Sad but that’s life. Just continue being a good person and accept that shit happens to everyone of us. One day you will have a family of your own. Make your life an example of how a responsible father should be.
Oh no please don’t justify someone’s behavior because of a tragic incident. Everyone even in the past at mga lumang tao maraming pinagdadaanan pero hindi naman nag”rebelde”. Instead, you use that to become a better person. AGAIN, WAG NA IJUSTIFY PA.
My husband's father was (almost) never a part of his life. One day we searched him on fb, we didnt send a message, but instead we tried to add him. What happened next is he declined the add and opted that my husband's account wont be able to add him again. So we concluded he doesnt want my husband to be a part of his life. Obviously he recognized my husband's name on fb since he was still with them until my husband was 2yrs old. He was even able to sign in my husband's birth certificate. Well, i guess that's just how it is for some people kahit anak pa nila yun.
same din sa nangyari sa ex-husband ko. ako ang gumawa ng way para ma-search ang foreigner dad niya thru FB din pero hindi din siya in-accept, nag-message din kami pero ang masakit, dineny niya at minura pa niya ang ex-husband ko. I guess ganon talaga pag may sarili na sila pamilya especially pag foreigner madali lang sa kanila yun tanggapin. Pero nag-suffer ang ex-husband ko now i understand bakit may anger management siya. Masakit talaga na hindi mo manlang nakagisnan ang father mo at lumaki lang sa aruga ng nanay.
This is very sad. He’s been very vocal in looking for him for a long time now, ever since he was in the Voice Kids, I think. Ang taong ayaw magpahanap ay hindi mo makikita. Maybe it’s time to let go. When his father faces his Creator, May mukha kaya siyang ihaharap sa Kanya? God bless you, JK. Stay being a good person and don’t do what he did to you.
The way I understand it is that JK just wanted to connect and be recognized as his son, if really JK is his. Otherwise, both of them can have DNA test and compare the result. Another thing is if JK's mother is still around, perhaps, she knew full well the circumstances surrounding her conception before. But the problem is that sometimes just to own up something can be very hard to some people. Well, it's human nature. But my advice to JK is to be strong and keep on praying that someday his real father will see him. I can relate to this because my late father was in the same situation as that of JK's. The only difference is that JK is a rich man now. As I said don't lose hope. Perhaps, you can compose another song dedicated to your dad, wherever he is. Good luck, JK. Just carry on!
I think important din sa ganito na you emphasize na hindi mo need ng financial support kasi lets admit na karamihan sa nagtatago is because of ayaw nila mag bigay tulong financial or hndi alam ng family nila na may anak sila sa labas. Bigyan mo ng mamahaling regalo, let them know na all you want is recognition and hndi financial help baka lng sumagot mga yan.
Hindi rin. Look what happened kay Luke Mejares. Sinabi ng successful musician sya at hindi sya after anything financial pero hindi pa din sya tinanggap. Naiyak ako nung napanood ko yun.
I'm sorry but hindi lahat ganoon. I think with JK's father's case, tama siya baka may family na and he doesn't want JK to be part of it. Baka hindi naging honest sa current family about his past, thus the pagtatago. With relationships, hindi lahat about money. Just saying.
Bigyan ng mamahaling regalo? NO WAY. Lalabas yan at ipapasustento niya yung buong pamilya niya sa iyo. Yung mga ganyang klaseng tao sa sarap mo lang makikita. Pag turn na nila magreciprocate or pag wala ka nang mabigay pagtataguan ka na. Why would you want someone like that in your life?
Huwag judgemental. His father has his own personal reasons. He may be a worthless dad to JK, but maybe he is a good father to his current children & probably just wanted to protect them.
145 protect from what? From hos other harmless child? Eh di mas hinusgahan mo naman si jk dyan na walang dahilan. Why would the other kids need protection?
Jk don't chase him right now. The perfect time will come - maybe when you are in your 30s or something and he's old. But don't lose hope. He'll come around. Let him come to you. He can contact you anytime since you are all over social media.
Just like Luke Mijares, many foreigners, don't want to be bothered after they left the filipina, they were in relationship, even if it's their child want to connect with them, maybe there are some but most don't.
Why will someone explain to someone he doesnt know..Kapag di ko kilala nagmessage automatic block ko agad..malay ko ba..kung hindi din sinabi ni jk kung sino sya malamang block talaga sya..pero kung sinabi naman nya at yun nga and dad nya alam nya na yung ibig sabihin nun..pero kung hindi nga yun ang oliver na hinahanap nya ibblock talaga sya agad nun
Kapag ang sa isip mo ay hindi ikaw iyon, hindi talaga mage-explain. Dahil ang iniisip noon ay meron siyang stalker na walang magawa dahil marami ang gumagawa noon.
Natakot cguro yong tatay. Sa western country criminal offense ang hindi pagbabayad ng child support. The government has even the right to deduct it directly from your salary.
Sana hindi muna tinanong is this Oliver Stolz. Padala muna link to mga music videos and news articles about JK. Sure ako makikipag usap yan sa whatsap. Kung hindi man Yun yung tatay nya then malalaman naman yun later on kasi open na yun lines of communication. Kung yan man yun pudra nya at least di na naprapraning na humihingi ng financial help si JK. Hello baka mas mucho dinero na si JK sa erpats nya.
Kung minessage at nagtanong sana sinabi na lang nung guy na sorry you got the wrong person. Pero to block jk and not even respond. Wow. He's doesn't want to be contacted.
Prolly he's guilty dahil he knows jk is his son and doesnt want anything to do with him. Stalkers dont ask u your name. They already know who you are lol
I know, right? When the dad is old and sick, and needs someone to take care of him. Kung sa akin mangyari yun, I’d tell him I’m not a caregiver to a stranger.
Give up na dapat kasi kung magkakaayos kayo it will happen at siya ang mag rereach out sayo. Kaya sa mga babae wag din magpapabuntis dahil foreigner. It takes 2 para gumawa ng baby ang may kasalanan nga ang lalaki pero alam ko madami din filipina na nagpapabuntis sa mga puti kahit hindi okay sa magiging ama. Kawawa kasi ang baby pag laki na hindi emotionally available or hindi available at all.
Actually I don’t understand why children unwanted by their foreign parents bother to find them. It’s clear from birth that they would rather not know you anyway, that’s why they never contacted you and never supported you. So why bother.
Pangungulila sa ama? May questions na, what if makilala nya ako? What if maging part sya ng buhay ko? Esp in the case of JK kasi wala na syang nanay. So there are these questions. Better na yung you tried kesa puro what ifs lang.
I wonder kung bakit sa ganetong kaso, madalas ang anak ang naghahanap sa biological parents. Ganun siguro talaga no, a child will always crave the love and approval of a parent. It seems like yung “donors” have really no, not even a single strand of emotional attachment to the offsprings.
Anon 8:36 - that's why hesitant ako gumamit ng egg donor to conceive. I'm sure hahanapin ng bata ang donor nya once nagkaisip na sya and both of us might end up in therapy if & when that happens :-(
I have a friend who was abandoned by her father when she was 3-4 years old. She grew up and was raised by her grandparents on her mom’s side. She is now in her 40’s and learned that her father also lives in California. She didn’t bother to look for him nor reach out to him. He’s a stranger to her and for her, he wasn’t there when she needed a father figure. And she doesn’t need him now. Though she doesn’t wish him ill, she just doesn’t care.
Sad but that’s life. Just continue being a good person and accept that shit happens to everyone of us. One day you will have a family of your own. Make your life an example of how a responsible father should be.
ReplyDeleteTama!!!
DeleteSakit naman nun
ReplyDeleteNakakalungkot ):
ReplyDeleteI-KMJS na yan!
ReplyDeleteBest tracker ng mga nawawala at mga iniwan. Best din magpaasa pagdating sa mga kayamanan. Jahahaahahha!
DeleteActually naalala ko yung life story nya sa MMK noon. Mejo bata pa sya. Nakakalungkot lalo na nung namatay yung mama nya :(
DeleteKaya nung time na medyo rebelde sya naiintindihan ko cos of his background plus he’s still so young. Buti naging malaking impact sakanya si MW.
ReplyDeleteOh no please don’t justify someone’s behavior because of a tragic incident. Everyone even in the past at mga lumang tao maraming pinagdadaanan pero hindi naman nag”rebelde”. Instead, you use that to become a better person. AGAIN, WAG NA IJUSTIFY PA.
Delete12:21 OA mo naman
Delete1221 kitid utak
DeleteSobra ka naman, 12:21. Syempre may impact ang childhood nya at ang absence ng father nya sa life nya. Ang masama yung rebelde lang dahil nabarkada.
DeleteMy husband's father was (almost) never a part of his life. One day we searched him on fb, we didnt send a message, but instead we tried to add him. What happened next is he declined the add and opted that my husband's account wont be able to add him again. So we concluded he doesnt want my husband to be a part of his life. Obviously he recognized my husband's name on fb since he was still with them until my husband was 2yrs old. He was even able to sign in my husband's birth certificate. Well, i guess that's just how it is for some people kahit anak pa nila yun.
ReplyDeleteIs he also a foreigner? What nationality?
Deletesame din sa nangyari sa ex-husband ko. ako ang gumawa ng way para ma-search ang foreigner dad niya thru FB din pero hindi din siya in-accept, nag-message din kami pero ang masakit, dineny niya at minura pa niya ang ex-husband ko. I guess ganon talaga pag may sarili na sila pamilya especially pag foreigner madali lang sa kanila yun tanggapin. Pero nag-suffer ang ex-husband ko now i understand bakit may anger management siya. Masakit talaga na hindi mo manlang nakagisnan ang father mo at lumaki lang sa aruga ng nanay.
DeleteGerman din? Nationality?
Delete10:37 ex? Why it did not work out? Till death do us part?
DeleteAnger mgt issue
DeleteBless Juan Karlo.
ReplyDeleteThis is very sad. He’s been very vocal in looking for him for a long time now, ever since he was in the Voice Kids, I think. Ang taong ayaw magpahanap ay hindi mo makikita. Maybe it’s time to let go. When his father faces his Creator, May mukha kaya siyang ihaharap sa Kanya? God bless you, JK. Stay being a good person and don’t do what he did to you.
ReplyDeleteThe way I understand it is that JK just wanted to connect and be recognized as his son, if really JK is his. Otherwise, both of them can have DNA test and compare the result. Another thing is if JK's mother is still around, perhaps, she knew full well the circumstances surrounding her conception before. But the problem is that sometimes just to own up something can be very hard to some people. Well, it's human nature. But my advice to JK is to be strong and keep on praying that someday his real father will see him. I can relate to this because my late father was in the same situation as that of JK's. The only difference is that JK is a rich man now. As I said don't lose hope. Perhaps, you can compose another song dedicated to your dad, wherever he is. Good luck, JK. Just carry on!
DeleteI think important din sa ganito na you emphasize na hindi mo need ng financial support kasi lets admit na karamihan sa nagtatago is because of ayaw nila mag bigay tulong financial or hndi alam ng family nila na may anak sila sa labas.
ReplyDeleteBigyan mo ng mamahaling regalo, let them know na all you want is recognition and hndi financial help baka lng sumagot mga yan.
I agree! Let them know that there's no strings attached. You just want to get to know them as a person. That's it.
DeleteHindi rin. Look what happened kay Luke Mejares. Sinabi ng successful musician sya at hindi sya after anything financial pero hindi pa din sya tinanggap. Naiyak ako nung napanood ko yun.
DeleteI'm sorry but hindi lahat ganoon. I think with JK's father's case, tama siya baka may family na and he doesn't want JK to be part of it. Baka hindi naging honest sa current family about his past, thus the pagtatago. With relationships, hindi lahat about money. Just saying.
DeleteBigyan ng mamahaling regalo? NO WAY. Lalabas yan at ipapasustento niya yung buong pamilya niya sa iyo. Yung mga ganyang klaseng tao sa sarap mo lang makikita. Pag turn na nila magreciprocate or pag wala ka nang mabigay pagtataguan ka na. Why would you want someone like that in your life?
DeleteUhm, those fathers dont deserve any gift. Why give them a mamahaling regalo?
DeleteDapat pinadalhan ng Single ng Puting Ilaw na translated in German.
DeleteMga walang kwentang amang tulad niyan ay dapat talaga kalimutan na. Walang kwentang tao. Makarma sana ang mga ganyang klase ng tao.
ReplyDeleteHuwag judgemental. His father has his own personal reasons. He may be a worthless dad to JK, but maybe he is a good father to his current children & probably just wanted to protect them.
Delete145 protect from what? From hos other harmless child? Eh di mas hinusgahan mo naman si jk dyan na walang dahilan. Why would the other kids need protection?
DeleteJk don't chase him right now. The perfect time will come - maybe when you are in your 30s or something and he's old. But don't lose hope. He'll come around. Let him come to you. He can contact you anytime since you are all over social media.
ReplyDeleteWhen he is old and no one cares for him, will you be willing to be a good son and take responsibility even if he abandoned his to you?
DeleteJust like Luke Mijares, many foreigners, don't want to be bothered after they left the filipina, they were in relationship, even if it's their child want to connect with them, maybe there are some but most don't.
DeleteBabalik rin yan pag tanda nila kasi alam nila ang pilipinong anak ay huwaran. nakaka gigil pero totoo.
Deleteakala ko ba walang social media pano na blocked
ReplyDelete1:43 am sa Whatsapp sya nag message. It’s a messaging app similar to Viber but more widely used in other countries.
Delete-cbabe
Block yun number nya sa WhatsApp
DeleteSa whatsapp, girl.
DeleteOmg reading comprehension 😑
DeleteBasa ulet. Whatapp binlock..
Deletemagbasa ka nga
DeleteYup. Whatsapp is also social media. 1:43 Intindihin mo na lang si JK ngarag at depress yung tao.
Deletebaka naman hindi talaga yun yung oliver na tatay nya
ReplyDeleteEh di sana nagexplain kay JK at hindi basta blinock
DeleteWhy will someone explain to someone he doesnt know..Kapag di ko kilala nagmessage automatic block ko agad..malay ko ba..kung hindi din sinabi ni jk kung sino sya malamang block talaga sya..pero kung sinabi naman nya at yun nga and dad nya alam nya na yung ibig sabihin nun..pero kung hindi nga yun ang oliver na hinahanap nya ibblock talaga sya agad nun
DeleteKapag ang sa isip mo ay hindi ikaw iyon, hindi talaga mage-explain. Dahil ang iniisip noon ay meron siyang stalker na walang magawa dahil marami ang gumagawa noon.
DeleteNatakot cguro yong tatay. Sa western country criminal offense ang hindi pagbabayad ng child support. The government has even the right to deduct it directly from your salary.
DeleteSana hindi muna tinanong is this Oliver Stolz. Padala muna link to mga music videos and news articles about JK. Sure ako makikipag usap yan sa whatsap. Kung hindi man Yun yung tatay nya then malalaman naman yun later on kasi open na yun lines of communication. Kung yan man yun pudra nya at least di na naprapraning na humihingi ng financial help si JK. Hello baka mas mucho dinero na si JK sa erpats nya.
ReplyDeleteI feel you jk
ReplyDeleteKung minessage at nagtanong sana sinabi na lang nung guy na sorry you got the wrong person. Pero to block jk and not even respond. Wow. He's doesn't want to be contacted.
ReplyDeleteBecause in his mind, JK was just a stalker just like anybody else.
DeleteProlly he's guilty dahil he knows jk is his son and doesnt want anything to do with him. Stalkers dont ask u your name. They already know who you are lol
DeleteSad lang kung magparamdam sakanya someday for other reason
ReplyDeleteI know, right? When the dad is old and sick, and needs someone to take care of him. Kung sa akin mangyari yun, I’d tell him I’m not a caregiver to a stranger.
Delete246 madaming Altenheim na Germany. Lol, ok lang makipagcommunicate but put him where he belongs Jk. Lol
DeleteSabi nga nila.. mahirap hanapin ang ayaw magpakita
ReplyDeleteBaka dumating rin ang tamang panahon para sa kanila. Look at Julia Montes and her dad. Praying for them both.
DeleteIba ang case ni julia.hinanap sya ng dad ngchange address lang sina julia.tsaka nabasa pa nya letter ng dad na kinakamusta sya.
DeleteGive up na dapat kasi kung magkakaayos kayo it will happen at siya ang mag rereach out sayo. Kaya sa mga babae wag din magpapabuntis dahil foreigner. It takes 2 para gumawa ng baby ang may kasalanan nga ang lalaki pero alam ko madami din filipina na nagpapabuntis sa mga puti kahit hindi okay sa magiging ama. Kawawa kasi ang baby pag laki na hindi emotionally available or hindi available at all.
ReplyDeleteGrabe may mga tao talagang ganito. Tagal nya din hinanap tatay nya ha at ganito lang nangyari. Baka mahirap lang yan ama mo JK kaya ganyan. Lol
ReplyDeletescientist po yung tatay nya
DeleteMalalim ang hugot nitong JK na ito kaya naririnig sa mga kanta.Emotional singer.Very good ka dyan.
ReplyDeleteKamukha nya nga sa picture. Pero mabuti na rin na itigil niya na ang paghahanap. Wag nang pag-aksayahan ng oras ang mga taong ayaw naman sa atin.
ReplyDeletemay lahing German pala si JK
ReplyDeleteOmg, they look the same. Well, he doesn’t want you so that’s it na.
ReplyDeleteActually I don’t understand why children unwanted by their foreign parents bother to find them. It’s clear from birth that they would rather not know you anyway, that’s why they never contacted you and never supported you. So why bother.
ReplyDeleteSame thoughts. Kung ako siguro yan di ko hahanapin. Kung ayaw nya sa kin eh di ayaw ko din sa kanya.
DeleteYun kasi ang palaging tema ng mga teleserye eh na dapat ang happy ending eh yung mag reunite ang nawalay na magkapamilya.
DeleteVery true. Often these men already have their own families to take care of. And never really intended to have children with their local “girlfriends”.
DeleteI agree, aside from their DNA, they are total strangers basically.
DeletePangungulila sa ama? May questions na, what if makilala nya ako? What if maging part sya ng buhay ko? Esp in the case of JK kasi wala na syang nanay. So there are these questions. Better na yung you tried kesa puro what ifs lang.
DeleteHmmm, forget about it. That’s the ticket.
ReplyDeleteWow. Ganito ginawa sakin ng tatay ko but except sa pagblock sakin sa WhatsApp, sa Yahoo naman.
ReplyDeleteI wonder kung bakit sa ganetong kaso, madalas ang anak ang naghahanap sa biological parents. Ganun siguro talaga no, a child will always crave the love and approval of a parent. It seems like yung “donors” have really no, not even a single strand of emotional attachment to the offsprings.
ReplyDeleteAnon 8:36 - that's why hesitant ako gumamit ng egg donor to conceive. I'm sure hahanapin ng bata ang donor nya once nagkaisip na sya and both of us might end up in therapy if & when that happens :-(
DeleteOh i remember winfrey goldberg movie. White anak nya kc caucasian sperm donor and hinanap talaga ng bata ama nya.
DeleteNot to look down on women abandoned by foreigners but maybe the manner how they met is also a factor?
ReplyDeleteWait halfie sya??
ReplyDeleteYes half german
Deletesame sila ni maureen
DeletePraying na balang araw, makikilala rin sya ni JK and hopefully magkaron sila ng magandang relationship.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who was abandoned by her father when she was 3-4 years old. She grew up and was raised by her grandparents on her mom’s side. She is now in her 40’s and learned that her father also lives in California. She didn’t bother to look for him nor reach out to him. He’s a stranger to her and for her, he wasn’t there when she needed a father figure. And she doesn’t need him now. Though she doesn’t wish him ill, she just doesn’t care.
ReplyDeleteFor such a young andami na nyang misfortune, rejections and failures. This kid needs more love and understanding. I feel hurt for him.
ReplyDeleteOn d other hand swerte sa lovelife and talent.
DeleteHe is very talented and smart. He will get through this.. plus may maganda at mabait na supermodel gf. So for ne keber kung ayaw ng tatay
DeleteSo sad for him :-( Sana marealize ng tatay nya yung mali nya. Or baka kapangalan lang, medyo common yung name.
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