ano yun sineself medicate nya. History repeating itself lang yan. Masyado naman kayo nauto ni John.
ReplyDeleteObviously wala kang karanasan mag alaga ng taong mag matinding karamdaman o sadyang makitid lang ang utak mo.
DeleteKelangan pong ibroadcast kasi may public donation drive sila na kanila nang ihihinto. So notice sa public yan na wag na silang magpadala ng tulong don sa account. Kelangan gawin for transparency
ReplyDeleteAng epal Nilang tatlo. Kung naawa ka pero Ayaw mo na e di bumitaw ka na lang. No need to explain. Pano kasi bida bida itong tatlo.
ReplyDelete1:21, Wrong. They had to issue a statement because of the go fund money. They don’t want to be accused of pocketing it, thus they want to clarify everything and be transparent about it. Think ka naman pag may time.
DeleteA lost cause
ReplyDeleteJohn Regala's situation needs a lot of patience...if you are really willj g to help, hndi lng usaping pera eto but you also give time and patience and understanding sa pasyente...hndi naten alam ang takbo ng utak ng taong sobrang nakakaramdam ng disease or ang epekto ng mga gamutan sa kanila... I said this based on my own experience...mga tao nakakaranas ng kalagayan ni John Regala often moody, sensitive...because maybe they feel na weak na sila at gusto pa rin lumaban kaya nagiging mukhang pasaway sila....
ReplyDelete2.58 I think hindi mo naiintindihan ang situation. Ang sitwasyon ay hindi galing kay John ang perang ginagastos at nawawaldas, pero kung pera niya ito ok lang na maging ganyan siya..
DeleteAmbilis nyo naman sumuko, sana hinabaan nyo pa ang inyong pasensya, alam nyo naman na maysakit yung tao. nagmukhan tuloy kayong plastik sa pinag gagawa ninyo.
ReplyDelete@300 heller ang dami ko nang inalagaan na may sakit sa family namin. As in ICU galore, ilang bwan sa hospital at paguwi may karelyebo pa akong nurse at caregiver. Ganun Kalala! Pwede na nga stockholder yun pamilya ko sa hospital. Pati mga guard, nurses at janitors kilala na kami. Who you ka! Ikaw kilala mo ba si John? Mga millenial siguro kayo kaya hindi nyo sya kilala. FYI lang ibahin ninyo si John Regala, alamin nyo muna kung ano history at ugali nyan.
ReplyDeletedi naman siguro sila nagmamalaki or nagpapasikat.. I think ginawa lang yung letter na to para maging transparent sa mga nagdonate. Kung tutuusin di nga nila responsibility yun tao at may kamaganak naman siguro yun, pero chinoose pa din nila tumulong. Wag naman natin sila sintensyahan. Naiintindihan ko na dapat intindihin din si John kasi ako mismo 2 kapatid ko ang nagkasakit ng same kay John, mahirap talaga at susubukin ang pasensya mo. pero dahil kapatid ko sila talagang hahabaan ko pasensya ko, wag naman natin iexpect yun sa iba. anyway, wish ko lang.. world peace..
ReplyDeleteLet's try to understand where they are coming from. Hindi lng kc Isa, silang lhat nag back out na sa pag tulong meaning may something. Mali cgro un mga words na ginamit, pro bka gsto lamang nila iparating na wla s knla ang pagkukulang. Kc syempre un mga nag donate gsto rin nila malaman un reason.
ReplyDeleteKaya madaming abusado kasi madaming nagpapa-abuso. Kung kailangan ng tulong dapat sya mismo willing na magbago. Madami pang mas deserving na tulungan kesa sa kanya. Madaming matatanda na walang trabaho, gustom at hirap parin. Ilang beses na syang binigyan ng chance, pero walang nangyari.
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