Sunday, July 26, 2020

Hard to Move On

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Moving on and accepting reality are two of the most difficult actions after a breakup. In celebrity relationships, the public is the last to know unless the parties involved are heavy social media users. Sometimes, people are not even aware that the parties were together in the first place and only verify suspicion when an announcement of a breakup is made.

Individuals have different ways of coming to terms with reality. Others take on new hobbies and interests. Some spend time traveling to places they’ve never been to and still, others would busy themselves with work just as long as they would not have time to think about their relationship issues. Sadly, others would turn to drinking and questionable behavior just to remove the fact that everything is over and done.

When Male Personality (MP) started sending feelers, netizens spewed wild speculations over his possible motive. Anxiety and depression caught up with MP, who felt worse when a rumor reached him that his Former Lover (FL) allegedly cheated on him. MP apparently wanted closure by finding out if the rumor had truth behind it. MP tried to contact FL, but his attempts were futile. One post led to another in the hopes of gaining attention, but he was blocked by people he sought for clarification.

With his behavior, his friends started to worry and believed he might need professional help. However, they also realized that MP seems to be enjoying the attention, which is the reason for them to let him be. In addition, they are thinking that MP is exhibiting ways of coping with his personal issues.

‘You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won’t happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, ‘I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.’ ― Joel Osteen

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26 comments:

  1. its c wish to move on kna someday goodluck

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  2. Nag reach out pala sya kay FL...sana kinausap sya para magkaroon ng closure. Move on nalang. Use the pain you feel as a challenge to better yourself. Makakahanap ka din ng taong kayang tanggapin yong love mo. Naks, naging love guru na ko hehe.

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    1. nag reach out sya but it doesn't mean na mali si FL dahil hindi nya kinausap. Fl doesn't need to explain herself. nag cheat si fl or not separate ways na sila.

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    2. tagal na rin silang hiwalay ni C

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    3. 110 sila pa din nung nagcheat si FL, but you know her silence means yes, nagcheat nga sya

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    4. 1:10 Napaka-mean ng explanation mo. Silence means there’s something fishy goong on. She should have talked to him, since they were still together at that time. If this is not cheating, what else could be?

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    5. It's not FL's fault na hindi sya nakipag-usap. Hindi makakamoveon ung tao pag maguusap pa. Most likely imamanipulate lang nya si FL. Wala nang bearing kahit malaman nya totoo o hindi. Pag ex, ex na.

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  3. C lol it was a rumor lang pala kaya siya nag act out. He was even called out kasi siya yung player. At this point, i dont even know what to believe anymore haha

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  4. let fl be happy. meron din kayong happy memories don't just stick on the bad ones.

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  5. Pag ex, ex na. Wala ka na karapatan humingi ng oras o ng paliwanag. Sad but true. Naloko rin ako before (not saying FL really cheated pero kung yun ang issue ni MP sa kanya). Nalaman ko lang I was cheated on break na kami. And I knew about it through the person mismo na sinabay niya sakin who happened to be my friend. I didn't beg na magpaliwanag yung ex ko. Nung nalaman niya na nalaman ko, siya naghabol to explain yung side niya pero di ko na nireplyan. Siya pa napraning, text ng text. Kung sa sarili mo alam mong wala kang ginawang masama, be at peace. Yung mga may ginawa sayong mali, hayaan mo karma humabol sa kanila. Ika nga the best revenge is to live happily proving to the one who wronged you na hindi mo sya kailangan.

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    1. Agree! Time to shift his focus somewhere na mas healthy

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    2. Hindi na ako naniniwala sa karma talaga. Maski pa anong sama ng ginawa ng isang tao makukuha pa rin nya ang gusto nyang mangyari sa buhay nya. Maski nman aning gawin natin may mabuti at masama talagang epekto sa atin.

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    3. Nainspire naman ako sayo @ 1:19. Thank you!

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    4. I LOVE THIS!

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    5. You did great 1:19. Ang strong mo. 💗

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    6. 3:31 bakit ako din hindi na naniniwala sa karma😔... yung taong nangloko sa akin ang saya saya and mas naging successful pa. Hindi sa gusto ko may mangyari masama sa kanya pero, kala ko ba may karma?

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  6. I dont think C (FL) will cheat. I can see her strong values. It's more MP (C) who is fkirt to other girls

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    1. Don't treat her like a god.

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    2. 1:25 well you dont know her personally. Di porke yun ang pinapakita nya eh yun talaga sya. Wag uto-uto please.

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  7. Pag meron ng ibang karelasyon yung ex mo, that's already a closure. Hindi na kailangan ng explanation

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  8. ang daming ebidensya nagcheat c girl. nawalan din ako ng gana sa kanya kasi di ko type ang pinalit nya

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  9. Di tama yung ginagawa ni C, pero c'mon who among us can promise that they will be sane if you're in that same situation. We do not know how deep his love is for her or kung paano siya magmahal, maybe ganun talaga sya when he love he gives his all walang tinira kaya ganyan hirap magmove on at sobrang hurting. I don't know kung ano talaga totoo sa ngyari sakanila but one thing I'm sure of, is sobrang sakit lokohin ng taong akala mo di ka sasaktan. and besides if he is crazy as we may think now, I dont think na tatagal sila ng ganun.

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