Hindi lang naman French. Sa pilipinas lang naman nababasa ang sahig dahil magkasama ang toilet sa shower area. Mostly, magkahiwalay ang tub/shower sa toilet. May vanity pa. Hindi naman kelangan ng housekeeper Kung hindi ka burara.
Cr po namin sa bahay di pwd basain ang floor..sobra linis po nasa pagpapalaki lang kc yan at cmpre sa klase ng cr na meron kayo..hiwalay kc dapat ang shower room para di nababasa ang toilet
True! Ako din I lost a lot of weight a month after pregnancy. I am even lighter than my pre-pregnancy weight pero I never posted something like this on socmed. Ang conceited niya.
It's her prerogative to lose the baby weight and get back to looking like she did before (also because it's her job). She's not even commenting on other's preferences to enjoy their post-baby weight gain and be more relaxed about it, but somehow these comments make it seem like you're trying to lose but is unsuccessful and are projecting your unhappiness to someone else. Lemme tell you: you can do it, moms should support each other, take it easy on yourself because life is a journey. I lost my baby weight two years after giving birth. Do I resent Solenn or dismiss her as being vain because she did it only a few months after? No. Good for her. And good for me pa din kahit papaano I also did it kahit it took longer. And also good for anyone who do not feel like losing weight because why not? That's fine too.
Buti pa siya. Ako, I feel down. Nag gain na ako ng weight tapos wala pang work sa ngayon kasi kailangan mag-alaga. Mag work man ako ng part-time, ako pa rin ang puyat at mag-aalaga, ang pinupuna ng mga tao pag pumayat si baby, ang nakukwestyon pag nagpapahinga o kaya tinitignan lang ang phone. Kapag umiiyak ako sa pagod at antok, nasasabihan pa ako ng husband ko na bakit kailangan umiyak drama daw.
Sorry, walang makausap. Kahit sa chat wala na mga friends ko. Ayaw siguro nila akong kausapin kasi stay-at-home mom, walang bago sa akin.
Lahat ng moms dumadaan sa phase na ganyan, but you need to find strength within you not to succumb to your sadness and one of the ways to do that is to feel grateful of the things you have everyday esp your child
12:59am OMG. I sincerely hope you're okay. That you will be okay. It seems like the people around you doesn't even care about you. I'm sorry. Hindi maganda sabihin ng asawa mo na "drama" yung pag-iyak mo. I'm still pretty young and doesn't experience bearing and giving birth to a child but I think that it's not right to say coming from a person that should be the one who understand and show love. It's not good that you don't have a support system in this stage. Also please, you need rest. You have the right to cry if you want to. Cry! It's okay to feel tired and stress. It's okay to check your phone or to take a break. I sinecerly hope that you are healthy physically and emotionally because honestly reading your situation made me feel sad. Hope your husband help you out and support you. You should confront him and tell him don't be such an asshole. Hope you feel better! Your emotions are valid! Take care! -D
Hi 12:58. What you’re going through is what’s real in this world. Hope you find someone to talk to, sana health professional to see if it’s post-partum depression. Not everyone can be as springy and positive like Solenn and what she’s doing takes time and money and willpower. Some people, if not a majority of those who juggle so many things while taking care of a baby don’t have all the things I mentioned. Find time for yourself sometimes, if you can.
Lika nga dito 12:58.. hug kita.. i feel you kc napagdaanan ko rin yan, altho wla c Hubby s tabi ko kc ofw sya. Wla rin akong yaya. Kya alam na alam ko yung pagod mo. May mga panahon n natutulala ako at naiyak dahil sa hirap, sa pagod.. e bkit ba? Kung s ganong paraan ko npapagaan ang nararamdaman ko.. Take some time off.. relax a little.. deadmahin mo sila kung di naman nkakatulong sa’yo. Kaya mo yan at malalagpasan mo rin yan..
Sis 12:58, please don’t forget to love yourself. Being a stay-at-home mom is more difficult than having an 8 to 5 job. Be proud dahil napapalaki mo nang maayos ang baby mo. And if pumayat man ang bata, it’s not because nagkukulang ka, it’s just really part of growing up kasi nagiging mas active na sila.
Give yourself some me time once in a while, that will surely help. I hope you’d feel better.
Salamat at kahit dito ang dami kong nakakausap. Hindi man tayo magkikita o magkakakilala ng personal kahit in the future, gusto ko lang malaman niyo na ang nga sinabi nyo ay nakatulong, nakagaan ng pakiramdam, nakapangiti sa akin kahit papaano. Naluha man ako, masarap lang sa pakiramdam na may nakakaunawa pala sa akin.
Wala naman akong regrets sa nagbuntis ako at nag-aalaga ng baby sa ngayon, nalulungkot at napapagod lang talaga ako.
Sana gumaan gaan na rin ang pag-aalaga kapag nag 6 months na si baby o kaya mag 1 year old.
12:58 oh anon. i was going through a lot din after i gave birth—- overbearing inlaws, husband na di ka naiintindihan and pina prio pa ang familly niya kesa samin and poor self-esteem. Ikaw lang talaga makakatulong sa sarili mo. it’s ok to prioritise your new fam but dont forget to take care of yourself. You have to push yourself to find ways on how you can reclaimyour self identity. i lost a number of ppl in the process but im way happier now.
1258 everything will be ok. Sa una mahirap talaga lalo nat ganyan pang mga tao nakapaligid sayo. Kung gusto mo umiyak, umiyak ka. Sigawan mo rin yang ungrateful husband mo once in a while para matauhan. Labas mo sa knya lahat ng sama mg loob mo para maintindihan ka nya. Kung may parents ka o kapatid nasa malapit lang, punta ka sa kanila minsan to unwind at para na rin may makatulong ka. Need mo rin minsan makapagpahinga maski 2hrs lang sa isang linggo kung gipit talaga. Laking tulong na nyan. Take care of yourself kasi kawawa din baby mo. At yes ang pagpayat ng baby, rashes at minsan wlang gana kumain part yan kapag lumalaki na ang baby mo. Kung nag aalala ka talaga, tanong mo lang sa doktor mo o kaya sa mama mo. Mapapanatag ka.
12:58 hugs for you!! Mahirap talaga maging ina!!! Ganyan din ako sa simula naiiyak at pagod na pagod. Nang maging mas mobile na si baby naging mas madali narin nang kaunti at mas masiyahin na sila kaya mas nakakawala ng pagod! Sa mga nega sa buhay mo wag mo silang pansinin di naman sila ang nagpapakahirap magalaga ng bata no!
Dear, it will be better. I’ve been there. Had PPD and same tayo ng sinabi ng husband ko. But I find happiness sa baby ko. Kaya kapit lang. Corny man, pero prayers work. I prayed a lot. Kung hnd ka man religious, you need someone, something to hold on to para makapitan ng sanity mo. Yan ginawa ko. And ngayon na mag-3 na baby ko, ok na. Magiging ok din yan, dear. I swear. Take your time. Take a deep breath and find comforting words sa kahit anong medium na available. Ako, nanonood ng vlogs from people who are having same condition/status like mine (say, moms na kakapanganak lang) para ma-uplift ako and maremind ako na im not alone sa ganitong sitwasyon. Hugging you from Saudi.
Dont worry girl. Malalampasan mo din yan phase na yan..be strong lang at labanan ang mga ano mang naiisip na hindi maganda. I went through that phase in motherhood also.
12:58 - Its okey not to be okey. Try mo matulog while baby is sleeping para makapahinga at makabawi ka. minsan okey lang na umiyak nakakagaan sa pakiramdam. Try mo rin kausapin ang asawa mo at sabihin mo kung ano yung nararamdaman mo, kung sasabihan ka nya ng madrama tell him try mong manganak at try mong mag alaga haha (joke).
12:58, I know how you feel.. I went through/am still going through the same thing. Madali mag judge ang ibang tao but they have no idea how tired we are. Stay strong! Kaya tayo binibigyan ng challenge na ganito dahil kaya natin. Kebs nalang sa mga haters. Those who mind don't matter and those who matter shouldn't mind. Enjoy the company of your babies while they are still young.
12:58 Di ka nag-iisa!!! Walang nakakaintindi sa pagod natin kindi tayo lang. Minsa nga sinasadya komg tagalan magbanyo para lang makapahinga ng konti. Lagi inuunderestimate kasi yung work na kailangan sa pagalaga ng bata at pag-maintain ng bahay. Ang nakakatawa pa ay yung nagsasabi na "drama" or OA eh yung mga hindi naman tumutulong at nakaupo lang most of the time.
Yung ibang magulang (especially fathers) feeling nila option ang pagtulong sa pagalaga ng bata na tipong pag pagod or antok sila eh pwede silang magpahinga o matulog. Ang nanay, hindi tumitigil sa pagiging nanay kesehodang pagod o antok. Iba yung level ng commitment ng nanay. Saludo ako sa mga nanay na tulad mo 12:58.
Maraming maraming salamat. Babalik balikan ko mga posts dito kasi di ko pwede i-save baka may ibang makabasa na ako pala si 12:58. Nag uumapaw ang puso ko. Mapangiti ko sana kayo na malaman niyo na may isang tao kayong na-save.
Totoo yan @200 . Kahit si Jade Lopez from starstruck said umiyak sya nyang makita nya yung post ni Solenn na super payat sya kahit buntis!! It’s not helping most people.
At sa totoong buhay, dedma lang mga nanay. Kung papayat sa kakaalaga sa anak/paglalaba/pagtatrabaho okay na okay. Kung hindi, okay lang din. Ako hindi ko na namalayan na 9 years na tong bilbil ko after manganak. Hehe
I love your mindset sis, kaso hindi lahat pareho magisip. Sa akin di ko maiwasan ikumpara sarili ko sa kanya. 5yo na baby ko, I never lost the baby weight.
E papano panay tangkilik niyo sa kanya kaya siya may time dahil malaki pera niya para magkaron ng ease sa mga chores me nababayaran siya para gumawa nun. Tapos post niya yan para iinspire kayo na nagpayaman sa kanya na tingnan niyo siya. Kung kaya niya kaya niyo din. Hahahahaha!
Road to me? So nabuntis lang at tumaba ng konti feeling nya ibang tao na sya, kailangan workout agad para mabalik ang alindog. Wala na bang mga mothers na ineembrace yon post pregnancy body nila? Kailangan ba talaga to get back to your sexy self agad agad?
While I don't agree that Solenn has to post everything on social media, you are also wrong in questioning her discipline to work on her self improvement.
At isa pa, artista sya so dapat lang bumalik sya sa figure nya. It's also not healthy to let yourself loose dahil lang kakapanganak lang. Hindi lang dahil sa image pero para din sa future mo. So porket nabuntis na at may anak na, wala nang karapatan to take care of yourself?
Wala naman problema, tama naman na alagaan ng mga mothers ang sarili nila- mentally, physically and emotionally. Pero being ang celebrity ang lakas kasi ng influence nila sa ibang tao naiisip tuloy nating na ito na yon normal, na kailangan magshed ka na agad ng weight after birth. Sa lahat ng celebrity mom kay jennica garcia ako natutuwa kasi napakasimple lang, hindi nagworry sa itchura nya or shape ng body nya. Hindi naman kasi sya matabain, kahit si solen di naman nagblow up ng grabe.
I guess meron naman like Mariel Padilla who gained weight pero kebs lang sa sinasabi ng iba na ang laki na nya sabi nya magpapabreastfeed muna sya before sya magpapayat I guess Marian din ganun di din naman sya atat na magpapayat so meron din naman na talagang pnprioritize muna si baby before ung body image nila..š
IDK what to feel about this,like I support her and pity her at the same time,I support her coz wala namang masama mag exercise,isa pa, nakasanayan na nya yan, and moms of course should be fit and healthy. I pity her coz the psychological effect on her being a first time mom and celebrity at the same time. It's sad sa industry nila na ganun dapat yung thinking. Sana chill lang while in the moment enjoy and absorb everything. Di naman sya tumaba coz kumaen sya nang marami at nagpabaya,tumaba sya coz normal yan pag naging ina ka which is for me, is another milestone for being a woman
Pina-follow niyo tapos ma-stress kayo. Haha. Ako never nag-follow ng celebs at influencers. Wala namang sense mga post nila. Mga pina-follow ko sa IG are interiors, landscape photos.
Grabe ang ganitong mga ina. Hahaha, first time mom pa nman pero pagpapayat na ang inaatupag. Jusko ingat Solenn akin ngang cs, around 3mos na dati dumugo pa.
God forbid she gains a little weight after having a baby. So vain and shallow. Parang end of the world pag hindi bumalik sa dating figure. Ganyan pag sanay ng praises gusto may validation palagi. Its as if their sense of purpose is to be physically perfect and to be inc onpetution with one another
So to avoid putting pressure onto myself as a 2nd time mom, I’m not following her and the likes, celebrities who says/ believe that “women” should/will feel good pag sexy or pag nakabalik alindog kagad after pregnancy. Don’t hate, it’s just my personal belief.
Ako nga hndi buntis, pero aminado ako na mas sexy pa yung bagong panganak kesa sa akin na pre2ssure na ako, gusto k man isipin she promote good body image, pero parang iba na eh.
Annoying na tong balik alindog journey nya. Nakakadepress for other moms na hirap magpapayat. Why is she in such a hurry? CS din ako and I thought I’m healed but 15 months post partum nagbuhat lang ako ng center table dumugo yung tahi ko. Sobrang takot ko pati baby ko natakot ako buhatin ng ilang araw. Sobrang vain.
idk butttt damn she’s so tough on her self. She gave birth janury and she’s itching to workout asap. She used to be my fave it girl pero parang sobrang siyng comscious sa figure niya and everything. shallow naman.
Bat ganun, hindi ko masyado iniisip na magpapayat muna when I gave birth pero ung iba gusto agad pumayat. oh well siguro nga kanya kanyang trip yan. Hindi ko pa kasi priority ang pumayat
Turn off ako kay solenn to be honest when she said she wants privacy of her daughter..i respect that you want privacy of ur daughter pero to keep posting abt her din naman is very conflicting lol. And u really believe na kak diet at exercise bakit flat ang tummy nila after giving birth? Halerr may RF sa derma. Hehe. Don't fool us. Once nanganak, may part tlg ng skin na mag sag.
I wonder,hindi nya ba nlalabas baby nila? as in nasa bahay lng? except for check ups sgro? kase they choose to not show photos of their baby,so di rin nla nllabas in public para wala mgtake ng photo?
Na turn off naman ako bigla. Sayang, I really like her pa naman. I met her once and grabe she’s really nice. Mas lalo umangat ung ganda and kindness niya kasi she was with her fellow it girls pero siya talaga mas accommodating and very down to earth talaga. Baka ganyan post niya because nasanay lang siya sa work niya na kung saan pinaka importante is your physical attribute. I’m pretty sure naman she is still a great mom despite this post hehe wag tayo judgemental
Luh.. MILF talaga, Solenn?
ReplyDeleteSelf proclaimed na this. SMH
DeleteLOL. Goal niya talaga yan.
DeleteGanda ng cr nila.nababasa kaya ang sahig kapag ganyan kaayos ang mga gamit sa cr?
Delete2:03 STAGED for IG post... meron yang for IG posting pix vs reality and ofcourse she have housekeeper/s around
Delete2:03 usually ang french hiwalay ang toilet sa bathroom. So i guess hindi
DeleteBathroom floors are not actually meant to be wet. Shower is supposed to be a closed area. Kaya may rugs or mats.
DeleteHindi lang naman French. Sa pilipinas lang naman nababasa ang sahig dahil magkasama ang toilet sa shower area. Mostly, magkahiwalay ang tub/shower sa toilet. May vanity pa. Hindi naman kelangan ng housekeeper Kung hindi ka burara.
DeleteFrom-nurse sa Amerika :)
2:03 ung tub may shower curtain yan or hiwalay ung shower area nya..kaya dry ung toilet
DeleteThank you 2:59
DeletePag yumamam ako ganyan papagawa ko hhe kaso pinoy pa rin gawain ko di ata ako sanay na tissue lang pang wipe ko hehe
I think she’s obsessed about her looks.
DeleteAnon 237: may ika o-obsess naman so go lang. Ikaw ba?
DeleteCr po namin sa bahay di pwd basain ang floor..sobra linis po nasa pagpapalaki lang kc yan at cmpre sa klase ng cr na meron kayo..hiwalay kc dapat ang shower room para di nababasa ang toilet
DeleteAng vain lang
ReplyDeleteTrue! Ako din I lost a lot of weight a month after pregnancy. I am even lighter than my pre-pregnancy weight pero I never posted something like this on socmed. Ang conceited niya.
DeleteSo? It's her socmed. Lahat naman ng artista Vain.
DeleteIt's her prerogative to lose the baby weight and get back to looking like she did before (also because it's her job). She's not even commenting on other's preferences to enjoy their post-baby weight gain and be more relaxed about it, but somehow these comments make it seem like you're trying to lose but is unsuccessful and are projecting your unhappiness to someone else. Lemme tell you: you can do it, moms should support each other, take it easy on yourself because life is a journey. I lost my baby weight two years after giving birth. Do I resent Solenn or dismiss her as being vain because she did it only a few months after? No. Good for her. And good for me pa din kahit papaano I also did it kahit it took longer. And also good for anyone who do not feel like losing weight because why not? That's fine too.
Delete12:50 wala naman kasing nagaabang ng post mo baks
Delete1:35 opinyon ng tao wala ka magagawa kung ayaw namin
Delete749 dami hate baks. Wag mo iclick ang title or headline if hate rin lang ang meron ka. :)
DeleteMabilis sya pumayat dahil di naman talaga sya tabain in the first place. Namaaan
ReplyDeleteTingin ko it is because she is very strict with her diet. Low carb and high fiber yun food niya
Deleteactually, she was fat in her teenage years.
DeleteMay payat in the first place na hindi na bumalik sa dating payat after giving birth. So your statement is not valid.
DeleteIt’s nice that she has the luxury of shedding the baby weight. Yung ibang nanay di na magkandaugaga sa mga daily duties nila
ReplyDeleteButi pa siya. Ako, I feel down. Nag gain na ako ng weight tapos wala pang work sa ngayon kasi kailangan mag-alaga. Mag work man ako ng part-time, ako pa rin ang puyat at mag-aalaga, ang pinupuna ng mga tao pag pumayat si baby, ang nakukwestyon pag nagpapahinga o kaya tinitignan lang ang phone. Kapag umiiyak ako sa pagod at antok, nasasabihan pa ako ng husband ko na bakit kailangan umiyak drama daw.
DeleteSorry, walang makausap. Kahit sa chat wala na mga friends ko. Ayaw siguro nila akong kausapin kasi stay-at-home mom, walang bago sa akin.
Lahat ng moms dumadaan sa phase na ganyan, but you need to find strength within you not to succumb to your sadness and one of the ways to do that is to feel grateful of the things you have everyday esp your child
Delete12:59am OMG. I sincerely hope you're okay. That you will be okay. It seems like the people around you doesn't even care about you. I'm sorry. Hindi maganda sabihin ng asawa mo na "drama" yung pag-iyak mo. I'm still pretty young and doesn't experience bearing and giving birth to a child but I think that it's not right to say coming from a person that should be the one who understand and show love. It's not good that you don't have a support system in this stage. Also please, you need rest. You have the right to cry if you want to. Cry! It's okay to feel tired and stress. It's okay to check your phone or to take a break. I sinecerly hope that you are healthy physically and emotionally because honestly reading your situation made me feel sad. Hope your husband help you out and support you. You should confront him and tell him don't be such an asshole. Hope you feel better! Your emotions are valid! Take care! -D
DeleteAww. Anon 12:58, wag ka mag-alala. Kahit hindi tayo magkakilala, I support you and I'm with you. Virtual hug, baks!
DeleteHi 12:58. What you’re going through is what’s real in this world. Hope you find someone to talk to, sana health professional to see if it’s post-partum depression. Not everyone can be as springy and positive like Solenn and what she’s doing takes time and money and willpower. Some people, if not a majority of those who juggle so many things while taking care of a baby don’t have all the things I mentioned. Find time for yourself sometimes, if you can.
Deletei feel you 12:58...
DeleteLika nga dito 12:58.. hug kita.. i feel you kc napagdaanan ko rin yan, altho wla c Hubby s tabi ko kc ofw sya. Wla rin akong yaya. Kya alam na alam ko yung pagod mo. May mga panahon n natutulala ako at naiyak dahil sa hirap, sa pagod.. e bkit ba? Kung s ganong paraan ko npapagaan ang nararamdaman ko.. Take some time off.. relax a little.. deadmahin mo sila kung di naman nkakatulong sa’yo. Kaya mo yan at malalagpasan mo rin yan..
DeleteSis 12:58, please don’t forget to love yourself. Being a stay-at-home mom is more difficult than having an 8 to 5 job. Be proud dahil napapalaki mo nang maayos ang baby mo. And if pumayat man ang bata, it’s not because nagkukulang ka, it’s just really part of growing up kasi nagiging mas active na sila.
DeleteGive yourself some me time once in a while, that will surely help. I hope you’d feel better.
Hugs!
Salamat at kahit dito ang dami kong nakakausap. Hindi man tayo magkikita o magkakakilala ng personal kahit in the future, gusto ko lang malaman niyo na ang nga sinabi nyo ay nakatulong, nakagaan ng pakiramdam, nakapangiti sa akin kahit papaano. Naluha man ako, masarap lang sa pakiramdam na may nakakaunawa pala sa akin.
DeleteWala naman akong regrets sa nagbuntis ako at nag-aalaga ng baby sa ngayon, nalulungkot at napapagod lang talaga ako.
Sana gumaan gaan na rin ang pag-aalaga kapag nag 6 months na si baby o kaya mag 1 year old.
12:58 oh anon. i was going through a lot din after i gave birth—- overbearing inlaws, husband na di ka naiintindihan and pina prio pa ang familly niya kesa samin and poor self-esteem. Ikaw lang talaga makakatulong sa sarili mo. it’s ok to prioritise your new fam but dont forget to take care of yourself. You have to push yourself to find ways on how you can reclaimyour self identity. i lost a number of ppl in the process but im way happier now.
Delete1258 everything will be ok. Sa una mahirap talaga lalo nat ganyan pang mga tao nakapaligid sayo. Kung gusto mo umiyak, umiyak ka. Sigawan mo rin yang ungrateful husband mo once in a while para matauhan. Labas mo sa knya lahat ng sama mg loob mo para maintindihan ka nya. Kung may parents ka o kapatid nasa malapit lang, punta ka sa kanila minsan to unwind at para na rin may makatulong ka. Need mo rin minsan makapagpahinga maski 2hrs lang sa isang linggo kung gipit talaga. Laking tulong na nyan. Take care of yourself kasi kawawa din baby mo. At yes ang pagpayat ng baby, rashes at minsan wlang gana kumain part yan kapag lumalaki na ang baby mo. Kung nag aalala ka talaga, tanong mo lang sa doktor mo o kaya sa mama mo. Mapapanatag ka.
Delete12:58 hugs for you!! Mahirap talaga maging ina!!! Ganyan din ako sa simula naiiyak at pagod na pagod. Nang maging mas mobile na si baby naging mas madali narin nang kaunti at mas masiyahin na sila kaya mas nakakawala ng pagod! Sa mga nega sa buhay mo wag mo silang pansinin di naman sila ang nagpapakahirap magalaga ng bata no!
Delete1258 go out with your baby. Take a walk or go to the mall. Nakakawla yan ng stress at ppd.
Delete12:58 baks kaya mo yan. Push mo lang sarili mo. And bad days will eventually end. Trust me! And trust din sa Lord. Keri mo yan baks.
DeletePlease call our mental health hotline 0917-899-USAP
DeleteDear, it will be better. I’ve been there. Had PPD and same tayo ng sinabi ng husband ko. But I find happiness sa baby ko. Kaya kapit lang. Corny man, pero prayers work. I prayed a lot. Kung hnd ka man religious, you need someone, something to hold on to para makapitan ng sanity mo. Yan ginawa ko. And ngayon na mag-3 na baby ko, ok na. Magiging ok din yan, dear. I swear. Take your time. Take a deep breath and find comforting words sa kahit anong medium na available.
DeleteAko, nanonood ng vlogs from people who are having same condition/status like mine (say, moms na kakapanganak lang) para ma-uplift ako and maremind ako na im not alone sa ganitong sitwasyon.
Hugging you from Saudi.
Dont worry girl. Malalampasan mo din yan phase na yan..be strong lang at labanan ang mga ano mang naiisip na hindi maganda. I went through that phase in motherhood also.
Delete12:58 - Its okey not to be okey. Try mo matulog while baby is sleeping para makapahinga at makabawi ka. minsan okey lang na umiyak nakakagaan sa pakiramdam. Try mo rin kausapin ang asawa mo at sabihin mo kung ano yung nararamdaman mo, kung sasabihan ka nya ng madrama tell him try mong manganak at try mong mag alaga haha (joke).
Delete12:58, I know how you feel.. I went through/am still going through the same thing. Madali mag judge ang ibang tao but they have no idea how tired we are. Stay strong! Kaya tayo binibigyan ng challenge na ganito dahil kaya natin. Kebs nalang sa mga haters. Those who mind don't matter and those who matter shouldn't mind. Enjoy the company of your babies while they are still young.
Delete12:58 Di ka nag-iisa!!! Walang nakakaintindi sa pagod natin kindi tayo lang. Minsa nga sinasadya komg tagalan magbanyo para lang makapahinga ng konti. Lagi inuunderestimate kasi yung work na kailangan sa pagalaga ng bata at pag-maintain ng bahay. Ang nakakatawa pa ay yung nagsasabi na "drama" or OA eh yung mga hindi naman tumutulong at nakaupo lang most of the time.
DeleteYung ibang magulang (especially fathers) feeling nila option ang pagtulong sa pagalaga ng bata na tipong pag pagod or antok sila eh pwede silang magpahinga o matulog. Ang nanay, hindi tumitigil sa pagiging nanay kesehodang pagod o antok. Iba yung level ng commitment ng nanay. Saludo ako sa mga nanay na tulad mo 12:58.
DeleteMaraming maraming salamat. Babalik balikan ko mga posts dito kasi di ko pwede i-save baka may ibang makabasa na ako pala si 12:58. Nag uumapaw ang puso ko. Mapangiti ko sana kayo na malaman niyo na may isang tao kayong na-save.
DeleteThere shouldn't be any pressure ... if she was really taking it slowly then let it happen naturally, don't put a date on it
ReplyDeletepasintabi daw po sa mga nanay na nahihirapan magpapayat.
ReplyDeleteAkala ko nga iba si Solenn sa mga artista. Unfollow ko na siya kasi nakaka depress lalo.
DeleteTotoo yan @200 . Kahit si Jade Lopez from starstruck said umiyak sya nyang makita nya yung post ni Solenn na super payat sya kahit buntis!! It’s not helping most people.
DeleteTO BE AN INSPIRATION TO OTHER MOTHERS WHO GAVE BIRTH ANG PURPOSE NIYA KAYA NIYA GINAGAWA YAN. TYPICAL ARTISTA MINDSET!
Deletenaku kabagin ka nyn mamshie. pagikaw nabinat ewan ko lang
ReplyDeleteAt sa totoong buhay, dedma lang mga nanay. Kung papayat sa kakaalaga sa anak/paglalaba/pagtatrabaho okay na okay. Kung hindi, okay lang din. Ako hindi ko na namalayan na 9 years na tong bilbil ko after manganak. Hehe
ReplyDeleteI love your mindset sis, kaso hindi lahat pareho magisip. Sa akin di ko maiwasan ikumpara sarili ko sa kanya. 5yo na baby ko, I never lost the baby weight.
DeleteButi pa sya may oras magexercise. Ako 3 yrs old na anak ko minsan di ko pa magawang maligo maghapon. Makakaligo lang ako kapag tulog na sya.
ReplyDeleteE papano panay tangkilik niyo sa kanya kaya siya may time dahil malaki pera niya para magkaron ng ease sa mga chores me nababayaran siya para gumawa nun. Tapos post niya yan para iinspire kayo na nagpayaman sa kanya na tingnan niyo siya. Kung kaya niya kaya niyo din. Hahahahaha!
DeleteSo much for keeping your privacy ha Solenn?
ReplyDeleteRoad to me? So nabuntis lang at tumaba ng konti feeling nya ibang tao na sya, kailangan workout agad para mabalik ang alindog. Wala na bang mga mothers na ineembrace yon post pregnancy body nila? Kailangan ba talaga to get back to your sexy self agad agad?
ReplyDeleteWhile I don't agree that Solenn has to post everything on social media, you are also wrong in questioning her discipline to work on her self improvement.
DeleteAt isa pa, artista sya so dapat lang bumalik sya sa figure nya. It's also not healthy to let yourself loose dahil lang kakapanganak lang. Hindi lang dahil sa image pero para din sa future mo. So porket nabuntis na at may anak na, wala nang karapatan to take care of yourself?
Artista kasi, part ng trabaho nila maging presentable tapos yung image nya pa e pasexy. Katawan nya, bahala sya.
DeleteWala naman problema, tama naman na alagaan ng mga mothers ang sarili nila- mentally, physically and emotionally. Pero being ang celebrity ang lakas kasi ng influence nila sa ibang tao naiisip tuloy nating na ito na yon normal, na kailangan magshed ka na agad ng weight after birth. Sa lahat ng celebrity mom kay jennica garcia ako natutuwa kasi napakasimple lang, hindi nagworry sa itchura nya or shape ng body nya. Hindi naman kasi sya matabain, kahit si solen di naman nagblow up ng grabe.
DeleteI guess meron naman like Mariel Padilla who gained weight pero kebs lang sa sinasabi ng iba na ang laki na nya sabi nya magpapabreastfeed muna sya before sya magpapayat I guess Marian din ganun di din naman sya atat na magpapayat so meron din naman na talagang pnprioritize muna si baby before ung body image nila..š
DeleteOMG MILF talaga?? Have some decency with choice of words when posting on socmed.
ReplyDeleteLahat ng tao sa Socmed dapat Legal Age. So bakit mag-filter ng words? As long as it's not derogatory, racist or politically incorrect. Okay lang yan.
DeleteSo okay sa yo ang i-normalize ang indecent words 1:34?
DeleteIDK what to feel about this,like I support her and pity her at the same time,I support her coz wala namang masama mag exercise,isa pa, nakasanayan na nya yan, and moms of course should be fit and healthy.
ReplyDeleteI pity her coz the psychological effect on her being a first time mom and celebrity at the same time. It's sad sa industry nila na ganun dapat yung thinking.
Sana chill lang while in the moment enjoy and absorb everything.
Di naman sya tumaba coz kumaen sya nang marami at nagpabaya,tumaba sya coz normal yan pag naging ina ka which is for me, is another milestone for being a woman
i guess dahil celebrity siya sobra ang pressure to be beautiful and sexy....
DeleteI am bedrest. Bow.
ReplyDeleteVain much š
ReplyDeleteLOLs. These celebs again, free panty pics and all making all sorts of mental distress to women and girls.
ReplyDeletePina-follow niyo tapos ma-stress kayo. Haha. Ako never nag-follow ng celebs at influencers. Wala namang sense mga post nila. Mga pina-follow ko sa IG are interiors, landscape photos.
DeleteSame. Di rin ako nagfofollow ng artista/influencers. Wala naman kasing sense. Puro mga online shops fina-follow ko haha ska mga pegs for my hobby
DeleteLuv ya 1:52! Me substance ang utak mo!
DeleteFinofollow ko lang mga celebrities to see yung mga places na napuntahan na nila and to get ideas for OOTDs. Di dahil idols ko sila lols
Delete1:20 u get OOTD ideas from them pero hindi mo idol? Okay, sabi mo eh lol
DeleteAnd cats! Let's follow cat photos sa ig. Hihi
DeleteSo vain and so shallow.
ReplyDeleteTutoo. Turn off na
DeleteNarcissist
ReplyDeleteGrabe ang ganitong mga ina. Hahaha, first time mom pa nman pero pagpapayat na ang inaatupag. Jusko ingat Solenn akin ngang cs, around 3mos na dati dumugo pa.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid she gains a little weight after having a baby. So vain and shallow. Parang end of the world pag hindi bumalik sa dating figure. Ganyan pag sanay ng praises gusto may validation palagi. Its as if their sense of purpose is to be physically perfect and to be inc onpetution with one another
ReplyDeleteSo to avoid putting pressure onto myself as a 2nd time mom, I’m not following her and the likes, celebrities who says/ believe that “women” should/will feel good pag sexy or pag nakabalik alindog kagad after pregnancy. Don’t hate, it’s just my personal belief.
ReplyDeleteAko nga hndi buntis, pero aminado ako na mas sexy pa yung bagong panganak kesa sa akin na pre2ssure na ako, gusto k man isipin she promote good body image, pero parang iba na eh.
DeleteAnnoying na tong balik alindog journey nya. Nakakadepress for other moms na hirap magpapayat. Why is she in such a hurry? CS din ako and I thought I’m healed but 15 months post partum nagbuhat lang ako ng center table dumugo yung tahi ko. Sobrang takot ko pati baby ko natakot ako buhatin ng ilang araw. Sobrang vain.
ReplyDeleteOmg! Ganun ba? Katakot naman. Delikado pla CS momshie!!!
DeleteThis is so true. Kaya naging hands on lang ako sa baby ko after 1 month kasi inoobserbahan tahi ko. Ingat na ingat.... pero i guess iba iba talaga
Deleteidk butttt damn she’s so tough on her self. She gave birth janury and she’s itching to workout asap. She used to be my fave it girl pero parang sobrang siyng comscious sa figure niya and everything. shallow naman.
ReplyDeleteBat ganun, hindi ko masyado iniisip na magpapayat muna when I gave birth pero ung iba gusto agad pumayat. oh well siguro nga kanya kanyang trip yan. Hindi ko pa kasi priority ang pumayat
ReplyDeleteTurn off ako kay solenn to be honest when she said she wants privacy of her daughter..i respect that you want privacy of ur daughter pero to keep posting abt her din naman is very conflicting lol. And u really believe na kak diet at exercise bakit flat ang tummy nila after giving birth? Halerr may RF sa derma. Hehe. Don't fool us. Once nanganak, may part tlg ng skin na mag sag.
ReplyDeleteShe's so full of herself.
ReplyDeleteMay nagtatanong ba ilang kgs na nalose? I bet kung walang na lose di magpopost. Some things are better kept private.
ReplyDeleteI wonder,hindi nya ba nlalabas baby nila? as in nasa bahay lng? except for check ups sgro? kase they choose to not show photos of their baby,so di rin nla nllabas in public para wala mgtake ng photo?
ReplyDeletemas bagay niya yung chubby eh.. lalo siya gumanda dun
ReplyDeleteNa turn off naman ako bigla. Sayang, I really like her pa naman. I met her once and grabe she’s really nice. Mas lalo umangat ung ganda and kindness niya kasi she was with her fellow it girls pero siya talaga mas accommodating and very down to earth talaga. Baka ganyan post niya because nasanay lang siya sa work niya na kung saan pinaka importante is your physical attribute. I’m pretty sure naman she is still a great mom despite this post hehe wag tayo judgemental
ReplyDeleteakala ko dati, puro bakla ang nagbabasa ng fp. dito ko napatunayan karamihan mga babae pala!!! hahahaha
ReplyDeleteMeh, she is empty. Puro posing posing lang ang alam niyan.
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