Getting married is not just about having babies. I’m 2:36 and we didn’t get married because we wanted to have babies; it’s not our priority. We just wanted to make our relationship be put in legalities in case something happens to one of us. And with what’s going on in the world right now, we’d rather not build a family. I’m not being selfish; I just have a different perspective when it comes to marriage.
Girl, lighten up.Maski pa isipin mo ng isipin yan, marriage is still what you make of it.The promise and your daily loving behavior will make the marriage.Do not overthink the future ma kesyo lifetime commitment- it is not guaranteed and staying together to avoid chismis is not how you gauge a successful marriage.Just as there are billions of people on this planet, there are a billion ways for people to connect and create that happy married life for themselves.Chill lang.You live, you learn! Enjoy lang dahil we are not in control..relax..she will find the right man..
So may word limit pala sa gusto mong sabihin? Comment section to eh sa gusto kong mag essay para makakita ng ibang perspective lang at hindi knee jerk reaction agad..pero sabagay may point ka..chill nga!
Oh my gosh parehas tayo! Japan dapat kami with family kaso nakapag rebook na dahil sa quarantine. Been to New Zealand, it's not my top 5 pero pwede na. A lot of people love it there. It's full of ano, nature. š
Parang sinasabi nya kaya hindi pa sya kasal ngayon kasi hindi pa nya kino-consider dati. Ate KC, babae ang nililigawan at dapat hinahabol. Lalaki ang nagyayaya ng kasal. Check mo muna kung life partner o wife-material ka. Dami mo nang naging boylet, wala namang tumagal.
Um that idea is so unfair to both men and women. Just because she’s unmarried doesn’t mean it wasn’t her choice. And I don’t get the reason why men should ‘maghabol’ ng babae. Why? Kasalanan ba nila magkagusto? Ang relationship hindi dinadaan sa pahirapan para maging worthwhile; mutual respect, trust and compassion make it worthwhile. Ininsulto mo naman mga babae na parang mga flowers na pipitasin lang, we have the right to choose, you know.
1:25 If you would read between the lines, KC said it herself. She's now considering the choice to get married, dati kasi hindi. Yes, guys have the benefit of the first move and are more inclined to rejections. But women also get rejected, so dapat humble tayong lahat.
KC made it look like sya ang batas on her post. Hindi ganun, kasi relationships should be two-way.
bakit nemen hindi na lang si Apl he is free nemen
ReplyDeleteOo nge nemen.
Deletewhat's stopping you ghorl? Napagiwanan ka na.
ReplyDeleteSince when did marriage become a race? I was not informed. I got married when I was in my mid-40's and never felt the need before then.
Deletesi 1:32 ung mga taklesang tita, kapitbahay, o kakilala na walang gustong makakita
Deleteunahan ba ‘to?
DeleteI too married late, & God gave me a pair of children. At least marami kaming naipon ni hubby sa kahihintay na magpakasal.
DeleteTama! Masyado nyo minamadali ang marriage. It’s about finding the right one.
Delete1:32 ung mga gnyang comment ang sobrang insensitive! ano to marathon, unahan sa finish line! I just wish you are happily married!
Delete2.36 am mid 40s? Thank you te ah. Di na ko napepressure hehe. 30s pa lang ako. Madami pa pala akong time haha
Deletemid 30's na sya kaya dapat lang,mahihirapan na syang manganak
Delete132 eto naman, atat. may pa-contest ba sa barangay? agree ako sa 'yo 236.
DeleteMahirap magka-baby in your 40's, maraming risks.
DeleteGetting married is not just about having babies. I’m 2:36 and we didn’t get married because we wanted to have babies; it’s not our priority. We just wanted to make our relationship be put in legalities in case something happens to one of us. And with what’s going on in the world right now, we’d rather not build a family. I’m not being selfish; I just have a different perspective when it comes to marriage.
Deleteyung biological clock kasi ng babae siguro ang meant niya, pangit lang ng term na ginamit.
DeleteI agree with u. That's true!
DeleteAbout time!
ReplyDeleteAsawa agad Maria Kristina Cassandra? Jowa muna. Chour!
ReplyDeleteung iba nga anak muna kahit walang jowa eh
Delete3:13 so dapat gayahin kase ginagawa ng marami? Anong klaseng thinking yan jusko.
DeleteWith Apple ayeee
ReplyDeletePwede naman umuwi ka muna sa family mo KC. may pamilya ka pa din naman eh.
ReplyDeleteSelf quarantine nga eh
DeleteIndependence is the privilege of the strong.
Delete2:20 eh di magtiis siya. Dami niya kuda eh. Parang ikaw. Puro kuda!
DeleteShe’s been living all by herself matagal na, 1:57.
DeleteTAMA!!!
DeleteHaha cute.. Mahirap talaga mag isa lol
ReplyDeleteThen you must choose wisely KC. Hindi porket gusto mo magpakasal, patol lang ng patol. Galingan mo ghourl! Laban lang!
ReplyDeleteNgayon pa nga lang siya magseseryoso na mag-isip magpakasal.
DeleteIbig sabihin, in the past, ayaw niya talaga. Baka nga isa iyon sa mga dahilan ng naging break-ups niya sa mga exes niya.
It's a lifetime commitment, not just because you felt the urgency to do so and out of convenience, you will.
ReplyDeleteJusko naman. Nasabi mo agad na out of convenience and urgency. I’m sure she knows that life of commitment na yan.
DeleteYep truth!!!
DeleteGirl, lighten up.Maski pa isipin mo ng isipin yan, marriage is still what you make of it.The promise and your daily loving behavior will make the marriage.Do not overthink the future ma kesyo lifetime commitment- it is not guaranteed and staying together to avoid chismis is not how you gauge a successful marriage.Just as there are billions of people on this planet, there are a billion ways for people to connect and create that happy married life for themselves.Chill lang.You live, you learn! Enjoy lang dahil we are not in control..relax..she will find the right man..
Delete12:17 pinapag chill mo sila e ikaw madami sinabi. Haha.
DeleteSo may word limit pala sa gusto mong sabihin? Comment section to eh sa gusto kong mag essay para makakita ng ibang perspective lang at hindi knee jerk reaction agad..pero sabagay may point ka..chill nga!
DeleteTrue!
DeleteSana dumating na yung Mr. Right nya. I'm so excited for her!
ReplyDeleteDon't get married just because you're afraid to be alone.
ReplyDeleteI agree with this. Her real family is still there.
DeleteMinsan may asawa ka nga di ka naman aalagaan kung magkasakit ka.
ReplyDeleteso true!
Deletedepende sa tao yan. just like in everything.
May asawa nga, puro kunsumisyon naman ang dala.
DeleteHahaha! Ang dami nyan sobra...
DeleteIn God’s perfect time..
ReplyDeletepati ba naman yan ippost wala na talagang privacy mga tao ngayon lahat gusto maging relevant.
ReplyDeleteKanino Momsh?
ReplyDeleteShe's at age to get married anytime she wants. She's probably feeling empty while her friends have their own families. That is real, that is life!
ReplyDeleteGo girl! If the right guy has come, you will know!!
May boyfriend ba yan
ReplyDeletewala raw bf rn. kasasagot niya lang dun sa tanong sa IG story niya.
DeleteME im considering travelling to Japan and NZ after this pandemic.
ReplyDeleteThis too shall pass. Blessings to all
Me too ses..
DeleteOh my gosh parehas tayo! Japan dapat kami with family kaso nakapag rebook na dahil sa quarantine. Been to New Zealand, it's not my top 5 pero pwede na. A lot of people love it there. It's full of ano, nature. š
DeleteParang sinasabi nya kaya hindi pa sya kasal ngayon kasi hindi pa nya kino-consider dati.
ReplyDeleteAte KC, babae ang nililigawan at dapat hinahabol. Lalaki ang nagyayaya ng kasal. Check mo muna kung life partner o wife-material ka. Dami mo nang naging boylet, wala namang tumagal.
Um that idea is so unfair to both men and women. Just because she’s unmarried doesn’t mean it wasn’t her choice. And I don’t get the reason why men should ‘maghabol’ ng babae. Why? Kasalanan ba nila magkagusto? Ang relationship hindi dinadaan sa pahirapan para maging worthwhile; mutual respect, trust and compassion make it worthwhile. Ininsulto mo naman mga babae na parang mga flowers na pipitasin lang, we have the right to choose, you know.
DeleteHarsh but true
DeleteMukang high maintenance siya. Ayaw ng mga lalake yun!
Deletepano ba maging wife material? hindi porket marunong magluto e wife material na huh
Delete1:25 If you would read between the lines, KC said it herself. She's now considering the choice to get married, dati kasi hindi.
DeleteYes, guys have the benefit of the first move and are more inclined to rejections. But women also get rejected, so dapat humble tayong lahat.
KC made it look like sya ang batas on her post. Hindi ganun, kasi relationships should be two-way.
Ghorl read your history.. in the 1800’s si Queen Victoria ang nag propose sa asawa nya and they lived happily ever after..
Deleteparang ngpaparinig?
ReplyDeletesana i-consider ka rin as wife material, cyst!
ReplyDeleteHahaha. Sobrang sandali lang kase ng mga relasyon nya
DeleteIn God's time.
ReplyDeleteDi ba engaged na sya dati? Anyare?
ReplyDeleteHmmm, too needy siya. As in.
ReplyDelete