Ganyan din kami ng asawa ko,we've been married for 2yrs,we wanted to enjoy rach other so no kids muna...hanggang nagsawa na sya sa akin...magkasama kami sa isang bahay, pero walang kibuan for a month already...gusto ko ng humiwalay, pero hindi ko alam kung paano, i felt stucked....But I wish the very best for Sarah & Matteo...sorry, wala lang kasi ako mapagsabihan
I agree. Ang laking bagay ng magusap. I was about to give up last year sa husband ko. So kinausap ko sya, suggesting na mhiwalay muna kami. Pero nagend sya sa mas malalim na usap. We began talking about how we feel. Turned out naging ok na kami. (But not at this moment- nagalit ako sa kanya, ayaw ako pagtimpla ng coffee hehe)
11:25. I think you said the right word, nagsawa. I hate to say it but maybe may iba nang nagpapasaya sa kanya? Sit down and talk. Para maisalba pa whatever is left.
Awww I feel you besh. You guys should talk because communication is key! Just bluntly ask him what is really going on so you know where you stand. Maybe encourage him to go for counseling. Pray everyday for your marriage as well it really helps a lot.
Take a breather. Live apart. Kung nasa is ang bubong lang kayo masmahirap, you will really feel miserable. Otherwise having a talk is better. All the best.
Classmate, try mo lang 2 things ngayong panahon ng quarantine: 1. Have a "date night", tipong fancy candlelight dinner and wine. 2. Mag-usap kayo about what you feel. Makakatulong yung konting alak.
Communication is key, lalo na at bagong kasal pa lang kayo. Adjustment period pa yan.
Aww nalungkot naman ako sa kwento mo baks. :( Nangyayari pa rin talaga na ma fall out of love kayo sa isat isa kahit mag asawa na no. Pero yes tama si 2:54. Siguro you two need to talk to each other first. Goodluck and hope for the best sayo. Sana maayos pa yan
Thank you sa inyong lahat...I talked to him and told him what I feel,pero closed minded sya.Sana nga dumaan lang man kami sa honeymoon stage..pero hindi...alam mo yung simula pa lang,umiiyak ka na once a week but you pretend to everyone na you're okay.Tapos sya na nakikita yun doesnt and didnt care at all..
11:36. You are very much welcome! So what is it does he tell you? As a neglected wife you have all the right to know what is really going on inorder for you to proceed any further in your marriage. If anything you might need to call any member of your family from both sides to help you out para kausapin siya. Or how about any of your principal sponsors at the wedding? That is actually their role to act as mediators incase a couple has problems. I will be praying for you guys para maayos kaagad yan. Be brave & be real kaya mo yan besh!
Hugs sis. Dumadating talaga ang magasawa sa ganyan, sawaan factor, asar, pagsisisi. It will not last forever. Think of the worst case scenario in detail, ano mangyayari kapag naghiwalay kayo. Then think of the best case scenario, if you will work on the marriage. Kahit maghiwalay kau sis walang guarantee na hnsi ka magsasawa sa ssusunod na relationship. Goodluck sis. I hope you find someone you can talk to, mahirap dalhin magisa yan.
Sarah is a practicing christian so I believe they were intimate only after the marriage. It is possible that she will get pregnant right away since probably a family planning method is not i the works yet. Although in my own opinion, I like them to have time for the two of them before kids.
True. Siguro tigilan muna ang kapo post tungkol sa kanila. No matter how much I like Sarah, nauumay na ako. Mag offer na Lang ang magasawa ng prayers para sa panahong ito.
True. Porket may baby na sila ngayon. Dati naman nasa ganyang stage din sila. And take note halos lahat ng friends sila na lang ung napagiwanan. Nico should know how it feels and be sensitive enough na wag na itanong yon kahit super close sila ni Matteo.
Let the couple enjoy their honeymoon stage. In God's own time, their little bundle of joy will come.
ReplyDeleteTruth 10:48. I'll support them and be always be happy on every step that their love will go.
DeleteGanyan din kami ng asawa ko,we've been married for 2yrs,we wanted to enjoy rach other so no kids muna...hanggang nagsawa na sya sa akin...magkasama kami sa isang bahay, pero walang kibuan for a month already...gusto ko ng humiwalay, pero hindi ko alam kung paano, i felt stucked....But I wish the very best for Sarah & Matteo...sorry, wala lang kasi ako mapagsabihan
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you two talk? Sabi nga ng kasama ko, alalahanin ninyo yung panahong in love kayo sa isa't isa.
DeleteOh why? Did you fight or something? Or basta hindi nalang kayo nagkibuan for no reason?
DeleteSo pano kayo ngayon eh quarantine?
DeleteBaks. Unsolicited advice pero baka naman kailangan mo na tumingin sa ibang angle. Mukang di nalang “nagkasawaan” yan.
DeleteI agree. Ang laking bagay ng magusap. I was about to give up last year sa husband ko. So kinausap ko sya, suggesting na mhiwalay muna kami. Pero nagend sya sa mas malalim na usap. We began talking about how we feel. Turned out naging ok na kami. (But not at this moment- nagalit ako sa kanya, ayaw ako pagtimpla ng coffee hehe)
Delete11:25. I think you said the right word, nagsawa. I hate to say it but maybe may iba nang nagpapasaya sa kanya? Sit down and talk. Para maisalba pa whatever is left.
DeleteAwww I feel you besh. You guys should talk because communication is key! Just bluntly ask him what is really going on so you know where you stand. Maybe encourage him to go for counseling. Pray everyday for your marriage as well it really helps a lot.
DeleteTake a breather. Live apart. Kung nasa is ang bubong lang kayo masmahirap, you will really feel miserable. Otherwise having a talk is better. All the best.
DeleteClassmate, try mo lang 2 things ngayong panahon ng quarantine:
Delete1. Have a "date night", tipong fancy candlelight dinner and wine.
2. Mag-usap kayo about what you feel. Makakatulong yung konting alak.
Communication is key, lalo na at bagong kasal pa lang kayo. Adjustment period pa yan.
Aww nalungkot naman ako sa kwento mo baks. :( Nangyayari pa rin talaga na ma fall out of love kayo sa isat isa kahit mag asawa na no. Pero yes tama si 2:54. Siguro you two need to talk to each other first. Goodluck and hope for the best sayo. Sana maayos pa yan
DeleteYou two should talk. Clear things up between you. And pray for guidance on what to do with your marriage.
Delete2:54, baka naman sinubukan na niyang makipag-usap kaya lang ayaw siyang kausapin.
DeleteTotoo ang honeymoon stage sa buhay.
Thank you sa inyong lahat...I talked to him and told him what I feel,pero closed minded sya.Sana nga dumaan lang man kami sa honeymoon stage..pero hindi...alam mo yung simula pa lang,umiiyak ka na once a week but you pretend to everyone na you're okay.Tapos sya na nakikita yun doesnt and didnt care at all..
Delete11:36. You are very much welcome! So what is it does he tell you? As a neglected wife you have all the right to know what is really going on inorder for you to proceed any further in your marriage. If anything you might need to call any member of your family from both sides to help you out para kausapin siya. Or how about any of your principal sponsors at the wedding? That is actually their role to act as mediators incase a couple has problems. I will be praying for you guys para maayos kaagad yan. Be brave & be real kaya mo yan besh!
DeleteHugs sis. Dumadating talaga ang magasawa sa ganyan, sawaan factor, asar, pagsisisi. It will not last forever. Think of the worst case scenario in detail, ano mangyayari kapag naghiwalay kayo. Then think of the best case scenario, if you will work on the marriage. Kahit maghiwalay kau sis walang guarantee na hnsi ka magsasawa sa ssusunod na relationship. Goodluck sis. I hope you find someone you can talk to, mahirap dalhin magisa yan.
DeleteSarah is a practicing christian so I believe they were intimate only after the marriage. It is possible that she will get pregnant right away since probably a family planning method is not i the works yet. Although in my own opinion, I like them to have time for the two of them before kids.
ReplyDeleteBalak yatang palitan si Tito Boy nitong si Nico,masyadong madada.
ReplyDeleteThey’re friends, lokohang magkaibigan lang.
DeleteYou have all the time ashmatt, naka quarantine kayo
ReplyDeletePrivate na tao ni sarah pero mga fwends ng asawa niya katulad ni nico mga mapapel at hilig ipost mnangyayari sa dalawa.
ReplyDeleteAnu bang pinapapel eh wala naman. Hindi magigng masaya ang buhay kung lgi kang kj
DeleteLuh. Tigilan nyo nga si Sarah para lang mapag usapan kayo! Tong mga lalaking toh sila pa lalaki sila pa nagpapa issue
ReplyDeleteTrue. Siguro tigilan muna ang kapo post tungkol sa kanila. No matter how much I like Sarah, nauumay na ako. Mag offer na Lang ang magasawa ng prayers para sa panahong ito.
DeleteKadiri talaga tong nico
ReplyDeleteguys panoorin nyo yung video. matteo asked first an advice about fatherhood
ReplyDeleteKahit pa magkaibigan sila himdi maganda na magtanong
ReplyDeleteRecruited na ba si Matteo sa Bullie Husbands Club?
ReplyDeletemasyadong papansin si Nico, di na nakakatuwa.
ReplyDeleteEpal talaga tong Nico natoh.
ReplyDeleteDati ang sensitive ni solenn at nico sa ganitong tanong. Tas ngayon ginagawa niya sa ibang tao.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Porket may baby na sila ngayon. Dati naman nasa ganyang stage din sila. And take note halos lahat ng friends sila na lang ung napagiwanan. Nico should know how it feels and be sensitive enough na wag na itanong yon kahit super close sila ni Matteo.
DeleteLol. Kasi graduate na sila at may baby na kaya ang lakas mang pressure
DeleteSana they will love each other forever. They fought for each other so they deserved true love.
ReplyDeleteMga tanong na ganito yung pinaka nakakainis. it's nobody's business!
ReplyDelete