Ang rapist at bastos gagawa talaga ng kababuyan kahit balot na balot ka. May sex crime dahil sa kababuyan ng pagiisip ng ibang mga lalaki. #NotoVictimBlaming
i agree wala pinipili ang mga taong manyak. however i also agree na we can minimize rape cases by not wearing provocative dresses but definitely not totally can prevent sex crimes.
I don't agree 2:20. RAPE is about POWER, more than it is about LUST or ATTRACTION. In Tagalog, hindi lang siya basta libog. People who RAPE are people who enjoy the idea of being the DECISION-MAKER, of being the one who has CONTROL over another human. They enjoy seeing the other person's helplessness - they enjoy the idea of being the one pulling the strings.
This is why kids get raped, this is why beggars on the street get raped, this is why the naive and innocent get raped, this is why even people wearing the most prim and proper clothing get raped. It is NOT the clothes.
so those who are drug addicts, who rape thinks that they are in CONTROL over others? di pwedng wala lang talaga sila sa tamang wisyo? if RAPE is just about thPOWER?
Lagi na lang kasalanan ng babae. Kapag may lalaki maganda ang katawan na walang suot na tshirt tumitingin kami pero hindi namin sila hinahawakan. Kung manyak kayong mga lalaki kayo ang may kasalanan sa ganyang pagiisip.
Kaya nga minsan mawawala compiansa & paggalang mo sa kapulisan. Bihira na lang ang pulis na matitino sa buong Pilipinas. Mabibilang mo sa daliri. Maski nga mga politicians madaming manyakis. Nakakasuka.
Ang manyak kahit hindi maikli suot mo manyak pa rin yan.i remember nakasakay kami sa jeep w a girl companion,suot nmin nakapants kami at tshirt,yong lalaki sa loob mismo ng jeep na umaandar,nagma masturbate in front of us kaya sumigaw kami ng manyak,ayun bumaba. Kaya wala sa suot na damit yan. May mga lalaking Sadyang bastos lang,kung makatingin sa babae parang hinuhubaran.akala mo kina gwapo nila o makka attract sila ng babae pag ganon.
whether it’s 2020 or 20 BCE, temptation is already a sinful inclination that everyone is battling with .... if women dress provocatively, admit it, they feed on men’s lustful tendencies ... besides bakit May mga lingeries, sexy underwear? To elicit sexual desire .... if women dress conservatively they minimize these tendencies kayo naman!
Yes, 12:55. But marami parin rapist. Kahit npakaconservative and balot n balot, nagagahasa parin. So, ang dapat pagsabihan ay mga manyak, DOM, and rapist.
Guys 12:55s point is yung minimization.. buksan po natin mga pang unawa natin o mean palawakin natin pang unawa nating mga babae, wag po sana natin palagi iniisip na vinivictim blame tayo palagi. Peace and happy sunday..
FYI po. children and babies have also gotten raped. boys and men too. so you see pls educate yourself and make sure you esppuse the proper thinking mindset and values.
cguro kung puro lalaki nasa paligid at mga nakainom na at nakashort shorts ka at halos labas dibdib mo baka sakali magbigay ng interpretation sa guys na u'r giving them a sign na game ka BUT kapag nasa isang lugar ka na maraming tao at halos ganon din kasuotan nila hindi pagbibigay ng motibo yun. Sadyang may babae na normal sa kanila mag short shorts pero hindi ibig sabihin nang aakit sila. Mas safe din cguro sa babae na okay magshort shorts kung may sariling sasakyan,kc kung napakaiksi ng suot,magdyip pa at gagabihin at malayo pa lalakarin papunta sa bahay nong babae medyo delikado yun para sa babae.. Sometimes it's much better to be careful.
A woman can be wearing baro't saya and still be provocative. How? Being provocative is INTENTIONAL. If gusto mo na ma-attract ang isang tao, you'll be oozing with it, no matter what you wear.
Deny it all you want. The way you attract men is through revealing clothes. Wag na tayong maglokohan dito. Why show off your boobs and legs if not to attract attention from....MEN. Alanganin namang wanting attention from old people.
so paano nung unang panahon na balot na balot mga babae pero nare-rape pa rin? yung mga hayop ba na nire-rape ng tao dahil wala silang damit kaya kasalanan din nila?
Jusko kung ganyan mindset ng anak kong lalaki, ako na magpapakulong sa kanya. Sex needs consent. Di porket may nakahubad na tao dyan, pwede mo nang isex. At excuse me, mainit sa pinas, presko magmaisking shorts, magsleeveless at spaghetti strap. Kung kay cleavage mang lumabas, e sorry na lang malaki talaga boobs ko, lumalabas talaga sya
Yuck ang mind set mo, ibig mong sbhin yung 12 years old na rape, habang pumapasok or pauwi galing school, na rape, kasi naka shorts at kita boobs? Hoy12:55 am, anong utak meron ka??
Rape is a criminal act. Paano iisipin ng rapis t na may right siya to rape unless cgurp psycho siya? A rapist probably got sexually aroused first before they commit the act. Be it towards an animal, man, woman,etc.
It’s to celebrate their body and feel good about themselves. It’s not for men. It’s for themselves. They want to look good for themselves. Omg. So annoying! I will wear what I want to wear that will make me feel good about myself. There are appropriate places and times to dress how they want to dress.
That’s not the solution. The solution is to provide more education and resources, and also consequences for men when they act inappropriately.
Also education and resources for women who are experiencing or had experienced inappropriate advances.
The consequences for men acting inappropriately are way too soft. This is the every reason why they think it’s the women’s “outfit” that will provoke them to act inappropriately.
Definitely it's not the woman's fault kung bastos ang lalaki. But if I have daughters, i would tell them to dress up appropriately. No to short shorts and showing too much of skin. I would tell my sons not to wear short shorts too and to wear tshirt esp outside. Ayan patas lang.
2:47 may sinabi ba na di nya papayagan mgsuot ng short shorts pag swimming? Naka specify ba sa comment nya? Focus ka dun lang sa nabasa mo wag mo dagdagan ung kwento.
2:47 swimming sa beach is different. Have you seen teenagers lately? halos mukhang underwear na ang suot? sa tiktok pa lang, labas dila2x din kapag sumasayaw and halos maghubad na. What for? to flaunt diba? As an adult, kapakanan niyo lang naman ang iniisip namin.
12:55am ikaw siguro yung tita na ang hilig mag judge na closeminded pero hypocrite. Nagshoshort ako kasi mainit nasa tropical country tayo. May mga dress na maganda pag may cleavage. Di lahat ng gawi ng babae para sa lalaki, di lahat tulad mong kulang sa attention ng lalaki umiikot siguro mundo mo sa mga lalaki at anong iisipin ng iba sayo. Maganda legs ko at ang daming cute na shorts na bagay bukod pa sa comfortable, madaling laban kasi maliit kesa pantalon. I choose my clothes based on the occasion at anong trip ko at hindi para magpa impress sa lalaki, ang shallow mo,ssabihin mo yan sa mga na rape na bata at lola. Ang lalaki pag hindi manyakis teh maniwala ka kahit maghubad at bumakaka ka walang gagawin yan pagsinabi mong, no. Kaloka to
You’re so full of yourself..so you want to flaunt your boobs and your legs! You’re incising boys or men to look at it! To desire you..to admire you! You’re giving a motive because men are really sexual beings..don’t you know that?! You’re so naive!
Men by nature are manyakis. Level up your psychology. Also, don't pretend that women who dress provocatively are just cute minded. Kaya nga nagpapa sexy ang term diba? What is the purpose for such clothing? Para comfy when out and about? Ako si 12:55
@10:11 the thing is, anong klaseng tao yung may makita lang sexy na babae, e iniisip na nya agad na gusto nitong makipagsex? Ano naman kung gusto mo magpasexy? Masama ba yung gusto mong iemphasize yung assets mo? Wala naman masama kung titingin tingin sa sexy na babae, normal lang yun, pero di normal yung mangrarape :) sex needs consent. Sana alam mo din yun
Huhu tama sila kadiri ang mindset mo. I'm glad I'm not you. Kahit nakapants ako at naka tshirt, kahit disente damit ko, sinisipulan ako. And it irritates me.
@10:11 if men, by nature, are “manyakis” then they should all be in jail and be given zero power or freedom to roam around where women and children are.
4:31am full of myself?? Nah.. Confident talaga ko coz I have IT. Angdaming damit ang bagay sakin ke maiksi o mahaba, murmurs or mahal di mo kasi siguro alam yung feeling na anganda ng fitting ng damit sa katawan at ang sarap sa feeling nun,simple happiness from feeling good by looking good from my eyes,kasi nasuot ko gusto ko kebs sa sasabihin ng tulad mong feelingera. Ikaw ang makitid, feeling mo lahat ng tao may pake sayo at ikaw lang tinitignan? Teh feeling mo pagnagshort ka center of attention ka? Sino satin ang full of thyself hahaha magsaya ka sa beach, k?
10:20 maraming nagahasa n balot n balot, mga bata, mga ay kapansanan s pag iisip, matatanda, and even manok at kalabaw n rape. S pag iisip yan, hndi s damit or balat.
lalaki dapat matuto ng ibig sabihin ng consent. pero sige isisi nyo sa pinay girls mapunta sana kayo sa disyerto, alam nyo na kung saan na kahit lalaki ni-rarape din.
Kasalanan nanaman ng mga babae. Bakit dito sa Europe, naka topless sa dagat na mga babae, di naman binabastos at di sinisipulan ng mga lalake. Kahit kita na singit, dibdib at tyan, walang pakialam mga tao. Bakit satin mag sando at short shorts ka, bastusin ka na. Mag bikini ka, malaswa ka? Dapat kasi ituro na sa mga bata katulad dito na may sex organs ang tao at normal lang to. Dito mag bihis ka hubot hubad sa gubat, dressing room or what, wala silang pakialam. Kasi komportable sila, kasi bata palang sila, nakikita na nila na sa opposite sex na may ganon pala.
THIS! We make the human body so taboo - na lumalaki ang mga batang 'may malisya'. Pansinin nyo, pag nag-aaral sa school about body parts, ang reaction ng mga bata is 'ewwww'. Bakit? Kasi ganoon sila pinalaki - nilagyan ng malisya.
I have an 11-year old and while she understands that her private parts are that, and should be treated with respect - she also knows that they are scientific parts of her reality - NOT kadiri. Walang malisya in short. The more kasi that we make it 'bastos' for them, the more they grow up to treat it like that - bastos.
So lahat ng babae na sexy suot ka rape rape ang dating? dpat ung pagiging manyak nyo ang bawasan nyo kung nagiinit kyo maligo kyo at bawasan nyo kkpanood ng porno ksi.
Hndi nag iisip yan..pano ung mga babae sa malalamig na lugar na balot na balot pero may case pa rin ng rape sge sagutin nya nga..ang manyak, manyak pa rin khit pag sinumpong ng kmanyakan kahit ano pa suot ng babae.
Hndi nag iisip yan..pano ung mga babae sa malalamig na lugar na balot na balot pero may case pa rin ng rape sge sagutin nya nga..ang manyak, manyak pa rin khit pag sinumpong ng kmanyakan kahit ano pa suot ng babae.
Dressing conservatively will lessen. We cannot control if a person is SPO (sexually preoccupied) in psychiatric centers. We always inform visitors not to wear skimpy shorts, revealing top or clothes when they visit the center to prevent SPOs from going inside their cells and " do the deed". I hope you girls understand. Whether you deny it or not, one of the reasons you wear such clothes is to flaunt it. However, we would like to suggest to wear clothes that aren't too revealing as well. It's for your own sake not because we are blaming you for these crimes such as rape. I hope you try to understand the deeper meaning of the message.
Whether you deny it or not daw lol as if you're victim-blaming ideology is correct. There's only one reason why there are sex crimes, and it's all because of the rapist and not the victim. Kahit magsuot pa ng saya mga babae, may rapist pa rin!
Ito rin explanation sa akin ng Tatay ko growing up.
He also said "Manamit ka sa paraan na gusto mo manamit ang mga babae na nakapaligid sa boyfriend or asawa mo. Gusto mo ba mabastos ka or mambastos boyfriend/asawa mo kahit sa imahinasyon? Para sa atensyon, kahit aminin mo man or hindi. Tapos magseselos ka."
Magiisip at magiisip ang lalaki, di ka man marape, iba nasa utak nila. Nakapanood man ng porno or hindi. Mataas or mababa man ang pinag-aralan.
9:00 teh kahit lahat ng babae sa imagination mo nakadamit basahan, kung baluktot at manyak yang asawa/boyfriend mo, magkakaron pa din ng pagnanasa sa utak niya. tsaka aminin mo man o hindi, selective yan. di naman porke’t nagpasexy ka feeling mo type ka kaagad.
Tama naman di especially if hindi ka naman de kotse. Pero pg sumasakay ka lang sa jeep e dpt tlg dress properly dahil lahat ng klase ng tao makakasalamiha mo. Lets face the reality na marami tlg masasamang tao sa mundo so we need to be vigilant and careful. Easy for tia and frankie to say coz mayayaman sila and they are sheltered.
Ria and Frankie are sheltered but they're not naive. They're actually smart. Ano pinagsasasabi mo jan? They speak their minds and know what's right from wrong
sa saudi guys are completely clothed and ARE STILL RAPED. rape culture should be completely cancelled!!!! culture of respect starts with authorities who respect women and their rights. sa nude beaches nga people can go and not get raped. it is called being civilized into a culture of respect.
Hmmm, I think women are confused kasi they want to look sexy and be noticed but then they are offended when they are noticed by bad men. Hindi ko gets.
Karamihan ng rapist under the influence of drugs, alchol. Pati pala may sakit sa pagiisip. Kaya tama po ang ginagawa ng gobyerno as war on drugs at limitahan/curfew ng pagbili ng alak
Google ninyo "What Were You Wearing" art exhibit where women display the clothes they wore when they got raped. Educate yourselves. Pati madre po na naka-habit, narerape. Kahit sa panahon ng Hapon, wala pang short shorts noon, may mga ginawang comfort women.
What I find most horrific is even fellow women propagate this kind of backwards mentality. I am ashamed I am still amongst women who blame other women, rather than shame the frailties of men. And that's why we can never progress kasi we keep pulling each other down.
Modesty is more than just about what PEOPLE wear 2:02. You do know that it's not just girls who get raped right? Not just teen/young girls? We're talking babies, toddlers, little kids, mothers, senior citizens, MEN, little boys, etc...
Napakasimple lang naman ang punto dito di ba? Ang dapat lamang sisihin sa rape at sex crimes ay yung mga rapists at sex offenders. HINDI ANG DAMIT. HINDI ANG BIKTIMA.
Dumaan din ako sa phase na iniisip ko na dapat balot na balot ang suot ko kasi yun din ang nilagay sa isip ko ng mga magulang ko - na dapat wag magsuot ng maiksi ang babae. Buti na lang ngayon mulat na ang mga mata ko at alam ko na na mali ang mga magulang ko sa bagay na iyan.
Ang rapist kahit nakabalot ka rapist pa rin yan. It boils down sa pagkatao talaga nila at di dapat mga babae mag-aadjust sa kanila. Dapat sila ang ini-educate sa ano ang tama at mali at respeto sa kapwa lalo sa mga babae. Kapag kulang sa disiplina , walang moral values at puro kababuyan nasa utak, asahan mo magri-rape talaga yan. Wag isisi sa mga babae kababawan ng pagkatao ng mga rapist at kawalan ng empathy dahil di naiisip na pwede ring gawin sa ina, kapatid, asawa at anak nila ang pangri-rape. Discipline the rapist at wag sisihin ang mga babaeng gusto lang maging komportable lalo ngayong tag-init.
sayo na nga nanggaling. Ang rapist, rapist. Nasa pagkatao na nila. sa tingin mo ba ma eeducate mo yan? Sa tingin mo ba kung hindi utak kriminal yan mang re=rape yan? kung may moral values ba yan manggagahasa yan? DISCIPLINE THE RAPIST? seriously? disiplinahin ang sarili. pwede manamit ng komportable ng hindi kailangan luwa yun kaluluwa mo. hindi mo kontrolado ang utak ng mga tao, kaya maging vigilant ka. You don't put unwanted attention to yourself din. freedom of choice comes with responsbility. Responsibilidad mo din pangalagaan yun sarili mo dahil yun lang ang bagay na pwede mo kontrolin hindi ibang tao.
yes, not wearing sexy clothes doesn't stop rapists from raping people, BUT IT HELPS PREVENT THE CRIME. Just because we are not in 2020 doesn't also mean I would allow my daughters to wear revealing clothes. I don't know about the others pero if I'm a man looking for a partner in life, I would not chose a girl who wears a dress that leaves nothing to the imagination.
Go Kakie! Tama naman talaga, we can agree na dapat naman ilugar yung mga pananamit, but do the victim blaming sht all over again os much b.s. Grabe ka kakie, crush na crush na kita talaga kahit I’m much older than you. Lol. Ultimo yung mga feelingero like ben the kickback tulfo di ka kaya eh. 😂🤚🏻 Iba ka! Idol.
I was 21 years old, working for a medical family spa, when 3 DOMs went there and started to say vile things in front of our manager and soke of the guys working there. These DOMs said disgusting things as they stare me down so my manager told me to go inside the locker room and that they'll with the "customers". I always dress appropriately, and that night, I was wearing a blavk slacks and a white blouse with thick material. The neckline was Vcut, but I made sure that its decent and no amount of cleavage was showing. I also don't wear too much makeup. Those perverts still talk and acted in a perverse way even without any provocation. So no, it is not the way that we dress that leads to rape or harrassment, its the way these people think. Saying that the way we present ourselves leads to these vile acts is normalizing the behavior. Perverted minds will continue to think and do vile things even in front of a decent woman. Honorable men will still be respectful and polite even when presented with a promiscuous woman. do not blame the victim. and don't ever say na nature na ng guys ang maging bastos so we women should adjust to it.
Yes may mga sadyang bastos tlaga that will rape regardless of your clothes pero meron din yung mga nasa border that will only do it pag may temptation or chance. Kahit pang anong gawin natin girls, we cant change all these men, wag tayong naive. Its better to be vigilant and protect yourself as well.
To all the red pilled guys, Ria Atayde and Frankie Pangilinan are showing their red flags. They are the type of people who does not take responsibilities.
So true, it's not about the clothing. I remember back in college, I was wearing my school uniform balot na balot with necktie pa, skirt almost ankle length with bag on my lap...but this guy kasabay ko sa sasakyan hinipuan ako kaya hinampas ko ng bag.
Ang rapist at bastos gagawa talaga ng kababuyan kahit balot na balot ka. May sex crime dahil sa kababuyan ng pagiisip ng ibang mga lalaki. #NotoVictimBlaming
ReplyDeleteBasta type ka kahit mag shorts ka pa kung hindi type hindi papatol ang mga yan. Madalas stalker ang mga may masamang balak.
DeletePanget, may b.o., at may galis, nire-rape di ba?
Deletei agree wala pinipili ang mga taong manyak. however i also agree na we can minimize rape cases by not wearing provocative dresses but definitely not totally can prevent sex crimes.
DeleteI don't agree 2:20. RAPE is about POWER, more than it is about LUST or ATTRACTION. In Tagalog, hindi lang siya basta libog. People who RAPE are people who enjoy the idea of being the DECISION-MAKER, of being the one who has CONTROL over another human. They enjoy seeing the other person's helplessness - they enjoy the idea of being the one pulling the strings.
DeleteThis is why kids get raped, this is why beggars on the street get raped, this is why the naive and innocent get raped, this is why even people wearing the most prim and proper clothing get raped. It is NOT the clothes.
F-I-N-A-L-L-Y. Thank for giving clear explanation, 6:17.
Deleteso those who are drug addicts, who rape thinks that they are in CONTROL over others? di pwedng wala lang talaga sila sa tamang wisyo? if RAPE is just about thPOWER?
DeleteLagi na lang kasalanan ng babae. Kapag may lalaki maganda ang katawan na walang suot na tshirt tumitingin kami pero hindi namin sila hinahawakan. Kung manyak kayong mga lalaki kayo ang may kasalanan sa ganyang pagiisip.
ReplyDelete2020 na pero may mga taong isinisisi pa rin sa kasuotan ang dahilan ng rape. Susme.
ReplyDeleteTalagang sa kapulisan pa nanggaling ang ganitong mensahe? Bakit hindi infographics na addressed para sa manyakis ang gawin?
ReplyDeleteKaya nga minsan mawawala compiansa & paggalang mo sa kapulisan. Bihira na lang ang pulis na matitino sa buong Pilipinas. Mabibilang mo sa daliri. Maski nga mga politicians madaming manyakis. Nakakasuka.
DeleteAng manyak kahit hindi maikli suot mo manyak pa rin yan.i remember nakasakay kami sa jeep w a girl companion,suot nmin nakapants kami at tshirt,yong lalaki sa loob mismo ng jeep na umaandar,nagma masturbate in front of us kaya sumigaw kami ng manyak,ayun bumaba.
DeleteKaya wala sa suot na damit yan.
May mga lalaking Sadyang bastos lang,kung makatingin sa babae parang hinuhubaran.akala mo kina gwapo nila o makka attract sila ng babae pag ganon.
whether it’s 2020 or 20 BCE, temptation is already a sinful inclination that everyone is battling with .... if women dress provocatively, admit it, they feed on men’s lustful tendencies ... besides bakit May mga lingeries, sexy underwear? To elicit sexual desire .... if women dress conservatively they minimize these tendencies kayo naman!
ReplyDeleteTell that to the kids who got rape
Deleteseryoso ka ba? kapag rapist, rapist. period. never victim blame, and let women celebrate their bodies.
DeleteYes, 12:55. But marami parin rapist. Kahit npakaconservative and balot n balot, nagagahasa parin. So, ang dapat pagsabihan ay mga manyak, DOM, and rapist.
DeletePano yung mga senior citizen na narape? Anong paliwanag mo doon?
DeleteGuys 12:55s point is yung minimization.. buksan po natin mga pang unawa natin o mean palawakin natin pang unawa nating mga babae, wag po sana natin palagi iniisip na vinivictim blame tayo palagi. Peace and happy sunday..
DeleteFYI po. children and babies have also gotten raped. boys and men too. so you see pls educate yourself and make sure you esppuse the proper thinking mindset and values.
DeletePano mo ijustify yung patutulugin ka tapos saka ka i rape? Talagang sadyang may mga rapist
Delete12:55 ypu are entitled to them, but please stop having terrible opinions.
Deletecguro kung puro lalaki nasa paligid at mga nakainom na at nakashort shorts ka at halos labas dibdib mo baka sakali magbigay ng interpretation sa guys na u'r giving them a sign na game ka BUT kapag nasa isang lugar ka na maraming tao at halos ganon din kasuotan nila hindi pagbibigay ng motibo yun.
DeleteSadyang may babae na normal sa kanila mag short shorts pero hindi ibig sabihin nang aakit sila.
Mas safe din cguro sa babae na okay magshort shorts kung may sariling sasakyan,kc kung napakaiksi ng suot,magdyip pa at gagabihin at malayo pa lalakarin papunta sa bahay nong babae medyo delikado yun para sa babae..
Sometimes it's much better to be careful.
A woman can be wearing baro't saya and still be provocative. How? Being provocative is INTENTIONAL. If gusto mo na ma-attract ang isang tao, you'll be oozing with it, no matter what you wear.
DeleteDeny it all you want. The way you attract men is through revealing clothes. Wag na tayong maglokohan dito. Why show off your boobs and legs if not to attract attention from....MEN. Alanganin namang wanting attention from old people.
ReplyDeleteSo just because you’re attracted to someone it gives you the right to rape or violate them???
Deleteso paano nung unang panahon na balot na balot mga babae pero nare-rape pa rin? yung mga hayop ba na nire-rape ng tao dahil wala silang damit kaya kasalanan din nila?
Deleteit attracts, maybe yes. but that doesn't give you consent na manyakin ang mga babae.
DeleteYIKES, kadiri mindset mo. sana mabago mo pa
DeleteFeelingero talaga kayong mga lalaki kayo. Akala nyo nagpapasexy ang mga babae dahil sa inyo?
DeleteJusko kung ganyan mindset ng anak kong lalaki, ako na magpapakulong sa kanya. Sex needs consent. Di porket may nakahubad na tao dyan, pwede mo nang isex. At excuse me, mainit sa pinas, presko magmaisking shorts, magsleeveless at spaghetti strap. Kung kay cleavage mang lumabas, e sorry na lang malaki talaga boobs ko, lumalabas talaga sya
DeleteYuck ang mind set mo, ibig mong sbhin yung 12 years old na rape, habang pumapasok or pauwi galing school, na rape, kasi naka shorts at kita boobs? Hoy12:55 am, anong utak meron ka??
DeletePara mo na ring sinabi that all men get turned on with the sight of bare legs and show of skin. Typical sweeping generalization that bears no truth.
DeleteI show off my boobs kasi considerable size sila and perky pa!!! BUT IT'S NOT FOR MEN, IT'S FOR ME!
DeleteMga babae na akala lahat ng gawin natin eh para sa consumption ng lalake deserves a special place in hell.
My gad 12:55 that is NOT an invitation to be raped.
DeleteRape is a criminal act. Paano iisipin ng rapis t na may right siya to rape unless cgurp psycho siya? A rapist probably got sexually aroused first before they commit the act. Be it towards an animal, man, woman,etc.
DeleteIt’s to celebrate their body and feel good about themselves. It’s not for men. It’s for themselves. They want to look good for themselves. Omg. So annoying! I will wear what I want to wear that will make me feel good about myself. There are appropriate places and times to dress how they want to dress.
DeleteThat’s not the solution. The solution is to provide more education and resources, and also consequences for men when they act inappropriately.
Also education and resources for women who are experiencing or had experienced inappropriate advances.
The consequences for men acting inappropriately are way too soft. This is the every reason why they think it’s the women’s “outfit” that will provoke them to act inappropriately.
sa dami ng nakahubo't hubad sa beach lalaki man o babae, lahat ba sila nirape dahil dun? utak please
DeleteDefinitely it's not the woman's fault kung bastos ang lalaki. But if I have daughters, i would tell them to dress up appropriately. No to short shorts and showing too much of skin. I would tell my sons not to wear short shorts too and to wear tshirt esp outside. Ayan patas lang.
ReplyDeleteAggree ako sayo 1:13. Yung suot ng mga kabataan kaso ngayon, kita na pati kaluluwa eh
DeleteEh di hindi mo papayagan na magswimming sa beach ang mga anak mo?
Delete2:47 may sinabi ba na di nya papayagan mgsuot ng short shorts pag swimming? Naka specify ba sa comment nya? Focus ka dun lang sa nabasa mo wag mo dagdagan ung kwento.
Delete2:47 swimming sa beach is different.
DeleteHave you seen teenagers lately? halos mukhang underwear na ang suot?
sa tiktok pa lang, labas dila2x din kapag sumasayaw and halos maghubad na. What for? to flaunt diba?
As an adult, kapakanan niyo lang naman ang iniisip namin.
Hayys 2:47. Sabi ni 1:13, dress up appropriately. I take it that it meant, according to the situation and occasion.
Delete1247 beach is exemption, why would you wear dress, pjs, shirts, pants, longsleeves in the beach? Common sense naman
Delete2:47am there is a right time and a right place to dress appropriately. Your question is pointless. And no i am not 1:13am
DeleteMay data ka ba na nagpapakita na karamihan sa narerape eh provocative ang suot?
DeleteYun naman pala, kaya naman palang respetuhin ang mga taong sexy ang suot sa mga beach. Bakit sa ibang lugar hindi kaya?
DeleteHindi yan patas 1:13 kasi iba ang rason kung bakitmo ginagawa para sa babae at sa lalaki mong anak.
Delete12:55am ikaw siguro yung tita na ang hilig mag judge na closeminded pero hypocrite. Nagshoshort ako kasi mainit nasa tropical country tayo. May mga dress na maganda pag may cleavage. Di lahat ng gawi ng babae para sa lalaki, di lahat tulad mong kulang sa attention ng lalaki umiikot siguro mundo mo sa mga lalaki at anong iisipin ng iba sayo. Maganda legs ko at ang daming cute na shorts na bagay bukod pa sa comfortable, madaling laban kasi maliit kesa pantalon. I choose my clothes based on the occasion at anong trip ko at hindi para magpa impress sa lalaki, ang shallow mo,ssabihin mo yan sa mga na rape na bata at lola. Ang lalaki pag hindi manyakis teh maniwala ka kahit maghubad at bumakaka ka walang gagawin yan pagsinabi mong, no. Kaloka to
ReplyDeleteYou’re so full of yourself..so you want to flaunt your boobs and your legs! You’re incising boys or men to look at it! To desire you..to admire you! You’re giving a motive because men are really sexual beings..don’t you know that?! You’re so naive!
DeleteMen by nature are manyakis. Level up your psychology. Also, don't pretend that women who dress provocatively are just cute minded. Kaya nga nagpapa sexy ang term diba? What is the purpose for such clothing? Para comfy when out and about? Ako si 12:55
Delete@10:11 the thing is, anong klaseng tao yung may makita lang sexy na babae, e iniisip na nya agad na gusto nitong makipagsex? Ano naman kung gusto mo magpasexy? Masama ba yung gusto mong iemphasize yung assets mo? Wala naman masama kung titingin tingin sa sexy na babae, normal lang yun, pero di normal yung mangrarape :) sex needs consent. Sana alam mo din yun
Delete10:11 sa tingin mo nakakatulong ka? By generalizing that all men are manyakis, you're just being part of the problem. Please get educated.
DeleteHuhu tama sila kadiri ang mindset mo. I'm glad I'm not you. Kahit nakapants ako at naka tshirt, kahit disente damit ko, sinisipulan ako. And it irritates me.
Delete@10:11 if men, by nature, are “manyakis” then they should all be in jail and be given zero power or freedom to roam around where women and children are.
Delete4:31am full of myself?? Nah.. Confident talaga ko coz I have IT. Angdaming damit ang bagay sakin ke maiksi o mahaba, murmurs or mahal di mo kasi siguro alam yung feeling na anganda ng fitting ng damit sa katawan at ang sarap sa feeling nun,simple happiness from feeling good by looking good from my eyes,kasi nasuot ko gusto ko kebs sa sasabihin ng tulad mong feelingera. Ikaw ang makitid, feeling mo lahat ng tao may pake sayo at ikaw lang tinitignan? Teh feeling mo pagnagshort ka center of attention ka? Sino satin ang full of thyself hahaha magsaya ka sa beach, k?
Deleteboth 12:55 perpuate victim-blaming. also backward thinking. pls be progressive.
ReplyDeleteProgressive in the world. Zero spirituality ganon?
Delete10:13 you are missing the mark.
Deletehuh? san nanggaling zero spirituality? bwahahah
DeleteAng mga rapists wala paki kahit ano suot at edad mo.
ReplyDeleteSusceptivility - the state or fact of being likely or liable to be influenced or harmed by a particular thing.
DeleteLet's say you are right, it doesn't matter what you wear, why taunt the would be rapist with exposed skin? Aber?
10:20 maraming nagahasa n balot n balot, mga bata, mga ay kapansanan s pag iisip, matatanda, and even manok at kalabaw n rape. S pag iisip yan, hndi s damit or balat.
DeleteYou don't have to flaunt anything to a 'would-be rapist'. The problem is his brain and his intention. Not the clothes you wear.
Deletelalaki dapat matuto ng ibig sabihin ng consent. pero sige isisi nyo sa pinay girls mapunta sana kayo sa disyerto, alam nyo na kung saan na kahit lalaki ni-rarape din.
ReplyDeleteKasalanan nanaman ng mga babae. Bakit dito sa Europe, naka topless sa dagat na mga babae, di naman binabastos at di sinisipulan ng mga lalake. Kahit kita na singit, dibdib at tyan, walang pakialam mga tao. Bakit satin mag sando at short shorts ka, bastusin ka na. Mag bikini ka, malaswa ka? Dapat kasi ituro na sa mga bata katulad dito na may sex organs ang tao at normal lang to. Dito mag bihis ka hubot hubad sa gubat, dressing room or what, wala silang pakialam. Kasi komportable sila, kasi bata palang sila, nakikita na nila na sa opposite sex na may ganon pala.
ReplyDeleteTHIS! We make the human body so taboo - na lumalaki ang mga batang 'may malisya'. Pansinin nyo, pag nag-aaral sa school about body parts, ang reaction ng mga bata is 'ewwww'. Bakit? Kasi ganoon sila pinalaki - nilagyan ng malisya.
DeleteI have an 11-year old and while she understands that her private parts are that, and should be treated with respect - she also knows that they are scientific parts of her reality - NOT kadiri. Walang malisya in short. The more kasi that we make it 'bastos' for them, the more they grow up to treat it like that - bastos.
2:21 it’s more incising if you wear short shorts?
ReplyDeleteSo lahat ng babae na sexy suot ka rape rape ang dating? dpat ung pagiging manyak nyo ang bawasan nyo kung nagiinit kyo maligo kyo at bawasan nyo kkpanood ng porno ksi.
ReplyDeleteHndi nag iisip yan..pano ung mga babae sa malalamig na lugar na balot na balot pero may case pa rin ng rape sge sagutin nya nga..ang manyak, manyak pa rin khit pag sinumpong ng kmanyakan kahit ano pa suot ng babae.
ReplyDeleteHndi nag iisip yan..pano ung mga babae sa malalamig na lugar na balot na balot pero may case pa rin ng rape sge sagutin nya nga..ang manyak, manyak pa rin khit pag sinumpong ng kmanyakan kahit ano pa suot ng babae.
ReplyDeleteDressing conservatively will lessen. We cannot control if a person is SPO (sexually preoccupied) in psychiatric centers. We always inform visitors not to wear skimpy shorts, revealing top or clothes when they visit the center to prevent SPOs from going inside their cells and " do the deed".
ReplyDeleteI hope you girls understand. Whether you deny it or not, one of the reasons you wear such clothes is to flaunt it. However, we would like to suggest to wear clothes that aren't too revealing as well. It's for your own sake not because we are blaming you for these crimes such as rape.
I hope you try to understand the deeper meaning of the message.
Whether you deny it or not daw lol as if you're victim-blaming ideology is correct. There's only one reason why there are sex crimes, and it's all because of the rapist and not the victim. Kahit magsuot pa ng saya mga babae, may rapist pa rin!
DeleteIto rin explanation sa akin ng Tatay ko growing up.
DeleteHe also said "Manamit ka sa paraan na gusto mo manamit ang mga babae na nakapaligid sa boyfriend or asawa mo. Gusto mo ba mabastos ka or mambastos boyfriend/asawa mo kahit sa imahinasyon? Para sa atensyon, kahit aminin mo man or hindi. Tapos magseselos ka."
Magiisip at magiisip ang lalaki, di ka man marape, iba nasa utak nila. Nakapanood man ng porno or hindi. Mataas or mababa man ang pinag-aralan.
9:00 teh kahit lahat ng babae sa imagination mo nakadamit basahan, kung baluktot at manyak yang asawa/boyfriend mo, magkakaron pa din ng pagnanasa sa utak niya. tsaka aminin mo man o hindi, selective yan. di naman porke’t nagpasexy ka feeling mo type ka kaagad.
DeleteMay lola nga nirerape eh pati hayop. Napanuod ko lang din sa balita.
ReplyDeleteHow to teach people not to rape? Masyadong politically correct. Uhaw naman talaga sa temptation pag nagsusuot ka ng maikli.
ReplyDeleteTama naman di especially if hindi ka naman de kotse. Pero pg sumasakay ka lang sa jeep e dpt tlg dress properly dahil lahat ng klase ng tao makakasalamiha mo. Lets face the reality na marami tlg masasamang tao sa mundo so we need to be vigilant and careful. Easy for tia and frankie to say coz mayayaman sila and they are sheltered.
ReplyDeleteRia and Frankie are sheltered but they're not naive. They're actually smart. Ano pinagsasasabi mo jan? They speak their minds and know what's right from wrong
Deletesa saudi guys are completely clothed and ARE STILL RAPED. rape culture should be completely cancelled!!!! culture of respect starts with authorities who respect women and their rights. sa nude beaches nga people can go and not get raped. it is called being civilized into a culture of respect.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, I think women are confused kasi they want to look sexy and be noticed but then they are offended when they are noticed by bad men. Hindi ko gets.
ReplyDeleteIt’s called consent. Men are not owed sex just because they’re attracted to someone.
Delete9:32, Very true. Dress or undress at your own risk baks. You can control your situation, you can’t control men’s thinking. Learn it.
DeleteIn fairness my point ang pulis.
ReplyDeleteKaramihan ng rapist under the influence of drugs, alchol. Pati pala may sakit sa pagiisip. Kaya tama po ang ginagawa ng gobyerno as war on drugs at limitahan/curfew ng pagbili ng alak
ReplyDeleteGoogle ninyo "What Were You Wearing" art exhibit where women display the clothes they wore when they got raped. Educate yourselves. Pati madre po na naka-habit, narerape. Kahit sa panahon ng Hapon, wala pang short shorts noon, may mga ginawang comfort women.
ReplyDeleteWhat I find most horrific is even fellow women propagate this kind of backwards mentality.
I am ashamed I am still amongst women who blame other women, rather than shame the frailties of men. And that's why we can never progress kasi we keep pulling each other down.
Sauce ashamed daw sya. What about teaching girls modesty instead? Is that so hard?
DeleteModesty is more than just about what PEOPLE wear 2:02. You do know that it's not just girls who get raped right?
DeleteNot just teen/young girls? We're talking babies, toddlers, little kids, mothers, senior citizens, MEN, little boys, etc...
Your understanding of modesty is so 1800s.
2:02 walang studies na nagpapatunay na makakabawas sa kaso ng rape ang modest na pananamit
Delete2:02 unahin mo munang pagsabihan ang mga manyak na wag mangrape.
Delete2:02 Why don't we educate men to not rape, is THAT so hard?
DeletePara sa mga makaluma ang pag-iisip dyan, posible po na magpasexy ang isang tao para sa sarili niyang kasiyahan at hindi para magpasexy sa iba.
ReplyDeleteNapakasimple lang naman ang punto dito di ba? Ang dapat lamang sisihin sa rape at sex crimes ay yung mga rapists at sex offenders. HINDI ANG DAMIT. HINDI ANG BIKTIMA.
ReplyDeleteDumaan din ako sa phase na iniisip ko na dapat balot na balot ang suot ko kasi yun din ang nilagay sa isip ko ng mga magulang ko - na dapat wag magsuot ng maiksi ang babae. Buti na lang ngayon mulat na ang mga mata ko at alam ko na na mali ang mga magulang ko sa bagay na iyan.
Ang rapist kahit nakabalot ka rapist pa rin yan. It boils down sa pagkatao talaga nila at di dapat mga babae mag-aadjust sa kanila. Dapat sila ang ini-educate sa ano ang tama at mali at respeto sa kapwa lalo sa mga babae. Kapag kulang sa disiplina , walang moral values at puro kababuyan nasa utak, asahan mo magri-rape talaga yan. Wag isisi sa mga babae kababawan ng pagkatao ng mga rapist at kawalan ng empathy dahil di naiisip na pwede ring gawin sa ina, kapatid, asawa at anak nila ang pangri-rape. Discipline the rapist at wag sisihin ang mga babaeng gusto lang maging komportable lalo ngayong tag-init.
ReplyDeletesayo na nga nanggaling. Ang rapist, rapist. Nasa pagkatao na nila. sa tingin mo ba ma eeducate mo yan? Sa tingin mo ba kung hindi utak kriminal yan mang re=rape yan? kung may moral values ba yan manggagahasa yan? DISCIPLINE THE RAPIST? seriously? disiplinahin ang sarili. pwede manamit ng komportable ng hindi kailangan luwa yun kaluluwa mo. hindi mo kontrolado ang utak ng mga tao, kaya maging vigilant ka. You don't put unwanted attention to yourself din. freedom of choice comes with responsbility. Responsibilidad mo din pangalagaan yun sarili mo dahil yun lang ang bagay na pwede mo kontrolin hindi ibang tao.
Deleteyes, not wearing sexy clothes doesn't stop rapists from raping people, BUT IT HELPS PREVENT THE CRIME. Just because we are not in 2020 doesn't also mean I would allow my daughters to wear revealing clothes. I don't know about the others pero if I'm a man looking for a partner in life, I would not chose a girl who wears a dress that leaves nothing to the imagination.
ReplyDeleteAsan proof mo na makakatulong maprevent ang rape pag conservative ang suot? At saka grabe ka huhusgahan mo ang babae base sa kasuotan niya.
DeleteDo you have studies and stats that supports your claim that dressing modestly prevents crime?
DeleteGo Kakie! Tama naman talaga, we can agree na dapat naman ilugar yung mga pananamit, but do the victim blaming sht all over again os much b.s.
ReplyDeleteGrabe ka kakie, crush na crush na kita talaga kahit I’m much older than you. Lol. Ultimo yung mga feelingero like ben the kickback tulfo di ka kaya eh. 😂🤚🏻 Iba ka! Idol.
basta ako bilang respeto ko sa sarili ko, I dont wear revealing clothes.
ReplyDeleteSinasabi mo ba na pag sexy ang suot walang respeto sa sarili? Grabe makapanghusga ha.
DeleteI was 21 years old, working for a medical family spa, when 3 DOMs went there and started to say vile things in front of our manager and soke of the guys working there. These DOMs said disgusting things as they stare me down so my manager told me to go inside the locker room and that they'll with the "customers". I always dress appropriately, and that night, I was wearing a blavk slacks and a white blouse with thick material. The neckline was Vcut, but I made sure that its decent and no amount of cleavage was showing. I also don't wear too much makeup. Those perverts still talk and acted in a perverse way even without any provocation. So no, it is not the way that we dress that leads to rape or harrassment, its the way these people think. Saying that the way we present ourselves leads to these vile acts is normalizing the behavior. Perverted minds will continue to think and do vile things even in front of a decent woman. Honorable men will still be respectful and polite even when presented with a promiscuous woman. do not blame the victim. and don't ever say na nature na ng guys ang maging bastos so we women should adjust to it.
ReplyDeleteYes may mga sadyang bastos tlaga that will rape regardless of your clothes pero meron din yung mga nasa border that will only do it pag may temptation or chance. Kahit pang anong gawin natin girls, we cant change all these men, wag tayong naive. Its better to be vigilant and protect yourself as well.
ReplyDeleteBase ba yan sa mga na-interview mong rapists? O hula hula mo lang yan?
DeleteBaka naman may basis din yung sinabi ng pulis, baka mostly nagrereport saknla e ung sobra revealing manamit?
ReplyDeleteNakasakay ka sa jeep ang babae na nakaharap mo LUWA NA DEDE
ReplyDeleteSa halip na hindi focus sa cellphone naka focus na ngayon sa "Boobs" at nagsimula mag imagine
Kung hindi provocative ang suot "iwas" sa rapist oh di ba?
ah yun pala ang paraan para makaiwas sa rapist? ang talino mo sobra.
DeleteTo all the red pilled guys, Ria Atayde and Frankie Pangilinan are showing their red flags. They are the type of people who does not take responsibilities.
ReplyDeleteWell, it’s a fact naman e. If you dress provocatively, you will likely invite unwanted attention. It makes no difference what you believe.
ReplyDeleteUnwanted attention is different from forcible act of rape. Big difference.
DeleteSo true, it's not about the clothing. I remember back in college, I was wearing my school uniform balot na balot with necktie pa, skirt almost ankle length with bag on my lap...but this guy kasabay ko sa sasakyan hinipuan ako kaya hinampas ko ng bag.
ReplyDelete#stopvictimblaming