yun nga kasi yung hirap dito sa Kat na ito,since wala naman siyang pinapangalanan kung sino, everything is just chismis. Nagmumukha ng KSP itong babaeng ito.
Eto perfect example kung bakit mali na paclue clue lang at parinig instead of pangalanan or kasuhan kasi mga kung sino sino na lang nadadamay at napapagbintangan ng mga tao.
dude the fact na hindi nya tinangi yung na i issue ngayon na lalaki na tinutukoy nya yun na yon! super trending na yung lalaki kung hindi yun ang lalaki im sure mag sasalita si kat na mali yung hinala ng mga tao pero hindi eh so yun na yon
This exactly. Im starting to have doubts because of this medyo bs na statement na she didnt file because she knew it would be dismissed and they will silence and discredit me. So what? If you have the truth on your side and you truly want justice, those unsure and petty reasons will not stop you.
Beh, 12:25 wla syang concrete evidence since pinatake sya ng drugs without her knowledge and was rape. Plus, the guy has a powerful backup. So filing a case against him would be impossible since sobrang dali baliktarin ni guy ang kaso at ipapamukha pang si kat ang may kasalanan. Gets??!!
wala naman syang inaaccuse ha? parang FP lng yan e blind items with clues..it's up to us to believe or not. basta ako I believe her. do you have someone in mind? pa share naman!
Baka kasi kulang sa evidence. Mahirap kung walang proof. Hindi na ata nya naisip mgpamedico-legal dahil sa sobrang trauma. My heart goes to Kat. Stay strong girl
@12:48 Rape is a serious accusation and not a blind item material, some people might think the wrong person and it can ruin their lives. Do you ever think about that? Maraming buhay ang nasisira ng maling akala and this is why what she's doing is wrong
12:46 Eto lang yan, its either ipaglaban nya o hinde. If she was drugged, all the more na may ebidensya sya kasi makikita yun sa blood test. The guy has a powerful backup? Eh ano ngayon? celebrity sya, kung talagang narape sya maraming powerful din na susuporta sa kanya. Babaligtarin ni guy? Matalino si Kat, she knows how to go to the police, to the doctor, lawyers and ask her celebrity friends for help. May mga cctv, cellphone records, kung may nakakita ba...kayang imbestigahan kung anong nagyari nung araw na yun pero ask yourself, bakit walang ebidensya? May rason kung bakit importante ang guilty beyond reasonable doubt kasi maraming instances talaga ng false rape accusation to get even with a guy. You can look up the statistics. Masosorpresa ka.
12:57 Yun naman pala eh di sana wag na syang magparinig at kung sino sinong inosenteng tao madadamay nya sa ginagawa nya, kawawa din sila dahil nasisira ang reputasyon sa isip ng tao. Ako, dalawang rhymes with wrong agad naisip ko. Yung ibang tao pa kaya? Either file a case or keep your silence.
1:14 anong maraming buhay nasisira e as far I know, lahat ng iniisip kong suspect, sarap buhay pa ren ngayon.... we found out about her rape, what, more than 5 yrs ago? may nasira bang buhay sa mga iniisip mo? isipin mo yung taong tinutukoy mo, nasira ba buhay nun sa clue na bigay nya? kasi walang nasirang buhay kundi ke kat...ngayon kung papangalanan nya yung tao, dun pa lang masisira buhay nung iniisp mo...
@1:14 nope hindi naruin ang life ni rapist. Still enjoying fame and admiration ng mga tao. In real life, do u think having the truth on your side is enough to get you justice? In this country? Educate yourself about rape and how hard it is to actually prove in court so that you know how easy it is for perpetrators to go unpunished! Para na din u understand why it is so common for victims to not speak out about their abuse and why this is a crime that scars them for life! Baka magkaroon ka din ng empathy to victims. At least even if Kat doesnt get justice in the court of law, she can help spread awareness to this otherwise taboo issue and probably encourage other victims to stand up and speak out! Dami na accusers ni guy, do u wonder why?
1:53 Ngek sa comprehension kaloka ka. Kasi nga di nya pinangalanan at sinampahan ng kaso, natural pasarap pa rin yun. Yung mga nasisira ang reputasyon, yung mga inosenteng napapagbintangan ng mga tao dahil nanghuhula lang sa clue na binibigay ni kat alano
1:54 That's the thing, u call him rapist already without proof and u don't even know if u guessed right. Gusto ko rin ng justice for Kat. Pero walang mangyayari pag pahaging lang. Masisira lang ang reputation ng ina accuse niya vaguely. Tulad mo, may iba ka nang iniisip sa taong yun kahit hindi pa natin alam ang absolute truth or at least parts of it.
I went through it, too. Same thing with Kat, I was in denial for many months (maybe even a few years). I thought about what my family, especially my parents, would go through if I file case. The scandal and the thought that I would cause embarrassment to my family. People would say I put myself in the situation when I allowed that person to enter my room during an out of town trip, nevermind that he was a close and trusted friend for many years. It would break my parents heart.. so many considerations run through my head. At the end of the day, I decided that I can handle it but my loved ones and family might not. This is why I understand why Kat did file.
6:35 WOW proud ka sa ganyang mindse that you had to say it publicly? A crime was committed and you want to let the rapist walk away? Kaya walang justice sa Pinas kse ganyan ang mentality ng mga taong katulad mo. I fully support rape victims but you cannot accuse people and not file- gets?
6:53 yep I read everything thats been said so far by BOTH camps about this issue. Take note there are MULTIPLE accusers already and some have even filed cases in court. Sadly, the justice system in our country is broken! Or di mo din alam ang reality na yan? So yeah, I’ll give the benefit of the doubt kay Kat against the rapist na celebrity
May fishy dun sa reasoning nya na not filing a case dahil lang she found out that "it would be dismissed". First of all, how would you know kung totoong madidismiss if you didnt even try to file? Second, if may merit yung case na ififile nya (medical at other evidence), kahit sino pa backer nung rapist, she can get an equally powerful lawyer na hahawak sa kaso nya kasi celebrity sya. Lawyers wants prestige and fame to their name. Pangatlo, kahit pa madissmiss, at least the public would think and doubt the rapists character diba? And lastly, what case can they file against her ??? If dahil sa kasong isasampa nya, eh di obvious na yun sa mga tao. Why is she so afraid of being discredited? Im not judging whether she was raped or not because I dont know BUT her course of action is questionable at best. "hindi sya nagfile dahil 'alam' nya na madidismiss?" hmmm
Mabigat na kaso kasi ang rape. So the evidence she should present must merit beyond reasonable doubt. Remember, she was drugged and raped. I can just imagine lambot na lambot at hilong hilo sya habang ginagawa sa kanya yun. It's very difficult para sa aming mga babae na mag.confide agad ng ganyang kabigat na pangyayari and besides traumatized pa sya ng husto. She's been exposing this for years. I dont think para lang magpapansin but because totoong nangyari yun sa kanya. Ikagaganda o ikasisikat ba nya kung aminin nyang rape victim sya. Napakasakit nun sa pagkatao kaya till now di nya malimutan di ba? Bakit hindi mapangalanan? Ang daling tumanggi at magsampa pa ng libel. Ayan nga may kulong pala pag nag guilty verdict. Basta ako naaawa ako sa kanya bilang babae at tao.
@1:18 Then she should keep her silence. Is she hellbent on damaging innocent men's reputation because of what happened to her? And dont forget, she NEVER said she didn't file because she has no evidence. THAT is your own deduction. She said she never filed because it will be dismissed due to the uncle and she's afraif to be discredited and silenced.
But I also ask the same thing about this issue. Bakit hindi ka mag file ng case. These are all rumors and hearsay, kung totoo kang ni rape, take him to court. Hindi kailangan ng PR team or ng basher to come up with this conclusion.
Pag hindi mo makuha ang hustisya dahil may powerful person na pumipigil, pangalanan mo na. Artista siya karma na niya yung masisira siya sa ginawa niya. Parang nakuha mo na ang hustisya at sa ibang babae ginawan niya ng masama. Malakas ang cancelledt culture ngayon, take advanatage of it.
If she was raped like she said, it is good that she joins discussion about rape.It is okay if she is not comfortable to file a case since hindi talaga madali for rape victims to relive memories of rape and to stand through the process. Pero wag na sana sya mag pa clue clue pa since yung mga tao kung sinusino pinagiisipan. How many years na yan palagi syang may pa clue, so parang hindi din naman sya umiiwas sa trauma of reliving the rape dahil sya din naman open ng open pero ung pagopen nya is juat enougj to gain attention.
Powerful uncle? Eh poordoy yung hula ng iba dito from the beginning. So sino kaya yung rapist niya? Ang hirap niyan di niya pinapangalanan tapos magpopost siya ng mga clues at kung sinu-sino ituturo ng mga tao. Mapagbibintangan pa yung mga wala naman kinalaman.
Ako may dalawang naisip. Yung mas bata, walang powerful uncle o backer. Yung mas matanda, medyo powerful pamilya. Pero eto yung mali dito kasi ayan, pinagdududahan inosenteng tao.
susmiyo garapon, ilang taon na tayo nagdududa e, apekted ba pinagudududahan? wala namang nabagoo sa buhay nila a. going strong mga career. walang epek ang duda sa masasamang tao..yung iba nga nakasuhan at nakulong na nananalo pa sa gobyerno pagkalaya e.
Mas mabilis kasi ang trial by publicity. Ang tagal na panahon mong kinimkim yan bakit hindi mo pa pangalanan kung talagang totoo lahat ng sinasabi mo. Para magsalita na din kung sinuman yang lalaking yan. I’m sure he was just laughing at you now kasi you let him get away with it at hanggang ngayon ikaw nagdududa imbes na sana siya.
Sana totoo ang hula ng madla kasi kawawa kung hindi pala yun. Hinay hinay mga te na nag bibintang lalo na at hindi pa niya sinasabi kung sino talaga yun.
bat ba ang hirap magsalita sa pinas? sinabi nyang rape victim sya..may sinabi ba syang tao?? may binanggit bang name?? o kayo nag assume? sa pag assume nyo na apektuhan ba yung tanong inaasume nyong tinutukoy nya d naman db? kaoy lng affected. bat kayo affected? bat nyo pinipilit magpa pulis? e ayaw nya e.d ganun kadali magsalita. yaan nyo sya magsalita. wala aamng sinisiraan ah..unless may iniisip kyong tao..
Mahirap masabi 3:01. Napakaimportante ng reputasyon. Di naman natin sila personal na kilala at mga kapamilya nila pero isipin mo na lang kung ang isang taong kakilala mo, sabihing nanrape, ano kayang pagdududa ang makukuha nun sa mga kakilala nya at kapitbahay nya. Yung pamilya nun, anong kahihiyan kaya kakaharapin nila dahil napapagbintangan ng rape na ayaw naman kasuhan ang kapamilya nila. Tapos kung may asawa at anak pa, ano kaya masasabi ng mga classmates nung anak pag natsismis na rapist ang tatay kahit wala namang kaso at ebidensya. Naisip mo ba yon?
d ko alam anong pinagpuputok ng buchi ng iba dto. sana kung may binanggit syang pangalan e yun ang paninira! e wala namn ha! kinwento lng nya nangyari sa kanya...bawal mag kwento? tinamaan idol nyo? nakasisiguro ba ktyong idol nyo tinutukoy?
Hmmm, she is just making excuses. She should have gone to the police, have a doctor examined her to testify for her and collect evidence for her case, hired a lawyer to represent her and have him charged of the crime. The fact is that she has nothing now because she didn’t do the right thing when it happened.
Yan din tingin ko. Medyo mapanuri na ko sa mga babaeng puro excuses kasi ganyan nangyari sa pinsan kong doktor. Pinagbintangan sya ng rape nung isang nurse sa ospital nila. Talagang todo tanggi pinsan ko na may nagyari sa kanila at rape pa kaya. After nung imbestigasyon, buntis pala si girl at iniwan ng lalaking nakabuntis at pinsan ko yung napiling pikutin. Pero damage na damage talaga pangalan nya, pati trabaho nya, tapos nastroke pa yung uncle ko sa sobrang galit.
Saan dyan ang hindi victim blaming? Eh dinodown play mo na as excuse kesyo hindi niya nagawa ito at ayan.
Hindi kasalanan ng victim kung hindi niya nagawa ang sa tingin mong dapat mong gawin pag na-rape. Iba-iba ang pahhandle ng tao sa mga ganitong sitwasyon.
Sa mga nagsasabi sa taas na she should just keep silent, there might me a rape victim here reading what ur saying. It’s already hard to muster courage to admit being a victim of a sexual offence. What more asking for justice, when the perpetrator is someone popular or powerful. And you guys are not helping with that kind of skepticism and victim blaming mentality you have that is so pervalent in an ignorant society
If you actually read what was being said, hindi naman sinasabing manahimik na lang ang mga rape victims. Sinasabi pa nga na dapat kinasuhan nya pero dahil pinili nya na hindi magfile ng kaso dahil sa tingin nya ay madidismis lang dahil sa backer at madidiscredit daw sya, tama lang na sabihan sya ng silence dahil sa mga inosenteng hindi naman rapist nya na nadadamay ang mga pangalan dahil sa mga parinig nya. The silence is not about the rape but about the speculations on who raped her. Gets mo?
not victim blaming. we want her to get justice. but what she's doing is leaving doubts on people's mind about her narrative, and about her intentions. pwede kasing she's just making it up for some reason. there is only one way to find out - sa korte! not in soc med. wala syang mapapalang hustisya sa twitter.
Since nag open na siya ituloy na niya sa pag expose. First step is always the hardest and sa panahon ngayon kapag pinangalan mo maniniwala kami sayo. Huwag mo lang pahabain na kapag nag lose ng interest ang publiko dun ka na lang magpapangalan.
Pangalanan mo hindi yung kung sino sino ang mga nadadamay gawa ng panghuhula ng mga tao dahil sa pa clue clue mo. Kuda ng kuda ayaw naman pangalanan ang rapist nya kuno. Lahat ng rapists should be jailed. Bring this to court at duun mo isalaysay ang lahat ng kuda mo. You deserve justice kung totoong na raped ka. Kawawa yung mga taong nadadamay they don't deserve it.
The rapists of maggie de la riva were from wealthy and powerful families but they were convicted..to ms alano, dapat ngayon na oangalanan mo na at mag file ka ng case para iredeem mo ang self mo sa mga taong nag dadoubt sa yo! It’s wrong to just use socmed w/ incriminating hashtag na may destroy the reputation of a person wrongly suspected by many people! I’m just a regular reader of fp and this is my own opinion..
Stop using exceptions to boost your argument though. What is the USUAL thing that occurs in these cases, in this country? Eh sa victim shaminga nd blaming palang nga numero uno na tayo eh.
2:15 why be bothered by victim shaming or blaming..take the high road..be brave to file a case win or lose you got what it takes to fight and rally your case..duwag ka lang!
And to think mas worse pa nga ang nangyari kay Miss Maggie dela Riva. Gang rape. She was raped by more than one person and not just one night. Wala pa social media noon, but Maggie triumphantly put her rapists behind bars and chair. I hope Ms Alano can learn a thing or two to the success story of Ms dela Riva.
She may be raped but the problem with her is that she always brings it up in social media but never filed a case to the proper forum or never revealed the name of the alleged rapist. Mas madaming nadadamay na tao kasi maraming nanghuhula. Kawawa din naman yung mga napapangalanan tapos di naman pala sila yun.
Mhirap bcoz she was drugged..if you will be in the witness stand, how can you narrate what exactly happened eh lango ka nga.. and then syempre anjan yun dpat “against your will”.. pano nya ssabihin na against her will kung drugged cya? Jan sya mhihirapan...matalino si rapist..
You speaking up can save someone else's life. Had the public known who your perpetrator was, many could have been alarmed to keep their distance from that monster
If she has no plans of filing a case or exposing the rapist, she could’ve shared her experience ng walang paclue, pahashtag or pa-blind item para di macurious netizens
Yung iba akala mo concern, in reality gusto lang nila malaman for the sake of chismis, not because you support her. ITS HER CHOICE not to speak up. NO ONE can know/feel what she's been through so stop acting like you know what's best for her. TIME!
Eh di sana tumahimik na lang siya kung ayaw niya pagpiyestahan siya. Hindi naman siya pinilit na mag open sa social media at mag bigay ng blind item. Kung ayaw niya dalhin sa korte ang kaso niya, kontrolohin na lang niya ang mga tsismosa sa mundo. Ganern.
Mygahd. These people, ugh. Hndi b nila initindi or sadyang ayaw nilang intindihin. Bahala kayo dyan.
ReplyDeletePwedeng sa side nung rapist o baka nga yung rapist yan tinatakot siya binabash para panghinaan ng loob. Sinasabihan ng ganyan para manahimik na lang.
DeleteI don't think na mga PR team yung mga nagcomment sa kanya. Mga individual netizens lang yun like here sa comment section na dismayed sa ginagawa niya.
DeleteTrue 9:17. Those are just netizens.
DeleteSo #rhymeswithwrong has a powerful uncle? Then mali pala yung hula ko kung sino si rhymes with wrong, wala namang powerful uncle at backer yun.
ReplyDeleteyun nga kasi yung hirap dito sa Kat na ito,since wala naman siyang pinapangalanan kung sino, everything is just chismis. Nagmumukha ng KSP itong babaeng ito.
DeleteEto perfect example kung bakit mali na paclue clue lang at parinig instead of pangalanan or kasuhan kasi mga kung sino sino na lang nadadamay at napapagbintangan ng mga tao.
Deletedude the fact na hindi nya tinangi yung na i issue ngayon na lalaki na tinutukoy nya yun na yon! super trending na yung lalaki kung hindi yun ang lalaki im sure mag sasalita si kat na mali yung hinala ng mga tao pero hindi eh so yun na yon
DeleteIf you stand by your truth then file a case. I support rape victims but I don’t want to encourage false accusations and social media indictments.
ReplyDeleteThis exactly. Im starting to have doubts because of this medyo bs na statement na she didnt file because she knew it would be dismissed and they will silence and discredit me. So what? If you have the truth on your side and you truly want justice, those unsure and petty reasons will not stop you.
DeleteBeh, 12:25 wla syang concrete evidence since pinatake sya ng drugs without her knowledge and was rape. Plus, the guy has a powerful backup. So filing a case against him would be impossible since sobrang dali baliktarin ni guy ang kaso at ipapamukha pang si kat ang may kasalanan. Gets??!!
Deletewala naman syang inaaccuse ha? parang FP lng yan e blind items with clues..it's up to us to believe or not. basta ako I believe her. do you have someone in mind? pa share naman!
DeleteBaka kasi kulang sa evidence. Mahirap kung walang proof. Hindi na ata nya naisip mgpamedico-legal dahil sa sobrang trauma.
DeleteMy heart goes to Kat. Stay strong girl
@12:48 Rape is a serious accusation and not a blind item material, some people might think the wrong person and it can ruin their lives. Do you ever think about that? Maraming buhay ang nasisira ng maling akala and this is why what she's doing is wrong
Delete12:46 Eto lang yan, its either ipaglaban nya o hinde. If she was drugged, all the more na may ebidensya sya kasi makikita yun sa blood test. The guy has a powerful backup? Eh ano ngayon? celebrity sya, kung talagang narape sya maraming powerful din na susuporta sa kanya. Babaligtarin ni guy? Matalino si Kat, she knows how to go to the police, to the doctor, lawyers and ask her celebrity friends for help. May mga cctv, cellphone records, kung may nakakita ba...kayang imbestigahan kung anong nagyari nung araw na yun pero ask yourself, bakit walang ebidensya? May rason kung bakit importante ang guilty beyond reasonable doubt kasi maraming instances talaga ng false rape accusation to get even with a guy. You can look up the statistics. Masosorpresa ka.
Delete12:57 Yun naman pala eh di sana wag na syang magparinig at kung sino sinong inosenteng tao madadamay nya sa ginagawa nya, kawawa din sila dahil nasisira ang reputasyon sa isip ng tao. Ako, dalawang rhymes with wrong agad naisip ko. Yung ibang tao pa kaya? Either file a case or keep your silence.
Delete1:14 anong maraming buhay nasisira e as far I know, lahat ng iniisip kong suspect, sarap buhay pa ren ngayon.... we found out about her rape, what, more than 5 yrs ago? may nasira bang buhay sa mga iniisip mo? isipin mo yung taong tinutukoy mo, nasira ba buhay nun sa clue na bigay nya? kasi walang nasirang buhay kundi ke kat...ngayon kung papangalanan nya yung tao, dun pa lang masisira buhay nung iniisp mo...
Delete@1:14 nope hindi naruin ang life ni rapist. Still enjoying fame and admiration ng mga tao. In real life, do u think having the truth on your side is enough to get you justice? In this country? Educate yourself about rape and how hard it is to actually prove in court so that you know how easy it is for perpetrators to go unpunished! Para na din u understand why it is so common for victims to not speak out about their abuse and why this is a crime that scars them for life! Baka magkaroon ka din ng empathy to victims. At least even if Kat doesnt get justice in the court of law, she can help spread awareness to this otherwise taboo issue and probably encourage other victims to stand up and speak out! Dami na accusers ni guy, do u wonder why?
Delete1:53 Ngek sa comprehension kaloka ka. Kasi nga di nya pinangalanan at sinampahan ng kaso, natural pasarap pa rin yun. Yung mga nasisira ang reputasyon, yung mga inosenteng napapagbintangan ng mga tao dahil nanghuhula lang sa clue na binibigay ni kat alano
DeleteBeh 12:46 She’s conveying the wrong message to the victims. Justice doesn’t get served if you don’t file in court.
Delete12:25 ganyan pag sa ideal world pero san nga tayo nakatira? Imbes magkaso kaso bakit di na lang suportahan yung victim?
Delete1:54 That's the thing, u call him rapist already without proof and u don't even know if u guessed right. Gusto ko rin ng justice for Kat. Pero walang mangyayari pag pahaging lang. Masisira lang ang reputation ng ina accuse niya vaguely. Tulad mo, may iba ka nang iniisip sa taong yun kahit hindi pa natin alam ang absolute truth or at least parts of it.
DeleteI went through it, too. Same thing with Kat, I was in denial for many months (maybe even a few years). I thought about what my family, especially my parents, would go through if I file case. The scandal and the thought that I would cause embarrassment to my family. People would say I put myself in the situation when I allowed that person to enter my room during an out of town trip, nevermind that he was a close and trusted friend for many years. It would break my parents heart.. so many considerations run through my head. At the end of the day, I decided that I can handle it but my loved ones and family might not. This is why I understand why Kat did file.
Delete6:35 WOW proud ka sa ganyang mindse that you had to say it publicly? A crime was committed and you want to let the rapist walk away? Kaya walang justice sa Pinas kse ganyan ang mentality ng mga taong katulad mo. I fully support rape victims but you cannot accuse people and not file- gets?
Delete6:53 yep I read everything thats been said so far by BOTH camps about this issue. Take note there are MULTIPLE accusers already and some have even filed cases in court. Sadly, the justice system in our country is broken! Or di mo din alam ang reality na yan? So yeah, I’ll give the benefit of the doubt kay Kat against the rapist na celebrity
DeleteMay fishy dun sa reasoning nya na not filing a case dahil lang she found out that "it would be dismissed".
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, how would you know kung totoong madidismiss if you didnt even try to file?
Second, if may merit yung case na ififile nya (medical at other evidence), kahit sino pa backer nung rapist, she can get an equally powerful lawyer na hahawak sa kaso nya kasi celebrity sya. Lawyers wants prestige and fame to their name.
Pangatlo, kahit pa madissmiss, at least the public would think and doubt the rapists character diba?
And lastly, what case can they file against her ??? If dahil sa kasong isasampa nya, eh di obvious na yun sa mga tao. Why is she so afraid of being discredited?
Im not judging whether she was raped or not because I dont know BUT her course of action is questionable at best. "hindi sya nagfile dahil 'alam' nya na madidismiss?" hmmm
Mabigat na kaso kasi ang rape. So the evidence she should present must merit beyond reasonable doubt. Remember, she was drugged and raped. I can just imagine lambot na lambot at hilong hilo sya habang ginagawa sa kanya yun. It's very difficult para sa aming mga babae na mag.confide agad ng ganyang kabigat na pangyayari and besides traumatized pa sya ng husto. She's been exposing this for years. I dont think para lang magpapansin but because totoong nangyari yun sa kanya. Ikagaganda o ikasisikat ba nya kung aminin nyang rape victim sya. Napakasakit nun sa pagkatao kaya till now di nya malimutan di ba?
DeleteBakit hindi mapangalanan? Ang daling tumanggi at magsampa pa ng libel. Ayan nga may kulong pala pag nag guilty verdict. Basta ako naaawa ako sa kanya bilang babae at tao.
@1:18 Then she should keep her silence. Is she hellbent on damaging innocent men's reputation because of what happened to her? And dont forget, she NEVER said she didn't file because she has no evidence. THAT is your own deduction. She said she never filed because it will be dismissed due to the uncle and she's afraif to be discredited and silenced.
Delete12:36 Ang dali mag-analyze at mag-isip ng gagawin diba? Hindi kasi ikaw nasa lugar n'ya.
DeleteBut I also ask the same thing about this issue. Bakit hindi ka mag file ng case. These are all rumors and hearsay, kung totoo kang ni rape, take him to court. Hindi kailangan ng PR team or ng basher to come up with this conclusion.
ReplyDeletekung alam nyo lang gano kahirap ang rape cases sa court sa part ng victim lalo na sa presentation ng ebidensya
Deletemahirap dahil wala siyang ebidensiya at mas lalong mahirap ngayon dahil damn if do, damn if you don't ang status ni kat tungkol dito.
DeleteIpa tulfo mo baka dun manalo ka
ReplyDeletePag hindi mo makuha ang hustisya dahil may powerful person na pumipigil, pangalanan mo na. Artista siya karma na niya yung masisira siya sa ginawa niya. Parang nakuha mo na ang hustisya at sa ibang babae ginawan niya ng masama. Malakas ang cancelledt culture ngayon, take advanatage of it.
ReplyDeleteI think hindi kayang panindigan ni kat yong akusasyon niya kaya hindi niya pinapangalanan.
DeleteIf she was raped like she said, it is good that she joins discussion about rape.It is okay if she is not comfortable to file a case since hindi talaga madali for rape victims to relive memories of rape and to stand through the process. Pero wag na sana sya mag pa clue clue pa since yung mga tao kung sinusino pinagiisipan. How many years na yan palagi syang may pa clue, so parang hindi din naman sya umiiwas sa trauma of reliving the rape dahil sya din naman open ng open pero ung pagopen nya is juat enougj to gain attention.
DeletePowerful uncle? Eh poordoy yung hula ng iba dito from the beginning. So sino kaya yung rapist niya? Ang hirap niyan di niya pinapangalanan tapos magpopost siya ng mga clues at kung sinu-sino ituturo ng mga tao. Mapagbibintangan pa yung mga wala naman kinalaman.
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DeleteSo I was wrong in assuming kung Sino si rhyme with wrong. Wala naman siyang powerful uncle and I think he does not do drugs.
ReplyDeleteAko may dalawang naisip. Yung mas bata, walang powerful uncle o backer. Yung mas matanda, medyo powerful pamilya. Pero eto yung mali dito kasi ayan, pinagdududahan inosenteng tao.
Deletesusmiyo garapon, ilang taon na tayo nagdududa e, apekted ba pinagudududahan? wala namang nabagoo sa buhay nila a. going strong mga career. walang epek ang duda sa masasamang tao..yung iba nga nakasuhan at nakulong na nananalo pa sa gobyerno pagkalaya e.
DeleteHow do we know wala access sa drugs si #rhymeswithwrong? Hindi magsasalita yung babae na yan kung hindi totoo. I find her very credible.
DeleteMas mabilis kasi ang trial by publicity. Ang tagal na panahon mong kinimkim yan bakit hindi mo pa pangalanan kung talagang totoo lahat ng sinasabi mo. Para magsalita na din kung sinuman yang lalaking yan. I’m sure he was just laughing at you now kasi you let him get away with it at hanggang ngayon ikaw nagdududa imbes na sana siya.
ReplyDeleteSana totoo ang hula ng madla kasi kawawa kung hindi pala yun. Hinay hinay mga te na nag bibintang lalo na at hindi pa niya sinasabi kung sino talaga yun.
ReplyDeletebat ba ang hirap magsalita sa pinas? sinabi nyang rape victim sya..may sinabi ba syang tao?? may binanggit bang name?? o kayo nag assume? sa pag assume nyo na apektuhan ba yung tanong inaasume nyong tinutukoy nya d naman db? kaoy lng affected.
ReplyDeletebat kayo affected? bat nyo pinipilit magpa pulis? e ayaw nya e.d ganun kadali magsalita. yaan nyo sya magsalita. wala aamng sinisiraan ah..unless may iniisip kyong tao..
I was raped by #rhymeswithwrong so yes may binaggit syang tao
DeleteDiba nga sabi nya rhymes with wrong daw. Hindi mo naman mapipigilang mag assume mga tao dahil nagbigay si kat alano ng clue na parang nagpapahula sya.
Deletebat sino naisip nyo mga baks? sira na ba buhay ng mga iniisip nyo?
DeleteMahirap masabi 3:01. Napakaimportante ng reputasyon. Di naman natin sila personal na kilala at mga kapamilya nila pero isipin mo na lang kung ang isang taong kakilala mo, sabihing nanrape, ano kayang pagdududa ang makukuha nun sa mga kakilala nya at kapitbahay nya. Yung pamilya nun, anong kahihiyan kaya kakaharapin nila dahil napapagbintangan ng rape na ayaw naman kasuhan ang kapamilya nila. Tapos kung may asawa at anak pa, ano kaya masasabi ng mga classmates nung anak pag natsismis na rapist ang tatay kahit wala namang kaso at ebidensya. Naisip mo ba yon?
Deleted ko alam anong pinagpuputok ng buchi ng iba dto. sana kung may binanggit syang pangalan e yun ang paninira! e wala namn ha! kinwento lng nya nangyari sa kanya...bawal mag kwento? tinamaan idol nyo? nakasisiguro ba ktyong idol nyo tinutukoy?
ReplyDeleteHmmm, she is just making excuses. She should have gone to the police, have a doctor examined her to testify for her and collect evidence for her case, hired a lawyer to represent her and have him charged of the crime. The fact is that she has nothing now because she didn’t do the right thing when it happened.
ReplyDeleteYan din tingin ko. Medyo mapanuri na ko sa mga babaeng puro excuses kasi ganyan nangyari sa pinsan kong doktor. Pinagbintangan sya ng rape nung isang nurse sa ospital nila. Talagang todo tanggi pinsan ko na may nagyari sa kanila at rape pa kaya. After nung imbestigasyon, buntis pala si girl at iniwan ng lalaking nakabuntis at pinsan ko yung napiling pikutin. Pero damage na damage talaga pangalan nya, pati trabaho nya, tapos nastroke pa yung uncle ko sa sobrang galit.
DeleteEasy for you to say kasi hindi ikaw yung na-rape 🙂
DeleteHope you are at peace with your level 999 amount of victim blaming 2:09
Delete2:12, it’s not victim blaming. It’s stating the facts. Know the difference. Learn something.
DeleteSaan dyan ang hindi victim blaming? Eh dinodown play mo na as excuse kesyo hindi niya nagawa ito at ayan.
DeleteHindi kasalanan ng victim kung hindi niya nagawa ang sa tingin mong dapat mong gawin pag na-rape. Iba-iba ang pahhandle ng tao sa mga ganitong sitwasyon.
Sa mga nagsasabi sa taas na she should just keep silent, there might me a rape victim here reading what ur saying. It’s already hard to muster courage to admit being a victim of a sexual offence. What more asking for justice, when the perpetrator is someone popular or powerful. And you guys are not helping with that kind of skepticism and victim blaming mentality you have that is so pervalent in an ignorant society
ReplyDeleteIf you actually read what was being said, hindi naman sinasabing manahimik na lang ang mga rape victims. Sinasabi pa nga na dapat kinasuhan nya pero dahil pinili nya na hindi magfile ng kaso dahil sa tingin nya ay madidismis lang dahil sa backer at madidiscredit daw sya, tama lang na sabihan sya ng silence dahil sa mga inosenteng hindi naman rapist nya na nadadamay ang mga pangalan dahil sa mga parinig nya. The silence is not about the rape but about the speculations on who raped her. Gets mo?
Deletenot victim blaming. we want her to get justice. but what she's doing is leaving doubts on people's mind about her narrative, and about her intentions. pwede kasing she's just making it up for some reason. there is only one way to find out - sa korte! not in soc med. wala syang mapapalang hustisya sa twitter.
DeleteSince nag open na siya ituloy na niya sa pag expose. First step is always the hardest and sa panahon ngayon kapag pinangalan mo maniniwala kami sayo. Huwag mo lang pahabain na kapag nag lose ng interest ang publiko dun ka na lang magpapangalan.
ReplyDeleteDaming victim blaming dito 🤦♀️
ReplyDeletePangalanan mo hindi yung kung sino sino ang mga nadadamay gawa ng panghuhula ng mga tao dahil sa pa clue clue mo. Kuda ng kuda ayaw naman pangalanan ang rapist nya kuno. Lahat ng rapists should be jailed. Bring this to court at duun mo isalaysay ang lahat ng kuda mo. You deserve justice kung totoong na raped ka. Kawawa yung mga taong nadadamay they don't deserve it.
ReplyDeleteKay tulfo nalang sya lumapit.
ReplyDeleteKat...theyre bluffing and you should call their bluff. File!
ReplyDeleteThis has been trending on Twitter for a couple of days now. The name & the backer is there.
ReplyDeleteThe rapists of maggie de la riva were from wealthy and powerful families but they were convicted..to ms alano, dapat ngayon na oangalanan mo na at mag file ka ng case para iredeem mo ang self mo sa mga taong nag dadoubt sa yo! It’s wrong to just use socmed w/ incriminating hashtag na may destroy the reputation of a person wrongly suspected by many people! I’m just a regular reader of fp and this is my own opinion..
ReplyDeleteStop using exceptions to boost your argument though. What is the USUAL thing that occurs in these cases, in this country? Eh sa victim shaminga nd blaming palang nga numero uno na tayo eh.
Delete2:15 why be bothered by victim shaming or blaming..take the high road..be brave to file a case win or lose you got what it takes to fight and rally your case..duwag ka lang!
DeleteAnd to think mas worse pa nga ang nangyari kay Miss Maggie dela Riva. Gang rape. She was raped by more than one person and not just one night. Wala pa social media noon, but Maggie triumphantly put her rapists behind bars and chair. I hope Ms Alano can learn a thing or two to the success story of Ms dela Riva.
DeleteAlso an avid reader of FP here.
She may be raped but the problem with her is that she always brings it up in social media but never filed a case to the proper forum or never revealed the name of the alleged rapist. Mas madaming nadadamay na tao kasi maraming nanghuhula. Kawawa din naman yung mga napapangalanan tapos di naman pala sila yun.
ReplyDeleteMhirap bcoz she was drugged..if you will be in the witness stand, how can you narrate what exactly happened eh lango ka nga.. and then syempre anjan yun dpat “against your will”.. pano nya ssabihin na against her will kung drugged cya? Jan sya mhihirapan...matalino si rapist..
ReplyDeleteYou speaking up can save someone else's life.
ReplyDeleteHad the public known who your perpetrator was, many could have been alarmed to keep their distance from that monster
I hope she will get the justice.
ReplyDeleteIf she has no plans of filing a case or exposing the rapist, she could’ve shared her experience ng walang paclue, pahashtag or pa-blind item para di macurious netizens
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DeleteYung iba akala mo concern, in reality gusto lang nila malaman for the sake of chismis, not because you support her. ITS HER CHOICE not to speak up. NO ONE can know/feel what she's been through so stop acting like you know what's best for her. TIME!
ReplyDeleteEh di sana tumahimik na lang siya kung ayaw niya pagpiyestahan siya. Hindi naman siya pinilit na mag open sa social media at mag bigay ng blind item. Kung ayaw niya dalhin sa korte ang kaso niya, kontrolohin na lang niya ang mga tsismosa sa mundo. Ganern.
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